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TEACHING OBJECTIVES
• To understand the importance of family priority
for successful leadership.
• To identify and apply principles for developing
strong family relationships.
• A challenge to prioritize family in a leader’s life and to model healthy
family life.
FAMILY VALUES
AS A PRIORITY
WORKSHOP
Reflect personally on the following questions. Then, discuss
the matter with other conference participants and pray for
each other’s family.
• How would you evaluate yourself against the standards for
leadership?
• What are some areas where you see the need for
personal growth?
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INTRODUCTION: THE CHALLENGE OF FAMILY PRIORITY
The family unit is the foundation for all cultures. It constitutes the root of every nation.
However, this unique institution is not without challenges.
Negative forces threaten to weaken and destroy family
structures in every human society. In modern societies, the
divorce rate is high and growing. Broken family relationships
lead to troubled and struggling children.
REQUIREMENTS RELATED TO THE FAMILY
• Good caregiver and family manager
The leader must care for his or her family properly and
provide good leadership in the home
• Loving and Gentle
The leader must care for his or her family with love,
respect and
self-control,
so that the home is
peaceful
WORKSHOP
THE FAMILY IN OUR NATION
Discuss with your colleagues (in a
small group) the current situation
of the family in our nation. Use the
following questions as a guide:
• How is today’s world affecting
the family structure in our nation?
• How does that affect our families
as leaders?
• REQUIREMENTS RELATED TO THE
CHILDREN
• Leadership in your home
It is clear that the leader must train his
or her children, fully committed to their
development
1. Strong Commitment
• Strong families believe in the value of the family and
consider their family a priority in their lives.
2. Spending Time Together
• Strong families take time to be together on a regular basis doing
meaningful things.
3. Good Communication
• Strong families are able to communicate at all levels. Judith Balswick,
in her book “Family: A Christian Perspective on the Contemporary
Home”, affirms that in our family we usually communicate on one or
more of four levels. The next page explains and gives examples of
these levels of communication.
4. Appreciation and Affection for Each Other
• Strong families are intentional about expressing appreciation for
each other. Spiritual commitment.
5. Ability to Solve Problems and Crisis
• Strong families have win-win strategies to solve crisis situations.
• Obedient and Respectful Children
Obedience is the acknowledgement of the
parents’ authority in the home. This can’t be
“enforced”, but is the result of sincere love
and parental leadership by example.