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Reflections of ChristmasBy Barbara ThayerGrowing up, I have vivid memories of Christmas. But <strong>the</strong> one thing I remembermost is spending hours rearranging <strong>the</strong> figures in <strong>the</strong> nativity scene. I couldalmost hear <strong>the</strong> bleating of <strong>the</strong> sheep and <strong>the</strong> lowing of <strong>the</strong> cows!Although we had no iPads, iPods, smart phones or computers at that time, we didhave television. But my parents limited our TV time and made sure <strong>the</strong> true meaning ofChristmas was emphasized in our home. After trimming <strong>the</strong> tree, <strong>the</strong> manger scene wasplaced beneath <strong>the</strong> tree. I had <strong>the</strong> honor of positioning <strong>the</strong> figures.On Christmas Eve, we read <strong>the</strong> Christmas story from <strong>the</strong> Bible and placed <strong>the</strong> crib withBaby Jesus in <strong>the</strong> manger scene. This vivid memory was so important in our household.As our own children came along, my husband and I continued <strong>the</strong> tradition of <strong>the</strong>manger scene – <strong>the</strong> central message of Christmas. The tree and decorations are all beautiful,but <strong>the</strong>y don’t outshine <strong>the</strong> birth of <strong>the</strong> King of Kings.Remembering God’s GiftWe also continued <strong>the</strong> tradition of reading <strong>the</strong> story of <strong>the</strong> birth of our Savior to ourchildren. For us, <strong>the</strong> manger (not <strong>the</strong> gifts) was <strong>the</strong> central point of our celebration. Whenour children asked why we gave gifts on Christmas, my reply was that God had given usHis best gift in <strong>the</strong> person of baby Jesus.He was born to die and offer His life for ours. Therefore, we offer our best (not <strong>the</strong>most expensive) but a gift of <strong>the</strong> heart to one ano<strong>the</strong>r – remembering God’s gift to us.How we present Christmas to our children and grandchildren has a tremendous impacton <strong>the</strong>m for a lifetime.Often <strong>the</strong> Bible speaks of not forgetting God in <strong>the</strong> midst of our celebrations, our successesand <strong>the</strong> many blessings we enjoy (Deuteronomy 6:10-15). As God warned Israel,He warns us today. We are not to lose Him in <strong>the</strong> tinsel, <strong>the</strong> toys, <strong>the</strong> parties, and <strong>the</strong> trappings of this season. We are not to takecredit for all <strong>the</strong> blessings we have been given.We must never forget <strong>the</strong> many blessings we have are as a result of God’s calling us to salvation through His Son. He deserves tobe <strong>the</strong> center of all we do as we ga<strong>the</strong>r with friends and family this season. My prayer is that we will allow our light to so shine thatmen may see <strong>the</strong> difference that Christ makes in our lives this season.?Keep <strong>the</strong> manger <strong>the</strong> primary focus at Christmas.Worship in Fellowship at ChurchMany churches hold Christmas Eveservices. The heart of our faith is foundin <strong>the</strong> preaching and teaching of God’sWord. Ga<strong>the</strong>ring toge<strong>the</strong>r in <strong>the</strong> companyof saints encourages us, instructs and correctsus. We must not neglect our call tojoint worship for ourselves or our children.This keeps our focus on <strong>the</strong> Lord.Make an advent calendar withChrist as <strong>the</strong> focusInstead of making <strong>the</strong> calendar acountdown to Santa, place a symbol ineach pocket of <strong>the</strong> calendar representinga Christian quality. Each day, have childrentake turns taking out <strong>the</strong> symbol andpin it to <strong>the</strong> outside of <strong>the</strong> pocket. Read ashort verse and devotion as you count <strong>the</strong>days till his birth.Read <strong>the</strong> Story of <strong>the</strong> Birth of ChristParents can read <strong>the</strong> story of Jesus’birth from <strong>the</strong> Bible, or let children taketurns reading.Serve O<strong>the</strong>rs at ChristmasTo show service and love at Christmastime, take your children to a nursing homeand distribute a small gift to residents.Sing carols and greet <strong>the</strong> residents. It is sorewarding to see <strong>the</strong> smiles on <strong>the</strong>ir faces.It will leave an impression on childrenabout serving o<strong>the</strong>rs. You can also bless aneedy family by taking wrapped gifts foreach family member to <strong>the</strong>ir home. Thiswill teach children how to share <strong>the</strong> loveof God with o<strong>the</strong>rs.Nativity Set for ChildrenOf course it’s important to have a nativityset that children and grandchildrencan handle to remind <strong>the</strong>m about <strong>the</strong>true meaning of this holy day. Rememberto take <strong>the</strong> time to explain who each of<strong>the</strong> characters is and <strong>the</strong> part <strong>the</strong>y playedin <strong>the</strong> Christmas story. In a child’s mind,this will bring to life <strong>the</strong> true meaning of<strong>the</strong> season.Bake a CakeMake Christmas a real birthday celebrationfor Christ by making a cake andsinging happy birthday to <strong>the</strong> Lord. Itisn’t so much about <strong>the</strong> food as it is aboutkeeping <strong>the</strong> focus on <strong>the</strong> Lord.Barbara Thayer is an author and a member of <strong>the</strong> Lake Placid (FL) ARP Church.20 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN

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