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That very hatred now seems to have found a mainstream<br />

voice. It doesn’t matter which side you are on<br />

in the debate, we vilify the other side and are not willing<br />

to listen to the reasons behind the blind rage and<br />

hatred. Instead of working out compromises we stand<br />

our ground and declare we have the only correct path.<br />

The art of compromise has been opposed as if it<br />

shows weakness instead of providing a strong position<br />

to move forward. We are not willing to give up on any<br />

point instead of crafting a workable solution to the issues<br />

facing us. No wonder the United States Congress<br />

has been unable to accomplish very much. The legislators<br />

yell across the aisle at each other and say, “It’s<br />

your fault; you won’t listen to us!”<br />

If, as an association, we were to sit at the negotiations<br />

table and declare, “You have to do everything<br />

our way,” we would get nowhere and would not have<br />

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won some important language already in our Master<br />

Agreement. The art of win-win is being lost. The simple<br />

fact is, in order to get along, we must be able to<br />

have some victories on each side. Everyone wants to<br />

believe they are getting something valuable when the<br />

negotiations are completed, or the laws are written or<br />

an agreement is reached.<br />

We should not be living by the creed, “I want what<br />

I want and I will not settle for anything less.” Sometimes<br />

you will get all that you want, but other times<br />

you may get part of what you need. This all or nothing<br />

attitude works once in a while, but it is unsustainable.<br />

It doesn’t have to be this way. I believe that most of<br />

us don’t believe public discourse should be handled<br />

like this. We need to start speaking up and leading the<br />

way to help turn the conversation around to bring<br />

about more productive and inclusive outcomes.<br />

TABCO-RETIRED, a part of a “Second Life” for educators<br />

Staying involved and continuing to make a difference is<br />

as important to retired TABCO members as it was when<br />

they were in the classroom. In this second year of its existence,<br />

the TABCO-Retired Committee continues to work on<br />

keeping our fellow retirees informed and connected. We<br />

have just mailed out our third edition of the TABCO-R<br />

Messenger, a newsletter for retired members and have an<br />

entertaining and informative “Fall Forum” planned that<br />

will take place on November 1, from 8:30 a.m. to 12:30<br />

p.m. at Oak Crest Village, featuring a keynote address<br />

entitled “Redefining Retirement: Finding Passion, Purpose<br />

and Engagement.” If you know a retired TABCO<br />

member who may not be on our mailing list, let them<br />

know that they can contact the committee chair at<br />

bookends68@comcast.net to register for this free event.<br />

Our membership has grown by 31% since we began in<br />

the spring of 2014, but more importantly, we are working<br />

to increase participation in a variety of activities.<br />

We are off to a good start this year, having once again<br />

obtained funding from MSEA after submitting a grant proposal<br />

to the Innovative Engagement & Organizing Program.<br />

As the retiree population grows, other locals around<br />

the state are starting their own retiree<br />

branches. There is far too much expertise<br />

and talent residing in our retirees to<br />

shut the door on those who have the desire<br />

to contribute in their “second lives.”<br />

Currently, two of our retirees are leading a series of<br />

workshops to teach parents to help their children learn to<br />

read and write through a joint PTA Council/BCPS/TABCO<br />

project called Read for Life.<br />

Retired members continue to be a primary source of<br />

degreed substitutes for the school system (in spite of the<br />

low pay as compared to active employment). Several of<br />

our members have come to the rescue already this year in<br />

schools with desperate need of long-term substitutes.<br />

For those who weather all of the challenges of teaching<br />

in today’s difficult climate, retirement is coming...sooner or<br />

later. We will be here for you when you arrive—and looking<br />

forward to having you join with us and your retired<br />

colleagues.<br />

TABCO-Retired Committee: Carol Dann, Stephanie<br />

Foy, Angela Leitzer, Cindy North, Barbara Tyler, Mary<br />

Ellen Vecchioni, Cheryl Vourvoulas<br />

who may be unavailable after school for various reasons.<br />

In any case, educators cannot avoid being models<br />

of attitudes, behaviors, and beliefs. What do we<br />

teach our students through our interactions with them<br />

and with the other adults around them? How do students<br />

perceive their places within the sphere of our<br />

influence? What practical skills can we demonstrate to<br />

prepare them to stand up for themselves when they<br />

face put-downs, bullying, emotional blackmail or<br />

worse?<br />

We operate in an environment that does not allot<br />

time for much beyond covering the curriculum (with<br />

lots of problematic requirements related to new grading<br />

guidelines), but we can, and in fact, do, teach kids<br />

every day who they are. Through an instinctive impulse<br />

to prepare the child that she cared for, Aibileen<br />

Clark, the maid of the household in The Help, taught<br />

her young charge by repeating these simple words to<br />

her, “You is kind. You is smart. You is important.”<br />

A poem that has been around since the 1950’s expresses<br />

pretty clearly the concept that “Children Learn<br />

What They Live”—here are a few lines: “If children<br />

live with encouragement, they learn to be confident...If children<br />

live with approval, they learn to like themselves…If<br />

children live with acceptance, they learn to find love in the<br />

world...If children live with honesty and fairness, they learn<br />

what truth and justice are.”<br />

Hopefully, if children live with teachers who model<br />

strength and mutual respect, they learn to stand up for<br />

themselves--and refrain from harassing others. We’ve<br />

all had that teacher somewhere along the way--she (or<br />

he) was the one who made us want to follow in her (or<br />

his) educator footsteps.<br />

Every generation has faced its own version of challenges,<br />

but perhaps none has been so bombarded in so<br />

many ways by confusing messages as the kids coming<br />

through classroom doors today. All the academic rigor<br />

that can be stuffed into them will not compensate for a<br />

lack of life skills.<br />

1<br />

www.usnews.com/news/articles/2014/04/06/study-sexual-harassmentfrequent-among-middle-school-students<br />

2<br />

www.nwlc.org/sites/default/files/pdfs/<br />

nwlcharassbullying_titleixfactsheet.pdf<br />

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