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How can we raise awareness of abuse outside of<br />

the sector if we are unwilling to address it within?<br />

I have seen abusive individuals (and a few orgs)<br />

actively try and discredit and sabotage the efforts<br />

of others. I have seen professional jealousy<br />

leading to speakers being 'no platformed' seen<br />

mistakes and failings glossed over, covered up and<br />

- the worst - people being silenced from speaking<br />

out. I have seen abuse tactics displayed from those<br />

who work with vulnerable people, who have<br />

exploited them, who have distorted the law, their<br />

rights, even deliberately prevented the person<br />

needing help from accessing support that would<br />

have served them better by dispensing lies.<br />

Now that I understand so much more about abuse<br />

and how abusers operate, it doesn't surprise me<br />

that they are drawn to areas where victims can be<br />

found. This needs to be weeded out, highlighted,<br />

addressed. When supposed *professionals*<br />

exploit those who desperately need their help by<br />

breaching their confidentiality, by isolating them<br />

and then withdrawing support, by refusing them<br />

the right to complain and - hugely worrying- by<br />

pressurising them into financial decisions, we can<br />

not and must not look the other way. Yes, that is<br />

right, I did say pressurising them, unduly<br />

influencing them, exploiting their desperation in<br />

order to gain financially.<br />

There is a duty , a moral duty to speak up and<br />

speak out. Nowhere has this been more apparent<br />

than in raising the issues of SCAs - the so called<br />

advocates who do more to undermine and<br />

destabilise the wellbeing of a victim than enhance<br />

it. How can we raise awareness of abuse outside of<br />

the sector if we are unwilling to address it within?<br />

These are all questions for 2018, these and more<br />

but for now, I would like to thank everyone who<br />

has supported the conferences and <strong>CCChat</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> and wish everyone a Merry Christmas.<br />

Min xx<br />

PS. For those who find Christmas difficult, you are<br />

moving forwards. It may be small steps but,<br />

nontheless, it is a journey where you are moving<br />

forwards. xx<br />

Merry Christmas from <strong>CCChat</strong>

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