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Carole O’Malley grew up on HungryHill in the 1950’s and early 1960’s.She encountered struggles that attimes overwhelmed her, but in writingHUNGRY HILL; A Memoir she hasfound her voice, both as a teenager andas an adult.Like many <strong>Cathedral</strong> High Schoolgraduates of the time, she grew up inan Irish-Catholic family in Our Ladyof Hope Parish. But unlike any ofher classmates that she was aware of,Carole and her brothers (Michael ’61,Daniel ’64, Gerald ’67, and Stephen ’70)graduated from <strong>Cathedral</strong> as orphans.Their mother succumbed to cancer in1959 and their father died in 1962.Carole graduated from <strong>Cathedral</strong>in June 1963 and went on to theUniversity of Massachusetts, whereshe met David Gaunt from Hadley. AtUMass Carole achieved Cum Laudestatus, just as she had been an achieverat Our Lady of Hope and <strong>Cathedral</strong>.After graduation she taught for oneyear at Marcus Kiley Junior High inSpringfield and then moved on to abrief career in the insurance industryin Hartford. After David and Carolewere married in 1970 they moved toCharlottesville, VA and eventually toNew York City. Carole and David havethree daughters who have found greatsuccess in school and life - Abby is anattorney who is a clerk for a FederalCourt judge in New Orleans, Susanis a Ph.D. candidate in history at theUniversity of Chicago, and Victoria is asenior at Duke University.In recent years Carole has turned towriting as an avocation, and morerecently as a vocation. She has writtenseveral books (although none of themhas yet been published) and she haspenned several plays, including TheDance of the Seven-Headed Mouse,which has received critical acclaim andwon an award. Now she is preparingfor the publication of her first book,HUNGRY HILL; A Memoir, which is thestory of her living through her parents’Through tradition, <strong>Cathedral</strong> has faith…in the future.A Writer’s Journey to Happiness -From Hungry Hill to Yorkvilledeaths - years that coincided with herattendance at <strong>Cathedral</strong> High School.Written from the perspective of a teenagedgirl, HUNGRY HILL is intended asa “way for me to figure out my life” andas a way to encourage others to dealwith the challenges of a parent’s alcoholand drug addiction differently. “I wantto help teenagers know that it is okayto talk about alcoholism and its impacton them, and I hope to encourageadults who are not the addicted adultto reach out to young people to assurethem of their care and their support.”Carole told Connections that as a childshe felt a certain amount of shamebecause she was different from herclassmates - her mother died just aweek before she graduated from OurLady of Hope - and try as she would,Carole could not rescue her muchlovedfather from the rapid progressionof his alcoholism.Today Carole Gaunt speaks of her daysat <strong>Cathedral</strong> as trying ones, but says itwas the support of her friends and the<strong>Cathedral</strong> High School • Alumni News • page structure at <strong>Cathedral</strong> that saved her.“My home life was chaotic to say theleast, but at school the sisters providedsome discipline and consistency. Whenyou live with an alcoholic parent youcan never know what will be waitingbehind the door that night, but at<strong>Cathedral</strong> I knew what the rules wereand if I did a certain thing, there wouldbe a certain result. I also rememberSr. Patricia Joseph made it a point toask me how I was doing in the weeksafter my father’s death. At the time, Ifelt excruciatingly uncomfortable but,looking back as an adult, I admire herfor having the courage to confront astudent’s grief.”In June 2007 The University ofMassachusetts Press will publishHUNGRY HILL; A Memoir, andCarole will be in the Springfield areafor a couple of book signings. Shewill be at The Odyssey Bookstore inSouth Hadley on Thursday, June 21at 7:00 PM and at Barnes and Nobleat Ingleside sometime after that date.Please check www.hungryhillthebook.com for information.“As I think about my life’s accomplishments,my greatest sense of achievementis around my family. I have a wonderfulhusband of 37 years and three specialdaughters. It is so different from what Iexperienced, and I think that my years at<strong>Cathedral</strong> taught me to make thoughtfulchoices. Now I want to be able to letothers who have survived difficultchildhoods know that they don’t have tokeep bottled up the pain I buried for fartoo many years,” Mrs. Gaunt reflected.Continuing to give back to <strong>Cathedral</strong>,Carole opened her Upper East SideManhattan home on April 25th to 35<strong>Cathedral</strong> alumni, as part of the school’seffort to reach out to alumni who nolonger live in the Springfield area. Itwas an especially wonderful eveningthanks to Carole’s graciousness andhospitality. (Please see the story, onpage 5 about these special events, andhow to have an event in your area!)

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