ALUMNINEWS1987● Shane Murray visited the school inaugust to show her two sons, Kyle, 9,and matthew, 2, where she spent muchof her childhood, as her father, Davidmurray, was head of school from 1980to 1985. shane lives in New lebanon, Nhwith her family, which includes a daughter,Katie, 22. she owns her own business,the murray agency, an insuranceand financial services company. shanesays, “i loved seeing the pics of my dadin the school and all of the changes.such a special place to me.”1993● ms. park met with Beth Boisi for coffeeat slammin’ salmon in millbrook earlyin september while she was visiting hermother. Beth spoke about her recentadventures and upcoming move. sherecently traveled for nine weeks throughthailand and indonesia. she started outvisiting the Blooming yoga retreat on theisland of Koh phangan and while inthailand spent time in seven otherplaces, including Bangkok and phuket.she spent time in Bali as well. theexperience was tremendously “freeing,”Beth reports. “i could go wherever i wanted.i learned that it’s only in the u.s. thatpeople say, ‘what do you do?’ most otherplaces people ask, ‘where have youbeen? what do you love?’ when youtravel, you have common ground witheveryone else who travels.” after livingand working in New york, and prior tothat, Denver, co, Beth moved this pastseptember to charleston, south carolina.1994● Tara Fischer lives in Bismarck, NorthDakota and has a doctorate in clinical psychology.she is engaged to Jason geigle.● Rob Wilkinson is an adjunct professorwho teaches art and design at Kendallcollege of art and Design in grandrapids, mi and at grand Valley stateuniversity. he earned his mfa in studiophotography at Kendall. he also has hisown wedding photography businessrobwilkinsonphotography.com.1995● Scott Vitale reports from Denver abouthis trip to Kilimanjaro this past summer.he writes: “our trip to Kilimanjaro issomething my wife, Kate, has been talkingabout doing since our very first date. weconvinced two friends from Denver to tagalong. the trip included a seven day hikeScott Vitale’95 atthe top ofKilimanjaroof Kilimanjaro using the machame route.our group was the four of us, two guides,two cooks, and 14 porters (no pack animals).Day six was summit day and westarted our final climb at just after midnight.we reached the peak at 6:56 am,shortly after we saw the sun rise throughthe clouds. it was an incredible experienceand a real mental and physicalchallenge. after the hike, we spent fourdays on safari in the serengeti,Ngorongoro crater, and manyara Nationalparks. we saw a ton of wildlife includingthree male lions, a cheetah with cubs,hippos, warthogs, gazelle, hyenas, jackals,giraffes, wildebeests, and countlesselephants. the final leg of the trip wasfive days on the beach in Zanzibar.totally relaxing and a great way to winddown before having to come back to thereal world. the tides on the east side ofZanzibar island are extreme, and at lowtide you can walk out a good quarter milebefore reaching the surf. lots of coraland sea critters to see on the walk andincredibly clear aqua waters. Definitelya trip of a lifetime!”● Parker Wayne and his wife of fifteenyears, Katie huff wayne, live in roundrock, tX. they have two children,Benjamin curtis wayne, 2, and Brooklynann wayne, 7 months. parker owns hisown business, apollo games, whichdeals with all generations of video games,from Xbox one to atari.● Reed Weeden Minor and her husbandstephen welcomed their second child,wellsley weeden minor.● Sarah Zachary grant married stevengrant on april 26, 2014. they live inlisbon, Ny, where steven works in lawenforcement and sarah works on theirfarm. prior to moving to lisbon, sarahworked in television production in Newyork city. she loves the changes in herlife and says her work on the farm is “themost rewarding job i’ve ever had.”1997● Emilie Jean irving married ian irvingon march 21st, 2014 at the city clerk’soffice on staten island; the ceremony wasfollowed by dinner and dancing. they traveledto tangier for the month of august.1998● on september 8, 2014, guitarist AlexNolan debuted (singing and playing guitar)with the all-women band called the mVpsand led by everett Bradley, the percussionistfor Bruce springsteen. the mVps isthe studio band on meredith Viera’s newdaily talk show on NBc. alex also playsgigs in and around New york, includingonce a month in rhinebeck at the shelter.this past summer she backed Jill sobule,for whom she has worked before, in a liveshow at the city winery in New york.● this past october, Jacqueline Stahl ’98was married to Oakleigh Thorne ’71 inmillbrook, Ny.1999● Danielle Knapp turner reports abouther recent wedding to adam turner thispast summer. “my wedding was absolutelyperfect! we got married at west hillscountry club in middletown, Ny on June20th. my cousin, Ryan Ruocco ’00, actedas our officiant. former Dutchess Daystudents Ashley Ruocco andKendal Trefz were my maids of honor.my brother, Shane Knapp ’01, was agroomsman. the wedding was alsoattended by Inga Stots mcKay ’99 andIlze Stots, a former DDs student. wehad perfect weather and an amazingcelebration. adam and i both wrote ourown vows and with ryan as our officianteverything was so personal. adam andi honeymooned in st. lucia and relaxedon the beach, which was so much fun!”● Lucy Knisley married John horstmanon september 13, 2014, in rhinebeck, Ny.she writes: “if you were around thehudson Valley that day, you might rememberit as the one that poureD raiN allDay. But it was still fun! we got hitched inmy mom’s backyard woodworking barn inrhinebeck, and ended the night around acampfire. Now i’m back in chicago to workon my next books while promoting my third(An Age of License) that came out fromfantagraphics [in september]. Busy stuff!”2000● Charlie Hettinger lives in tampa, fland works in engineering and design in24 www.DutchessDay.org . wiNter <strong>2015</strong>
ALUMNINEWSMany alumni attendedgraduation 2014.a company he started with his sister anddad called trim aviation. he got marriedon march 9, 2014 to Jen caron hettinger.Paul Stuckey ’00 was the best man!● Ryan Ruocco is an announcer for espNcovering the Brooklyn Nets. this year heand his broadcast team won an emmyaward for the season coverage. he writesto say: “i’m fortunate to do what i love andthat keeps me stimulated on a daily basis.my Nets broadcast team is an incrediblegroup to be part of and being recognizedwith an emmy is an honor and a wonderfulvalidation of all the hard work we putin. it feels good to know people enjoy thework as much as we enjoy doing it.”● Cynthia Tobey is a doctoral candidatein music and music education atteacher’s college at columbia university,concentrating in college teaching.she is also on the applied piano facultyat columbia and teaches a course onchamber music and democracy. lastyear she was a soloist with the lakegeorge chamber orchestra, performingBeethoven’s emperor piano concerto.2002● Kari Shmaling graduated fromuniversity of Vermont in 2010 with apre-vet degree, but since then has decidedto go into human medicine. after living inrhode island, where she worked in anenvironmental chemistry lab, and thenVail, co for six magical months of skiing,Kari and her now-fiancé, mike willey,moved to portland, me. Kari recentlywrote a newsy update: “in maine, i waslucky enough to land a pretty unique job.the company is called integr8health. itwas a start-up at the time — just me, thebusiness manager, and a doctor. Now wehave three offices, one in mass! the doctorsand nurse practitioners certifypatients to use medical marijuana here inmaine. patients must have a qualifyingcondition to be certified. the physiciansspend a full hour with each patient. ouroffice took off! we started getting hundredsof patients who were tired of thesame old horrible health care and theirdoctors pushing prescriptions on them.the word spread fast in maine that therewere doctors willing to spend an hourwith each patient.“when mike had to move twohours north to Bangor to manage abranch of his company we relocated.instead of letting me go, my bossesoffered to let me work from home.Now i do administrative duties remotely.the best aspect of this company is thatthey are so small and understanding theylet me work my schedule around classes.after seeing the doctors and nursesin the practice i decided to switch gearsand go back to school for humanmedicine. i am taking classes to go tonursing school, possibly medical school.we will see how i do! mike and i havebeen together for five years, since oursenior year of college! we will marry atsunday river on top of a ski mountainnext year. Natasha Menell ’02 andJackson Roesch ’02 will both be inmy wedding party.”in memoriamon July 20th, 2014, Scott Carlin ’07 died tragically in a car accident in millbrook.scott was beloved by all his Dutchess Day school classmates, his teachers, andanyone who crossed his path during his three years at the school. scott wasa natural leader, a loving person who would go out of his way to help in any circumstance.a hard worker, whether hitting the books or plowing fields with hisdad, scott got the job done. after Dutchess, scott attended trinity-pawling schoolin pawling, Ny where he was a resident advisor, guiding theyounger students. honorable, kind, and charismatic, scott was alodestone for the other boys. after graduating from tp, scottattended Virginia tech. scott will always be remembered for hisbeautiful grin and big bear hugs. our hearts go out to his family,parents, sarah and earl carlin, his brother, Rip Carlin ’04, andsister, Hanna Carlin, ’09.2004● Kelsey Reifler lives and works in Nyc.she is a graphic designer in Vogue’s inhousecreative agency. Kelsey reports thatshe is “doing things from invitations forevents to helping art direct photo shoots.Brands will come to Vogue asking forbranding campaigns since they trustthe Vogue voice.”2005 10 YEAR ALUMS!● Andrew Abrams is in his second yearas a doctoral candidate at the graduatecenter, cuNy in New york city, planning tograduate in 2018 with a phD in classics.he writes: “i will be specialized in ancienthistory and will also have a certificate inmedieval studies. i went straight intograd school after graduating from hobartand william smith colleges in 2013.i am currently living in Brooklyn, Ny andhave recently gotten engaged to saraahrendtsen, a classmate at hobartand william smith.”● Danielle Craig majored in sociology atwesleyan with a minor in cultural, critical,and social theory. after graduating, shereports: “i’ve been working as a paralegalat the u.s. attorney’s office for thesouthern District of New york. eventuallyi plan to pursue a career either in socialjustice via impact litigation as an attorney,or in public policy at a non-profit of somekind. at the moment, i am applying tovarious fellowships that will give me theopportunity to work abroad next yeareither in humanitarian development workor at an international criminal justicereform organization.”● Graham Derby reported from Buenosaires, argentina, where he moved thispast fall and plans to teach englishas a second language, for which he iscertified. he wrote about his last year ofadventures in south america: “i had anincredible year last year in southern chile.During the winter months of 2013(July-september) i coached for a chileanfree skiing club on Villarrica Volcano.the court yarD . www.DutchessDay.org 25