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Bump&Birth<br />
24 It’s all about the bump<br />
Focus on your growing baby<br />
this Christmas<br />
28 The pregnant girl’s guide<br />
to partying<br />
Celebrate the festivities in style<br />
32 Sorted!<br />
How to boost your energy levels<br />
35 Birth stories<br />
‘My dog helped me deliver my baby’<br />
38 Dress my bump<br />
Fashion for work and play<br />
42<br />
Sing your<br />
baby happy<br />
45<br />
Discover the<br />
sleep habits<br />
that make<br />
a big<br />
difference<br />
42 Sing your baby happy<br />
How all those carols will make<br />
her smile<br />
45 24 hours to better sleep<br />
The little habits that will make<br />
a big difference to your nights<br />
52 Christmas is coming…<br />
…so it’s time to get crafty!<br />
58 Making memories<br />
Nurture her ability to remember<br />
the magical moments<br />
63 Santa’s present chooser<br />
Perfect gifts for your youngster<br />
82 The big freeze<br />
Cute and cosy winter fashion<br />
Life&Kids<br />
88 Have the best family<br />
Christmas, ever!<br />
Giovanna Fletcher wants you to be<br />
as Christmas-crazy as her clan!<br />
93 Boost your immune<br />
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Stay well this winter<br />
94 Winter fairytale<br />
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FESTIVE MAKES<br />
Christmas<br />
IS COMING...<br />
…so it’s time to get crafty! Even little fingers can make<br />
these fun decorations<br />
Robin<br />
feeder<br />
Include your feathery friends in the<br />
festive cheer with this candy cane bird<br />
ornament. Bend a red pipe cleaner in half<br />
and twist. Then get your youngster to<br />
thread on hoops of low-sugar cereal.<br />
Once you’ve finished, head outside<br />
to hang them on a tree and wait for<br />
the birds to flock to their cheery feast.<br />
Ginger decorations<br />
Melt 175g of dark muscovado sugar,<br />
85g golden syrup and 100g butter in a<br />
pan. Combine 3 tsp of ground ginger,<br />
1 tsp ground cinnamon and 350g plain<br />
flour in a large bowl. Make a well in the<br />
centre of the dry ingredients, add the<br />
sugar mix and 1 lightly beaten egg.<br />
Dissolve 1 tsp bicarbonate of soda in<br />
1 tsp cold water. Add to the other<br />
ingredients and mix. Once cool, cover<br />
the bowl with clingfilm and chill in the<br />
fridge for 1 hour. Heat the oven<br />
to 170°C/350°F/gas mark 4. Knead<br />
the dough on a lightly floured<br />
surface before rolling out thinly. Cut<br />
with a star or gingerbread cutter then<br />
transfer onto a baking sheet. Use a<br />
straw to make a hole in the top of each<br />
biscuit then bake for 12-15 minutes or<br />
until golden. Transfer to a wire rack to<br />
harden up before threading string<br />
through, ready to hang on your tree.<br />
<strong>Baby</strong>&Toddler<br />
TASTY TREE<br />
Mix up a cup of green icing<br />
using icing sugar, a few drops<br />
of green food colouring and<br />
a little boiling water. Your youngster<br />
will enjoy spooning the runny icing<br />
over an upside-down ice cream cone.<br />
Decorate with sprinkles and pop<br />
a silver ball on the top.<br />
WORDS EMILY THORPE PHOTOGRAPHY SHUTTERSTOCK<br />
Squeezy snowman<br />
Because he’s filled with rice, this Mr Frosty<br />
feels lovely to squeeze. Using a funnel, help<br />
your toddler fill an old white sock with rice.<br />
Tie the top of the sock into a tight knot. Fit an<br />
elastic band around the sausage shape to form<br />
the snowman’s head and body. Use felt-tip<br />
pens to make eyes, a nose and buttons. Then<br />
tie a ribbon around his neck for a scarf, and<br />
pop an old baby sock on his head for a hat.<br />
RUDOLPH<br />
Card<br />
Make a card that Nan will treasure.<br />
Fold a sheet of blue card in half. Squeeze<br />
brown paint onto a paper plate and using her<br />
right hand, place your youngster’s palm into<br />
the paint and then press onto the left side of<br />
card. This is Rudolph’s head. Rotate the card and<br />
press down another handprint, a centimetre<br />
away from the head to make the body. Fill in the<br />
small gap between the two prints with a few<br />
red fingerprints for a collar. Another makes<br />
that famous red nose, and a googly eye<br />
and a snowy landscape of white<br />
fingerprints finish it off.<br />
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LET’S CELEBRATE!<br />
Bump&Birth<br />
WORDS LOUISA PRITCHARD PHOTOGRAPHY ISTOCKPHOTO, SHUTTERSTOCK<br />
The pregnant girls guide to<br />
PARTYING<br />
There’s even more reason to celebrate this Christmas:<br />
here’s how to do it in style!<br />
DRESS TO IMPRESS<br />
‘Your body is changing<br />
shape so quickly, what you<br />
choose to wear will depend<br />
on how many weeks<br />
pregnant you are,’ says<br />
fashion stylist Rachel Gold<br />
(rachgold.co.uk):<br />
First trimester: ‘If your<br />
pregnancy is still a secret,<br />
wear bright colours on your<br />
upper body to distract<br />
partygoers from your bump.<br />
Shoulder pads are right<br />
on-trend this Christmas, and<br />
a statement necklace or<br />
earrings will help keep the<br />
focus above your waist.’<br />
Second trimester: ‘It’s<br />
all about making the most<br />
of your growing bump.<br />
Wear a stretchy bodycon<br />
Nausea can hit at<br />
any time – not just in the<br />
morning – but an acupressure<br />
band can help. It has a stud<br />
that puts pressure on the<br />
P6 acupuncture point on your<br />
inner forearm, three fingers width<br />
below your wrist, and this can help<br />
stop feelings of sickness.<br />
Throw some bangles over<br />
the top and no one<br />
will know you’re<br />
wearing it.<br />
dress to show off your<br />
curves, and opt for a light<br />
colour that will highlight your<br />
bump. A thin leather<br />
belt slung under<br />
your bump looks<br />
super-cute, too.’<br />
Third trimester:<br />
‘It’s time to<br />
shine! A clingy<br />
maternity jersey<br />
dress looks great,<br />
especially with a<br />
longer cardigan over<br />
the top. And don’t be afraid<br />
to be the star of the party in<br />
a big print either – a floral<br />
design in stretchy velvet<br />
looks amazing with a little<br />
metallic leather jacket that<br />
sits above your bump.’<br />
Katie Piper Maternity,<br />
£22, wantthattrend.com<br />
’ GO NATURAL<br />
‘I still<br />
wanted to feel<br />
glam when I was going to<br />
Christmas parties while<br />
pregnant. So instead of<br />
changing my style, I just made<br />
a few tweaks to make it comfy, too,<br />
by swapping heels for flats, and<br />
wearing a black floaty dress<br />
instead of a little black one!’<br />
Binky Felstead, 27, is mum<br />
to India, five months<br />
3 OF THE BEST<br />
MATERNITY FROCKS<br />
The big trend for Christmas is bold prints,<br />
so just choose how loud you want to go!<br />
Dodge that hug<br />
To avoid your bump being squashed by an<br />
over-enthusiastic, Prosecco-fuelled bear hug, hold<br />
your glass in front of you, then side-step as you put<br />
your other hand on the hugger’s shoulder, and<br />
deliver a consolatory kiss to the cheek. Rest<br />
assured that your baby is incredibly well<br />
cushioned in your tummy, though, floating<br />
in a sac of amniotic<br />
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barrett.com<br />
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Energise<br />
love<br />
Pregnancy zaps your energy<br />
levels in your first and third<br />
ginger<br />
trimesters, leaving you<br />
Wafts of fried food<br />
susceptible to bingeing on<br />
from the buffet table can<br />
too-salty treats at the<br />
be overwhelming for a sensitive<br />
buffet table. Eat a light<br />
pregnancy nose, but ginger, long known meal before the party,<br />
to help ward off nausea, will save you. and don’t wait for hunger<br />
Apply Dr Bronner Orange Ginger Lip to hit before you make a<br />
Balm (£2.99, drbronner.co.uk), made beeline for the buffet,<br />
from natural ingredients including so you’re more likely to<br />
ginger root oil, or just keep<br />
choose healthy options. If<br />
the stick in your bag and<br />
you’re hosting, make a tray<br />
have a sniff when<br />
of pregnancy-perfect nibbles<br />
you need!<br />
that everyone will enjoy – toast<br />
walnuts with a sprinkle of cinnamon,<br />
pumpkin seeds with a little paprika, or<br />
roast almonds with a drizzle of honey.<br />
‘Have a power<br />
nap before you go<br />
out to give yourself<br />
a boost for the party.’<br />
Laura Wakem, 39,<br />
from H<strong>amp</strong>shire,<br />
is mum to Henry, two,<br />
Holly, three, and<br />
Clark, five<br />
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GET IN TUNE<br />
Sing your baby<br />
HAPPY<br />
Jingle bells at the ready, there’s a very easy way<br />
to put a smile on your youngster’s face<br />
MEET THE<br />
EXPERT<br />
Tiffany Drake<br />
is a music therapist<br />
and mum of four<br />
The strong<br />
rhythm of O Come,<br />
All Ye Faithful works a<br />
treat to make getting<br />
dressed more fun: ‘O come<br />
and get dressed now,<br />
Time to put your clothes on,<br />
Let’s put on your<br />
T-shirt…’<br />
What’s your favourite-ever<br />
Christmas tune? Whether<br />
you’re a fan of Justin<br />
Bieber or Bing Crosby,<br />
or you prefer a carol to a<br />
pop classic, just thinking<br />
about your number one song means you’ll<br />
probably be feeling a teeny-tiny bit happier<br />
right now. Singing it out loud would have an<br />
even more powerful effect, and it’s the same<br />
for your baby. Hearing you sing, and joining in<br />
however she chooses, makes her happier too.<br />
There are all sorts of other benefits: singing<br />
is a brilliant way for you to bond with her,<br />
it can calm her and encourage her to<br />
co-operate. It will help develop her social<br />
and communication skills as well as her<br />
co-ordination and brain development. And<br />
this will all contribute to how content<br />
she’s feeling. Yes, this year, singing<br />
those Christmas carols is about<br />
much more than just getting<br />
into the festive spirit.<br />
ALL TOGETHER…<br />
We know that singing<br />
improves mood, but doing<br />
it with someone else lifts<br />
emotions even more. So<br />
encourage your youngster<br />
and other family members<br />
to join in, however they like.<br />
Scientists have shown that the<br />
benefits are the same, regardless<br />
of whether you have X-Factor potential<br />
or frankly can’t hold a tune in a bucket!<br />
Even if your baby isn’t old<br />
enough to add her voice to<br />
yours yet, she’ll still feel the<br />
benefits. When you sing,<br />
your brain releases the<br />
‘happy hormones’ oxytocin<br />
and endorphins, reducing<br />
anxiety and helping you<br />
relax. And since your child<br />
is highly intuitive to your<br />
mood, she will pick up on<br />
this and relax too. These<br />
hormones are also key players<br />
in forming your bond with your<br />
baby. Music positively affects your<br />
brain in areas related to empathy,<br />
connection and trust, so sharing<br />
it through singing with your<br />
youngster really binds you together.<br />
LET’S DO THIS!<br />
Your baby prefers to listen to you<br />
singing rather than talking – fact.<br />
Research shows we mums sing in a<br />
very particular way when we warble<br />
Time for a<br />
nappy change?<br />
Try mixing up Rudolph<br />
The Red Nose Reindeer:<br />
‘(<strong>Baby</strong>’s name) my<br />
gorgeous baby has a very<br />
tickly tum, and every time<br />
he giggles, I’m a really<br />
happy mum!’<br />
OVER TO<br />
YULE!<br />
Have you made<br />
up your very<br />
own Christmas<br />
song? Tell us at<br />
facebook.com/<br />
motherandbaby<br />
<strong>Baby</strong>&Toddler<br />
to our own babies, and this captures their<br />
attention, delighting and soothing them. So,<br />
when you’ve got something to say, try singing it.<br />
If she’s at the toddler stage and a bit too<br />
fond of saying ‘no!’ when it comes to everyday<br />
tasks, you might find she’s more co-operative<br />
if you make your request via a song. Persuading<br />
your youngster to put a coat on might be a<br />
regular issue in your house. But turn the task<br />
into a song, and you’ll probably skip over<br />
much of her resistance. For a start, she’ll be<br />
keener to listen because you are singing rather<br />
than saying the words. And, once you’ve done<br />
it a few times, she’ll make a strong musical<br />
memory and know what’s about to happen.<br />
Try the following words to the tune of<br />
Once In Royal David’s City:<br />
Now it’s time to get your coat on<br />
Wrap up warm, we’re off outside<br />
Let’s go on a winter-time adventure<br />
Wonder what we will find<br />
Is there snow or is there ice?<br />
Who’s put on their Christmas lights?<br />
Using song will add some fun to everyday<br />
jobs too. If your youngster isn’t too keen<br />
to help tidy her toys away, take the tune of<br />
Jingle Bells and add these words:<br />
Tidy up! Tidy up!<br />
Time to clear away<br />
Let’s tidy all these toys away<br />
And play another day, oh!<br />
She might not join in singing just yet, but she<br />
will join in. You might notice that she drops<br />
her toys into her toy box in time to the song.<br />
And as she needs to regulate her movement to<br />
do this, she’ll be far more involved<br />
and enjoy the challenge.<br />
SING AND SOOTHE<br />
Singing calms both you and<br />
your baby, so it can take<br />
the tension away from<br />
what might normally be<br />
a fraught moment in your<br />
day. Simply singing a first<br />
line, followed by some<br />
humming, will make a big<br />
difference. If she’s not so keen<br />
on bathtime, try singing I’m<br />
dreaming of a clean baby to the tune<br />
of I’m Dreaming Of A White<br />
Christmas. And try mixing up<br />
Silent Night at bedtime to lull your<br />
youngster with a lilting tune:<br />
Silent night, time to sleep tight<br />
All is calm, dim the light<br />
Time to lay down your sleepy head<br />
Snuggle down in your cosy, warm bed<br />
Sleep in cosy peace, sleep in soft peace<br />
She might just settle to sleep<br />
with a little smile still on her face.<br />
WORDS TIFFANY DRAKE PHOTOGRAPHY ADOBE STOCK<br />
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