God, Marriage, and Family (Excerpt) - Monergism Books

22 GOD, MARRIAGE, AND FAMILYBible-believing Christians. The complexity of the issues involvedrequires a treatment that is perhaps more technical than that which isprovided in the other chapters in order to deal with the different viewsfairly. We hope that looking at Scripture’s teaching on both homosexualityand divorce will prove to reinforce our appreciation for and commitmentto building biblical marriages and families.Family requirements for leaders in the church is the final topicaddressed in the book. Chapter 12, “Faithful Husbands: Qualificationsfor Church Leadership,” includes discussions on the meaning of thephrase “husband of one wife” (or “faithful husband”) in Paul’s PastoralEpistles; church officers and the issue of divorce; requirements pertainingto church leaders’ children; and singleness and church leadership.Chapter 13, “Uniting All Things in Him: Concluding Synthesis,” providesa brief summary of our major findings. The final section, “ForFurther Study: Helpful Resources,” identifies materials for those whowant to engage in additional research and study.One word on the title, God, Marriage, and Family, may be appropriateas well. While the resemblance to the title of Geoffrey Bromiley’sbook, God and Marriage, is strictly coincidental, it is probably no coincidencethat Bromiley’s is one of the few more satisfying biblical andthoroughgoing theological treatments on the subject. First written in1980 (Eerdmans) and reprinted in 2003 (Wipf & Stock), the bookretains its usefulness as a survey of the major biblical passages on marriageand their theological ramifications. While Bromiley erects a certaindichotomy between Scripture on the one hand and God on the other(opting for the latter), we would affirm that no such dichotomy exists.Precisely by studying Scripture we can know God’s will for marriage andthe family and rebuild the biblical foundation. Nevertheless, we are honoredto build on Bromiley’s work in many ways and hope to expand itsscope by a more detailed engagement of the relevant biblical texts anda more thorough exploration of related issues. We are well aware thatevery chapter of the present volume, in turn, could easily be expandedinto a still fuller treatment if not an entire monograph.We trust that the present integrative and biblical treatment of issuesrelated to marriage and the family will prove beneficial not only to seminarystudents and pastors in local churches but also to a wide variety