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Conspiracies of silence Create Monsters<br />
Austin Rhodes<br />
The wiTnesses COnTinUe TO PiLe UP as allegations spanning decades destroy<br />
the carefully fabricated image of a man once thought to be a champion of feminism,<br />
and a well-heeled benefactor for every left-wing political cause and politician that<br />
came down the pike.<br />
What makes the horrific list of alleged crimes committed by Hollywood mogul<br />
Harvey Weinstein even more unconscionable is the fact that many of his accusers are<br />
among the Tinseltown elite — women who collectively have worn their progressive<br />
politics on their sleeves like golden chevrons, pushing their female empowerment<br />
agenda at every possible opportunity.<br />
God bless them, I admire their quest for equality, and I support it without hesitation.<br />
Unfortunately, as they breathlessly told the world how “nasty” they were willing to<br />
be in the fight against horrible men like Donald Trump, they forgot to get “nasty”<br />
when confronted by the very real threat reportedly posed by Weinstein. (See accuser<br />
Ashley Judd’s speech of 1-14-2017 for the full “nasty” diatribe.)<br />
If Weinstein’s alleged list of victims were secretaries, interns, unsuccessful actresses,<br />
and put-upon wannabes, the conspiracy of silence that apparently allowed this guy<br />
free reign over countless innocent women would be understandable. Indefensible and<br />
horrific, but logical nonetheless. People with no power, particularly the nameless and<br />
faceless denizens of Hollywood’s minion class, would stand no chance involved in a<br />
legal dispute, or making evidence-free allegations, against a man the likes of Harvey<br />
Weinstein.<br />
Certainly if he is guilty, that would be the reason he picked the aforementioned<br />
nameless and faceless, etc., etc., etc.<br />
But wait, he didn’t.<br />
The bold executive apparently didn’t limit his prey to the worker bees who would<br />
not have had the ability to take him on. Check out the A-list actresses who are now<br />
accusing Weinstein, and woefully admitting that they should have taken a stand<br />
against him many, many years ago.<br />
You have seen the names, Gwyneth Paltrow and Angelina Jolie stand out among<br />
them, who continued to make movies with the man who according to their mea culpas,<br />
harassed them early in their careers. No lawsuits followed, no calls to the powerful<br />
Hollywood unions that wield enormous influence and power, no protests or speeches<br />
in front of the studio gates.<br />
As much of a hypocritical disconnect as there happens to be in the case of Weinstein<br />
and his myriad entertainment industry accusers, perhaps we should step back and<br />
acknowledge that the powerlessness and fear women naturally often have in their<br />
struggle against such attacks is so overwhelmingly destructive that the expectations<br />
of rational thought and logical conclusions have no place in the conversation.<br />
As a father/husband/son, I can attest that anger, fear and concern over my own<br />
loved ones’ well being and fair treatment in such an atmosphere would transcend any<br />
hope for “cooler heads prevailing.” Back in 1969, it was the reason my own Mother<br />
opted not to tell my Dad when her middle-aged boss physically assaulted her for “not<br />
moving fast enough” on an errand in the office. “Your Dad would have killed him!” she<br />
admitted. Had the bastard been alive when I heard about it, there would have also<br />
been trouble, but I digress.<br />
But here is the thing: No one can ever help, and we shouldn’t expect changes in<br />
the aberrant behavior, if the culprit is not aggressively reported and pursued. Sexual<br />
predators and abusers continue along their merry way until they are either caught, or<br />
they die.<br />
Every single time.<br />
Longtime area residents learned this the hard way a few years back when a local TV<br />
icon was named as one of the worst serial sex abusers ever caught in the area... I wrote<br />
about it in this very space:<br />
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“As the testimony of several of his victims echoed through the courtroom, the<br />
stunned silence of his friends and colleagues was reminiscent of the years of silence<br />
that came after the described attacks. How did these horrible deeds stay quiet for so<br />
long?<br />
What I am about to say may sound harsh, but it comes as a most serious admonition:<br />
As parents in this society, we must communicate to our children that they have<br />
a responsibility to report such horrific activity, not just to punish the guilty, but to<br />
protect future victims.<br />
There are grown men and women in every corner of this community that were once<br />
victims of sexual predators in ways some of us could never imagine. It is imperative that<br />
these people report their stories to the proper authorities, and that their tormentors<br />
are identified.<br />
Had just ONE of the dozens of victims had spoken out decades ago, there is no<br />
telling how many innocents would have been spared his disgusting proclivities, and<br />
how many lives could have been saved. Victims in such cases have a responsibility to<br />
“recover,” and then as soon as humanly possible, report.<br />
It may be difficult to put that kind of pressure on a teen, or a child even younger,<br />
but certainly as maturity comes and as the birthdays pass, there comes a time when<br />
they understand what happened to them was wrong, and the “wrongness” is only<br />
compounded by their silence.”<br />
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I have no special insight or knowledge of the Weinstein cases, but the pattern of<br />
his alleged behavior is a phenomenon with which I am extremely familiar. The above<br />
passage was written by me in 2007, in regards to the victims of Ed Meloan.<br />
Meloan was better known to generations of young Augusta area TV viewers as<br />
Channel 12’s “Shock Theater” host, “Count Justin Sane.”<br />
Little did we know, he really was.<br />
For decades, the man molested young men in his home, and who knows where else,<br />
and he got away with it because his victims all remained silent. Untold dozens of them.<br />
For years.<br />
In 2007, one came forward. Then came many more. Just like in the Weinstein case.<br />
Meloan entered guilty pleas for his crimes that will keep him in prison for the rest<br />
of his miserable life, but what a shame that the silence of his first victim, and second,<br />
and third, and fourth, etc., was as much an ally in his continued perverted escapades<br />
as the depraved wife who assisted him in his acts.<br />
While I hope that truth will out, and justice will prevail in whatever Weinstein did, or<br />
didn’t do, we must as a society find a way to bring sexual assault victims into the light<br />
so their tormentors do not benefit from their collective silence.<br />
The fire trucks do not arrive until someone pulls an alarm. No murderer is ever<br />
punished until someone reports his deeds. And you better believe sexual predators<br />
will continue unabated unless their victims find the strength and will to report their<br />
crimes.<br />
Just like the notorious British TV personality Jimmy Savile put collective silence<br />
to great use, every sexual predator on the planet is empowered by the submission of<br />
those they target.<br />
It does sound harsh, but it is nonetheless true, that while a victim of sexual assault is<br />
never to blame for their own attack, their intentional silence provides cover, assistance<br />
and encouragement for the attacks that follow.<br />
Blame the victims? No. Remind them that they have a responsibility to their fellow<br />
man to warn them of the evil in their midst?<br />
Damn straight. Every time.<br />
AUSTIN RHODES A long-time radio talk show host who can be heard weekdays on WGAC from<br />
3-6 p.m. The views expressed are the opinions of Austin Rhodes and do not necessarily represent<br />
the views of the publisher.<br />
19OCTOBER2017<br />
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