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PEOPLE<br />
Legends<br />
Political<br />
trailblazer<br />
by Otto Bruno<br />
More than two centuries after the formation<br />
of our American democracy, we are<br />
just now approaching a national election<br />
with the very real possibility of a female<br />
nominee on a major party ticket for president<br />
of the United States. When that happens,<br />
our nation will<br />
have trailblazers like Ella<br />
Tambussi Grasso to thank<br />
for paving the rocky road<br />
toward the acceptance of<br />
women in power in our<br />
public and political institutions.<br />
Grasso was the<br />
very first woman ever<br />
elected in her own right<br />
as governor of one of<br />
America’s 50 states. It<br />
was a monumental<br />
achievement in 1974, not<br />
only for a woman but also<br />
for a child of Italian immigrants.<br />
Ella Rosa Giovanna<br />
Oliva Tambussi was born<br />
and raised in Windsor<br />
Locks, Conn., on May 10,<br />
1919, to Maria and Giacomo<br />
Tambussi. She may<br />
have been an only child<br />
but she was not a lonely<br />
child, having grown up in<br />
a neighborhood filled<br />
with relatives and friends<br />
that her parents had<br />
known in Italy.<br />
She was close to both<br />
of her parents but her father was particularly<br />
dear to her. He started out as a machine<br />
operator and eventually opened a<br />
bakery in Windsor Locks with his brother.<br />
He went on to own a tavern before retiring<br />
as a partner in the Windsor Locks Machine<br />
Co. Grasso once admitted that her father<br />
“indulged and spoiled me.” In the biography<br />
“Ella Grasso: Connecticut’s Pioneering<br />
Governor” author Jon E. Purmont quotes<br />
Grasso’s son James as saying his mother<br />
“absolutely adored” her father and she felt<br />
a “greater tie to him rather than her<br />
mother.”<br />
She was devastated when her father<br />
died in 1971, saying, “I became a pathetic<br />
fifty-year old orphan.” In remembering her<br />
father’s influence she wrote, “He worked<br />
▲ ELLA GRASSO<br />
A woman of deep faith and unshakeable<br />
principles, she needed every<br />
ounce of her resolve to reach heights<br />
never before attained by a woman.<br />
long hours, six days a week but he always<br />
had time for me and he took me seriously.<br />
From him I learned respect for others and<br />
persistence. By his example, I learned one<br />
does not abandon a task. Quit? We didn’t<br />
quit anything.”<br />
She may have been emotionally closer<br />
to her father, but her mother had a decided<br />
influence on her daughter as well. Grasso’s<br />
parents encouraged educational advancement<br />
for their daughter from a very early<br />
age, making whatever sacrifices were necessary<br />
to send her to Catholic grammar<br />
school and later the prestigious Chaffee<br />
School. Neither of Grasso’s parents ever<br />
made it past the sixth grade, but she remembered<br />
them as “very intelligent and<br />
generous people.” Grasso grew up with a<br />
love for books and study, which no doubt<br />
was actively encouraged by her mother.<br />
She remembered that her mother believed<br />
that learning “was a special key to living …<br />
and … books were my ‘open-sesame’ to a<br />
whole new world.<br />
“My mother was self-taught,” Grasso<br />
wrote. “She had a quick wit and charm.<br />
She had great respect for learning and encouraged<br />
me in my studies.”<br />
Grasso had a series of important and<br />
influential mentors in her life beginning<br />
with her parents. In the eighth grade, a nun<br />
named Sister DeChantal, whom Grasso re-<br />
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