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PEOPLE<br />

Legends<br />

Political<br />

trailblazer<br />

by Otto Bruno<br />

More than two centuries after the formation<br />

of our American democracy, we are<br />

just now approaching a national election<br />

with the very real possibility of a female<br />

nominee on a major party ticket for president<br />

of the United States. When that happens,<br />

our nation will<br />

have trailblazers like Ella<br />

Tambussi Grasso to thank<br />

for paving the rocky road<br />

toward the acceptance of<br />

women in power in our<br />

public and political institutions.<br />

Grasso was the<br />

very first woman ever<br />

elected in her own right<br />

as governor of one of<br />

America’s 50 states. It<br />

was a monumental<br />

achievement in 1974, not<br />

only for a woman but also<br />

for a child of Italian immigrants.<br />

Ella Rosa Giovanna<br />

Oliva Tambussi was born<br />

and raised in Windsor<br />

Locks, Conn., on May 10,<br />

1919, to Maria and Giacomo<br />

Tambussi. She may<br />

have been an only child<br />

but she was not a lonely<br />

child, having grown up in<br />

a neighborhood filled<br />

with relatives and friends<br />

that her parents had<br />

known in Italy.<br />

She was close to both<br />

of her parents but her father was particularly<br />

dear to her. He started out as a machine<br />

operator and eventually opened a<br />

bakery in Windsor Locks with his brother.<br />

He went on to own a tavern before retiring<br />

as a partner in the Windsor Locks Machine<br />

Co. Grasso once admitted that her father<br />

“indulged and spoiled me.” In the biography<br />

“Ella Grasso: Connecticut’s Pioneering<br />

Governor” author Jon E. Purmont quotes<br />

Grasso’s son James as saying his mother<br />

“absolutely adored” her father and she felt<br />

a “greater tie to him rather than her<br />

mother.”<br />

She was devastated when her father<br />

died in 1971, saying, “I became a pathetic<br />

fifty-year old orphan.” In remembering her<br />

father’s influence she wrote, “He worked<br />

▲ ELLA GRASSO<br />

A woman of deep faith and unshakeable<br />

principles, she needed every<br />

ounce of her resolve to reach heights<br />

never before attained by a woman.<br />

long hours, six days a week but he always<br />

had time for me and he took me seriously.<br />

From him I learned respect for others and<br />

persistence. By his example, I learned one<br />

does not abandon a task. Quit? We didn’t<br />

quit anything.”<br />

She may have been emotionally closer<br />

to her father, but her mother had a decided<br />

influence on her daughter as well. Grasso’s<br />

parents encouraged educational advancement<br />

for their daughter from a very early<br />

age, making whatever sacrifices were necessary<br />

to send her to Catholic grammar<br />

school and later the prestigious Chaffee<br />

School. Neither of Grasso’s parents ever<br />

made it past the sixth grade, but she remembered<br />

them as “very intelligent and<br />

generous people.” Grasso grew up with a<br />

love for books and study, which no doubt<br />

was actively encouraged by her mother.<br />

She remembered that her mother believed<br />

that learning “was a special key to living …<br />

and … books were my ‘open-sesame’ to a<br />

whole new world.<br />

“My mother was self-taught,” Grasso<br />

wrote. “She had a quick wit and charm.<br />

She had great respect for learning and encouraged<br />

me in my studies.”<br />

Grasso had a series of important and<br />

influential mentors in her life beginning<br />

with her parents. In the eighth grade, a nun<br />

named Sister DeChantal, whom Grasso re-<br />

Continues on page 64 …<br />

FRA NOI for Com<strong>UNICO</strong> September 2015 63

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