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Age of maturity<br />
The best tools for parents<br />
t o develop their child’s<br />
character as they enter the<br />
A g e o f B a r / B at M i t z va h<br />
Inspirational<br />
stories contest<br />
best stories get<br />
published and<br />
kids receive<br />
great prizes<br />
Anti<br />
bullying<br />
slogans<br />
When you<br />
witness<br />
bullying<br />
kids’ ideas<br />
how to stop<br />
it on the spot<br />
Parenting<br />
Getting your kids<br />
to listen to you<br />
understand you<br />
positive<br />
peer<br />
pressure<br />
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develop kids’<br />
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Content:<br />
Accept the Difference<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> created by kids and teens<br />
Kids’ stories on bullying in the lunchroom.......................26<br />
Kids’s stories about bullying at recess...............................32<br />
Kids helping kids who are teased for being different ......42<br />
Kids’ strategies to include weak players in the game.......46<br />
Everyone is invited to a party except for your friend.......50<br />
School project: nobody counts your friend’s opinion ....54<br />
Everyone is invited to his house except for your friend.......56<br />
How to hide your friend’s low mark from others............58<br />
Saving your friend from embarrassment ........................60<br />
The popular kids include the left out kids........................62<br />
Torah view on Bullying/Meaningful <strong>Bar</strong>-Bat <strong>Mitzvah</strong>.......64<br />
Top Essay Contestants List (by shul).............................40<br />
Winners: Boys’ photos...........53 Girls’ Photos ............45<br />
You are not invited!<br />
Good Manners Contest (1st-3rd grades).........................29<br />
Parents vote on next topic/Vote for best slogans.................64<br />
How to enhance your communication skills with your kids?....24<br />
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Getting your kids to listen to you<br />
to understand you<br />
Enhance communication with your child<br />
through stories with moral lessons, written by kids:<br />
Example of Bad Behavior The usual response Better response<br />
Kid eating too much junk food<br />
Eating junk food is unhealthy.<br />
(The kids can’t relate to it)<br />
Eating junk food can affect<br />
your appearance<br />
It’s important to give kids reason they could relate to.<br />
Don’t lecture him<br />
after he misbehaves<br />
Your older child is fighting with a<br />
younger sibling. Your immediate<br />
response: Lecturing why fighting<br />
is wrong. This is not the best way.<br />
Your child is not interested in hearing<br />
that it’s his fault and he will<br />
blame his younger sibling for starting<br />
up with him. The better way is:<br />
let it go for now. Another day, when<br />
he is calm, tell him an inspirational<br />
story with the moral of the story being<br />
the importance of getting along<br />
with a younger sibling.<br />
Sometimes parents<br />
misinterpret their child’s<br />
behavior. A part of good<br />
communication is to<br />
get to his level and<br />
understand his motives.<br />
Try to identify your child’s bad<br />
habit and use these stories to inspire<br />
him to improve. But, don’t expect<br />
immediate results. Repetition of the<br />
positive message in a fun way will<br />
bring the change you expect.<br />
Kids’ positive influence<br />
The stories in the magazine focus<br />
on kids’ writing on practical topics.<br />
The kids give convincing reasons<br />
that show when a character in the<br />
story makes the right choice, he<br />
benefits from it. When he makes<br />
the wrong choice, he loses.<br />
Figure out your child<br />
The stories are a collection of kids’<br />
writings that show a variety of motives<br />
for the same behavior. When<br />
you read the stories with your child,<br />
try to figure out what are the reasons<br />
and motives behind his behavior.<br />
Vote on the stories together with your<br />
child. It’ll give you a better understanding<br />
as to what his interests are.<br />
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practical topics written by kids<br />
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The stories give parents the tools to teach their children how to make the right decision,<br />
not because they fear you but rather because they realize it’s the right thing to do.<br />
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Focus<br />
Loyalty<br />
Patience<br />
Courage<br />
Fairness<br />
Honesty<br />
Tolerance<br />
Creativity<br />
Flexibility<br />
Reliability<br />
Forgiveness<br />
Cooperation<br />
Organization<br />
Self Discipline<br />
Positive Attitude<br />
E d d i e , R a l p h , D a v i d & J a c k S i t t E d i t i o n
k i d s ’ s to r i e s o n b u l ly i n g<br />
i n t h e l u n c h r o o m<br />
By: Daniel Eis<br />
Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />
Yochanan sat down. He had a delicious<br />
Yochanan exclaimed. “Who said<br />
they are true? Besides, you are so<br />
cruel to him. Give him a chance!”<br />
lunch; a cream cheese sand-<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
wich with tomatoes<br />
and<br />
a juice box.<br />
“Ah,” he said,<br />
“This is really<br />
good!” “Hey,<br />
Yo c h a n a n ! ”<br />
Avi came calling<br />
from the<br />
door, “May<br />
I join you?”<br />
“Sure!” Yochanan<br />
said,<br />
”Thanks a ton,<br />
Yo c h a n a n ! ”<br />
“Why not?” scarred<br />
for life<br />
Avi beamed.<br />
Five minutes<br />
later, the least by: M.d.y. students<br />
popular kid in class came stomping<br />
into the lunch room. His name<br />
By: Joy Laniado<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
was Shlomo. Most kids thought he<br />
I once saw the ‘popular kids’ poking<br />
was weird; there were tons of rumors<br />
about him. “Uh, Yochanan,”<br />
he said softly, “Can I eat with you?”<br />
“Uh,” stuttered Yochanan. “Sure,<br />
why not?” Avi said, giving Yochanan<br />
the ‘weird’ kid during lunch.<br />
You saw the girl’s face as she wanted<br />
to cry like crazy, but wanted to<br />
be strong. I stood up and told the<br />
a stern look. “Th-thanks,”<br />
‘popular kids’, “What’s the point?<br />
Shlomo said politely. After lunch,<br />
Should I come and poke you while<br />
Yochanan asked Avi why he agreed.<br />
you are eating?” The girls said<br />
“For the last time, there is nothing<br />
wrong about him,” Avi said angrily. sorry and actually sat with her during<br />
“But, what about those rumors?”<br />
lunch. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
Bullied kids,<br />
By: Solly Mosseri<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Once, at lunch, there was a kid and<br />
nobody would let him have some<br />
orange juice and they<br />
made fun of him. I<br />
asked my friend to pass<br />
me the orange juice<br />
and my friend gave<br />
the orange juice and<br />
I poured the shy kid<br />
up to the top. I asked<br />
him if he is OK and<br />
got him a seat next to<br />
me. We became friends<br />
and I protect him from<br />
the kids that were<br />
mean to him in school.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
Keyword<br />
Lunchroom<br />
search<br />
By: Shoshana Rosenberg<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Chavie ran down to lunchroom and<br />
saved her best friend, Rina, a seat.<br />
A quiet girl named Simi, not knowing<br />
that the seat was saved for Rina,<br />
sat down. Immediately, Chavie said,<br />
“Can you please get up this seat<br />
has already been saved?” So Tzipporah,<br />
knowing that Simi was embarrassed,<br />
screamed over,” Hey<br />
Simi, I saved you a seat. Come sit<br />
next to me.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Danielle Franco<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
One day, a girl was excluded by everyone.<br />
Someone tripped her and all<br />
her lunch fell on her. Several girls<br />
By: Aida Franco<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
There was a girl named Sally who<br />
was new in school. She was very<br />
shy and didn’t talk much. The popular<br />
By: Jeanie Schrem<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Someone walked up to my friend<br />
and I while we were eating lunch.<br />
She wanted to sit with us and my<br />
teased her,<br />
friend said, “No.” I<br />
bothered her,<br />
got sad and felt bad<br />
and even made<br />
her cry. I told<br />
my friends that<br />
we should let<br />
for the girl. So, I<br />
called her name and<br />
told her to come sit.<br />
My friend was very<br />
her sit with<br />
angry and was telling<br />
us. My friends<br />
me to make the<br />
then started<br />
girl leave. I said,<br />
to laugh. So, I<br />
went and asked<br />
her if she wanted<br />
“No. Why should<br />
I? That’s not nice.<br />
She is a very nice<br />
to sit with<br />
girl. Why can’t<br />
girl made rumors about Sally and liked her.” That day at lunch, she<br />
you just let her<br />
me at a different<br />
table. The<br />
sit?” My friend finally<br />
agreed and<br />
girl’s frown<br />
the girl sat down.<br />
turned into<br />
The next day, my<br />
a big smile.<br />
by: M.d.y. students<br />
friend said, “Tell<br />
When I sat<br />
her to sit with us today. I really<br />
with her, she told me how she felt.<br />
I felt really bad for her. Then, when<br />
told everyone not to be her friend. sat with us and my friend told her<br />
my friends saw me sitting with her<br />
One of her friends said that what to come over later. Now, we are all<br />
and not them, they all got up and<br />
she was doing wasn’t really nice. best friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
came to sit with us. A few days<br />
By: Miriam Milstein<br />
Another friend agreed with her and<br />
later, we all realized that this girl<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
soon the popular girl began to feel<br />
was just like us. So, we all became<br />
By lunch everyone was talking.<br />
like she made a mistake. The popular<br />
friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
One girl was left out. I saw her<br />
Keyword search<br />
girl asked Sally if she wanted to and changed our conversation to<br />
have lunch with her. In lunch, they include her in it. She looked so<br />
Lunchroom<br />
really bonded and now they are best happy. I was glad that I was able<br />
friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 to help her. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Buttons are like<br />
bullets.<br />
After you press<br />
‘send’ there is<br />
no way back
L u n c h<br />
time. I<br />
hate lunch!<br />
T h a t ’ s<br />
when all<br />
the groups<br />
of friends<br />
sit together<br />
By: Esther Levy and exclude<br />
other<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
girls. I always just sit in the corner of<br />
one table either studying for a subject<br />
or reading. That’s how I got so smart.<br />
While everyone is laughing, talking,<br />
and sharing stories, I am the girl that<br />
just reads during lunch. The girl that<br />
no one bothers-until yesterday. Tiffany,<br />
Ashley and some other girls<br />
kicked me off their table calling me<br />
a teacher’s pet, brat, smarty pants.<br />
That really hurt my feelings. And<br />
the worst thing is no one defended<br />
me. The next day, I was looking for<br />
someone to sit with when Amanda<br />
and Cindy came up to me and told<br />
me that what Ashley said was mean<br />
and asked me if I wanted to go with<br />
them to the mall after school. It was<br />
so much fun. Now, I have someone<br />
to tell my secrets to, and hang out<br />
with. Here is a big lie that everyone<br />
says, “Sticks and stones will break<br />
my bones but names will never hurt<br />
me.” Here is the truth. If you see<br />
someone being bullied, stand up<br />
for them. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
Once, there<br />
was a girl<br />
that had a<br />
very hard<br />
time finding<br />
friends<br />
in school<br />
b e c a u s e<br />
Danielle Amar<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
she was<br />
new to the school. At lunch time, she<br />
was sitting alone at the table. I was<br />
sitting with my friends. So, I took all<br />
my stuff and sat next to her and we<br />
became friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Odaya Shapiro<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
At lunch, there was a group of girls<br />
sitting together who are friends.<br />
They let a girl that’s also their friend<br />
join them. She brought a home lunch.<br />
It was a cream cheese sandwich. Everyone<br />
else said, “Eww, you brought<br />
cream cheese?!” That girl got so red<br />
in the face. I said, “So what, I also<br />
brought cream cheese. Maybe she<br />
didn’t have anything else to put in<br />
her sandwich.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
A new girl<br />
came to<br />
our school.<br />
She got<br />
bullied. I<br />
said, “It’s<br />
not nice.<br />
W o u l d<br />
you like<br />
By: Esther Beyda<br />
Magen David Yeshivah it if I did<br />
that to you?” The new girl Miriam<br />
said, “Thanks for that.” She was sitting<br />
all alone in lunch. I said, “Do<br />
you want to sit with us?” She said,<br />
“Yeah.” My friends said, “What are<br />
you doing?” I said, “There is this<br />
girl Miriam and she is very nice and<br />
I want us to be friends with her.”<br />
She sat at our table. All of us are<br />
friends now! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Sheila Mishan<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
One day, Gayle was sitting alone<br />
at the lunch table. The popular<br />
girls walked by her and were about<br />
to spread a rumor that she has no<br />
friends. Then my friends and I ran<br />
up to her and started giggling with<br />
her and talking with her. I was so<br />
happy that we proved the popular<br />
people wrong and we made a<br />
new friend. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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kids’ stories about<br />
b u l ly i n g at r e c e s s<br />
By: Jacqueline Zaccai<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Once, there was a girl named Abigail.<br />
She was new to our school<br />
and other girls in our grade thought<br />
of her as a new<br />
target. When I<br />
heard this, I was<br />
upset. Because<br />
she was new, she<br />
hardly knew her<br />
way around the<br />
school. It started<br />
out as bumping<br />
into her in<br />
the halls and<br />
ignoring her at<br />
recess to taunting<br />
her and writing<br />
mean things<br />
about her and<br />
‘accidentally’<br />
leaving them<br />
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on her desk. I<br />
thought this was horrible, mean and<br />
disgusting. One day, I walked into<br />
the bathroom in between classes<br />
and heard low sobbing. I knocked<br />
on the stall door and said, “Abigail,<br />
that you?” She stopped crying,<br />
took a few steps to the door, and<br />
opened it slightly. Her face was red.<br />
Her eyes were puffy. She stared at<br />
me for a second then fell onto my<br />
shoulders crying. I felt puzzled; I<br />
didn’t know what to do. “It’s not<br />
fair how they treat people around<br />
here,” she said. “I was once in the<br />
same position you were, it was horrible,”<br />
I noted. Eventually, the girls<br />
Bullying<br />
isn’t cool,<br />
it’s cruel<br />
By: Hadassah Bennett<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
I watched as Tzivi entered the room.<br />
She saw Chevy laughing with Yael<br />
and Tehila. I was forcing myself to<br />
laugh even though<br />
the joke wasn’t funny.<br />
Tzivi turned and<br />
walked out. It was sad<br />
to watch, but I knew<br />
Tzivi was not the fun<br />
type. She was quiet<br />
and plain. There is<br />
nothing special about<br />
her. But, a small part<br />
of me felt bad for her.<br />
Every time she tried<br />
to be part of the class,<br />
they turned her away.<br />
She had no friends.<br />
Chevy said, “Well,<br />
as I was saying, next<br />
time Tzivi walks in<br />
lets make her trip.<br />
I read this great book where a girl<br />
tripped face first into a chocolate<br />
pie. It was hilarious. Let’s do that to<br />
Tzivi!” she exclaimed. Yael and Tehila<br />
loved it, of course. They started<br />
giggling away. I, on the other hand,<br />
knew right form wrong. “Chevy,” I<br />
started, “This is wrong. It’s not nice<br />
to. Tzivi is a person.” “You know<br />
Tova, you’re right,” Chevy said.<br />
And they became friends with Tzivi.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
stopped teasing Abigail once they<br />
saw she had someone at her side-she<br />
wasn’t alone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Yosef Jasbiel<br />
Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />
One time, Shmuli came into the classroom<br />
early during recess with David.<br />
They saw that someone’s knapsack<br />
was poured out on the floor. To save<br />
him embarrassment, they poured out<br />
their knapsacks. So, now he won’t<br />
feel bad. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Recess<br />
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By: Sarah Chami<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
There was a new girl in our school.<br />
By: Sara Gindi<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
I know a girl, her name is Fran-<br />
She was not so smart. The teacher<br />
was asking questions about Navi.<br />
cine and she is a quiet girl with no<br />
friends. She always tries to socialize.<br />
That girl tried answering<br />
one of the<br />
questions but she<br />
got the wrong answer.<br />
Everyone was<br />
laughing so hard.<br />
The girl got so embarrassed<br />
that her<br />
face got red. After<br />
class was finished, I<br />
went to those girls<br />
and said, “You know,<br />
you’re making it like<br />
you never got an answer<br />
wrong.” And<br />
they said, “Yes we<br />
did. But, not a hilarious<br />
answer like by: M.d.y. students<br />
that.” I said, “But at least she tried<br />
Every time she comes near<br />
to answer.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 someone, they say, “She is fat,” and<br />
By: Stephanie Franco they embarrass her. When it’s lunch,<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush they don’t let her sit near them. But,<br />
If you buy cookies for the class<br />
one girl came and said, “Enough<br />
and there is one girl who is mean<br />
is enough.” She said all the good<br />
to you, you don’t want to give her<br />
things about Francine. Now, she<br />
a cookie. You see everyone is looking<br />
is so popular but she knows not to<br />
at her not having a cookie. So,<br />
you go over to her and say, “The<br />
cookie is good, no one wants to<br />
miss out.” And you give her a cookie<br />
embarrass anyone and she includes<br />
anyone she sees alone. It is not<br />
good to embarrass people because<br />
you are required to find the good<br />
as well. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 in people. Vote: 1 2 3 4<br />
5<br />
Be nice to<br />
nerds because<br />
one day you may<br />
work for one<br />
By: Virginia Dweck<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
A girl in our class gets made fun of<br />
all the time, but she never realizes it.<br />
Even though she doesn’t realize or<br />
do anything about<br />
it, a few of my<br />
friends and I stand<br />
up for her and include<br />
her in what<br />
we do even if others<br />
don’t. In this<br />
situation, I would<br />
say, “Guys you<br />
are being mean.<br />
What did she do<br />
to you?” But, I’m<br />
pretty sure they<br />
wouldn’t listen.<br />
But, that’s okay<br />
because we try and<br />
she feels good that<br />
we stand up for her<br />
and include her. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Danielle Sutton<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
There is a girl that is always left out.<br />
Her name is Jane. One day, this popular<br />
girl named Raquel said to Jane,<br />
“Your outfit is so ugly!” Jane was crying.<br />
A different girl, Rochelle, went<br />
over to Raquel and said, “Your outfit<br />
is ugly.” She did it so Jane would<br />
feel better. Raquel felt bad for what<br />
she said and said, “Sorry” to Jane.<br />
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By: Madeline Dana<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Once there was a girl who everyone<br />
made fun of because she was<br />
so perfect. She loves school and<br />
she doesn’t care about anything but<br />
One day in school, everyone in my<br />
class had these cool pens. But, one<br />
of the girls in my class was very quiet<br />
and humble and no one included<br />
getting a good<br />
grade. One day,<br />
a girl made a<br />
sleepover and<br />
everyone was<br />
talking about it<br />
and everyone<br />
said, “You’re<br />
not invited, you<br />
are a big looser.<br />
Why would you<br />
be invited?”<br />
I saw her feel<br />
very bad and<br />
she was always<br />
so embarrassed<br />
to tell her mom.<br />
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After school, she<br />
her. She didn’t have the cool pen.<br />
would cry every night. So, one night<br />
She was a little poor and she didn’t<br />
I called her and said, “Do you want to<br />
want anyone to know that she was<br />
have our own sleep over?” She said,<br />
“Yes.” So, we made sleep overs.<br />
Then everyone made fun of me because<br />
I stayed with her, but I didn’t<br />
care. We were good friends and we<br />
poor. She didn’t have the money for<br />
the pen. So she wouldn’t get laughed<br />
at by the popular girl, I gave her my<br />
pen and I saw a smile on her face<br />
ignored everyone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 brighten up. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
You don’t have<br />
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be popular<br />
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By: Tehila Dayani<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
One day at school, my friends and<br />
I were playing at recess and there<br />
was this new kid who was very shy<br />
and she didn’t really<br />
have any friends. I<br />
saw her sitting there<br />
lonely all by herself.<br />
So, I quit the game,<br />
went up to her and we<br />
started talking. But,<br />
she wasn’t that type of<br />
person who would like<br />
to play ball or tag…<br />
But, I didn’t mind.<br />
As long as she was<br />
happy, I was happy.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Renee Hadef<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Regine dresses very pretty. Unfortunately,<br />
Leah, a popular girl<br />
was jealous and said Regine wears<br />
the ugliest clothes. I saw Regine’s<br />
face, how so sad she was holding<br />
in her cry. I walked up to Leah and<br />
said, “Stop picking on her.” She<br />
said it was none of my business.<br />
Than she realized what she had<br />
done. She apologized and never did<br />
it again. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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One day<br />
e v e r y o n e<br />
was playing<br />
and<br />
M i c h e l l e<br />
c a m e<br />
and said,<br />
“Can I<br />
By: Raquel Erdos play?” We<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush all said,<br />
“Yes,” except one girl said, “No.”<br />
She made her go away and Michelle<br />
started crying. We all felt very bad.<br />
The girl that said, “No”, her name<br />
is Grace, the girl who said “No”<br />
said, “we are going to spill water<br />
on the floor and let her play, when<br />
she comes she will fall and everyone<br />
will start laughing.” Everyone<br />
who was playing the game went to<br />
Michelle and said to her, “Grace<br />
has a plan to let you play, but she is<br />
going to put water on the floor, so<br />
don’t go.” The next day Grace said,<br />
“Hey Michelle, you want to play<br />
with us?” Michelle forgot and said<br />
yes. We were playing and, all of the<br />
sudden, Michelle fell and everyone<br />
stated to laugh. We all felt bad so<br />
I went and ‘fell’ and everyone was<br />
‘falling’ and she didn’t feel bad anymore.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
My friend,<br />
A l l y s o n ,<br />
was a really<br />
great<br />
friend. She<br />
never talked<br />
much.<br />
But she<br />
Nancy Toussie didn’t talk<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
b e c a u s e<br />
everyone was jealous that she was<br />
voted smartest in the grade. She was<br />
short, and every day at recess, a few<br />
people bullied her. One day, I saw<br />
my best friend Allyson sitting on the<br />
side crying with people next to her<br />
making fun of her. That was the day<br />
we were assigned a poster to make<br />
an ‘anti-bullying’ poster. My poster<br />
said, “Words can hurt just as much<br />
as punches.” And, there were two<br />
boxing gloves hanging. I gave in my<br />
project and I got an A+. I was really<br />
happy. Next day at recess, I took my<br />
poster and marched around with it<br />
getting a lot of people to hold their<br />
signs and march as well. The bullies<br />
went away from Allyson because<br />
everyone scared them. Allyson was<br />
happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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for recess<br />
for the 6th<br />
grade. The<br />
three prettiest<br />
girls<br />
were playing<br />
jump<br />
By: Jamie Sutton<br />
rope. Their<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
names were Emily, Jane, and Molly.<br />
They never let anyone play with<br />
them. One of Molly’s friends was<br />
Susan. Susan was a shy girl who<br />
didn’t have many friends. Susan<br />
really loved to play jump rope. So,<br />
she asked Emily, Jane, and Molly<br />
if she could play. They had a small<br />
conversation in private to discuss<br />
whether they are going to let Susan<br />
play. Molly said, “I think we should<br />
let her play.” Emily replied, “But<br />
if we let her play, we would have<br />
to let every girl who asks to play<br />
with us.” Jane said, “So it’s settled,<br />
we won’t let her play.” Molly said,<br />
“Or, we can just let everyone play!”<br />
In the end, they had a big great<br />
game of jump rope and everyone<br />
was happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Rina Derrancesco<br />
By: Becky Johnson<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
My friend and I were once playing<br />
One day, my friends and I were<br />
at school when a girl invited us<br />
to play tag. We both said, “Sure.”<br />
The girl looked at my friend and<br />
playing a game when someone<br />
came over and asked if they could<br />
play. My friends started laughing<br />
said, “Not you.”<br />
I said, “If she<br />
doesn’t go, then<br />
I don’t.” My<br />
friend touched<br />
my shoulder and<br />
said, “You can<br />
go I’ll be fine.”<br />
At first, I stood<br />
back and then<br />
I went. A lot of<br />
people don’t<br />
like my friend. I<br />
feel so bad when<br />
people don’t include<br />
her. After<br />
and said, “No, we have enough<br />
10 minutes, I<br />
decided I felt so<br />
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bad I couldn’t play. So, I stopped<br />
and I said, “Why don’t we invite<br />
her to join us?” I pointed at my<br />
friend. At first, the girl who invited<br />
me said, “No.” But, then everyone<br />
started saying, “Yes.” So, we invited<br />
people, so you could walk away<br />
now.” The girl started blushing and<br />
walked away sadly. I think I saw a<br />
tear running down her face. I told<br />
my friends how mean they were<br />
her over and had a fun time.<br />
and told them I was going to play<br />
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with her. We played with each other<br />
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Girls’ bullying<br />
is hard<br />
to detect<br />
and became friends. Going to play<br />
with her was the best decision I<br />
ever made. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Fanya Dorin<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
On Shushan Purim, Megan brought<br />
the entire class Mishloach Manot.<br />
They were healthy and had fruits<br />
and vegetables. Everyone was very<br />
disappointed. Megan<br />
started apologizing<br />
and I could tell that<br />
she was very embarrassed.<br />
So, I took out<br />
the raisin box from the<br />
Mishloach Manot and<br />
said, ‘Oh my gosh! I<br />
love raisins, especially<br />
this kind.” Everyone<br />
started to eat the raisins<br />
and Megan was so<br />
happy her face lit up.<br />
To embarrass someone<br />
is equivalent to stabbing<br />
them to death. The<br />
reason for that is when<br />
someone is hurt emotionally,<br />
their heart breaks. That’s<br />
why I don’t embarrass my friends.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Chayala Goldbaum<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
There was a whole group of girls<br />
talking by recess. One girl was<br />
standing on the side all alone because<br />
she is very shy. I left the<br />
whole group of popular girls and<br />
went to talk to her. Her face lit up<br />
when I went over to her. I knew I had<br />
made her day. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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When I<br />
was in<br />
3rd grade,<br />
my friend<br />
was being<br />
very rude<br />
and mean<br />
By: Frieda Zeitoune<br />
to someone.<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
She<br />
got the whole class to hate her. She<br />
was trying to get me to join her and<br />
hate her, too! I tried to tell as many<br />
people as possible not to make fun<br />
of her because she is my best friend<br />
and she is a great person. Only three<br />
people wanted to be friends with<br />
her. The mean girl came to me and<br />
said, “Why are you hanging out<br />
with the loser?” I said, “Because she<br />
is nice, fun, smart, and trustworthy<br />
and the best friend anybody can ever<br />
have.” Ever since then, everybody<br />
was friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
The new<br />
girl sat in<br />
the corner.<br />
I wondered<br />
why<br />
she never<br />
spoke to<br />
a n y o n e .<br />
By: Florence Deutsch One of<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush my friends<br />
whispered to me, “That girl is so<br />
weird, why is it that she never<br />
talks?” I whispered back, “I don’t<br />
know but I am going to talk to her.”<br />
I walked over to her and said, “Hi,<br />
what’s your name?” She didn’t answer.<br />
I asked her for the rest of the<br />
week, “Hi, what’s your name?” Still<br />
no answer. Finally, my friends also<br />
came and asked her to play with<br />
us. She asked, “Is this a joke?” We<br />
all replied back, “No. Why?” She<br />
said, “Because in my old school<br />
everyone would make fun of me<br />
because I was shy and I wore different<br />
clothes. So do you still want<br />
to play with us?” We all replied,<br />
“Yes.” We got to know her and now<br />
we are best friends. I still wonder<br />
why we ever thought she was<br />
different! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Rachel Gammal<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Once there was a girl. She came from<br />
a different school. She was smart and<br />
shy. The whole class made fun of her<br />
and she started to cry. So, I told everyone<br />
not to make fun of her. I went<br />
over to her and said, “Don’t worry.”<br />
She started to talk and it made her<br />
happy to know that someone was by<br />
her side. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
There is a<br />
new girl<br />
in school.<br />
She is from<br />
a different<br />
c o u n t r y<br />
so she has<br />
an accent<br />
By: Sara Shtaynberger and weird<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush c l o t h i n g .<br />
This one girl said that she wants to<br />
make fun of her in recess. A different<br />
girl heard that and decided to<br />
defend the new girl. In recess, she<br />
saw the mean girl walk up to that<br />
girl with all of her friends so that<br />
girl ran up to the teacher and told<br />
her and the mean girl got detention.<br />
After that day, they were best<br />
friends for life and went everywhere<br />
together. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Janelle Missry<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
There once was a girl named Julie.<br />
She was new to a school. All she<br />
wanted to do was to fit in and make<br />
friends. On her first day in school,<br />
she felt a little bit anxious but she<br />
felt very….nervous. She said “Hi”<br />
to people she saw in her class. All<br />
the girls reacted in such a mean<br />
way. They turned around and they<br />
giggled and made her cry. There<br />
was one girl who thought it was<br />
so mean and disgusting. So, she<br />
stopped them and they all became<br />
good friends and learned from their<br />
mistake. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Stephanie Dweck<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
A group of girls are making fun of<br />
one girl about how she looked even<br />
though it was just her bad hair day.<br />
I looked back and saw this happening.<br />
I told people that I want to mess<br />
up our hair and make ourselves look<br />
like a mess. We went to the group<br />
that was making fun of that girl and<br />
asked if they liked how we looked.<br />
The girl being made fun of had a big<br />
smile because we all looked crazy<br />
and the mean group didn’t have<br />
enough insults to insult all of us and<br />
had to give up. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Ruthie Gindi<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
On Friday, everyone was making<br />
plans after school. Joy invited<br />
everyone except for one girl. This<br />
girl, Danielle, was watching her<br />
invite them and<br />
By: Rena Cohen<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
In my old class, I used to fit in with<br />
the girls. But, when I came to this<br />
new class, I only had one friend<br />
By: Zahava Zutler<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
There is a girl sitting on the side. She<br />
is left out, lonely. She looks sadly at<br />
the in crowd laughing, telling jokes,<br />
having fun. She wishes she could<br />
be part of that group.<br />
she wished she<br />
She looks down at the<br />
was invited. She<br />
floor so they won’t see<br />
pretended that<br />
the tears slowly dropping<br />
she didn’t notice<br />
down her face.<br />
them and<br />
And then she hears a<br />
put her books in<br />
voice saying, “Wanna<br />
play?” She looked up<br />
her locker. One<br />
with a hopeful look<br />
of the girls who<br />
on her face. A girl was<br />
was invited saw<br />
looking at HER, asking<br />
HER. She wipes<br />
the girl who was<br />
about to cry. She<br />
her tears on her sleeve,<br />
told Joy, who<br />
gets up happily, and<br />
was inviting everyone,<br />
joins the game. That<br />
that she<br />
girl just made her day.<br />
saw that Danielle<br />
felt bad and<br />
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who was on my block. But she was<br />
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asked if she could invite her. She<br />
with a clique already, which was the<br />
Yeshiva of Flatbush<br />
told her secretly so she wouldn’t<br />
When school starts on Fridays, Shabbat<br />
music fills the halls. The girls in<br />
popular clique. So, of course, I was<br />
embarrass her. Joy said, “No. I<br />
left out until a nice girl came over<br />
don’t like her, she is weird.” So, the<br />
the grade always come together to<br />
to me and said, “Do you want to<br />
girl who told Joy said, “Ok. So may<br />
sing one song. This Friday, when the<br />
play tag with me?” With excitement<br />
be next week we’ll make plans.”<br />
song was almost over, Ava saw Chana<br />
shyly approaching. She didn’t<br />
in me, I got up and went to play.<br />
She went over to Marilyn and invited<br />
her over. They ended up having<br />
Now, when I see someone alone know where to break into the circle<br />
a very fun time. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 and have no friends, I get up and so Ava moved over. Chana smiled<br />
and walked over. Chana seemed so<br />
ask them, “Do you want to play?”<br />
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By: Adele Zaga<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
A horrible rumor was spreading<br />
from person to person about Leslie.<br />
She was crying so badly. Once I saw<br />
her tears fall down her red cheeks,<br />
There was once a time when I<br />
was in 6th grade and my friends<br />
started picking on 5th graders. I<br />
found out and told them to stop<br />
I decided to fix this.<br />
I couldn’t stand seeing<br />
a person cry from<br />
a rumor about her that<br />
wasn’t even true. Once<br />
the rumor got to me, I<br />
changed it up a little to<br />
what really happened.<br />
Once everyone heard<br />
it, they understood<br />
the misunderstanding<br />
and apologized. I<br />
hope you never know<br />
what it’s like to be in<br />
this situation. This horrible<br />
thing should never<br />
happen in the world.<br />
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By: Marcelle Shasho<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
One day, we were all in recess. A<br />
few of my friends and I were playing<br />
a game. One girl asked to play<br />
and they didn’t want her to play.<br />
They said there were too many<br />
people. So, I said, “I played yesterday<br />
already. She can play instead<br />
of me.” They said, “Fine,<br />
she can also play.” They enjoyed<br />
playing with her and they became<br />
close friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
Don’t be<br />
mean behind<br />
the screen<br />
because they are also people and<br />
we hated it when the former 6th<br />
graders did it to us. They hesitated<br />
to stop but then they realized<br />
what they were doing and felt<br />
bad and stopped. This shows that<br />
when you are doing something<br />
bad, think about how you felt or<br />
would feel if it ever happened<br />
to you. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Shira Falcheri<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Shani, Devori, Tamar and I were all<br />
standing around. Shani said, “Oh my<br />
gosh, Rina’s boots are so ugly.” Rina<br />
was standing 5 feet away. I quickly<br />
added, “You<br />
are jealous.<br />
Her boots are<br />
so cute.” Shani<br />
immediately<br />
saw what I was<br />
doing and said,<br />
“Of course. I<br />
was being sarcastic.”<br />
She<br />
walked over to<br />
Rina and asked<br />
her where she<br />
got her boots<br />
from. She<br />
made a whole<br />
fuss about<br />
them.<br />
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By: Odette Sardar<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
If I would see someone crying<br />
or getting picked on or lonely, I<br />
would go to her and talk to her.<br />
Sarah is a new girl and no one likes<br />
her. I would tell her, “Don’t worry,<br />
don’t cry. It doesn’t matter what<br />
people think. It only matters what<br />
you think. So, don’t cry; ignore<br />
them. Be yourself.” She would<br />
feel better. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Antebi, Evelyn<br />
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Betesh, Lois<br />
Bildirici, Daniel<br />
Blanco, Fatima<br />
Catton, Michael<br />
Chami, Sarah<br />
Cohen, Toby<br />
Dana, Madeline<br />
Elbaz, Maurice<br />
Faham, Joe<br />
Franco, Danielle<br />
Guindi, David<br />
Guindi, Linda<br />
Guindi, Victor<br />
Haber, Frieda<br />
Haber, Molly<br />
Harari , Allison<br />
Hayfaz, Jacob<br />
Hedaya, Joe<br />
Ishay, Abie<br />
Ishay, Aaron<br />
Kassab, Isaac<br />
Kassab, Michael<br />
Khafif, Nissim<br />
Khaski, Jimmy<br />
Laniado, Teddy<br />
Levi, Michael<br />
Levi, Solomon<br />
Sardar, Audrey<br />
Sardar, Lori<br />
Sardar, Odette<br />
Sardar, Teddy<br />
Sasson, Jacqueline<br />
Shamma, Teddy<br />
Shweky, Neil<br />
Sitt, Albert<br />
Sutton, Abie<br />
Tawil, Sara<br />
Zarif, Morris<br />
Chera, Jacob<br />
Dweck, Stephanie<br />
Dweck, Virginia<br />
Hadar, Phyllis<br />
Hoffstein, Diana<br />
Kishk, Judah<br />
Mamiye, Morris<br />
Manopla, Francine<br />
Menashe, Helen<br />
Sasson, Esther<br />
Tawil, Bonnie<br />
Toussie, Nancy<br />
Zalta, Michelle<br />
Zami, Rebecca<br />
S.L.C.<br />
Aini, Joseph<br />
Segev, Daniel<br />
Shalom, Morris<br />
Srour, Laurie<br />
Beyda, Robert<br />
Cohen, Merle<br />
Dweck, Victoria<br />
Franco, Sheila Lauren<br />
Franco, Mal<br />
Haddad, Eddie<br />
Hamowy, Daniel<br />
Kassin, Meyer<br />
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Kraiem, Ralph<br />
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Schrem, Jeanie<br />
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Mishan, Sheila<br />
Silvera, Jacob<br />
Ayal, Richie<br />
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Dweck, Sonia<br />
Franco, Stephanie<br />
Gindi, Jayne<br />
Gindi, Ruthie<br />
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Mishaan, Rose<br />
Saka, Charlie<br />
Saka, Terri<br />
Schweky, Isaac Ralph<br />
Zagha, Rebecca<br />
Har Halevanon<br />
Grego, Charles<br />
Salameh, Eddy<br />
Salameh, Morris<br />
Shouela, Jacob<br />
Zeitoune, Frieda<br />
Ahi Ezer<br />
Chalouh, Judy<br />
Kameo, David<br />
Fl atbush Park J.C.<br />
Cohen, Gabi<br />
Shapiro, Naomi<br />
Beth shaul<br />
u miriam<br />
Aballi, Eli<br />
Dayan, Maurice<br />
Bnei Yehuda<br />
Cohen, Shlomo<br />
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Cohen, Sophia<br />
Kamkhatchi, Mayer<br />
Levy, Esther<br />
Levy, Sarah<br />
Mattout, Eddie<br />
Mosseri, Susan<br />
Rahmey, David<br />
Rahmey, Jack<br />
Shacalo, David<br />
Suede, Marilyn<br />
Tbeile, Rachel<br />
Tebele, Jeanette<br />
Yedid, Amy<br />
Zaccai, Jacqueline<br />
Zonana, Rosie<br />
Magen Abraham<br />
Jemal, Patricia<br />
Marcus, Bridgette<br />
Serouga, Elliot<br />
Shrem, Jimmie<br />
wEST lONG bRANCH<br />
Cohen, Lee Ann<br />
Matut, Sheila<br />
Mizrahi, Karen<br />
Tawil, Grace<br />
Shevet Achim<br />
Jaradeh. Victor<br />
Saadia, Josh<br />
Akerman, Elliot<br />
Benzaken, Lilly<br />
Douek, Bella<br />
Gammal, Rachel<br />
Massry, Rayomond<br />
Mosseri, Freddie<br />
Mosseri, Joey<br />
Mosseri, Ruthie<br />
Mosseri, Solly<br />
Salama, Ninette<br />
Savdie, Irwin<br />
Shama, Viviane<br />
Zaga, Adele<br />
Brothers of<br />
Israel<br />
Braverman, Zack<br />
Haimowitz, Sean<br />
Anderson, Robert<br />
Gopin, Isabella<br />
Edmond Safra<br />
Beyda, Daniel<br />
Sabbagh, Joshua<br />
Yad Yosef<br />
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Cohen, Marlena<br />
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Dweck, Joey<br />
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Kamkaji, Solomon<br />
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Kids helping kids who are<br />
teased for being different<br />
By: Yisrael Rosenfeld<br />
Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />
There was once a boy named Yehuda.<br />
Let’s just say he was not the<br />
most popular kid in the class. He was<br />
always being<br />
made fun of.<br />
Kids were calling<br />
him names<br />
like, “monkey”,<br />
“munch<br />
milk”. You<br />
might think it’s<br />
funny but it really<br />
hurt him.<br />
Then, one day,<br />
a kid named<br />
Shmuel called<br />
over Yitzi, the<br />
most popular<br />
kid who made<br />
fun of Yehuda<br />
the most.<br />
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Shmuel said,<br />
“I think you are hurting Yehuda’s<br />
feelings.” “I know,” replied Yitzi.<br />
“Then why do you do it?” said Shmuel.<br />
“Because it’s fun,” said Yitzi.<br />
“Well, if you were in Yehuda’s place<br />
would you also find it funny? You<br />
would feel bad.” “I guess so. I will<br />
stop,” said Yitzi. “Thank you,” said<br />
Shmuel. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Being different<br />
By: Yaakov Mermelstein<br />
Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />
There was once a new boy in my<br />
class. He was short, fat, had an accent.<br />
Nobody in my class likes him.<br />
You can make<br />
people laugh<br />
without hurting<br />
someone<br />
He didn’t understand English. One<br />
time, the Rabbi called on him and<br />
he answered the questions with a<br />
dumb answer. My friend started<br />
laughing and that boy turned red.<br />
Later that day, I went over to the kid<br />
who laughed and asked him, “How<br />
would you have felt if you were that<br />
new kid?” He understood what I<br />
meant and went over to the new kid<br />
and apologized. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Rosie Zonana<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
It was the first day of school and<br />
there was a new girl from England<br />
and she was shy and didn’t know<br />
anyone. Her name was<br />
Linda. There was club<br />
and everyone was making<br />
fun of her because<br />
she had a little problem<br />
when she talks. Linda<br />
also has an accent and<br />
looks different because<br />
she is from England.<br />
I was watching and<br />
she was about to cry.<br />
I couldn’t take it anymore<br />
so I said, “Guys,<br />
it’s really not nice.”<br />
They all laughed at me.<br />
The next day, I invited<br />
her over and then I told<br />
the other girls, “You<br />
know Linda is very nice and I don’t<br />
know how you are not her friend.”<br />
They believed me and we are all best<br />
friends now. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Maurice Dayan<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
If someone wore two different<br />
kinds of socks and people made<br />
fun of him, I would say, “Stop!<br />
Just think if you made that same<br />
mistake?” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Ninette Salama<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
There was once a boy named Jim.<br />
He was new to our class. Everyone<br />
made fun of him by the way<br />
he dressed. Jim wore<br />
collars other kids<br />
didn’t. They would<br />
always call him four<br />
eyes because he had<br />
glasses. Another kid,<br />
Larry, used to be bullied<br />
like that. Larry<br />
said to Jim, “I used<br />
to be bullied like that.<br />
But you shouldn’t let<br />
them do that. Stand<br />
up for yourself. Say, I<br />
am not scared. Maybe<br />
I am new and don’t<br />
wear your kind of<br />
clothes. That’s who<br />
I am. Back off.” Jim said, “Thank<br />
you” and went to the bullies and said<br />
exactly what Larry told him to. The<br />
bullies backed off and didn’t bother<br />
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By: Ruthie Mosseri<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
A new kid was in class today. She<br />
seemed different. Everyone was<br />
talking about her and she looked shy<br />
and worried. At lunch time, Rachel<br />
Treat others<br />
the way you<br />
want to be<br />
treated<br />
went over to the new girl and started<br />
talking to her. She had an English<br />
accent and people at the other table<br />
were laughing. Rachel went over to<br />
them because they happened to be<br />
her friends. She stood up for this girl<br />
and told them how they were obnoxious.<br />
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Being different<br />
By: Helen Menashe<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
One day, someone was commenting<br />
how her shirt looked ugly and childish.<br />
She sat quietly like she simply<br />
didn’t care. I saw that she was upset.<br />
So, I got up and<br />
asked the “Bully”<br />
if I could<br />
talk to her quietly.<br />
She agreed<br />
and I told her<br />
she was hurting<br />
this girl’s<br />
feelings. She<br />
honestly didn’t<br />
realize and felt<br />
so bad. She said<br />
she was only<br />
doing it as a<br />
joke; she ran<br />
to my friend,<br />
gave her a hug<br />
and apologized.<br />
That “Bully” never made fun of anyone<br />
ever again. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Meyer Kassin<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
One day, a boy went to school and<br />
he got braces. He looked very ugly<br />
in braces. Everyone laughed at him.<br />
There was a boy who said, “Everyone,<br />
he is the first person to get braces.<br />
I think that is so cool!” Everyone<br />
agreed and no one made fun of him<br />
anymore. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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R e b e c c a<br />
was a<br />
new girl<br />
in school.<br />
Sara was<br />
one of<br />
the mean<br />
girls. Sara<br />
By: Elizabeth Setton wanted to<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush find a way<br />
to embarrass Rebecca. So, Sara and<br />
her clique decided to go over to Rebecca<br />
and tell her tomorrow is Pajama<br />
Day. Rebecca came to school<br />
the next day wearing her teddy pajamas.<br />
Sara saw this and announced<br />
on the loud speaker that Rebecca<br />
was wearing pajamas. Rebecca ran<br />
to the bathroom. Nadine knew this<br />
was very wrong and ran after her to<br />
the bathroom. Nadine and Rebecca<br />
walked out of the bathroom together.<br />
Nadine told Rebecca to ignore everyone.<br />
This made Rebecca feel so<br />
good. Rebecca and Nadine became<br />
best friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Isaac Shalom<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
There was a kid with an accent and<br />
he didn’t know how to speak English<br />
good. When he was supposed<br />
to say ‘was’ he said ‘vas’. Everyone<br />
was laughing and him. I told<br />
everyone, “How you would feel if<br />
you would have got making fun of.<br />
Everyone stopped making fun of<br />
him. He was very happy because of<br />
what I did. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Sarah just<br />
moved in to<br />
the neighb<br />
o r h o o d .<br />
My school<br />
has a certain<br />
clothing<br />
style.<br />
By: Naomi Shapiro E v e r y o n e<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush wears similar<br />
clothes. On Sarah’s first day, I<br />
saw that she didn’t really wear the<br />
clothes that were in fashion in our<br />
school. People were pointing and<br />
laughing at her. I could tell that<br />
she was embarrassed. So, I went<br />
to her and told her about what we<br />
wear. She thanked me so much and<br />
the next day she was accepted by<br />
everyone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Toby Cohen<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Let’s say someone makes fun of<br />
someone because the guy is weird.<br />
There is no point to make fun of<br />
him because no one is perfect. People<br />
could be weird but that doesn’t<br />
mean he wants to be perfect. A lot<br />
of people think they’re perfect but<br />
they are not. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Say<br />
“NO”<br />
to<br />
cliques<br />
There was<br />
a fat girl<br />
named Ren<br />
e e a n d<br />
e v e r y o n e<br />
made fun of<br />
her. So, Susan<br />
wanted<br />
to help<br />
By: Rachel Kastner<br />
her lose<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
weight. Susan<br />
would go to the gym with Renee<br />
and, within 3 months, Renee lost a lot<br />
of weight. The two girls became best<br />
friends. No one made fun of Renee<br />
and understood that anyone can lose<br />
weight. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Dina Bracha Bohensky<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
During the Chanukkah Chagiga,<br />
while everyone was dancing, laughing<br />
or singing, Suri was sitting on<br />
the side doing nothing. Nobody<br />
wanted to have anything to do with<br />
her because she talked and looked<br />
weird. Then one girl came over to<br />
her and said, “Come on Suri, join<br />
us. Could you please tell us joke?<br />
I know you are really good at it.<br />
Last time you had me laughing<br />
for hours.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Kids’ strategies to include<br />
weak players in the game<br />
By: Jacob Silvera<br />
By: Mal Franco<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
One day, the whole basketball team If you are playing a football game<br />
decided that they were going to eat and there is a person that is not so<br />
pizza at the pizza place after practice.<br />
good, ask him if he wants to play.<br />
But, there was one kid who was When he is playing, throw him the<br />
a new kid in school<br />
and didn’t know a<br />
lot of people. After<br />
practice, we all<br />
got dressed and we<br />
were walking out<br />
of the gym to go<br />
to the pizza store.<br />
But, this one kid<br />
was sitting there<br />
waiting for someone<br />
to pick him up<br />
from school. He<br />
looked lonely. So<br />
I went over to him<br />
quietly and asked<br />
him if he wanted<br />
to come for pizza.<br />
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He said yes, and he was<br />
ball. Let him try to play and catch<br />
very happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
the ball. Even if he is not so good<br />
By: Teddy Shamma<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
and misses the ball, say: “It’s ok.<br />
It was my fault, it was a bad throw.<br />
Once, I was having a basketball<br />
Even I couldn’t catch it.” Make<br />
game. The kids didn’t want one boy<br />
him feel good and let him play<br />
to play. So, I said, “If he is not playing,<br />
I’m not playing.” Then we found<br />
with you. This will make him feel<br />
a ball and we started shooting for fun.<br />
very happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
We kept on shooting and practicing.<br />
Than he ended up making it on the<br />
basketball team. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Accept someone<br />
for who he is<br />
and not for<br />
who you want<br />
him to be<br />
By: Nessim Azizo<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
I went to play baseball and everyone<br />
knew that Jack is the worst player.<br />
I felt bad because he always gets<br />
picked last. My friend Mike was the<br />
captain. I went up to<br />
him to tell him that<br />
he should pick Jack<br />
first. He didn’t understand<br />
but he listened<br />
to me. Once<br />
we started to play,<br />
Jack kept on striking<br />
out. Mike was<br />
very upset with me.<br />
Later in the game, I<br />
gave Jack some tips<br />
about swinging. After<br />
he listened to me,<br />
Jack got a single and<br />
brought in 2 runs!<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Solomon Kamkaji<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
You are playing football and there<br />
are nine kids. They were going to<br />
have a four and four. Your friend<br />
was left out and you felt bad for<br />
him. You make believe you are hurt<br />
and say you can’t play. Then, you<br />
offer to put your friend that was left<br />
out in the game. So, now you made<br />
your friend feel happy and you feel<br />
even better. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Teddy Sardar<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
One day when I was at Sunday’s program,<br />
there was a person who isn’t<br />
so good at basketball. So, almost every<br />
time I got the ball, I passed the<br />
ball to him. Even<br />
though he missed I<br />
said, “Good shot.”<br />
And I kept on passing<br />
to him until<br />
he scored. When<br />
we finished the<br />
game, I helped him<br />
practice his shot.<br />
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By: Ariel Davidov<br />
Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />
There was a new<br />
kid in class named<br />
Dovid. He was a<br />
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very shy kid and when we played<br />
baseball he couldn’t play because it<br />
had to be 4 on 4. So, I quit playing<br />
and he played instead of me. Someone<br />
from the 8th grade started picking<br />
on him. I went over to him and<br />
said, “What’s your problem? Pick<br />
on someone your own age.” He left<br />
Dovid alone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Albert Sitt<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
There was a shy kid named David.<br />
David was on our team in basketball.<br />
The score was 57-55, the other<br />
team was winning. There were 5<br />
A bully’s<br />
oxygen is his<br />
audience<br />
seconds left. I had the ball, I passed<br />
it to David, and he shot it and<br />
missed. Everyone was screaming at<br />
him and I said, “Don’t worry. We’ll<br />
win the next time. It’s just a game.”<br />
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By: Teddy Laniado<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
I was playing basketball and there<br />
were a lot of people and one person<br />
was not allowed to play. I said, “If<br />
he doesn’t play, I won’t play either.”<br />
They really wanted<br />
me to play so they<br />
let both of us play.<br />
I knew from the beginning<br />
that he was<br />
good but they didn’t<br />
know it. In the middle<br />
of the game,<br />
nobody was passing<br />
to him so I kept<br />
on passing to him.<br />
Now they pick him<br />
first for the team.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Victor Orfali<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Let’s say there is<br />
a boy who isn’t<br />
so good in baseball and the team<br />
is in the bottom of the ninth inning<br />
and there are two outs and<br />
2 strikes and right after the next<br />
pitch he striked out. The whole<br />
team was going to hurt him but<br />
one kid said, “Why are you doing<br />
that? Accidents happen all the time.<br />
Don’t act like you never made a<br />
mistake.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Victoria Gindi<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
When my friends and I were playing<br />
dodge ball, we had captains to<br />
choose who would be on which<br />
team. Sophia was picked last and<br />
you could see on her face she was<br />
a little sad, but not surprised. When<br />
she got the ball, she would always<br />
give it to someone else to throw. I<br />
felt bad for her<br />
and decided to<br />
do something<br />
about it. I threw<br />
the ball towards<br />
her making<br />
sure I threw it<br />
lightly. I wanted<br />
her to catch it<br />
and get me out.<br />
She caught it<br />
and everyone<br />
was cheering<br />
because I am a<br />
good player. After<br />
that, she felt<br />
great and had<br />
the confidence<br />
to throw the ball and she turned out<br />
to be great! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Abie Ishay<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
When my friend was playing football<br />
with me, people didn’t give him<br />
passes. I asked my friend if I could<br />
quarterback and he let me. So, I<br />
passed to him a lot. He got a lot of<br />
touchdowns from these passes and<br />
he felt good. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Aaron Ishay<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
I once saw a person that has a hard<br />
time playing football. One day, I<br />
taught him how to catch a ball. Everyone<br />
thinks it takes so long but<br />
it really doesn’t. I also taught him<br />
how to throw a ball. Even though he<br />
can’t throw a ball so far, I let him<br />
It takes a<br />
second to say<br />
a word, but<br />
the impact<br />
lasts forever<br />
be the quarterback. He gave a few<br />
short passes and we ended up winning<br />
that game. That was impressive<br />
because it was only his second<br />
day on our team in the playoffs. We<br />
were in second place all because<br />
of the kid I taught how to throw<br />
and catch. At the end of the season,<br />
we got in the finals and won it.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Sepora Beyda<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Me and my friend, on a beautiful<br />
day outside, were playing catch and<br />
my friend told me, “Oh, look at that<br />
girl over there. Ugh, look what she<br />
is wearing.” And I said, “I felt bad<br />
for her because she is really nice and<br />
sweet.” I knew she was embarrassed<br />
to ask us if she wanted<br />
to play because the<br />
girl I was playing with<br />
used to make fun of<br />
her a lot. So, I asked<br />
her if she wanted to<br />
play with us and I told<br />
my friend to play with<br />
her once and to try to<br />
be nice. So, we had a<br />
lot of fun the rest of<br />
the day and I inspired<br />
my other friend to<br />
play with that girl.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Isaac Kassab<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
I was playing football once and it<br />
was a tie game. It was 4th down<br />
and we were 50 yards from the<br />
touch down. Quagmire was open<br />
for the pass. I threw it to him, he<br />
missed. Although it was a good<br />
throw and he missed, I blamed myself.<br />
I said that it slipped from my<br />
hand and I made him feel good. I<br />
got blamed but at least he didn’t get<br />
embarrassed. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Isaac Marcus<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
When I am on one of the teams and When I was playing football, there<br />
my friend is picking teams, I always were good players and bad players.<br />
see some kids who are just sitting,<br />
I picked the bad players be-<br />
waiting to get picked, and I feel very cause they always get left out when<br />
sorry for them. Like I have a friend, we play. We ended up winning but<br />
Steven, who isn’t so good at sports. winning doesn’t matter. Everyone<br />
I always try to<br />
help and teach<br />
him. I hear<br />
people making<br />
fun of him and<br />
I say, “Why do<br />
you have to<br />
call him names<br />
all the time because<br />
he miss-<br />
A bully’s<br />
es the catch bystanders<br />
or the shot?”<br />
have the most<br />
I told Steven<br />
to come<br />
influence<br />
to my house<br />
to stop it<br />
on Sunday.<br />
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On Sunday, he<br />
came over and asked me, “Why did laughed when I picked them. After<br />
you tell me to come over?” I said, the game, I laughed at them because<br />
“I hate the way people are making they had the best players and we<br />
fun of you because you miss the had the worst players and we won.<br />
shots.” So, that Sunday Steven and I Hashem rewarded me by picking<br />
were practicing. On Monday, he was the bad players. He made my heart<br />
playing football with us. My friends feel good. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
and I saw how much better he was<br />
and no longer did anyone call him<br />
names. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Game<br />
Maurice Elbaz<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
You can make an excuse that you<br />
need more people to play a game.<br />
For example, if you and your<br />
friends are bored and are trying<br />
to come up with ideas and your<br />
friends have ideas, you can say that<br />
we should ask the shy<br />
kid’s idea and include<br />
him in fun even if you<br />
have great ideas. And,<br />
if the shy kid makes<br />
a mistake or something<br />
silly you can say,<br />
“That’s what I thought.”<br />
You could start being<br />
friends with that kid<br />
and your friend will<br />
follow in your lead.<br />
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By: Richie Ayal<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
If you are playing any<br />
sport and there is a kid<br />
that is not so good, it doesn’t mean<br />
you don’t pass to him. If you pass<br />
to him and he misses, it’s ok. Just<br />
continue. Don’t embarrass him in<br />
front of everyone. It’s not nice.<br />
Let’s say he scores the shot and<br />
he wins the game. You see, anything<br />
could happen. Just trust them<br />
and pass. You never know what<br />
could happen. It’s all about trying.<br />
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Everyone is invited to a party<br />
except for your friend<br />
By: Amy Yedid<br />
Joy up to her room and gave her a<br />
By: Rozie Shamah<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
nice dress to wear. If you don’t want<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
A girl named Renee was throwing a<br />
There was a girl and she invited the<br />
to feel that way, don’t do it to someone<br />
else! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
party in her house for her Bat <strong>Mitzvah</strong>.<br />
She invited the whole grade.<br />
Renee. Renee lived across the street<br />
whole class over except for one girl,<br />
Renee is very<br />
from her. When I got<br />
popular and felt<br />
like the only reason<br />
she is popular<br />
there everyone was already<br />
there. They were<br />
all playing a game of<br />
is because<br />
“free for all together.”<br />
she makes fun of<br />
Then I started playing<br />
with them, but, while I<br />
people. At Renee’s<br />
house, a girl<br />
was playing, I realized<br />
that Renee was watching<br />
us through the win-<br />
named Joy was<br />
drinking apple<br />
dow and she looked<br />
juice and she was<br />
sad. I told my friend to<br />
wearing a white<br />
dress. Renee sent<br />
someone to move<br />
call Renee and say that<br />
she thought she sent her<br />
the invite. My friend<br />
Joy’s hand so the<br />
did and Renee came<br />
drink would spill. by: M.d.y. students<br />
and we all played the<br />
When that person did that, the juice<br />
By: Rachel Russo<br />
game together. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
spilled all over her. Renee took the<br />
By: Michal S.<br />
One day in school, a girl named Jamie<br />
announced that whoever she My friend Devory is making a party<br />
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microphone and was about to say,<br />
“Look at Joy. She had an accident.”<br />
texted is invited to her birthday and she didn’t invite a girl who was<br />
But, right before she could do it, Renee’s<br />
party but she didn’t invite Raquel. a nerd, Toby. When everyone was<br />
best friend yelled out, “There<br />
is a FIRE!” Everyone ran out of the<br />
place. But, there was no fire. Renee’s<br />
friend said that so she can grab<br />
Renee and Joy before they can run<br />
out and talk to Renee. She told her<br />
that what she did was not nice to do.<br />
A girl named Jane was going around<br />
and asking if they were invited.<br />
When she got to Raquel, she said<br />
she didn’t get invited. So Jane said,<br />
“Everybody, Raquel isn’t invited,<br />
ha-ha! Suzie said, “Everybody it’s<br />
not nice.” She asked Jamie to invite<br />
with Devory she said to Toby, in her<br />
face, “You are not invited because<br />
you are such a nerd.” Toby cried and<br />
went home. On the day of the party,<br />
I missed the party and went to Toby’s<br />
house to play and ask her how<br />
she was feeling. I made her day. She<br />
Renee said she was sorry and took<br />
Raquel. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 is my true friend. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Eddy Salameh<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
I once went to a birthday party and<br />
I saw one kid that is shy and people<br />
were making fun of him a lot. He<br />
didn’t get any candy and other kids<br />
were showing<br />
off their candy to<br />
him. So, I went<br />
up to him and<br />
shared with him<br />
and everyone<br />
saw me do that<br />
so they shared<br />
too. After that,<br />
everyone had an<br />
equal amount of<br />
candy and they<br />
stopped making<br />
fun of him.<br />
By: Judah Kishk<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
I was in the park and saw Mark sitting<br />
on a bench alone. He looked<br />
lonely. Jack said, “Come on,” and<br />
I realized I was just spacing out.<br />
Don’t let<br />
her be<br />
left out<br />
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By: Daniel Segev<br />
Jack said, “I am having a party on<br />
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After school, Danny made an announcement:<br />
Saturday. I am inviting everyone<br />
“Everybody is invited except for Mark.” I instantly felt<br />
to my party.” Marc got excited and bad for him. I told Jack how I felt<br />
everybody made a line to get an invitation.<br />
When it was Marc’s turn to<br />
but he said, “Mark is a loser.” I got<br />
the whole grade to feel bad about<br />
get an invitation, Danny said, “You<br />
are not invited, weirdo!” Everybody Mark. This forced Jack to invite<br />
laughed at him. But, a popular kid him. When Jack asked him to come,<br />
said, “If he is not going then I am<br />
not going.” And Danny invited Marc<br />
his face lit up and he was gleaming<br />
to his party. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
with joy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Esti Sobel<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
In 3rd grade, Yehudis was not invited<br />
to the party of the year. Yael came<br />
from a wealthy family and made the<br />
best parties ever. Yehudis was angry.<br />
She was left sitting<br />
alone while everyone<br />
talked about<br />
the party. The next<br />
year, Yehudis was<br />
making a party too<br />
and decided not to<br />
invite Yael. Her best<br />
friend, Tzipporah,<br />
told her, “You didn’t<br />
like when she did it<br />
to you. So, don’t do<br />
it to her. Okay?” Yehudis<br />
finally said, “I<br />
am still angry with<br />
her, but I will invite<br />
her anyway.” At Yehudis’<br />
party, Yael<br />
went over to her and said, “Your<br />
party is so cool. I am sorry I didn’t<br />
invite you. I am really sorry.” So, instead<br />
of a fight the two of them became<br />
friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Morris Bassoul<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
Once, I was having a super bowl<br />
party at my house. I was inviting all<br />
the cool kids. Then, I saw a kid, not<br />
that cool, and I invited him because<br />
I felt bad and he shouldn’t be treated<br />
differently. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Viviane Shama<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
Sophia is having a party. Rochelle’s<br />
new in the school. Sophia wants to<br />
invite her class except for Rochelle.<br />
“It’s not fair,”<br />
said Rochelle<br />
crying to me.<br />
“You know<br />
what,” I said,<br />
thinking to myself.<br />
“I want to<br />
go to the party<br />
Wait! But, that’s<br />
not nice that Sophia<br />
is going to<br />
feel bad. That’s<br />
it, I know! I am<br />
going to Sophia.”<br />
“Sophia,<br />
how would you<br />
feel if I didn’t<br />
invite you to my<br />
party and invited<br />
everybody<br />
else in our class?” “Well you are<br />
right. Give this invitation to Rochelle<br />
right now.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Sophia Cohen<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
Molly is having a party. She invited<br />
the whole class but Gina. I told<br />
her, “Did you like it when Susan invited<br />
every girl in the class except<br />
for you?” Molly said, “No.” I said,<br />
“Do you want to make someone feel<br />
like that?” She said, “ No.” I told<br />
her, “Then invite Gina. It will make<br />
her happy.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Jacqueline Sasson<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
A bully makes<br />
you feel<br />
insecure<br />
because he is<br />
insecure<br />
Olivia and Rebecca were best<br />
friends. One day, Lilly, a girl in their<br />
class, was handing out party invitations.<br />
Everybody in the class got<br />
one except for Olivia. Everybody<br />
knew Olivia and Rebecca were best<br />
friends and they couldn’t be apart.<br />
When the bell rang at the end of the<br />
school, Rebecca asked if she got an<br />
invitation. When Olivia told her she<br />
didn’t, Rebecca decided not to go<br />
to the party. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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By: Nelly Alfaks<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
One day in school, I was giving out<br />
invitations. My friend was sitting<br />
next to me but I didn’t want to invite<br />
her. The next<br />
day my other friend<br />
said to me, “Go give<br />
her an invitation<br />
because she knows<br />
about your birthday<br />
party.” When I got<br />
home I made her an<br />
invitation and the<br />
next day I gave it<br />
her. She was happy<br />
that I invited her.<br />
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By: Esther Kishk<br />
Magen David Yeshiva<br />
One afternoon,<br />
on the first day of<br />
school, everybody was talking about<br />
a girl’s Bat <strong>Mitzvah</strong>. Everybody was<br />
so excited. There was going to be a<br />
chocolate fountain. Everybody was<br />
going except for one girl. I asked my<br />
friend, “Why wasn’t she invited.”<br />
My friend answered, “Because she is<br />
poor.” I told my friend, “Why should<br />
you leave her out? She should still<br />
have fun with us.” My friend invited<br />
her. The new girl turned out to be<br />
so smart and very nice. She always<br />
helped out. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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While working on a school project,<br />
nobody counts your friend’s opinion<br />
By: Jimmy Khaski<br />
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By: Lieby Weintlaub<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Once, there was a popular kid and<br />
his class was doing a class project.<br />
Everyone was picking ideas on what<br />
they were going to do and there was<br />
There was a girl named Leah. She<br />
never had any friends. She was a<br />
very quiet girl. There was a group of<br />
popular girls and they always made<br />
a very shy kid who<br />
said a very good<br />
idea. After everyone<br />
heard him say<br />
something, they<br />
all yelled at him to<br />
be quiet and said,<br />
“You’re stupid and<br />
your idea is stupid,<br />
no one likes<br />
you.” The popular<br />
kid said the same<br />
idea as the shy kid<br />
and everyone said,<br />
“That’s a great<br />
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idea.” He wrote it down on the paper<br />
and he put the shy kid’s name on the<br />
fun of her. Then the teacher assigned<br />
a project on history. Leah was put<br />
with the popular girls. They all got<br />
project. The class ended up getting<br />
together and left out Leah. So, Leah<br />
an “A+” and the whole class said<br />
walked up and stood there. No one of<br />
“sorry” to the boy. “You are smarter<br />
than anyone here.” The shy kid felt<br />
so good. Everyone liked him; he then<br />
became very popular and was very<br />
nice to others. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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the girls noticed to her. Leah spoke<br />
and gave an idea but they didn’t<br />
even listen. So, Leah said it again<br />
and one of the girls said, “What<br />
Leah said is a very good idea.”<br />
And they all agreed and let Leah<br />
join in. This made Leah feel good<br />
Project<br />
about herself. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
If people are<br />
afraid of you,<br />
something is<br />
wrong with you<br />
By: Yossi Fishman<br />
Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />
While we were decorating for the<br />
Siyum, Chaim sat on the side with<br />
watery eyes. He looked like his heart<br />
was broken. One kid pretended like<br />
he needed one more<br />
kid. So, he went<br />
over to Chaim and<br />
said, “Could you<br />
please help us?”<br />
He said, “Sure.”<br />
We ended up really<br />
needing him.<br />
Now, he looked<br />
happier then ever.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Faiga Adina<br />
Lefkowitz<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Raizy sat on the side watching the<br />
girls plan the Chanukah party. We<br />
were all shouting our ideas and<br />
laughing. I saw her out of the corner<br />
of my eye. I know I had to do something<br />
about it. Then, someone came<br />
up with an idea for a banner. “But<br />
who should do it?” I said, “Raizy is<br />
a very good artist, I am sure she’ll<br />
be able to do it.” “Well... I guess<br />
we could try,” everyone agreed.<br />
I looked at Raizy and she looked<br />
so happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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In school,<br />
before it<br />
was Chanukah,<br />
our<br />
t e a c h e r<br />
said we<br />
can have<br />
a dreidel<br />
By: Jayne Gindi<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush party with<br />
games. She said everyone should get<br />
into groups with your friends and<br />
play. When it was time for the party<br />
everyone got into groups. There was<br />
one girl that was new to the school<br />
and didn’t have many friends so she<br />
wasn’t in a group. A lot of people<br />
were giggling but she seemed like a<br />
nice girl. So I said, “Come we need<br />
one more person to play.” She hesitated<br />
but in the end she had fun and<br />
made friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Jennifer Tricot<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
One day, everybody needed to be<br />
in groups for a project. There was<br />
a girl that didn’t have a group. The<br />
whole class was making fun of her<br />
and pointing and laughing. So, my<br />
group decided not to make fun of<br />
her and we let her into out group.<br />
Then, everyone stopped making<br />
fun of her. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Naomi Yarmish<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
If your teacher is making a vote<br />
for the bulletin board, you should<br />
pick the girls with hidden talents<br />
so they feel much better about<br />
themselves. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
The girls<br />
were having<br />
a Siyum.<br />
The<br />
groups for<br />
d e c o r a -<br />
tions were<br />
T a m a r ,<br />
By: Leah Hatanian Rivka and<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov Sara. At<br />
Tamar’s house, Tamar said, “Rivka<br />
you do the background and I will<br />
do the lettering.” Sara was left with<br />
nothing to do. Rivka turned to Tamar,<br />
“Can we talk? Once, Sara came<br />
to my house for a class project and<br />
she drew it beautifully. Maybe, you<br />
will let her do the drawing.” “Are<br />
you sure?” said Tamar. “I don’t<br />
want to upset you?” “I am positive.”<br />
“Wow, your decorations are so beautiful,”<br />
said Mrs. Gross. “I love the<br />
drawing.” When Sara heard that, her<br />
heart shone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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If you are<br />
b l e s s e d<br />
with popularity<br />
then<br />
use this<br />
bracha for<br />
including<br />
and not<br />
By: Shira Muller e x c l u d -<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov ing people.<br />
Let’s say you are in math class and<br />
the teacher says to get into pairs and<br />
everyone is pushing around to get<br />
their best friend. What if you would<br />
go to the quiet girl in the corner? It<br />
would make her day even though it’s<br />
not so important to you. Tell your<br />
group that she is a very smart girl and<br />
got an “A” on the last project you<br />
two worked on. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Everyone is invited to play at his house<br />
except for your friend<br />
By: Esther Shalam<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
By: Daniella Enayatian<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
One time, my friend, Gloria, asked<br />
if people could come over to her<br />
house. A lot of people lied and said,<br />
Rachel is making a slumber party.<br />
Since she is popular, everyone was<br />
invited. That day, they learned about<br />
“I can’t. My<br />
mom will not<br />
let.” She asked<br />
me and I said,<br />
“I will ask my<br />
mom and tell<br />
you tomorrow.”<br />
The next day,<br />
I said, “I can<br />
come.” I went<br />
to her house. We<br />
had a lot of fun.<br />
Friday came, and<br />
I asked if she<br />
wanted to come<br />
over. She said,<br />
by: M.d.y. students<br />
“Ok.” But, I didn’t tell anyone that<br />
she was coming over because then<br />
they would not come over. That<br />
day, everybody came over and saw<br />
that Gloria was there. They asked<br />
me why she was over. I told them,<br />
“Trust me, you will have fun.” At<br />
the end, they all had the best time.<br />
They said that I was right. Gloria is<br />
not embarrassing your friend. When<br />
she was giving out the invitations,<br />
she realized that one invitation was<br />
missing. It was supposed to go to a<br />
shy girl, Simi. Rachel was about to<br />
ignore it but she remembered learning<br />
how hurtful it is embarrassing<br />
others. She personally went over<br />
to Simi to tell her that she must<br />
have misplaced it and she would<br />
a lot of fun. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 give her an invitation tomorrow<br />
If you get<br />
rejected, something<br />
is wrong with<br />
him, not you<br />
and try to make it up to her. When<br />
the other girls saw popular Rachel<br />
talking to friendless Simi, they immediately<br />
went to see if she was<br />
worth being friends with. At the<br />
party, their thoughts<br />
were confirmed.<br />
From now on, Simi is<br />
the nicest popular girl<br />
you could meet. She<br />
tries to include other<br />
girls as well since she<br />
herself knows what<br />
it’s like to be left out.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Sara Ginsburg<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
My friends and I were<br />
practicing for the Siyum.<br />
We were in<br />
dance. We were done<br />
practicing and everyone<br />
was going home. But, I stayed at<br />
my friend’s house later than all of my<br />
other friends. Another friend of ours<br />
called my friend that I stayed by and<br />
asked if she could come over. My<br />
friend said, “I am busy.” But I said,<br />
“It’s fine, let her come over. I don’t<br />
mind. It’s better not to make her feel<br />
bad.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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“My mother<br />
just<br />
bought me<br />
the coolest<br />
p r e s e n t , ”<br />
Aliza said<br />
to most of<br />
the classm<br />
a t e s .<br />
Devori Kramer<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov There was<br />
one girl standing at the side not noticed<br />
by anyone. “You are all invited<br />
to my house on Sunday to play<br />
with it,” she said to her crowd of<br />
friends around her. The girl standing<br />
at the side was thinking to herself,<br />
“Why do I have to always be<br />
left out of all the fun things? Why<br />
is it like I am invisible? Nobody<br />
notices me?” The next day, Aliza<br />
gave out invitations to her whole<br />
class except the one girl standing at<br />
the side, Leah. Finally, Aliza looked<br />
up and saw Leah, alone, pretending<br />
to be reading a story but listening<br />
to her conversation with a pity<br />
look on her face. “Do you want to<br />
come to my house on Sunday too?”<br />
“Oh, I would love to,” she said<br />
with sparkle in her eyes. From then<br />
on, Aliza always tried to include<br />
everyone. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
I went<br />
to my<br />
f r i e n d ’ s<br />
h o u s e .<br />
My other<br />
f r i e n d s<br />
were there,<br />
too. This<br />
girl named<br />
By: Sarah Torgueman<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush R i v k a<br />
came, too. She has brown wavy<br />
hair and she has blue eyes. My<br />
friend only invited her because<br />
they wanted to make fun of her. I<br />
thought it was disgusting. In my<br />
school, my friends made up a game<br />
although Rivka didn’t know how to<br />
play because she doesn’t go to my<br />
school. Nobody wanted to teach<br />
her. I would’ve but I went to the<br />
bathroom. I came back. I saw that<br />
Rivka was all alone because they<br />
didn’t let her play. I got mad. I left<br />
their game and played a game that<br />
she knew how to play. The other<br />
girls felt bad because of what they<br />
did. They ended up playing with me<br />
and Rivka. They learned to never<br />
be mean. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
There are<br />
these two<br />
girls that<br />
are mean<br />
to me. I<br />
didn’t want<br />
them to<br />
come to my<br />
By: Naomi Sanders<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
house. Everyone<br />
was<br />
coming. I invited then anyway because<br />
I know what it feels like to<br />
be left out. They had a really good<br />
time. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Racheli Brickman<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
One Shabbos afternoon, a group<br />
of friends and I were going to my<br />
friend’s house. So, we were playing<br />
and talking and somehow it came<br />
up in conversation about earrings.<br />
One of the girls was wearing stickers<br />
earrings. That girl got so embarrassed<br />
and got so red. Everyone was<br />
laughing. Right away, I switched<br />
the subject. When the girl went<br />
home with me in a car pool she said,<br />
“Thank you.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Ita Chana Meisner<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
One Friday, I was sitting at the lunch<br />
table. I asked a girl if she wanted to<br />
come over to my house on Shabbos.<br />
The girl said yes. I noticed a girl who<br />
overheard our conversation. I knew<br />
that she felt hurt because she wasn’t<br />
invited. I quickly invited her also. She<br />
was thrilled. This small invitation<br />
made her day. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
by: M.d.y. students<br />
No<br />
more<br />
teasing<br />
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How to hide your friend’s<br />
low mark from others<br />
By: Esther Sitt<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
One time, my teacher was handing<br />
back tests and almost half of the class<br />
got over the 90’s. When my friend<br />
Renee got hers back, she looked at<br />
it, folded it and put it in her backpack.<br />
I could tell<br />
she got a bad grade.<br />
I felt really bad for<br />
her especially when<br />
Julie was begging<br />
her to see it. Julie<br />
said, “I know you<br />
couldn’t get less<br />
than 85.” Renee<br />
cried all over again.<br />
I walked up to Julie<br />
and said, “Leave<br />
her alone. It doesn’t<br />
matter what she<br />
got. It’s not a competition;<br />
the grade<br />
she got is her s to<br />
tell if she wants to. You don’t have<br />
to see it.” Julie got really mad at me<br />
but she left Renee alone. Renee was<br />
very grateful. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Elliot Akerman<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
by: M.d.y. students<br />
If you have a friend who gets a bad<br />
grade on a test and he doesn’t want to<br />
show the grade to his friend, you can<br />
say, “You don’t have to show him if<br />
you don’t want to. Nobody needs<br />
to know.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Ariel Cohen<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
We were getting back our tests. Marilyn<br />
got the best mark she had ever<br />
gotten. Sara went over to Marilyn<br />
and made fun of the mark she got<br />
in front of the whole class. Marilyn<br />
every person<br />
has<br />
a hidden<br />
talent<br />
was very embarrassed. But, she went<br />
over to Sara and told her, “I tried my<br />
best and I thought I did very well.”<br />
This teaches us that embarrassing is<br />
bad. But, you can learn to stick up<br />
for yourself. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Matti Miller<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
Mrs. Stein was handing back the<br />
class’ papers. Yaffa walked up with<br />
a smile on her face. Leah walked up<br />
to the teacher and back to her seat<br />
and shoved the test in her knapsack.<br />
After class, Yaffa<br />
went over to Leah<br />
and said, “I got<br />
100. What did you<br />
get?” “Well um,<br />
well, I don’t want<br />
to talk about it.”<br />
“Come on Leah, tell<br />
me.” Sari stood on<br />
the side. Sari was<br />
watching as Yaffa<br />
was begging Leah<br />
to see her mark.<br />
Sari walked over<br />
to Leah and Yaffa.<br />
“Hey, Yaffa, would<br />
you mind? I am sure that Leah is<br />
fine. You know I went to the store to<br />
get those shoes you were telling me<br />
about …..” Sari saved Leah from being<br />
embarrassed by trying to change<br />
the subject. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
Special thanks to Terri and Jo Jo Chehebar<br />
who were the first ones to support us when we started<br />
Torah Contest 15 years ago.<br />
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There once<br />
were two<br />
friends in<br />
s c h o o l .<br />
O n e<br />
n a m e d<br />
Jack and<br />
By: Joe Hedaya one Daniel.<br />
Daniel<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
was smart and Jack wasn’t as smart.<br />
They were supposed to have a math<br />
test and Jack didn’t understand the<br />
material. Daniel understood so he<br />
decided that he wanted to help Jack.<br />
He didn’t want Jack to feel uncomfortable<br />
having his best friend tutor<br />
him. Daniel decided to ask Jack if<br />
he wanted to study together. Jack<br />
said, “Yes” and wasn’t at all embarrassed.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Rashelle Gersh<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
It was a Tuesday, and we all got our<br />
Chumash test back. Jenny got her<br />
test back and all of a sudden her face<br />
turned tomato red. She went to sit in<br />
the back of the room and you could<br />
hear her weeping. Adele got 100 on<br />
the test and figured she should gloat.<br />
Jenny started crying even more after<br />
being made fun of. The next day, we<br />
Once, I<br />
saw one of<br />
my friends<br />
a s k i n g<br />
a n o t h e r<br />
one of my<br />
f r i e n d s<br />
what he<br />
By: Kalman Halberstam got on the<br />
Yeshivah Chaim Berlin test, but he<br />
was embarrassed to show him. So,<br />
I went over to him and I told him,<br />
“Nobody is perfect, so, don’t be embarrassed.<br />
I also get low marks. Everybody<br />
gets low marks.” So, then<br />
he showed my other friend what he<br />
got on his test. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Shaina Kohanghadosh<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
It all happened when we were having<br />
a spelling bee and the teacher<br />
gave a girl the word “Tunnie”. Everyone<br />
was laughing because it was<br />
an easy word. It was Adina’s turn to<br />
spell. Everyone knew that Adina was<br />
the smartest and knew she was going<br />
to get it right. When she spelled<br />
the words out, it was wrong. Adina<br />
turned red. I knew how it felt and<br />
next was my turn. So, I made sure<br />
I got it wrong. Afterwards, I went<br />
over to her and said, “The word was<br />
really hard.” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Solly Mosseri<br />
Last week,<br />
we got<br />
back our<br />
tests in our<br />
math class.<br />
Everyone<br />
knew it<br />
would be<br />
By: Asher Lifshutz so easy<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush and no one<br />
studied. My best friend told me<br />
that he studied really well for this<br />
test so he was sure to get that 100.<br />
We got our tests back. Some kids<br />
got 85’s, 90’s, and even 100’s. But,<br />
my friend got a 62. He was so upset<br />
and disappointed. Everyone was<br />
asking him what he got and I knew<br />
he would be embarrassed. Right<br />
then, I jumped in and started saying<br />
how it was such a hard test and that<br />
I failed badly. Everyone was now<br />
focusing on my mark and forgot<br />
about my friend’s. He thanked me<br />
so much. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Mimi Lazerowitz<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
Almost everybody in the class got<br />
in the high 90’s on a test. Five girls<br />
got 100 and went around asking<br />
everybody, “What did you get?”<br />
and everybody said, “96” or “97”.<br />
Finally, one girl didn’t want to say<br />
what she got. Then all the mean<br />
got a math test back and Adele didn’t<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
Once, in class, we got a test back girls were nipping the test out of her<br />
do well. I went over and said, “I<br />
and a kid in my class failed and hid hand and screaming what she got.<br />
guess it doesn’t feel good when people<br />
his test. Then another kid snuck The most popular girl in the class<br />
gloat when you get a bad mark.”<br />
Adele apologized to Jenny and,<br />
and screamed out, “This kid got<br />
27%.” Everybody started laughing<br />
said, “I got the same mark,” even<br />
though she didn’t. Then no one was<br />
from that day on, they helped each and then I came and cheered him embarrassed. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
other study. Hashem created all of us up and made him happy. I made<br />
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S av i n g yo u r f r i e n d<br />
f r o m e m b a r r a s s m e n t<br />
By: Miriam Medina<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
By: Patty Shrem<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
By: Yisrael Rosenfeld<br />
Yeshivah Chaim Berlin<br />
It was picture day and everyone<br />
looked great. Girls were giving each<br />
other compliments. But, then, I saw<br />
a girl all alone and it seemed she<br />
There is a girl on my bus. She is in<br />
6th grade. She never lets anyone sit<br />
next to her. So, I told her, “You know<br />
it’s not fair. You should let everyone<br />
There was once a boy named Yehuda.<br />
Let’s just say he was not the most<br />
popular kid in the class. He was always<br />
being made fun of. Kids were<br />
didn’t look as good<br />
calling him names<br />
as she wanted. She<br />
like, “monkey” and<br />
was trying to make<br />
“munch milk”. You<br />
herself pretty. So, I<br />
might think it’s<br />
went up to her and<br />
asked her is she<br />
wanted to borrow<br />
my clip and her face<br />
lit up. She looked<br />
gorgeous. I told everyone,<br />
“Look how<br />
pretty she looks!”<br />
Everyone gave her<br />
funny but it really<br />
hurt him. Then, one<br />
day, a kid named<br />
Shmuel called over<br />
Yitzi, the most popular<br />
kid who made<br />
fun of Yehuda the<br />
most. Shmuel said,<br />
compliments and<br />
“I think you are<br />
said she looked by: M.d.y. students<br />
hurting Yehuda’s<br />
awesome. That day, she was included<br />
in every activity the girls did. I<br />
sit.” So she said, “No. Why should I? feelings.” “I know,” replied Yitzi.<br />
felt good helping a girl out. The best<br />
part was no one knew it was my clip.<br />
She thanked me later but I was happy<br />
for her. A small little deed can make<br />
a big difference. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
Everyone is always so mean to me.”<br />
I said, “You know what? You should<br />
tell people to please stop.” So, one<br />
day a girl came and said, “You are<br />
so weird.” So, she said, “Please<br />
“Then why do you do it?” Said Shmuel.<br />
“Because it’s fun,” said Yitzi.<br />
“Well if you were in Yehuda’s place<br />
would you also find it funny? You<br />
would feel bad.” “I guess so. I will<br />
By: Aliza Schwartz<br />
stop. That’s not very nice.” And she stop,” said Yitzi. “Thank you,” said<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
One time, my friend and I were wild. stopped. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5 Shmuel. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By mistake, she pulled on my gold<br />
necklace and it broke. My mother<br />
The new topic is online. The students of Hillel Yeshiva<br />
already started to write inspirational stories on it. Get ideas<br />
came in and I told her that I did<br />
from them and write your own. Best ones will be published.<br />
it to save my friend from embarrassment.<br />
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O n c e ,<br />
there was<br />
a girl<br />
named Renee.<br />
Renee<br />
was a<br />
mean person<br />
and<br />
By: Sydney Benami<br />
a l w a y s<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
went against girls who are not like<br />
her. She used to be best friends with<br />
a girl named Nina but, as they got<br />
older, they grew apart. Nina has a<br />
Facebook and told her friend her<br />
password who was secretly friends<br />
with Renee. That friend told Renee<br />
Nina’s password. Raquel logged<br />
into Nina’s account and started<br />
writing mean things and cursing<br />
to all of her friends. The next day,<br />
all of Nina’s friends got mad at<br />
Nina. But, Renee regretted doing<br />
that and announced in front of everyone<br />
in lunch that she wrote all<br />
the bad stuff about Nina’s friends.<br />
Everyone forgave her and all the<br />
cliques in the school broke and<br />
they became friends. No more<br />
mean girls! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
Dina got<br />
a new CD<br />
for Hanukkah.<br />
She<br />
was very<br />
e x c i t e d .<br />
The next<br />
day Dina<br />
By: Estelle Saad b r o u g h t<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush her CD<br />
to school to show it to her friends.<br />
Her friends were very excited, too.<br />
But Sarah was especially impressed.<br />
Sarah was having a big family party<br />
that night and she wanted to impress<br />
her cousin Eliza with some hip music.<br />
Finally, Dina agreed to let Sarah<br />
borrow the CD, but Sarah had to be<br />
very careful. The next day, Sarah<br />
walked into the classroom with tears<br />
in her eyes. As careful as Sarah was,<br />
she still lost the CD. As disgusted<br />
as Dina was, she didn’t want to embarrass<br />
Sarah, and, therefore, she<br />
just forgave Sarah and told her that<br />
it was OK. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
Keyword search<br />
Embarrassment<br />
There was<br />
a girl that<br />
wasn’t so<br />
skinny. She<br />
had a best<br />
friend who<br />
she told her<br />
one of her<br />
By: Jenny Alfaks s e c r e t s .<br />
Magen David Yeshivah One of the<br />
secrets was how much she weighed.<br />
Her best friend thought it was a joke<br />
and she announced it to the whole<br />
class. Everyone started laughing so<br />
hard. But I didn’t laugh at all because<br />
I didn’t think it was that funny. So,<br />
I told the girl, who told everyone,<br />
that it was so mean of her to do that<br />
to your best friend. I told the whole<br />
class that its a joke between us. And<br />
that girl who wasn’t so skinny felt so<br />
good inside ! Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Eli Aballi<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
You are sitting on a bus and a boy is<br />
getting made fun of. You could go<br />
there and say, “Why are you bothering<br />
him? What did he do to you?<br />
Leave him alone!” Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Chani Goldberg<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
“You are so weird,” Miri said to<br />
Rivky. “Don’t say that,” Kayla<br />
said. “She is not weird.” The<br />
next day, Miri said to Rivky, “You<br />
know, I was just having a bad day.<br />
I am sorry. I took it out on you. Can<br />
you forgive me?” “Sure,” she replied.<br />
They ended up being the best<br />
of friends. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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The popular kids<br />
include the left out kids<br />
By: Susan Mosseri<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
If someone was left out, I would ask<br />
her if she wanted to make plans. I<br />
would tell her, “Don’t worry what<br />
they say. You are so nice. Please<br />
don’t lose confidence. Just ignore<br />
what they say.<br />
You are a wonderful<br />
person.”<br />
I would sit next<br />
to her. Because<br />
it doesn’t matter<br />
how tall you are,<br />
how short you<br />
are; fat, skinny,<br />
etc, doesn’t matter,<br />
as long as you<br />
have derech eretz<br />
and good midot.<br />
Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
by: M.d.y. students<br />
By: Sarah Levy<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
When school starts on Fridays, Shabbat<br />
music fills the halls. The girls in<br />
the grade always come together to<br />
sing one song. This Friday, when the<br />
song was almost over, Ava saw Chana<br />
shyly approaching. She didn’t<br />
know where to break into the circle<br />
so Ava moved over. Chana smiled<br />
and walked over. Chana seemed so<br />
By: Charles Grego<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
One day, I was with all my friends<br />
walking down the block. We passed<br />
one kid’s house. He was just sitting<br />
outside alone. People made<br />
fun of him and accused him that<br />
Don’t put him<br />
down to bring<br />
yourself up<br />
he does weird stuff. He saw us<br />
pass and he turned around. I told<br />
my friend I was going to invite<br />
him. I had to convince them. They<br />
still said, “no,” so, I left them to<br />
play with him. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Gitty Silber<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
The girls in 6th grade were bossing<br />
around the younger kids. I asked,<br />
“How would you like it if kids<br />
By:Irwin Savdie<br />
Magen David Yeshivah<br />
One day, I came to school and I<br />
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wanted and they were crowding<br />
around me. There was a kid in the<br />
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Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Nechami Zilberberg<br />
Masores Bais Yaakov<br />
A girl I know wanted<br />
to have a friend<br />
very badly. But, no<br />
one wanted to be her<br />
friend. Her mother<br />
was spending money on the girls so<br />
they would be her friends and those<br />
girls took advantage and made fun<br />
of her. My mother found out about<br />
it but she said it’s up to me if I want<br />
to be her friend. I made the right<br />
choice. This Sunday she is coming<br />
with me to the high school play. Not<br />
only that; now a lot more people are<br />
accepting her. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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Magen David Yeshivah<br />
There was a new, shyer girl in my<br />
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to be around. But, because we were<br />
all friends with someone else, she<br />
must have felt left out. After Shabbat,<br />
One Sunday, I was with my friends<br />
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The bully<br />
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By:Junie Maleh<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
One day, my friend named Rachel<br />
had fever. She even missed school. I<br />
suggested calling her with my friends<br />
to wish her a Refuah Shelemah. My<br />
friends said, “No way! She is not<br />
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I decided to call her<br />
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ever from someone<br />
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Thank you, really!”<br />
And then my<br />
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was so happy. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
By: Gabi Cohen<br />
Yeshivah of Flatbush<br />
In recess, I saw a girl sitting in the<br />
corner by herself while we were<br />
playing dodge ball. No one noticed<br />
her because we were having so<br />
much fun! I felt very bad. So, I went<br />
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her. I asked her to play with<br />
us and she came. We ended up having<br />
so much fun and she was a very<br />
funny girl. Vote: 1 2 3 4 5<br />
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• Robber • Rasha • Murderer<br />
The 2nd Beit Hamikdash got destroyed<br />
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• Abaye • Gedalya<br />
• Kamtza • <strong>Bar</strong> Kamtza<br />
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Jeff Sutton in honor of his wife Rachel<br />
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Morris Beyda A”H<br />
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Morris was also one of the first to attend and support the community shuls.<br />
Morris led by an example and his love for Torah and Mitzvot shines bright.<br />
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Dr. Robert Richter in honor of his wife grace<br />
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Mildred Misrie Liniado A”H<br />
A woman of charm and grace!<br />
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her husband Morris of sixty six years, her children, her family and Hashem.<br />
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May we all learn from her and continue to do Chesed and Mitzvot!<br />
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Love, her children Albert and Mary, Ralph and Ethel, Robert and DeeGee,<br />
Susan and Meir, and Andrea and her grandchildren and great grandchildren<br />
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Jack Benjamin A”H<br />
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his wife, children and grandchildren. We hope to<br />
continue following in his ways and his values.<br />
We miss you and love you forever<br />
From his wife Esther<br />
his children and grandchildren.<br />
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Stanley chera in honor of his wife Cookie<br />
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Monica<br />
by David Hadef<br />
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Celia<br />
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In Loving Memory of Albert “Shanty” Mishaan A”H<br />
A Man of Honesty and Integrity who always put the<br />
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We hope to follow in his footsteps and continue the family values He bestowed upon all of us.<br />
May his memory be a constant source of inspiration to all who knew him.<br />
We miss you and love you everyday that passes.<br />
From His Wife Rose, His Children, Grandchildren, Great grandchildren and Loved ones.<br />
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In memory of Yomtob HaCohen Ben Zekieh A”H<br />
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Jack Ashkenazie A”H<br />
His great love for Torah, Mitzvot, Gemelot Hasadim<br />
his outstanding commitment to help another Jew in need.<br />
May his memory be a constant source of inspiration to all who knew him.<br />
May we follow in his ways.<br />
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of satisfied clients, Aardvark Amusements has earned the title “Industry Leader.”<br />
Quality amusement rentals featuring:<br />
~ fun inflatables ~ rides ~ carnival games ~ and much more<br />
For birthdays, corporate parties and bar/bat mitzvahs<br />
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Come Visit Our Showroom<br />
Wholesaler Near You ~ Everything Sold by the Dozen<br />
<strong>Bar</strong>/Bat <strong>Mitzvah</strong><br />
Sweet Sixteen<br />
Sunglasses<br />
Maracas<br />
Silly String<br />
Birthdays<br />
Graduation<br />
Prom<br />
Wedding<br />
Airhorns<br />
Clown Wigs<br />
Groggers<br />
Haircolor<br />
Party Poppers<br />
Assorted Wigs<br />
Confetti Blasters<br />
Light up necklaces<br />
It’s time to party!<br />
Star of David Necklaces<br />
Costumes accessories<br />
and props….<br />
Party supply store ~ Wholesalers open to the public<br />
We specialize in themed party supplies and costumes<br />
2118 Avenue X, Brooklyn, NY 11235<br />
Tel: 718-332-8131 * 800-854-8490 * 718-NOVELTY * Fax: 718-332-8141<br />
www.pintonovelty.com<br />
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Wishing Mazal Tov to the <strong>Bar</strong> & Bat <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Kids!<br />
Phone: 212-302-3661 Fax: 212-302-7390<br />
1400 Broadway, New York<br />
Email: zianinyc@gmail.com
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