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Class Notes<br />

fondly remember Mary and Frank from<br />

school.) Also with us at the incredibly<br />

moving ceremony (with full military<br />

honors: 21-gun salute, horse-drawn<br />

caisson, presenting of the American<br />

flag—to our Slats— on behalf of a<br />

grateful nation) were Meg Shields<br />

Duke and Jamie, Margot Mahoney<br />

Budin, Lisa Nelson Robertson, Sally<br />

Old Kitchin, Sally Mott Freeman and<br />

John, Maggie Shriver ’77 and Becky<br />

Dane Evans ’78.<br />

“Jim and I were in ME twice (once<br />

visiting Gray Thomas Payne ’75 and<br />

Tom in June in charming Camden and<br />

again in the fall with my Winnetka<br />

Book Club in Kennebunkport. While in<br />

ME I discovered my relative Hannibal<br />

Hamlin’s beautiful gravesite in Bangor<br />

and his eponymous dormitory at<br />

University of ME. (Little known Hannibal<br />

was Lincoln’s first Veep, Governor, U.S.<br />

Congressman, and U.S. Senator from<br />

ME and Ambassador to Spain.) In mid-<br />

Aug., Margot Mahoney and I spent<br />

a few delightful days in NYC (stayed in<br />

the much updated, now chic boutique<br />

hotel we lived in as students during J<br />

term our sophomore year studying with<br />

Mr. James). She and I saw “Hamilton”<br />

on Broadway— couldn’t believe how<br />

FAB it is! Jim and I took a “heaven on<br />

earth” Tauck river trip up The Danube<br />

in Sept. I don’t think we will ever forget<br />

those special memories…<br />

“If you find yourself anywhere near<br />

Scott Stadium on game day, we hope<br />

you’ll join us at our tailgate, where<br />

Jim’s passion for UVa keeps us busy<br />

during much of the fall. (His license<br />

plate is DBLHOO.) In fact, he and I<br />

both celebrated Reunions the same<br />

weekend this past June. As much fun<br />

as it was being back on our beautiful<br />

campus, and as terrific as the Class<br />

of ’76 Friday night dinner was, we<br />

departed for Charlottesville Saturday,<br />

and I was sad to miss seeing some of<br />

you and our class picture; first one I<br />

have not been in!<br />

“I’m very fortunate to have both<br />

my parents still alive and in relatively<br />

good health. Mother and Dad will turn<br />

90 this year. Mother had a cochlear<br />

implant, which has improved her life<br />

and ours! I get to see them a couple<br />

times a year in Akron and Naples, FL.<br />

Both my children (Caroline 28, Hollis<br />

23) are out of school and employed as<br />

I write, whew!<br />

“I spend the rest of my time as a<br />

passionate volunteer at The Virginia<br />

Home—a wonderful residence (these<br />

lovely folk hold a special place in my<br />

heart) for permanently disabled people<br />

in my new town of Richmond. I was<br />

elected to the board or trustees in<br />

2015. I’ve joined The Woman’s Club<br />

and The Tuckahoe Woman’s Club and<br />

am getting into the swing of things in<br />

our new home. But I haven’t broken<br />

ties with Chicago, still going back almost<br />

monthly for my theater subscription<br />

groups and dear book club pals,<br />

now together for 17 years! And this<br />

Dec. Jim, the children and I will host<br />

our 16th Annual Christmas Eve coat<br />

and tie sit-down dinner at our home<br />

with the same 37 friends we have been<br />

‘caroling and turkeying’ with since our<br />

family moved to Winnetka! We all love<br />

the tradition and I intend to keep it up<br />

for a few more years (being a ’76er—<br />

who ‘can’t say no!’)”<br />

Here’s Andy Yellot’s submission,<br />

verbatim: “Howdy! So sorry I couldn’t<br />

get to our big 4-0 Reunion last spring,<br />

but I didn’t have any Pink and Green<br />

clothes, so I figured I wouldn’t be<br />

allowed on the campus. :-) Anyway,<br />

life continues to roll along. I’m still<br />

working at Johns Hopkins University’s<br />

CTY Online Programs (along with my<br />

husband, Ben) supervising a number<br />

of writing courses/instructors/students<br />

in distance education. And, because<br />

Ben and I work in Academia, we can<br />

never retire. I routinely help out my 87<br />

y/o mom, who moved to a wonderful<br />

retirement community 15 months ago<br />

and is still living independently with<br />

her 2 dogs but, unfortunately, not her<br />

car, which she totaled a month after<br />

she moved in, thereby necessitating 4<br />

months in Rehab; I am now her official<br />

chauffeur. I have two Coonhounds,<br />

Brosif and Caper, who are Therapy<br />

Dogs spreading love, joy, and comfort<br />

at retirement communities, schools,<br />

colleges, and wherever else they<br />

might be needed. I also still have my<br />

Irish Cobb, McBlarney O’Pony (O’Pie),<br />

who spent the past year-plus (at the<br />

same time mom was recovering) at<br />

death’s door fighting a mysterious<br />

illness, the cause of which was never<br />

fully diagnosed. I have recently begun<br />

riding him again, and have my fingers<br />

crossed that he will remain healthy.<br />

Between my mother and my pony, I<br />

have learned a huge amount about<br />

human and equine medicine over the<br />

past year. Both my sons, Benet and<br />

Andrew, are still my little boys, despite<br />

their protestations to the contrary; I’m<br />

sure all you moms can relate! Thus, I’m<br />

officially a member of the Sandwich<br />

Generation, worrying about both my<br />

mother and my sons, whilst working<br />

full-time. I’ll get a vacation some year.<br />

Maybe. In the meantime, I still revel in<br />

the fact that our beloved <strong>Sweet</strong> <strong>Briar</strong> is<br />

alive and well!”<br />

Becky Wilson McDonough is the<br />

CEO of the Hopewell/Prince George<br />

Chamber of Commerce & Visitors<br />

Center, a recently expanded community<br />

role. She and Steve live on the<br />

James River farm in PG County, VA;<br />

are empty-nesters with weddings on<br />

the horizon for kids. She stays in close<br />

touch with Missy Briscoe McNatt,<br />

Melanie Coyne Cody, Adele Patricia<br />

Neal, and Jody Anderson Wharton.<br />

Ainslie Jones Uhl reported,<br />

”Robert and I moved back to Raleigh,<br />

NC after 7 years in Del Mar, CA.—we<br />

missed our East Coast life and our<br />

families. Robert is continuing as managing<br />

director for Westwicke Partners,<br />

with a regular bicoastal commute. I<br />

am working on the renovation of our<br />

dilapidated 1926 house and training<br />

our rambunctious curly coated retriever<br />

Stella. Youngest son Henry is a junior<br />

(philosophy major) at the University<br />

of Miami, oldest son Hart just got his<br />

master’s in Columbia University’s SIPA<br />

program, youngest daughter Everett<br />

works in DC in sustainable energy, and<br />

oldest daughter Colbern works in NYC in<br />

culinary media/branding. Now that we’re<br />

back, I am very happy to be able to get<br />

together with Ebet Little Stevens ’77 for<br />

lunch and cocktails on a regular basis!”<br />

Kelsey Canady Grice submitted<br />

the following: I’m sitting here in my<br />

home in Virginia Beach waiting for<br />

Bruce Fisher, UVa, Theta Delt, to arrive<br />

from NJ with wife Beth, as he will be a<br />

guest lecturer at the business school<br />

at William and Mary Monday! How<br />

we have come full circle! Some days<br />

I’m so grown up, and yet there are<br />

still some days I’m the same kid that<br />

arrived at SBC clueless.<br />

“We are well, and enjoying the end<br />

of summer. I work as a yacht broker<br />

in the family brokerage on the ICW<br />

in Chesapeake. The fall is extremely<br />

busy, and the weather spectacular,<br />

so we love it now, less so in Jan. Son<br />

Parker has joined the business, and<br />

we are thrilled. It is a joy to have him<br />

with us everyday. Daughter McKenzie<br />

is still performing on Royal Carribbean<br />

Cruise Lines, currently on the Brilliance,<br />

just completed summer in the Baltic,<br />

and home for a short visit. Husband<br />

Chuck and I had unexpected renovation<br />

of our home this summer and really<br />

embraced the 104 degree days as<br />

we grilled dinner daily outside. We<br />

travel up and down the East Coast for<br />

work accompanied by Emma Divine,<br />

our golden. We had a lovely break at<br />

the Costa d’esta in Vero Beach, FL<br />

and they were wonderful to our pup.<br />

If you travel with your dog, we highly<br />

recommend the Estebans’ hotel on the<br />

beach, and the town in general. That’s<br />

it! We work hard, we play hard, and we<br />

try to stay in touch.”<br />

Virginia Spangler Polley wrote,<br />

“David and I are recovering from son<br />

Frank’s wedding in June. He and his<br />

bride have both started MBA programs—she<br />

at Wharton in Philadelphia,<br />

and he at the Stern School of Business<br />

in NYC. I am still showing horses,<br />

and David and I are traveling. We just<br />

returned from a river cruise in the south<br />

of France. We are busy and well.”<br />

Trish Talbot Reed remarked that<br />

“seeing so many people at our 40th<br />

Reunion was a highlight of the summer.<br />

I particularly enjoyed seeing and catching<br />

up with Melanie Holland Rice<br />

and Lori Neasham Keegan—it had<br />

been many, many years since we had<br />

been together. Tom and I welcomed a<br />

granddaughter to our family this year<br />

and enjoy visiting every chance we get.<br />

Our family spent a week at the beach<br />

in Corolla, and I am currently taking<br />

a Master Gardener class, which I am<br />

thoroughly enjoying.”<br />

Ann Works “Workado” Balderston<br />

wrote, “I am at the tail end of 4<br />

months at our place in Jackson, WY.<br />

Lots of hikes, riding, animal sightings,<br />

and best of all, time with our 2 daughters<br />

Sarah ’09 and Maggie ’11, who<br />

live here. I am anxiously awaiting Biv’s<br />

retirement so that we can both be here<br />

for at least 6 months. If anybody heads<br />

this way in the summer, be in touch<br />

with me. Would love to see you! Will be<br />

home and in Rochester soon and looking<br />

forward to getting to NYC to see<br />

son John, who works and lives there.<br />

Was so sorry to miss our reunion, but<br />

things get busy in Wyoming with family<br />

and friends!”<br />

Lisa Nelson Roberts is still very<br />

active in her community. She founded<br />

Changing Seasons, a speaker series. A<br />

variety of nationally known inspirational<br />

speakers to share their stories of hope<br />

and joy with the women of Va. Beach<br />

and Norfolk community. Richmond now<br />

has their own series and Liz Jenks<br />

Carden helps lead it there. Liz and<br />

Lisa must have been inspired by their<br />

time at <strong>Sweet</strong> <strong>Briar</strong>. You can check it<br />

out at www.changing seasons.com.<br />

She remains involved leading Faithful<br />

Beginnings—a school readiness<br />

guide to help children ages 0-5. Faith<br />

foundations are partnered with school<br />

readiness activities. It is designed to<br />

help parents and grandparents prepare<br />

their children as they learn how to<br />

learn. Lisa also remains involved in<br />

teaching a women’s Bible study at her<br />

church. Her children are spread around<br />

the country, LA, NJ, DC and Va. Beach.<br />

She has 6 grandchildren and her second<br />

daughter, Elizabeth, is expecting<br />

twins girls any day (she has a 3 and 1<br />

year old). Tim and Lisa will celebrate<br />

our 40th anniversary in 2017. Time<br />

flies when you are having fun, and she<br />

is having fun with family and friends.<br />

She regularly sees “Saint” Sally Old<br />

Kitchin and her growing family, and<br />

“Kevin”—the grandmother name for<br />

Ann Kiley Crenshaw. Lisa’s alias is<br />

“Honey.” They have been known to<br />

“Whine and Wine”—a favorite time for<br />

all of them.<br />

Asimina Coroneos wrote, ”My<br />

2nd son, James, got married in May<br />

to a wonderful young lady, Kiki. He has<br />

served as a Marine, 4 years active and<br />

4 years reserve. My 3rd son, Theo, is<br />

starting his own wood making business.<br />

His specialty is coffee tables and<br />

SWEET BRIAR MAGAZINE | SBC.EDU 63

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