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Teen stories on<br />
confidence<br />
Success after failure<br />
Pushing your limits<br />
More risk, more reward<br />
Overcoming fear<br />
Perseverance<br />
Being Brave<br />
Not following<br />
Resilience<br />
Courage<br />
Ambition<br />
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~ Kids’ inspirational stories sponsored in memory of Diane Azrak Massry A”H ~<br />
Content:by kids & teens<br />
42<br />
44 In other sports<br />
62<br />
Finding success after failure<br />
52 In friendship<br />
58<br />
56 In performance<br />
In basketball<br />
What you lose because of fear<br />
64 When playing too safe 92 By being shy<br />
In learning<br />
new skills<br />
96 When not being yourself<br />
74 More risk, more reward List of Authors<br />
80 in friendship<br />
from the following schools<br />
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66 In friendship<br />
Commit to your goals &<br />
don’t give up<br />
Be open for change &<br />
try new experiences<br />
Getting out of your<br />
comfort zone<br />
Letting go of<br />
past experiences<br />
Don’t repeat the same mistake.<br />
Try a new approach.<br />
A healthy attitude<br />
towards failure<br />
Never be embarrassed<br />
to do a mitzvah<br />
How to believe in yourself<br />
when others don’t<br />
100 Never give up. Don’t quit.<br />
107 bARKAI YESHIVAH<br />
109 HILLEL YESHIVA<br />
103 mAGEN dAVID YESHIVAH<br />
111 YESHIVAH OF FLATBUSH<br />
Schools listed in alphabetical order<br />
The inspirational stories about<br />
Confidence & Perseverence<br />
were written in memory of<br />
Diane Azrak Massry A”H<br />
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Commit to your goals & don’t give up<br />
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Magen David Yeshivah<br />
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My main goal right now is to be a good<br />
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He was so happy. His teammates all said<br />
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Hillel Yeshiva<br />
There was a girl named Esther. She loved<br />
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Laya told Esther, “Yes, we’re so excited!<br />
Are you trying out?” Esther said, “Yes,<br />
I’m excited too!” Esther went home that<br />
day and told her mom, “I’m going to try<br />
out for the basketball team next week.”<br />
Esther’s mom said, “Wow that’s great.<br />
You should practice.” Esther went to practice.<br />
It was next week, and Esther went<br />
to try out with her friends. When they<br />
announced who was on the team, they<br />
didn’t say Esther’s name. She was so sad.<br />
Next year, Esther tried again and she got<br />
in. This shows that if you fail, practice and<br />
practice. You will definitely succeed.<br />
By: Aura Pinhas<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
There is a boy named Abie. He wanted<br />
to be on the school’s football team. He<br />
was practicing with his friends and with<br />
a crowd watching. He missed a final<br />
goal by far. His friends told him, “You’ll<br />
never make the team. You can’t even<br />
do something as simple as kick a field<br />
goal.” After that, Abie walked home<br />
thinking to himself, “I can never make<br />
it. But, as much effort as it takes, I will<br />
never stop trying, no matter how many<br />
times I fail. I am not giving up.” The next<br />
day, he was even worse. He was playing<br />
with an even bigger crowd watching<br />
him. But, in the mid run, he dropped the<br />
ball right near the end zone.<br />
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Who led his life devoted to his family, Torah and Mitzvot.<br />
Our memory of his warm smile, generosity, honesty,<br />
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Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
There was a girl named Malka. She was<br />
running in a marathon. In this marathon<br />
you had to run 5 miles in 2 hours. Last<br />
year, Malka tried to pass one girl. She<br />
was running so fast that Malka slipped<br />
and fell. Everyone was laughing at her.<br />
This year she was thinking about not running.<br />
But, then she realized that she can<br />
run. She decided that she would just pay<br />
attention this time and not focus on one<br />
girl. In the middle of the marathon,<br />
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impossible<br />
until it’s done.<br />
By: Joe Torkieh<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
In a basketball game, my friend missed<br />
the game’s winning shot and got embarrassed<br />
by his team and the whole crowd.<br />
He went home that day and he felt miserable.<br />
He never wanted to play the game<br />
again. I went over to him and told him,<br />
“Don’t worry. Even the best basketball<br />
players miss shots. Don’t give up. If you<br />
try and try you can become the best basketball<br />
player. That’s how basketball players<br />
become basketball players.” He took<br />
my words and became the best basketball<br />
player. The lesson is to never give up.<br />
By: Nathan Botton<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
It was a sunny Sunday morning and the<br />
crowd was cheering as I dribbled the basketball<br />
up the court. I juked out two defenders<br />
and jumped as I shot the ball in<br />
the air. The ball made a swooshing sound<br />
as it went straight into the net. The crowd<br />
went wild. The score was 15-14, in our<br />
favor, with less than a minute left. The<br />
star player of the other team made a fast<br />
break down the court and scored the ball.<br />
There were ten seconds left and it was our<br />
only chance to win.<br />
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By: Yocheved Nussbaum<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Shevy was very excited. She was at the<br />
edge of the race track ready to start running.<br />
The moment the whistle blew, she<br />
was off running with all her might. She<br />
was in 3rd place; now she was in second,<br />
now she was in first. She could feel the<br />
wind rushing behind her as she thought<br />
to herself, “I must win.” She was almost at<br />
the finish line. She was going to win when,<br />
suddenly, she tripped and fell. She could<br />
feel the blood rushing up to her face. She<br />
saw all the other runners going ahead of<br />
her. She was last. She had lost. Everyone<br />
was laughing at her. She thought to herself,<br />
“I am never running a race again.”<br />
“But then,” she thought, “if I give up, I will<br />
never succeed.” She thought to herself,<br />
“Next summer, I’ll practice even harder.”<br />
Next summer she won.<br />
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Hillel Yeshiva<br />
During my first time ice skating, I fell tons<br />
of times. I really wanted to start playing<br />
ice hockey. After my first time ice skating,<br />
I felt very frustrated. But, I thought<br />
to myself every professional was once a<br />
beginner. All these famous players in the<br />
professional leagues all had a start. And,<br />
they kept on trying and never gave up.<br />
So, the next time I went skating, I tried<br />
my hardest not to stay frustrated. Then,<br />
I started to skate like a natural! I learned<br />
a great lesson that day. At first, things<br />
might be hard for you to do but never<br />
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a loser who tried<br />
one more time.<br />
By: Arlette Cojab<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Caroline glided onto the ice at her rink.<br />
Her friend Madison was right behind<br />
her. Caroline invited Madison because<br />
today was an important day. Today<br />
was the day Caroline would try an Axel<br />
jump in front of her ice skating instructor.<br />
An Axel jump is a jump where you<br />
push yourself off the ice, spin one and a<br />
half times in the air and land gracefully<br />
on one foot. You’re supposed to push<br />
off with your left foot and land on your<br />
right. Caroline had trouble with that,<br />
but she practiced a lot. She skated over<br />
to her instructor who was waving her<br />
over. “Go on, show me,” she said smiling.<br />
Caroline took a deep breath, she<br />
gained speed and jumped. The push<br />
didn’t give her enough speed. She fell.<br />
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By: Mollie Grinberg<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Claire gulped in paralyzing fear. It was<br />
a cloudy Sunday morning. The day that<br />
her parents planned to go rock climbing<br />
in the southeast, far away from her<br />
hometown in Virginia. “Claire, are you<br />
ready?” Claire snapped out of her daze.<br />
“Yeah, I guess so…”Her mother bent<br />
down to comfort her child. “You don’t<br />
have to go, honey,” her mother said.<br />
Claire hesitated. She would climb that<br />
mountain, even if it was the last thing<br />
she did. “Er, mom, can I go first. To get<br />
it over with?” A smile formed on her<br />
mother’s face. “Okay, if you really want<br />
to.” Soon, Claire was strapped tight to<br />
her harness and was ready to go. She<br />
started climbing fast to the top of the<br />
mountain. Halfway up, she looked down<br />
and gulped. From 3 feet in the air, she<br />
looked back up confident and continued<br />
to climb. At one point past the three<br />
quarter mark, one of the rocks broke<br />
and she dangled from one hand, clutching<br />
on to the rock. She was terrified and<br />
wanted to give up. But she couldn’t and<br />
climbed up all the way to the top. She<br />
grinned over the peak. She did it. Keep<br />
trying, and don’t give up. Just keep<br />
climbing the ladder of success.<br />
By: Sondra Bukobza<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
There once was a basketball player who<br />
always played offense because that’s<br />
what he played since he was little. One<br />
day, the coach asked him to play defense<br />
because the starting defense was<br />
injured. He took the risk and played defense<br />
instead of the usual offense. He<br />
continued playing defense and, three<br />
years down the line, he got offered a<br />
college basketball scholarship playing<br />
defense. Even if you’re scared, take the<br />
opportunity. It might come only once.<br />
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Life is not about how<br />
fast you run or how<br />
high you climb but<br />
how well you bounce<br />
back from failure.<br />
By: Adina Jaffa<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
There was a girl, Tamar. Every Motzei<br />
Shabbos, she went to play basketball.<br />
While playing, someone threw a ball at<br />
her. She didn’t know what to do! Oh, no!<br />
So, she tried shooting it into the hoop<br />
and missed. After that, the game ended.<br />
Everyone was shouting, screaming and<br />
embarrassing her. They said, “Why are<br />
you so bad at basketball. We don’t want<br />
you on our team.” She went home and<br />
cried to her mother. The whole week she<br />
practiced. She actually thought she has a<br />
chance at winning. The next week came<br />
and she said, “I am going to win this for my<br />
team.” Right when the game started, she<br />
stole the ball from the other team. She<br />
dribbled towards the hoop. She heard her<br />
teammates shouting over and over, “Go<br />
Tamar!” She was very happy. All of a sudden<br />
without her noticing, the other team<br />
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got the ball. Oh, no. So, she went and got<br />
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it back. She made the winning shot. Yay!<br />
One day, Adina was in gymnastics class.<br />
She was with all of her friends. She was always<br />
There was once a person who loved to<br />
run in races. His dream was always to be<br />
Her team won all because of her last shot<br />
that broke the tied score.<br />
behind on what they were learning. in the Olympics and to come in 1st place.<br />
By: Melanie Ades<br />
Her goal was to do a cart wheel on the He never ran a race but he told all of his<br />
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balance beam. While she was trying to<br />
do a cart wheel on the balance beam, she<br />
fell. All of her friends laughed at her and<br />
told her she wasn’t good enough for their<br />
gymnastics class. She went home and told<br />
her mom, “Everybody laughed at me and<br />
said I shouldn’t be in their gymnastics<br />
class.” Her mom said, “Keep on trying.”<br />
Adina told herself, “I will do a cartwheel<br />
on the balance beam.” She practiced and<br />
practiced at her house until she knew how<br />
to do it best. The next week, she went to<br />
gymnastics. She showed all of her friends<br />
how she cart wheels on the balance beam.<br />
friends that he is going to win and that<br />
he is the best runner. The next day, there<br />
was a race. He was ready and confident<br />
that he was going to win. He raced with all<br />
of the kids and he came in last place. He<br />
was heartbroken and very embarrassed<br />
because he told everyone that he would<br />
win but he didn’t. The next race he didn’t<br />
show off and he got new running shoes.<br />
He practiced for 3 weeks until the next<br />
race. Before the race, he saw the best<br />
racer in the world lose. He got motivated<br />
from that because he thought to himself,<br />
“If that person can lose, then, obviously,<br />
All her life, Melanie wanted to be on<br />
the gymnastics team. That was her main<br />
life’s goal. She went to Aerial’s gymnastics<br />
every Friday to practice. She asked<br />
her coach if she can be on the team one<br />
day. Her coach replied, “You can be on<br />
the team if you practice more.” Every day,<br />
Melanie practiced a little bit more. The<br />
next week, she went to gymnastics. She<br />
told her coach that she’s been practicing<br />
more. “Now let’s see if you can do a back<br />
flip off the balance beam,” said coach. She<br />
did. Melanie was very excited. She got on<br />
the team. The team was having a rivalry<br />
against ACC gymnastics. She was nervous.<br />
Her friends were impressed and took back I can too.” He raced in the next race and<br />
It was her turn to perform. Melanie failed.<br />
what they had said about her.<br />
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A Beautiful Woman Who Devoted Her Life To Her Children.<br />
She Taught Us All To “Let It Be That And Nothing Else.”<br />
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Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
There was once a girl who left all of her<br />
friends for the summer to go to a sleep<br />
away camp. She risked losing all her<br />
friends to try to make new friends in sleep<br />
away camp. At first, she had a hard time<br />
fitting in. She felt uncomfortable around<br />
those girls. She thought she probably<br />
made one of the biggest mistakes choosing<br />
to leave her friends. As the weeks<br />
went by, she started getting more comfortable<br />
around these girls and eventually<br />
became best friends with all of them. If<br />
she didn’t take the risk of leaving her old<br />
friends behind, then she wouldn’t have<br />
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<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
A few months ago, I lost my best friend<br />
that I’ve known since I was born. She was<br />
my cousin, too. We were so close and a<br />
couple of months ago things started to<br />
change. I couldn’t imagine losing her.<br />
I was so scared of letting her go. I know<br />
everything about her and she knew everything<br />
about me. Now, you might wonder,<br />
what’s the problem? Why were you<br />
scared of losing her? And the answer is a<br />
new girl came along and I felt like she was<br />
stealing her from me. I was scared.<br />
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By: Linda Gammal<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Lauren, a new girl, moved from Brooklyn<br />
to Deal. She didn’t know anyone and<br />
she also had speech problems. When<br />
she came to school, she forgot about<br />
the dress code and everyone laughed.<br />
When she was walking down the long<br />
hallway, she went to say “Hi” to some<br />
girls, but it didn’t come out as expected.<br />
She was nervous so her speech problem<br />
became bigger. Lauren tried so hard.<br />
She even practiced saying the simplest<br />
things. She tried again to say easy words<br />
so when they come out of her mouth it<br />
wouldn’t be weird. But it didn’t work.<br />
She cried every night because of this. An<br />
idea came to her as her phone beeped.<br />
She got everyone’s numbers in the<br />
grade and told them her story. When<br />
the next day came, everyone said sorry<br />
for laughing and offered to show her<br />
around the school. She also met a girl<br />
just like her. They became best friends.<br />
She learned not to give up and the girls<br />
in the grade also learned not to judge<br />
people unless you know their real story.<br />
By: Andrew Stein<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
On my first day at my new school, I tried<br />
to make friends by being nice and playing<br />
well. In our first recess, I went to play basketball<br />
with the kids in my class but they<br />
didn’t include me. So, I decided to shoot<br />
on another hoop to show them how good<br />
I was so they would include me. When<br />
they finally did let me play, I air balled my<br />
first two shots. I was so embarrassed by<br />
the looks everyone was giving me. So, I<br />
decided to start passing instead. They saw<br />
that I was good and not selfish. I learned<br />
from that experience that it might take<br />
time to get what you want but, if you are<br />
persistent, you will eventually get it.<br />
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STELLA LINIADO A”H<br />
“ a pure soul ta k e n too soon”<br />
Our beautiful stella,<br />
You have left us way too soon for words.<br />
In your short time here you have shown us strength when we were weak.<br />
And you gave us happiness to keep us afloat.<br />
Although there are no footprints for us to follow, we know you will<br />
carry us on this journey and guide us through our lives.<br />
Your full of life spirit and angelic beauty is our inspiration to keep<br />
moving forward and make you proud.<br />
You are an example of what a daughter is.<br />
One of a kind!<br />
Our hearts beat differently now.<br />
You, our beautiful Stella are missed every day!<br />
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There was a competition of who can write<br />
the best song for the play. Rebecca had a<br />
great song but you had to perform it. She<br />
was too shy and asked her friend if she<br />
wanted to sing it for her. Her friend said,<br />
“Why should I sing it? You should sing<br />
it and get the credit.” On the day of the<br />
competition, Rebecca won. But, she only<br />
had to perform in front of three judges.<br />
On the day of the play, Rebecca was too<br />
scared to perform. She asked her friend to<br />
please perform instead of her. Her friend<br />
said, “No! You perform. You are a great<br />
singer.” Rebecca performed and it went<br />
very well. She said thank you to her friend<br />
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<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Everyone knows you have a really good<br />
voice. The popular girl in the class announces<br />
there is a singing contest and<br />
she is going to win. Your best friend<br />
begs you to enter but you don’t listen.<br />
At the contest, the popular girl wins and<br />
rubs it in your face. The next time there<br />
was a singing contest you entered. A few<br />
hours before the contest, you back out.<br />
Now you feel bad because you think you<br />
never had a chance to win. The popular<br />
girl wins again and rubs it in your face<br />
even more. There was one final contest<br />
that year and you signed up. You get on<br />
stage and hear a voice inside you saying,<br />
“You’ll fail.” You push that voice away,<br />
sing and win. A few years later, you are<br />
a well-known singer. That would have<br />
never happened had you listened to the<br />
Yetzer Hara and stopped trying.<br />
By: Adele Saka<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Miriam was on stage overcoming her<br />
stage fright. There were about 100<br />
people watching her as she just stood<br />
there. She tried letting her voice out but<br />
nothing came out. She stood there until<br />
the backstage crew had to come out to<br />
get her and apologize to the audience.<br />
Months later, after Miriam had taken<br />
more lessons and performed in front<br />
of her family and a small audience, she<br />
went back up on the same stage. Except<br />
this time she was stronger. As she sang<br />
the last word, there was not one person<br />
sitting and not clapping.<br />
By: Lauren Araman<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Mary was nervous. She walked on stage<br />
in her purple dress. It was happening. She<br />
was singing perfectly and hitting every<br />
small note. When it was time for her to<br />
really stretch a note, she choked. Everyone<br />
stared in shock. She just went along<br />
and forgot that it happened. When it<br />
came time for the second high note, she<br />
hit it. It was perfect. This is just to show<br />
that you should never give up. She could<br />
have stopped and cried, but she didn’t.<br />
She continued on and didn’t quit.<br />
By: Claudine Hadef<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
I want to accomplish getting better<br />
grades. I’m always on the iPad or computer.<br />
It distracts me. I get good grades but<br />
I want better. I want an honor roll, but I<br />
keep getting distracted whenever I study.<br />
Sometimes, I just zone out during the test<br />
and forget what I studied. I am going to<br />
stop using the computer for as long as I<br />
could every night that I have a test. Every<br />
time I don’t use it, I’ll write it down so I<br />
could see how much I accomplished.<br />
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By: Violet Cohen<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Something that happened to me when I<br />
didn’t give up was when I kept trying and<br />
trying to make a roller coaster with my<br />
brother. We tried 17 times and it never<br />
worked. Finally, on the 18th time, I put<br />
the last piece on and it finally worked. It<br />
took us 2 hours but we finally succeeded.<br />
I was so happy. Then we put a marble on<br />
it and it went through the whole roller<br />
coaster. That is a time when I tried and<br />
failed but I never gave up.<br />
By: Shelly Greenstein<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
One time, I said that I would not drink any<br />
soda until the summer. I tried and I did it<br />
for 2 weeks. Then I couldn’t help it and<br />
I drank some. Once I drank it, I decided<br />
to try again next time. So, I tried it again<br />
and I got it for 3 weeks. Then I couldn’t<br />
stop myself from not drinking it. The soda<br />
looked so good. So, I said I will try again<br />
next time.<br />
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By: Shoshana Dweck<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Everyone has a goal that they want to<br />
achieve. Ruth has always dreamed of being<br />
a ballerina. She asked her mother if<br />
she can take ballet classes. Her mother<br />
signed her up. The day after her first ballet<br />
class, Ruth had bruises all over her<br />
body and skin tears on her feet. When<br />
she went to school, all of her friends<br />
made fun of the way she looked. They<br />
made fun of the fact that she took a ballet<br />
class. The next week, she forgot about<br />
her friends’ comments and the bruises<br />
that hurt. She danced her heart out. At<br />
the end of the course, when the ballet<br />
show took place, she was the star of<br />
show. At the end of the show, everyone<br />
complimented her about how wonderful<br />
she danced, including her friends. Never<br />
give up on your dreams. If you work hard<br />
enough, they will come true.<br />
By: Jacqueline Salman<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Sarah thought she was an amazing artist.<br />
So, she entered the art contest. It happens<br />
5 times a year in her school. When<br />
she got it back, she had so many mistakes.<br />
“This girl you drew was too fat,” “She<br />
didn’t have enough hair in the drawing,”<br />
and so on. The next competitions came<br />
and went and, every time they came, she<br />
entered and kept telling herself, “I can do<br />
it.” Finally, she won and got awards because<br />
she kept trying.<br />
By: Maya Zabari<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Once, my friend had to memorize a monologue<br />
for a school play. She worked really<br />
hard but, when the time came, she forgot<br />
the words. She stumbled over her lines<br />
and finally everyone laughed her off the<br />
stage. The next time she was in a play, she<br />
didn’t want to do it because last time she<br />
got embarrassed. I told her that she can’t<br />
give up. If it doesn’t work the next time,<br />
keep trying. Be true to yourself. If you really<br />
enjoy acting or singing or dancing or<br />
anything else, don’t give up on it.<br />
By: Orly Alchkifati<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
One time, when I was little, I was shy<br />
and scared to sing in front of people.<br />
Everyone wanted to hear my voice and<br />
how I sing. I was scared they wouldn’t<br />
like my voice and would laugh at me.<br />
When I sing, I express myself and who<br />
I am. But, because of fear, I wasn’t able<br />
to do that. People thought I was a little<br />
shy girl with no talent. But, later on in<br />
life, I learned that when you think too<br />
much or overthink it you start to get<br />
scared. So, the message I’m trying to say<br />
is don’t get scared or you’ll regret it for<br />
life. Never overthink, just do what you<br />
truly believe.<br />
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ABE E. ASH A”H<br />
Who led his life devoted to his family and Torah values.<br />
A man who exemplified Humility, Kindness and Care.<br />
His warm loving smile will surely be missed.<br />
His memory will forever be in our hearts and a constant<br />
source of inspiration to all of us.<br />
With Much Love and Respect Always!<br />
By his wife Sylvia, Children, Grand Children and Great Grandchildren<br />
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By: Rochelle Menahem<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
One day, Rachel went to her mom and said<br />
excitedly, “Mommy, I want to be an author<br />
when I get older.” Her mom said, “That’s a<br />
great job. What made you decide on that?”<br />
Rachel explained to her mother that an author<br />
came to school that day and explained<br />
her job and what she does. Rachel’s mom<br />
asked if she wants to write a story and read<br />
it at the library on Sunday. Rachel was so<br />
happy. She ran to her room and started<br />
writing. She wrote day and night, hours and<br />
hours. When Sunday came, her story was<br />
done. She was very proud of it. She dressed<br />
up in her nicest dress & went to the library.<br />
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Success is the ability<br />
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to another with no<br />
loss of enthusiasm.<br />
By: Ahuva Lefkowitz<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
I’ve always wanted to play guitar.<br />
Throughout 5th, 6th and 7th grade, I enviously<br />
watched my 5 other siblings pluck<br />
at the strings as though they were born to<br />
be guitar professionals. In 9th grade, my<br />
mother finally agreed to give me guitar<br />
lessons. In a whirl of excitement and giddiness,<br />
I flew through 1,2,3,4 lessons. Then,<br />
I decided that I was finally ready to enter<br />
into the talent show that would be held<br />
at my school in a week. I practiced guitar<br />
fiercely, my fingertips turning purple<br />
from pressing the strings so hard. Finally,<br />
I was ready. I stepped onto the brightly lit<br />
stage on the Thursday night of the show. I<br />
started playing beautifully, one chord following<br />
the next. I drowned myself in the<br />
stunning medleys until…I struck G instead<br />
of C minor and the entire song flopped.<br />
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By: Michael Gammal<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
One day, I walked up to my dad and asked<br />
him if I can read from the Torah. He replied<br />
to me, “Yes.” The next day, I got my<br />
part to read. I practiced it. On Saturday,<br />
it was my turn to read. I went up to the<br />
Torah and read it very badly. I felt so embarrassed<br />
that I ran out of the room and<br />
started crying. The next week, I wanted<br />
to read from the Torah again. I practiced<br />
and, when it was my turn to read, I was<br />
perfect. I felt so happy. Now, I want to do<br />
it every week.<br />
By: Joe Betesh<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
I have experienced many embarrassing<br />
moments in my life. One that really sticks<br />
out has to be when I started to make videos.<br />
Starting out, I made videos that were<br />
horrible. Kids made fun of me and told me<br />
that I should give up. Instead of listening<br />
to them, I worked even harder and tried<br />
new techniques. After months of hard<br />
work, I finally created a video that everyone<br />
loved and cherished. The moral of<br />
this story is to never give up and to always<br />
work harder than the last time.<br />
Winner honored by<br />
Chief Rabbi of Israel<br />
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R.C.<br />
Raymond Chera A”H<br />
A Man of Faith and Vision<br />
R.C.<br />
Raymond was a successful businessman with an honorable name.<br />
His greatest satisfaction came from Torah. He personally was instrumental<br />
for the openings of the Lawrence Avenue Synagogue, the Park Avenue<br />
Synagogue and The Cedar Avenue Synagogue along with contributing<br />
Sifrey Torah to all of the mentioned synagogues also<br />
the Kollel and other institutions throughout the community.<br />
Forever in our hearts.<br />
From his wife Claudia and sons Steven, Charles, Victor & Michael<br />
and their families.
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What you lose because of fear<br />
By: Amanda Heskiel<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Sarah is 12 years old. She knows how to<br />
swim but she is afraid to dive. One day,<br />
she had a pool party with all her friends.<br />
They were all diving and doing all tricks<br />
and she was in the shallow. She was waiting<br />
for them to finish because she didn’t<br />
want to try it. She was missing out on<br />
having fun with her friends. Her close<br />
friend came to her and asked her why she<br />
isn’t diving and she told her she was too<br />
scared. She told her that she will stay with<br />
her so she won’t be alone.<br />
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A smart person<br />
without courage<br />
is like a bird<br />
without a wing.<br />
By: Margo Chabot<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Allison’s goal is to be an artist. Allison<br />
and her friend take an art class. They<br />
were painting a sunset. Allison’s sunset<br />
came out horrible. Everyone’s art work<br />
was so much better. The art teacher said,<br />
“You have to practice at home.” The next<br />
art class they were still working on sunsets.<br />
She practiced at home many times.<br />
Allison’s art was even worse. She said,<br />
“Next time, I’m not going to fail.” Every<br />
day after school, she practiced for one<br />
hour. She didn’t have a doubt that she<br />
isn’t going to fail. The next art class, the<br />
teacher said her sunset was much better.<br />
When they started a new drawing,<br />
it was a fruit. Allison did the fruit excellently,<br />
not one mistake. Her friend was<br />
so proud of her and so were her parents<br />
and teacher. Allison realized she was putting<br />
so much pressure on herself. That’s<br />
why it was not coming out nice before.<br />
By: Chen Menashe<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Chances! If we don’t take them where<br />
would we be? Sarah studied all night until<br />
midnight for a history test. In the morning,<br />
her mother asked her the questions<br />
again. Sarah knew everything. She went<br />
to school to take the test. Sarah was shaking<br />
and sweating. The teacher gave her<br />
the test and Sarah’s mind went blank. She<br />
didn’t know any of the answers. By the<br />
end of the test, Sarah skipped the rest<br />
of the questions which made her fail. If<br />
Sarah had the confidence that she would<br />
get 100, if she took a chance and wasn’t<br />
afraid, she would get 100.<br />
By: David Assoulin<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
There are a lot of things that you can lose<br />
from fear. Let’s say you have an idea but<br />
you’re too afraid to say it. One example, if<br />
a teacher is teaching a math class on how<br />
to multiply, but the class doesn’t understand<br />
it. If you have an idea on how to do<br />
it, but you’re too scared that everyone in<br />
your class will call you a ‘nerd’, you may<br />
cause the whole class to suffer through a<br />
test which no one but you knows the answers<br />
to. Let’s say, you’re in business and<br />
sales are dropping but you have an idea<br />
how to bring back the business. If you’re<br />
too afraid that the business owner will<br />
disapprove it, you may leave yourself with<br />
no job.<br />
By: Marcelle Sasson<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
I was at the doctor’s office and the nurse<br />
told me, “It’s time for the flu shot.” I am<br />
not really scared of anything, so, I said,<br />
“Ok.” When the nurse came in with the<br />
needle, I got so scared. I didn’t want to<br />
get the shot. I chickened. The nurse said,<br />
“I can’t make you take the shot.” I do regret<br />
not getting the shot because now everybody<br />
has the flu and I don’t want to<br />
get sick.<br />
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David Shalom in honor of his wife Nadine<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Gladys<br />
By Richard Adjmi<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Joyce<br />
By Abraham Kassin<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Shirley<br />
By Abe Feldman<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Claudette<br />
By Nathan Matthews<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Sallie<br />
By Victor Green<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Shirley<br />
By Max Shalom<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Monica<br />
By David Hadef<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Alice<br />
By Billy Shalom<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Julie<br />
By Jack Jarada<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Virna<br />
By Morris Zeitoune
What you lose by playing it too safe<br />
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By: Layala Rudy<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Fear can really hold you back from succeeding<br />
in life. So many things and opportunities<br />
come up every now and then<br />
and you just can’t accept them because<br />
of your fear of being judged by everyone<br />
else. When it comes to choosing a high<br />
school or a college, someone might be so<br />
scared of making new friends and starting<br />
off in a new environment that they’ll hold<br />
themselves back from amazing opportunities.<br />
This is because of fear. You are<br />
scared of doing something different from<br />
everyone else. You don’t want to benefit<br />
yourself so you do what everyone else<br />
is doing. That’s what fear does to you. It<br />
may hold you back from the most amazing<br />
achievements and changes of your<br />
entire life.<br />
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sun today worrying<br />
about the rain<br />
coming tomorrow.<br />
By: Vivian Elias<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
A girl was very scared of many things.<br />
The one fear that held her back was her<br />
fear of making new friends. When she<br />
moved to a new school, she lost her<br />
old friends and was too scared to make<br />
new ones. She was scared to be rejected.<br />
They wanted to be her friends, but<br />
she was scared that soon they would<br />
reject her. She lost out on making new<br />
friends and she graduated school without<br />
friends and became anti social. If she<br />
didn’t have the fear in the first place, she<br />
could’ve had friends.<br />
By: Joseph Sultan<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
You’re playing a sport and your friends<br />
are counting on you because you’re the<br />
best on the team. Never feel pressured<br />
because when you’re pressured it is<br />
more likely to fail. So, just be yourself,<br />
take a deep breath and go play.<br />
By: Danielle Ammar<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Fear. What is it? It’s that voice in your<br />
head that doesn’t want you to challenge<br />
yourself or doesn’t want you to be yourself.<br />
For example, anorexic people just get<br />
skinnier and skinnier. Why? Some people<br />
might ask how they can starve themselves<br />
when they were beautiful already<br />
and how can they keep getting skinnier.<br />
They’re skinny enough. These people are<br />
anorexic because of fear. Fear that they<br />
won’t be accepted by other people and<br />
the fear of being fat. After a while, that<br />
voice of fear will become their ‘friend’<br />
and they won’t stop. Another example is<br />
when someone doesn’t like to tell “no” to<br />
others. After a while, people will use that<br />
person. She needs to learn to be able to<br />
say “no” and still be good friends. Fear is<br />
a lack of confidence. Everyone is insecure<br />
in some way but you need to find a way to<br />
grasp even a glimpse of confidence. Confidence<br />
means overcoming fear and that’s<br />
what you have to do.<br />
By: Alan Dweck<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
George really loves basketball, but there<br />
is one thing about it. He doesn’t let anyone<br />
watch him. He is afraid that if he<br />
misses a shot they will make fun of him.<br />
So, every day he hides to play after school<br />
in a gym that’s 25 minutes away and pays<br />
$30 to rent the gym just so nobody would<br />
watch him. And, the worst part is that he<br />
is amazing at it.<br />
By: Linda Jinani<br />
Ahi Ezer Yeshiva<br />
One time, I needed a shot. My mother<br />
took me to the doctor. I was very scared.<br />
The doctor told me not to move. I was so<br />
nervous that I moved. The shot blew up<br />
and was burning. Had I not moved, all of<br />
this wouldn’t have happened.<br />
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What you lose because of fear: Friendship<br />
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By: Jill Gindi<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Mary and Nancy went to the ice skating<br />
rink. Mary’s mom got them ice skates.<br />
Mary had been taking lessons and Nancy<br />
didn’t have a clue how to ice skate. Mary<br />
didn’t know that. So Mary said, “Let go of<br />
the wall” and SPLAT, she landed right on<br />
the floor. Mary raced over and said, “Are<br />
you ok?” Nancy replied, “Um, I guess I’m<br />
a little rusty.” Mary said, “Ok, skate with<br />
me.” Nancy replied, “Ok,” and she fell<br />
again. “You don’t have any experience,”<br />
Mary told Nancy. “I know,” Nancy replied.<br />
“Why did you lie?” “Because I was scared<br />
that you would laugh at me”, continued<br />
Nancy. “I would never,” Mary reassured<br />
her.<br />
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your dreams.<br />
In memory of<br />
Norman Esses A”H<br />
by Joey Esses<br />
By: Pearly Hanono<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Two twins walk in one with head up and<br />
confident and another with her head<br />
down and hiding. It was the first day of<br />
school and it was already a bad experience<br />
for twin number two. The girls immediately<br />
realized she had no confidence<br />
and knew she could be a good one to<br />
pick on. This had nothing to do with her<br />
looks, only with her lack of confidence.<br />
We should learn from here that we need<br />
to have confidence in order to get somewhere<br />
in life. We shouldn’t be fearful to<br />
go out there and make friends to apply for<br />
a job. We need to take risks.<br />
By: Yael Szanzen<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
When someone gets bullied, she doesn’t<br />
want to tell her parents because of fear<br />
that the bully would find out that she<br />
told and will get back at her. You will miss<br />
out on saving yourself from getting bullied.<br />
But, you can overcome your fear by<br />
realizing it will help you to speak up.<br />
By: Terri Elmann<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
From your first step inside your new<br />
summer camp, you know your doubtful<br />
feelings that finding friends will be hard.<br />
From your high ponytail to your twitching<br />
feet, everything about your appearance<br />
is unwelcomed. At your assigned<br />
group, kids are wearing crop top shirts,<br />
their hair down and flowing, laughing<br />
and gossiping happily with friends. You<br />
blush and stutter nervously, “H-h-hi.”<br />
Girls glare at your splash of freckles and<br />
light skin. They laugh and giggle and<br />
point at you. One girl takes your seat<br />
grinning maliciously. Your eyes tear up<br />
but you don’t want to start bawling in<br />
front of these girls. Your knees buckle<br />
weakly and you hurry outside for some<br />
fresh air. Tears flow down your face and<br />
you wish you could have been put in<br />
a different camp. Summer comes and<br />
goes quickly with not a word from either<br />
of the girls. Only splattered eggs<br />
on your window. Overcome your fears.<br />
Stand up for yourself. Don’t live with the<br />
fear of being bullied by girls who make<br />
it clear that you’re unwanted. Success<br />
comes in a can, not a can’t. Inspire people<br />
to follow your brave path and hope<br />
bullying will decrease in a large amount.<br />
By: Adina Charnas<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Let’s say you and your friend got into a<br />
fight. Your friend wants to talk it over.<br />
But, you decide to close yourself off from<br />
your best friend because you’re afraid of<br />
being wrong. So, because you’re afraid<br />
of being wrong in a fight, you lost your<br />
friend. Even if you are wrong, it’s more<br />
worth it to have a friend than having a<br />
fear of being wrong.<br />
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Honoring Parents<br />
In honor of Joe & Trina Cayre by their children<br />
In honor of my parents<br />
Rae & Izzy Abade<br />
By Douglas Abade<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Galit & Sammy Esses<br />
By their children<br />
In honor of my parents<br />
Albert & Rochelle Ades<br />
By Jimmy Ades<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Gary & Mary Feldman<br />
By their children<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Sarah & Ezra Ashkenazi<br />
By their children<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Rima & Eli Kassab<br />
By their children<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Raymond & Shelly Betesh<br />
By their children<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Allan & Bella Savdie<br />
By their children<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Charles & Mira Elmann<br />
By their children<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
David & Rosy Zeitoune<br />
By their children
Be open for change & try new experiences<br />
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By: Esther Sutton<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
What would life be without a challenge,<br />
without a risk? A successful person only<br />
gets to where he is from challenges. Life<br />
is only what it is with challenges and risk<br />
and trying new things. And, you never<br />
know, you might like it. You won’t know<br />
unless you try. How will you know if the<br />
new girl will like you if you don’t speak<br />
to her? Maybe you‘ll have something in<br />
common with her and your friendship<br />
will go far. Standing out is leaving your<br />
comfort zone. It’s being uncertain of<br />
how it will turn out. Be open to new experiences<br />
because you only learn from<br />
experiences and, if it doesn’t work out,<br />
get back up again. It’s okay to be different.<br />
And, most importantly, trust Hashem.<br />
He’ll help you through it-even the<br />
hardest of challenges. Bitachon is the<br />
most important thing in life. You will get<br />
far in life if you take chances.<br />
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whole staircase.<br />
By: Adina Charnas<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Let’s say, it’s the first day of school and<br />
you’re new to a school. This year is a good<br />
way to make friends. So, you start off looking<br />
around seeing who you can introduce<br />
yourself to. Then you see in the middle of<br />
the class a group of girls laughing. So, you<br />
go over. You start to tap the shoulder of<br />
a girl and she turns around. But, before<br />
any words can come out of your mouth,<br />
she rejects you and turns around. In your<br />
mind, you want to try again but your confidence<br />
is crushed. A week later, you realize<br />
to yourself that those girls are not the<br />
kind of girls you should be with. So, the<br />
next day, you come into school ready for a<br />
new start. In the corner of the room, you<br />
see two girls talking. Before you go over<br />
to them, your heart stops a second. You<br />
think of that rejection last week.<br />
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By: Helaine Jemal<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Be open to change. You don’t need to be<br />
like everybody else. You just need to be<br />
yourself. For Purim, everybody has a partner<br />
they are dressing up with, but you<br />
don’t want to do it with a partner. You<br />
want to do it alone. So, you get a little nervous<br />
to be the one who stands out and<br />
doesn’t have a partner. You end up having<br />
a really nice time. Everybody thought<br />
it was cool because you stood out and you<br />
were yourself. You didn’t need to do a little<br />
bit of what your partner wants. It was<br />
all by you. This was an example of someone<br />
who is not afraid to stand out and be<br />
herself. You never know; you might end<br />
up loving it.<br />
By: Allan Bailey<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
I am in a candy shop. There are hundreds<br />
of candies to choose from. If I buy the<br />
same candy every time, I won’t be able<br />
to experience a new flavor combination.<br />
That would be the safe way. However, if<br />
I have a mindset to take a risk and buy a<br />
new candy, I will enjoy it more because<br />
the suspense leading up to it will be great.<br />
Therefore, if you like the new candy, it will<br />
encourage you in the future to take more<br />
risks.<br />
By: Ezra Dweck<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
When I was in the Dominican Republic,<br />
my dad was playing volleyball. After one<br />
guy left, they needed one more person to<br />
play. I was sitting on the side watching the<br />
game and, all of a sudden, my dad asked<br />
me if I wanted to play. At first I said no, but<br />
then my dad convinced me to play. So, I<br />
played. I was nervous because I never really<br />
played this sport before. My dad told<br />
me to keep on trying and then I will get<br />
it. I was finally playing very well. I loved<br />
playing, I wish I can play this sport every<br />
day of my life.<br />
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By: Marcelle Setton<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Soccer tryouts are tomorrow. Gloria didn’t<br />
want to try out because she knew she<br />
wasn’t going to get on the team. Gloria’s<br />
friend Patricia asked Gloria if she was trying<br />
out for soccer. Gloria said no because<br />
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By: Sabrina Abrahim<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Have you ever known an answer to a<br />
questions in class but was too afraid to<br />
raise your hand? This is a common fear<br />
among students around the world. And<br />
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when a teacher would ask a question for<br />
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and she still wouldn’t answer out of fear<br />
of being wrong. Letting go of some extra<br />
credit points to bump up her grade<br />
seems okay as long as she could stay in<br />
her comfort zone and never be wrong.<br />
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never always be right, either.<br />
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By: Devorah Band<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Sarala was an average 8 year old. She<br />
played with her friends’ games, jump<br />
rope and so on. But, as summer came,<br />
all her friends were riding their bikes and<br />
she was left out. Her parents bought her<br />
a beautiful pink bike for her birthday.<br />
But, Sarala never used it because she was<br />
embarrassed that she still needed training<br />
wheels. Her family tried very hard<br />
to teach her how to ride without training<br />
wheels. In the middle of July, she felt<br />
like she was ready to bike along with her<br />
friends. In the beginning, she was having a<br />
blast with her hair flying in the wind. Suddenly,<br />
she lost her balance and fell off her<br />
bike. Her friends, Leah and Penina, started<br />
laughing at her. She turned red and<br />
ran home with tears dripping down her<br />
cheeks. Sarala kept on trying for weeks. A<br />
month later, she felt confident and went<br />
outside. This time, she had a better time<br />
and didn’t fall off. Thanks to her family,<br />
she accomplished riding her bike and felt<br />
good about herself.<br />
By: Regina Saada<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Getting out of your comfort zone is a fear<br />
most human beings face. I used to be<br />
afraid to attempt to shoot a shot in basketball.<br />
I was afraid that I would miss and<br />
be humiliated. No matter how many times<br />
my coach would encourage me to shoot, I<br />
was too afraid because I was too nervous<br />
to break out of my comfort zone. I missed<br />
out on the thrill of actually playing the<br />
game the best that I could do. The next<br />
year, I realized I missed out on a lot of fun<br />
and I was determined to break out of my<br />
shell. I missed, sometimes, but I scored a<br />
lot, too. From my basketball experience,<br />
I learned that even if you are afraid you<br />
must be brave and face your fears. Start<br />
moving out of your comfort zone now and<br />
face your fears like I did.<br />
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By: Jonny Sultan<br />
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Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Lebron James entered the NBA at age 19.<br />
Coming right out of college, he was ready<br />
to play versus NBA stars like Shaquille<br />
O’Neal, Kobe Bryant, and Tim Duncan.<br />
At 6”8, Lebron played his first game with<br />
only 5 points. He got so much criticism for<br />
coming right after high school. The media<br />
kept asking him, “Do you think you’ll be<br />
good?” And he kept on answering, “Do<br />
I look like a quitter or a loser?” The next<br />
Taking risks:<br />
game, he played the Lakers, Kobe Bryant’s<br />
team. He had 32 points, one of the best<br />
scores. He never quit.<br />
If you win, you will<br />
By: Rachel Nussbaum<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
be happy. If you lose,<br />
Without risks, life would be boring. In order<br />
you will be wise.<br />
to make your life more exciting, you<br />
need to be daring and take risks. If you are<br />
constantly scared to take risks, you will<br />
By: Sharon Betesh<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Everybody in this world is afraid of something.<br />
But, that doesn’t mean to be afraid<br />
of everything. It’s not bad to take risks.<br />
But, when you don’t take risks, you are<br />
missing out on an opportunity. All your<br />
friends are at an amusement park and<br />
you don’t go on any rides. They all run<br />
on to the biggest ride in the park and you<br />
just stand there. You don’t want to go because<br />
you’re scared. Scared of what? Your<br />
friends come off the ride and had the best<br />
time. You just missed out on a memory<br />
that your friends could look back on. But,<br />
you can’t because you were scared. When<br />
you take risks, you thank yourself after<br />
because being scared in life causes you to<br />
miss out on great opportunities.<br />
By: Eddie Catton<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
In school, Jake wasn’t in the honors class.<br />
He was in the regular class. He worked<br />
very hard and became smarter. So, he was<br />
offered to move up to the honor class.<br />
Jake turned the offer down because he<br />
was too familiar with the regular class.<br />
He knew that he was smart enough to<br />
move up to the honors class. He knew everything<br />
that he was taught in the regular<br />
class and got bored but still wanted<br />
to stay there. If Jake took the offer, he<br />
would have been able to become an even<br />
smarter boy. Jake has to accept that life<br />
is about taking risks and stepping out of<br />
your comfort zone. There is no guarantee<br />
that honors class would have been better<br />
for him but he should’ve given it a try.<br />
never be accustomed to new things. If you<br />
constantly eat the same food, wear the<br />
same clothes and have the same friends,<br />
then you will just live a simple, boring<br />
life. Some people might fear taking risks<br />
because of the consequences or because<br />
they don’t like to try new things. We need<br />
to overcome this fear and train our minds<br />
to let us take those risks. So, what do you<br />
have to lose by taking risks?<br />
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By: Dina Huppert<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Because of fear in class, I am unable to answer<br />
any questions. My hand slowly goes<br />
up, but the fear pulls it down. My mouth<br />
opens wide, but the fear shuts it closed.<br />
Don’t let fear control you or you won’t<br />
get anywhere. Because of my fear of getting<br />
laughed at, I wasn’t sure what I know<br />
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Mike always wanted to learn how to ski. He<br />
went to many mountains during the winter<br />
to ski. He practiced for almost a year. He<br />
decided to join a skiing contest. The object<br />
of this contest was to see who got to the<br />
bottom of the mountain first going around<br />
obstacles. When the race started, Mike was<br />
extremely nervous. He fell off his skis and<br />
fell down the mountains. He came in last.<br />
Everyone else made it to the bottom without<br />
falling and everyone laughed at him. To<br />
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Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Naomi got picked from the whole school to<br />
speak at her school assembly. She worked<br />
really hard by making the speech and practicing.<br />
The night of the assembly came. She<br />
was so excited. She was in the middle of<br />
the speech and, all of a sudden, her mind<br />
went blank. Everyone started to giggle and<br />
laugh. Naomi felt like sinking in to the floor.<br />
But, she thought how hard she worked and<br />
practiced day and night. She was not going<br />
to give up now. She tried to remember<br />
the speech and it came back to her head.<br />
All of a sudden, she remembered it. She<br />
finished her speech and everyone cheered<br />
and clapped. She was picked again for the<br />
assembly the following year.<br />
By: Natalie Mizrahi<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Fear is an unpleasant emotion caused by<br />
the belief that someone or something is<br />
dangerous, likely to cause pain or threat.<br />
Fear is responsible for holding people back.<br />
The only thing we have to fear is fear itself<br />
(Franklin D. Roosevelt.) With this attitude,<br />
we can accomplish anything we put our<br />
minds to. Being kids, there are many people<br />
who degrade and belittle us and damage our<br />
confidence making us feel like such a small<br />
voice in this big world. As we get older, we<br />
will continue to encounter people like this.<br />
We cannot allow the fear to get to us. Fear<br />
stunts our growth causing us to not reach<br />
our fullest potential.<br />
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By: Terry Jemal<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
If someone goes to Six Flags with their<br />
friends and a girl is scared to go on the scary<br />
ride, they shouldn’t be scared because they<br />
are ruining it for themselves. They should go<br />
on that ride. If someone believes in Hashem<br />
that he will protect you, it’s all in his hands.<br />
We shouldn’t make ourselves all nervous<br />
and work ourselves up. Once they go on the<br />
ride, they will say, “That was fun” and she<br />
will be happy once she conquers her fears.<br />
If we get scared about something, we think<br />
of all nonsense in our heads because we are<br />
making ourselves crazy. We shouldn’t do<br />
that. It won’t do anything in life. We can’t<br />
get anywhere if we have fear about every<br />
little thing. You can’t think right if you have<br />
fear about something.<br />
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By: Stephanie Dweck<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
When one doesn’t take risks, one loses<br />
out on so many different aspects of life.<br />
They become so afraid and paranoid that<br />
they forget to live life. They miss out on<br />
everything that life has to offer. Fear created<br />
followers instead of leaders. We pass<br />
through life without becoming our own<br />
person. We nod when we’re supposed to,<br />
laugh when others are and try to talk as<br />
little as possible. We become someone<br />
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By: Batya Kairey<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
I was in Great Adventure in the summer.<br />
My friends all wanted to go on a Kingda<br />
Ka, but I was scared. I was not scared<br />
that I would die, but that I was afraid of<br />
the heights. My friends tried to convince<br />
me to go on a Kingda Ka, but I was trembling<br />
with fear. My friends went on line<br />
without me and tried to convince me to<br />
come on with them. They were almost<br />
at the top and I still didn’t go. When<br />
they came down, they were all talking<br />
and laughing. They were screaming how<br />
good it was. I felt so left out because I<br />
didn’t go on. On the next ride they went<br />
on, I went, too, and had the time of my<br />
life. I will never be afraid to go on any<br />
ride again because, if the other people<br />
can do it, I can do it too.<br />
By: Jack Mizrahi<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
A couple of years ago, a plane landed<br />
in the Hudson River. The pilot and the<br />
crew didn’t know what to do. Then, one<br />
crew member thought they should try to<br />
evacuate the plane before they were all<br />
under the Hudson. The plane staff took a<br />
giant leap of faith and risked their lives to<br />
save the passengers. Taking risks can be a<br />
huge accomplishment, even if you think<br />
you may fail.<br />
By: Mimi Levy<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
It is extremely important to take chances.<br />
You have one life to live and it’s extremely<br />
important to live it to its fullest<br />
potential. Sometimes, it might be scary.<br />
But, if you don’t step out of your comfort<br />
zone, you can regret it for the rest<br />
of your life. For example, you can lose<br />
a great job experience because you are<br />
too nervous to show the boss what you<br />
are made of. However, it might be too<br />
dangerous to take certain chances. You<br />
should definitely step out of your comfort<br />
zone but don’t be too risky so that it<br />
ends up badly.<br />
By: Joey Alhadef<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
When you have an idea that you want to<br />
share, you should share it or your chance<br />
will pass. Your friends will move on to<br />
something else. If you think your idea is<br />
good, then share it even if you think your<br />
friends won’t like it. A lot of successful<br />
people have been told that their ideas<br />
were weird or their friends didn’t like<br />
it but, in the end, they were successful.<br />
You are supposed to take risks and face<br />
problems.<br />
BARKAI P. 107| HILLEL P. 109 | MDY P. 103 | YOF P. 111<br />
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Joey Sitt in honor of his wife Betty<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Valerie<br />
by Jack Cheika<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Marcy<br />
by Charles Sued<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Fortune<br />
by David Edelstein<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Kimberly<br />
by Jimmy Tawil<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Karen<br />
by David Moreno<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Grace<br />
by Joey A. Tawil<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Victoria<br />
by Steven Salem<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Rose<br />
by Elliot Zeitoune<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Joyce<br />
by Abe Shalom<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Jeanne<br />
by Ralph Zirdok
More Risk = More Reward: Friendship<br />
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By: <strong>Bar</strong>bara Schwartzbard<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
It was the summer going into 10th grade<br />
and I couldn’t decide what I wanted to<br />
do for the summer. Most of my friends<br />
were going to the same camp that I have<br />
been going to for many years. However,<br />
one of my friends was going to Israel<br />
for the summer to a sleep away camp.<br />
She asked me if I wanted to join her<br />
and I said no. I wanted to be in a camp<br />
that I was comfortable in, that I knew.<br />
When we all came back to school this<br />
fall, she told me all about her summer.<br />
This is when I realized I should’ve gone<br />
with her to Israel this summer. Because<br />
I didn’t take a risk, I missed out on an<br />
amazing summer and a chance to see<br />
new things and meet new people. This<br />
experience shows me to take risks and<br />
be courageous. The comfortable choice<br />
isn’t always the best choice.<br />
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One man with<br />
courage makes<br />
a majority.<br />
By: Evelyn Tawil<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Everyone wants acceptance. When you<br />
are afraid, you lose opportunities you<br />
would be able to take if you weren’t<br />
afraid. When you take a look at teens,<br />
you can pinpoint at least one fear - fear<br />
of not being accepted. Nobody wants to<br />
be rejected, alone, or not included. You<br />
could be very talkative to one of your<br />
close friends but, when presented in<br />
front of someone foreign, you sometimes<br />
get shy. Why does this happen? Why do<br />
you suddenly bottle up and close the<br />
doors to people you haven’t even met?<br />
The reason for this is uncertainty. That<br />
feeling of not knowing how you should<br />
act. You have to face your fears head<br />
on so you don’t lose the opportunity to<br />
make new friends while simultaneously<br />
remaining true to yourself. Only then will<br />
you be truly happy with yourself and remove<br />
yourself from the burden of fear.<br />
By: Florence D.<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
In life, there will be many challenges<br />
thrown at us. But, it is our job to overcome<br />
them. Last year, a friend of mine<br />
hurt my feelings and did something unforgivable.<br />
This was a very hard obstacle for<br />
me to overcome. I am sure that most girls<br />
fight with their friends and then bounce<br />
back days later. But, this was different.<br />
We didn’t speak for weeks and acted like<br />
strangers. We both acted like we never<br />
even knew each other. Finally, I decided<br />
I had enough. I confronted my friend and<br />
showed her my perspective. She understood<br />
why I was upset and apologized. I<br />
know this doesn’t seem like such a large<br />
obstacle, but at the time it was my only<br />
obstacle. My friend and I are now closer<br />
than ever. It is very important to bounce<br />
back. Even if we fail or are faced with a<br />
challenge, we should try our hardest to<br />
succeed and overcome it.<br />
By: Sara Shtaynberger<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
The trick in life is to be confident and not<br />
scared of taking risks. If you see a new student<br />
in your class, don’t just ignore her.<br />
Walk up to her and introduce yourself.<br />
You never know; that new student might<br />
just be your new best friend.<br />
By: Vicky Levy<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
This past summer, I went to a new camp<br />
and I didn’t know anyone there except<br />
for one friend. We wanted to meet people<br />
and develop new friendships but I<br />
was afraid to approach people. When I<br />
finally did, I made one of my best friends<br />
today. If I wouldn’t have built up the<br />
courage to talk to new people, I wouldn’t<br />
have the friends I made. It’s very important<br />
to overcome your fear and to take<br />
risks because you might miss out on future<br />
experiences.<br />
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Dr. Isaac Mohadeb in honor of his wife Lily<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Frances<br />
by Hymie Betesh<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Linda<br />
by Henry V. Guindi<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Eileen<br />
by Alan Cabasso<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Linda<br />
by Eli Khafif<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Linda<br />
by Ralph Cohen<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Randi<br />
by Joey Levy<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Monique<br />
by Raymond Esses<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Renee<br />
by Nathan Matut<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Chaya<br />
by Victor Falah<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Morgan<br />
by Abe Sultan
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you learn from the stories at<br />
Letting go of past experiences<br />
By: Sophia Rofe<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Rachel’s goal was to become a great actress.<br />
One day, Rachel was invited to do<br />
the play “Romeo and Juliet”. Rachel practiced<br />
for months for this play and now it<br />
was finally here. She went on stage and<br />
started to say her lines. Right before intermission,<br />
everyone applauded. During<br />
intermission, Rachel decided that, since<br />
she did so well, she didn’t really need to<br />
practice her lines anymore. When the<br />
play was back on, it was Rachel’s lines.<br />
She said a few lines, but then she messed<br />
up. After Rachel messed up her lines, she<br />
tried again but failed. Then, Rachel ran<br />
off the stage. A few months later, she<br />
was asked to perform in the play “Shakespeare.”<br />
When she received this message,<br />
at first, she didn’t want to enter. But, then<br />
Rachel realized, in life you only fail so that<br />
you can try again. The lesson here is that<br />
you should never give up. Even if you fail<br />
terribly, you should always try again.<br />
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Sometimes you<br />
have to let things<br />
go for better<br />
things to arrive.<br />
By: Miriam Zenilman<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
When I was in third grade, I was diagnosed<br />
with a severe nut allergy. A month<br />
later, I had an allergic reaction and was<br />
sent to the nearest hospital. A couple<br />
of hours later, I was once again healthy.<br />
But, this traumatic experience had a<br />
huge impact on me. I carried the fear of<br />
having another allergic reaction with me<br />
for years. However, this past summer I<br />
was able to overcome this irrational fear.<br />
I went on a community service trip to<br />
Croatia and had to trust that the guide<br />
accompanying my group would read the<br />
ingredients on food packages correctly<br />
as I cannot understand Croatian. At first,<br />
I was very anxious about eating. However,<br />
my friends encouraged me to take<br />
risks and assured me that everything<br />
would be fine. I took their advice and<br />
found that they were right. As a result, I<br />
learned that taking a chance is definitely<br />
worth the risk.<br />
By: Orly Alchkifati<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
In order to live a happy life, you need to<br />
be successful. Successful is when someone<br />
had an embarrassing moment or<br />
experience in their life but is still trying.<br />
Someone who is not giving up, who forgets<br />
about the past and starts fresh; a<br />
person who learns from his mistakes and<br />
tries again the second time with confidence.<br />
For example, Sara has a goal to be<br />
a singer. She believed that she will be a<br />
good singer. But, when she was performing,<br />
she saw so many people staring at her.<br />
She forgot the song. But did she give up?<br />
No! Later on, there was another performance.<br />
She learned the song and learned<br />
from her mistakes. She started fresh, new<br />
and was confident in herself. That’s what<br />
I call a winner - a person who keeps on<br />
pushing and pushing until they get it right.<br />
A person who gets up when she falls.<br />
By: Bert Dweck<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
One day, I decided to run a marathon and<br />
tried to be the winner. I never ran more<br />
than 2 miles in my life. I started training<br />
every day for 45 minutes and it was going<br />
fine. Then I ran a 10 mile marathon after<br />
training 45 minutes a day for 3 months and<br />
collapsed right before I reached 6 miles. I<br />
was really upset and ashamed of myself. I<br />
felt like I was a fool and couldn’t succeed.<br />
I just decided to think positive and forget<br />
about all of the stumbling blocks and mistakes<br />
that ever happened to me. I started<br />
my training all over again. I increased my<br />
training to 1 hour and 30 minutes a day<br />
and I ran the same marathon 1 year later.<br />
I was very nervous before the marathon<br />
that something might happen. I ended up<br />
succeeding and winning the marathon.<br />
I won a first place medal. The lesson I<br />
learned was to never give up and you will<br />
succeed.<br />
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In Memory of<br />
I n m e m o r y o f R a l p h S . G i n d i A ” H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Ezra and Samira ben<br />
Rachel Abed A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Albert Manopla A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Maurice Elbaz A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Yitzchak ben Mazal A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Eliyahu<br />
ben Rachel A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Joseph M. Missry<br />
ben Arline A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Yoseph ben Latife Guindi<br />
I n memory of<br />
Ralphael Sarway A”H<br />
I n loving memory of<br />
Joseph S. Jemal A”H<br />
by his wife Ruth and children<br />
I n memory of<br />
Hy Serure A”H<br />
by his family
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you learn from the stories at<br />
Letting go of past experiences<br />
By: Esther Sutton<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Two girls stood behind the curtain at<br />
their ballet recital. “I’m next. I can’t do<br />
it. I just can’t,” one girl said to another.<br />
Her friend responded, “Of course you<br />
can. What is stopping you?” “Don’t you<br />
remember last year’s show? I tripped<br />
and fell and what if it happens again?<br />
I ruined it for everyone last time and I<br />
don’t want that to happen again,” she<br />
explained. Her friend responded, “I<br />
think what you lacked was confidence.<br />
You’re just afraid of messing up again.<br />
But, the most amazing people faced<br />
challenges. You’ll never improve if you<br />
don’t face challenges. The girl responded<br />
with a smile and said, “You’re right.<br />
I won’t make the same mistake again. I<br />
just need confidence.” There was an announcement<br />
for the next contestant.<br />
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Hashem wouldn’t<br />
give you a<br />
challenge you<br />
cannot handle.<br />
By: Moshe Lati<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Who knows that moment when there are<br />
3 seconds left in the game and your team<br />
is counting on you to take the game’s<br />
winning shot? Well, I do. I had the ball<br />
in my hands and I was so nervous. The<br />
one thing I was thinking was let’s say I<br />
made the shot, the whole crowd would<br />
be going nuts! But, I also thought lets say<br />
I missed that shot, my whole team would<br />
be screaming at me or they will never<br />
trust me to take the last shot. I had the<br />
ball with 3 seconds. I shot...and I missed.<br />
My team didn’t scream at me. They<br />
told me, “Its ok. We all make mistakes.<br />
People learn from their mistakes.” I felt<br />
good, really good. But now, the second<br />
time, are my teammates going to trust<br />
me to take the game’s winning shot? I<br />
am not going to be scared or nervous.<br />
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By: Cerise Rishty<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
There was a girl, named Julie, who loved<br />
to dance. She went to a dance class every<br />
day. One day, her teacher said, “We are<br />
going to have a dance recital next week.”<br />
Julie was jumping with joy. She invited<br />
her whole family and all her friends. Every<br />
second she had, she practiced. It was<br />
finally the day of the recital and she was<br />
so excited. She walked on stage. The music<br />
started and she forgot the dance. All of<br />
her friends and family saw her frozen on<br />
stage. She ran off and cried. When it came<br />
to the next recital, she was hesitant to<br />
do it. She worked even harder. She never<br />
gave up. It turned out great.<br />
By: Tamar Schneider<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
If you want to overcome fear, this is what<br />
you should do. Whatever the fear is, do<br />
it over and over again; so, the next time<br />
it comes up you won’t be scared because<br />
you will be so used to it. I read a story<br />
once about a boy who was afraid of elevators<br />
because he got stuck in one. His mom<br />
told him to go on it again and again and he<br />
did. So, that’s why he overcame his fear.<br />
This really works. Try it!<br />
By: Linda Benun<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Someone was getting married to a very<br />
nice and sweet lady. After all the parties<br />
and everything, two days before the wedding<br />
the bride called off the wedding. It<br />
broke her fiancé’s heart. His family had to<br />
calm him down. After that happened, he<br />
was always afraid to get into another relationship<br />
with someone else because he<br />
was afraid he was going to get hurt again.<br />
It took him a few years to actually say, “I<br />
feel confident that I will find someone.”<br />
And he did. He is married now to a lovely<br />
lady and they are actually expecting a<br />
baby soon. So, now you see what happens<br />
when you overcome your fears.<br />
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In Memory of<br />
In memory of Gabriel Chehebar A”H<br />
I n memory of my father<br />
Jack S. Anteby A”H<br />
By David Anteby<br />
I n memory of<br />
Norma Haddad A”H<br />
By her family<br />
I n memory of<br />
Abraham D. Cohen A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Elliot Serure A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Shaya Chabot<br />
ben Simbol A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Shira bat Simcha A”H<br />
By his family<br />
I n memory of<br />
Eddie Haber A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Gitta bat Nizha<br />
Sultan A”H<br />
I n memory of<br />
Alice Haddad A”H<br />
By her family<br />
I n memory of<br />
Sol N. Tawil A”H<br />
By his wife, children and grandchildren
Don’t repeat the same mistake. Try a new approach.<br />
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By: Rena Chaiklen<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
You have an assignment in one of your<br />
classes to write a story. You have a really<br />
great idea and work very hard to write it.<br />
When you get to school the day that it’s<br />
due, you are very confident and happy<br />
with your story. You go around showing<br />
it to everyone and telling them to read it.<br />
When you hand it in, you tell the teacher,<br />
“I think I did well.” When you get it back,<br />
you get a very bad grade. Everyone is very<br />
happy with their grades and is asking you<br />
what you got. You tell them, sadly, that<br />
you did badly and you’re very embarrassed.<br />
The next time you get assigned<br />
to write a story, at first you’re upset because<br />
last time you did badly. When you<br />
get home, instead of just writing anything<br />
because you think you’re a bad writer, you<br />
put your all into the story. You do things<br />
differently than you did before and you<br />
come up with a better story. This time you<br />
get the highest grade.<br />
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Failure is the<br />
opportunity to<br />
begin again, only<br />
more intelligently.<br />
By: Rachelli Hoffman<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
A girl named Chana always wanted to try<br />
to dive. One day, she went to the pool. She<br />
ran to the front of the pool. She held her<br />
hands out towards the water and jumped<br />
off the edge of the pool. She felt her body<br />
fly through the air as she touched the surface<br />
of the water and smack. She landed<br />
in a belly flop. She was very embarrassed.<br />
She went home devastated. The next day<br />
she went back to the pool to try again. She<br />
went to the edge and wondered; maybe,<br />
if she held her hands up a different way,<br />
she might do it the right way. This time,<br />
she held her hands above her head and<br />
jumped. This time, instead of touching<br />
the surface of the water, she did a neat<br />
plunge through the water. All her friends<br />
clapped for her as she exited the water.<br />
By: Daniel Braha<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
One day, I was with my friends. They<br />
all had penny boards. I said to myself,<br />
“That looks cool.” So, I asked my dad if<br />
I can have one and he said, “Yes.” I was<br />
so excited. All of my friends were outside<br />
my house with their skateboards. I<br />
rushed out the door to show my skateboard<br />
to them. We went riding. We<br />
started to ride and right away I fell off.<br />
From then on I knew, I wasn’t that good<br />
because they were laughing at me. I<br />
thought about that and said to myself<br />
that if I tried I would be a great rider.<br />
So, I was practicing but I couldn’t seem<br />
to get the hang of it. One time, I tried to<br />
put my feet in a different direction and,<br />
the first thing I knew, I was riding. The<br />
next day, I was riding with my friends.<br />
I was doing great. After a few months<br />
went by, I was the best rider.<br />
By: Raymond Arking<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
People always try to do amazing things<br />
but, sometimes, it just backfires. I think<br />
people should start out small and then try<br />
bigger. For example, I tried to get a touchdown<br />
in football. But, the ball bounced<br />
off my hands and someone on the other<br />
team caught it. (It was an interception).<br />
So, I tried to start small. I got a touchdown<br />
by running with the ball (getting a handoff).<br />
I felt good that I helped my team instead<br />
of doing a back flip and missing a<br />
throw, which I could have easily caught. I<br />
know that many people have done similar<br />
mistakes. So, remember to start small and<br />
you’ll end up doing big things one day.<br />
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Jack A. Kassin in honor of his wife Joyce<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Aliza<br />
by Albert Allaham<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Betty<br />
by Albert Marcus<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Etty<br />
by Jack Benzaken<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Stephanie<br />
by Jack Mosseri<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Lisa<br />
by Jackie Cohen – Arazi<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Arlene<br />
by Ralph Sassoon<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Stefanie<br />
by Ikey Douek<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Ellen<br />
by Morris Shalom<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Jane<br />
by Steve Gammal<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Sally<br />
by David Wahba
A healthy attitude towards failure<br />
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By: Vivian Gindi<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
When I was learning to ride a bicycle, I<br />
kept on falling and I couldn’t stay on the<br />
bike. I got a scrape on my knee and cut on<br />
my ankle. But, I decided to be determined<br />
and I jumped right back on the bicycle. After<br />
so many times, I actually rode a little.<br />
I continued and I did it. I learned how to<br />
ride a bicycle. Even though I was little<br />
and that was a small accomplishment, it<br />
taught me a lesson. I learned that from<br />
failures I can learn to do things better.<br />
By: Joyce Kassin<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Everyone at some point fails. Most people<br />
look at a failure as a very bad thing. But,<br />
you don’t have to. When someone fails,<br />
that could be your motivation to reach<br />
your goal and do better even if you don’t<br />
get it the first time or even the fifth time.<br />
Never give up. Always look ahead.<br />
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I was born to<br />
make mistakes,<br />
not to fake<br />
perfection.<br />
By: Lauren Shamah<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
There was once a girl who loved to dance.<br />
She took many classes and spent hours<br />
improving. It was the big day. She got to<br />
dance by herself in front of 500 people.<br />
There were very important people from<br />
the dance world to watch her. Bam! She<br />
fell on her face. Everyone started to laugh<br />
and she dashed out in embarrassment.<br />
She felt discouraged, but knew that she<br />
had another chance to prove herself next<br />
week and giving up would be a bad idea.<br />
She restlessly worked and tried to improve.<br />
Her next chance came and she felt<br />
motivated. She believed in herself and did<br />
amazing. She was requested for the biggest<br />
school of dance. We learn from her<br />
that failure leads to success.<br />
By: Joelle Cohen<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Once upon a time, I was on the debate<br />
team. It was fun and everyone thought<br />
I would win. Above all, I was passionate<br />
about the debate’s subject being it was<br />
animal testing. When the debate started,<br />
I was surprised at the intelligence of the<br />
kids on the other team. They showed me<br />
much stronger points of the argument. I<br />
wasn’t surprised when I lost. But, I was<br />
resentful. I blamed it on so many things.<br />
I blamed it on my partner who admittedly<br />
stuttered and did get a lower score than<br />
me. I blamed it on my lack of preparation<br />
time, but it may have been my overzealous<br />
confidence. This taught me to prepare<br />
and not be so conceited. I was so upset<br />
at not winning anything but, in reality,<br />
I was disappointed in myself. I still had fun<br />
at the competition which encouraged me<br />
to sign up for the 8th grade debate team<br />
again and try better this time.<br />
By: Laurie Haber<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Sarah wanted to be an interior designer.<br />
She worked so hard to prepare for her<br />
first client. All through her first appointment,<br />
Sarah was so excited she didn’t let<br />
her client say what he wanted. Sarah kept<br />
on rambling on and on about how she<br />
wanted the house and what she imagined<br />
the house to become. After the first appointment,<br />
Sarah’s client called and kindly<br />
said that they did not need her services<br />
anymore. Sarah wondered what she did<br />
wrong. She realized that she did not let<br />
her client talk. Sarah fixed her mistakes<br />
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A healthy attitude towards failure<br />
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By: Elliot Levy<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Many times in life, you may come to an opportunity<br />
where you can choose to either<br />
take a risk or be conservative. Numerous<br />
people may decide to be conservative and<br />
miss out on what they could have gotten.<br />
Whenever people do something and fail,<br />
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can derive what they did wrong and how<br />
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By: Steven Hafif<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
When I first started my sophomore year<br />
in high school, I made the decision to try<br />
out for the hockey team. I was excited. I<br />
bought the equipment and started practicing<br />
weeks before the first game. By the<br />
time my first game came up, I was bursting<br />
with excitement. Arriving early, I immediately<br />
ran downstairs and started to<br />
plan how I will celebrate my goals. The<br />
game started and I was frozen up. I missed<br />
every pass, shot and goal. And I was eventually<br />
benched for the second half of the<br />
game. I went into the locker room upset<br />
and mostly angry. But, then, I took a step<br />
back. I thought about what I was doing<br />
wrong and how to correct it. Instead of<br />
giving up, I went to the coach and told<br />
him to give me another chance. The very<br />
next shift, I scored the game winning goal.<br />
By: Jacob Tawil<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Slip! Pete fell again. He lost the ice hockey<br />
game for his team. After the game, the<br />
whole team wanted Pete off the team.<br />
Pete was so sad. So, he quit because he<br />
did not want to be on a team when he<br />
was not welcomed. The next day, a kid<br />
from the team came to Pete to tell him to<br />
come back on the team. He told Pete that<br />
he should not quit just because he made<br />
a mistake. He should learn from his mistakes<br />
instead. Pete decided to come back<br />
on the team. At the end of the game, Pete<br />
got the game’s winning goal. His whole<br />
team congratulated Pete. He learned a<br />
valuable lesson: Never give up.<br />
By: Juliet Nasar<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Abigail’s dream was to get into Harvard<br />
Law School. She was very smart. When it<br />
came time to take the SATs, she was very<br />
nervous. She was so nervous that she<br />
couldn’t think straight and got a very bad<br />
mark. She was very depressed. Some time<br />
later she took the SATs again. This time,<br />
she learned that she shouldn’t be too<br />
nervous. So, she took a deep breath and<br />
began the test. This time, she got a very<br />
good grade and is now in her third year of<br />
Harvard Law School. This story shows that<br />
you should never give up and learn from<br />
your mistakes.<br />
By: Sophia Hindy<br />
Ahi Ezer Yeshiva<br />
In order to succeed, there is going to be<br />
failure in the process. But, if you don’t fail,<br />
you won’t learn. The hard part is deciding<br />
to keep going once you fail, instead of<br />
letting that mistake stop you from moving<br />
forward. What some people don’t understand<br />
is that mistakes or failing brought<br />
something good to it, too; It taught more<br />
experience to face the next challenges.<br />
And the next challenge, you most likely<br />
will succeed.<br />
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by Allan Levy<br />
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By: Tehila Bitton<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
One time, when Bella was starting a new<br />
school, she was too shy and insecure that<br />
no one would like her. Sarah didn’t talk to<br />
anyone and when they tried to talk to her<br />
she would just brush them off. Because of<br />
her fear, she ended up alone without any<br />
friends. Later, she learned her lesson and<br />
asked her mother to switch schools. She<br />
put aside her fears, stepped up and said<br />
“Hello” first. Now, she has a ton of friends.<br />
She learned that fear doesn’t help you be<br />
safer. It just held her back from experiencing<br />
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By: Rachel Isayev<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
One time in chemistry class, the teacher<br />
asked a question. It was an advanced<br />
question that was very difficult to answer.<br />
Therefore, very few raised hands to answer<br />
the question and those who did got<br />
it wrong. I was pretty sure I knew that answer,<br />
but my fear took control and I was<br />
too nervous to raise my hand. As I was<br />
debating with myself whether I should<br />
raise my hand or not, someone else<br />
raised their hand. That student got the<br />
answer right and was rewarded with extra<br />
points on her average. The disappointing<br />
part was that I was going to say the exact<br />
same answer and, if I wasn’t so afraid to<br />
say it, then I would’ve gotten the points.<br />
Ever since this incident, I don’t shy away<br />
from answering questions. Occasionally, I<br />
get the bonus questions and I am the one<br />
who receives the points. Don’t let fear<br />
control actions because you can be much<br />
more successful if you conquer it.<br />
By: Sonny Setton<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
This past summer, I went to work at a<br />
camp. However, I am naturally a quiet and<br />
shy person. I normally have a hard time<br />
meeting new people. This past summer<br />
was actually very fun because of all the<br />
people I met. I became close with my cocounselor<br />
who happened to be very popular<br />
in the camp. Once I saw how social he<br />
was, I said to myself, “You can do this.” We<br />
immediately became very good friends.<br />
Over the course of the summer, I met so<br />
many new and wonderful people. Before<br />
I knew it, I became popular in camp too.<br />
I came out of the summer with at least<br />
20 new great friends. It just goes to show<br />
you. If you just step out of your comfort<br />
zone, great things will happen.<br />
By: Orly Alchkifati<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
One time, when I was little, I was shy and<br />
scared to sing in front of people. Everyone<br />
wanted to hear my voice and how I sing.<br />
I was scared they wouldn’t like my voice<br />
and would laugh at me. When I sing, I express<br />
myself and who I am. But, because<br />
of fear, I wasn’t able to do that. People<br />
thought I was a little shy girl with no talent.<br />
But, later on in life, I learned that<br />
when you think too much or overthink it<br />
you start to get scared. So, the message<br />
I’m trying to say is don’t get scared or<br />
you’ll regret it for life. Never overthink,<br />
just do what you truly believe.<br />
By: Bobby Matalon<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
When I play basketball by myself, I play<br />
great. But, when I play with my friends, I<br />
don’t seem to be as good. That happens<br />
because I’m scared. As soon as I realized<br />
it, I worked to overcome my fear and shyness.<br />
My game improved and my friends<br />
were impressed with the way I played.<br />
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by Alan Maleh<br />
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by Isaac Srugo
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Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
There was a boy who didn’t have a place<br />
to go to for lunch. I already made plans<br />
with my friends. I kept thinking to myself:<br />
the right thing to do would be to bring<br />
him with my friends. Although this was<br />
obvious, there was still a chance that my<br />
friends wouldn’t approve and leave me<br />
alone. I took that risk. I invited him to<br />
come along. I will never forget the smile<br />
I put on that kid’s face. It was definitely<br />
worth risk taking. The best part was that<br />
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By: Sion Dweck<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
One day, Ikey went to his friend. His friend<br />
was popular and everybody was kind of<br />
forced to follow him. Ikey was different<br />
from everybody. Every morning, he would<br />
wake up very early and pray, put money<br />
in sedaka. When he went to his friend’s<br />
house, he was told he had to sleep there<br />
because it was snowing. He couldn’t do<br />
what he did every morning. Ikey was<br />
forced to leave his comfort zone because<br />
of society. He can overcome it by being<br />
himself. He could have been brave and do<br />
what he does every morning.<br />
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By: Frieda Sasson<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Sometimes when people have friends<br />
over for a sleepover, the next morning you<br />
might want to do netilat yadayim and pray<br />
but you are worried about what people<br />
will think. You think that they might make<br />
fun of you if you pray. But, you shouldn’t<br />
think about what other people think<br />
when you are doing a mitzvah and doing<br />
the right things. But, when you are doing<br />
a wrong thing, you should care about<br />
what other people think. Don’t fear to do<br />
the right thing. Be yourself and that’s all<br />
that matters.<br />
By: Maurice Djmal<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
A few boys were going out to eat at a nonkosher<br />
restaurant. One boy was scared<br />
to ask them to eat at a kosher restaurant<br />
instead. So, he went along with them<br />
and didn’t say anything. A month later,<br />
he was with the same friends again and<br />
they were going to a non-kosher restaurant<br />
again. This time he didn’t want to sin<br />
and said that he didn’t want to eat there.<br />
His friends said they didn’t care and were<br />
going there anyway. But, then, one of his<br />
friends said he also doesn’t like to eat<br />
there and he was afraid to speak up till<br />
now. Both of the boys went to a kosher<br />
restaurant together.<br />
By: Jacqueline Franco<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
Someone wanted to wear a skirt everyday.<br />
She wanted to become more tzniut.<br />
She didn’t want because her friends<br />
might make fun of her. They might think<br />
she is weird or they might try to stop talking<br />
to her. Later on, the girl wears a skirt<br />
every Friday and Saturday. She sees that<br />
her friends don’t say anything. At the end,<br />
she wears skirts every day. Her friends<br />
don’t say anything and she has faced her<br />
fears and succeeded.<br />
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By Nathan Hoffman<br />
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By Alan Jemal<br />
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Joy<br />
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By Joey Mizrahi<br />
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By: Fatima Sharaby<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Sarah was so excited to go on a shopping<br />
spree with her mom. Her friends were<br />
telling her where to go and what to buy.<br />
When she came to school the next week<br />
with a turtleneck sweater, her friends<br />
were making fun of her and told her to<br />
take it off. Sara came home that day giving<br />
all her clothes away to charity. Her<br />
mom spent all this money for no reason.<br />
Her mom told her, “You can be different.<br />
You can have your own style.” Sarah came<br />
to school the next day with another shirt<br />
that she just bought. Her friends rolled<br />
their eyes and made nasty comments.<br />
Sarah said, “I am not you. I can wear what<br />
I want.” Her friends realized they were<br />
wrong and apologized. Sarah finally felt<br />
comfortable.<br />
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<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
You’re with your friends at a restaurant.<br />
All of them order French fries and unhealthy<br />
food. You always ate healthy<br />
your whole life. You really want to order<br />
salad or soup but you order what<br />
all your friends have because you are<br />
afraid to be different. Order what you<br />
want and enjoy it!<br />
By: Gayle Zagha<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
When there is a group of people who<br />
are all basically the same, the fear stops<br />
you from being yourself. If you are not<br />
acting like yourself, then how are people<br />
supposed to like you for who you are?<br />
Just act like yourself and be loved by<br />
them and let them accept you for you.<br />
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By: Ruth Tawil<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
You are going to buy shoes and you chose<br />
a pair that you love. You’re ready to buy<br />
them until you hesitate because you think<br />
that your friends might not like them or<br />
they will make fun of you. Then, you put<br />
the shoes back and you leave the store<br />
empty handed. Why should you care what<br />
your friends think about those shoes?<br />
They are not the ones who are wearing<br />
them; you are. What’s the big deal if<br />
you buy them and your friends don’t like<br />
them? You’re dressing for yourself not for<br />
your friends.<br />
By: Rebecca Sutton<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Fear is something that always stays unless<br />
you’re able to overcome. For example,<br />
doing something different than your<br />
friends may sound scary but, once you do<br />
it, if they’re true friends, they will support<br />
you and accept you. Not doing it, letting<br />
fear take over, will make you be always<br />
scared and worried about what everyone<br />
will think. It will stay with you until you<br />
get older unless you face it. So, why not<br />
take a chance and live a life?<br />
By: Celia Cohen<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
There are many different situations in<br />
which people are too fearful. One example<br />
is a person wants to grow up to<br />
become a scientist or have an academic<br />
career but they won’t follow their dreams<br />
because they are afraid that someone will<br />
make fun of them and call them a nerd<br />
or a genius. They are afraid that they will<br />
lose their friends. They will choose to not<br />
go to college just so that they can fit in.<br />
It’s not good to be fearful of the person<br />
you really want to be. You end up becoming<br />
a person your friends want you to be.<br />
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Marlene<br />
By Joseph Bibi<br />
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By Charles Grazi<br />
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Ninette<br />
By Raymond Cohen<br />
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By Victor Halabi<br />
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Gloria<br />
By Jamie Dweck<br />
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Lisa<br />
By Joey Jemal<br />
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By: Gayle Zagha<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
An 8th grade boy is in a lower math track.<br />
But, he is really trying to do better. He<br />
practices and practices during all of his<br />
free time and ,yet, he still fails his quizzes.<br />
Everyone keeps telling him to stop<br />
trying, “You’re never going to get any better.<br />
You’re not smart.” He started to believe<br />
it. So, he stopped trying and kept on<br />
failing. After a while, he thought to himself,<br />
“Wait! I shouldn’t listen to this. I can<br />
pass.” The night before his next quiz, he<br />
studied for hours. During the quiz, he kept<br />
thinking to himself, “I can do this, I can do<br />
this. I will do this.” When he got his quiz<br />
back, he was scared to look. He covered<br />
the grades and closed his eyes. Finally, he<br />
opened his eyes and uncovered the grade.<br />
He got a 95%. He was so proud and so was<br />
his teacher. From then on, he wouldn’t listen<br />
to what others would say about him.<br />
Only what he thought of himself.<br />
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By: Linda Sasson<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
One day, I wanted to try to play baseball<br />
with my friend. I started to throw the<br />
ball up in the air and I tried to hit it but<br />
I missed. I kept trying to hit the ball but<br />
it was no use because I kept missing. My<br />
friend said, “Give it up. You’ll never be<br />
as good as me.” After she said that, I felt<br />
really bad. And, I believed that I wasn’t<br />
going to be as good as her. Then, every<br />
day after school, I went outside and my<br />
dad pitched to me. I did a little better<br />
because I got one hit, but it didn’t go so<br />
far. The next day, I went outside again to<br />
practice. I hit the ball up into the trees.<br />
I was jumping up and down because I<br />
got such a good hit. I ran and gave my<br />
dad the biggest hug and thanked him<br />
for making me so good at baseball. I<br />
learned from that to never give up because<br />
everything is possible.<br />
By: Sari Alfaks<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Fear can prevent you from reaching your<br />
life goals and dreams. If it’s your dream to<br />
be a lawyer, you should push yourself to<br />
get there and enjoy doing it. If you have<br />
a job interview and you get very nervous<br />
about it, you won’t succeed. An opportunity<br />
like this comes once in a lifetime. You<br />
must be relaxed and calm and believe that<br />
you could succeed. Fear is all imagination<br />
and the only person causing fear is you.<br />
By: Estelle Saad<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
There once was a girl who never tried anything<br />
new. She would never talk to anyone<br />
else other than the girls she knew all<br />
her life. When she went to a new school,<br />
she was forced to make new friends and<br />
try new things. She joined many teams<br />
and made so many friends. She was glad<br />
that she stepped out of her comfort zone<br />
and wished she had tried it before. Don’t<br />
wait for an opportunity to knock on your<br />
door. You should knock on its doors.<br />
By: Laurie Rae Haber<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
Sarah went to a store to buy new clothes.<br />
She saw an exotic dress that she liked a<br />
lot. She saw a price tag. It was only $20.<br />
She was afraid that her friend wouldn’t<br />
like the dress. She was debating if she<br />
should buy it or not. She liked the dress<br />
and it was cheap, but her friends might<br />
not like it. In the end, Sarah didn’t buy<br />
the dress. She came to the store the next<br />
day and the dress was $50. Sarah lost out<br />
on the dress because of fear. She learned<br />
that day not to think about what anybody<br />
thinks.<br />
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Eshet Chayil<br />
Raymond Dayan in honor of his wife Vivian<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Honey<br />
by Moshe Assis<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Lina<br />
by Edmound Nahum<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Rose<br />
by Ike Betesh<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Cleme<br />
by Joe V. Saideh<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Shani<br />
by Mordy Faks<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Tania<br />
by David Salem<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Betti<br />
by Alex Missry<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Sari<br />
by Jack Sasson<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Lynn<br />
by Marc Moghrabi<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Sarah<br />
by Judah M. Schemo
Never give up. Don’t quit.<br />
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By: Victor Fteha<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Perseverance can prove useful during<br />
childhood in several ways. For example,<br />
I once received an unusual grade in Jewish<br />
History. It was the lowest mark I got<br />
my whole life. Instead of pondering about<br />
it uselessly, I pledged upon myself that I<br />
would study hard for my upcoming tests,<br />
particularly Jewish History, my weakness.<br />
To my disbelief, my countless efforts<br />
earned me a 112. That was actually the<br />
highest mark I got this year.<br />
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It’s hard to beat<br />
a person who<br />
never gives up.<br />
By: Abie Nahamias<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
When someone’s business goes down, he<br />
shouldn’t just say he failed and go into a<br />
new business. He should never give up<br />
and keep trying. Also, learn from the failure.<br />
The way the business failed he should<br />
never let that happen again to his business.<br />
Recently, when I was playing a basketball<br />
game and I lost, I didn’t just give<br />
up and say. I failed. The next game I tried<br />
not to fail and not let that failure make me<br />
do badly from last game. So, the game I<br />
was playing now I tried as hard as I could<br />
and recovered from the other games failure<br />
and played amazing the next game.<br />
By: Yvonne Mizrahi<br />
Hillel Yeshiva<br />
One day, Jessica was walking down the<br />
street when she saw a flyer hanging on<br />
a pole. Jessica went closer to see what it<br />
was for. It was for an art contest. Jessica<br />
got excited because she was great at art.<br />
She took the flyer home and showed it to<br />
her mom. Her mom said, “That sounds<br />
fun. We have lots of art supplies in the<br />
garage.” So, Jessica worked very hard day<br />
and night. Finally, the day of the contest<br />
was here. The judges came to look at all<br />
the projects while the contestants waited<br />
aside to present their projects. When it<br />
was Jessica’s turn, she did a nice presentation,<br />
but she heard people mumbling bad<br />
comments. She was discouraged. She decided<br />
to go home and practice her techniques<br />
and take more art lessons.<br />
By: Terri Elmann<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />
In school, I wrote a story. I gave it to some<br />
people to read and they loved it. I read it<br />
and decided it needed a little fixing. I fixed<br />
it up a little but now my story didn’t make<br />
any sense. I ended up writing an entirely<br />
new story but it was also very short and<br />
bad. I started to give up. I wanted to write<br />
stories like Harry Potter but it was no use.<br />
I wasn’t good enough. I took Harry Potter<br />
and read it. I decided I shouldn’t give up.<br />
I could write an interesting story, the best<br />
that I can. I started to write another story<br />
but, by page 14, I decided it needed more<br />
details. I started again, this time from<br />
when the character was being born. I am<br />
currently on page 7 and hope to write up<br />
to 200 pages.<br />
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Rachel<br />
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Jeff Sutton in honor of his wife Rachel<br />
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Fatima<br />
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Esther<br />
by Harry Mizrahi<br />
In honor of our daughter<br />
Ronette Mansour<br />
by Mr. & Mrs. Albert Chattah<br />
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Brooke<br />
by Lenny Salama<br />
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Leah<br />
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Shella<br />
by Jack Saideh<br />
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Lori<br />
by Harold Dweck<br />
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Joyce<br />
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Lauren<br />
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Elyse<br />
by Abie Tebele
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Alfaks, Nelly<br />
Alfaks, Sari<br />
Antebi, Evelyn<br />
Cohen, Cookie<br />
Cohen, Violet<br />
Elias, Vivian<br />
Fteha, Victor<br />
Gindi, Vivian<br />
Greenstein, Shelly<br />
Haber, Frieda<br />
Hadef, Claudine<br />
Haser, Naomi<br />
Heskiel, Amanda<br />
Kassin, Joyce<br />
Nahamias, Abie<br />
Salman, Jacqueline<br />
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Althkefati, Shlomo<br />
Cohen, Joyce<br />
Franco, Pamela<br />
Hedaya, Jacob<br />
Massre, Shirley<br />
Sasson, Jacqueline<br />
Antar, Leslie<br />
Cohen, Nancy<br />
Franco, Stephanie<br />
Hirsch, Joseph<br />
Mineh, Ruthie<br />
Sasson, Mimi<br />
Ashkenazi, Jack<br />
Cohen, Raquel<br />
Ftiha, Yosef<br />
Hoffstein, Diana<br />
Mizrahi, Vico<br />
Savdie, Lauren<br />
Baum, Melanie<br />
Cohen, Sarah<br />
Gammal, Sarah<br />
Jacobowitz, Paulette<br />
Mizrahi, Yosef<br />
Shalam, Judy<br />
Benmashiah, Rosie<br />
Dayan, Ikey<br />
Gindi, Sari<br />
Jammal, Lisa<br />
Mosseri, Jack<br />
Shalom, Jack<br />
Benzaken, Jennifer<br />
Betesh, Elena<br />
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Bijou, Freddy<br />
Botton, Raquel<br />
Bukai, Tanya<br />
Chabbott, Esther<br />
Dweck, David<br />
Dweck, Esther<br />
Dweck, Jack H.<br />
Dweck, Sam<br />
Erani, Danny<br />
Esquenazi, Morris<br />
Esses, Sandy<br />
Ezon, Joseph<br />
Greenstein, Rebecca<br />
Grego, Talya<br />
Grossman, Charles<br />
Guindi, Jack<br />
Guindi, Morris<br />
Guindi, Paula<br />
Haber, Eric<br />
Haber, Molly<br />
Haber, Shirley<br />
Jemal, Jack<br />
Kameo, Michael<br />
Kassab, Michelle<br />
Katach, Jack<br />
Kbabia, Alyn<br />
Khafif, Nissim<br />
Kishk, Esther<br />
Kishk, Sammy<br />
Nahamias, Eli<br />
Quibrisi, Isaac<br />
Rishty, Jacob<br />
Roubin, Sharon<br />
Safdieh, Lori<br />
Saideh, Fortune<br />
Salamon, Morris<br />
Salem, Mary<br />
Shlomo, Eric<br />
Shuster, Victoria<br />
Sitt, Shelley<br />
Sorcher, Jacob<br />
Sued, Gaby<br />
Tawil, David<br />
Tawil, Henry<br />
Tawil, Lilly<br />
Tawil, Raymond<br />
Chakalo, Norean<br />
Faks, Ezra<br />
Haddad, Charles<br />
Lati, Morris<br />
Salman, Alison<br />
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Chera, Charlie<br />
Faks, Victor<br />
Halwani, Sara<br />
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Sardar, Lauren<br />
Tebele, Evelyn<br />
Chera, Claudia<br />
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Hamui, Joey<br />
Levy, Jenny<br />
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Zafrani, Sarine<br />
Chkalo, Edgar<br />
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Harari, Gabrielle<br />
Maleh, Esther<br />
Sardar, Shirley<br />
Zeitoune, Eddie<br />
Cohen, Adina<br />
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Hazan, Marc<br />
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Eshet Chayil<br />
Richard Sutton in honor of his wife Alison<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Susan<br />
By Reuben Bibi<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Nicole<br />
By Chaby Orfali<br />
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Frieda<br />
By Jack Farca<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Vivian<br />
By Jack Shamosh<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Grace<br />
By Ralph M. Gindi<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Denise<br />
By Joey Sutton<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Rina<br />
By Eli Grego<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Shannon<br />
By Joseph Wahba<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Ruthy<br />
By Nathan Mann<br />
In honor of my wife<br />
Karen<br />
By Mrad Zayat
Honoring Parents<br />
In honor of Shifra & Ezra Hanon by their children<br />
In honor of my parents<br />
Shelly & Albert Antebi<br />
By their son, Philip Antebi<br />
In honor of my parents<br />
Shelly & Jacob Orfali<br />
By their son, Sammy Orfali<br />
In honor of our father<br />
Elie Esses<br />
By his children<br />
In honor of my parents<br />
Isaac & Brenda Saada<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Jane & Steve Gammal<br />
Albert Ezra and the girls<br />
In honor of<br />
Margo Savdie<br />
By her children<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Ronnie & Rochelle Kassin<br />
By their children<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Joseph & Frieda Sutton<br />
In honor of my parents<br />
Zaki & Esther Metta<br />
By Eli Metta<br />
In honor of our parents<br />
Mr. & Mrs. Edward Zonana<br />
& Mrs. Janet Dayan
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The following authors made it to the magazine and website<br />
Alhadef, Joey<br />
Bitton, Tehila<br />
Elmann, Terri<br />
Jajati, Esther<br />
Louziah, Sarah<br />
Sutton, Rebecca<br />
Ammar, Danielle<br />
Arking, Raymond<br />
Benun, Linda<br />
Bildirici, Denise<br />
Catton, Eddie<br />
Dweck, Ezra<br />
Dweck, Shoshana<br />
Dweck, Sion<br />
Gammal, Michael<br />
Grinberg, Mollie<br />
Haber, Laurie<br />
Kairey, Batya<br />
Lati, Moshe<br />
Levy, Mimi<br />
Menashe, Chen<br />
Pinhas, Aura<br />
Sultan, Joseph<br />
Tawil, Jacob<br />
Yedid, Jenny<br />
Zabari, Maya<br />
The following authors made it to the website TorahContest.com<br />
Ades, Bobby<br />
Akibeh, Ely<br />
Alchkifati, Orly<br />
Ammar, Raphael<br />
Cohen, Jacob<br />
Cohen, Sam<br />
Cohen, Sarina<br />
Didia, Marilyn<br />
Habert, Esther<br />
Halabi, Maggie<br />
Hamaoui, Cynthia<br />
Hanono, Raquel<br />
Mizrachi, Jacqueline<br />
Mizrahi, Raquel<br />
Mizrahi, Sylvia<br />
Novick, Ronny<br />
Shabot, <strong>Bar</strong>uch<br />
Shaoul, Celia<br />
Shasho, Freda<br />
Shemtob, Flora<br />
Sutton, Steven<br />
Tawil, Jakey<br />
Timsit, Allegra<br />
Timsit, Yola<br />
Benun, Sarah<br />
Dusi, Grace Hidary, Aimee<br />
Richter, Sarah Sitt, Terry<br />
Tuachi, Abigail<br />
Bildirici, Nina<br />
Dweck, Ikey Hidary, David<br />
Saada, Regina Skaba, Rachel Turkieh, Mary M.<br />
Cattan, David<br />
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Chabot, Isaac<br />
Chalme, Robyn<br />
Cohen – Saban, Coral<br />
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Escava, Michael<br />
Gammal, Sarah<br />
Matalon, Bobby<br />
Mishan, Joyce<br />
Mishanie, Joey<br />
Sassoon, Alan<br />
Schrem, Jeanne<br />
Setton, Rebecca<br />
Sultan, Marcy<br />
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Ades, Melanie<br />
Botton, Nathan<br />
Franco, Jacqueline<br />
Menahem, Rochelle<br />
Sasson, Marcelle<br />
Steinberg, Eleanor<br />
Ades, Teera<br />
Araman, Lauren<br />
Assoulin, David<br />
Betesh, Joe<br />
Betesh, Sharon<br />
Braha, Daniel<br />
Chabot, Margo<br />
Chaiklen, Rena<br />
Cohen, Celia<br />
Cojab, Arlette<br />
Dweck, Alan<br />
Gammal, Linda<br />
Gindi, Jill<br />
Hanono, Pearly<br />
Jemal, Helaine<br />
Jemal, Terry<br />
Mizrahi, Yvonne<br />
Nasar, Lizzy<br />
Rishty, Cerise<br />
Rofe, Sophia<br />
Saka, Adele<br />
Sasson, Frieda<br />
Sasson, Linda<br />
Shaab, Irwin<br />
Stein, Andrew<br />
Shamah, Lauren<br />
Sultan, Jonny<br />
Sutton, Esther<br />
Tawil, Ruth<br />
Torkieh, Joe<br />
Zagha, Gayle<br />
Zakaria, Joe<br />
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Aboyev, Eliot<br />
Chaiklin, Eli<br />
Edery, Danielle<br />
Kanik, Kinneret H.<br />
Panetz, Michael<br />
Setton, Joey<br />
Ades, Joe<br />
Chemtob, Ninette<br />
Elbaum, Karen<br />
Kassin, Ronni<br />
Parker, Jonathan<br />
Shabot, Erica<br />
Ades, Reaine<br />
Chomali, Hersel<br />
Elbaum, Sam<br />
Kassin, Sari<br />
Plaut, Jordan<br />
Shamie, Sarah<br />
Allahabi, Jacob<br />
Cohen, Arleen<br />
Franco, Danielle<br />
Levy, Sarah<br />
Rudy, Layala<br />
Shrem, Jimmie<br />
Antar, Jill<br />
Cohen, Charles<br />
Franco, Gabrielle<br />
Mamiye, Alex<br />
Saada, Ziva<br />
Sitt, Judy<br />
Antebi, Joseph<br />
Cohen, Clarisse<br />
Gadeloff, Solomon<br />
Mamiye, Joe<br />
Saban, Joey<br />
Sultan, Alexis<br />
Ashkenazi, Sari<br />
Cohen, David<br />
Galapo, Joey<br />
Mark, Madison<br />
Sabbagh, Marlenn<br />
Sutton, Cookie<br />
Assoulin, Charlize<br />
Cohen, Marisa<br />
Galapo, Lillie<br />
Massry, Danny M.<br />
Saka, David<br />
Sutton, Irwin<br />
Averbach, Marielle<br />
Cohen, Martin<br />
Gammal, Steven<br />
Matut, Nathan<br />
Saka, Michelle<br />
Sutton, Jack<br />
Betesh, Ikey<br />
Cohen, Samantha<br />
Gindi, Alana<br />
Mavorah, Abe<br />
Saka, Terri<br />
Sutton, Louie<br />
Betesh, Lorraine<br />
Cohen, Victoria<br />
Greenberg, Jack<br />
Maze, Noah<br />
Salama, Claire<br />
Swed, Vicki<br />
Beyda, Rachel<br />
Cytryn, Isaac<br />
Greenberg, Sophie<br />
Meghnagi, Vito<br />
Salem, Cheryl<br />
Tawil, Daniel<br />
Bivas, Jake<br />
Daner, Danny<br />
Greenstein, Claudette<br />
Menaged, Morris<br />
Salem, Claire<br />
Tawil, Sharon<br />
Botton, Estelle<br />
Deneff, Michael<br />
Greenstein, Esther<br />
Menahem, Alexis<br />
Sarway, Ralph<br />
Tebele, Marcy<br />
Bouganim, Eric<br />
Dimitro, Jake<br />
Hakim, Ellen<br />
Menahem, Rochelle<br />
Serouya, Elaine<br />
Tobias, Morris<br />
Braha, Morris<br />
Dweck, Alex<br />
Hakim, Saulie<br />
Mizrachi, Eli<br />
Serouya, Jacob<br />
Torajman, Juliette<br />
Braverman, Rebecca<br />
Dweck, Gabrielle<br />
Harary, Carolyn<br />
Nasar, Juliet<br />
Serouya, Rachel<br />
Tordjman, Renee<br />
Braverman, Shuki<br />
Dweck, Jennifer<br />
Huppert, Dina<br />
Obnona, Estelle<br />
Seruya, Isaac<br />
Torkieh, Joseph<br />
Cain, Bridget<br />
Dweck, Sara<br />
Huppert, Sam<br />
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Traits for Success by <strong>Bar</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Boys!<br />
Moshe Benhamu - BE POSITIVE Jacob Shamah: Not Being Jealous<br />
Abie Tawil - TEAMWORK<br />
Jacob Kassin:Overcoming fear<br />
Gabriel Kraiem - Confidence<br />
Morris Esquenazi - Patience<br />
Eli Levy - CONFIDENCE<br />
Joseph Levy - Hard Work<br />
Jake Bivas - CONFIDENCE<br />
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The following authors made it to the magazine and website<br />
Abrahim, Sabrina<br />
Bailey, Allan<br />
Beyda, Elliot<br />
Cohen, Joelle<br />
Djmal, Maurice<br />
Dweck, Bert<br />
Gindi, Ruthie<br />
Hafif, Steven<br />
Isayev, Rachel<br />
Levy, Elliot<br />
Levy, Vicky<br />
Mizrahi, Natalie<br />
Schwartzbard, <strong>Bar</strong>bara<br />
Setton, Sonny<br />
Shalom, Jake<br />
Shtaynberger, Sara<br />
Tawil, Evelyn<br />
Bukobza, Sondra<br />
Dweck, Stephanie<br />
Kassin, Abraham<br />
Nussbaum, Rachel<br />
Sharaby, Fatima<br />
Zenilman, Miriam<br />
The following authors made it to the website TorahContest.com<br />
Abadie, Oriel<br />
Berman, Natalie<br />
Dweck, Marilyn<br />
Harari, Michelle<br />
Mosseri, Suzy<br />
Silverman, Samuel<br />
Abed, Suzy<br />
Betesh, Colette<br />
Dweck, Merle<br />
Hefez, David<br />
Mugrabi, Ness<br />
Srour, Rafi<br />
Aboutboul, Ricky<br />
Betesh, Lily<br />
Dweck, Shirley<br />
Hoffstein, Diana<br />
Oved, Joseph<br />
Sutton, Dylan<br />
Aini, Albert<br />
Beyda, <strong>Bar</strong>bara<br />
Elkharrat, Michael<br />
Horowitz, Sarah<br />
Rahmey, Albert<br />
Sutton, Esther<br />
Amar, Danielle<br />
C., Theela<br />
Esses, Daniel<br />
Illouz, Moshe<br />
Richter, Albert<br />
Tawil, Bobby<br />
Aosi, Adina<br />
Chabot, Samantha<br />
Esses, Sari<br />
Kafif, Korina<br />
Ringer, Laura<br />
Tawil, Elizabeth<br />
Arazi, Isaac<br />
Chahova, Claudine<br />
Farhi, Isaac<br />
Kameo, Joy<br />
Robinson, Claudette<br />
Tawil, Flora<br />
Arazi, Michael<br />
Chehova, Rachel<br />
Franco, Danielle<br />
Kamkhehi, Yafit<br />
Rose, Adeline<br />
Tawil, Leonore<br />
Ashkenazie, Danielle<br />
Cohen, Raizy<br />
Franco, Sylvia<br />
Khalili, Lior<br />
Rosilio, Michael<br />
Tawil, Marielle<br />
Azar, Sylvia<br />
Cohen, Bettie<br />
Frastai, Adolfo<br />
Levy, Mimi<br />
Saad, Estelle<br />
Tawil, Maurice<br />
Azrak, David<br />
Cohen, David<br />
Fromer, Esty<br />
Levy, Moey<br />
Sabbagh, Sabrina<br />
Terzi, Joe<br />
Azrak, Denise<br />
Cohen, Elie P.<br />
Gindi, Joseph<br />
Linfeild, Leah<br />
Saff, Gabe<br />
Terzi, Joyce<br />
B., Sol<br />
Cohen, Esther<br />
Gindi, Victoria<br />
Madeb, Lily<br />
Sahalon, Fortune<br />
Terzi, Naomi<br />
Babaee, Daniella<br />
Cohen, Gabrielle<br />
Goldman, Abraham<br />
Maimon, David<br />
Salzman, Daniel<br />
Tobias, Nancy<br />
Balassiano, Joseph<br />
Cohen, Pam<br />
Greenstien, Alan<br />
Mann, Raquel<br />
Sasson, Solomon<br />
Torgueman, Sarah<br />
Banbahji, Linda<br />
Cohen, Ralph<br />
Grossman, Ariel<br />
Massre, Joey<br />
Setton, Marcelle<br />
Uzan, Jonathan<br />
Benamo, Chen<br />
Cohen, Raymond<br />
Guindi, Linda<br />
Maya, Sammy<br />
Setton, Max<br />
Vizgan, Gabriel<br />
Bendayan, David<br />
Darmani, Caryn<br />
Haber, Yola<br />
Missry, Ralph<br />
Shalam, Esther<br />
Waingort, Emily<br />
Ben-Shlomo, Molly<br />
Dayan, David<br />
Hadar, Phyllis<br />
Mizrahi, Jack<br />
Shalom, Isaac<br />
Zalta, Michelle<br />
Benun, Cynthia<br />
Dayan, Emma<br />
Haddad, Esther<br />
Mograbi, Alan<br />
Shalom, Morris<br />
Zar, Orel<br />
Benzaken, Joey<br />
Dweck, Albert<br />
Hadef, Renee<br />
Mosseri, Jeanette<br />
Shamah, Rena<br />
Zeitoune, Freida<br />
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Focus<br />
Loyalty<br />
Patience<br />
Courage<br />
Honesty<br />
Creativity<br />
Tolerance<br />
Reliability<br />
Flexibility<br />
Teamwork<br />
Confidence<br />
Appreciation<br />
Organization<br />
Self Discipline<br />
Positive Attitude<br />
Eli’s favorite character trait is Flexibility