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<strong>Reporter</strong><br />

SUMMER 2007<br />

In this Issue:<br />

Alumni Update<br />

Around School<br />

Cinco de Mayo<br />

Teachers as Heroes


Eagle Hill-Southport<br />

Summer 2007 Newsletter<br />

Table of Contents:<br />

Letter from the Headmaster . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3<br />

Save the Date: Soaring Eagles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4<br />

Cinco de Mayo recap . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />

Around School . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />

Alumni Update . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8<br />

Summer School Family Wins Porsche Boxster. . . . . . . 8<br />

Tag-Along Day . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9<br />

“The Power of Mindsets” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9<br />

School Parent Salutes Eagle Hill Facullty. . . . . . . . . . 10<br />

Students go on Rafting Trip . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />

Destination Schools for our “Graduates” . . . . . . . . . 11<br />

Photo Gallery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12<br />

Beach Day Barbecue Serves Up Fun. . . . . . . . . . . . . 13<br />

Second Annual Pancake Breakfast. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14<br />

Strategic Planning Retreat . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15<br />

The Annual Fund Soars. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16<br />

Mission<br />

The mission of Eagle Hill- Southport is to help children<br />

with learning disabilities develop a foundation of skills,<br />

gain an understanding of their abilities, and prepare for<br />

a more traditional program.<br />

The school emphasizes academic, social and athletic<br />

skill development and strives to prepare students to be<br />

independent learners and citizens. Each student’s program<br />

is individualized and includes a mix of academic<br />

classes, tutorials and extracurricular activities that<br />

reflect the child’s diagnosed needs and unique learning<br />

profile.<br />

Long term motivation, confidence building, advocacy<br />

skills and a strong work ethic are emphasized. The<br />

school serves as a resource for its current families and<br />

also the larger community through<br />

its summer school and tutoring services.<br />

Board of Directors<br />

David Adler<br />

Richard Bondy<br />

David Blackburn<br />

Janet Brogan<br />

Jeffrey Burki<br />

Barbara R. Evans<br />

Richard Ferguson<br />

Hope Hetherington<br />

Theron Hoffman<br />

Gina Hurd<br />

Sally Ijams<br />

Karen Jeffers<br />

Alan Kasson<br />

Peter Oldershaw<br />

John B. Place<br />

Marcia Pryde<br />

Elliott Rogers<br />

Hugh Smith<br />

Robert Smith<br />

Janet L. Steinmayer<br />

Administrative Staff<br />

Carolyn Lavender<br />

Director of Admissions<br />

Leonard Tavormina<br />

Headmaster<br />

Susie Haydon,<br />

Dede Warner<br />

Front Office<br />

Lea Sylvestro<br />

Parent’s Liaison<br />

Supervisors/Advisors<br />

Steve Sylvestro<br />

Dean of Students<br />

Hallie Buckingham<br />

Student Activities/<br />

Professional Development<br />

Jeff Ruggiero<br />

Instruction & Curriculum<br />

James Tice<br />

Leonard Tavormina<br />

Headmaster<br />

Mark Jacobs<br />

Secretary<br />

Directors Emeriti<br />

Lawrence Hughes<br />

Michael F. LaPorta<br />

Walter S. Robbins<br />

Frank P. Wendt<br />

Patricia L. Willett<br />

Robert W. Wright<br />

Mrs. F. Henry Berlin<br />

1920-1995<br />

Stephen D. Colhoun<br />

1921-1991<br />

John D. Upton<br />

1909-2005<br />

David Crandall<br />

Director of Development<br />

Tim Kwong<br />

Business Manager<br />

Mario Fiallo<br />

Director of Facilities<br />

and Maintenance<br />

Kathleen Gallagher<br />

Tutorial /Staff Support<br />

John Robbins<br />

Master Teacher/<br />

Athletic Co-ordination<br />

David Sylvestro<br />

School Psychologist<br />

2


From the Headmaster<br />

The Importance of Being an Independent Learner<br />

Dear Friends,<br />

On June 15, over 40 “graduates” marched down the traditional double<br />

line of teachers and staff in front of the school and bid farewell<br />

to Eagle Hill. As I watched them proceed down the walkway into<br />

the next chapter in their lives, I was heartened to know that the staff<br />

here taught them well. They carry with them many new skills,<br />

learning strategies and a noticeably higher level of confidence.<br />

Of course, one of the key goals for these students was for them to<br />

become more independent and successful learners. By also learning<br />

to advocate for themselves – and not expecting others to do so – these children have become<br />

more assertive and engaged students. A letter I received recently from a former school parent<br />

brought this thought to light. Here is an excerpt from that letter:<br />

Tyler is graduating next week from Trumbull High School, and we want to thank everyone<br />

who taught him during the five years he attended Eagle Hill. Even though he<br />

remains a quiet young man who continues to struggle with his school work, he learned a<br />

valuable lesson from Eagle Hill: he learned to be a self advocate. It helped him achieve<br />

honors all four years at THS… we are so very grateful for all that you did to help Tyler<br />

become such a kind, hard working, productive citizen.<br />

On page 11 of this newsletter is a list of the schools where are departing students will be<br />

attending. It is our hope and expectation that when our students enter their new classrooms,<br />

they will take the initiative to present themselves in a positive light and get to know their<br />

teachers. When children are their own advocates, they tend more readily to seek out help<br />

from teachers and participate more effectively in class discussion and activities. This self<br />

advocacy leads to greater understanding and academic success… and, consequently, to higher<br />

self esteem and achievement.<br />

We salute all those who have moved on from our school.<br />

Wishing you an enjoyable summer.<br />

Sincerely,<br />

Leonard TavorminaSincerely,<br />

Leonard Tavormina<br />

3


Save the Date:<br />

Monday, October 1, 2007<br />

The Golf Club at Oxford Greens,<br />

Oxford, CT<br />

On Monday, October 1, Eagle Hill will host the second<br />

annual Soaring Eagles Golf Classic at The Golf Club at<br />

Oxford Greens in Oxford, CT. Our “Leadership<br />

Foursome” of Karl Babikian, Ross Kudwitt, Fran Signore,<br />

and Maureen Watson is busy planning a wonderful<br />

event. The day will feature a spectacular day of golf on<br />

this new premier course, as well as a buffet luncheon,<br />

cocktail reception, gift bag and the chance to win one of<br />

several raffle prizes.<br />

For information regarding sponsorships, golf spots or volunteering<br />

to serve on the committee, please contact<br />

David Crandall, Development Director at 203-254-2044.<br />

Your support is needed to make this outing a success.<br />

4


Cinco de Mayo - Ole!<br />

As gloriously appointed as a bonita bean dips.<br />

mujer, a beautiful woman, the John<br />

school was festooned in finery befitting<br />

a fiesta. Thousands of tissue reporter for<br />

Burgeson,<br />

paper flowers of turquoise, pink, yellow,<br />

and orange, blossomed on tables, Connecticut<br />

the<br />

encircled tent poles and accented Post raved that<br />

doorways for the spring benefit which the food was<br />

took place May 5 th . Lacy multi-colored<br />

banners, lights, and lanterns<br />

“out of this<br />

world.”<br />

looped from the ceilings. Decoration<br />

Co-chairs Beth Jones and Libby<br />

Schreiber were overwhelmed by the<br />

enthusiasm of a dedicated committee<br />

generous with their time.<br />

A full-size canopy shaded the Giving<br />

Tree Marketplace, overseen by parent<br />

Regina Flaherty. Despite the authenticity<br />

lent by baskets of bananas and<br />

pineapples, this was a key opportunity<br />

for guests to direct their donations<br />

toward wishlist items selected by the<br />

staff.<br />

Enticing as the apple to Adam, the<br />

2007 arctic silver Porsche Boxster<br />

which was to be raffled off later in the<br />

evening, was parked next to a fountain<br />

bedecked with live tropical flora.<br />

For the moment, the sleek car was<br />

viewed with a sense of ownership by<br />

everyone attending. “She could be<br />

mine,” was the prevailing belief, but<br />

only one ticket led to the keys.<br />

While frozen margaritas churned by<br />

the fountain, chefs Kim Keehan and<br />

Avery Horne bustled in the kitchen<br />

preparing delectable offerings of marinated<br />

shrimp tossed with lime juice<br />

and avocado, grilled chicken, filet on<br />

herbed toast, pork burritos, and an<br />

abundance of salsas, guacamole, and<br />

The school’s<br />

reception<br />

room was<br />

transformed<br />

into a portal to<br />

another dimension as psychic medium<br />

Angelina Diana held guests enthralled<br />

with the accuracy of her readings. As<br />

the evening went on, the eight-peopleper-session<br />

limit was abandoned as up<br />

to fourteen seekers crowded the medium.<br />

There was a quickening in the<br />

Common Room as Latin dancers<br />

Enrique Alarcon and Amanda Parton<br />

took the floor. Clad in sleek, form-fitting<br />

white costumes, the pair spun and<br />

dipped to an appreciative audience.<br />

Inspired by the performance, guests<br />

then lined up to salsa following<br />

Enrique’s directions. School staff<br />

members Mario Fiallo, originally of<br />

Ecuador, and Luis Parra of Colombia<br />

joined the throng, lending their<br />

expertise in the dances of their homelands.<br />

This was a party in which the cochairs<br />

were crystal clear in their<br />

vision. Spice was the prime ingredient<br />

- and not solely in the food. “We<br />

wanted to create a spirited evening<br />

Eagle Hill’s Capital Campaign Is Coming!<br />

Eagle Hill-Southport is embarking on a capital campaign<br />

to raise much-needed funds to build its endowment. With<br />

a stronger endowment, the school will be better positioned<br />

to limit tuition growth, thereby making the school<br />

with an authentic flavor where people,<br />

above all, would have fun while raising<br />

funds for the school,” said<br />

Carmela Kaufman. Libby Tritschler<br />

added, “We introduced Enrique and<br />

Amanda, and Angelina Diana in an<br />

effort to inject some uniquely exciting<br />

elements that would really engage our<br />

guests.”<br />

Los hermanos (the brothers) Sylvestro,<br />

the school psychologist and dean of<br />

students, acted as auctioneers, guiding<br />

bidders to such heights of generosity<br />

as to raise $39,500 in the live auction<br />

alone. And then, the moment of truth<br />

– the raffle drawing for the Porsche.<br />

After all of the revelry, the room was<br />

silent as Libby and Carmela<br />

announced the winner. Westport resident<br />

John Cravenho was to be the<br />

envied man behind the wheel.<br />

We extend our deepest thanks to the<br />

chairs and benefit committee who<br />

succeeded in providing a joyous<br />

evening of fun while raising $125,750<br />

for the school’s endowment and scholarship<br />

funds.<br />

affordable for more families; boost financial aid for families<br />

in need; and increase professional development offerings<br />

for its teachers. The school community will be hearing<br />

more about the campaign in the coming school year.<br />

5


Around School<br />

The stars and stripes fluttered lazily<br />

against a deep blue sky. Fragrant<br />

pink roses perfumed the walk to the<br />

harbor. The gleeful calls of children<br />

carried over and around the historic<br />

former homes of sea captains. It was<br />

the perfect morning for open-air,<br />

hands-on observation of the properties<br />

of flight as reviewed in the spring science<br />

unit. Teachers Bob Perry, Lisa<br />

Galasso, Joan Garthwaite, Julie Papp<br />

and Megan Aversano untangled string,<br />

freed errant kites from trees, and<br />

watched the skies with eyes shielded<br />

and heads thrown back as students set<br />

their minds to aeronautics with an<br />

assortment of kites. For many of the<br />

kites, air time was gained primarily as<br />

students ran pell mell down the length<br />

of Perry Green. Far overhead, however,<br />

Edward MacCordy’s Jolly Roger<br />

soared just short of Sam Glasburg’s<br />

colorful bevy of bugs. Board member<br />

Hugh Smith, called from his house by<br />

the “sounds of joy” captured the event<br />

on film.<br />

Thanks to funds donated by participants<br />

in the 2006 Giving Tree, the<br />

following week a special assembly<br />

brought Captain Bob Mueller to the<br />

school to talk about the history of ballooning.<br />

In addition to a slide show,<br />

he inflated a training-size balloon to<br />

¼ capacity in the common room. At<br />

that size, the balloon touched the ceiling<br />

lights and the students were able<br />

to sit inside<br />

the balloon.<br />

The<br />

audience<br />

then filed<br />

outside to<br />

see the passenger<br />

basket<br />

and<br />

witness the<br />

use of a<br />

torch to<br />

heat the air.<br />

History can be a hard sell to children<br />

of any age – who cares<br />

about the activities of people long<br />

dead? But when a connection is<br />

forged so that students gain an appreciation<br />

for the challenges and routines<br />

of life over 200 years ago, then the<br />

sequence of events has a context.<br />

A Social Studies Extravaganza focusing<br />

on Colonial Connecticut provided an<br />

exciting variety of special assemblies<br />

designed to vividly portray the state’s<br />

early life. Dressed in period garb,<br />

“Mrs. Weston” spoke of her life in<br />

1876 as the daughter of a whaler who<br />

sailed out of Mystic Seaport. She<br />

described the close quarters - chicken<br />

and small livestock sharing space with<br />

humans – and the surprising concept<br />

of cookfires on board ship.<br />

Walt Latis, a re-enactor from the<br />

Fairfield Historical Society, took pains<br />

in describing the practicality of each<br />

item of his colonial clothing when he<br />

came to speak about life in the eighteenth<br />

century militia. Former Eagle<br />

Hill advisor, Barb Grant, returned to<br />

school to display her hand-crafted<br />

quilts and instruct students in handpiecing<br />

quilt squares. In addition, students<br />

tried their hands at a variety of<br />

traditional skills including making<br />

hand-dipped candles, tying nautical<br />

knots and working with pulleys.<br />

In their study of the Colonial justice<br />

system, older students focused on the<br />

case of the slave rebellion on the ship<br />

Amistad. Many students<br />

were stunned to discover<br />

that slavery had existed in<br />

Connecticut.<br />

In order to complement student<br />

contracts on animals,<br />

teachers Melissa<br />

McCormack and Christine<br />

Filep took their tutorial<br />

classes to the Beardsley Zoo<br />

in Bridgeport. The animal<br />

kingdom never fails to<br />

delight and impress, and the<br />

students experienced a full measure of<br />

both. They explored tunnels that simulated<br />

those of the prairie dog and<br />

learned about the red wolf, which is<br />

now extinct in the wild. For Jake<br />

Melcher-Eydt and Marcus Pagliarulo,<br />

their study of the green iguana and<br />

boa constrictor was enhanced by a<br />

visit to the reptile house. The howler<br />

monkeys and golden lion tamarinds<br />

entertained all with their antics at the<br />

rainforest exhibit. And Maya<br />

Treisman was granted the vision of her<br />

contract animal – a Siberian tiger –<br />

taking a bath!<br />

Graham Cavanaugh, Nick Piliero,<br />

Ryan Brennan and Gennady<br />

Enslen went to Grasmere Eldercare<br />

Center every month to visit with the<br />

seniors.<br />

While none of the acts are apt to<br />

appear on a record label anytime<br />

soon, the lively talents displayed<br />

by contestants for the coveted “Eagle<br />

6


Hill Idol” title deserve<br />

points for spirit. The contest<br />

was organized by<br />

Dawn Westlund’s M & M<br />

Club (Movies and Music)<br />

and received technical<br />

assistance from Sharon<br />

Plante.<br />

Teachers and students vied for top<br />

honors, taking up props, costumes and<br />

wigs to lip sync such favorites as<br />

1985 (Ben Ferguson, Mike Africk,<br />

Mike Esposito, Will Bosch, James<br />

Overton, Ian Boyle, Olivia Griffin),<br />

and Hey Mickey (Julie Fields, Kaela<br />

LiVigni, Rachael McDermott, Ellie<br />

Barbieri, Tom Kazi<br />

and Leland<br />

Ketcher). The rendition<br />

of Leader of<br />

the Pack performed<br />

by teachers Bob<br />

Perry, Rachael<br />

Stabers and<br />

Melanie Higgins<br />

was particularly<br />

dramatic given<br />

headmaster<br />

Len<br />

Tavormina’s<br />

appearance<br />

on his<br />

motorcycle!<br />

The<br />

winners,<br />

You Don’t<br />

bring Me<br />

Flowers (teachers Tom Peets and<br />

Sean Tottenham) and 1985, were<br />

decided by a ballot vote and<br />

announced on Beach Day.<br />

There is something magical<br />

about weather - the march of<br />

great mounds of cumulous<br />

clouds across a wide expanse of<br />

sky, the fall of snow, rain or hail<br />

out of…nothing. The swing from<br />

cold to hot within the span of the<br />

day. How can it all be<br />

explained?<br />

Paul Piorek, weather anchor of<br />

News 12, met with Mr. Perry’s<br />

and Mr. Peet’s science classes<br />

and graphically demonstrated the<br />

scientific bases of weather with<br />

experiments that seemed as<br />

much magic as science.<br />

Ben Ferguson and Arielle<br />

Zweibach amazed the audience<br />

by illustrating how water<br />

vapor, low pressure and cold<br />

produce snow. While some<br />

gazed at the ceiling anticipating<br />

the possibility of a blizzard, the<br />

accumulation was more manageable<br />

– a snowball from a cup –<br />

which Mr. Piorek dumped on Arielle’s<br />

head!<br />

When Melissa McCormack’s tutorial<br />

class - Lizzy O’Connell and<br />

Maya Treisman - reached their<br />

Accelerated Reader goal, they celebrated<br />

with a tea party. Joined by<br />

Susie Martin, they sipped punch and<br />

nibbled Rice Krispy treats served on<br />

the finest china while listening to classical<br />

music.<br />

“Let’s get a little bit rowdy!<br />

R-O-W-D-Y”<br />

Cheering is all about enthusiasm,<br />

energy and encouraging others. It is<br />

also about hard work and discipline.<br />

Teacher Michele Isenberg is lavish in<br />

her praise of the members of the<br />

school’s cheerleading squad: Terra<br />

Gardella, Caroline Guterl, Lily Baer,<br />

Leyna Kudwitt, Payton Alexander, Allie<br />

Gluck, and Megan Mistretta. Their<br />

efforts have transformed the squad<br />

from a makeshift group to an established<br />

sport – the first sport at the<br />

school offered primarily for girls.<br />

With official status come the trappings<br />

– uniforms and pom-poms. Far more<br />

important is the self-confidence<br />

gained as the girls’ skills have developed,<br />

earning them the respect of the<br />

school community and the referees.<br />

Ms Isenberg beams in saying,<br />

“Referees and parents have told me<br />

that the girls could go up against any<br />

high school squad.” The girls themselves<br />

have a similar goal – participating<br />

in a local competition.<br />

7


Eagle Hill-Southport Alumni: Update<br />

Dylan Connolly, now attending<br />

Fairfield Country Day, participated in<br />

the “Word Masters” National Language<br />

Arts competition and was the only seventh<br />

grader to be recognized as<br />

“Outstanding.” He is currently playing<br />

lacrosse for his school and for the<br />

Town of Westport. This summer,<br />

Dylan was invited to attend the Great<br />

Books program in Amherst, MA.<br />

Kathryn Crum, a rising eighth grader<br />

at Harvey School, has had a full performance<br />

schedule as she appeared in<br />

“Anything Goes” at the high school<br />

during the winter and played Miss<br />

Hannigan in the middle school production<br />

of “Annie.” While not on<br />

stage, she was diligent in her studies<br />

and made the Headmaster’s List for<br />

the winter term.<br />

Having received an art award from<br />

Rumsey Hall upon graduating,<br />

Andrew Friedman will be attending<br />

Proctor Academy in the fall.<br />

National Honor Society inductee,<br />

Shannon Hallenbeck, graduated from<br />

Forman School with High Honors and<br />

won the Headmaster’s Award as well<br />

as the Senior Science Award for his<br />

work on the Costa Rican Rainforest<br />

Project in which he caught, banded,<br />

and tracked migratory birds during a<br />

ten-day stay in Costa Rica. He was<br />

also Vice President of the school and<br />

captain of the kayaking team. He will<br />

be attending Centenary College in<br />

New Jersey in the fall to study fashion<br />

and journalism.<br />

Having enjoyed skiing three days a<br />

week this winter during his ninth<br />

grade year at Pine Ridge School in<br />

Vermont, Henry McMahon will participate<br />

in the Super Teens program at<br />

Summitt Camp this summer.<br />

From Boy Scouts to Robotics, Steve<br />

Miller is covering the traditional as<br />

well as the futuristic. Having earned<br />

the Scout rank of Life in October of<br />

2006, he has also become increasingly<br />

involved in competitive robotics.<br />

As a member of the Shelton High<br />

School robotics Team 230 Gaelhawks,<br />

Summer School Family Wins Porsche Boxster<br />

The lucky winner of the 2007<br />

Porsche Boxster raffle this year was<br />

John Cravenho whose son Ean attends<br />

the summer program. The drawing<br />

was held the evening of the Cinco de<br />

Mayo spring benefit. We took some<br />

time to talk to John and Ean about<br />

their family’s new addition.<br />

How did you feel when you heard the<br />

news?<br />

John: We were ecstatic! We<br />

had made previous arrangements<br />

to go out for dinner<br />

that evening, and when we<br />

returned my wife played the<br />

message on our answering<br />

machine. I was on the<br />

other side of the house and<br />

heard this joyous screaming<br />

from the kitchen. I rushed<br />

over and learned we had<br />

won the car. Even though it<br />

was late, we stayed up a<br />

long time that night reflecting<br />

about the exciting news.<br />

How do you like the car?<br />

John: I love it. This is my first convertible,<br />

and it’s tremendous fun to take it<br />

out for weekend spins. Our first drive<br />

was around back roads in Ridgefield,<br />

which was just great. Ean is already<br />

planning on learning how to drive a<br />

standard transmission and has “first<br />

8<br />

he competed in Orlando, FLA, and<br />

Hartford, CT, in March.<br />

After completing his sophomore year<br />

as an English major at St. Joseph’s<br />

University, Bryan Reid came to speak<br />

to the Parent Support Group about his<br />

experiences in transitioning from Eagle<br />

Hill to Fairfield Prep and finally to a<br />

college setting.<br />

Congratulations to recent Trumbull<br />

High School graduate Tyler Rice, who<br />

will be attending Pennsylvania College<br />

of Technology in the fall. He completed<br />

his senior year with honors for all<br />

of his four years of high school and<br />

won the sportsmanship award for<br />

indoor track, having served as co-captain<br />

for the track team. Based on his<br />

overall performance in academics,<br />

sports and volunteer work, he was<br />

awarded two college scholarships.<br />

Jackson Skinner completed seventh<br />

grade at Rumsey Hall having earned a<br />

varsity letter in cross country and<br />

making the Dean’s list three times.<br />

dibs” on the car when he’s in High<br />

School – or so he says! My 13 year<br />

old daughter likes me to drive her into<br />

town - for obvious reasons!<br />

I’ve held off buying a sports car in the<br />

past because we have four children.<br />

So winning the Boxster was a quite<br />

fortuitous and “guilt-free” way to own<br />

a Porsche. In my early 20’s I owned a<br />

1966 GTO and now this car is bringing<br />

me memories of those happy<br />

times. So, the Boxster is very special<br />

to me.<br />

How is it that you came to buy a ticket?<br />

Ean: I’m responsible for us winning<br />

the car! If I hadn’t signed up for summer<br />

school we probably wouldn’t<br />

have known about the raffle and<br />

bought a ticket. The car is really cool.<br />

It’s my favorite way to get to school!<br />

Congratulations and happy trails to the<br />

Cravenho family!


Tag-Along Day<br />

The individualized attention<br />

that is integral to Eagle Hill’s<br />

program is embodied in Tag-<br />

Along day. This special event is<br />

offered as an auction prize at<br />

the spring benefit and gives a<br />

child an opportunity to step out<br />

of the student role for a day to<br />

accompany Director of<br />

Maintenance Mario Fiallo,<br />

Dean of Students Steve<br />

Sylvestro and Headmaster Len<br />

Tavormina.<br />

There were two Tag-Along winners<br />

this spring, Matthew Watson and Brett Tritschler.<br />

Brett’s mother, Libby, said, “You should have seen the<br />

expression on Brett’s face when I told him we had won this<br />

for him.” And happily, I was fortunate to glimpse that<br />

expression - the shining eyes and beaming smiles - while<br />

interviewing the boys for this article.<br />

When asked if he’d learned anything about his three escorts<br />

that he hadn’t previously known, Brett said, “I didn’t know<br />

all the stuff that Mario does.” Neither did I, as it turns out,<br />

as Matt and Brett listed their excursions to “the recycling<br />

place, Home Depot, the fire station…” Twice I moved on<br />

to the next question, only to have Matt stop me to say, “I<br />

haven’t finished yet.” It was a long list.<br />

Mario commented, “In working for a school, you have to be<br />

flexible. It was good for the boys to see that sometimes you<br />

have to stop what you are doing, no matter what your plans<br />

are, and deal with whatever comes up. If someone needs<br />

help, errands have to wait.”<br />

Both boys loved their visit to the Southport Fire Station.<br />

When Mario explained that he<br />

volunteered his time, that some<br />

things are more important than<br />

money, the boys were surprised….but<br />

they understood.<br />

“I want to be a fireman!” Brett<br />

announced. Both were pleased<br />

with their complimentary teeshirts.<br />

Part of tagging along involves<br />

assuming certain responsibilities.<br />

In blue blazer and wild,<br />

white-haired wig, Matt bore an<br />

eerie likeness to Mr. Sylvestro as<br />

he surprised the school community with his commanding<br />

presence in leading Morning Meeting, making announcements<br />

and sending the students off to class. The timing was<br />

also in Matt’s favor as a fire drill was due, and clearly mindful<br />

of the importance and privilege of his task, he pulled the<br />

alarm to initiate the drill.<br />

A high point of the day<br />

was lunch at Sakura with<br />

Mr. Tavormina. The boys<br />

invited friends and were<br />

treated to a hibachi-style<br />

meal. Jon Moor joined<br />

Matt, and Brett invited<br />

Leland Ketcher, Thomas<br />

Kazi and Mario. Mr.<br />

Tavormina observed that<br />

the conversation was lively<br />

and entertaining, while<br />

the boys agreed, “It was<br />

fun!”<br />

“The Power of Mindsets” - Dr. Robert Brooks Speaks<br />

Clinical psychologist, lecturer and<br />

author, Dr. Robert Brooks, conducted<br />

two seminars for teachers and parents on<br />

May 1. Author of The Self-Esteem Teacher,<br />

Raising Resilient Children, Nurturing<br />

Resilience in Children and Answers to the<br />

Most Important Parenting Questions, Dr.<br />

Brooks addressed the topic, “The Power of<br />

Mindsets: Nurturing Motivation and<br />

Resilience in Students with Learning Disabilities.”<br />

The afternoon session for educators emphasized dimensions<br />

of mindset necessary for effective educators and resilient<br />

youth, identification of student “islands of competence” and<br />

specific interventions for fostering motivation, learning, selfdiscipline,<br />

self-esteem, cooperation, caring,<br />

hope and resilience in children. In<br />

addition to Eagle Hill-Southport staff,<br />

teachers from Hopkins School, Greens<br />

Farms Academy, Rye Country Day School,<br />

Eagle Hill-Greenwich, New Canaan<br />

Country School and Unquowa School<br />

attended.<br />

There was an enthusiastic parent response to the evening<br />

session. Dr. Brooks focused on raising resilient children<br />

and adolescents with learning disabilities, dealing with<br />

stress, the importance of empathy in response and understanding<br />

and strategies for nurturing self-discipline, selfesteem,<br />

responsibility, caring, and hope.<br />

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Teachers as Heroes:<br />

School Parent Salutes Eagle Hill Faculty<br />

am astonished by the generosity,”<br />

“Isaid Louise Foerster, chair of the<br />

Teacher Appreciation Luncheon.<br />

Between the willing pool of volunteers<br />

for set-up and clean-up, the sumptuous<br />

list of salads and desserts, and the<br />

donations for beverage and paper<br />

goods, it was clear how fully the<br />

teachers had earned the respect and<br />

gratitude of the parents. In the following<br />

tribute to the teachers, Louise<br />

compared them to heroes:<br />

“It started, as many important things<br />

do, during an ordinary carpool morning<br />

to Eagle Hill. I announced brightly<br />

to the three boys in the car that I<br />

was helping with the Teacher<br />

Appreciation Luncheon this year and<br />

could use their ideas. Utter silence. It<br />

was a Monday. And the day was gray.<br />

It was April and it was still cold. Then<br />

a small voice ventured, “I think you<br />

should have<br />

duckies for<br />

everyone.<br />

Get all different<br />

ones so<br />

everyone can<br />

choose the<br />

duck they<br />

like.”<br />

Another<br />

voice piped<br />

up, “Hey, are<br />

there any<br />

World of Warcraft ducks yet?”<br />

Thus ended the first high-level, insiders-only<br />

meeting concerning today’s<br />

luncheon. And this is why there are<br />

tiny ducks perched in and<br />

around the flowers on each<br />

table. So to the clever<br />

observation, “Why a duck?”<br />

My carpool and I respond,<br />

“Why not?”<br />

Why not, indeed?<br />

More and more, I think that<br />

many of us start out as ugly<br />

ducklings. We’re small,<br />

vulnerable, open souls full<br />

of joy and exuberance. The lucky<br />

ducklings among us grow up to<br />

become their most magnificent swan<br />

selves.<br />

Not all ugly<br />

ducklings are<br />

lucky ducks.<br />

Some spend<br />

their entire<br />

lives swimming<br />

around<br />

the same<br />

muddy puddle.<br />

Others<br />

suffer terribly,<br />

trying so hard<br />

to be ordinary ducks, breaking their<br />

hearts trying to be smart or pretty or<br />

clever like the mallard ducks next<br />

door. These ugly ducklings never get<br />

to become the swans they truly are.<br />

But if we are<br />

very blessed<br />

ducks, we<br />

have someone<br />

who<br />

helps us on<br />

our way to<br />

becoming our<br />

swan selves.<br />

Often it’s a<br />

parent, a<br />

grandparent,<br />

a coach.<br />

For the children of Eagle Hill and their<br />

parents and all the people around<br />

them, we are all of us lucky ducks<br />

blessed with a lively community of<br />

heroes committed to helping us<br />

becoming our swan selves.<br />

And this is no ordinary bunch of runof-the-mill<br />

superheroes. Nope. The<br />

regular superheroes have it easy. They<br />

have urgent missions. The mean guys<br />

are so clearly evil, wearing bad<br />

clothes and black hats and bad hair.<br />

Usually they talk funny – and, I suspect,<br />

smell pretty bad. Against these<br />

villains set upon destroying the earth,<br />

the regular superheroes have cool outfits,<br />

nifty weapons, and endless<br />

resources. Many have loyal sidekicks<br />

or butlers to help out. Many times the<br />

battles are ferocious, but the heroes<br />

always beat<br />

the mean<br />

guys.<br />

However, the<br />

mean guys<br />

that the<br />

heroes of<br />

Eagle Hill face<br />

aren’t even<br />

really mean<br />

guys at all.<br />

They are all<br />

the hedges of fear, apathy, despair,<br />

doubt, surrounding the tangles of brilliance<br />

within each one of the ducks in<br />

your charge. Eagle Hill heroes wield<br />

encouragement, incredible skills, profound<br />

respect, keen insight and high<br />

expectations. You calmly resolve<br />

calamities with homework, lost clothing,<br />

bad pitches and adolescent angst.<br />

{For me personally, adolescent angst is<br />

enough to hurtle me under my bed<br />

with a new novel and a thick bar of<br />

dark chocolate.}<br />

But for the heroes of Eagle Hill, no<br />

matter. You tie ties. You teach children<br />

to make sense of letters and<br />

numbers and how to tell their own<br />

stories. You referee intense battles<br />

between best friends. You make sure<br />

that everyone learns, in his or her<br />

own special way. And you do so<br />

with humor, intelligence, grace and<br />

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astonishing ingenuity.<br />

You are all of you McGuivers of<br />

education. {I know, I know, I’m<br />

dating myself. For those of you<br />

who don’t know him, McGuiver<br />

was a television character who<br />

saved himself from certain doom<br />

every week by using his powerful<br />

scientific intellect and simple tools<br />

at hand. Paper clips could be fashioned<br />

into nuclear missiles. If you<br />

haven’t seen the show, look for it.<br />

Trust me; you’ll be amazed at what<br />

this guy can do.} For all of you as<br />

well, there are no big bombs or webs<br />

or flaming swords to use in facing<br />

your challenges. Your work is accomplished<br />

with books and projects and<br />

team cheers. You give the very best of<br />

what you have to offer, not in a single<br />

blaze of regular superhero glory, but<br />

rather in steady days, weeks and<br />

months. You create the powerful<br />

warm spirit that fills the school,<br />

which transforms ducks into swans,<br />

and ultimately sends swans out to<br />

their own special adventures.<br />

Yeah, regular superheroes get all<br />

the glory. They’re featured in<br />

movies and comic books and video<br />

games. But they don’t have anything<br />

on you guys. No masks,<br />

tights, or clever disguises could<br />

possibly hide your truest identity as<br />

special superheroes.<br />

We trust you with our ducks and you<br />

give us our swans.<br />

Many thanks to Louise and all of the<br />

parents who made the teacher luncheon<br />

such a special event for the staff.<br />

Students Go on Rafting Adventure<br />

Hmm. Highway<br />

closed. Not a<br />

good start. With a<br />

little help from Mr.<br />

Sylvestro, the<br />

intrepid crew,<br />

composed of<br />

teachers Hallie<br />

Buckingham,<br />

Sharon Plante,<br />

John Robbins, Brandon DeMunnick and Megan Aversano<br />

and Student Council members Michael Africk, Alex Basche,<br />

Nicholas Beck, Ian Boyle, Ryan Brennan, Jimmy Carlucci,<br />

Graham Cavanaugh, Stephanie da Silva, Brendan Donaher,<br />

Michael Esposito, Mark Feola, Ben Feguson, Julie Fields,<br />

Josh Furth, Chris Hopf, Caroline Lethbridge, Kaela LiVigni,<br />

Creighton Mann, James Overton, Courtney Peck, Nick<br />

Piliero, Nick Protopapas, Connor Schaney, Will Schink, Jack<br />

Stow, Ben Tice, Jack Tranmer, and Arielle Zweibach, took a<br />

one and a half hour detour to reach the starting point of<br />

their June rafting adventure. Due to the late hour, the paddling<br />

was frenetic as they sought to rush through the rapids<br />

of the Deerfield River in plenty of time to beat the closing<br />

of the dam and resultant low water level. Walking back to<br />

the vans was not on the agenda! After an evening’s recuperation<br />

of swimming,<br />

videos,<br />

games and pizza<br />

back at the<br />

Holyoke Holiday<br />

Inn, the group was<br />

ready to tackle Six<br />

Flags Amusement<br />

Park the next day.<br />

Destination Schools<br />

for Our “Graduates”<br />

American School in Switzerland<br />

Berkshire School<br />

Cheshire Academy<br />

Cushing Academy<br />

Easton Public Schools<br />

Fairfield Prep<br />

Fairfield Public Schools<br />

Forman School<br />

Harvey School<br />

Indian Mountain School<br />

King & Low Heywood, Thomas<br />

Marvelwood School<br />

Milford Public Schools<br />

New Canaan Public Schools<br />

New Haven Public Schools<br />

Phoenix Academy<br />

Ridgefield Public Schools<br />

Rowland Hall – St. Mark’s School,<br />

Utah<br />

Rumsey Hall<br />

Soundview School<br />

St. Luke’s School<br />

Unquowa School<br />

Westport Public Schools<br />

Wilton Public Schools<br />

Winston Prep<br />

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Alumni parents Jim and Joan McMahon have<br />

graciously agreed to host the 2008 spring<br />

benefit, a wild west extravaganza,<br />

on May 3, so Save the Date!!!!<br />

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Beach Day Barbecue Serves Up Fun<br />

For some, the morning’s chill and cloud cover would have<br />

dampened enthusiasm for a day at the beach. This was<br />

not the case for a school full of kids who looked forward to<br />

Beach Day all year long. And certainly not when the day<br />

began with a glider launch and Mento/soda dousing! Yes!<br />

Lessons wrought by the science teachers continued up until<br />

the moment of departure for Penfield Beach. Gliders were<br />

propelled from the roof by staff members to the accompaniment<br />

of rousing chanting by the creators. Next, teacher<br />

Bob Perry delighted the crowd with a recreation of the<br />

spectacular YouTube experiment in which a veritable Tivoli<br />

fountain erupted from a sinuous series of soda bottles with<br />

the addition of a few Mento lozenges. The Eagle Hill version<br />

was not as dramatic, but spurred students to a dizzy<br />

frolic in the sticky, staining, shower of soda.<br />

The scene at Penfield Beach was lively as students and staff<br />

competed in potato sack races and an egg toss, danced the<br />

limbo and for those interested, had their faces painted.<br />

Alumni Eric Anderson, Dennis White, James Brogan, Neil<br />

Doocy, Alex Cope, Chad Sterling and Holly and Parker Tod<br />

returned to partake of the culinary delights served up on<br />

the grill by chefs Tavormina, Sylvestro, Ruggiero and Fiallo.<br />

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Is it a Circus? Is it a Fair?<br />

No! It’s the Second Annual Pancake Breakfast<br />

and Southport Parade<br />

It was a day ripe for celebration. Aromatic roses climbed<br />

the white picket fences of Southport against a background<br />

of clear blue skies. In the harbor, boats with colorful flags<br />

strung up their masts lined up for the Blessing of the Fleet.<br />

On the school’s front lawn, teacher Bob Perry, unrecognizable<br />

in full clown make-up and a shaggy wig of bright yellow,<br />

red and blue, amazed visitors as he juggled scarves<br />

and performed magic tricks. Staff member Dede Warner<br />

and her equine companion circled the grass giving rides.<br />

Small children scampered about, their faces painted with<br />

kitten whiskers, their hands sporting turtles or frogs artfully<br />

applied by teachers Megan Aversano and Julie Papp. Many<br />

of those little faces and hands were sticky with maple syrup,<br />

remnants of the tasty treats offered in the common room by<br />

Jeff Ruggiero, Hallie Buckingham, Sharon Plante and John<br />

Robbins and a rotating cast of helpful staff. Over 360<br />

breakfasts were served as current and former students and<br />

members of the community stopped by. Alumni Jackson<br />

Skinner, Andrew Kostin, David Jackson, Brett Doonan,<br />

Kevin Gunderson, Billy Cole, Pasquale Malpeso, Max<br />

DeMonico, Jeffrey Emsweiller, Jason Margaritas, Ben<br />

Rountree, Kathryn Crum and Melissa Morgan were among<br />

those sampling the liberal platefuls of pancakes, bacon and<br />

sausages.<br />

A stirring drumroll signaled the start of the parade – a vision<br />

of small town America as fife and drum corps from around<br />

the region, clothed in colonial garb, marched down Main<br />

Street. The Southport Volunteer Fire Department, with our<br />

own Mario Fiallo in dress blues, was greeted with enthusiastic<br />

applause. Representing Eagle Hill were the McMahon<br />

family mini-horses, led by Joan McMahon carrying the<br />

school banner with Nicholas Pritchard, Eagle Hill staffers<br />

Susie Haydon, Brandon DeMunnick and Steve Sylvestro.<br />

Headmaster Len Tavormina summed up the day in a letter<br />

to the staff, “Balloons, face painting, clowns, real maple<br />

syrup, fruit salad, the best blueberry pancakes and miniature<br />

horses too! What a great day for Southport and the<br />

school and what a beautiful way to bring this fine year to a<br />

close! At a time when your energies were understandably<br />

fading you stepped forward and did a beautiful job welcoming<br />

friends and neighbors and celebrating the generous<br />

spirit at this little school by the harbor.”<br />

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Looking Ahead: Administrative Team Considers<br />

Changes at their Strategic Planning Retreat<br />

In a February letter addressed to<br />

members of the school community,<br />

headmaster Len Tavormina observed,<br />

“We continually review our program<br />

seeking to better serve our children<br />

and their families while improving the<br />

staff’s professional experience.” While<br />

this is an ongoing process, with weekly<br />

staff meetings and brainstorming<br />

sessions, senior staff members Len<br />

Tavormina, Steve Sylvestro, Hallie<br />

Buckingham, Jeff Ruggiero,<br />

Carolyn Lavender, John<br />

Robbins and Kathleen<br />

Gallagher, convened at the<br />

Yale Club in New York City<br />

the weekend of March 23<br />

for a Strategic Planning<br />

Retreat. Input from board<br />

members, staff, parents<br />

and alumni parents was<br />

considered. Listed below<br />

is a summary, in no particular<br />

order, of some of the<br />

decisions and changes that<br />

stemmed from the retreat.<br />

• Next year we will organize<br />

an “open house” for<br />

area professionals. At the end of<br />

each academic year we will also<br />

schedule an evening open house for<br />

parents and relatives of our newly<br />

accepted students who were unable<br />

to attend one earlier in the year.<br />

• Over the summer we will divide a<br />

larger classroom into two smaller<br />

ones to accommodate full enrollment<br />

and to give another teacher<br />

their own “home classroom.” We<br />

currently have two roaming teachers!<br />

• We are exploring other ways to regularly<br />

communicate with our parent<br />

body in such a way that does not<br />

interfere with the important relationship<br />

between our advisors and their<br />

student’s families. It is anticipated<br />

this will take the form of a bimonthly<br />

Headmaster letter.<br />

• We are reviewing ways to enhance<br />

David Sylvestro’s valuable contributions<br />

to the school community. We<br />

would like to make adjustments to<br />

his schedule and activities to give<br />

him additional opportunities to<br />

interact with children, parents and<br />

staff.<br />

• Beyond the regular communication<br />

between our staff and parents we<br />

would like to add another scheduled<br />

meeting at some point in their second<br />

year to review progress. We<br />

anticipate this will take place at<br />

conferencing time.<br />

• Veteran teacher Jill Hansen will join<br />

David Sylvestro and the supervisors<br />

in providing additional counseling<br />

and support to our transitioning students.<br />

We are exploring additional<br />

ways to advise and assist transitioning<br />

families.<br />

• In the fall the teaching staff will be<br />

organized into four distinct teams<br />

responsible for classroom instruction.<br />

We are also going back to a<br />

non-rotating academic schedule.<br />

This is the broadest and most comprehensive<br />

of our decisions and one<br />

that we anticipate will have a significant<br />

and positive impact on our student’s<br />

experience. We will provide<br />

further details in another communication.<br />

• Our academic calendar has been<br />

adjusted so that classroom instruction<br />

will begin after Labor Day.<br />

• The department head positions have<br />

been expanded to provide more<br />

leadership opportunities to experienced<br />

teachers. The following<br />

assignments have been made for the<br />

fall: Heather Humphries (literature),<br />

Megan Aversano (writing), Tom Peets<br />

(math), Sharon Plante<br />

(technology), Julie Igoe<br />

(science/social studies),<br />

Melissa Brown (tutorial<br />

II), and Kathleen<br />

Gallagher (Tutorial).<br />

• Additional lunch selections<br />

will be provided<br />

with a new staff monitored<br />

sandwich bar.<br />

More fresh produce will<br />

also be available at juice<br />

break.<br />

• The school will be seeking<br />

additional information<br />

on our students outside<br />

activities and achievements<br />

to be highlighted at morning<br />

assembly.<br />

• School assemblies will be expanded<br />

for art, music, science, and social<br />

studies.<br />

• We are exploring additional ways to<br />

incorporate the use of technology in<br />

our student’s experience. Carolyn<br />

Lavender will also be researching<br />

other computer programs that support<br />

and enrich classroom instruction.<br />

• The school will be modifying its curriculum<br />

to accommodate a younger<br />

student population. With this in<br />

mind we will also be expanding the<br />

athletic intramural program.<br />

Please feel free to contact any member<br />

of the administrative team should<br />

you have any questions or comments.<br />

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Eagle Hill<br />

214 Main Street, Southport, Connecticut 06890<br />

Telephone: 203-254-2044<br />

®<br />

Southport<br />

Non-Profit Org.<br />

U.S.Postage<br />

PAID<br />

Southport, CT<br />

Permit No. 48<br />

The Annual Fund Soars<br />

Annual Fund dollars help the<br />

school retain outstanding teachers,<br />

purchase team uniforms, upgrade<br />

computers, and generally keep the<br />

school humming. We extend a<br />

heartfelt thanks to all the friends of<br />

Eagle Hill-Southport who supported<br />

this year’s drive.<br />

PS: If you haven’t given yet, it’s not too late to get your gift in!<br />

2006-07 Annual Fund Team<br />

Members of the Annual Fund team at the winter<br />

phonathon: l to r, Hope Hetherington, Ling Moor, Libby<br />

Tritschler, Louise Foerster, Leda Milazzo, and Kelly Stewart.)<br />

The Annual Fund chalked up healthy numbers again this<br />

year. The number of donors is up an incredible 26% over<br />

the previous year thanks in large part to a talented and<br />

enthusiastic Annual Fund team. Kudos go to the entire<br />

team listed below and especially to its co-chairs, Ling Moor<br />

and Kelly Stewart.<br />

Ling Moor and Kelly Stewart<br />

Co-Chairs<br />

Karl Babikian<br />

Kristen Bartlett<br />

Kristen Begor<br />

Dale Brennan<br />

Dick Ferguson<br />

Louise Foerster<br />

Wendy Ford<br />

Hope Hetherington<br />

Susan Hood<br />

Carmela Kaufman<br />

Wendy MacCordy<br />

Leda Milazzo<br />

Laurie Raleigh<br />

Cindy Schinck<br />

Fran Signore<br />

Janie Shernow<br />

Jennifer Sterling<br />

Libby Tritschler<br />

Lauren Wagner<br />

Pat Willett

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