Caribbean Compass Yachting Magazine - December 2017
Welcome to Caribbean Compass, the most widely-read boating publication in the Caribbean! THE MOST NEWS YOU CAN USE - feature articles on cruising destinations, regattas, environment, events...Welcome to Caribbean Compass, the most widely-read boating publication in the Caribbean! THE MOST NEWS YOU CAN USE - feature articles on cruising destinations, regattas, environment, events...
Welcome to Caribbean Compass, the most widely-read boating publication in the Caribbean! THE MOST NEWS YOU CAN USE - feature articles on cruising destinations, regattas, environment, events...Welcome to Caribbean Compass, the most widely-read boating publication in the Caribbean! THE MOST NEWS YOU CAN USE - feature articles on cruising destinations, regattas, environment, events...
Create successful ePaper yourself
Turn your PDF publications into a flip-book with our unique Google optimized e-Paper software.
DECEMBER <strong>2017</strong> CARIBBEAN COMPASS PAGE 30<br />
My Knight in Shining Armor Would Let Me Eat My Grilled Cheese!<br />
or,<br />
CRUISING WITH A PROBLEM COUPLE<br />
All of the names in this article have been changed to<br />
protect the… well, you’ll see.<br />
After a couple years of living on a sailboat, earning<br />
my master captain’s license and sailing with tourists<br />
and friends around the islands as often as possible, I<br />
used to think that everyone would have a blast chartering<br />
a sailboat in the <strong>Caribbean</strong> for a week.<br />
I was wrong.<br />
I learned this soon after receiving a text from my<br />
friend Ben, who sails his 47-foot Leopard catamaran,<br />
S/V Starshine, in the Virgin Islands. In the text, he<br />
sounded a little desperate.<br />
Could I be his smiley first mate for a weeklong cruise<br />
with, as he put it, a “problem couple”?<br />
One of Ben’s old high school friends found him on<br />
Facebook, and she and her husband, a professional lobsterman<br />
from Maine, wanted to celebrate their 30th anniversary.<br />
Ben’s instincts were correct. He needed backup.<br />
I arrived in Road Town, Tortola, to find a very worried-looking<br />
Ben. As I threw my bag aboard and<br />
pushed off the mooring ball en route to Jost Van Dyke,<br />
I met Darlene. She was a gentle woman who spoke in<br />
sotto voce — one of those harsh whispers — because<br />
she had just survived throat cancer.<br />
“I’m a hundred-percent cancer free!” she proclaimed<br />
as she took a drag from her Marlboro Red cigarette.<br />
She smoked a pack a day.<br />
Darlene was also sucking down on a weak mix of<br />
Kahlua and milk from a plastic shaker cup. Her legs<br />
and shoulder were badly damaged from a car wreck<br />
she had been in a few months ago. Quite rotund, she<br />
could barely walk and did not have much use of one<br />
arm. She was wearing a blue lacey one-piece bathing<br />
suit, and she looked at me.<br />
“Do you think I got some color?” she whispered harshly.<br />
Her skin was turning a neon shade of red, perhaps<br />
as red as the lobsters her husband caught in Maine.<br />
“Um, yes,” I replied, uncomfortably. “Maybe you<br />
should get out of the sun and get some aloe.”<br />
Darlene’s husband, Bob, was in the stateroom. He<br />
evidently hadn’t been feeling well for the last three<br />
days, and he had yet to emerge. Darlene explained to<br />
me that he only had 25 percent function of his heart<br />
after multiple heart attacks. Originally, he wasn’t even<br />
going to come on the trip, since two doctors told him<br />
that it probably wasn’t going to be a good idea. But a<br />
third doctor gave him clearance at the last minute, so<br />
here he was.<br />
“He is my knight in shining armor,” Darlene whispered<br />
sweetly, looking wistfully toward their closed<br />
cabin door.<br />
It didn’t seem Bob was having a very good time. In<br />
the two days before I arrived, he had only eaten a hot<br />
dog. He never removed his white sneakers and tube<br />
socks, and he wore nothing but jean shorts and XXL<br />
T-shirts. He had never flown in an airplane before, or<br />
had even left Maine. He was simply overheated.<br />
With Bob staying hidden, we anchored outside<br />
Foxy’s on Jost Van Dyke and the three of us — Ben,<br />
Darlene and I — headed ashore. It was the perfect<br />
opportunity to get the party started, Darlene said. We<br />
all enjoyed a Friggin’ in the Riggin’ cocktail at Foxy’s<br />
before walking down the waterfront.<br />
Darlene whispered that she wanted to buy some<br />
by Suzanne Wentley<br />
weed. Ben suggested approaching one of the friendly<br />
Rastafarians or taxi drivers. We hung back as Darlene<br />
looked around.<br />
A white van appeared on the road, and Darlene<br />
flagged it down. I noticed a church logo on the door and<br />
shook my head. The driver rolled down his window.<br />
“I’m not a taxi driver,” he told Darlene.<br />
“That’s okay, I don’t want a taxi,” she whispered. “I<br />
want to buy some pot!”<br />
“You should be careful whom you ask,” the driver<br />
told her.<br />
“Why?” she whispered. “Are you a cop?”<br />
“Yes I am,” he said.<br />
Ben and I watched thankfully as the police officer<br />
shook his head and kept driving slowly down the street.<br />
Relieved, we arrived at Corsair’s, another open-air bar.<br />
Darlene ordered her Kahlua and milk, Ben ordered a<br />
Carib and I eyed up the larger-than-life bottle covered<br />
with stickers in front of me on the bar. It’s a strong<br />
concoction of many different kinds of rum. I looked over<br />
at Darlene. I ordered it in a Painkiller, please.<br />
At dinnertime, Darlene offered to buy us a vegetable<br />
Above: White Bay on Jost Van Dyke in the BVI —<br />
who wouldn’t enjoy being here?<br />
Left: Sun poisoning can ruin anyone’s vacation<br />
pizza. But she didn’t eat it. Since the throat cancer,<br />
she only eats spaghetti, she explained. So we took the<br />
pizza to go so we could check on Bob back on<br />
Starshine. Ben and I ate it on the trampoline of the<br />
catamaran as the sun set; it was delicious.<br />
The next morning, Bob appeared — and he was<br />
pissed. He discovered the US$90 bar tab from the previous<br />
night. He was also mad about something else:<br />
Sprite. Turns out you can’t buy 7-Up on Jost. His<br />
drink of choice is white rum and 7-Up, not Sprite.<br />
Sprite, he explained, is disgusting.<br />
It’s worth mentioning that I only saw Bob wearing<br />
two shirts the entire time I knew him. One read, “I’m<br />
not arguing, I’m just explaining why I’m right”. The<br />
other one read, “Nope, not today”.<br />
He gagged down a sip of Sprite and grimaced.<br />
“Welcome to Paradise…” he said bitterly, looking out<br />
over the crystal blue seas surrounding the boat,<br />
“where you can’t get nothing!”<br />
Meanwhile, Darlene was in misery. Her red, puffy<br />
eyes were under an ice pack, hiding from the sun<br />
thanks to what looked like an increasingly painful<br />
case of sun poisoning.<br />
We sailed around to White Bay on Jost and secured<br />
a central anchor spot, right in front of the Soggy Dollar<br />
Bar web cam.<br />
—Continued on next page