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Upfront<br />

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Our round-up of the latest<br />

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Bump&Birth<br />

24 It’s all about the bump<br />

Focus on your growing baby<br />

this Christmas<br />

28 The pregnant girl’s guide<br />

to partying<br />

Celebrate the festivities in style<br />

32 Sorted!<br />

How to boost your energy levels<br />

35 Birth stories<br />

‘My dog helped me deliver my baby’<br />

38 Dress my bump<br />

Fashion for work and play<br />

42<br />

Sing your<br />

baby happy<br />

45<br />

Discover the<br />

sleep habits<br />

that make<br />

a big<br />

difference<br />

42 Sing your baby happy<br />

How all those carols will make<br />

her smile<br />

45 24 hours to better sleep<br />

The little habits that will make<br />

a big difference to your nights<br />

52 Christmas is coming…<br />

…so it’s time to get crafty!<br />

58 Making memories<br />

Nurture her ability to remember<br />

the magical moments<br />

63 Santa’s present chooser<br />

Perfect gifts for your youngster<br />

82 The big freeze<br />

Cute and cosy winter fashion<br />

Life&Kids<br />

88 Have the best family<br />

Christmas, ever!<br />

Giovanna Fletcher wants you to be<br />

as Christmas-crazy as her clan!<br />

93 Boost your immune<br />

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Stay well this winter<br />

94 Winter fairytale<br />

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a dazzling nursery trend…<br />

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76 Pregnancy<br />

77 Behaviour<br />

79 Sleep<br />

80 Eating<br />

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Christmas<br />

IS COMING...<br />

…so it’s time to get crafty! Even little fingers can make<br />

these fun decorations<br />

Robin<br />

feeder<br />

Include your feathery friends in the<br />

festive cheer with this candy cane bird<br />

ornament. Bend a red pipe cleaner in half<br />

and twist. Then get your youngster to<br />

thread on hoops of low-sugar cereal.<br />

Once you’ve finished, head outside<br />

to hang them on a tree and wait for<br />

the birds to flock to their cheery feast.<br />

Ginger decorations<br />

Melt 175g of dark muscovado sugar,<br />

85g golden syrup and 100g butter in a<br />

pan. Combine 3 tsp of ground ginger,<br />

1 tsp ground cinnamon and 350g plain<br />

flour in a large bowl. Make a well in the<br />

centre of the dry ingredients, add the<br />

sugar mix and 1 lightly beaten egg.<br />

Dissolve 1 tsp bicarbonate of soda in<br />

1 tsp cold water. Add to the other<br />

ingredients and mix. Once cool, cover<br />

the bowl with clingfilm and chill in the<br />

fridge for 1 hour. Heat the oven<br />

to 170°C/350°F/gas mark 4. Knead<br />

the dough on a lightly floured<br />

surface before rolling out thinly. Cut<br />

with a star or gingerbread cutter then<br />

transfer onto a baking sheet. Use a<br />

straw to make a hole in the top of each<br />

biscuit then bake for 12-15 minutes or<br />

until golden. Transfer to a wire rack to<br />

harden up before threading string<br />

through, ready to hang on your tree.<br />

<strong>Baby</strong>&Toddler<br />

TASTY TREE<br />

Mix up a cup of green icing<br />

using icing sugar, a few drops<br />

of green food colouring and<br />

a little boiling water. Your youngster<br />

will enjoy spooning the runny icing<br />

over an upside-down ice cream cone.<br />

Decorate with sprinkles and pop<br />

a silver ball on the top.<br />

WORDS EMILY THORPE PHOTOGRAPHY SHUTTERSTOCK<br />

Squeezy snowman<br />

Because he’s filled with rice, this Mr Frosty<br />

feels lovely to squeeze. Using a funnel, help<br />

your toddler fill an old white sock with rice.<br />

Tie the top of the sock into a tight knot. Fit an<br />

elastic band around the sausage shape to form<br />

the snowman’s head and body. Use felt-tip<br />

pens to make eyes, a nose and buttons. Then<br />

tie a ribbon around his neck for a scarf, and<br />

pop an old baby sock on his head for a hat.<br />

RUDOLPH<br />

Card<br />

Make a card that Nan will treasure.<br />

Fold a sheet of blue card in half. Squeeze<br />

brown paint onto a paper plate and using her<br />

right hand, place your youngster’s palm into<br />

the paint and then press onto the left side of<br />

card. This is Rudolph’s head. Rotate the card and<br />

press down another handprint, a centimetre<br />

away from the head to make the body. Fill in the<br />

small gap between the two prints with a few<br />

red fingerprints for a collar. Another makes<br />

that famous red nose, and a googly eye<br />

and a snowy landscape of white<br />

fingerprints finish it off.<br />

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LET’S CELEBRATE!<br />

Bump&Birth<br />

WORDS LOUISA PRITCHARD PHOTOGRAPHY ISTOCKPHOTO, SHUTTERSTOCK<br />

The pregnant girls guide to<br />

PARTYING<br />

There’s even more reason to celebrate this Christmas:<br />

here’s how to do it in style!<br />

DRESS TO IMPRESS<br />

‘Your body is changing<br />

shape so quickly, what you<br />

choose to wear will depend<br />

on how many weeks<br />

pregnant you are,’ says<br />

fashion stylist Rachel Gold<br />

(rachgold.co.uk):<br />

First trimester: ‘If your<br />

pregnancy is still a secret,<br />

wear bright colours on your<br />

upper body to distract<br />

partygoers from your bump.<br />

Shoulder pads are right<br />

on-trend this Christmas, and<br />

a statement necklace or<br />

earrings will help keep the<br />

focus above your waist.’<br />

Second trimester: ‘It’s<br />

all about making the most<br />

of your growing bump.<br />

Wear a stretchy bodycon<br />

Nausea can hit at<br />

any time – not just in the<br />

morning – but an acupressure<br />

band can help. It has a stud<br />

that puts pressure on the<br />

P6 acupuncture point on your<br />

inner forearm, three fingers width<br />

below your wrist, and this can help<br />

stop feelings of sickness.<br />

Throw some bangles over<br />

the top and no one<br />

will know you’re<br />

wearing it.<br />

dress to show off your<br />

curves, and opt for a light<br />

colour that will highlight your<br />

bump. A thin leather<br />

belt slung under<br />

your bump looks<br />

super-cute, too.’<br />

Third trimester:<br />

‘It’s time to<br />

shine! A clingy<br />

maternity jersey<br />

dress looks great,<br />

especially with a<br />

longer cardigan over<br />

the top. And don’t be afraid<br />

to be the star of the party in<br />

a big print either – a floral<br />

design in stretchy velvet<br />

looks amazing with a little<br />

metallic leather jacket that<br />

sits above your bump.’<br />

Katie Piper Maternity,<br />

£22, wantthattrend.com<br />

’ GO NATURAL<br />

‘I still<br />

wanted to feel<br />

glam when I was going to<br />

Christmas parties while<br />

pregnant. So instead of<br />

changing my style, I just made<br />

a few tweaks to make it comfy, too,<br />

by swapping heels for flats, and<br />

wearing a black floaty dress<br />

instead of a little black one!’<br />

Binky Felstead, 27, is mum<br />

to India, five months<br />

3 OF THE BEST<br />

MATERNITY FROCKS<br />

The big trend for Christmas is bold prints,<br />

so just choose how loud you want to go!<br />

Dodge that hug<br />

To avoid your bump being squashed by an<br />

over-enthusiastic, Prosecco-fuelled bear hug, hold<br />

your glass in front of you, then side-step as you put<br />

your other hand on the hugger’s shoulder, and<br />

deliver a consolatory kiss to the cheek. Rest<br />

assured that your baby is incredibly well<br />

cushioned in your tummy, though, floating<br />

in a sac of amniotic<br />

ASOS Bird Print,<br />

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fluid and<br />

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You can still look good without chemicals…<br />

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Lipstick<br />

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Zoya Nail Polish<br />

is toxin-free,<br />

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fave is Zoya Isla,<br />

£11, hollandand<br />

barrett.com<br />

Now that a spray<br />

tan is a no-no,<br />

St Tropez<br />

Powder Bronzer<br />

will give you that<br />

radiant glow,<br />

£20.43,<br />

feelunique.com<br />

Energise<br />

love<br />

Pregnancy zaps your energy<br />

levels in your first and third<br />

ginger<br />

trimesters, leaving you<br />

Wafts of fried food<br />

susceptible to bingeing on<br />

from the buffet table can<br />

too-salty treats at the<br />

be overwhelming for a sensitive<br />

buffet table. Eat a light<br />

pregnancy nose, but ginger, long known meal before the party,<br />

to help ward off nausea, will save you. and don’t wait for hunger<br />

Apply Dr Bronner Orange Ginger Lip to hit before you make a<br />

Balm (£2.99, drbronner.co.uk), made beeline for the buffet,<br />

from natural ingredients including so you’re more likely to<br />

ginger root oil, or just keep<br />

choose healthy options. If<br />

the stick in your bag and<br />

you’re hosting, make a tray<br />

have a sniff when<br />

of pregnancy-perfect nibbles<br />

you need!<br />

that everyone will enjoy – toast<br />

walnuts with a sprinkle of cinnamon,<br />

pumpkin seeds with a little paprika, or<br />

roast almonds with a drizzle of honey.<br />

‘Have a power<br />

nap before you go<br />

out to give yourself<br />

a boost for the party.’<br />

Laura Wakem, 39,<br />

from H<strong>amp</strong>shire,<br />

is mum to Henry, two,<br />

Holly, three, and<br />

Clark, five<br />

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GET IN TUNE<br />

Sing your baby<br />

HAPPY<br />

Jingle bells at the ready, there’s a very easy way<br />

to put a smile on your youngster’s face<br />

MEET THE<br />

EXPERT<br />

Tiffany Drake<br />

is a music therapist<br />

and mum of four<br />

The strong<br />

rhythm of O Come,<br />

All Ye Faithful works a<br />

treat to make getting<br />

dressed more fun: ‘O come<br />

and get dressed now,<br />

Time to put your clothes on,<br />

Let’s put on your<br />

T-shirt…’<br />

What’s your favourite-ever<br />

Christmas tune? Whether<br />

you’re a fan of Justin<br />

Bieber or Bing Crosby,<br />

or you prefer a carol to a<br />

pop classic, just thinking<br />

about your number one song means you’ll<br />

probably be feeling a teeny-tiny bit happier<br />

right now. Singing it out loud would have an<br />

even more powerful effect, and it’s the same<br />

for your baby. Hearing you sing, and joining in<br />

however she chooses, makes her happier too.<br />

There are all sorts of other benefits: singing<br />

is a brilliant way for you to bond with her,<br />

it can calm her and encourage her to<br />

co-operate. It will help develop her social<br />

and communication skills as well as her<br />

co-ordination and brain development. And<br />

this will all contribute to how content<br />

she’s feeling. Yes, this year, singing<br />

those Christmas carols is about<br />

much more than just getting<br />

into the festive spirit.<br />

ALL TOGETHER…<br />

We know that singing<br />

improves mood, but doing<br />

it with someone else lifts<br />

emotions even more. So<br />

encourage your youngster<br />

and other family members<br />

to join in, however they like.<br />

Scientists have shown that the<br />

benefits are the same, regardless<br />

of whether you have X-Factor potential<br />

or frankly can’t hold a tune in a bucket!<br />

Even if your baby isn’t old<br />

enough to add her voice to<br />

yours yet, she’ll still feel the<br />

benefits. When you sing,<br />

your brain releases the<br />

‘happy hormones’ oxytocin<br />

and endorphins, reducing<br />

anxiety and helping you<br />

relax. And since your child<br />

is highly intuitive to your<br />

mood, she will pick up on<br />

this and relax too. These<br />

hormones are also key players<br />

in forming your bond with your<br />

baby. Music positively affects your<br />

brain in areas related to empathy,<br />

connection and trust, so sharing<br />

it through singing with your<br />

youngster really binds you together.<br />

LET’S DO THIS!<br />

Your baby prefers to listen to you<br />

singing rather than talking – fact.<br />

Research shows we mums sing in a<br />

very particular way when we warble<br />

Time for a<br />

nappy change?<br />

Try mixing up Rudolph<br />

The Red Nose Reindeer:<br />

‘(<strong>Baby</strong>’s name) my<br />

gorgeous baby has a very<br />

tickly tum, and every time<br />

he giggles, I’m a really<br />

happy mum!’<br />

OVER TO<br />

YULE!<br />

Have you made<br />

up your very<br />

own Christmas<br />

song? Tell us at<br />

facebook.com/<br />

motherandbaby<br />

<strong>Baby</strong>&Toddler<br />

to our own babies, and this captures their<br />

attention, delighting and soothing them. So,<br />

when you’ve got something to say, try singing it.<br />

If she’s at the toddler stage and a bit too<br />

fond of saying ‘no!’ when it comes to everyday<br />

tasks, you might find she’s more co-operative<br />

if you make your request via a song. Persuading<br />

your youngster to put a coat on might be a<br />

regular issue in your house. But turn the task<br />

into a song, and you’ll probably skip over<br />

much of her resistance. For a start, she’ll be<br />

keener to listen because you are singing rather<br />

than saying the words. And, once you’ve done<br />

it a few times, she’ll make a strong musical<br />

memory and know what’s about to happen.<br />

Try the following words to the tune of<br />

Once In Royal David’s City:<br />

Now it’s time to get your coat on<br />

Wrap up warm, we’re off outside<br />

Let’s go on a winter-time adventure<br />

Wonder what we will find<br />

Is there snow or is there ice?<br />

Who’s put on their Christmas lights?<br />

Using song will add some fun to everyday<br />

jobs too. If your youngster isn’t too keen<br />

to help tidy her toys away, take the tune of<br />

Jingle Bells and add these words:<br />

Tidy up! Tidy up!<br />

Time to clear away<br />

Let’s tidy all these toys away<br />

And play another day, oh!<br />

She might not join in singing just yet, but she<br />

will join in. You might notice that she drops<br />

her toys into her toy box in time to the song.<br />

And as she needs to regulate her movement to<br />

do this, she’ll be far more involved<br />

and enjoy the challenge.<br />

SING AND SOOTHE<br />

Singing calms both you and<br />

your baby, so it can take<br />

the tension away from<br />

what might normally be<br />

a fraught moment in your<br />

day. Simply singing a first<br />

line, followed by some<br />

humming, will make a big<br />

difference. If she’s not so keen<br />

on bathtime, try singing I’m<br />

dreaming of a clean baby to the tune<br />

of I’m Dreaming Of A White<br />

Christmas. And try mixing up<br />

Silent Night at bedtime to lull your<br />

youngster with a lilting tune:<br />

Silent night, time to sleep tight<br />

All is calm, dim the light<br />

Time to lay down your sleepy head<br />

Snuggle down in your cosy, warm bed<br />

Sleep in cosy peace, sleep in soft peace<br />

She might just settle to sleep<br />

with a little smile still on her face.<br />

WORDS TIFFANY DRAKE PHOTOGRAPHY ADOBE STOCK<br />

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