A Dozen Ways To Defeat Lonliness

distant relatives and old college friends. I chat with
Senior Net members and make friends across the
country. I resumed freelance writing and have also
been published online. The first thing I do when
I log on at six a.m. is write e-mail prayers. Soon
after, my older son pops up on an Instant Message
from Florida,” Larson explains.
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Help Someone Who Needs Support
“The capacity to care is the thing that gives
life its greatest significance,” wrote musician
Pablo Casals. Those who volunteer their time live
longer and happier lives. Acting on compassion
and kindness brings fulfillment, joy and purpose,
as well as validating our self-worth along with
that of others. And, by responding to the needs
of others, you will allow love into your own life.
Consider the example of Ches Hudel who was 31
when her husband and nine-year-old son died in
an automobile accident four decades earlier. She
was left to raise three daughters, the youngest
was just over a year old. Today, in her 70s, she has
looked back at her journey through grief. She says
that reaching out to others was therapeutic and cut
down her own loneliness.
Mrs. Hudel began volunteering at a children’s
medical center, working with kids who had cystic
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