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That very hatred now seems to have found a mainstream<br />
voice. It doesn’t matter which side you are on<br />
in the debate, we vilify the other side and are not willing<br />
to listen to the reasons behind the blind rage and<br />
hatred. Instead of working out compromises we stand<br />
our ground and declare we have the only correct path.<br />
The art of compromise has been opposed as if it<br />
shows weakness instead of providing a strong position<br />
to move forward. We are not willing to give up on any<br />
point instead of crafting a workable solution to the issues<br />
facing us. No wonder the United States Congress<br />
has been unable to accomplish very much. The legislators<br />
yell across the aisle at each other and say, “It’s<br />
your fault; you won’t listen to us!”<br />
If, as an association, we were to sit at the negotiations<br />
table and declare, “You have to do everything<br />
our way,” we would get nowhere and would not have<br />
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won some important language already in our Master<br />
Agreement. The art of win-win is being lost. The simple<br />
fact is, in order to get along, we must be able to<br />
have some victories on each side. Everyone wants to<br />
believe they are getting something valuable when the<br />
negotiations are completed, or the laws are written or<br />
an agreement is reached.<br />
We should not be living by the creed, “I want what<br />
I want and I will not settle for anything less.” Sometimes<br />
you will get all that you want, but other times<br />
you may get part of what you need. This all or nothing<br />
attitude works once in a while, but it is unsustainable.<br />
It doesn’t have to be this way. I believe that most of<br />
us don’t believe public discourse should be handled<br />
like this. We need to start speaking up and leading the<br />
way to help turn the conversation around to bring<br />
about more productive and inclusive outcomes.<br />
TABCO-RETIRED, a part of a “Second Life” for educators<br />
Staying involved and continuing to make a difference is<br />
as important to retired TABCO members as it was when<br />
they were in the classroom. In this second year of its existence,<br />
the TABCO-Retired Committee continues to work on<br />
keeping our fellow retirees informed and connected. We<br />
have just mailed out our third edition of the TABCO-R<br />
Messenger, a newsletter for retired members and have an<br />
entertaining and informative “Fall Forum” planned that<br />
will take place on November 1, from 8:30 a.m. to 12:30<br />
p.m. at Oak Crest Village, featuring a keynote address<br />
entitled “Redefining Retirement: Finding Passion, Purpose<br />
and Engagement.” If you know a retired TABCO<br />
member who may not be on our mailing list, let them<br />
know that they can contact the committee chair at<br />
bookends68@comcast.net to register for this free event.<br />
Our membership has grown by 31% since we began in<br />
the spring of 2014, but more importantly, we are working<br />
to increase participation in a variety of activities.<br />
We are off to a good start this year, having once again<br />
obtained funding from MSEA after submitting a grant proposal<br />
to the Innovative Engagement & Organizing Program.<br />
As the retiree population grows, other locals around<br />
the state are starting their own retiree<br />
branches. There is far too much expertise<br />
and talent residing in our retirees to<br />
shut the door on those who have the desire<br />
to contribute in their “second lives.”<br />
Currently, two of our retirees are leading a series of<br />
workshops to teach parents to help their children learn to<br />
read and write through a joint PTA Council/BCPS/TABCO<br />
project called Read for Life.<br />
Retired members continue to be a primary source of<br />
degreed substitutes for the school system (in spite of the<br />
low pay as compared to active employment). Several of<br />
our members have come to the rescue already this year in<br />
schools with desperate need of long-term substitutes.<br />
For those who weather all of the challenges of teaching<br />
in today’s difficult climate, retirement is coming...sooner or<br />
later. We will be here for you when you arrive—and looking<br />
forward to having you join with us and your retired<br />
colleagues.<br />
TABCO-Retired Committee: Carol Dann, Stephanie<br />
Foy, Angela Leitzer, Cindy North, Barbara Tyler, Mary<br />
Ellen Vecchioni, Cheryl Vourvoulas<br />
who may be unavailable after school for various reasons.<br />
In any case, educators cannot avoid being models<br />
of attitudes, behaviors, and beliefs. What do we<br />
teach our students through our interactions with them<br />
and with the other adults around them? How do students<br />
perceive their places within the sphere of our<br />
influence? What practical skills can we demonstrate to<br />
prepare them to stand up for themselves when they<br />
face put-downs, bullying, emotional blackmail or<br />
worse?<br />
We operate in an environment that does not allot<br />
time for much beyond covering the curriculum (with<br />
lots of problematic requirements related to new grading<br />
guidelines), but we can, and in fact, do, teach kids<br />
every day who they are. Through an instinctive impulse<br />
to prepare the child that she cared for, Aibileen<br />
Clark, the maid of the household in The Help, taught<br />
her young charge by repeating these simple words to<br />
her, “You is kind. You is smart. You is important.”<br />
A poem that has been around since the 1950’s expresses<br />
pretty clearly the concept that “Children Learn<br />
What They Live”—here are a few lines: “If children<br />
live with encouragement, they learn to be confident...If children<br />
live with approval, they learn to like themselves…If<br />
children live with acceptance, they learn to find love in the<br />
world...If children live with honesty and fairness, they learn<br />
what truth and justice are.”<br />
Hopefully, if children live with teachers who model<br />
strength and mutual respect, they learn to stand up for<br />
themselves--and refrain from harassing others. We’ve<br />
all had that teacher somewhere along the way--she (or<br />
he) was the one who made us want to follow in her (or<br />
his) educator footsteps.<br />
Every generation has faced its own version of challenges,<br />
but perhaps none has been so bombarded in so<br />
many ways by confusing messages as the kids coming<br />
through classroom doors today. All the academic rigor<br />
that can be stuffed into them will not compensate for a<br />
lack of life skills.<br />
1<br />
www.usnews.com/news/articles/2014/04/06/study-sexual-harassmentfrequent-among-middle-school-students<br />
2<br />
www.nwlc.org/sites/default/files/pdfs/<br />
nwlcharassbullying_titleixfactsheet.pdf<br />
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