CULTURE SHOCK - Nelson Mandela Metropolitan University

The traditional bow is pretty much out of fashion, except amongst some olderChinese. Today, many Chinese have adopted the western custom of hand shaking,although usually with a lot less enthusiasm. (This could be regarded as somethingsymptomatic of the era of globalization - at the cultural level - which was referred toearlier. In this era there is more contact between different cultures than ever before,and especially American cultural values and customs can be seen as a majorinfluence on other cultures, Chinese culture being no exception.) One should not beoffended if certain Chinese women are still uncomfortable with shaking your hand,however. Hugs and kisses, as a greeting or farewell, are definitely not in line withChinese tradition (as yet) and should be avoided.Most Chinese are born with three names. However, many younger Chinese who havebeen exposed to western culture may add an English name as well (for example---Philip Lee Wing Chan). Traditionally, the Chinese will introduce themselves by theirsurname first, which is the direct opposite of what South African people do. This canoften be a source of confusion, since you may not know for sure if he is in fact Mr.Lee or Mr. Chan. The best way to avoid confusion is to ask. Be aware that manyChinese women have retained their maiden name, a cultural option dating back tolong before the women’s liberation movement in the west, so no one should besurprised if one’s host introduces his wife by a different last name.Many Chinese businessmen now use bilingual business cards, with English on oneside and Chinese on the other (another sign of western cultural influence in aglobalizing world). Business cards are a symbol of professional status, and as a signof respect, the proper etiquette is to present and receive business cards with bothhands.Presenting Gifts15