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Teen stories on<br />

confidence<br />

Success after failure<br />

Pushing your limits<br />

More risk, more reward<br />

Overcoming fear<br />

Perseverance<br />

Being Brave<br />

Not following<br />

Resilience<br />

Courage<br />

Ambition<br />

Great<br />

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Submit lessons<br />

you learned<br />

from the<br />

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~ Kids’ inspirational stories sponsored in memory of Diane Azrak Massry A”H ~<br />

Content:by kids & teens<br />

42<br />

44 In other sports<br />

62<br />

Finding success after failure<br />

52 In friendship<br />

58<br />

56 In performance<br />

In basketball<br />

What you lose because of fear<br />

64 When playing too safe 92 By being shy<br />

In learning<br />

new skills<br />

96 When not being yourself<br />

74 More risk, more reward List of Authors<br />

80 in friendship<br />

from the following schools<br />

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68<br />

72<br />

82<br />

86<br />

88<br />

94<br />

98<br />

66 In friendship<br />

Commit to your goals &<br />

don’t give up<br />

Be open for change &<br />

try new experiences<br />

Getting out of your<br />

comfort zone<br />

Letting go of<br />

past experiences<br />

Don’t repeat the same mistake.<br />

Try a new approach.<br />

A healthy attitude<br />

towards failure<br />

Never be embarrassed<br />

to do a mitzvah<br />

How to believe in yourself<br />

when others don’t<br />

100 Never give up. Don’t quit.<br />

107 bARKAI YESHIVAH<br />

109 HILLEL YESHIVA<br />

103 mAGEN dAVID YESHIVAH<br />

111 YESHIVAH OF FLATBUSH<br />

Schools listed in alphabetical order<br />

The inspirational stories about<br />

Confidence & Perseverence<br />

were written in memory of<br />

Diane Azrak Massry A”H<br />

who exemplified those<br />

character traits.<br />

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Authors honored by<br />

Chief Rabbis of Israel


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Commit to your goals & don’t give up<br />

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By: Evelyn Antebi<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

I committed myself to save up my money<br />

to buy big things instead of little things.<br />

I wanted to buy a laptop. So, every day I<br />

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I thought that by now I should have given<br />

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By: Elliot Beyda<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

My goal as a high school student is to<br />

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that I can do much better in school. But,<br />

one of the reasons I am not doing as well<br />

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By: Nelly Alfaks<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

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One day, I decided to start losing weight.<br />

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Finding success after failure - Basketball<br />

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By: Jake Shalom<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

My main goal right now is to be a good<br />

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Just because you missed one shot does<br />

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Five seconds left in the basketball game,<br />

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The pressure was all on him. But, he drove<br />

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was nervous at first but then he said, “I<br />

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He was so happy. His teammates all said<br />

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Hillel Yeshiva<br />

There was a girl named Esther. She loved<br />

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every day, she would play. One day<br />

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“Girls, basketball tryouts are next week in<br />

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Laya if they were trying out. Rachel and<br />

Laya told Esther, “Yes, we’re so excited!<br />

Are you trying out?” Esther said, “Yes,<br />

I’m excited too!” Esther went home that<br />

day and told her mom, “I’m going to try<br />

out for the basketball team next week.”<br />

Esther’s mom said, “Wow that’s great.<br />

You should practice.” Esther went to practice.<br />

It was next week, and Esther went<br />

to try out with her friends. When they<br />

announced who was on the team, they<br />

didn’t say Esther’s name. She was so sad.<br />

Next year, Esther tried again and she got<br />

in. This shows that if you fail, practice and<br />

practice. You will definitely succeed.<br />

By: Aura Pinhas<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

There is a boy named Abie. He wanted<br />

to be on the school’s football team. He<br />

was practicing with his friends and with<br />

a crowd watching. He missed a final<br />

goal by far. His friends told him, “You’ll<br />

never make the team. You can’t even<br />

do something as simple as kick a field<br />

goal.” After that, Abie walked home<br />

thinking to himself, “I can never make<br />

it. But, as much effort as it takes, I will<br />

never stop trying, no matter how many<br />

times I fail. I am not giving up.” The next<br />

day, he was even worse. He was playing<br />

with an even bigger crowd watching<br />

him. But, in the mid run, he dropped the<br />

ball right near the end zone.<br />

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Our memory of his warm smile, generosity, honesty,<br />

compassion, and humility will always remain with us.<br />

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Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

There was a girl named Malka. She was<br />

running in a marathon. In this marathon<br />

you had to run 5 miles in 2 hours. Last<br />

year, Malka tried to pass one girl. She<br />

was running so fast that Malka slipped<br />

and fell. Everyone was laughing at her.<br />

This year she was thinking about not running.<br />

But, then she realized that she can<br />

run. She decided that she would just pay<br />

attention this time and not focus on one<br />

girl. In the middle of the marathon,<br />

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impossible<br />

until it’s done.<br />

By: Joe Torkieh<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

In a basketball game, my friend missed<br />

the game’s winning shot and got embarrassed<br />

by his team and the whole crowd.<br />

He went home that day and he felt miserable.<br />

He never wanted to play the game<br />

again. I went over to him and told him,<br />

“Don’t worry. Even the best basketball<br />

players miss shots. Don’t give up. If you<br />

try and try you can become the best basketball<br />

player. That’s how basketball players<br />

become basketball players.” He took<br />

my words and became the best basketball<br />

player. The lesson is to never give up.<br />

By: Nathan Botton<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

It was a sunny Sunday morning and the<br />

crowd was cheering as I dribbled the basketball<br />

up the court. I juked out two defenders<br />

and jumped as I shot the ball in<br />

the air. The ball made a swooshing sound<br />

as it went straight into the net. The crowd<br />

went wild. The score was 15-14, in our<br />

favor, with less than a minute left. The<br />

star player of the other team made a fast<br />

break down the court and scored the ball.<br />

There were ten seconds left and it was our<br />

only chance to win.<br />

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Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Shevy was very excited. She was at the<br />

edge of the race track ready to start running.<br />

The moment the whistle blew, she<br />

was off running with all her might. She<br />

was in 3rd place; now she was in second,<br />

now she was in first. She could feel the<br />

wind rushing behind her as she thought<br />

to herself, “I must win.” She was almost at<br />

the finish line. She was going to win when,<br />

suddenly, she tripped and fell. She could<br />

feel the blood rushing up to her face. She<br />

saw all the other runners going ahead of<br />

her. She was last. She had lost. Everyone<br />

was laughing at her. She thought to herself,<br />

“I am never running a race again.”<br />

“But then,” she thought, “if I give up, I will<br />

never succeed.” She thought to herself,<br />

“Next summer, I’ll practice even harder.”<br />

Next summer she won.<br />

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During my first time ice skating, I fell tons<br />

of times. I really wanted to start playing<br />

ice hockey. After my first time ice skating,<br />

I felt very frustrated. But, I thought<br />

to myself every professional was once a<br />

beginner. All these famous players in the<br />

professional leagues all had a start. And,<br />

they kept on trying and never gave up.<br />

So, the next time I went skating, I tried<br />

my hardest not to stay frustrated. Then,<br />

I started to skate like a natural! I learned<br />

a great lesson that day. At first, things<br />

might be hard for you to do but never<br />

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A winner is just<br />

a loser who tried<br />

one more time.<br />

By: Arlette Cojab<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Caroline glided onto the ice at her rink.<br />

Her friend Madison was right behind<br />

her. Caroline invited Madison because<br />

today was an important day. Today<br />

was the day Caroline would try an Axel<br />

jump in front of her ice skating instructor.<br />

An Axel jump is a jump where you<br />

push yourself off the ice, spin one and a<br />

half times in the air and land gracefully<br />

on one foot. You’re supposed to push<br />

off with your left foot and land on your<br />

right. Caroline had trouble with that,<br />

but she practiced a lot. She skated over<br />

to her instructor who was waving her<br />

over. “Go on, show me,” she said smiling.<br />

Caroline took a deep breath, she<br />

gained speed and jumped. The push<br />

didn’t give her enough speed. She fell.<br />

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By: Mollie Grinberg<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Claire gulped in paralyzing fear. It was<br />

a cloudy Sunday morning. The day that<br />

her parents planned to go rock climbing<br />

in the southeast, far away from her<br />

hometown in Virginia. “Claire, are you<br />

ready?” Claire snapped out of her daze.<br />

“Yeah, I guess so…”Her mother bent<br />

down to comfort her child. “You don’t<br />

have to go, honey,” her mother said.<br />

Claire hesitated. She would climb that<br />

mountain, even if it was the last thing<br />

she did. “Er, mom, can I go first. To get<br />

it over with?” A smile formed on her<br />

mother’s face. “Okay, if you really want<br />

to.” Soon, Claire was strapped tight to<br />

her harness and was ready to go. She<br />

started climbing fast to the top of the<br />

mountain. Halfway up, she looked down<br />

and gulped. From 3 feet in the air, she<br />

looked back up confident and continued<br />

to climb. At one point past the three<br />

quarter mark, one of the rocks broke<br />

and she dangled from one hand, clutching<br />

on to the rock. She was terrified and<br />

wanted to give up. But she couldn’t and<br />

climbed up all the way to the top. She<br />

grinned over the peak. She did it. Keep<br />

trying, and don’t give up. Just keep<br />

climbing the ladder of success.<br />

By: Sondra Bukobza<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

There once was a basketball player who<br />

always played offense because that’s<br />

what he played since he was little. One<br />

day, the coach asked him to play defense<br />

because the starting defense was<br />

injured. He took the risk and played defense<br />

instead of the usual offense. He<br />

continued playing defense and, three<br />

years down the line, he got offered a<br />

college basketball scholarship playing<br />

defense. Even if you’re scared, take the<br />

opportunity. It might come only once.<br />

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Life is not about how<br />

fast you run or how<br />

high you climb but<br />

how well you bounce<br />

back from failure.<br />

By: Adina Jaffa<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

There was a girl, Tamar. Every Motzei<br />

Shabbos, she went to play basketball.<br />

While playing, someone threw a ball at<br />

her. She didn’t know what to do! Oh, no!<br />

So, she tried shooting it into the hoop<br />

and missed. After that, the game ended.<br />

Everyone was shouting, screaming and<br />

embarrassing her. They said, “Why are<br />

you so bad at basketball. We don’t want<br />

you on our team.” She went home and<br />

cried to her mother. The whole week she<br />

practiced. She actually thought she has a<br />

chance at winning. The next week came<br />

and she said, “I am going to win this for my<br />

team.” Right when the game started, she<br />

stole the ball from the other team. She<br />

dribbled towards the hoop. She heard her<br />

teammates shouting over and over, “Go<br />

Tamar!” She was very happy. All of a sudden<br />

without her noticing, the other team<br />

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got the ball. Oh, no. So, she went and got<br />

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it back. She made the winning shot. Yay!<br />

One day, Adina was in gymnastics class.<br />

She was with all of her friends. She was always<br />

There was once a person who loved to<br />

run in races. His dream was always to be<br />

Her team won all because of her last shot<br />

that broke the tied score.<br />

behind on what they were learning. in the Olympics and to come in 1st place.<br />

By: Melanie Ades<br />

Her goal was to do a cart wheel on the He never ran a race but he told all of his<br />

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balance beam. While she was trying to<br />

do a cart wheel on the balance beam, she<br />

fell. All of her friends laughed at her and<br />

told her she wasn’t good enough for their<br />

gymnastics class. She went home and told<br />

her mom, “Everybody laughed at me and<br />

said I shouldn’t be in their gymnastics<br />

class.” Her mom said, “Keep on trying.”<br />

Adina told herself, “I will do a cartwheel<br />

on the balance beam.” She practiced and<br />

practiced at her house until she knew how<br />

to do it best. The next week, she went to<br />

gymnastics. She showed all of her friends<br />

how she cart wheels on the balance beam.<br />

friends that he is going to win and that<br />

he is the best runner. The next day, there<br />

was a race. He was ready and confident<br />

that he was going to win. He raced with all<br />

of the kids and he came in last place. He<br />

was heartbroken and very embarrassed<br />

because he told everyone that he would<br />

win but he didn’t. The next race he didn’t<br />

show off and he got new running shoes.<br />

He practiced for 3 weeks until the next<br />

race. Before the race, he saw the best<br />

racer in the world lose. He got motivated<br />

from that because he thought to himself,<br />

“If that person can lose, then, obviously,<br />

All her life, Melanie wanted to be on<br />

the gymnastics team. That was her main<br />

life’s goal. She went to Aerial’s gymnastics<br />

every Friday to practice. She asked<br />

her coach if she can be on the team one<br />

day. Her coach replied, “You can be on<br />

the team if you practice more.” Every day,<br />

Melanie practiced a little bit more. The<br />

next week, she went to gymnastics. She<br />

told her coach that she’s been practicing<br />

more. “Now let’s see if you can do a back<br />

flip off the balance beam,” said coach. She<br />

did. Melanie was very excited. She got on<br />

the team. The team was having a rivalry<br />

against ACC gymnastics. She was nervous.<br />

Her friends were impressed and took back I can too.” He raced in the next race and<br />

It was her turn to perform. Melanie failed.<br />

what they had said about her.<br />

he won!<br />

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A Beautiful Woman Who Devoted Her Life To Her Children.<br />

She Taught Us All To “Let It Be That And Nothing Else.”<br />

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Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

There was once a girl who left all of her<br />

friends for the summer to go to a sleep<br />

away camp. She risked losing all her<br />

friends to try to make new friends in sleep<br />

away camp. At first, she had a hard time<br />

fitting in. She felt uncomfortable around<br />

those girls. She thought she probably<br />

made one of the biggest mistakes choosing<br />

to leave her friends. As the weeks<br />

went by, she started getting more comfortable<br />

around these girls and eventually<br />

became best friends with all of them. If<br />

she didn’t take the risk of leaving her old<br />

friends behind, then she wouldn’t have<br />

met her new friends that she has today.<br />

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come as lessons.<br />

By: Sarah Louziah<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

A few months ago, I lost my best friend<br />

that I’ve known since I was born. She was<br />

my cousin, too. We were so close and a<br />

couple of months ago things started to<br />

change. I couldn’t imagine losing her.<br />

I was so scared of letting her go. I know<br />

everything about her and she knew everything<br />

about me. Now, you might wonder,<br />

what’s the problem? Why were you<br />

scared of losing her? And the answer is a<br />

new girl came along and I felt like she was<br />

stealing her from me. I was scared.<br />

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By: Linda Gammal<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Lauren, a new girl, moved from Brooklyn<br />

to Deal. She didn’t know anyone and<br />

she also had speech problems. When<br />

she came to school, she forgot about<br />

the dress code and everyone laughed.<br />

When she was walking down the long<br />

hallway, she went to say “Hi” to some<br />

girls, but it didn’t come out as expected.<br />

She was nervous so her speech problem<br />

became bigger. Lauren tried so hard.<br />

She even practiced saying the simplest<br />

things. She tried again to say easy words<br />

so when they come out of her mouth it<br />

wouldn’t be weird. But it didn’t work.<br />

She cried every night because of this. An<br />

idea came to her as her phone beeped.<br />

She got everyone’s numbers in the<br />

grade and told them her story. When<br />

the next day came, everyone said sorry<br />

for laughing and offered to show her<br />

around the school. She also met a girl<br />

just like her. They became best friends.<br />

She learned not to give up and the girls<br />

in the grade also learned not to judge<br />

people unless you know their real story.<br />

By: Andrew Stein<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

On my first day at my new school, I tried<br />

to make friends by being nice and playing<br />

well. In our first recess, I went to play basketball<br />

with the kids in my class but they<br />

didn’t include me. So, I decided to shoot<br />

on another hoop to show them how good<br />

I was so they would include me. When<br />

they finally did let me play, I air balled my<br />

first two shots. I was so embarrassed by<br />

the looks everyone was giving me. So, I<br />

decided to start passing instead. They saw<br />

that I was good and not selfish. I learned<br />

from that experience that it might take<br />

time to get what you want but, if you are<br />

persistent, you will eventually get it.<br />

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STELLA LINIADO A”H<br />

“ a pure soul ta k e n too soon”<br />

Our beautiful stella,<br />

You have left us way too soon for words.<br />

In your short time here you have shown us strength when we were weak.<br />

And you gave us happiness to keep us afloat.<br />

Although there are no footprints for us to follow, we know you will<br />

carry us on this journey and guide us through our lives.<br />

Your full of life spirit and angelic beauty is our inspiration to keep<br />

moving forward and make you proud.<br />

You are an example of what a daughter is.<br />

One of a kind!<br />

Our hearts beat differently now.<br />

You, our beautiful Stella are missed every day!<br />

With all our love,<br />

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He led his life devoted to his family and will<br />

always be remembered for his humbleness,<br />

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There was a competition of who can write<br />

the best song for the play. Rebecca had a<br />

great song but you had to perform it. She<br />

was too shy and asked her friend if she<br />

wanted to sing it for her. Her friend said,<br />

“Why should I sing it? You should sing<br />

it and get the credit.” On the day of the<br />

competition, Rebecca won. But, she only<br />

had to perform in front of three judges.<br />

On the day of the play, Rebecca was too<br />

scared to perform. She asked her friend to<br />

please perform instead of her. Her friend<br />

said, “No! You perform. You are a great<br />

singer.” Rebecca performed and it went<br />

very well. She said thank you to her friend<br />

for helping her to get over her fears and<br />

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<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Everyone knows you have a really good<br />

voice. The popular girl in the class announces<br />

there is a singing contest and<br />

she is going to win. Your best friend<br />

begs you to enter but you don’t listen.<br />

At the contest, the popular girl wins and<br />

rubs it in your face. The next time there<br />

was a singing contest you entered. A few<br />

hours before the contest, you back out.<br />

Now you feel bad because you think you<br />

never had a chance to win. The popular<br />

girl wins again and rubs it in your face<br />

even more. There was one final contest<br />

that year and you signed up. You get on<br />

stage and hear a voice inside you saying,<br />

“You’ll fail.” You push that voice away,<br />

sing and win. A few years later, you are<br />

a well-known singer. That would have<br />

never happened had you listened to the<br />

Yetzer Hara and stopped trying.<br />

By: Adele Saka<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Miriam was on stage overcoming her<br />

stage fright. There were about 100<br />

people watching her as she just stood<br />

there. She tried letting her voice out but<br />

nothing came out. She stood there until<br />

the backstage crew had to come out to<br />

get her and apologize to the audience.<br />

Months later, after Miriam had taken<br />

more lessons and performed in front<br />

of her family and a small audience, she<br />

went back up on the same stage. Except<br />

this time she was stronger. As she sang<br />

the last word, there was not one person<br />

sitting and not clapping.<br />

By: Lauren Araman<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Mary was nervous. She walked on stage<br />

in her purple dress. It was happening. She<br />

was singing perfectly and hitting every<br />

small note. When it was time for her to<br />

really stretch a note, she choked. Everyone<br />

stared in shock. She just went along<br />

and forgot that it happened. When it<br />

came time for the second high note, she<br />

hit it. It was perfect. This is just to show<br />

that you should never give up. She could<br />

have stopped and cried, but she didn’t.<br />

She continued on and didn’t quit.<br />

By: Claudine Hadef<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

I want to accomplish getting better<br />

grades. I’m always on the iPad or computer.<br />

It distracts me. I get good grades but<br />

I want better. I want an honor roll, but I<br />

keep getting distracted whenever I study.<br />

Sometimes, I just zone out during the test<br />

and forget what I studied. I am going to<br />

stop using the computer for as long as I<br />

could every night that I have a test. Every<br />

time I don’t use it, I’ll write it down so I<br />

could see how much I accomplished.<br />

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By: Violet Cohen<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Something that happened to me when I<br />

didn’t give up was when I kept trying and<br />

trying to make a roller coaster with my<br />

brother. We tried 17 times and it never<br />

worked. Finally, on the 18th time, I put<br />

the last piece on and it finally worked. It<br />

took us 2 hours but we finally succeeded.<br />

I was so happy. Then we put a marble on<br />

it and it went through the whole roller<br />

coaster. That is a time when I tried and<br />

failed but I never gave up.<br />

By: Shelly Greenstein<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

One time, I said that I would not drink any<br />

soda until the summer. I tried and I did it<br />

for 2 weeks. Then I couldn’t help it and<br />

I drank some. Once I drank it, I decided<br />

to try again next time. So, I tried it again<br />

and I got it for 3 weeks. Then I couldn’t<br />

stop myself from not drinking it. The soda<br />

looked so good. So, I said I will try again<br />

next time.<br />

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By: Shoshana Dweck<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Everyone has a goal that they want to<br />

achieve. Ruth has always dreamed of being<br />

a ballerina. She asked her mother if<br />

she can take ballet classes. Her mother<br />

signed her up. The day after her first ballet<br />

class, Ruth had bruises all over her<br />

body and skin tears on her feet. When<br />

she went to school, all of her friends<br />

made fun of the way she looked. They<br />

made fun of the fact that she took a ballet<br />

class. The next week, she forgot about<br />

her friends’ comments and the bruises<br />

that hurt. She danced her heart out. At<br />

the end of the course, when the ballet<br />

show took place, she was the star of<br />

show. At the end of the show, everyone<br />

complimented her about how wonderful<br />

she danced, including her friends. Never<br />

give up on your dreams. If you work hard<br />

enough, they will come true.<br />

By: Jacqueline Salman<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Sarah thought she was an amazing artist.<br />

So, she entered the art contest. It happens<br />

5 times a year in her school. When<br />

she got it back, she had so many mistakes.<br />

“This girl you drew was too fat,” “She<br />

didn’t have enough hair in the drawing,”<br />

and so on. The next competitions came<br />

and went and, every time they came, she<br />

entered and kept telling herself, “I can do<br />

it.” Finally, she won and got awards because<br />

she kept trying.<br />

By: Maya Zabari<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Once, my friend had to memorize a monologue<br />

for a school play. She worked really<br />

hard but, when the time came, she forgot<br />

the words. She stumbled over her lines<br />

and finally everyone laughed her off the<br />

stage. The next time she was in a play, she<br />

didn’t want to do it because last time she<br />

got embarrassed. I told her that she can’t<br />

give up. If it doesn’t work the next time,<br />

keep trying. Be true to yourself. If you really<br />

enjoy acting or singing or dancing or<br />

anything else, don’t give up on it.<br />

By: Orly Alchkifati<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

One time, when I was little, I was shy<br />

and scared to sing in front of people.<br />

Everyone wanted to hear my voice and<br />

how I sing. I was scared they wouldn’t<br />

like my voice and would laugh at me.<br />

When I sing, I express myself and who<br />

I am. But, because of fear, I wasn’t able<br />

to do that. People thought I was a little<br />

shy girl with no talent. But, later on in<br />

life, I learned that when you think too<br />

much or overthink it you start to get<br />

scared. So, the message I’m trying to say<br />

is don’t get scared or you’ll regret it for<br />

life. Never overthink, just do what you<br />

truly believe.<br />

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ABE E. ASH A”H<br />

Who led his life devoted to his family and Torah values.<br />

A man who exemplified Humility, Kindness and Care.<br />

His warm loving smile will surely be missed.<br />

His memory will forever be in our hearts and a constant<br />

source of inspiration to all of us.<br />

With Much Love and Respect Always!<br />

By his wife Sylvia, Children, Grand Children and Great Grandchildren<br />

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By: Rochelle Menahem<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

One day, Rachel went to her mom and said<br />

excitedly, “Mommy, I want to be an author<br />

when I get older.” Her mom said, “That’s a<br />

great job. What made you decide on that?”<br />

Rachel explained to her mother that an author<br />

came to school that day and explained<br />

her job and what she does. Rachel’s mom<br />

asked if she wants to write a story and read<br />

it at the library on Sunday. Rachel was so<br />

happy. She ran to her room and started<br />

writing. She wrote day and night, hours and<br />

hours. When Sunday came, her story was<br />

done. She was very proud of it. She dressed<br />

up in her nicest dress & went to the library.<br />

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Success is the ability<br />

to go from one failure<br />

to another with no<br />

loss of enthusiasm.<br />

By: Ahuva Lefkowitz<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

I’ve always wanted to play guitar.<br />

Throughout 5th, 6th and 7th grade, I enviously<br />

watched my 5 other siblings pluck<br />

at the strings as though they were born to<br />

be guitar professionals. In 9th grade, my<br />

mother finally agreed to give me guitar<br />

lessons. In a whirl of excitement and giddiness,<br />

I flew through 1,2,3,4 lessons. Then,<br />

I decided that I was finally ready to enter<br />

into the talent show that would be held<br />

at my school in a week. I practiced guitar<br />

fiercely, my fingertips turning purple<br />

from pressing the strings so hard. Finally,<br />

I was ready. I stepped onto the brightly lit<br />

stage on the Thursday night of the show. I<br />

started playing beautifully, one chord following<br />

the next. I drowned myself in the<br />

stunning medleys until…I struck G instead<br />

of C minor and the entire song flopped.<br />

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By: Michael Gammal<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

One day, I walked up to my dad and asked<br />

him if I can read from the Torah. He replied<br />

to me, “Yes.” The next day, I got my<br />

part to read. I practiced it. On Saturday,<br />

it was my turn to read. I went up to the<br />

Torah and read it very badly. I felt so embarrassed<br />

that I ran out of the room and<br />

started crying. The next week, I wanted<br />

to read from the Torah again. I practiced<br />

and, when it was my turn to read, I was<br />

perfect. I felt so happy. Now, I want to do<br />

it every week.<br />

By: Joe Betesh<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

I have experienced many embarrassing<br />

moments in my life. One that really sticks<br />

out has to be when I started to make videos.<br />

Starting out, I made videos that were<br />

horrible. Kids made fun of me and told me<br />

that I should give up. Instead of listening<br />

to them, I worked even harder and tried<br />

new techniques. After months of hard<br />

work, I finally created a video that everyone<br />

loved and cherished. The moral of<br />

this story is to never give up and to always<br />

work harder than the last time.<br />

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R.C.<br />

Raymond Chera A”H<br />

A Man of Faith and Vision<br />

R.C.<br />

Raymond was a successful businessman with an honorable name.<br />

His greatest satisfaction came from Torah. He personally was instrumental<br />

for the openings of the Lawrence Avenue Synagogue, the Park Avenue<br />

Synagogue and The Cedar Avenue Synagogue along with contributing<br />

Sifrey Torah to all of the mentioned synagogues also<br />

the Kollel and other institutions throughout the community.<br />

Forever in our hearts.<br />

From his wife Claudia and sons Steven, Charles, Victor & Michael<br />

and their families.


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What you lose because of fear<br />

By: Amanda Heskiel<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Sarah is 12 years old. She knows how to<br />

swim but she is afraid to dive. One day,<br />

she had a pool party with all her friends.<br />

They were all diving and doing all tricks<br />

and she was in the shallow. She was waiting<br />

for them to finish because she didn’t<br />

want to try it. She was missing out on<br />

having fun with her friends. Her close<br />

friend came to her and asked her why she<br />

isn’t diving and she told her she was too<br />

scared. She told her that she will stay with<br />

her so she won’t be alone.<br />

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A smart person<br />

without courage<br />

is like a bird<br />

without a wing.<br />

By: Margo Chabot<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Allison’s goal is to be an artist. Allison<br />

and her friend take an art class. They<br />

were painting a sunset. Allison’s sunset<br />

came out horrible. Everyone’s art work<br />

was so much better. The art teacher said,<br />

“You have to practice at home.” The next<br />

art class they were still working on sunsets.<br />

She practiced at home many times.<br />

Allison’s art was even worse. She said,<br />

“Next time, I’m not going to fail.” Every<br />

day after school, she practiced for one<br />

hour. She didn’t have a doubt that she<br />

isn’t going to fail. The next art class, the<br />

teacher said her sunset was much better.<br />

When they started a new drawing,<br />

it was a fruit. Allison did the fruit excellently,<br />

not one mistake. Her friend was<br />

so proud of her and so were her parents<br />

and teacher. Allison realized she was putting<br />

so much pressure on herself. That’s<br />

why it was not coming out nice before.<br />

By: Chen Menashe<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Chances! If we don’t take them where<br />

would we be? Sarah studied all night until<br />

midnight for a history test. In the morning,<br />

her mother asked her the questions<br />

again. Sarah knew everything. She went<br />

to school to take the test. Sarah was shaking<br />

and sweating. The teacher gave her<br />

the test and Sarah’s mind went blank. She<br />

didn’t know any of the answers. By the<br />

end of the test, Sarah skipped the rest<br />

of the questions which made her fail. If<br />

Sarah had the confidence that she would<br />

get 100, if she took a chance and wasn’t<br />

afraid, she would get 100.<br />

By: David Assoulin<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

There are a lot of things that you can lose<br />

from fear. Let’s say you have an idea but<br />

you’re too afraid to say it. One example, if<br />

a teacher is teaching a math class on how<br />

to multiply, but the class doesn’t understand<br />

it. If you have an idea on how to do<br />

it, but you’re too scared that everyone in<br />

your class will call you a ‘nerd’, you may<br />

cause the whole class to suffer through a<br />

test which no one but you knows the answers<br />

to. Let’s say, you’re in business and<br />

sales are dropping but you have an idea<br />

how to bring back the business. If you’re<br />

too afraid that the business owner will<br />

disapprove it, you may leave yourself with<br />

no job.<br />

By: Marcelle Sasson<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

I was at the doctor’s office and the nurse<br />

told me, “It’s time for the flu shot.” I am<br />

not really scared of anything, so, I said,<br />

“Ok.” When the nurse came in with the<br />

needle, I got so scared. I didn’t want to<br />

get the shot. I chickened. The nurse said,<br />

“I can’t make you take the shot.” I do regret<br />

not getting the shot because now everybody<br />

has the flu and I don’t want to<br />

get sick.<br />

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Eshet Chayil<br />

David Shalom in honor of his wife Nadine<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Gladys<br />

By Richard Adjmi<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Joyce<br />

By Abraham Kassin<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Shirley<br />

By Abe Feldman<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Claudette<br />

By Nathan Matthews<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Sallie<br />

By Victor Green<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Shirley<br />

By Max Shalom<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Monica<br />

By David Hadef<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Alice<br />

By Billy Shalom<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Julie<br />

By Jack Jarada<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Virna<br />

By Morris Zeitoune


What you lose by playing it too safe<br />

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By: Layala Rudy<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Fear can really hold you back from succeeding<br />

in life. So many things and opportunities<br />

come up every now and then<br />

and you just can’t accept them because<br />

of your fear of being judged by everyone<br />

else. When it comes to choosing a high<br />

school or a college, someone might be so<br />

scared of making new friends and starting<br />

off in a new environment that they’ll hold<br />

themselves back from amazing opportunities.<br />

This is because of fear. You are<br />

scared of doing something different from<br />

everyone else. You don’t want to benefit<br />

yourself so you do what everyone else<br />

is doing. That’s what fear does to you. It<br />

may hold you back from the most amazing<br />

achievements and changes of your<br />

entire life.<br />

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Don’t miss the<br />

sun today worrying<br />

about the rain<br />

coming tomorrow.<br />

By: Vivian Elias<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

A girl was very scared of many things.<br />

The one fear that held her back was her<br />

fear of making new friends. When she<br />

moved to a new school, she lost her<br />

old friends and was too scared to make<br />

new ones. She was scared to be rejected.<br />

They wanted to be her friends, but<br />

she was scared that soon they would<br />

reject her. She lost out on making new<br />

friends and she graduated school without<br />

friends and became anti social. If she<br />

didn’t have the fear in the first place, she<br />

could’ve had friends.<br />

By: Joseph Sultan<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

You’re playing a sport and your friends<br />

are counting on you because you’re the<br />

best on the team. Never feel pressured<br />

because when you’re pressured it is<br />

more likely to fail. So, just be yourself,<br />

take a deep breath and go play.<br />

By: Danielle Ammar<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Fear. What is it? It’s that voice in your<br />

head that doesn’t want you to challenge<br />

yourself or doesn’t want you to be yourself.<br />

For example, anorexic people just get<br />

skinnier and skinnier. Why? Some people<br />

might ask how they can starve themselves<br />

when they were beautiful already<br />

and how can they keep getting skinnier.<br />

They’re skinny enough. These people are<br />

anorexic because of fear. Fear that they<br />

won’t be accepted by other people and<br />

the fear of being fat. After a while, that<br />

voice of fear will become their ‘friend’<br />

and they won’t stop. Another example is<br />

when someone doesn’t like to tell “no” to<br />

others. After a while, people will use that<br />

person. She needs to learn to be able to<br />

say “no” and still be good friends. Fear is<br />

a lack of confidence. Everyone is insecure<br />

in some way but you need to find a way to<br />

grasp even a glimpse of confidence. Confidence<br />

means overcoming fear and that’s<br />

what you have to do.<br />

By: Alan Dweck<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

George really loves basketball, but there<br />

is one thing about it. He doesn’t let anyone<br />

watch him. He is afraid that if he<br />

misses a shot they will make fun of him.<br />

So, every day he hides to play after school<br />

in a gym that’s 25 minutes away and pays<br />

$30 to rent the gym just so nobody would<br />

watch him. And, the worst part is that he<br />

is amazing at it.<br />

By: Linda Jinani<br />

Ahi Ezer Yeshiva<br />

One time, I needed a shot. My mother<br />

took me to the doctor. I was very scared.<br />

The doctor told me not to move. I was so<br />

nervous that I moved. The shot blew up<br />

and was burning. Had I not moved, all of<br />

this wouldn’t have happened.<br />

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What you lose because of fear: Friendship<br />

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By: Jill Gindi<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Mary and Nancy went to the ice skating<br />

rink. Mary’s mom got them ice skates.<br />

Mary had been taking lessons and Nancy<br />

didn’t have a clue how to ice skate. Mary<br />

didn’t know that. So Mary said, “Let go of<br />

the wall” and SPLAT, she landed right on<br />

the floor. Mary raced over and said, “Are<br />

you ok?” Nancy replied, “Um, I guess I’m<br />

a little rusty.” Mary said, “Ok, skate with<br />

me.” Nancy replied, “Ok,” and she fell<br />

again. “You don’t have any experience,”<br />

Mary told Nancy. “I know,” Nancy replied.<br />

“Why did you lie?” “Because I was scared<br />

that you would laugh at me”, continued<br />

Nancy. “I would never,” Mary reassured<br />

her.<br />

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Fear is a<br />

prison of<br />

your dreams.<br />

In memory of<br />

Norman Esses A”H<br />

by Joey Esses<br />

By: Pearly Hanono<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Two twins walk in one with head up and<br />

confident and another with her head<br />

down and hiding. It was the first day of<br />

school and it was already a bad experience<br />

for twin number two. The girls immediately<br />

realized she had no confidence<br />

and knew she could be a good one to<br />

pick on. This had nothing to do with her<br />

looks, only with her lack of confidence.<br />

We should learn from here that we need<br />

to have confidence in order to get somewhere<br />

in life. We shouldn’t be fearful to<br />

go out there and make friends to apply for<br />

a job. We need to take risks.<br />

By: Yael Szanzen<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

When someone gets bullied, she doesn’t<br />

want to tell her parents because of fear<br />

that the bully would find out that she<br />

told and will get back at her. You will miss<br />

out on saving yourself from getting bullied.<br />

But, you can overcome your fear by<br />

realizing it will help you to speak up.<br />

By: Terri Elmann<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

From your first step inside your new<br />

summer camp, you know your doubtful<br />

feelings that finding friends will be hard.<br />

From your high ponytail to your twitching<br />

feet, everything about your appearance<br />

is unwelcomed. At your assigned<br />

group, kids are wearing crop top shirts,<br />

their hair down and flowing, laughing<br />

and gossiping happily with friends. You<br />

blush and stutter nervously, “H-h-hi.”<br />

Girls glare at your splash of freckles and<br />

light skin. They laugh and giggle and<br />

point at you. One girl takes your seat<br />

grinning maliciously. Your eyes tear up<br />

but you don’t want to start bawling in<br />

front of these girls. Your knees buckle<br />

weakly and you hurry outside for some<br />

fresh air. Tears flow down your face and<br />

you wish you could have been put in<br />

a different camp. Summer comes and<br />

goes quickly with not a word from either<br />

of the girls. Only splattered eggs<br />

on your window. Overcome your fears.<br />

Stand up for yourself. Don’t live with the<br />

fear of being bullied by girls who make<br />

it clear that you’re unwanted. Success<br />

comes in a can, not a can’t. Inspire people<br />

to follow your brave path and hope<br />

bullying will decrease in a large amount.<br />

By: Adina Charnas<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Let’s say you and your friend got into a<br />

fight. Your friend wants to talk it over.<br />

But, you decide to close yourself off from<br />

your best friend because you’re afraid of<br />

being wrong. So, because you’re afraid<br />

of being wrong in a fight, you lost your<br />

friend. Even if you are wrong, it’s more<br />

worth it to have a friend than having a<br />

fear of being wrong.<br />

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Honoring Parents<br />

In honor of Joe & Trina Cayre by their children<br />

In honor of my parents<br />

Rae & Izzy Abade<br />

By Douglas Abade<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Galit & Sammy Esses<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of my parents<br />

Albert & Rochelle Ades<br />

By Jimmy Ades<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Gary & Mary Feldman<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Sarah & Ezra Ashkenazi<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Rima & Eli Kassab<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Raymond & Shelly Betesh<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Allan & Bella Savdie<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Charles & Mira Elmann<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

David & Rosy Zeitoune<br />

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Be open for change & try new experiences<br />

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By: Esther Sutton<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

What would life be without a challenge,<br />

without a risk? A successful person only<br />

gets to where he is from challenges. Life<br />

is only what it is with challenges and risk<br />

and trying new things. And, you never<br />

know, you might like it. You won’t know<br />

unless you try. How will you know if the<br />

new girl will like you if you don’t speak<br />

to her? Maybe you‘ll have something in<br />

common with her and your friendship<br />

will go far. Standing out is leaving your<br />

comfort zone. It’s being uncertain of<br />

how it will turn out. Be open to new experiences<br />

because you only learn from<br />

experiences and, if it doesn’t work out,<br />

get back up again. It’s okay to be different.<br />

And, most importantly, trust Hashem.<br />

He’ll help you through it-even the<br />

hardest of challenges. Bitachon is the<br />

most important thing in life. You will get<br />

far in life if you take chances.<br />

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Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Let’s say, it’s the first day of school and<br />

you’re new to a school. This year is a good<br />

way to make friends. So, you start off looking<br />

around seeing who you can introduce<br />

yourself to. Then you see in the middle of<br />

the class a group of girls laughing. So, you<br />

go over. You start to tap the shoulder of<br />

a girl and she turns around. But, before<br />

any words can come out of your mouth,<br />

she rejects you and turns around. In your<br />

mind, you want to try again but your confidence<br />

is crushed. A week later, you realize<br />

to yourself that those girls are not the<br />

kind of girls you should be with. So, the<br />

next day, you come into school ready for a<br />

new start. In the corner of the room, you<br />

see two girls talking. Before you go over<br />

to them, your heart stops a second. You<br />

think of that rejection last week.<br />

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By: Helaine Jemal<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Be open to change. You don’t need to be<br />

like everybody else. You just need to be<br />

yourself. For Purim, everybody has a partner<br />

they are dressing up with, but you<br />

don’t want to do it with a partner. You<br />

want to do it alone. So, you get a little nervous<br />

to be the one who stands out and<br />

doesn’t have a partner. You end up having<br />

a really nice time. Everybody thought<br />

it was cool because you stood out and you<br />

were yourself. You didn’t need to do a little<br />

bit of what your partner wants. It was<br />

all by you. This was an example of someone<br />

who is not afraid to stand out and be<br />

herself. You never know; you might end<br />

up loving it.<br />

By: Allan Bailey<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

I am in a candy shop. There are hundreds<br />

of candies to choose from. If I buy the<br />

same candy every time, I won’t be able<br />

to experience a new flavor combination.<br />

That would be the safe way. However, if<br />

I have a mindset to take a risk and buy a<br />

new candy, I will enjoy it more because<br />

the suspense leading up to it will be great.<br />

Therefore, if you like the new candy, it will<br />

encourage you in the future to take more<br />

risks.<br />

By: Ezra Dweck<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

When I was in the Dominican Republic,<br />

my dad was playing volleyball. After one<br />

guy left, they needed one more person to<br />

play. I was sitting on the side watching the<br />

game and, all of a sudden, my dad asked<br />

me if I wanted to play. At first I said no, but<br />

then my dad convinced me to play. So, I<br />

played. I was nervous because I never really<br />

played this sport before. My dad told<br />

me to keep on trying and then I will get<br />

it. I was finally playing very well. I loved<br />

playing, I wish I can play this sport every<br />

day of my life.<br />

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Getting out of your Comfort Zone<br />

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By: Marcelle Setton<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Soccer tryouts are tomorrow. Gloria didn’t<br />

want to try out because she knew she<br />

wasn’t going to get on the team. Gloria’s<br />

friend Patricia asked Gloria if she was trying<br />

out for soccer. Gloria said no because<br />

she wasn’t very good. Patricia told Gloria<br />

to try something new and get out of her<br />

comfort zone. Gloria decided to try out<br />

because she had nothing to lose. Gloria<br />

tried out and played surprisingly well. She<br />

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Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Have you ever known an answer to a<br />

questions in class but was too afraid to<br />

raise your hand? This is a common fear<br />

among students around the world. And<br />

it’s affecting different aspects of life<br />

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Samantha, wouldn’t dare to raise her<br />

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she has an answer. Basically, she almost<br />

never raised her hand. There were times<br />

when a teacher would ask a question for<br />

extra credit to bump up a student’s grade<br />

and she still wouldn’t answer out of fear<br />

of being wrong. Letting go of some extra<br />

credit points to bump up her grade<br />

seems okay as long as she could stay in<br />

her comfort zone and never be wrong.<br />

However, she didn’t realize that she can<br />

never always be right, either.<br />

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By: Devorah Band<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Sarala was an average 8 year old. She<br />

played with her friends’ games, jump<br />

rope and so on. But, as summer came,<br />

all her friends were riding their bikes and<br />

she was left out. Her parents bought her<br />

a beautiful pink bike for her birthday.<br />

But, Sarala never used it because she was<br />

embarrassed that she still needed training<br />

wheels. Her family tried very hard<br />

to teach her how to ride without training<br />

wheels. In the middle of July, she felt<br />

like she was ready to bike along with her<br />

friends. In the beginning, she was having a<br />

blast with her hair flying in the wind. Suddenly,<br />

she lost her balance and fell off her<br />

bike. Her friends, Leah and Penina, started<br />

laughing at her. She turned red and<br />

ran home with tears dripping down her<br />

cheeks. Sarala kept on trying for weeks. A<br />

month later, she felt confident and went<br />

outside. This time, she had a better time<br />

and didn’t fall off. Thanks to her family,<br />

she accomplished riding her bike and felt<br />

good about herself.<br />

By: Regina Saada<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Getting out of your comfort zone is a fear<br />

most human beings face. I used to be<br />

afraid to attempt to shoot a shot in basketball.<br />

I was afraid that I would miss and<br />

be humiliated. No matter how many times<br />

my coach would encourage me to shoot, I<br />

was too afraid because I was too nervous<br />

to break out of my comfort zone. I missed<br />

out on the thrill of actually playing the<br />

game the best that I could do. The next<br />

year, I realized I missed out on a lot of fun<br />

and I was determined to break out of my<br />

shell. I missed, sometimes, but I scored a<br />

lot, too. From my basketball experience,<br />

I learned that even if you are afraid you<br />

must be brave and face your fears. Start<br />

moving out of your comfort zone now and<br />

face your fears like I did.<br />

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Take more risks, get more rewards<br />

By: Jonny Sultan<br />

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Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Lebron James entered the NBA at age 19.<br />

Coming right out of college, he was ready<br />

to play versus NBA stars like Shaquille<br />

O’Neal, Kobe Bryant, and Tim Duncan.<br />

At 6”8, Lebron played his first game with<br />

only 5 points. He got so much criticism for<br />

coming right after high school. The media<br />

kept asking him, “Do you think you’ll be<br />

good?” And he kept on answering, “Do<br />

I look like a quitter or a loser?” The next<br />

Taking risks:<br />

game, he played the Lakers, Kobe Bryant’s<br />

team. He had 32 points, one of the best<br />

scores. He never quit.<br />

If you win, you will<br />

By: Rachel Nussbaum<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

be happy. If you lose,<br />

Without risks, life would be boring. In order<br />

you will be wise.<br />

to make your life more exciting, you<br />

need to be daring and take risks. If you are<br />

constantly scared to take risks, you will<br />

By: Sharon Betesh<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Everybody in this world is afraid of something.<br />

But, that doesn’t mean to be afraid<br />

of everything. It’s not bad to take risks.<br />

But, when you don’t take risks, you are<br />

missing out on an opportunity. All your<br />

friends are at an amusement park and<br />

you don’t go on any rides. They all run<br />

on to the biggest ride in the park and you<br />

just stand there. You don’t want to go because<br />

you’re scared. Scared of what? Your<br />

friends come off the ride and had the best<br />

time. You just missed out on a memory<br />

that your friends could look back on. But,<br />

you can’t because you were scared. When<br />

you take risks, you thank yourself after<br />

because being scared in life causes you to<br />

miss out on great opportunities.<br />

By: Eddie Catton<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

In school, Jake wasn’t in the honors class.<br />

He was in the regular class. He worked<br />

very hard and became smarter. So, he was<br />

offered to move up to the honor class.<br />

Jake turned the offer down because he<br />

was too familiar with the regular class.<br />

He knew that he was smart enough to<br />

move up to the honors class. He knew everything<br />

that he was taught in the regular<br />

class and got bored but still wanted<br />

to stay there. If Jake took the offer, he<br />

would have been able to become an even<br />

smarter boy. Jake has to accept that life<br />

is about taking risks and stepping out of<br />

your comfort zone. There is no guarantee<br />

that honors class would have been better<br />

for him but he should’ve given it a try.<br />

never be accustomed to new things. If you<br />

constantly eat the same food, wear the<br />

same clothes and have the same friends,<br />

then you will just live a simple, boring<br />

life. Some people might fear taking risks<br />

because of the consequences or because<br />

they don’t like to try new things. We need<br />

to overcome this fear and train our minds<br />

to let us take those risks. So, what do you<br />

have to lose by taking risks?<br />

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By: Dina Huppert<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Because of fear in class, I am unable to answer<br />

any questions. My hand slowly goes<br />

up, but the fear pulls it down. My mouth<br />

opens wide, but the fear shuts it closed.<br />

Don’t let fear control you or you won’t<br />

get anywhere. Because of my fear of getting<br />

laughed at, I wasn’t sure what I know<br />

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Mike always wanted to learn how to ski. He<br />

went to many mountains during the winter<br />

to ski. He practiced for almost a year. He<br />

decided to join a skiing contest. The object<br />

of this contest was to see who got to the<br />

bottom of the mountain first going around<br />

obstacles. When the race started, Mike was<br />

extremely nervous. He fell off his skis and<br />

fell down the mountains. He came in last.<br />

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falling and everyone laughed at him. To<br />

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Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Naomi got picked from the whole school to<br />

speak at her school assembly. She worked<br />

really hard by making the speech and practicing.<br />

The night of the assembly came. She<br />

was so excited. She was in the middle of<br />

the speech and, all of a sudden, her mind<br />

went blank. Everyone started to giggle and<br />

laugh. Naomi felt like sinking in to the floor.<br />

But, she thought how hard she worked and<br />

practiced day and night. She was not going<br />

to give up now. She tried to remember<br />

the speech and it came back to her head.<br />

All of a sudden, she remembered it. She<br />

finished her speech and everyone cheered<br />

and clapped. She was picked again for the<br />

assembly the following year.<br />

By: Natalie Mizrahi<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Fear is an unpleasant emotion caused by<br />

the belief that someone or something is<br />

dangerous, likely to cause pain or threat.<br />

Fear is responsible for holding people back.<br />

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself<br />

(Franklin D. Roosevelt.) With this attitude,<br />

we can accomplish anything we put our<br />

minds to. Being kids, there are many people<br />

who degrade and belittle us and damage our<br />

confidence making us feel like such a small<br />

voice in this big world. As we get older, we<br />

will continue to encounter people like this.<br />

We cannot allow the fear to get to us. Fear<br />

stunts our growth causing us to not reach<br />

our fullest potential.<br />

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By: Terry Jemal<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

If someone goes to Six Flags with their<br />

friends and a girl is scared to go on the scary<br />

ride, they shouldn’t be scared because they<br />

are ruining it for themselves. They should go<br />

on that ride. If someone believes in Hashem<br />

that he will protect you, it’s all in his hands.<br />

We shouldn’t make ourselves all nervous<br />

and work ourselves up. Once they go on the<br />

ride, they will say, “That was fun” and she<br />

will be happy once she conquers her fears.<br />

If we get scared about something, we think<br />

of all nonsense in our heads because we are<br />

making ourselves crazy. We shouldn’t do<br />

that. It won’t do anything in life. We can’t<br />

get anywhere if we have fear about every<br />

little thing. You can’t think right if you have<br />

fear about something.<br />

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By: Stephanie Dweck<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

When one doesn’t take risks, one loses<br />

out on so many different aspects of life.<br />

They become so afraid and paranoid that<br />

they forget to live life. They miss out on<br />

everything that life has to offer. Fear created<br />

followers instead of leaders. We pass<br />

through life without becoming our own<br />

person. We nod when we’re supposed to,<br />

laugh when others are and try to talk as<br />

little as possible. We become someone<br />

else and miss out on finding out who we<br />

are. Instead, we must realize that it is okay<br />

to be different. Everyone was created for<br />

a reason and we all have something to offer<br />

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When you’re scared<br />

but you still do it<br />

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By: Batya Kairey<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

I was in Great Adventure in the summer.<br />

My friends all wanted to go on a Kingda<br />

Ka, but I was scared. I was not scared<br />

that I would die, but that I was afraid of<br />

the heights. My friends tried to convince<br />

me to go on a Kingda Ka, but I was trembling<br />

with fear. My friends went on line<br />

without me and tried to convince me to<br />

come on with them. They were almost<br />

at the top and I still didn’t go. When<br />

they came down, they were all talking<br />

and laughing. They were screaming how<br />

good it was. I felt so left out because I<br />

didn’t go on. On the next ride they went<br />

on, I went, too, and had the time of my<br />

life. I will never be afraid to go on any<br />

ride again because, if the other people<br />

can do it, I can do it too.<br />

By: Jack Mizrahi<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

A couple of years ago, a plane landed<br />

in the Hudson River. The pilot and the<br />

crew didn’t know what to do. Then, one<br />

crew member thought they should try to<br />

evacuate the plane before they were all<br />

under the Hudson. The plane staff took a<br />

giant leap of faith and risked their lives to<br />

save the passengers. Taking risks can be a<br />

huge accomplishment, even if you think<br />

you may fail.<br />

By: Mimi Levy<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

It is extremely important to take chances.<br />

You have one life to live and it’s extremely<br />

important to live it to its fullest<br />

potential. Sometimes, it might be scary.<br />

But, if you don’t step out of your comfort<br />

zone, you can regret it for the rest<br />

of your life. For example, you can lose<br />

a great job experience because you are<br />

too nervous to show the boss what you<br />

are made of. However, it might be too<br />

dangerous to take certain chances. You<br />

should definitely step out of your comfort<br />

zone but don’t be too risky so that it<br />

ends up badly.<br />

By: Joey Alhadef<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

When you have an idea that you want to<br />

share, you should share it or your chance<br />

will pass. Your friends will move on to<br />

something else. If you think your idea is<br />

good, then share it even if you think your<br />

friends won’t like it. A lot of successful<br />

people have been told that their ideas<br />

were weird or their friends didn’t like<br />

it but, in the end, they were successful.<br />

You are supposed to take risks and face<br />

problems.<br />

BARKAI P. 107| HILLEL P. 109 | MDY P. 103 | YOF P. 111<br />

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Eshet Chayil<br />

Joey Sitt in honor of his wife Betty<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Valerie<br />

by Jack Cheika<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Marcy<br />

by Charles Sued<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Fortune<br />

by David Edelstein<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Kimberly<br />

by Jimmy Tawil<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Karen<br />

by David Moreno<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Grace<br />

by Joey A. Tawil<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Victoria<br />

by Steven Salem<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Rose<br />

by Elliot Zeitoune<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Joyce<br />

by Abe Shalom<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Jeanne<br />

by Ralph Zirdok


More Risk = More Reward: Friendship<br />

Comment on the lessons<br />

you learn from the stories at<br />

By: <strong>Bar</strong>bara Schwartzbard<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

It was the summer going into 10th grade<br />

and I couldn’t decide what I wanted to<br />

do for the summer. Most of my friends<br />

were going to the same camp that I have<br />

been going to for many years. However,<br />

one of my friends was going to Israel<br />

for the summer to a sleep away camp.<br />

She asked me if I wanted to join her<br />

and I said no. I wanted to be in a camp<br />

that I was comfortable in, that I knew.<br />

When we all came back to school this<br />

fall, she told me all about her summer.<br />

This is when I realized I should’ve gone<br />

with her to Israel this summer. Because<br />

I didn’t take a risk, I missed out on an<br />

amazing summer and a chance to see<br />

new things and meet new people. This<br />

experience shows me to take risks and<br />

be courageous. The comfortable choice<br />

isn’t always the best choice.<br />

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One man with<br />

courage makes<br />

a majority.<br />

By: Evelyn Tawil<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Everyone wants acceptance. When you<br />

are afraid, you lose opportunities you<br />

would be able to take if you weren’t<br />

afraid. When you take a look at teens,<br />

you can pinpoint at least one fear - fear<br />

of not being accepted. Nobody wants to<br />

be rejected, alone, or not included. You<br />

could be very talkative to one of your<br />

close friends but, when presented in<br />

front of someone foreign, you sometimes<br />

get shy. Why does this happen? Why do<br />

you suddenly bottle up and close the<br />

doors to people you haven’t even met?<br />

The reason for this is uncertainty. That<br />

feeling of not knowing how you should<br />

act. You have to face your fears head<br />

on so you don’t lose the opportunity to<br />

make new friends while simultaneously<br />

remaining true to yourself. Only then will<br />

you be truly happy with yourself and remove<br />

yourself from the burden of fear.<br />

By: Florence D.<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

In life, there will be many challenges<br />

thrown at us. But, it is our job to overcome<br />

them. Last year, a friend of mine<br />

hurt my feelings and did something unforgivable.<br />

This was a very hard obstacle for<br />

me to overcome. I am sure that most girls<br />

fight with their friends and then bounce<br />

back days later. But, this was different.<br />

We didn’t speak for weeks and acted like<br />

strangers. We both acted like we never<br />

even knew each other. Finally, I decided<br />

I had enough. I confronted my friend and<br />

showed her my perspective. She understood<br />

why I was upset and apologized. I<br />

know this doesn’t seem like such a large<br />

obstacle, but at the time it was my only<br />

obstacle. My friend and I are now closer<br />

than ever. It is very important to bounce<br />

back. Even if we fail or are faced with a<br />

challenge, we should try our hardest to<br />

succeed and overcome it.<br />

By: Sara Shtaynberger<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

The trick in life is to be confident and not<br />

scared of taking risks. If you see a new student<br />

in your class, don’t just ignore her.<br />

Walk up to her and introduce yourself.<br />

You never know; that new student might<br />

just be your new best friend.<br />

By: Vicky Levy<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

This past summer, I went to a new camp<br />

and I didn’t know anyone there except<br />

for one friend. We wanted to meet people<br />

and develop new friendships but I<br />

was afraid to approach people. When I<br />

finally did, I made one of my best friends<br />

today. If I wouldn’t have built up the<br />

courage to talk to new people, I wouldn’t<br />

have the friends I made. It’s very important<br />

to overcome your fear and to take<br />

risks because you might miss out on future<br />

experiences.<br />

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Eshet Chayil<br />

Dr. Isaac Mohadeb in honor of his wife Lily<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Frances<br />

by Hymie Betesh<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Linda<br />

by Henry V. Guindi<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Eileen<br />

by Alan Cabasso<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Linda<br />

by Eli Khafif<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Linda<br />

by Ralph Cohen<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Randi<br />

by Joey Levy<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Monique<br />

by Raymond Esses<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Renee<br />

by Nathan Matut<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Chaya<br />

by Victor Falah<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Morgan<br />

by Abe Sultan


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you learn from the stories at<br />

Letting go of past experiences<br />

By: Sophia Rofe<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Rachel’s goal was to become a great actress.<br />

One day, Rachel was invited to do<br />

the play “Romeo and Juliet”. Rachel practiced<br />

for months for this play and now it<br />

was finally here. She went on stage and<br />

started to say her lines. Right before intermission,<br />

everyone applauded. During<br />

intermission, Rachel decided that, since<br />

she did so well, she didn’t really need to<br />

practice her lines anymore. When the<br />

play was back on, it was Rachel’s lines.<br />

She said a few lines, but then she messed<br />

up. After Rachel messed up her lines, she<br />

tried again but failed. Then, Rachel ran<br />

off the stage. A few months later, she<br />

was asked to perform in the play “Shakespeare.”<br />

When she received this message,<br />

at first, she didn’t want to enter. But, then<br />

Rachel realized, in life you only fail so that<br />

you can try again. The lesson here is that<br />

you should never give up. Even if you fail<br />

terribly, you should always try again.<br />

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Sometimes you<br />

have to let things<br />

go for better<br />

things to arrive.<br />

By: Miriam Zenilman<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

When I was in third grade, I was diagnosed<br />

with a severe nut allergy. A month<br />

later, I had an allergic reaction and was<br />

sent to the nearest hospital. A couple<br />

of hours later, I was once again healthy.<br />

But, this traumatic experience had a<br />

huge impact on me. I carried the fear of<br />

having another allergic reaction with me<br />

for years. However, this past summer I<br />

was able to overcome this irrational fear.<br />

I went on a community service trip to<br />

Croatia and had to trust that the guide<br />

accompanying my group would read the<br />

ingredients on food packages correctly<br />

as I cannot understand Croatian. At first,<br />

I was very anxious about eating. However,<br />

my friends encouraged me to take<br />

risks and assured me that everything<br />

would be fine. I took their advice and<br />

found that they were right. As a result, I<br />

learned that taking a chance is definitely<br />

worth the risk.<br />

By: Orly Alchkifati<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

In order to live a happy life, you need to<br />

be successful. Successful is when someone<br />

had an embarrassing moment or<br />

experience in their life but is still trying.<br />

Someone who is not giving up, who forgets<br />

about the past and starts fresh; a<br />

person who learns from his mistakes and<br />

tries again the second time with confidence.<br />

For example, Sara has a goal to be<br />

a singer. She believed that she will be a<br />

good singer. But, when she was performing,<br />

she saw so many people staring at her.<br />

She forgot the song. But did she give up?<br />

No! Later on, there was another performance.<br />

She learned the song and learned<br />

from her mistakes. She started fresh, new<br />

and was confident in herself. That’s what<br />

I call a winner - a person who keeps on<br />

pushing and pushing until they get it right.<br />

A person who gets up when she falls.<br />

By: Bert Dweck<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

One day, I decided to run a marathon and<br />

tried to be the winner. I never ran more<br />

than 2 miles in my life. I started training<br />

every day for 45 minutes and it was going<br />

fine. Then I ran a 10 mile marathon after<br />

training 45 minutes a day for 3 months and<br />

collapsed right before I reached 6 miles. I<br />

was really upset and ashamed of myself. I<br />

felt like I was a fool and couldn’t succeed.<br />

I just decided to think positive and forget<br />

about all of the stumbling blocks and mistakes<br />

that ever happened to me. I started<br />

my training all over again. I increased my<br />

training to 1 hour and 30 minutes a day<br />

and I ran the same marathon 1 year later.<br />

I was very nervous before the marathon<br />

that something might happen. I ended up<br />

succeeding and winning the marathon.<br />

I won a first place medal. The lesson I<br />

learned was to never give up and you will<br />

succeed.<br />

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In Memory of<br />

I n m e m o r y o f R a l p h S . G i n d i A ” H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Ezra and Samira ben<br />

Rachel Abed A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Albert Manopla A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Maurice Elbaz A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Yitzchak ben Mazal A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Eliyahu<br />

ben Rachel A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Joseph M. Missry<br />

ben Arline A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Yoseph ben Latife Guindi<br />

I n memory of<br />

Ralphael Sarway A”H<br />

I n loving memory of<br />

Joseph S. Jemal A”H<br />

by his wife Ruth and children<br />

I n memory of<br />

Hy Serure A”H<br />

by his family


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you learn from the stories at<br />

Letting go of past experiences<br />

By: Esther Sutton<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Two girls stood behind the curtain at<br />

their ballet recital. “I’m next. I can’t do<br />

it. I just can’t,” one girl said to another.<br />

Her friend responded, “Of course you<br />

can. What is stopping you?” “Don’t you<br />

remember last year’s show? I tripped<br />

and fell and what if it happens again?<br />

I ruined it for everyone last time and I<br />

don’t want that to happen again,” she<br />

explained. Her friend responded, “I<br />

think what you lacked was confidence.<br />

You’re just afraid of messing up again.<br />

But, the most amazing people faced<br />

challenges. You’ll never improve if you<br />

don’t face challenges. The girl responded<br />

with a smile and said, “You’re right.<br />

I won’t make the same mistake again. I<br />

just need confidence.” There was an announcement<br />

for the next contestant.<br />

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Log on to TorahContest.com<br />

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Hashem wouldn’t<br />

give you a<br />

challenge you<br />

cannot handle.<br />

By: Moshe Lati<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Who knows that moment when there are<br />

3 seconds left in the game and your team<br />

is counting on you to take the game’s<br />

winning shot? Well, I do. I had the ball<br />

in my hands and I was so nervous. The<br />

one thing I was thinking was let’s say I<br />

made the shot, the whole crowd would<br />

be going nuts! But, I also thought lets say<br />

I missed that shot, my whole team would<br />

be screaming at me or they will never<br />

trust me to take the last shot. I had the<br />

ball with 3 seconds. I shot...and I missed.<br />

My team didn’t scream at me. They<br />

told me, “Its ok. We all make mistakes.<br />

People learn from their mistakes.” I felt<br />

good, really good. But now, the second<br />

time, are my teammates going to trust<br />

me to take the game’s winning shot? I<br />

am not going to be scared or nervous.<br />

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By: Cerise Rishty<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

There was a girl, named Julie, who loved<br />

to dance. She went to a dance class every<br />

day. One day, her teacher said, “We are<br />

going to have a dance recital next week.”<br />

Julie was jumping with joy. She invited<br />

her whole family and all her friends. Every<br />

second she had, she practiced. It was<br />

finally the day of the recital and she was<br />

so excited. She walked on stage. The music<br />

started and she forgot the dance. All of<br />

her friends and family saw her frozen on<br />

stage. She ran off and cried. When it came<br />

to the next recital, she was hesitant to<br />

do it. She worked even harder. She never<br />

gave up. It turned out great.<br />

By: Tamar Schneider<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

If you want to overcome fear, this is what<br />

you should do. Whatever the fear is, do<br />

it over and over again; so, the next time<br />

it comes up you won’t be scared because<br />

you will be so used to it. I read a story<br />

once about a boy who was afraid of elevators<br />

because he got stuck in one. His mom<br />

told him to go on it again and again and he<br />

did. So, that’s why he overcame his fear.<br />

This really works. Try it!<br />

By: Linda Benun<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Someone was getting married to a very<br />

nice and sweet lady. After all the parties<br />

and everything, two days before the wedding<br />

the bride called off the wedding. It<br />

broke her fiancé’s heart. His family had to<br />

calm him down. After that happened, he<br />

was always afraid to get into another relationship<br />

with someone else because he<br />

was afraid he was going to get hurt again.<br />

It took him a few years to actually say, “I<br />

feel confident that I will find someone.”<br />

And he did. He is married now to a lovely<br />

lady and they are actually expecting a<br />

baby soon. So, now you see what happens<br />

when you overcome your fears.<br />

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In Memory of<br />

In memory of Gabriel Chehebar A”H<br />

I n memory of my father<br />

Jack S. Anteby A”H<br />

By David Anteby<br />

I n memory of<br />

Norma Haddad A”H<br />

By her family<br />

I n memory of<br />

Abraham D. Cohen A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Elliot Serure A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Shaya Chabot<br />

ben Simbol A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Shira bat Simcha A”H<br />

By his family<br />

I n memory of<br />

Eddie Haber A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Gitta bat Nizha<br />

Sultan A”H<br />

I n memory of<br />

Alice Haddad A”H<br />

By her family<br />

I n memory of<br />

Sol N. Tawil A”H<br />

By his wife, children and grandchildren


Don’t repeat the same mistake. Try a new approach.<br />

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By: Rena Chaiklen<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

You have an assignment in one of your<br />

classes to write a story. You have a really<br />

great idea and work very hard to write it.<br />

When you get to school the day that it’s<br />

due, you are very confident and happy<br />

with your story. You go around showing<br />

it to everyone and telling them to read it.<br />

When you hand it in, you tell the teacher,<br />

“I think I did well.” When you get it back,<br />

you get a very bad grade. Everyone is very<br />

happy with their grades and is asking you<br />

what you got. You tell them, sadly, that<br />

you did badly and you’re very embarrassed.<br />

The next time you get assigned<br />

to write a story, at first you’re upset because<br />

last time you did badly. When you<br />

get home, instead of just writing anything<br />

because you think you’re a bad writer, you<br />

put your all into the story. You do things<br />

differently than you did before and you<br />

come up with a better story. This time you<br />

get the highest grade.<br />

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Failure is the<br />

opportunity to<br />

begin again, only<br />

more intelligently.<br />

By: Rachelli Hoffman<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

A girl named Chana always wanted to try<br />

to dive. One day, she went to the pool. She<br />

ran to the front of the pool. She held her<br />

hands out towards the water and jumped<br />

off the edge of the pool. She felt her body<br />

fly through the air as she touched the surface<br />

of the water and smack. She landed<br />

in a belly flop. She was very embarrassed.<br />

She went home devastated. The next day<br />

she went back to the pool to try again. She<br />

went to the edge and wondered; maybe,<br />

if she held her hands up a different way,<br />

she might do it the right way. This time,<br />

she held her hands above her head and<br />

jumped. This time, instead of touching<br />

the surface of the water, she did a neat<br />

plunge through the water. All her friends<br />

clapped for her as she exited the water.<br />

By: Daniel Braha<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

One day, I was with my friends. They<br />

all had penny boards. I said to myself,<br />

“That looks cool.” So, I asked my dad if<br />

I can have one and he said, “Yes.” I was<br />

so excited. All of my friends were outside<br />

my house with their skateboards. I<br />

rushed out the door to show my skateboard<br />

to them. We went riding. We<br />

started to ride and right away I fell off.<br />

From then on I knew, I wasn’t that good<br />

because they were laughing at me. I<br />

thought about that and said to myself<br />

that if I tried I would be a great rider.<br />

So, I was practicing but I couldn’t seem<br />

to get the hang of it. One time, I tried to<br />

put my feet in a different direction and,<br />

the first thing I knew, I was riding. The<br />

next day, I was riding with my friends.<br />

I was doing great. After a few months<br />

went by, I was the best rider.<br />

By: Raymond Arking<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

People always try to do amazing things<br />

but, sometimes, it just backfires. I think<br />

people should start out small and then try<br />

bigger. For example, I tried to get a touchdown<br />

in football. But, the ball bounced<br />

off my hands and someone on the other<br />

team caught it. (It was an interception).<br />

So, I tried to start small. I got a touchdown<br />

by running with the ball (getting a handoff).<br />

I felt good that I helped my team instead<br />

of doing a back flip and missing a<br />

throw, which I could have easily caught. I<br />

know that many people have done similar<br />

mistakes. So, remember to start small and<br />

you’ll end up doing big things one day.<br />

Great prizes for the authors<br />

Authors who get the most comments will get a prize. SEE P. 89<br />

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Eshet Chayil<br />

Jack A. Kassin in honor of his wife Joyce<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Aliza<br />

by Albert Allaham<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Betty<br />

by Albert Marcus<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Etty<br />

by Jack Benzaken<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Stephanie<br />

by Jack Mosseri<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Lisa<br />

by Jackie Cohen – Arazi<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Arlene<br />

by Ralph Sassoon<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Stefanie<br />

by Ikey Douek<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Ellen<br />

by Morris Shalom<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Jane<br />

by Steve Gammal<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Sally<br />

by David Wahba


A healthy attitude towards failure<br />

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By: Vivian Gindi<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

When I was learning to ride a bicycle, I<br />

kept on falling and I couldn’t stay on the<br />

bike. I got a scrape on my knee and cut on<br />

my ankle. But, I decided to be determined<br />

and I jumped right back on the bicycle. After<br />

so many times, I actually rode a little.<br />

I continued and I did it. I learned how to<br />

ride a bicycle. Even though I was little<br />

and that was a small accomplishment, it<br />

taught me a lesson. I learned that from<br />

failures I can learn to do things better.<br />

By: Joyce Kassin<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Everyone at some point fails. Most people<br />

look at a failure as a very bad thing. But,<br />

you don’t have to. When someone fails,<br />

that could be your motivation to reach<br />

your goal and do better even if you don’t<br />

get it the first time or even the fifth time.<br />

Never give up. Always look ahead.<br />

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I was born to<br />

make mistakes,<br />

not to fake<br />

perfection.<br />

By: Lauren Shamah<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

There was once a girl who loved to dance.<br />

She took many classes and spent hours<br />

improving. It was the big day. She got to<br />

dance by herself in front of 500 people.<br />

There were very important people from<br />

the dance world to watch her. Bam! She<br />

fell on her face. Everyone started to laugh<br />

and she dashed out in embarrassment.<br />

She felt discouraged, but knew that she<br />

had another chance to prove herself next<br />

week and giving up would be a bad idea.<br />

She restlessly worked and tried to improve.<br />

Her next chance came and she felt<br />

motivated. She believed in herself and did<br />

amazing. She was requested for the biggest<br />

school of dance. We learn from her<br />

that failure leads to success.<br />

By: Joelle Cohen<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Once upon a time, I was on the debate<br />

team. It was fun and everyone thought<br />

I would win. Above all, I was passionate<br />

about the debate’s subject being it was<br />

animal testing. When the debate started,<br />

I was surprised at the intelligence of the<br />

kids on the other team. They showed me<br />

much stronger points of the argument. I<br />

wasn’t surprised when I lost. But, I was<br />

resentful. I blamed it on so many things.<br />

I blamed it on my partner who admittedly<br />

stuttered and did get a lower score than<br />

me. I blamed it on my lack of preparation<br />

time, but it may have been my overzealous<br />

confidence. This taught me to prepare<br />

and not be so conceited. I was so upset<br />

at not winning anything but, in reality,<br />

I was disappointed in myself. I still had fun<br />

at the competition which encouraged me<br />

to sign up for the 8th grade debate team<br />

again and try better this time.<br />

By: Laurie Haber<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Sarah wanted to be an interior designer.<br />

She worked so hard to prepare for her<br />

first client. All through her first appointment,<br />

Sarah was so excited she didn’t let<br />

her client say what he wanted. Sarah kept<br />

on rambling on and on about how she<br />

wanted the house and what she imagined<br />

the house to become. After the first appointment,<br />

Sarah’s client called and kindly<br />

said that they did not need her services<br />

anymore. Sarah wondered what she did<br />

wrong. She realized that she did not let<br />

her client talk. Sarah fixed her mistakes<br />

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A healthy attitude towards failure<br />

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By: Elliot Levy<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Many times in life, you may come to an opportunity<br />

where you can choose to either<br />

take a risk or be conservative. Numerous<br />

people may decide to be conservative and<br />

miss out on what they could have gotten.<br />

Whenever people do something and fail,<br />

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By: Steven Hafif<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

When I first started my sophomore year<br />

in high school, I made the decision to try<br />

out for the hockey team. I was excited. I<br />

bought the equipment and started practicing<br />

weeks before the first game. By the<br />

time my first game came up, I was bursting<br />

with excitement. Arriving early, I immediately<br />

ran downstairs and started to<br />

plan how I will celebrate my goals. The<br />

game started and I was frozen up. I missed<br />

every pass, shot and goal. And I was eventually<br />

benched for the second half of the<br />

game. I went into the locker room upset<br />

and mostly angry. But, then, I took a step<br />

back. I thought about what I was doing<br />

wrong and how to correct it. Instead of<br />

giving up, I went to the coach and told<br />

him to give me another chance. The very<br />

next shift, I scored the game winning goal.<br />

By: Jacob Tawil<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Slip! Pete fell again. He lost the ice hockey<br />

game for his team. After the game, the<br />

whole team wanted Pete off the team.<br />

Pete was so sad. So, he quit because he<br />

did not want to be on a team when he<br />

was not welcomed. The next day, a kid<br />

from the team came to Pete to tell him to<br />

come back on the team. He told Pete that<br />

he should not quit just because he made<br />

a mistake. He should learn from his mistakes<br />

instead. Pete decided to come back<br />

on the team. At the end of the game, Pete<br />

got the game’s winning goal. His whole<br />

team congratulated Pete. He learned a<br />

valuable lesson: Never give up.<br />

By: Juliet Nasar<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Abigail’s dream was to get into Harvard<br />

Law School. She was very smart. When it<br />

came time to take the SATs, she was very<br />

nervous. She was so nervous that she<br />

couldn’t think straight and got a very bad<br />

mark. She was very depressed. Some time<br />

later she took the SATs again. This time,<br />

she learned that she shouldn’t be too<br />

nervous. So, she took a deep breath and<br />

began the test. This time, she got a very<br />

good grade and is now in her third year of<br />

Harvard Law School. This story shows that<br />

you should never give up and learn from<br />

your mistakes.<br />

By: Sophia Hindy<br />

Ahi Ezer Yeshiva<br />

In order to succeed, there is going to be<br />

failure in the process. But, if you don’t fail,<br />

you won’t learn. The hard part is deciding<br />

to keep going once you fail, instead of<br />

letting that mistake stop you from moving<br />

forward. What some people don’t understand<br />

is that mistakes or failing brought<br />

something good to it, too; It taught more<br />

experience to face the next challenges.<br />

And the next challenge, you most likely<br />

will succeed.<br />

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By: Tehila Bitton<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

One time, when Bella was starting a new<br />

school, she was too shy and insecure that<br />

no one would like her. Sarah didn’t talk to<br />

anyone and when they tried to talk to her<br />

she would just brush them off. Because of<br />

her fear, she ended up alone without any<br />

friends. Later, she learned her lesson and<br />

asked her mother to switch schools. She<br />

put aside her fears, stepped up and said<br />

“Hello” first. Now, she has a ton of friends.<br />

She learned that fear doesn’t help you be<br />

safer. It just held her back from experiencing<br />

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Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

One time in chemistry class, the teacher<br />

asked a question. It was an advanced<br />

question that was very difficult to answer.<br />

Therefore, very few raised hands to answer<br />

the question and those who did got<br />

it wrong. I was pretty sure I knew that answer,<br />

but my fear took control and I was<br />

too nervous to raise my hand. As I was<br />

debating with myself whether I should<br />

raise my hand or not, someone else<br />

raised their hand. That student got the<br />

answer right and was rewarded with extra<br />

points on her average. The disappointing<br />

part was that I was going to say the exact<br />

same answer and, if I wasn’t so afraid to<br />

say it, then I would’ve gotten the points.<br />

Ever since this incident, I don’t shy away<br />

from answering questions. Occasionally, I<br />

get the bonus questions and I am the one<br />

who receives the points. Don’t let fear<br />

control actions because you can be much<br />

more successful if you conquer it.<br />

By: Sonny Setton<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

This past summer, I went to work at a<br />

camp. However, I am naturally a quiet and<br />

shy person. I normally have a hard time<br />

meeting new people. This past summer<br />

was actually very fun because of all the<br />

people I met. I became close with my cocounselor<br />

who happened to be very popular<br />

in the camp. Once I saw how social he<br />

was, I said to myself, “You can do this.” We<br />

immediately became very good friends.<br />

Over the course of the summer, I met so<br />

many new and wonderful people. Before<br />

I knew it, I became popular in camp too.<br />

I came out of the summer with at least<br />

20 new great friends. It just goes to show<br />

you. If you just step out of your comfort<br />

zone, great things will happen.<br />

By: Orly Alchkifati<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

One time, when I was little, I was shy and<br />

scared to sing in front of people. Everyone<br />

wanted to hear my voice and how I sing.<br />

I was scared they wouldn’t like my voice<br />

and would laugh at me. When I sing, I express<br />

myself and who I am. But, because<br />

of fear, I wasn’t able to do that. People<br />

thought I was a little shy girl with no talent.<br />

But, later on in life, I learned that<br />

when you think too much or overthink it<br />

you start to get scared. So, the message<br />

I’m trying to say is don’t get scared or<br />

you’ll regret it for life. Never overthink,<br />

just do what you truly believe.<br />

By: Bobby Matalon<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

When I play basketball by myself, I play<br />

great. But, when I play with my friends, I<br />

don’t seem to be as good. That happens<br />

because I’m scared. As soon as I realized<br />

it, I worked to overcome my fear and shyness.<br />

My game improved and my friends<br />

were impressed with the way I played.<br />

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by Raymond Kassin<br />

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Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

There was a boy who didn’t have a place<br />

to go to for lunch. I already made plans<br />

with my friends. I kept thinking to myself:<br />

the right thing to do would be to bring<br />

him with my friends. Although this was<br />

obvious, there was still a chance that my<br />

friends wouldn’t approve and leave me<br />

alone. I took that risk. I invited him to<br />

come along. I will never forget the smile<br />

I put on that kid’s face. It was definitely<br />

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my friends, after some awkward glances,<br />

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By: Sion Dweck<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

One day, Ikey went to his friend. His friend<br />

was popular and everybody was kind of<br />

forced to follow him. Ikey was different<br />

from everybody. Every morning, he would<br />

wake up very early and pray, put money<br />

in sedaka. When he went to his friend’s<br />

house, he was told he had to sleep there<br />

because it was snowing. He couldn’t do<br />

what he did every morning. Ikey was<br />

forced to leave his comfort zone because<br />

of society. He can overcome it by being<br />

himself. He could have been brave and do<br />

what he does every morning.<br />

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By: Frieda Sasson<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Sometimes when people have friends<br />

over for a sleepover, the next morning you<br />

might want to do netilat yadayim and pray<br />

but you are worried about what people<br />

will think. You think that they might make<br />

fun of you if you pray. But, you shouldn’t<br />

think about what other people think<br />

when you are doing a mitzvah and doing<br />

the right things. But, when you are doing<br />

a wrong thing, you should care about<br />

what other people think. Don’t fear to do<br />

the right thing. Be yourself and that’s all<br />

that matters.<br />

By: Maurice Djmal<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

A few boys were going out to eat at a nonkosher<br />

restaurant. One boy was scared<br />

to ask them to eat at a kosher restaurant<br />

instead. So, he went along with them<br />

and didn’t say anything. A month later,<br />

he was with the same friends again and<br />

they were going to a non-kosher restaurant<br />

again. This time he didn’t want to sin<br />

and said that he didn’t want to eat there.<br />

His friends said they didn’t care and were<br />

going there anyway. But, then, one of his<br />

friends said he also doesn’t like to eat<br />

there and he was afraid to speak up till<br />

now. Both of the boys went to a kosher<br />

restaurant together.<br />

By: Jacqueline Franco<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

Someone wanted to wear a skirt everyday.<br />

She wanted to become more tzniut.<br />

She didn’t want because her friends<br />

might make fun of her. They might think<br />

she is weird or they might try to stop talking<br />

to her. Later on, the girl wears a skirt<br />

every Friday and Saturday. She sees that<br />

her friends don’t say anything. At the end,<br />

she wears skirts every day. Her friends<br />

don’t say anything and she has faced her<br />

fears and succeeded.<br />

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By Alan Jemal<br />

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Joy<br />

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Esther<br />

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By Mousa Saad


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By: Fatima Sharaby<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Sarah was so excited to go on a shopping<br />

spree with her mom. Her friends were<br />

telling her where to go and what to buy.<br />

When she came to school the next week<br />

with a turtleneck sweater, her friends<br />

were making fun of her and told her to<br />

take it off. Sara came home that day giving<br />

all her clothes away to charity. Her<br />

mom spent all this money for no reason.<br />

Her mom told her, “You can be different.<br />

You can have your own style.” Sarah came<br />

to school the next day with another shirt<br />

that she just bought. Her friends rolled<br />

their eyes and made nasty comments.<br />

Sarah said, “I am not you. I can wear what<br />

I want.” Her friends realized they were<br />

wrong and apologized. Sarah finally felt<br />

comfortable.<br />

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<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

You’re with your friends at a restaurant.<br />

All of them order French fries and unhealthy<br />

food. You always ate healthy<br />

your whole life. You really want to order<br />

salad or soup but you order what<br />

all your friends have because you are<br />

afraid to be different. Order what you<br />

want and enjoy it!<br />

By: Gayle Zagha<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

When there is a group of people who<br />

are all basically the same, the fear stops<br />

you from being yourself. If you are not<br />

acting like yourself, then how are people<br />

supposed to like you for who you are?<br />

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By: Ruth Tawil<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

You are going to buy shoes and you chose<br />

a pair that you love. You’re ready to buy<br />

them until you hesitate because you think<br />

that your friends might not like them or<br />

they will make fun of you. Then, you put<br />

the shoes back and you leave the store<br />

empty handed. Why should you care what<br />

your friends think about those shoes?<br />

They are not the ones who are wearing<br />

them; you are. What’s the big deal if<br />

you buy them and your friends don’t like<br />

them? You’re dressing for yourself not for<br />

your friends.<br />

By: Rebecca Sutton<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Fear is something that always stays unless<br />

you’re able to overcome. For example,<br />

doing something different than your<br />

friends may sound scary but, once you do<br />

it, if they’re true friends, they will support<br />

you and accept you. Not doing it, letting<br />

fear take over, will make you be always<br />

scared and worried about what everyone<br />

will think. It will stay with you until you<br />

get older unless you face it. So, why not<br />

take a chance and live a life?<br />

By: Celia Cohen<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

There are many different situations in<br />

which people are too fearful. One example<br />

is a person wants to grow up to<br />

become a scientist or have an academic<br />

career but they won’t follow their dreams<br />

because they are afraid that someone will<br />

make fun of them and call them a nerd<br />

or a genius. They are afraid that they will<br />

lose their friends. They will choose to not<br />

go to college just so that they can fit in.<br />

It’s not good to be fearful of the person<br />

you really want to be. You end up becoming<br />

a person your friends want you to be.<br />

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Marlene<br />

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Nancy<br />

By Charles Grazi<br />

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Ninette<br />

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Gloria<br />

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Hillel Yeshiva<br />

An 8th grade boy is in a lower math track.<br />

But, he is really trying to do better. He<br />

practices and practices during all of his<br />

free time and ,yet, he still fails his quizzes.<br />

Everyone keeps telling him to stop<br />

trying, “You’re never going to get any better.<br />

You’re not smart.” He started to believe<br />

it. So, he stopped trying and kept on<br />

failing. After a while, he thought to himself,<br />

“Wait! I shouldn’t listen to this. I can<br />

pass.” The night before his next quiz, he<br />

studied for hours. During the quiz, he kept<br />

thinking to himself, “I can do this, I can do<br />

this. I will do this.” When he got his quiz<br />

back, he was scared to look. He covered<br />

the grades and closed his eyes. Finally, he<br />

opened his eyes and uncovered the grade.<br />

He got a 95%. He was so proud and so was<br />

his teacher. From then on, he wouldn’t listen<br />

to what others would say about him.<br />

Only what he thought of himself.<br />

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Hillel Yeshiva<br />

One day, I wanted to try to play baseball<br />

with my friend. I started to throw the<br />

ball up in the air and I tried to hit it but<br />

I missed. I kept trying to hit the ball but<br />

it was no use because I kept missing. My<br />

friend said, “Give it up. You’ll never be<br />

as good as me.” After she said that, I felt<br />

really bad. And, I believed that I wasn’t<br />

going to be as good as her. Then, every<br />

day after school, I went outside and my<br />

dad pitched to me. I did a little better<br />

because I got one hit, but it didn’t go so<br />

far. The next day, I went outside again to<br />

practice. I hit the ball up into the trees.<br />

I was jumping up and down because I<br />

got such a good hit. I ran and gave my<br />

dad the biggest hug and thanked him<br />

for making me so good at baseball. I<br />

learned from that to never give up because<br />

everything is possible.<br />

By: Sari Alfaks<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Fear can prevent you from reaching your<br />

life goals and dreams. If it’s your dream to<br />

be a lawyer, you should push yourself to<br />

get there and enjoy doing it. If you have<br />

a job interview and you get very nervous<br />

about it, you won’t succeed. An opportunity<br />

like this comes once in a lifetime. You<br />

must be relaxed and calm and believe that<br />

you could succeed. Fear is all imagination<br />

and the only person causing fear is you.<br />

By: Estelle Saad<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

There once was a girl who never tried anything<br />

new. She would never talk to anyone<br />

else other than the girls she knew all<br />

her life. When she went to a new school,<br />

she was forced to make new friends and<br />

try new things. She joined many teams<br />

and made so many friends. She was glad<br />

that she stepped out of her comfort zone<br />

and wished she had tried it before. Don’t<br />

wait for an opportunity to knock on your<br />

door. You should knock on its doors.<br />

By: Laurie Rae Haber<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

Sarah went to a store to buy new clothes.<br />

She saw an exotic dress that she liked a<br />

lot. She saw a price tag. It was only $20.<br />

She was afraid that her friend wouldn’t<br />

like the dress. She was debating if she<br />

should buy it or not. She liked the dress<br />

and it was cheap, but her friends might<br />

not like it. In the end, Sarah didn’t buy<br />

the dress. She came to the store the next<br />

day and the dress was $50. Sarah lost out<br />

on the dress because of fear. She learned<br />

that day not to think about what anybody<br />

thinks.<br />

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Eshet Chayil<br />

Raymond Dayan in honor of his wife Vivian<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Honey<br />

by Moshe Assis<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Lina<br />

by Edmound Nahum<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Rose<br />

by Ike Betesh<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Cleme<br />

by Joe V. Saideh<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Shani<br />

by Mordy Faks<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Tania<br />

by David Salem<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Betti<br />

by Alex Missry<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Sari<br />

by Jack Sasson<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Lynn<br />

by Marc Moghrabi<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Sarah<br />

by Judah M. Schemo


Never give up. Don’t quit.<br />

Comment on the lessons<br />

you learn from the stories at<br />

By: Victor Fteha<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Perseverance can prove useful during<br />

childhood in several ways. For example,<br />

I once received an unusual grade in Jewish<br />

History. It was the lowest mark I got<br />

my whole life. Instead of pondering about<br />

it uselessly, I pledged upon myself that I<br />

would study hard for my upcoming tests,<br />

particularly Jewish History, my weakness.<br />

To my disbelief, my countless efforts<br />

earned me a 112. That was actually the<br />

highest mark I got this year.<br />

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It’s hard to beat<br />

a person who<br />

never gives up.<br />

By: Abie Nahamias<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

When someone’s business goes down, he<br />

shouldn’t just say he failed and go into a<br />

new business. He should never give up<br />

and keep trying. Also, learn from the failure.<br />

The way the business failed he should<br />

never let that happen again to his business.<br />

Recently, when I was playing a basketball<br />

game and I lost, I didn’t just give<br />

up and say. I failed. The next game I tried<br />

not to fail and not let that failure make me<br />

do badly from last game. So, the game I<br />

was playing now I tried as hard as I could<br />

and recovered from the other games failure<br />

and played amazing the next game.<br />

By: Yvonne Mizrahi<br />

Hillel Yeshiva<br />

One day, Jessica was walking down the<br />

street when she saw a flyer hanging on<br />

a pole. Jessica went closer to see what it<br />

was for. It was for an art contest. Jessica<br />

got excited because she was great at art.<br />

She took the flyer home and showed it to<br />

her mom. Her mom said, “That sounds<br />

fun. We have lots of art supplies in the<br />

garage.” So, Jessica worked very hard day<br />

and night. Finally, the day of the contest<br />

was here. The judges came to look at all<br />

the projects while the contestants waited<br />

aside to present their projects. When it<br />

was Jessica’s turn, she did a nice presentation,<br />

but she heard people mumbling bad<br />

comments. She was discouraged. She decided<br />

to go home and practice her techniques<br />

and take more art lessons.<br />

By: Terri Elmann<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

In school, I wrote a story. I gave it to some<br />

people to read and they loved it. I read it<br />

and decided it needed a little fixing. I fixed<br />

it up a little but now my story didn’t make<br />

any sense. I ended up writing an entirely<br />

new story but it was also very short and<br />

bad. I started to give up. I wanted to write<br />

stories like Harry Potter but it was no use.<br />

I wasn’t good enough. I took Harry Potter<br />

and read it. I decided I shouldn’t give up.<br />

I could write an interesting story, the best<br />

that I can. I started to write another story<br />

but, by page 14, I decided it needed more<br />

details. I started again, this time from<br />

when the character was being born. I am<br />

currently on page 7 and hope to write up<br />

to 200 pages.<br />

TORAH CONTEST WINNERS<br />

S. Ohayon R. Mezrahi M. Simon M. Davidoff<br />

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Eshet Chayil<br />

Stanley Chera in honor of his wife Cookie<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Shawna<br />

By Edward E. Azar<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Stephanie<br />

By Joey Gabbay<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Paula<br />

By Jack Benzaken<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Chanie<br />

By Aboud Hamra<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Lisa<br />

By Ezra Cattan<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Vicky<br />

By Edmond Sardar<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Lisa<br />

By Arthur Djmal<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Adele<br />

By Abe Sorcher<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Rachelle<br />

By Joey Esses<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Rachel<br />

By Alan Srour


Eshet Chayil<br />

Jeff Sutton in honor of his wife Rachel<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Fatima<br />

by Jack Abady<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Esther<br />

by Harry Mizrahi<br />

In honor of our daughter<br />

Ronette Mansour<br />

by Mr. & Mrs. Albert Chattah<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Brooke<br />

by Lenny Salama<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Leah<br />

by Ralph Dichy<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Shella<br />

by Jack Saideh<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Lori<br />

by Harold Dweck<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Joyce<br />

by Morris Srour<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Lauren<br />

by Freddy Hamra<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Elyse<br />

by Abie Tebele


MAgen David Yeshivah<br />

The following authors made it to the magazine and website<br />

Alfaks, Nelly<br />

Alfaks, Sari<br />

Antebi, Evelyn<br />

Cohen, Cookie<br />

Cohen, Violet<br />

Elias, Vivian<br />

Fteha, Victor<br />

Gindi, Vivian<br />

Greenstein, Shelly<br />

Haber, Frieda<br />

Hadef, Claudine<br />

Haser, Naomi<br />

Heskiel, Amanda<br />

Kassin, Joyce<br />

Nahamias, Abie<br />

Salman, Jacqueline<br />

The following authors made it to the website TorahContest.com<br />

Althkefati, Shlomo<br />

Cohen, Joyce<br />

Franco, Pamela<br />

Hedaya, Jacob<br />

Massre, Shirley<br />

Sasson, Jacqueline<br />

Antar, Leslie<br />

Cohen, Nancy<br />

Franco, Stephanie<br />

Hirsch, Joseph<br />

Mineh, Ruthie<br />

Sasson, Mimi<br />

Ashkenazi, Jack<br />

Cohen, Raquel<br />

Ftiha, Yosef<br />

Hoffstein, Diana<br />

Mizrahi, Vico<br />

Savdie, Lauren<br />

Baum, Melanie<br />

Cohen, Sarah<br />

Gammal, Sarah<br />

Jacobowitz, Paulette<br />

Mizrahi, Yosef<br />

Shalam, Judy<br />

Benmashiah, Rosie<br />

Dayan, Ikey<br />

Gindi, Sari<br />

Jammal, Lisa<br />

Mosseri, Jack<br />

Shalom, Jack<br />

Benzaken, Jennifer<br />

Betesh, Elena<br />

Betesh, Joyce<br />

Betesh, Lois<br />

Bijou, Freddy<br />

Botton, Raquel<br />

Bukai, Tanya<br />

Chabbott, Esther<br />

Dweck, David<br />

Dweck, Esther<br />

Dweck, Jack H.<br />

Dweck, Sam<br />

Erani, Danny<br />

Esquenazi, Morris<br />

Esses, Sandy<br />

Ezon, Joseph<br />

Greenstein, Rebecca<br />

Grego, Talya<br />

Grossman, Charles<br />

Guindi, Jack<br />

Guindi, Morris<br />

Guindi, Paula<br />

Haber, Eric<br />

Haber, Molly<br />

Haber, Shirley<br />

Jemal, Jack<br />

Kameo, Michael<br />

Kassab, Michelle<br />

Katach, Jack<br />

Kbabia, Alyn<br />

Khafif, Nissim<br />

Kishk, Esther<br />

Kishk, Sammy<br />

Nahamias, Eli<br />

Quibrisi, Isaac<br />

Rishty, Jacob<br />

Roubin, Sharon<br />

Safdieh, Lori<br />

Saideh, Fortune<br />

Salamon, Morris<br />

Salem, Mary<br />

Shlomo, Eric<br />

Shuster, Victoria<br />

Sitt, Shelley<br />

Sorcher, Jacob<br />

Sued, Gaby<br />

Tawil, David<br />

Tawil, Henry<br />

Tawil, Lilly<br />

Tawil, Raymond<br />

Chakalo, Norean<br />

Faks, Ezra<br />

Haddad, Charles<br />

Lati, Morris<br />

Salman, Alison<br />

Tawil, Sarah<br />

Chera, Charlie<br />

Faks, Victor<br />

Halwani, Sara<br />

Lati, Rachel<br />

Sardar, Lauren<br />

Tebele, Evelyn<br />

Chera, Claudia<br />

Falack, Susan<br />

Hamui, Joey<br />

Levy, Jenny<br />

Sardar, Rebecca<br />

Zafrani, Sarine<br />

Chkalo, Edgar<br />

Farca, Viviane<br />

Harari, Gabrielle<br />

Maleh, Esther<br />

Sardar, Shirley<br />

Zeitoune, Eddie<br />

Cohen, Adina<br />

Franco, Eileen<br />

Hazan, Marc<br />

Mamiye, Ezra<br />

Sardar, Victor<br />

Zeitoune, Mayer<br />

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Eshet Chayil<br />

Richard Sutton in honor of his wife Alison<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Susan<br />

By Reuben Bibi<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Nicole<br />

By Chaby Orfali<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Frieda<br />

By Jack Farca<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Vivian<br />

By Jack Shamosh<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Grace<br />

By Ralph M. Gindi<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Denise<br />

By Joey Sutton<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Rina<br />

By Eli Grego<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Shannon<br />

By Joseph Wahba<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Ruthy<br />

By Nathan Mann<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Karen<br />

By Mrad Zayat


Honoring Parents<br />

In honor of Shifra & Ezra Hanon by their children<br />

In honor of my parents<br />

Shelly & Albert Antebi<br />

By their son, Philip Antebi<br />

In honor of my parents<br />

Shelly & Jacob Orfali<br />

By their son, Sammy Orfali<br />

In honor of our father<br />

Elie Esses<br />

By his children<br />

In honor of my parents<br />

Isaac & Brenda Saada<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Jane & Steve Gammal<br />

Albert Ezra and the girls<br />

In honor of<br />

Margo Savdie<br />

By her children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Ronnie & Rochelle Kassin<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Joseph & Frieda Sutton<br />

In honor of my parents<br />

Zaki & Esther Metta<br />

By Eli Metta<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Mr. & Mrs. Edward Zonana<br />

& Mrs. Janet Dayan


!<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>kai Yeshivah<br />

!<br />

The following authors made it to the magazine and website<br />

Alhadef, Joey<br />

Bitton, Tehila<br />

Elmann, Terri<br />

Jajati, Esther<br />

Louziah, Sarah<br />

Sutton, Rebecca<br />

Ammar, Danielle<br />

Arking, Raymond<br />

Benun, Linda<br />

Bildirici, Denise<br />

Catton, Eddie<br />

Dweck, Ezra<br />

Dweck, Shoshana<br />

Dweck, Sion<br />

Gammal, Michael<br />

Grinberg, Mollie<br />

Haber, Laurie<br />

Kairey, Batya<br />

Lati, Moshe<br />

Levy, Mimi<br />

Menashe, Chen<br />

Pinhas, Aura<br />

Sultan, Joseph<br />

Tawil, Jacob<br />

Yedid, Jenny<br />

Zabari, Maya<br />

The following authors made it to the website TorahContest.com<br />

Ades, Bobby<br />

Akibeh, Ely<br />

Alchkifati, Orly<br />

Ammar, Raphael<br />

Cohen, Jacob<br />

Cohen, Sam<br />

Cohen, Sarina<br />

Didia, Marilyn<br />

Habert, Esther<br />

Halabi, Maggie<br />

Hamaoui, Cynthia<br />

Hanono, Raquel<br />

Mizrachi, Jacqueline<br />

Mizrahi, Raquel<br />

Mizrahi, Sylvia<br />

Novick, Ronny<br />

Shabot, <strong>Bar</strong>uch<br />

Shaoul, Celia<br />

Shasho, Freda<br />

Shemtob, Flora<br />

Sutton, Steven<br />

Tawil, Jakey<br />

Timsit, Allegra<br />

Timsit, Yola<br />

Benun, Sarah<br />

Dusi, Grace Hidary, Aimee<br />

Richter, Sarah Sitt, Terry<br />

Tuachi, Abigail<br />

Bildirici, Nina<br />

Dweck, Ikey Hidary, David<br />

Saada, Regina Skaba, Rachel Turkieh, Mary M.<br />

Cattan, David<br />

Dweck, Mark Lozieh, Teddy<br />

Safdian, Joyce Srouko, Rafi Turkieh, Sarah<br />

Cattan, Joy<br />

Dweck, Rochelle Mann, Jacquelyn<br />

Chabot, Isaac<br />

Chalme, Robyn<br />

Cohen – Saban, Coral<br />

Eliyahu, Ariel<br />

Escava, Michael<br />

Gammal, Sarah<br />

Matalon, Bobby<br />

Mishan, Joyce<br />

Mishanie, Joey<br />

Sassoon, Alan<br />

Schrem, Jeanne<br />

Setton, Rebecca<br />

Sultan, Marcy<br />

Sultan, Lawrence D.<br />

Sutton, Joy<br />

Weingarten, Katriella<br />

Zabari, Tali<br />

Zemmol, Alex<br />

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Honoring Parents<br />

In honor of Charles & Brenda Saka by their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Bobby & Rosie Antar<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of<br />

Dr. & Mrs. Shaya Khabyeh<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our mother<br />

Nina Bildirici<br />

By her children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Elliot & Sarina Sabbagh<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Nathan & Estelle Botton<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Joyce & Morris Srour<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Freda & Jack M. Dweck<br />

by their Children, Grandchildren<br />

and Great Grandchildren<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

David & Alicia Tobal<br />

By their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Joyce & Ezra Erani<br />

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In honor of our parents<br />

Joseph & Sharon Wahba<br />

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The following authors made it to the magazine and website<br />

Ades, Melanie<br />

Botton, Nathan<br />

Franco, Jacqueline<br />

Menahem, Rochelle<br />

Sasson, Marcelle<br />

Steinberg, Eleanor<br />

Ades, Teera<br />

Araman, Lauren<br />

Assoulin, David<br />

Betesh, Joe<br />

Betesh, Sharon<br />

Braha, Daniel<br />

Chabot, Margo<br />

Chaiklen, Rena<br />

Cohen, Celia<br />

Cojab, Arlette<br />

Dweck, Alan<br />

Gammal, Linda<br />

Gindi, Jill<br />

Hanono, Pearly<br />

Jemal, Helaine<br />

Jemal, Terry<br />

Mizrahi, Yvonne<br />

Nasar, Lizzy<br />

Rishty, Cerise<br />

Rofe, Sophia<br />

Saka, Adele<br />

Sasson, Frieda<br />

Sasson, Linda<br />

Shaab, Irwin<br />

Stein, Andrew<br />

Shamah, Lauren<br />

Sultan, Jonny<br />

Sutton, Esther<br />

Tawil, Ruth<br />

Torkieh, Joe<br />

Zagha, Gayle<br />

Zakaria, Joe<br />

The following authors made it to the website TorahContest.com<br />

Aboyev, Eliot<br />

Chaiklin, Eli<br />

Edery, Danielle<br />

Kanik, Kinneret H.<br />

Panetz, Michael<br />

Setton, Joey<br />

Ades, Joe<br />

Chemtob, Ninette<br />

Elbaum, Karen<br />

Kassin, Ronni<br />

Parker, Jonathan<br />

Shabot, Erica<br />

Ades, Reaine<br />

Chomali, Hersel<br />

Elbaum, Sam<br />

Kassin, Sari<br />

Plaut, Jordan<br />

Shamie, Sarah<br />

Allahabi, Jacob<br />

Cohen, Arleen<br />

Franco, Danielle<br />

Levy, Sarah<br />

Rudy, Layala<br />

Shrem, Jimmie<br />

Antar, Jill<br />

Cohen, Charles<br />

Franco, Gabrielle<br />

Mamiye, Alex<br />

Saada, Ziva<br />

Sitt, Judy<br />

Antebi, Joseph<br />

Cohen, Clarisse<br />

Gadeloff, Solomon<br />

Mamiye, Joe<br />

Saban, Joey<br />

Sultan, Alexis<br />

Ashkenazi, Sari<br />

Cohen, David<br />

Galapo, Joey<br />

Mark, Madison<br />

Sabbagh, Marlenn<br />

Sutton, Cookie<br />

Assoulin, Charlize<br />

Cohen, Marisa<br />

Galapo, Lillie<br />

Massry, Danny M.<br />

Saka, David<br />

Sutton, Irwin<br />

Averbach, Marielle<br />

Cohen, Martin<br />

Gammal, Steven<br />

Matut, Nathan<br />

Saka, Michelle<br />

Sutton, Jack<br />

Betesh, Ikey<br />

Cohen, Samantha<br />

Gindi, Alana<br />

Mavorah, Abe<br />

Saka, Terri<br />

Sutton, Louie<br />

Betesh, Lorraine<br />

Cohen, Victoria<br />

Greenberg, Jack<br />

Maze, Noah<br />

Salama, Claire<br />

Swed, Vicki<br />

Beyda, Rachel<br />

Cytryn, Isaac<br />

Greenberg, Sophie<br />

Meghnagi, Vito<br />

Salem, Cheryl<br />

Tawil, Daniel<br />

Bivas, Jake<br />

Daner, Danny<br />

Greenstein, Claudette<br />

Menaged, Morris<br />

Salem, Claire<br />

Tawil, Sharon<br />

Botton, Estelle<br />

Deneff, Michael<br />

Greenstein, Esther<br />

Menahem, Alexis<br />

Sarway, Ralph<br />

Tebele, Marcy<br />

Bouganim, Eric<br />

Dimitro, Jake<br />

Hakim, Ellen<br />

Menahem, Rochelle<br />

Serouya, Elaine<br />

Tobias, Morris<br />

Braha, Morris<br />

Dweck, Alex<br />

Hakim, Saulie<br />

Mizrachi, Eli<br />

Serouya, Jacob<br />

Torajman, Juliette<br />

Braverman, Rebecca<br />

Dweck, Gabrielle<br />

Harary, Carolyn<br />

Nasar, Juliet<br />

Serouya, Rachel<br />

Tordjman, Renee<br />

Braverman, Shuki<br />

Dweck, Jennifer<br />

Huppert, Dina<br />

Obnona, Estelle<br />

Seruya, Isaac<br />

Torkieh, Joseph<br />

Cain, Bridget<br />

Dweck, Sara<br />

Huppert, Sam<br />

Paley, Joel<br />

Seruya, Mitchell<br />

Wolf, Nikki<br />

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Traits for Success by <strong>Bar</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Boys!<br />

Moshe Benhamu - BE POSITIVE Jacob Shamah: Not Being Jealous<br />

Abie Tawil - TEAMWORK<br />

Jacob Kassin:Overcoming fear<br />

Gabriel Kraiem - Confidence<br />

Morris Esquenazi - Patience<br />

Eli Levy - CONFIDENCE<br />

Joseph Levy - Hard Work<br />

Jake Bivas - CONFIDENCE<br />

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The following authors made it to the magazine and website<br />

Abrahim, Sabrina<br />

Bailey, Allan<br />

Beyda, Elliot<br />

Cohen, Joelle<br />

Djmal, Maurice<br />

Dweck, Bert<br />

Gindi, Ruthie<br />

Hafif, Steven<br />

Isayev, Rachel<br />

Levy, Elliot<br />

Levy, Vicky<br />

Mizrahi, Natalie<br />

Schwartzbard, <strong>Bar</strong>bara<br />

Setton, Sonny<br />

Shalom, Jake<br />

Shtaynberger, Sara<br />

Tawil, Evelyn<br />

Bukobza, Sondra<br />

Dweck, Stephanie<br />

Kassin, Abraham<br />

Nussbaum, Rachel<br />

Sharaby, Fatima<br />

Zenilman, Miriam<br />

The following authors made it to the website TorahContest.com<br />

Abadie, Oriel<br />

Berman, Natalie<br />

Dweck, Marilyn<br />

Harari, Michelle<br />

Mosseri, Suzy<br />

Silverman, Samuel<br />

Abed, Suzy<br />

Betesh, Colette<br />

Dweck, Merle<br />

Hefez, David<br />

Mugrabi, Ness<br />

Srour, Rafi<br />

Aboutboul, Ricky<br />

Betesh, Lily<br />

Dweck, Shirley<br />

Hoffstein, Diana<br />

Oved, Joseph<br />

Sutton, Dylan<br />

Aini, Albert<br />

Beyda, <strong>Bar</strong>bara<br />

Elkharrat, Michael<br />

Horowitz, Sarah<br />

Rahmey, Albert<br />

Sutton, Esther<br />

Amar, Danielle<br />

C., Theela<br />

Esses, Daniel<br />

Illouz, Moshe<br />

Richter, Albert<br />

Tawil, Bobby<br />

Aosi, Adina<br />

Chabot, Samantha<br />

Esses, Sari<br />

Kafif, Korina<br />

Ringer, Laura<br />

Tawil, Elizabeth<br />

Arazi, Isaac<br />

Chahova, Claudine<br />

Farhi, Isaac<br />

Kameo, Joy<br />

Robinson, Claudette<br />

Tawil, Flora<br />

Arazi, Michael<br />

Chehova, Rachel<br />

Franco, Danielle<br />

Kamkhehi, Yafit<br />

Rose, Adeline<br />

Tawil, Leonore<br />

Ashkenazie, Danielle<br />

Cohen, Raizy<br />

Franco, Sylvia<br />

Khalili, Lior<br />

Rosilio, Michael<br />

Tawil, Marielle<br />

Azar, Sylvia<br />

Cohen, Bettie<br />

Frastai, Adolfo<br />

Levy, Mimi<br />

Saad, Estelle<br />

Tawil, Maurice<br />

Azrak, David<br />

Cohen, David<br />

Fromer, Esty<br />

Levy, Moey<br />

Sabbagh, Sabrina<br />

Terzi, Joe<br />

Azrak, Denise<br />

Cohen, Elie P.<br />

Gindi, Joseph<br />

Linfeild, Leah<br />

Saff, Gabe<br />

Terzi, Joyce<br />

B., Sol<br />

Cohen, Esther<br />

Gindi, Victoria<br />

Madeb, Lily<br />

Sahalon, Fortune<br />

Terzi, Naomi<br />

Babaee, Daniella<br />

Cohen, Gabrielle<br />

Goldman, Abraham<br />

Maimon, David<br />

Salzman, Daniel<br />

Tobias, Nancy<br />

Balassiano, Joseph<br />

Cohen, Pam<br />

Greenstien, Alan<br />

Mann, Raquel<br />

Sasson, Solomon<br />

Torgueman, Sarah<br />

Banbahji, Linda<br />

Cohen, Ralph<br />

Grossman, Ariel<br />

Massre, Joey<br />

Setton, Marcelle<br />

Uzan, Jonathan<br />

Benamo, Chen<br />

Cohen, Raymond<br />

Guindi, Linda<br />

Maya, Sammy<br />

Setton, Max<br />

Vizgan, Gabriel<br />

Bendayan, David<br />

Darmani, Caryn<br />

Haber, Yola<br />

Missry, Ralph<br />

Shalam, Esther<br />

Waingort, Emily<br />

Ben-Shlomo, Molly<br />

Dayan, David<br />

Hadar, Phyllis<br />

Mizrahi, Jack<br />

Shalom, Isaac<br />

Zalta, Michelle<br />

Benun, Cynthia<br />

Dayan, Emma<br />

Haddad, Esther<br />

Mograbi, Alan<br />

Shalom, Morris<br />

Zar, Orel<br />

Benzaken, Joey<br />

Dweck, Albert<br />

Hadef, Renee<br />

Mosseri, Jeanette<br />

Shamah, Rena<br />

Zeitoune, Freida<br />

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Focus<br />

Loyalty<br />

Patience<br />

Courage<br />

Honesty<br />

Creativity<br />

Tolerance<br />

Reliability<br />

Flexibility<br />

Teamwork<br />

Confidence<br />

Appreciation<br />

Organization<br />

Self Discipline<br />

Positive Attitude<br />

Eli’s favorite character trait is Flexibility

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