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“Carey and I try to reply every single DM,<br />

we try to help and give advice when we<br />

can, if our followers ask. We are honoured<br />

we could inspire others as KOLs and that’s<br />

the lens on how we view our success on<br />

social media influencing”<br />

Shawn Cutler and more approached us to work with them, and that’s how<br />

#keeproenandcareyon became a real thing,” he reveals.<br />

Just like that, they became a brand. Until today, the couple share about<br />

their relationship with their followers. “Carey and I try to reply every single<br />

DM, we try to help and give advice when we can, if our followers ask. We are<br />

honoured we could inspire others as KOLs and that’s the lens on how we view<br />

our success in social media influencing,” says Roen.<br />

On the subject of the double-edged effects of fame, he says prag, “As long<br />

as there is love, there is hate. You have to embrace both sides. The truth is,<br />

Carey and I know what we stand for. We make an honest living; what we<br />

do doesn’t hurt or harm anybody. Knowing this fact makes it easier for us to<br />

identify negative comments that come from a place of insecurity or jealousy.<br />

Just unfollow us if you don’t like us, it’s fine. Or turn off the social media, go<br />

out into the real world and do something with your life instead of becoming<br />

a negative person. We stay focused on what matters, sharing what is real and<br />

true to us.”<br />

Carey, who encountered cyber bullying throughout her journey in Miss<br />

Universe as a contestant and as a national director for the Miss Universe<br />

<strong>Malaysia</strong> Organisation (MUMO) in 2015, recalls how her past experiences<br />

have readied and toughened her up to live life under the spotlight.<br />

“I had haters who thought I was not beautiful enough for the crown. I<br />

accepted that I was flawed and strove to improve the parts I thought I was<br />

lacking. But I won’t lie. There were days where the comments affected me. I<br />

would doubt myself and ask, ‘Am I really not good enough? Am I really that<br />

ugly?’ And social media amplified things even more. But I have grown so much<br />

since then. Like Roen said, it is about our conscience. We communicate a lot,<br />

with each other and with the people closest to us. As long as we don’t feel like<br />

we compromised on our conscience, it is easy to stay focused,” she expresses.<br />

MAKING WAY FOR SHAE<br />

In 2016, while in the middle of a blizzard in Iceland, Roen got down on one<br />

knee to propose to Carey. “I couldn’t even hear him because of the blizzard;<br />

I kept going, ‘What? What did you ask me?’”<br />

Exactly one year ago, the couple tied the knot; first in an intimate,<br />

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