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contact with feared items (e.g. seat at the bank or<br />

doorknob), and not engag<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a preventative measure<br />

(e.g. wash<strong>in</strong>g hands). As time elapses the <strong>in</strong>dividuals<br />

fear or discomfort will naturally rise, but as new and<br />

corrective <strong>in</strong>formation is obta<strong>in</strong>ed (e.g. “I’m not gett<strong>in</strong>g<br />

ill from sitt<strong>in</strong>g at the bank”), the fear and discomfort<br />

decrease and fade. The <strong>in</strong>dividual learns that rituals are<br />

irrelevant to reduc<strong>in</strong>g the fear and discomfort. Over<br />

time with enough repeat exposures to these types of<br />

experiences, the strength of the <strong>in</strong>dividual’s obsessions,<br />

and frequency of compulsions, also decrease and fade.<br />

Cognitive Therapy uses similar, but more cognitivebased,<br />

techniques to help the <strong>in</strong>dividual identify,<br />

exam<strong>in</strong>e, and correct, misappraisals and erroneous beliefs<br />

that are understood to be central <strong>in</strong> ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g the<br />

OCD. F<strong>in</strong>ally, for some <strong>in</strong>dividuals, their symptoms<br />

are so severe and/or they are reluctant to try CBT, that<br />

medication is a preferred treatment option. Medications<br />

are prescribed by a physician or psychiatrist, and are<br />

generally best provided by someone with expertise <strong>in</strong> the<br />

treatment of OCD.<br />

How can I help my loved one?<br />

You are not alone if you are struggl<strong>in</strong>g to know how to<br />

best help your loved one. For many families, friends,<br />

and employers of <strong>in</strong>dividuals with OCD, it can take<br />

time to even recognize that the person is struggl<strong>in</strong>g<br />

with OCD. In fact, the average length of time to get a<br />

correct diagnosis is 7-12 years! Some common warn<strong>in</strong>g<br />

signs that your loved one may be struggl<strong>in</strong>g with OCD<br />

<strong>in</strong>clude:<br />

• Miss<strong>in</strong>g time- E.g. Your loved one cannot expla<strong>in</strong> how<br />

they spent the three hours <strong>in</strong> the bedroom.<br />

• Excessive time- E.g. Showers tak<strong>in</strong>g an hour, or other<br />

activities tak<strong>in</strong>g unusually long periods.<br />

• Rout<strong>in</strong>e rituals gone awry- E. g. Leav<strong>in</strong>g the home<br />

used to <strong>in</strong>volve a quick visual light switch check, and<br />

double doorknob twist, to ensure the home is secure.<br />

Now exit<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>volves a manual light switch check, and<br />

w<strong>in</strong>dow and door lock check <strong>in</strong> every room, 5-m<strong>in</strong>ute<br />

front door lock check, and more.<br />

• Gett<strong>in</strong>g stuck- E.g. Be<strong>in</strong>g unable to shift from one<br />

activity to another such as wash<strong>in</strong>g hands over and<br />

over, and be<strong>in</strong>g unable to move smoothly to the next<br />

bathroom task.<br />

• Reassurance seek<strong>in</strong>g- E.g. Ask<strong>in</strong>g for reassurance that<br />

th<strong>in</strong>gs are right, noth<strong>in</strong>g bad will happen, etc.<br />

• Check<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> unusual/excessive ways- E.g. Check<strong>in</strong>g<br />

with the waitress that a soda is free from contam<strong>in</strong>ants<br />

when the bottle is clearly new/sealed.<br />

• Poor attention and focus- E.g. Individuals may loose<br />

focus or have trouble attend<strong>in</strong>g due to engag<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong><br />

mental rituals<br />

For those whose loved one has already been diagnosed,<br />

there are several th<strong>in</strong>gs you can do to help:<br />

• Don’t say, “Stop it!”- Recogniz<strong>in</strong>g that OCD is a<br />

neuro-bio-behavioural disorder and not simply willful<br />

misbehavior is critical. As a result, it is not helpful<br />

to tell the person to “just stop it!” They would if they<br />

could.<br />

• Don’t engage <strong>in</strong>, or do rituals, for your loved one-<br />

Participat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the person’s rituals keeps the OCD<br />

alive. It might make it easier <strong>in</strong> the short-term to help<br />

your loved one complete a ritual, but it will make it<br />

harder <strong>in</strong> the long-term to release your loved one from<br />

the grip of OCD.<br />

• Do be supportive- Provid<strong>in</strong>g your loved one with<br />

accurate <strong>in</strong>formation about OCD, tak<strong>in</strong>g them to<br />

appo<strong>in</strong>tments, tell<strong>in</strong>g them you love and care about<br />

them, not stock<strong>in</strong>g up on supplies that encourage the<br />

rituals, and other actions, confirms your support.<br />

• Do provide corrective <strong>in</strong>formation – But don’t fall<br />

<strong>in</strong>to reassurance provision. There is a key difference<br />

between lett<strong>in</strong>g your loved one know that a reasonable<br />

time to shower is between 5-10 m<strong>in</strong>utes when they<br />

don’t have this <strong>in</strong>formation, versus tell<strong>in</strong>g them<br />

showers take 10 m<strong>in</strong>utes many times, every day, when<br />

your child/client clearly has this <strong>in</strong>formation. In the<br />

latter example you are feed<strong>in</strong>g the ritual.<br />

In Conclusion<br />

OCD is a highly debilitat<strong>in</strong>g disorder that affects<br />

approximately 2-3% of the population, often beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g<br />

<strong>in</strong> late childhood or early adolescence. The most<br />

common obsessions <strong>in</strong>clude themes of contam<strong>in</strong>ation,<br />

los<strong>in</strong>g control, and harm, although there are other<br />

themes that frequently present as obsessions. The<br />

most common compulsions are wash<strong>in</strong>g and clean<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

check<strong>in</strong>g, and repeat<strong>in</strong>g, although like obsessive themes,<br />

there is a range of compulsive behaviours that an<br />

<strong>in</strong>dividual with OCD may exhibit. Gett<strong>in</strong>g help for your<br />

loved one is critical and there are several well supported<br />

treatments that can provide relief. Speak<strong>in</strong>g with a<br />

professional is the most important first step you can take<br />

for your loved one, as this will allow him/her to beg<strong>in</strong><br />

the journey towards an improved quality of life.<br />

Information generously provided by the follow<strong>in</strong>g<br />

resources:<br />

www.iocdf.org<br />

www.anxietybc.com<br />

<strong>Hand</strong> <strong>in</strong> <strong>Hand</strong><br />

Fall 2015, Vol. 19 Issue 3

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