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Age of maturity<br />

The best tools for parents<br />

t o develop their child’s<br />

character as they enter the<br />

A g e o f B a r / B at M i t z va h<br />

Inspirational<br />

stories contest<br />

best stories get<br />

published and<br />

kids receive<br />

great prizes<br />

Anti<br />

bullying<br />

slogans<br />

When you<br />

witness<br />

bullying<br />

kids’ ideas<br />

how to stop<br />

it on the spot<br />

Parenting<br />

Getting your kids<br />

to listen to you<br />

understand you<br />

positive<br />

peer<br />

pressure<br />

40 pages<br />

ad-free<br />

develop kids’<br />

social skills<br />

Pages 24-64<br />

Great<br />

prizes<br />

Y o u r v o t e<br />

d e t e r m i n e s<br />

who gets them


Content:<br />

Accept the Difference<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> created by kids and teens<br />

Kids’ stories on bullying in the lunchroom.......................26<br />

Kids’s stories about bullying at recess...............................32<br />

Kids helping kids who are teased for being different ......42<br />

Kids’ strategies to include weak players in the game.......46<br />

Everyone is invited to a party except for your friend.......50<br />

School project: nobody counts your friend’s opinion ....54<br />

Everyone is invited to his house except for your friend.......56<br />

How to hide your friend’s low mark from others............58<br />

Saving your friend from embarrassment ........................60<br />

The popular kids include the left out kids........................62<br />

Torah view on Bullying/Meaningful <strong>Bar</strong>-Bat <strong>Mitzvah</strong>.......64<br />

Top Essay Contestants List (by shul).............................40<br />

Winners: Boys’ photos...........53 Girls’ Photos ............45<br />

You are not invited!<br />

Good Manners Contest (1st-3rd grades).........................29<br />

Parents vote on next topic/Vote for best slogans.................64<br />

How to enhance your communication skills with your kids?....24<br />

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Getting your kids to listen to you<br />

to understand you<br />

Enhance communication with your child<br />

through stories with moral lessons, written by kids:<br />

Example of Bad Behavior The usual response Better response<br />

Kid eating too much junk food<br />

Eating junk food is unhealthy.<br />

(The kids can’t relate to it)<br />

Eating junk food can affect<br />

your appearance<br />

It’s important to give kids reason they could relate to.<br />

Don’t lecture him<br />

after he misbehaves<br />

Your older child is fighting with a<br />

younger sibling. Your immediate<br />

response: Lecturing why fighting<br />

is wrong. This is not the best way.<br />

Your child is not interested in hearing<br />

that it’s his fault and he will<br />

blame his younger sibling for starting<br />

up with him. The better way is:<br />

let it go for now. Another day, when<br />

he is calm, tell him an inspirational<br />

story with the moral of the story being<br />

the importance of getting along<br />

with a younger sibling.<br />

Sometimes parents<br />

misinterpret their child’s<br />

behavior. A part of good<br />

communication is to<br />

get to his level and<br />

understand his motives.<br />

Try to identify your child’s bad<br />

habit and use these stories to inspire<br />

him to improve. But, don’t expect<br />

immediate results. Repetition of the<br />

positive message in a fun way will<br />

bring the change you expect.<br />

Kids’ positive influence<br />

The stories in the magazine focus<br />

on kids’ writing on practical topics.<br />

The kids give convincing reasons<br />

that show when a character in the<br />

story makes the right choice, he<br />

benefits from it. When he makes<br />

the wrong choice, he loses.<br />

Figure out your child<br />

The stories are a collection of kids’<br />

writings that show a variety of motives<br />

for the same behavior. When<br />

you read the stories with your child,<br />

try to figure out what are the reasons<br />

and motives behind his behavior.<br />

Vote on the stories together with your<br />

child. It’ll give you a better understanding<br />

as to what his interests are.<br />

To see variety of moral stories on<br />

practical topics written by kids<br />

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The stories give parents the tools to teach their children how to make the right decision,<br />

not because they fear you but rather because they realize it’s the right thing to do.<br />

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Focus<br />

Loyalty<br />

Patience<br />

Courage<br />

Fairness<br />

Honesty<br />

Tolerance<br />

Creativity<br />

Flexibility<br />

Reliability<br />

Forgiveness<br />

Cooperation<br />

Organization<br />

Self Discipline<br />

Positive Attitude<br />

E d d i e , R a l p h , D a v i d & J a c k S i t t E d i t i o n


k i d s ’ s to r i e s o n b u l ly i n g<br />

i n t h e l u n c h r o o m<br />

By: Daniel Eis<br />

Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />

Yochanan sat down. He had a delicious<br />

Yochanan exclaimed. “Who said<br />

they are true? Besides, you are so<br />

cruel to him. Give him a chance!”<br />

lunch; a cream cheese sand-<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

wich with tomatoes<br />

and<br />

a juice box.<br />

“Ah,” he said,<br />

“This is really<br />

good!” “Hey,<br />

Yo c h a n a n ! ”<br />

Avi came calling<br />

from the<br />

door, “May<br />

I join you?”<br />

“Sure!” Yochanan<br />

said,<br />

”Thanks a ton,<br />

Yo c h a n a n ! ”<br />

“Why not?” scarred<br />

for life<br />

Avi beamed.<br />

Five minutes<br />

later, the least by: M.d.y. students<br />

popular kid in class came stomping<br />

into the lunch room. His name<br />

By: Joy Laniado<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

was Shlomo. Most kids thought he<br />

I once saw the ‘popular kids’ poking<br />

was weird; there were tons of rumors<br />

about him. “Uh, Yochanan,”<br />

he said softly, “Can I eat with you?”<br />

“Uh,” stuttered Yochanan. “Sure,<br />

why not?” Avi said, giving Yochanan<br />

the ‘weird’ kid during lunch.<br />

You saw the girl’s face as she wanted<br />

to cry like crazy, but wanted to<br />

be strong. I stood up and told the<br />

a stern look. “Th-thanks,”<br />

‘popular kids’, “What’s the point?<br />

Shlomo said politely. After lunch,<br />

Should I come and poke you while<br />

Yochanan asked Avi why he agreed.<br />

you are eating?” The girls said<br />

“For the last time, there is nothing<br />

wrong about him,” Avi said angrily. sorry and actually sat with her during<br />

“But, what about those rumors?”<br />

lunch. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

Bullied kids,<br />

By: Solly Mosseri<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Once, at lunch, there was a kid and<br />

nobody would let him have some<br />

orange juice and they<br />

made fun of him. I<br />

asked my friend to pass<br />

me the orange juice<br />

and my friend gave<br />

the orange juice and<br />

I poured the shy kid<br />

up to the top. I asked<br />

him if he is OK and<br />

got him a seat next to<br />

me. We became friends<br />

and I protect him from<br />

the kids that were<br />

mean to him in school.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

Keyword<br />

Lunchroom<br />

search<br />

By: Shoshana Rosenberg<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Chavie ran down to lunchroom and<br />

saved her best friend, Rina, a seat.<br />

A quiet girl named Simi, not knowing<br />

that the seat was saved for Rina,<br />

sat down. Immediately, Chavie said,<br />

“Can you please get up this seat<br />

has already been saved?” So Tzipporah,<br />

knowing that Simi was embarrassed,<br />

screamed over,” Hey<br />

Simi, I saved you a seat. Come sit<br />

next to me.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Danielle Franco<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

One day, a girl was excluded by everyone.<br />

Someone tripped her and all<br />

her lunch fell on her. Several girls<br />

By: Aida Franco<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

There was a girl named Sally who<br />

was new in school. She was very<br />

shy and didn’t talk much. The popular<br />

By: Jeanie Schrem<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Someone walked up to my friend<br />

and I while we were eating lunch.<br />

She wanted to sit with us and my<br />

teased her,<br />

friend said, “No.” I<br />

bothered her,<br />

got sad and felt bad<br />

and even made<br />

her cry. I told<br />

my friends that<br />

we should let<br />

for the girl. So, I<br />

called her name and<br />

told her to come sit.<br />

My friend was very<br />

her sit with<br />

angry and was telling<br />

us. My friends<br />

me to make the<br />

then started<br />

girl leave. I said,<br />

to laugh. So, I<br />

went and asked<br />

her if she wanted<br />

“No. Why should<br />

I? That’s not nice.<br />

She is a very nice<br />

to sit with<br />

girl. Why can’t<br />

girl made rumors about Sally and liked her.” That day at lunch, she<br />

you just let her<br />

me at a different<br />

table. The<br />

sit?” My friend finally<br />

agreed and<br />

girl’s frown<br />

the girl sat down.<br />

turned into<br />

The next day, my<br />

a big smile.<br />

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friend said, “Tell<br />

When I sat<br />

her to sit with us today. I really<br />

with her, she told me how she felt.<br />

I felt really bad for her. Then, when<br />

told everyone not to be her friend. sat with us and my friend told her<br />

my friends saw me sitting with her<br />

One of her friends said that what to come over later. Now, we are all<br />

and not them, they all got up and<br />

she was doing wasn’t really nice. best friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

came to sit with us. A few days<br />

By: Miriam Milstein<br />

Another friend agreed with her and<br />

later, we all realized that this girl<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

soon the popular girl began to feel<br />

was just like us. So, we all became<br />

By lunch everyone was talking.<br />

like she made a mistake. The popular<br />

friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

One girl was left out. I saw her<br />

Keyword search<br />

girl asked Sally if she wanted to and changed our conversation to<br />

have lunch with her. In lunch, they include her in it. She looked so<br />

Lunchroom<br />

really bonded and now they are best happy. I was glad that I was able<br />

friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 to help her. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Buttons are like<br />

bullets.<br />

After you press<br />

‘send’ there is<br />

no way back


L u n c h<br />

time. I<br />

hate lunch!<br />

T h a t ’ s<br />

when all<br />

the groups<br />

of friends<br />

sit together<br />

By: Esther Levy and exclude<br />

other<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

girls. I always just sit in the corner of<br />

one table either studying for a subject<br />

or reading. That’s how I got so smart.<br />

While everyone is laughing, talking,<br />

and sharing stories, I am the girl that<br />

just reads during lunch. The girl that<br />

no one bothers-until yesterday. Tiffany,<br />

Ashley and some other girls<br />

kicked me off their table calling me<br />

a teacher’s pet, brat, smarty pants.<br />

That really hurt my feelings. And<br />

the worst thing is no one defended<br />

me. The next day, I was looking for<br />

someone to sit with when Amanda<br />

and Cindy came up to me and told<br />

me that what Ashley said was mean<br />

and asked me if I wanted to go with<br />

them to the mall after school. It was<br />

so much fun. Now, I have someone<br />

to tell my secrets to, and hang out<br />

with. Here is a big lie that everyone<br />

says, “Sticks and stones will break<br />

my bones but names will never hurt<br />

me.” Here is the truth. If you see<br />

someone being bullied, stand up<br />

for them. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

Once, there<br />

was a girl<br />

that had a<br />

very hard<br />

time finding<br />

friends<br />

in school<br />

b e c a u s e<br />

Danielle Amar<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

she was<br />

new to the school. At lunch time, she<br />

was sitting alone at the table. I was<br />

sitting with my friends. So, I took all<br />

my stuff and sat next to her and we<br />

became friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Odaya Shapiro<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

At lunch, there was a group of girls<br />

sitting together who are friends.<br />

They let a girl that’s also their friend<br />

join them. She brought a home lunch.<br />

It was a cream cheese sandwich. Everyone<br />

else said, “Eww, you brought<br />

cream cheese?!” That girl got so red<br />

in the face. I said, “So what, I also<br />

brought cream cheese. Maybe she<br />

didn’t have anything else to put in<br />

her sandwich.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

A new girl<br />

came to<br />

our school.<br />

She got<br />

bullied. I<br />

said, “It’s<br />

not nice.<br />

W o u l d<br />

you like<br />

By: Esther Beyda<br />

Magen David Yeshivah it if I did<br />

that to you?” The new girl Miriam<br />

said, “Thanks for that.” She was sitting<br />

all alone in lunch. I said, “Do<br />

you want to sit with us?” She said,<br />

“Yeah.” My friends said, “What are<br />

you doing?” I said, “There is this<br />

girl Miriam and she is very nice and<br />

I want us to be friends with her.”<br />

She sat at our table. All of us are<br />

friends now! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Sheila Mishan<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

One day, Gayle was sitting alone<br />

at the lunch table. The popular<br />

girls walked by her and were about<br />

to spread a rumor that she has no<br />

friends. Then my friends and I ran<br />

up to her and started giggling with<br />

her and talking with her. I was so<br />

happy that we proved the popular<br />

people wrong and we made a<br />

new friend. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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cyber bullying<br />

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by: M.d.y. students<br />

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Cyber<br />

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is the<br />

worst<br />

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- Yo u c a n c h o o s e m o r e t h a n o n e - T h e r e w i l l b e 2 w i n n e r s f r o m e a c h c l a s s .<br />

log on TorahValues.com<br />

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kids’ stories about<br />

b u l ly i n g at r e c e s s<br />

By: Jacqueline Zaccai<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Once, there was a girl named Abigail.<br />

She was new to our school<br />

and other girls in our grade thought<br />

of her as a new<br />

target. When I<br />

heard this, I was<br />

upset. Because<br />

she was new, she<br />

hardly knew her<br />

way around the<br />

school. It started<br />

out as bumping<br />

into her in<br />

the halls and<br />

ignoring her at<br />

recess to taunting<br />

her and writing<br />

mean things<br />

about her and<br />

‘accidentally’<br />

leaving them<br />

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on her desk. I<br />

thought this was horrible, mean and<br />

disgusting. One day, I walked into<br />

the bathroom in between classes<br />

and heard low sobbing. I knocked<br />

on the stall door and said, “Abigail,<br />

that you?” She stopped crying,<br />

took a few steps to the door, and<br />

opened it slightly. Her face was red.<br />

Her eyes were puffy. She stared at<br />

me for a second then fell onto my<br />

shoulders crying. I felt puzzled; I<br />

didn’t know what to do. “It’s not<br />

fair how they treat people around<br />

here,” she said. “I was once in the<br />

same position you were, it was horrible,”<br />

I noted. Eventually, the girls<br />

Bullying<br />

isn’t cool,<br />

it’s cruel<br />

By: Hadassah Bennett<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

I watched as Tzivi entered the room.<br />

She saw Chevy laughing with Yael<br />

and Tehila. I was forcing myself to<br />

laugh even though<br />

the joke wasn’t funny.<br />

Tzivi turned and<br />

walked out. It was sad<br />

to watch, but I knew<br />

Tzivi was not the fun<br />

type. She was quiet<br />

and plain. There is<br />

nothing special about<br />

her. But, a small part<br />

of me felt bad for her.<br />

Every time she tried<br />

to be part of the class,<br />

they turned her away.<br />

She had no friends.<br />

Chevy said, “Well,<br />

as I was saying, next<br />

time Tzivi walks in<br />

lets make her trip.<br />

I read this great book where a girl<br />

tripped face first into a chocolate<br />

pie. It was hilarious. Let’s do that to<br />

Tzivi!” she exclaimed. Yael and Tehila<br />

loved it, of course. They started<br />

giggling away. I, on the other hand,<br />

knew right form wrong. “Chevy,” I<br />

started, “This is wrong. It’s not nice<br />

to. Tzivi is a person.” “You know<br />

Tova, you’re right,” Chevy said.<br />

And they became friends with Tzivi.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

stopped teasing Abigail once they<br />

saw she had someone at her side-she<br />

wasn’t alone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Yosef Jasbiel<br />

Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />

One time, Shmuli came into the classroom<br />

early during recess with David.<br />

They saw that someone’s knapsack<br />

was poured out on the floor. To save<br />

him embarrassment, they poured out<br />

their knapsacks. So, now he won’t<br />

feel bad. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Recess<br />

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By: Sarah Chami<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

There was a new girl in our school.<br />

By: Sara Gindi<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

I know a girl, her name is Fran-<br />

She was not so smart. The teacher<br />

was asking questions about Navi.<br />

cine and she is a quiet girl with no<br />

friends. She always tries to socialize.<br />

That girl tried answering<br />

one of the<br />

questions but she<br />

got the wrong answer.<br />

Everyone was<br />

laughing so hard.<br />

The girl got so embarrassed<br />

that her<br />

face got red. After<br />

class was finished, I<br />

went to those girls<br />

and said, “You know,<br />

you’re making it like<br />

you never got an answer<br />

wrong.” And<br />

they said, “Yes we<br />

did. But, not a hilarious<br />

answer like by: M.d.y. students<br />

that.” I said, “But at least she tried<br />

Every time she comes near<br />

to answer.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 someone, they say, “She is fat,” and<br />

By: Stephanie Franco they embarrass her. When it’s lunch,<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush they don’t let her sit near them. But,<br />

If you buy cookies for the class<br />

one girl came and said, “Enough<br />

and there is one girl who is mean<br />

is enough.” She said all the good<br />

to you, you don’t want to give her<br />

things about Francine. Now, she<br />

a cookie. You see everyone is looking<br />

is so popular but she knows not to<br />

at her not having a cookie. So,<br />

you go over to her and say, “The<br />

cookie is good, no one wants to<br />

miss out.” And you give her a cookie<br />

embarrass anyone and she includes<br />

anyone she sees alone. It is not<br />

good to embarrass people because<br />

you are required to find the good<br />

as well. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 in people. Vote: 1 2 3 4<br />

5<br />

Be nice to<br />

nerds because<br />

one day you may<br />

work for one<br />

By: Virginia Dweck<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

A girl in our class gets made fun of<br />

all the time, but she never realizes it.<br />

Even though she doesn’t realize or<br />

do anything about<br />

it, a few of my<br />

friends and I stand<br />

up for her and include<br />

her in what<br />

we do even if others<br />

don’t. In this<br />

situation, I would<br />

say, “Guys you<br />

are being mean.<br />

What did she do<br />

to you?” But, I’m<br />

pretty sure they<br />

wouldn’t listen.<br />

But, that’s okay<br />

because we try and<br />

she feels good that<br />

we stand up for her<br />

and include her. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Danielle Sutton<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

There is a girl that is always left out.<br />

Her name is Jane. One day, this popular<br />

girl named Raquel said to Jane,<br />

“Your outfit is so ugly!” Jane was crying.<br />

A different girl, Rochelle, went<br />

over to Raquel and said, “Your outfit<br />

is ugly.” She did it so Jane would<br />

feel better. Raquel felt bad for what<br />

she said and said, “Sorry” to Jane.<br />

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By: Francine Manopla<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

By: Madeline Dana<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Once there was a girl who everyone<br />

made fun of because she was<br />

so perfect. She loves school and<br />

she doesn’t care about anything but<br />

One day in school, everyone in my<br />

class had these cool pens. But, one<br />

of the girls in my class was very quiet<br />

and humble and no one included<br />

getting a good<br />

grade. One day,<br />

a girl made a<br />

sleepover and<br />

everyone was<br />

talking about it<br />

and everyone<br />

said, “You’re<br />

not invited, you<br />

are a big looser.<br />

Why would you<br />

be invited?”<br />

I saw her feel<br />

very bad and<br />

she was always<br />

so embarrassed<br />

to tell her mom.<br />

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After school, she<br />

her. She didn’t have the cool pen.<br />

would cry every night. So, one night<br />

She was a little poor and she didn’t<br />

I called her and said, “Do you want to<br />

want anyone to know that she was<br />

have our own sleep over?” She said,<br />

“Yes.” So, we made sleep overs.<br />

Then everyone made fun of me because<br />

I stayed with her, but I didn’t<br />

care. We were good friends and we<br />

poor. She didn’t have the money for<br />

the pen. So she wouldn’t get laughed<br />

at by the popular girl, I gave her my<br />

pen and I saw a smile on her face<br />

ignored everyone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 brighten up. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

You don’t have<br />

to be mean to<br />

be popular<br />

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By: Tehila Dayani<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

One day at school, my friends and<br />

I were playing at recess and there<br />

was this new kid who was very shy<br />

and she didn’t really<br />

have any friends. I<br />

saw her sitting there<br />

lonely all by herself.<br />

So, I quit the game,<br />

went up to her and we<br />

started talking. But,<br />

she wasn’t that type of<br />

person who would like<br />

to play ball or tag…<br />

But, I didn’t mind.<br />

As long as she was<br />

happy, I was happy.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Renee Hadef<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Regine dresses very pretty. Unfortunately,<br />

Leah, a popular girl<br />

was jealous and said Regine wears<br />

the ugliest clothes. I saw Regine’s<br />

face, how so sad she was holding<br />

in her cry. I walked up to Leah and<br />

said, “Stop picking on her.” She<br />

said it was none of my business.<br />

Than she realized what she had<br />

done. She apologized and never did<br />

it again. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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One day<br />

e v e r y o n e<br />

was playing<br />

and<br />

M i c h e l l e<br />

c a m e<br />

and said,<br />

“Can I<br />

By: Raquel Erdos play?” We<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush all said,<br />

“Yes,” except one girl said, “No.”<br />

She made her go away and Michelle<br />

started crying. We all felt very bad.<br />

The girl that said, “No”, her name<br />

is Grace, the girl who said “No”<br />

said, “we are going to spill water<br />

on the floor and let her play, when<br />

she comes she will fall and everyone<br />

will start laughing.” Everyone<br />

who was playing the game went to<br />

Michelle and said to her, “Grace<br />

has a plan to let you play, but she is<br />

going to put water on the floor, so<br />

don’t go.” The next day Grace said,<br />

“Hey Michelle, you want to play<br />

with us?” Michelle forgot and said<br />

yes. We were playing and, all of the<br />

sudden, Michelle fell and everyone<br />

stated to laugh. We all felt bad so<br />

I went and ‘fell’ and everyone was<br />

‘falling’ and she didn’t feel bad anymore.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

My friend,<br />

A l l y s o n ,<br />

was a really<br />

great<br />

friend. She<br />

never talked<br />

much.<br />

But she<br />

Nancy Toussie didn’t talk<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

b e c a u s e<br />

everyone was jealous that she was<br />

voted smartest in the grade. She was<br />

short, and every day at recess, a few<br />

people bullied her. One day, I saw<br />

my best friend Allyson sitting on the<br />

side crying with people next to her<br />

making fun of her. That was the day<br />

we were assigned a poster to make<br />

an ‘anti-bullying’ poster. My poster<br />

said, “Words can hurt just as much<br />

as punches.” And, there were two<br />

boxing gloves hanging. I gave in my<br />

project and I got an A+. I was really<br />

happy. Next day at recess, I took my<br />

poster and marched around with it<br />

getting a lot of people to hold their<br />

signs and march as well. The bullies<br />

went away from Allyson because<br />

everyone scared them. Allyson was<br />

happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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for recess<br />

for the 6th<br />

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three prettiest<br />

girls<br />

were playing<br />

jump<br />

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rope. Their<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

names were Emily, Jane, and Molly.<br />

They never let anyone play with<br />

them. One of Molly’s friends was<br />

Susan. Susan was a shy girl who<br />

didn’t have many friends. Susan<br />

really loved to play jump rope. So,<br />

she asked Emily, Jane, and Molly<br />

if she could play. They had a small<br />

conversation in private to discuss<br />

whether they are going to let Susan<br />

play. Molly said, “I think we should<br />

let her play.” Emily replied, “But<br />

if we let her play, we would have<br />

to let every girl who asks to play<br />

with us.” Jane said, “So it’s settled,<br />

we won’t let her play.” Molly said,<br />

“Or, we can just let everyone play!”<br />

In the end, they had a big great<br />

game of jump rope and everyone<br />

was happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Rina Derrancesco<br />

By: Becky Johnson<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

My friend and I were once playing<br />

One day, my friends and I were<br />

at school when a girl invited us<br />

to play tag. We both said, “Sure.”<br />

The girl looked at my friend and<br />

playing a game when someone<br />

came over and asked if they could<br />

play. My friends started laughing<br />

said, “Not you.”<br />

I said, “If she<br />

doesn’t go, then<br />

I don’t.” My<br />

friend touched<br />

my shoulder and<br />

said, “You can<br />

go I’ll be fine.”<br />

At first, I stood<br />

back and then<br />

I went. A lot of<br />

people don’t<br />

like my friend. I<br />

feel so bad when<br />

people don’t include<br />

her. After<br />

and said, “No, we have enough<br />

10 minutes, I<br />

decided I felt so<br />

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bad I couldn’t play. So, I stopped<br />

and I said, “Why don’t we invite<br />

her to join us?” I pointed at my<br />

friend. At first, the girl who invited<br />

me said, “No.” But, then everyone<br />

started saying, “Yes.” So, we invited<br />

people, so you could walk away<br />

now.” The girl started blushing and<br />

walked away sadly. I think I saw a<br />

tear running down her face. I told<br />

my friends how mean they were<br />

her over and had a fun time.<br />

and told them I was going to play<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

with her. We played with each other<br />

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and became friends. Going to play<br />

with her was the best decision I<br />

ever made. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Fanya Dorin<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

On Shushan Purim, Megan brought<br />

the entire class Mishloach Manot.<br />

They were healthy and had fruits<br />

and vegetables. Everyone was very<br />

disappointed. Megan<br />

started apologizing<br />

and I could tell that<br />

she was very embarrassed.<br />

So, I took out<br />

the raisin box from the<br />

Mishloach Manot and<br />

said, ‘Oh my gosh! I<br />

love raisins, especially<br />

this kind.” Everyone<br />

started to eat the raisins<br />

and Megan was so<br />

happy her face lit up.<br />

To embarrass someone<br />

is equivalent to stabbing<br />

them to death. The<br />

reason for that is when<br />

someone is hurt emotionally,<br />

their heart breaks. That’s<br />

why I don’t embarrass my friends.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Chayala Goldbaum<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

There was a whole group of girls<br />

talking by recess. One girl was<br />

standing on the side all alone because<br />

she is very shy. I left the<br />

whole group of popular girls and<br />

went to talk to her. Her face lit up<br />

when I went over to her. I knew I had<br />

made her day. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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When I<br />

was in<br />

3rd grade,<br />

my friend<br />

was being<br />

very rude<br />

and mean<br />

By: Frieda Zeitoune<br />

to someone.<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

She<br />

got the whole class to hate her. She<br />

was trying to get me to join her and<br />

hate her, too! I tried to tell as many<br />

people as possible not to make fun<br />

of her because she is my best friend<br />

and she is a great person. Only three<br />

people wanted to be friends with<br />

her. The mean girl came to me and<br />

said, “Why are you hanging out<br />

with the loser?” I said, “Because she<br />

is nice, fun, smart, and trustworthy<br />

and the best friend anybody can ever<br />

have.” Ever since then, everybody<br />

was friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

The new<br />

girl sat in<br />

the corner.<br />

I wondered<br />

why<br />

she never<br />

spoke to<br />

a n y o n e .<br />

By: Florence Deutsch One of<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush my friends<br />

whispered to me, “That girl is so<br />

weird, why is it that she never<br />

talks?” I whispered back, “I don’t<br />

know but I am going to talk to her.”<br />

I walked over to her and said, “Hi,<br />

what’s your name?” She didn’t answer.<br />

I asked her for the rest of the<br />

week, “Hi, what’s your name?” Still<br />

no answer. Finally, my friends also<br />

came and asked her to play with<br />

us. She asked, “Is this a joke?” We<br />

all replied back, “No. Why?” She<br />

said, “Because in my old school<br />

everyone would make fun of me<br />

because I was shy and I wore different<br />

clothes. So do you still want<br />

to play with us?” We all replied,<br />

“Yes.” We got to know her and now<br />

we are best friends. I still wonder<br />

why we ever thought she was<br />

different! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Rachel Gammal<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Once there was a girl. She came from<br />

a different school. She was smart and<br />

shy. The whole class made fun of her<br />

and she started to cry. So, I told everyone<br />

not to make fun of her. I went<br />

over to her and said, “Don’t worry.”<br />

She started to talk and it made her<br />

happy to know that someone was by<br />

her side. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

There is a<br />

new girl<br />

in school.<br />

She is from<br />

a different<br />

c o u n t r y<br />

so she has<br />

an accent<br />

By: Sara Shtaynberger and weird<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush c l o t h i n g .<br />

This one girl said that she wants to<br />

make fun of her in recess. A different<br />

girl heard that and decided to<br />

defend the new girl. In recess, she<br />

saw the mean girl walk up to that<br />

girl with all of her friends so that<br />

girl ran up to the teacher and told<br />

her and the mean girl got detention.<br />

After that day, they were best<br />

friends for life and went everywhere<br />

together. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Janelle Missry<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

There once was a girl named Julie.<br />

She was new to a school. All she<br />

wanted to do was to fit in and make<br />

friends. On her first day in school,<br />

she felt a little bit anxious but she<br />

felt very….nervous. She said “Hi”<br />

to people she saw in her class. All<br />

the girls reacted in such a mean<br />

way. They turned around and they<br />

giggled and made her cry. There<br />

was one girl who thought it was<br />

so mean and disgusting. So, she<br />

stopped them and they all became<br />

good friends and learned from their<br />

mistake. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Stephanie Dweck<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

A group of girls are making fun of<br />

one girl about how she looked even<br />

though it was just her bad hair day.<br />

I looked back and saw this happening.<br />

I told people that I want to mess<br />

up our hair and make ourselves look<br />

like a mess. We went to the group<br />

that was making fun of that girl and<br />

asked if they liked how we looked.<br />

The girl being made fun of had a big<br />

smile because we all looked crazy<br />

and the mean group didn’t have<br />

enough insults to insult all of us and<br />

had to give up. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Ruthie Gindi<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

On Friday, everyone was making<br />

plans after school. Joy invited<br />

everyone except for one girl. This<br />

girl, Danielle, was watching her<br />

invite them and<br />

By: Rena Cohen<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

In my old class, I used to fit in with<br />

the girls. But, when I came to this<br />

new class, I only had one friend<br />

By: Zahava Zutler<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

There is a girl sitting on the side. She<br />

is left out, lonely. She looks sadly at<br />

the in crowd laughing, telling jokes,<br />

having fun. She wishes she could<br />

be part of that group.<br />

she wished she<br />

She looks down at the<br />

was invited. She<br />

floor so they won’t see<br />

pretended that<br />

the tears slowly dropping<br />

she didn’t notice<br />

down her face.<br />

them and<br />

And then she hears a<br />

put her books in<br />

voice saying, “Wanna<br />

play?” She looked up<br />

her locker. One<br />

with a hopeful look<br />

of the girls who<br />

on her face. A girl was<br />

was invited saw<br />

looking at HER, asking<br />

HER. She wipes<br />

the girl who was<br />

about to cry. She<br />

her tears on her sleeve,<br />

told Joy, who<br />

gets up happily, and<br />

was inviting everyone,<br />

joins the game. That<br />

that she<br />

girl just made her day.<br />

saw that Danielle<br />

felt bad and<br />

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who was on my block. But she was<br />

By: Sarah Levy<br />

asked if she could invite her. She<br />

with a clique already, which was the<br />

Yeshiva of Flatbush<br />

told her secretly so she wouldn’t<br />

When school starts on Fridays, Shabbat<br />

music fills the halls. The girls in<br />

popular clique. So, of course, I was<br />

embarrass her. Joy said, “No. I<br />

left out until a nice girl came over<br />

don’t like her, she is weird.” So, the<br />

the grade always come together to<br />

to me and said, “Do you want to<br />

girl who told Joy said, “Ok. So may<br />

sing one song. This Friday, when the<br />

play tag with me?” With excitement<br />

be next week we’ll make plans.”<br />

song was almost over, Ava saw Chana<br />

shyly approaching. She didn’t<br />

in me, I got up and went to play.<br />

She went over to Marilyn and invited<br />

her over. They ended up having<br />

Now, when I see someone alone know where to break into the circle<br />

a very fun time. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 and have no friends, I get up and so Ava moved over. Chana smiled<br />

and walked over. Chana seemed so<br />

ask them, “Do you want to play?”<br />

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By: Adele Zaga<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

A horrible rumor was spreading<br />

from person to person about Leslie.<br />

She was crying so badly. Once I saw<br />

her tears fall down her red cheeks,<br />

There was once a time when I<br />

was in 6th grade and my friends<br />

started picking on 5th graders. I<br />

found out and told them to stop<br />

I decided to fix this.<br />

I couldn’t stand seeing<br />

a person cry from<br />

a rumor about her that<br />

wasn’t even true. Once<br />

the rumor got to me, I<br />

changed it up a little to<br />

what really happened.<br />

Once everyone heard<br />

it, they understood<br />

the misunderstanding<br />

and apologized. I<br />

hope you never know<br />

what it’s like to be in<br />

this situation. This horrible<br />

thing should never<br />

happen in the world.<br />

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By: Marcelle Shasho<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

One day, we were all in recess. A<br />

few of my friends and I were playing<br />

a game. One girl asked to play<br />

and they didn’t want her to play.<br />

They said there were too many<br />

people. So, I said, “I played yesterday<br />

already. She can play instead<br />

of me.” They said, “Fine,<br />

she can also play.” They enjoyed<br />

playing with her and they became<br />

close friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

Don’t be<br />

mean behind<br />

the screen<br />

because they are also people and<br />

we hated it when the former 6th<br />

graders did it to us. They hesitated<br />

to stop but then they realized<br />

what they were doing and felt<br />

bad and stopped. This shows that<br />

when you are doing something<br />

bad, think about how you felt or<br />

would feel if it ever happened<br />

to you. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Shira Falcheri<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Shani, Devori, Tamar and I were all<br />

standing around. Shani said, “Oh my<br />

gosh, Rina’s boots are so ugly.” Rina<br />

was standing 5 feet away. I quickly<br />

added, “You<br />

are jealous.<br />

Her boots are<br />

so cute.” Shani<br />

immediately<br />

saw what I was<br />

doing and said,<br />

“Of course. I<br />

was being sarcastic.”<br />

She<br />

walked over to<br />

Rina and asked<br />

her where she<br />

got her boots<br />

from. She<br />

made a whole<br />

fuss about<br />

them.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Odette Sardar<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

If I would see someone crying<br />

or getting picked on or lonely, I<br />

would go to her and talk to her.<br />

Sarah is a new girl and no one likes<br />

her. I would tell her, “Don’t worry,<br />

don’t cry. It doesn’t matter what<br />

people think. It only matters what<br />

you think. So, don’t cry; ignore<br />

them. Be yourself.” She would<br />

feel better. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Kids helping kids who are<br />

teased for being different<br />

By: Yisrael Rosenfeld<br />

Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />

There was once a boy named Yehuda.<br />

Let’s just say he was not the<br />

most popular kid in the class. He was<br />

always being<br />

made fun of.<br />

Kids were calling<br />

him names<br />

like, “monkey”,<br />

“munch<br />

milk”. You<br />

might think it’s<br />

funny but it really<br />

hurt him.<br />

Then, one day,<br />

a kid named<br />

Shmuel called<br />

over Yitzi, the<br />

most popular<br />

kid who made<br />

fun of Yehuda<br />

the most.<br />

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Shmuel said,<br />

“I think you are hurting Yehuda’s<br />

feelings.” “I know,” replied Yitzi.<br />

“Then why do you do it?” said Shmuel.<br />

“Because it’s fun,” said Yitzi.<br />

“Well, if you were in Yehuda’s place<br />

would you also find it funny? You<br />

would feel bad.” “I guess so. I will<br />

stop,” said Yitzi. “Thank you,” said<br />

Shmuel. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Being different<br />

By: Yaakov Mermelstein<br />

Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />

There was once a new boy in my<br />

class. He was short, fat, had an accent.<br />

Nobody in my class likes him.<br />

You can make<br />

people laugh<br />

without hurting<br />

someone<br />

He didn’t understand English. One<br />

time, the Rabbi called on him and<br />

he answered the questions with a<br />

dumb answer. My friend started<br />

laughing and that boy turned red.<br />

Later that day, I went over to the kid<br />

who laughed and asked him, “How<br />

would you have felt if you were that<br />

new kid?” He understood what I<br />

meant and went over to the new kid<br />

and apologized. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Rosie Zonana<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

It was the first day of school and<br />

there was a new girl from England<br />

and she was shy and didn’t know<br />

anyone. Her name was<br />

Linda. There was club<br />

and everyone was making<br />

fun of her because<br />

she had a little problem<br />

when she talks. Linda<br />

also has an accent and<br />

looks different because<br />

she is from England.<br />

I was watching and<br />

she was about to cry.<br />

I couldn’t take it anymore<br />

so I said, “Guys,<br />

it’s really not nice.”<br />

They all laughed at me.<br />

The next day, I invited<br />

her over and then I told<br />

the other girls, “You<br />

know Linda is very nice and I don’t<br />

know how you are not her friend.”<br />

They believed me and we are all best<br />

friends now. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Maurice Dayan<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

If someone wore two different<br />

kinds of socks and people made<br />

fun of him, I would say, “Stop!<br />

Just think if you made that same<br />

mistake?” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Ninette Salama<br />

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There was once a boy named Jim.<br />

He was new to our class. Everyone<br />

made fun of him by the way<br />

he dressed. Jim wore<br />

collars other kids<br />

didn’t. They would<br />

always call him four<br />

eyes because he had<br />

glasses. Another kid,<br />

Larry, used to be bullied<br />

like that. Larry<br />

said to Jim, “I used<br />

to be bullied like that.<br />

But you shouldn’t let<br />

them do that. Stand<br />

up for yourself. Say, I<br />

am not scared. Maybe<br />

I am new and don’t<br />

wear your kind of<br />

clothes. That’s who<br />

I am. Back off.” Jim said, “Thank<br />

you” and went to the bullies and said<br />

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By: Ruthie Mosseri<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

A new kid was in class today. She<br />

seemed different. Everyone was<br />

talking about her and she looked shy<br />

and worried. At lunch time, Rachel<br />

Treat others<br />

the way you<br />

want to be<br />

treated<br />

went over to the new girl and started<br />

talking to her. She had an English<br />

accent and people at the other table<br />

were laughing. Rachel went over to<br />

them because they happened to be<br />

her friends. She stood up for this girl<br />

and told them how they were obnoxious.<br />

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Being different<br />

By: Helen Menashe<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

One day, someone was commenting<br />

how her shirt looked ugly and childish.<br />

She sat quietly like she simply<br />

didn’t care. I saw that she was upset.<br />

So, I got up and<br />

asked the “Bully”<br />

if I could<br />

talk to her quietly.<br />

She agreed<br />

and I told her<br />

she was hurting<br />

this girl’s<br />

feelings. She<br />

honestly didn’t<br />

realize and felt<br />

so bad. She said<br />

she was only<br />

doing it as a<br />

joke; she ran<br />

to my friend,<br />

gave her a hug<br />

and apologized.<br />

That “Bully” never made fun of anyone<br />

ever again. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Meyer Kassin<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

One day, a boy went to school and<br />

he got braces. He looked very ugly<br />

in braces. Everyone laughed at him.<br />

There was a boy who said, “Everyone,<br />

he is the first person to get braces.<br />

I think that is so cool!” Everyone<br />

agreed and no one made fun of him<br />

anymore. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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R e b e c c a<br />

was a<br />

new girl<br />

in school.<br />

Sara was<br />

one of<br />

the mean<br />

girls. Sara<br />

By: Elizabeth Setton wanted to<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush find a way<br />

to embarrass Rebecca. So, Sara and<br />

her clique decided to go over to Rebecca<br />

and tell her tomorrow is Pajama<br />

Day. Rebecca came to school<br />

the next day wearing her teddy pajamas.<br />

Sara saw this and announced<br />

on the loud speaker that Rebecca<br />

was wearing pajamas. Rebecca ran<br />

to the bathroom. Nadine knew this<br />

was very wrong and ran after her to<br />

the bathroom. Nadine and Rebecca<br />

walked out of the bathroom together.<br />

Nadine told Rebecca to ignore everyone.<br />

This made Rebecca feel so<br />

good. Rebecca and Nadine became<br />

best friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Isaac Shalom<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

There was a kid with an accent and<br />

he didn’t know how to speak English<br />

good. When he was supposed<br />

to say ‘was’ he said ‘vas’. Everyone<br />

was laughing and him. I told<br />

everyone, “How you would feel if<br />

you would have got making fun of.<br />

Everyone stopped making fun of<br />

him. He was very happy because of<br />

what I did. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Sarah just<br />

moved in to<br />

the neighb<br />

o r h o o d .<br />

My school<br />

has a certain<br />

clothing<br />

style.<br />

By: Naomi Shapiro E v e r y o n e<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush wears similar<br />

clothes. On Sarah’s first day, I<br />

saw that she didn’t really wear the<br />

clothes that were in fashion in our<br />

school. People were pointing and<br />

laughing at her. I could tell that<br />

she was embarrassed. So, I went<br />

to her and told her about what we<br />

wear. She thanked me so much and<br />

the next day she was accepted by<br />

everyone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Toby Cohen<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Let’s say someone makes fun of<br />

someone because the guy is weird.<br />

There is no point to make fun of<br />

him because no one is perfect. People<br />

could be weird but that doesn’t<br />

mean he wants to be perfect. A lot<br />

of people think they’re perfect but<br />

they are not. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Say<br />

“NO”<br />

to<br />

cliques<br />

There was<br />

a fat girl<br />

named Ren<br />

e e a n d<br />

e v e r y o n e<br />

made fun of<br />

her. So, Susan<br />

wanted<br />

to help<br />

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her lose<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

weight. Susan<br />

would go to the gym with Renee<br />

and, within 3 months, Renee lost a lot<br />

of weight. The two girls became best<br />

friends. No one made fun of Renee<br />

and understood that anyone can lose<br />

weight. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Dina Bracha Bohensky<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

During the Chanukkah Chagiga,<br />

while everyone was dancing, laughing<br />

or singing, Suri was sitting on<br />

the side doing nothing. Nobody<br />

wanted to have anything to do with<br />

her because she talked and looked<br />

weird. Then one girl came over to<br />

her and said, “Come on Suri, join<br />

us. Could you please tell us joke?<br />

I know you are really good at it.<br />

Last time you had me laughing<br />

for hours.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Kids’ strategies to include<br />

weak players in the game<br />

By: Jacob Silvera<br />

By: Mal Franco<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

One day, the whole basketball team If you are playing a football game<br />

decided that they were going to eat and there is a person that is not so<br />

pizza at the pizza place after practice.<br />

good, ask him if he wants to play.<br />

But, there was one kid who was When he is playing, throw him the<br />

a new kid in school<br />

and didn’t know a<br />

lot of people. After<br />

practice, we all<br />

got dressed and we<br />

were walking out<br />

of the gym to go<br />

to the pizza store.<br />

But, this one kid<br />

was sitting there<br />

waiting for someone<br />

to pick him up<br />

from school. He<br />

looked lonely. So<br />

I went over to him<br />

quietly and asked<br />

him if he wanted<br />

to come for pizza.<br />

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He said yes, and he was<br />

ball. Let him try to play and catch<br />

very happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

the ball. Even if he is not so good<br />

By: Teddy Shamma<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

and misses the ball, say: “It’s ok.<br />

It was my fault, it was a bad throw.<br />

Once, I was having a basketball<br />

Even I couldn’t catch it.” Make<br />

game. The kids didn’t want one boy<br />

him feel good and let him play<br />

to play. So, I said, “If he is not playing,<br />

I’m not playing.” Then we found<br />

with you. This will make him feel<br />

a ball and we started shooting for fun.<br />

very happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

We kept on shooting and practicing.<br />

Than he ended up making it on the<br />

basketball team. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Accept someone<br />

for who he is<br />

and not for<br />

who you want<br />

him to be<br />

By: Nessim Azizo<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

I went to play baseball and everyone<br />

knew that Jack is the worst player.<br />

I felt bad because he always gets<br />

picked last. My friend Mike was the<br />

captain. I went up to<br />

him to tell him that<br />

he should pick Jack<br />

first. He didn’t understand<br />

but he listened<br />

to me. Once<br />

we started to play,<br />

Jack kept on striking<br />

out. Mike was<br />

very upset with me.<br />

Later in the game, I<br />

gave Jack some tips<br />

about swinging. After<br />

he listened to me,<br />

Jack got a single and<br />

brought in 2 runs!<br />

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By: Solomon Kamkaji<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

You are playing football and there<br />

are nine kids. They were going to<br />

have a four and four. Your friend<br />

was left out and you felt bad for<br />

him. You make believe you are hurt<br />

and say you can’t play. Then, you<br />

offer to put your friend that was left<br />

out in the game. So, now you made<br />

your friend feel happy and you feel<br />

even better. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Teddy Sardar<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

One day when I was at Sunday’s program,<br />

there was a person who isn’t<br />

so good at basketball. So, almost every<br />

time I got the ball, I passed the<br />

ball to him. Even<br />

though he missed I<br />

said, “Good shot.”<br />

And I kept on passing<br />

to him until<br />

he scored. When<br />

we finished the<br />

game, I helped him<br />

practice his shot.<br />

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By: Ariel Davidov<br />

Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />

There was a new<br />

kid in class named<br />

Dovid. He was a<br />

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very shy kid and when we played<br />

baseball he couldn’t play because it<br />

had to be 4 on 4. So, I quit playing<br />

and he played instead of me. Someone<br />

from the 8th grade started picking<br />

on him. I went over to him and<br />

said, “What’s your problem? Pick<br />

on someone your own age.” He left<br />

Dovid alone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Albert Sitt<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

There was a shy kid named David.<br />

David was on our team in basketball.<br />

The score was 57-55, the other<br />

team was winning. There were 5<br />

A bully’s<br />

oxygen is his<br />

audience<br />

seconds left. I had the ball, I passed<br />

it to David, and he shot it and<br />

missed. Everyone was screaming at<br />

him and I said, “Don’t worry. We’ll<br />

win the next time. It’s just a game.”<br />

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By: Teddy Laniado<br />

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I was playing basketball and there<br />

were a lot of people and one person<br />

was not allowed to play. I said, “If<br />

he doesn’t play, I won’t play either.”<br />

They really wanted<br />

me to play so they<br />

let both of us play.<br />

I knew from the beginning<br />

that he was<br />

good but they didn’t<br />

know it. In the middle<br />

of the game,<br />

nobody was passing<br />

to him so I kept<br />

on passing to him.<br />

Now they pick him<br />

first for the team.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Victor Orfali<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Let’s say there is<br />

a boy who isn’t<br />

so good in baseball and the team<br />

is in the bottom of the ninth inning<br />

and there are two outs and<br />

2 strikes and right after the next<br />

pitch he striked out. The whole<br />

team was going to hurt him but<br />

one kid said, “Why are you doing<br />

that? Accidents happen all the time.<br />

Don’t act like you never made a<br />

mistake.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Victoria Gindi<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

When my friends and I were playing<br />

dodge ball, we had captains to<br />

choose who would be on which<br />

team. Sophia was picked last and<br />

you could see on her face she was<br />

a little sad, but not surprised. When<br />

she got the ball, she would always<br />

give it to someone else to throw. I<br />

felt bad for her<br />

and decided to<br />

do something<br />

about it. I threw<br />

the ball towards<br />

her making<br />

sure I threw it<br />

lightly. I wanted<br />

her to catch it<br />

and get me out.<br />

She caught it<br />

and everyone<br />

was cheering<br />

because I am a<br />

good player. After<br />

that, she felt<br />

great and had<br />

the confidence<br />

to throw the ball and she turned out<br />

to be great! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Abie Ishay<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

When my friend was playing football<br />

with me, people didn’t give him<br />

passes. I asked my friend if I could<br />

quarterback and he let me. So, I<br />

passed to him a lot. He got a lot of<br />

touchdowns from these passes and<br />

he felt good. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Aaron Ishay<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

I once saw a person that has a hard<br />

time playing football. One day, I<br />

taught him how to catch a ball. Everyone<br />

thinks it takes so long but<br />

it really doesn’t. I also taught him<br />

how to throw a ball. Even though he<br />

can’t throw a ball so far, I let him<br />

It takes a<br />

second to say<br />

a word, but<br />

the impact<br />

lasts forever<br />

be the quarterback. He gave a few<br />

short passes and we ended up winning<br />

that game. That was impressive<br />

because it was only his second<br />

day on our team in the playoffs. We<br />

were in second place all because<br />

of the kid I taught how to throw<br />

and catch. At the end of the season,<br />

we got in the finals and won it.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Sepora Beyda<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Me and my friend, on a beautiful<br />

day outside, were playing catch and<br />

my friend told me, “Oh, look at that<br />

girl over there. Ugh, look what she<br />

is wearing.” And I said, “I felt bad<br />

for her because she is really nice and<br />

sweet.” I knew she was embarrassed<br />

to ask us if she wanted<br />

to play because the<br />

girl I was playing with<br />

used to make fun of<br />

her a lot. So, I asked<br />

her if she wanted to<br />

play with us and I told<br />

my friend to play with<br />

her once and to try to<br />

be nice. So, we had a<br />

lot of fun the rest of<br />

the day and I inspired<br />

my other friend to<br />

play with that girl.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Isaac Kassab<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

I was playing football once and it<br />

was a tie game. It was 4th down<br />

and we were 50 yards from the<br />

touch down. Quagmire was open<br />

for the pass. I threw it to him, he<br />

missed. Although it was a good<br />

throw and he missed, I blamed myself.<br />

I said that it slipped from my<br />

hand and I made him feel good. I<br />

got blamed but at least he didn’t get<br />

embarrassed. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Isaac Marcus<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

When I am on one of the teams and When I was playing football, there<br />

my friend is picking teams, I always were good players and bad players.<br />

see some kids who are just sitting,<br />

I picked the bad players be-<br />

waiting to get picked, and I feel very cause they always get left out when<br />

sorry for them. Like I have a friend, we play. We ended up winning but<br />

Steven, who isn’t so good at sports. winning doesn’t matter. Everyone<br />

I always try to<br />

help and teach<br />

him. I hear<br />

people making<br />

fun of him and<br />

I say, “Why do<br />

you have to<br />

call him names<br />

all the time because<br />

he miss-<br />

A bully’s<br />

es the catch bystanders<br />

or the shot?”<br />

have the most<br />

I told Steven<br />

to come<br />

influence<br />

to my house<br />

to stop it<br />

on Sunday.<br />

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On Sunday, he<br />

came over and asked me, “Why did laughed when I picked them. After<br />

you tell me to come over?” I said, the game, I laughed at them because<br />

“I hate the way people are making they had the best players and we<br />

fun of you because you miss the had the worst players and we won.<br />

shots.” So, that Sunday Steven and I Hashem rewarded me by picking<br />

were practicing. On Monday, he was the bad players. He made my heart<br />

playing football with us. My friends feel good. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

and I saw how much better he was<br />

and no longer did anyone call him<br />

names. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Maurice Elbaz<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

You can make an excuse that you<br />

need more people to play a game.<br />

For example, if you and your<br />

friends are bored and are trying<br />

to come up with ideas and your<br />

friends have ideas, you can say that<br />

we should ask the shy<br />

kid’s idea and include<br />

him in fun even if you<br />

have great ideas. And,<br />

if the shy kid makes<br />

a mistake or something<br />

silly you can say,<br />

“That’s what I thought.”<br />

You could start being<br />

friends with that kid<br />

and your friend will<br />

follow in your lead.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Richie Ayal<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

If you are playing any<br />

sport and there is a kid<br />

that is not so good, it doesn’t mean<br />

you don’t pass to him. If you pass<br />

to him and he misses, it’s ok. Just<br />

continue. Don’t embarrass him in<br />

front of everyone. It’s not nice.<br />

Let’s say he scores the shot and<br />

he wins the game. You see, anything<br />

could happen. Just trust them<br />

and pass. You never know what<br />

could happen. It’s all about trying.<br />

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Everyone is invited to a party<br />

except for your friend<br />

By: Amy Yedid<br />

Joy up to her room and gave her a<br />

By: Rozie Shamah<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

nice dress to wear. If you don’t want<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

A girl named Renee was throwing a<br />

There was a girl and she invited the<br />

to feel that way, don’t do it to someone<br />

else! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

party in her house for her Bat <strong>Mitzvah</strong>.<br />

She invited the whole grade.<br />

Renee. Renee lived across the street<br />

whole class over except for one girl,<br />

Renee is very<br />

from her. When I got<br />

popular and felt<br />

like the only reason<br />

she is popular<br />

there everyone was already<br />

there. They were<br />

all playing a game of<br />

is because<br />

“free for all together.”<br />

she makes fun of<br />

Then I started playing<br />

with them, but, while I<br />

people. At Renee’s<br />

house, a girl<br />

was playing, I realized<br />

that Renee was watching<br />

us through the win-<br />

named Joy was<br />

drinking apple<br />

dow and she looked<br />

juice and she was<br />

sad. I told my friend to<br />

wearing a white<br />

dress. Renee sent<br />

someone to move<br />

call Renee and say that<br />

she thought she sent her<br />

the invite. My friend<br />

Joy’s hand so the<br />

did and Renee came<br />

drink would spill. by: M.d.y. students<br />

and we all played the<br />

When that person did that, the juice<br />

By: Rachel Russo<br />

game together. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

spilled all over her. Renee took the<br />

By: Michal S.<br />

One day in school, a girl named Jamie<br />

announced that whoever she My friend Devory is making a party<br />

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microphone and was about to say,<br />

“Look at Joy. She had an accident.”<br />

texted is invited to her birthday and she didn’t invite a girl who was<br />

But, right before she could do it, Renee’s<br />

party but she didn’t invite Raquel. a nerd, Toby. When everyone was<br />

best friend yelled out, “There<br />

is a FIRE!” Everyone ran out of the<br />

place. But, there was no fire. Renee’s<br />

friend said that so she can grab<br />

Renee and Joy before they can run<br />

out and talk to Renee. She told her<br />

that what she did was not nice to do.<br />

A girl named Jane was going around<br />

and asking if they were invited.<br />

When she got to Raquel, she said<br />

she didn’t get invited. So Jane said,<br />

“Everybody, Raquel isn’t invited,<br />

ha-ha! Suzie said, “Everybody it’s<br />

not nice.” She asked Jamie to invite<br />

with Devory she said to Toby, in her<br />

face, “You are not invited because<br />

you are such a nerd.” Toby cried and<br />

went home. On the day of the party,<br />

I missed the party and went to Toby’s<br />

house to play and ask her how<br />

she was feeling. I made her day. She<br />

Renee said she was sorry and took<br />

Raquel. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 is my true friend. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Eddy Salameh<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

I once went to a birthday party and<br />

I saw one kid that is shy and people<br />

were making fun of him a lot. He<br />

didn’t get any candy and other kids<br />

were showing<br />

off their candy to<br />

him. So, I went<br />

up to him and<br />

shared with him<br />

and everyone<br />

saw me do that<br />

so they shared<br />

too. After that,<br />

everyone had an<br />

equal amount of<br />

candy and they<br />

stopped making<br />

fun of him.<br />

By: Judah Kishk<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

I was in the park and saw Mark sitting<br />

on a bench alone. He looked<br />

lonely. Jack said, “Come on,” and<br />

I realized I was just spacing out.<br />

Don’t let<br />

her be<br />

left out<br />

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By: Daniel Segev<br />

Jack said, “I am having a party on<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

After school, Danny made an announcement:<br />

Saturday. I am inviting everyone<br />

“Everybody is invited except for Mark.” I instantly felt<br />

to my party.” Marc got excited and bad for him. I told Jack how I felt<br />

everybody made a line to get an invitation.<br />

When it was Marc’s turn to<br />

but he said, “Mark is a loser.” I got<br />

the whole grade to feel bad about<br />

get an invitation, Danny said, “You<br />

are not invited, weirdo!” Everybody Mark. This forced Jack to invite<br />

laughed at him. But, a popular kid him. When Jack asked him to come,<br />

said, “If he is not going then I am<br />

not going.” And Danny invited Marc<br />

his face lit up and he was gleaming<br />

to his party. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

with joy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Esti Sobel<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

In 3rd grade, Yehudis was not invited<br />

to the party of the year. Yael came<br />

from a wealthy family and made the<br />

best parties ever. Yehudis was angry.<br />

She was left sitting<br />

alone while everyone<br />

talked about<br />

the party. The next<br />

year, Yehudis was<br />

making a party too<br />

and decided not to<br />

invite Yael. Her best<br />

friend, Tzipporah,<br />

told her, “You didn’t<br />

like when she did it<br />

to you. So, don’t do<br />

it to her. Okay?” Yehudis<br />

finally said, “I<br />

am still angry with<br />

her, but I will invite<br />

her anyway.” At Yehudis’<br />

party, Yael<br />

went over to her and said, “Your<br />

party is so cool. I am sorry I didn’t<br />

invite you. I am really sorry.” So, instead<br />

of a fight the two of them became<br />

friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Morris Bassoul<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

Once, I was having a super bowl<br />

party at my house. I was inviting all<br />

the cool kids. Then, I saw a kid, not<br />

that cool, and I invited him because<br />

I felt bad and he shouldn’t be treated<br />

differently. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Viviane Shama<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

Sophia is having a party. Rochelle’s<br />

new in the school. Sophia wants to<br />

invite her class except for Rochelle.<br />

“It’s not fair,”<br />

said Rochelle<br />

crying to me.<br />

“You know<br />

what,” I said,<br />

thinking to myself.<br />

“I want to<br />

go to the party<br />

Wait! But, that’s<br />

not nice that Sophia<br />

is going to<br />

feel bad. That’s<br />

it, I know! I am<br />

going to Sophia.”<br />

“Sophia,<br />

how would you<br />

feel if I didn’t<br />

invite you to my<br />

party and invited<br />

everybody<br />

else in our class?” “Well you are<br />

right. Give this invitation to Rochelle<br />

right now.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Sophia Cohen<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

Molly is having a party. She invited<br />

the whole class but Gina. I told<br />

her, “Did you like it when Susan invited<br />

every girl in the class except<br />

for you?” Molly said, “No.” I said,<br />

“Do you want to make someone feel<br />

like that?” She said, “ No.” I told<br />

her, “Then invite Gina. It will make<br />

her happy.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Magen David Yeshiva<br />

A bully makes<br />

you feel<br />

insecure<br />

because he is<br />

insecure<br />

Olivia and Rebecca were best<br />

friends. One day, Lilly, a girl in their<br />

class, was handing out party invitations.<br />

Everybody in the class got<br />

one except for Olivia. Everybody<br />

knew Olivia and Rebecca were best<br />

friends and they couldn’t be apart.<br />

When the bell rang at the end of the<br />

school, Rebecca asked if she got an<br />

invitation. When Olivia told her she<br />

didn’t, Rebecca decided not to go<br />

to the party. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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By: Nelly Alfaks<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

One day in school, I was giving out<br />

invitations. My friend was sitting<br />

next to me but I didn’t want to invite<br />

her. The next<br />

day my other friend<br />

said to me, “Go give<br />

her an invitation<br />

because she knows<br />

about your birthday<br />

party.” When I got<br />

home I made her an<br />

invitation and the<br />

next day I gave it<br />

her. She was happy<br />

that I invited her.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Esther Kishk<br />

Magen David Yeshiva<br />

One afternoon,<br />

on the first day of<br />

school, everybody was talking about<br />

a girl’s Bat <strong>Mitzvah</strong>. Everybody was<br />

so excited. There was going to be a<br />

chocolate fountain. Everybody was<br />

going except for one girl. I asked my<br />

friend, “Why wasn’t she invited.”<br />

My friend answered, “Because she is<br />

poor.” I told my friend, “Why should<br />

you leave her out? She should still<br />

have fun with us.” My friend invited<br />

her. The new girl turned out to be<br />

so smart and very nice. She always<br />

helped out. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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While working on a school project,<br />

nobody counts your friend’s opinion<br />

By: Jimmy Khaski<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

By: Lieby Weintlaub<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Once, there was a popular kid and<br />

his class was doing a class project.<br />

Everyone was picking ideas on what<br />

they were going to do and there was<br />

There was a girl named Leah. She<br />

never had any friends. She was a<br />

very quiet girl. There was a group of<br />

popular girls and they always made<br />

a very shy kid who<br />

said a very good<br />

idea. After everyone<br />

heard him say<br />

something, they<br />

all yelled at him to<br />

be quiet and said,<br />

“You’re stupid and<br />

your idea is stupid,<br />

no one likes<br />

you.” The popular<br />

kid said the same<br />

idea as the shy kid<br />

and everyone said,<br />

“That’s a great<br />

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idea.” He wrote it down on the paper<br />

and he put the shy kid’s name on the<br />

fun of her. Then the teacher assigned<br />

a project on history. Leah was put<br />

with the popular girls. They all got<br />

project. The class ended up getting<br />

together and left out Leah. So, Leah<br />

an “A+” and the whole class said<br />

walked up and stood there. No one of<br />

“sorry” to the boy. “You are smarter<br />

than anyone here.” The shy kid felt<br />

so good. Everyone liked him; he then<br />

became very popular and was very<br />

nice to others. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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the girls noticed to her. Leah spoke<br />

and gave an idea but they didn’t<br />

even listen. So, Leah said it again<br />

and one of the girls said, “What<br />

Leah said is a very good idea.”<br />

And they all agreed and let Leah<br />

join in. This made Leah feel good<br />

Project<br />

about herself. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

If people are<br />

afraid of you,<br />

something is<br />

wrong with you<br />

By: Yossi Fishman<br />

Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />

While we were decorating for the<br />

Siyum, Chaim sat on the side with<br />

watery eyes. He looked like his heart<br />

was broken. One kid pretended like<br />

he needed one more<br />

kid. So, he went<br />

over to Chaim and<br />

said, “Could you<br />

please help us?”<br />

He said, “Sure.”<br />

We ended up really<br />

needing him.<br />

Now, he looked<br />

happier then ever.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Faiga Adina<br />

Lefkowitz<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Raizy sat on the side watching the<br />

girls plan the Chanukah party. We<br />

were all shouting our ideas and<br />

laughing. I saw her out of the corner<br />

of my eye. I know I had to do something<br />

about it. Then, someone came<br />

up with an idea for a banner. “But<br />

who should do it?” I said, “Raizy is<br />

a very good artist, I am sure she’ll<br />

be able to do it.” “Well... I guess<br />

we could try,” everyone agreed.<br />

I looked at Raizy and she looked<br />

so happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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In school,<br />

before it<br />

was Chanukah,<br />

our<br />

t e a c h e r<br />

said we<br />

can have<br />

a dreidel<br />

By: Jayne Gindi<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush party with<br />

games. She said everyone should get<br />

into groups with your friends and<br />

play. When it was time for the party<br />

everyone got into groups. There was<br />

one girl that was new to the school<br />

and didn’t have many friends so she<br />

wasn’t in a group. A lot of people<br />

were giggling but she seemed like a<br />

nice girl. So I said, “Come we need<br />

one more person to play.” She hesitated<br />

but in the end she had fun and<br />

made friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Jennifer Tricot<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

One day, everybody needed to be<br />

in groups for a project. There was<br />

a girl that didn’t have a group. The<br />

whole class was making fun of her<br />

and pointing and laughing. So, my<br />

group decided not to make fun of<br />

her and we let her into out group.<br />

Then, everyone stopped making<br />

fun of her. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Naomi Yarmish<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

If your teacher is making a vote<br />

for the bulletin board, you should<br />

pick the girls with hidden talents<br />

so they feel much better about<br />

themselves. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

The girls<br />

were having<br />

a Siyum.<br />

The<br />

groups for<br />

d e c o r a -<br />

tions were<br />

T a m a r ,<br />

By: Leah Hatanian Rivka and<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov Sara. At<br />

Tamar’s house, Tamar said, “Rivka<br />

you do the background and I will<br />

do the lettering.” Sara was left with<br />

nothing to do. Rivka turned to Tamar,<br />

“Can we talk? Once, Sara came<br />

to my house for a class project and<br />

she drew it beautifully. Maybe, you<br />

will let her do the drawing.” “Are<br />

you sure?” said Tamar. “I don’t<br />

want to upset you?” “I am positive.”<br />

“Wow, your decorations are so beautiful,”<br />

said Mrs. Gross. “I love the<br />

drawing.” When Sara heard that, her<br />

heart shone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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including<br />

and not<br />

By: Shira Muller e x c l u d -<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov ing people.<br />

Let’s say you are in math class and<br />

the teacher says to get into pairs and<br />

everyone is pushing around to get<br />

their best friend. What if you would<br />

go to the quiet girl in the corner? It<br />

would make her day even though it’s<br />

not so important to you. Tell your<br />

group that she is a very smart girl and<br />

got an “A” on the last project you<br />

two worked on. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Everyone is invited to play at his house<br />

except for your friend<br />

By: Esther Shalam<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

By: Daniella Enayatian<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

One time, my friend, Gloria, asked<br />

if people could come over to her<br />

house. A lot of people lied and said,<br />

Rachel is making a slumber party.<br />

Since she is popular, everyone was<br />

invited. That day, they learned about<br />

“I can’t. My<br />

mom will not<br />

let.” She asked<br />

me and I said,<br />

“I will ask my<br />

mom and tell<br />

you tomorrow.”<br />

The next day,<br />

I said, “I can<br />

come.” I went<br />

to her house. We<br />

had a lot of fun.<br />

Friday came, and<br />

I asked if she<br />

wanted to come<br />

over. She said,<br />

by: M.d.y. students<br />

“Ok.” But, I didn’t tell anyone that<br />

she was coming over because then<br />

they would not come over. That<br />

day, everybody came over and saw<br />

that Gloria was there. They asked<br />

me why she was over. I told them,<br />

“Trust me, you will have fun.” At<br />

the end, they all had the best time.<br />

They said that I was right. Gloria is<br />

not embarrassing your friend. When<br />

she was giving out the invitations,<br />

she realized that one invitation was<br />

missing. It was supposed to go to a<br />

shy girl, Simi. Rachel was about to<br />

ignore it but she remembered learning<br />

how hurtful it is embarrassing<br />

others. She personally went over<br />

to Simi to tell her that she must<br />

have misplaced it and she would<br />

a lot of fun. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 give her an invitation tomorrow<br />

If you get<br />

rejected, something<br />

is wrong with<br />

him, not you<br />

and try to make it up to her. When<br />

the other girls saw popular Rachel<br />

talking to friendless Simi, they immediately<br />

went to see if she was<br />

worth being friends with. At the<br />

party, their thoughts<br />

were confirmed.<br />

From now on, Simi is<br />

the nicest popular girl<br />

you could meet. She<br />

tries to include other<br />

girls as well since she<br />

herself knows what<br />

it’s like to be left out.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Sara Ginsburg<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

My friends and I were<br />

practicing for the Siyum.<br />

We were in<br />

dance. We were done<br />

practicing and everyone<br />

was going home. But, I stayed at<br />

my friend’s house later than all of my<br />

other friends. Another friend of ours<br />

called my friend that I stayed by and<br />

asked if she could come over. My<br />

friend said, “I am busy.” But I said,<br />

“It’s fine, let her come over. I don’t<br />

mind. It’s better not to make her feel<br />

bad.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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“My mother<br />

just<br />

bought me<br />

the coolest<br />

p r e s e n t , ”<br />

Aliza said<br />

to most of<br />

the classm<br />

a t e s .<br />

Devori Kramer<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov There was<br />

one girl standing at the side not noticed<br />

by anyone. “You are all invited<br />

to my house on Sunday to play<br />

with it,” she said to her crowd of<br />

friends around her. The girl standing<br />

at the side was thinking to herself,<br />

“Why do I have to always be<br />

left out of all the fun things? Why<br />

is it like I am invisible? Nobody<br />

notices me?” The next day, Aliza<br />

gave out invitations to her whole<br />

class except the one girl standing at<br />

the side, Leah. Finally, Aliza looked<br />

up and saw Leah, alone, pretending<br />

to be reading a story but listening<br />

to her conversation with a pity<br />

look on her face. “Do you want to<br />

come to my house on Sunday too?”<br />

“Oh, I would love to,” she said<br />

with sparkle in her eyes. From then<br />

on, Aliza always tried to include<br />

everyone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

I went<br />

to my<br />

f r i e n d ’ s<br />

h o u s e .<br />

My other<br />

f r i e n d s<br />

were there,<br />

too. This<br />

girl named<br />

By: Sarah Torgueman<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush R i v k a<br />

came, too. She has brown wavy<br />

hair and she has blue eyes. My<br />

friend only invited her because<br />

they wanted to make fun of her. I<br />

thought it was disgusting. In my<br />

school, my friends made up a game<br />

although Rivka didn’t know how to<br />

play because she doesn’t go to my<br />

school. Nobody wanted to teach<br />

her. I would’ve but I went to the<br />

bathroom. I came back. I saw that<br />

Rivka was all alone because they<br />

didn’t let her play. I got mad. I left<br />

their game and played a game that<br />

she knew how to play. The other<br />

girls felt bad because of what they<br />

did. They ended up playing with me<br />

and Rivka. They learned to never<br />

be mean. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

There are<br />

these two<br />

girls that<br />

are mean<br />

to me. I<br />

didn’t want<br />

them to<br />

come to my<br />

By: Naomi Sanders<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

house. Everyone<br />

was<br />

coming. I invited then anyway because<br />

I know what it feels like to<br />

be left out. They had a really good<br />

time. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Racheli Brickman<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

One Shabbos afternoon, a group<br />

of friends and I were going to my<br />

friend’s house. So, we were playing<br />

and talking and somehow it came<br />

up in conversation about earrings.<br />

One of the girls was wearing stickers<br />

earrings. That girl got so embarrassed<br />

and got so red. Everyone was<br />

laughing. Right away, I switched<br />

the subject. When the girl went<br />

home with me in a car pool she said,<br />

“Thank you.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Ita Chana Meisner<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

One Friday, I was sitting at the lunch<br />

table. I asked a girl if she wanted to<br />

come over to my house on Shabbos.<br />

The girl said yes. I noticed a girl who<br />

overheard our conversation. I knew<br />

that she felt hurt because she wasn’t<br />

invited. I quickly invited her also. She<br />

was thrilled. This small invitation<br />

made her day. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

by: M.d.y. students<br />

No<br />

more<br />

teasing<br />

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How to hide your friend’s<br />

low mark from others<br />

By: Esther Sitt<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

One time, my teacher was handing<br />

back tests and almost half of the class<br />

got over the 90’s. When my friend<br />

Renee got hers back, she looked at<br />

it, folded it and put it in her backpack.<br />

I could tell<br />

she got a bad grade.<br />

I felt really bad for<br />

her especially when<br />

Julie was begging<br />

her to see it. Julie<br />

said, “I know you<br />

couldn’t get less<br />

than 85.” Renee<br />

cried all over again.<br />

I walked up to Julie<br />

and said, “Leave<br />

her alone. It doesn’t<br />

matter what she<br />

got. It’s not a competition;<br />

the grade<br />

she got is her s to<br />

tell if she wants to. You don’t have<br />

to see it.” Julie got really mad at me<br />

but she left Renee alone. Renee was<br />

very grateful. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Elliot Akerman<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

by: M.d.y. students<br />

If you have a friend who gets a bad<br />

grade on a test and he doesn’t want to<br />

show the grade to his friend, you can<br />

say, “You don’t have to show him if<br />

you don’t want to. Nobody needs<br />

to know.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Ariel Cohen<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

We were getting back our tests. Marilyn<br />

got the best mark she had ever<br />

gotten. Sara went over to Marilyn<br />

and made fun of the mark she got<br />

in front of the whole class. Marilyn<br />

every person<br />

has<br />

a hidden<br />

talent<br />

was very embarrassed. But, she went<br />

over to Sara and told her, “I tried my<br />

best and I thought I did very well.”<br />

This teaches us that embarrassing is<br />

bad. But, you can learn to stick up<br />

for yourself. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Matti Miller<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

Mrs. Stein was handing back the<br />

class’ papers. Yaffa walked up with<br />

a smile on her face. Leah walked up<br />

to the teacher and back to her seat<br />

and shoved the test in her knapsack.<br />

After class, Yaffa<br />

went over to Leah<br />

and said, “I got<br />

100. What did you<br />

get?” “Well um,<br />

well, I don’t want<br />

to talk about it.”<br />

“Come on Leah, tell<br />

me.” Sari stood on<br />

the side. Sari was<br />

watching as Yaffa<br />

was begging Leah<br />

to see her mark.<br />

Sari walked over<br />

to Leah and Yaffa.<br />

“Hey, Yaffa, would<br />

you mind? I am sure that Leah is<br />

fine. You know I went to the store to<br />

get those shoes you were telling me<br />

about …..” Sari saved Leah from being<br />

embarrassed by trying to change<br />

the subject. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

Special thanks to Terri and Jo Jo Chehebar<br />

who were the first ones to support us when we started<br />

Torah Contest 15 years ago.<br />

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There once<br />

were two<br />

friends in<br />

s c h o o l .<br />

O n e<br />

n a m e d<br />

Jack and<br />

By: Joe Hedaya one Daniel.<br />

Daniel<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

was smart and Jack wasn’t as smart.<br />

They were supposed to have a math<br />

test and Jack didn’t understand the<br />

material. Daniel understood so he<br />

decided that he wanted to help Jack.<br />

He didn’t want Jack to feel uncomfortable<br />

having his best friend tutor<br />

him. Daniel decided to ask Jack if<br />

he wanted to study together. Jack<br />

said, “Yes” and wasn’t at all embarrassed.<br />

Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Rashelle Gersh<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

It was a Tuesday, and we all got our<br />

Chumash test back. Jenny got her<br />

test back and all of a sudden her face<br />

turned tomato red. She went to sit in<br />

the back of the room and you could<br />

hear her weeping. Adele got 100 on<br />

the test and figured she should gloat.<br />

Jenny started crying even more after<br />

being made fun of. The next day, we<br />

Once, I<br />

saw one of<br />

my friends<br />

a s k i n g<br />

a n o t h e r<br />

one of my<br />

f r i e n d s<br />

what he<br />

By: Kalman Halberstam got on the<br />

Yeshivah Chaim Berlin test, but he<br />

was embarrassed to show him. So,<br />

I went over to him and I told him,<br />

“Nobody is perfect, so, don’t be embarrassed.<br />

I also get low marks. Everybody<br />

gets low marks.” So, then<br />

he showed my other friend what he<br />

got on his test. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Shaina Kohanghadosh<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

It all happened when we were having<br />

a spelling bee and the teacher<br />

gave a girl the word “Tunnie”. Everyone<br />

was laughing because it was<br />

an easy word. It was Adina’s turn to<br />

spell. Everyone knew that Adina was<br />

the smartest and knew she was going<br />

to get it right. When she spelled<br />

the words out, it was wrong. Adina<br />

turned red. I knew how it felt and<br />

next was my turn. So, I made sure<br />

I got it wrong. Afterwards, I went<br />

over to her and said, “The word was<br />

really hard.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Solly Mosseri<br />

Last week,<br />

we got<br />

back our<br />

tests in our<br />

math class.<br />

Everyone<br />

knew it<br />

would be<br />

By: Asher Lifshutz so easy<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush and no one<br />

studied. My best friend told me<br />

that he studied really well for this<br />

test so he was sure to get that 100.<br />

We got our tests back. Some kids<br />

got 85’s, 90’s, and even 100’s. But,<br />

my friend got a 62. He was so upset<br />

and disappointed. Everyone was<br />

asking him what he got and I knew<br />

he would be embarrassed. Right<br />

then, I jumped in and started saying<br />

how it was such a hard test and that<br />

I failed badly. Everyone was now<br />

focusing on my mark and forgot<br />

about my friend’s. He thanked me<br />

so much. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Mimi Lazerowitz<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

Almost everybody in the class got<br />

in the high 90’s on a test. Five girls<br />

got 100 and went around asking<br />

everybody, “What did you get?”<br />

and everybody said, “96” or “97”.<br />

Finally, one girl didn’t want to say<br />

what she got. Then all the mean<br />

got a math test back and Adele didn’t<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

Once, in class, we got a test back girls were nipping the test out of her<br />

do well. I went over and said, “I<br />

and a kid in my class failed and hid hand and screaming what she got.<br />

guess it doesn’t feel good when people<br />

his test. Then another kid snuck The most popular girl in the class<br />

gloat when you get a bad mark.”<br />

Adele apologized to Jenny and,<br />

and screamed out, “This kid got<br />

27%.” Everybody started laughing<br />

said, “I got the same mark,” even<br />

though she didn’t. Then no one was<br />

from that day on, they helped each and then I came and cheered him embarrassed. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

other study. Hashem created all of us up and made him happy. I made<br />

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an outcast. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 thing funny. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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S av i n g yo u r f r i e n d<br />

f r o m e m b a r r a s s m e n t<br />

By: Miriam Medina<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

By: Patty Shrem<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

By: Yisrael Rosenfeld<br />

Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />

It was picture day and everyone<br />

looked great. Girls were giving each<br />

other compliments. But, then, I saw<br />

a girl all alone and it seemed she<br />

There is a girl on my bus. She is in<br />

6th grade. She never lets anyone sit<br />

next to her. So, I told her, “You know<br />

it’s not fair. You should let everyone<br />

There was once a boy named Yehuda.<br />

Let’s just say he was not the most<br />

popular kid in the class. He was always<br />

being made fun of. Kids were<br />

didn’t look as good<br />

calling him names<br />

as she wanted. She<br />

like, “monkey” and<br />

was trying to make<br />

“munch milk”. You<br />

herself pretty. So, I<br />

might think it’s<br />

went up to her and<br />

asked her is she<br />

wanted to borrow<br />

my clip and her face<br />

lit up. She looked<br />

gorgeous. I told everyone,<br />

“Look how<br />

pretty she looks!”<br />

Everyone gave her<br />

funny but it really<br />

hurt him. Then, one<br />

day, a kid named<br />

Shmuel called over<br />

Yitzi, the most popular<br />

kid who made<br />

fun of Yehuda the<br />

most. Shmuel said,<br />

compliments and<br />

“I think you are<br />

said she looked by: M.d.y. students<br />

hurting Yehuda’s<br />

awesome. That day, she was included<br />

in every activity the girls did. I<br />

sit.” So she said, “No. Why should I? feelings.” “I know,” replied Yitzi.<br />

felt good helping a girl out. The best<br />

part was no one knew it was my clip.<br />

She thanked me later but I was happy<br />

for her. A small little deed can make<br />

a big difference. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

Everyone is always so mean to me.”<br />

I said, “You know what? You should<br />

tell people to please stop.” So, one<br />

day a girl came and said, “You are<br />

so weird.” So, she said, “Please<br />

“Then why do you do it?” Said Shmuel.<br />

“Because it’s fun,” said Yitzi.<br />

“Well if you were in Yehuda’s place<br />

would you also find it funny? You<br />

would feel bad.” “I guess so. I will<br />

By: Aliza Schwartz<br />

stop. That’s not very nice.” And she stop,” said Yitzi. “Thank you,” said<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

One time, my friend and I were wild. stopped. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 Shmuel. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By mistake, she pulled on my gold<br />

necklace and it broke. My mother<br />

The new topic is online. The students of Hillel Yeshiva<br />

already started to write inspirational stories on it. Get ideas<br />

came in and I told her that I did<br />

from them and write your own. Best ones will be published.<br />

it to save my friend from embarrassment.<br />

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O n c e ,<br />

there was<br />

a girl<br />

named Renee.<br />

Renee<br />

was a<br />

mean person<br />

and<br />

By: Sydney Benami<br />

a l w a y s<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

went against girls who are not like<br />

her. She used to be best friends with<br />

a girl named Nina but, as they got<br />

older, they grew apart. Nina has a<br />

Facebook and told her friend her<br />

password who was secretly friends<br />

with Renee. That friend told Renee<br />

Nina’s password. Raquel logged<br />

into Nina’s account and started<br />

writing mean things and cursing<br />

to all of her friends. The next day,<br />

all of Nina’s friends got mad at<br />

Nina. But, Renee regretted doing<br />

that and announced in front of everyone<br />

in lunch that she wrote all<br />

the bad stuff about Nina’s friends.<br />

Everyone forgave her and all the<br />

cliques in the school broke and<br />

they became friends. No more<br />

mean girls! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

Dina got<br />

a new CD<br />

for Hanukkah.<br />

She<br />

was very<br />

e x c i t e d .<br />

The next<br />

day Dina<br />

By: Estelle Saad b r o u g h t<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush her CD<br />

to school to show it to her friends.<br />

Her friends were very excited, too.<br />

But Sarah was especially impressed.<br />

Sarah was having a big family party<br />

that night and she wanted to impress<br />

her cousin Eliza with some hip music.<br />

Finally, Dina agreed to let Sarah<br />

borrow the CD, but Sarah had to be<br />

very careful. The next day, Sarah<br />

walked into the classroom with tears<br />

in her eyes. As careful as Sarah was,<br />

she still lost the CD. As disgusted<br />

as Dina was, she didn’t want to embarrass<br />

Sarah, and, therefore, she<br />

just forgave Sarah and told her that<br />

it was OK. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

Keyword search<br />

Embarrassment<br />

There was<br />

a girl that<br />

wasn’t so<br />

skinny. She<br />

had a best<br />

friend who<br />

she told her<br />

one of her<br />

By: Jenny Alfaks s e c r e t s .<br />

Magen David Yeshivah One of the<br />

secrets was how much she weighed.<br />

Her best friend thought it was a joke<br />

and she announced it to the whole<br />

class. Everyone started laughing so<br />

hard. But I didn’t laugh at all because<br />

I didn’t think it was that funny. So,<br />

I told the girl, who told everyone,<br />

that it was so mean of her to do that<br />

to your best friend. I told the whole<br />

class that its a joke between us. And<br />

that girl who wasn’t so skinny felt so<br />

good inside ! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Eli Aballi<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

You are sitting on a bus and a boy is<br />

getting made fun of. You could go<br />

there and say, “Why are you bothering<br />

him? What did he do to you?<br />

Leave him alone!” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Chani Goldberg<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

“You are so weird,” Miri said to<br />

Rivky. “Don’t say that,” Kayla<br />

said. “She is not weird.” The<br />

next day, Miri said to Rivky, “You<br />

know, I was just having a bad day.<br />

I am sorry. I took it out on you. Can<br />

you forgive me?” “Sure,” she replied.<br />

They ended up being the best<br />

of friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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Stop<br />

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The popular kids<br />

include the left out kids<br />

By: Susan Mosseri<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

If someone was left out, I would ask<br />

her if she wanted to make plans. I<br />

would tell her, “Don’t worry what<br />

they say. You are so nice. Please<br />

don’t lose confidence. Just ignore<br />

what they say.<br />

You are a wonderful<br />

person.”<br />

I would sit next<br />

to her. Because<br />

it doesn’t matter<br />

how tall you are,<br />

how short you<br />

are; fat, skinny,<br />

etc, doesn’t matter,<br />

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have derech eretz<br />

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Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

by: M.d.y. students<br />

By: Sarah Levy<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

When school starts on Fridays, Shabbat<br />

music fills the halls. The girls in<br />

the grade always come together to<br />

sing one song. This Friday, when the<br />

song was almost over, Ava saw Chana<br />

shyly approaching. She didn’t<br />

know where to break into the circle<br />

so Ava moved over. Chana smiled<br />

and walked over. Chana seemed so<br />

By: Charles Grego<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

One day, I was with all my friends<br />

walking down the block. We passed<br />

one kid’s house. He was just sitting<br />

outside alone. People made<br />

fun of him and accused him that<br />

Don’t put him<br />

down to bring<br />

yourself up<br />

he does weird stuff. He saw us<br />

pass and he turned around. I told<br />

my friend I was going to invite<br />

him. I had to convince them. They<br />

still said, “no,” so, I left them to<br />

play with him. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Gitty Silber<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

The girls in 6th grade were bossing<br />

around the younger kids. I asked,<br />

“How would you like it if kids<br />

By:Irwin Savdie<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

One day, I came to school and I<br />

brought a bag of candy. Everyone<br />

wanted and they were crowding<br />

around me. There was a kid in the<br />

corner and he was by himself and<br />

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Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Nechami Zilberberg<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

A girl I know wanted<br />

to have a friend<br />

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one wanted to be her<br />

friend. Her mother<br />

was spending money on the girls so<br />

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girls took advantage and made fun<br />

of her. My mother found out about<br />

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to be her friend. I made the right<br />

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happy singing with everyone. The older than you were bossing you<br />

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By: Aliza Zakutinsky<br />

Masores Bais Yaakov<br />

By: Victor Guindi<br />

Magen David Yeshivah<br />

There was a new, shyer girl in my<br />

class. She was funny and a pleasure<br />

to be around. But, because we were<br />

all friends with someone else, she<br />

must have felt left out. After Shabbat,<br />

One Sunday, I was with my friends<br />

and we were talking. On the other<br />

side, I saw my other friend alone. We<br />

were talking about something that I<br />

was interested in and I told them that<br />

I asked her if<br />

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She came. After,<br />

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good friends. All you need to do<br />

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I feel bad for my other friend. I asked<br />

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The bully<br />

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By:Junie Maleh<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

One day, my friend named Rachel<br />

had fever. She even missed school. I<br />

suggested calling her with my friends<br />

to wish her a Refuah Shelemah. My<br />

friends said, “No way! She is not<br />

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I decided to call her<br />

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Thank you, really!”<br />

And then my<br />

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was so happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

By: Gabi Cohen<br />

Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />

In recess, I saw a girl sitting in the<br />

corner by herself while we were<br />

playing dodge ball. No one noticed<br />

her because we were having so<br />

much fun! I felt very bad. So, I went<br />

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her. I asked her to play with<br />

us and she came. We ended up having<br />

so much fun and she was a very<br />

funny girl. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />

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• Robber • Rasha • Murderer<br />

The 2nd Beit Hamikdash got destroyed<br />

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Jeff Sutton in honor of his wife Rachel<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Gladys<br />

by Richard Adjmi<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Nancy<br />

by Charles Grazi<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Frances<br />

the greatest mother and wife<br />

by Hymie Betesh<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Esther<br />

by Maurice Haber<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>bara<br />

by Abe Chehebar<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Lisa<br />

by Joey Jemal<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Vivian<br />

by Abe Dushey<br />

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Ronit<br />

by Alan Mahana<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Mazal<br />

by Saul Eida<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Alicia<br />

by Stephen Rahmey


Morris Beyda A”H<br />

Morris Beyda A”H was a man who lived to live<br />

and whose presence is still missed today.<br />

Morris had a life full of Berachah between his wife Frieda of<br />

better than 50 years, his 6 children, and countless grandchildren, ken yirbu. Morris<br />

had a lot to be thankful to Hashem for and he was.<br />

Morris was one of the first pioneers in the community to send his kids to Yeshivah.<br />

Morris was also one of the first to attend and support the community shuls.<br />

Morris led by an example and his love for Torah and Mitzvot shines bright.<br />

This love for Hashem was passed on to his children and his entire legacy.<br />

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In honor of Sarina & Elliot Sabbagh by their children<br />

In honor of our parents<br />

Nathan & Estelle Botton<br />

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In honor of<br />

David & Sari Hedaya<br />

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In honor of our parents<br />

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In honor of our parents<br />

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Solomon & Inez Sharaby<br />

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Joseph & Frieda Sutton<br />

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Dedicated in Loving Memory of<br />

June 1, 1907 - April 12, 2002<br />

A man of Kindness & Humility<br />

A Passion for Living<br />

By his Children and Grandchildren<br />

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Dr. Robert Richter in honor of his wife grace<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Susie<br />

by Chuck Erani<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Joyce<br />

by Eddie E. Serure<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Grace<br />

by Albert Esses<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

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by Morris Srour<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Sharon<br />

by Morris Harary<br />

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by Joey Sutton<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Lynn and my daughter Sophie<br />

by Marc Moghrabi<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Kimberly<br />

by Jimmy Tawil<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Ami<br />

by Ralph Sasson<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Michelle<br />

by Michael Wahba


Mildred Misrie Liniado A”H<br />

A woman of charm and grace!<br />

M i l l i e l e d a l i f e o f s w e e t n e s s.<br />

W i t h her s m i l e she illuminated all those aro u n d her.<br />

She had a strong quietness in her speech and eternal devotion to<br />

her husband Morris of sixty six years, her children, her family and Hashem.<br />

Millie will always be remembered for her wonderful sense of humor<br />

quick wit, kindness and compassion.<br />

Her devotion to helping the needy was remarkable in all those she touched.<br />

May we all learn from her and continue to do Chesed and Mitzvot!<br />

We will always miss you with each and ever y day.<br />

Love, her children Albert and Mary, Ralph and Ethel, Robert and DeeGee,<br />

Susan and Meir, and Andrea and her grandchildren and great grandchildren<br />

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Congratulations to the <strong>Bar</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Boys!<br />

L. Lati M. Sardar T. Sardar<br />

J. D. Beyda<br />

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M. Elkharrat<br />

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Ezra Ashkenazi in honor of his wife Sharyn<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Rochelle<br />

by Eli M. Dweck<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Audrey<br />

by Victor Setton<br />

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Leah<br />

by Joey Habert<br />

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by Jack Shammah<br />

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by James Haddad<br />

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by Charles Sued<br />

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by Jack Mosseri<br />

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a wonderful mother & an even better wife<br />

by David S. Tawil<br />

In honor of my beautiful wife<br />

Sarah<br />

by Judah M. Schemo<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Sally<br />

by David Wahba


Jack Benjamin A”H<br />

A man of honesty and integrity.<br />

He will always be remembered for his commitment to<br />

his wife, children and grandchildren. We hope to<br />

continue following in his ways and his values.<br />

We miss you and love you forever<br />

From his wife Esther<br />

his children and grandchildren.<br />

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Stanley chera in honor of his wife Cookie<br />

In honor of my loving wife<br />

Raquel<br />

by Jacob Aini<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Gloria<br />

by Jamie Dweck<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Fannie a true eshet chayil<br />

by Eli Bouganim<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Sophia<br />

by Morris Dweck<br />

In honor of my beautiful wife<br />

Nancy<br />

by your loving husband<br />

Sam Chira and family<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Monica<br />

by David Hadef<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Ninette<br />

by Raymond Cohen<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Celia<br />

by Jason Hoffman<br />

In honor of my beautiful wife<br />

Lori<br />

by Harold Dweck<br />

In honor of my wife<br />

Sari<br />

By Jack Sasson


In Loving Memory of Albert “Shanty” Mishaan A”H<br />

A Man of Honesty and Integrity who always put the<br />

welfare of his Family and Community above all.<br />

Shanty Mishaan A”H taught us the Jewish values of truth, unity, dignity, humility and<br />

kindness. He will always be remembered for his outstanding commitment to follow the Laws of<br />

Torah and Mitsvot and for his unwavering faith in Hashem, his belief and the people he loved.<br />

We hope to follow in his footsteps and continue the family values He bestowed upon all of us.<br />

May his memory be a constant source of inspiration to all who knew him.<br />

We miss you and love you everyday that passes.<br />

From His Wife Rose, His Children, Grandchildren, Great grandchildren and Loved ones.<br />

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In memory of Yomtob HaCohen Ben Zekieh A”H<br />

In memory of<br />

Nelly Ades A”H<br />

In memory of<br />

Norman Esses A”H<br />

In loving memory of<br />

Odette Ades A”H<br />

by her children and grandchildren<br />

In zechut & lelui nishmat of<br />

our wonderful mother<br />

Lorraine Gammal A”H<br />

In memory of our father<br />

Leon Betesh A”H<br />

He embraced everyone with a warm smile and sense of humor.<br />

By Ike & Rose Betesh and family<br />

In memory of<br />

Joseph (Yosef) Hamaoui A”H<br />

In loving memory of<br />

Gabriel Ben Lea Bildirici A”H<br />

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Joseph S. Jemal A”H<br />

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Morris & Margaret Didia A”H<br />

by their children and grandchildren<br />

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Eddie J. Mishan A”H<br />

by his son Jimmy


In Loving Memory of Jack H. Ashkenazie A”H<br />

A Pillar of Our Community<br />

Jack Ashkenazie A”H<br />

His great love for Torah, Mitzvot, Gemelot Hasadim<br />

his outstanding commitment to help another Jew in need.<br />

May his memory be a constant source of inspiration to all who knew him.<br />

May we follow in his ways.<br />

By his wife Linda, children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.<br />

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Wishing Mazal Tov to the <strong>Bar</strong> & Bat <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Kids!<br />

Phone: 212-302-3661 Fax: 212-302-7390<br />

1400 Broadway, New York<br />

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