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<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />
PARENTING PARTNERS<br />
MARCH <strong>2018</strong> | southwood.org<br />
saturday seminars:<br />
engaging the world where we live<br />
resurection, so what?:<br />
the importance of easter
SOUTHWOOD<br />
OVERVIEW<br />
CONTENTS<br />
<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />
DESIGNER Eli Maples<br />
CONTRIBUTORS<br />
Will Spink<br />
Ron Clegg<br />
Robert Blevins<br />
Peter Render<br />
Derrick Harris<br />
Christine Betts<br />
James Parker<br />
PHOTOS<br />
Southwood Members<br />
FEEDBACK!<br />
We want to hear from you! Please send<br />
your suggestions and comments to<br />
branches@southwood.org<br />
1000 CARL T. JONES DRIVE | HUNTSVILLE, ALABAMA 35802<br />
(256) 882-3085 | WWW.SOUTHWOOD.ORG<br />
COVER PHOTO<br />
Father and son hold hands<br />
CHURCH STAFF<br />
CHRISTINE BETTS Assistant Director, Youth/Families<br />
NIÑA CASH Director of Children's Ministry<br />
RITA CLARDY Executive Assistant<br />
SHANNON CLARK Administrative Assistant<br />
RON CLEGG Assistant Pastor, Discipleship<br />
TY COMMONS Youth and Family Intern<br />
JANICE CROWSON Director of Facilities/Finance<br />
KIM DELCHAMPS Administrative Assistant<br />
TERRI GOOD Accountant/Bookkeeper<br />
DERRICK HARRIS Asst. Pastor, Shepherding & Young Families<br />
ELI MAPLES Graphic Designer<br />
ROBERT BLEVINS Director of Community Development<br />
JAMES PARKER Chief Musician<br />
PETER RENDER Assistant Pastor, Youth/Families<br />
ANGELA SIERK Assistant Director/Children's Ministry<br />
WILL SPINK Senior Pastor<br />
3 pastor's note<br />
4 saturday seminars<br />
Living missionally where we are<br />
5 who is my neighbor<br />
6 parenting partners<br />
8 ask a pastor<br />
resurection, so what?<br />
10 unclaimed baggage<br />
photos from the sr. high retreat<br />
11 all that's fair<br />
UPCOMING EVENTS<br />
Saturday Seminars<br />
<strong>March</strong> 10<br />
Time Change<br />
<strong>March</strong> 11<br />
Southwood Women's Retreat<br />
<strong>March</strong> 16-18<br />
Maundy Thursday Service<br />
<strong>March</strong> 29<br />
Good Friday Service<br />
<strong>March</strong> 30<br />
Easter Egg Hunt<br />
<strong>March</strong> 31<br />
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PASTOR’S NOTE<br />
A Beautiful Evening<br />
A couple of weeks ago on a Tuesday night<br />
about 75 parents of young children gathered<br />
in the Lodge to eat tacos, share the joys and<br />
struggles of parenting, and be encouraged<br />
and equipped for pointing their kids to Jesus.<br />
Across the street about 80 of their kids ate pizza,<br />
shared toys (and germs), and demonstrated<br />
their need for being pointed to Jesus.<br />
Actually they behaved perfectly (mostly), but<br />
you get the idea. It was a beautiful evening.<br />
What a delight to see people connect with<br />
each other and consider the common calling<br />
God has given them as parents. In the midst of<br />
busy lives, what was happening around those<br />
plastic tables will undoubtedly have eternal<br />
impact. This night is indicative of the heart<br />
that we have at Southwood for impacting the<br />
next generation. We believe that parents have<br />
a great responsibility for the nurture of their<br />
children and that we have the great privilege<br />
to partner with, encourage, and equip them in<br />
that gloriously difficult task.<br />
You can read more of that heart in the middle of<br />
this issue of <strong>BRANCHES</strong>, as Pastor Derrick and<br />
Pastor Peter describe a vision for more such<br />
evenings and more such relationships with<br />
parents in our congregation and community<br />
in the days and years ahead. We can’t wait to<br />
see the Gospel transform lives now and impact<br />
generations for the future through these<br />
relationships.<br />
But I haven’t even told you the most beautiful<br />
part of the evening yet. In order to feed and<br />
care for the 150 people mentioned above, we<br />
needed a lot of help. And the majority of that<br />
help came from Southwood members (more<br />
than 20 of them!) who no longer have young<br />
children at home. Some of them have spent<br />
many years raising children of their own, and<br />
others of them have for many years made the<br />
children of Southwood their family. But they<br />
cooked, they served food, they chased kids,<br />
they cleaned up after spills, they talked with<br />
young parents, and they prayed for young kids.<br />
Now that’s beautiful. When we show up to<br />
serve rather than consume, when we help pull<br />
off events not designed for us, when we treat<br />
others as more important than ourselves, we<br />
are loving in the beautiful way God has created<br />
his family to love. This happens in many ways<br />
in the life of our church, but I didn’t want you<br />
to miss this one!<br />
As I thanked some of those volunteers, they<br />
said things like “I can’t imagine parenting<br />
these days; anything I can do to help these<br />
parents, I’m happy to do,” “It encourages my<br />
heart to see these young people looking to<br />
Jesus and connecting with each other,” and<br />
“O, I wouldn’t be anywhere else; please let<br />
me know when you do this again so I can help<br />
again.”<br />
As I talked with some of the young parents,<br />
they said things like “What a huge blessing<br />
to have people I look up to so much serving<br />
us at an event like this,” “I love the fact that<br />
our church has people ahead of me on this<br />
parenting path who care enough to share what<br />
God has taught them with us,” and “I hope we<br />
do this more often. And I hope we as younger<br />
people can return the favor to those who<br />
served us tonight.”<br />
Wouldn’t that be beautiful? It may not be age<br />
differences every time, but when we love and<br />
serve those who are different from us in any<br />
way rather than focusing on what we need and<br />
want others to do for us, we’re loving a little bit<br />
more like Jesus. One generation commends<br />
his works to another, and the greatness of the<br />
grace of Jesus spreads exponentially to more<br />
who need to know Him.<br />
I hope you’ll take a moment to thank God for<br />
loving us enough to put us in this kind of family<br />
together. And I hope while you’re praying,<br />
you’ll ask him to give us hearts that continue<br />
looking to welcome others into this family – so<br />
they can learn about parenting, so they can<br />
serve alongside us, but ultimately so they can<br />
experience the beauty of the family of God.<br />
Will Spink<br />
Senior Pastor<br />
If you would like to contact<br />
Will, use the following:<br />
will.spink@southwood.org<br />
@WillSpink<br />
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SESSION UPDATE<br />
At the annual congregational meeting in February, we rejoiced<br />
together in God’s gracious provision for Southwood and in<br />
many encouraging ways God is at work to advance<br />
his kingdom here and around the world. The<br />
congregation elected Brent Snyder to the<br />
office of deacon in the church, and Bud<br />
Smith, Landa Pennington, and Jimmy<br />
Cook were selected as trustees for the<br />
corporation.<br />
We also at that meeting presented<br />
the <strong>2018</strong> budget, which is set at<br />
$2,113,605. We consider every<br />
penny of this budget to be for God’s<br />
mission, and we ask you to pray and<br />
give with us so that we might in<br />
particular share funds with kingdom<br />
partners here and around the world<br />
as well as support our Southwood<br />
staff which currently has every approved<br />
position filled for the first time in many years.<br />
OPERATIONS<br />
MINISTRIES<br />
$<br />
226,717 • 11%<br />
$<br />
533,935 • 25%<br />
DEBT SERVICE<br />
$<br />
153,800 • 8%<br />
The Congregation voted to approve pursuing the sale of the<br />
White House property, which the church purchased about five<br />
years ago. The Trustees have received helpful input from several<br />
members at recent informational meetings and will work to<br />
complete the sale on behalf of the church. Please contact the<br />
church office if you have any further questions, and<br />
we would be happy to answer them at any time.<br />
MISSION PARTNERS<br />
$<br />
200,983 • (Planned at<br />
11% of Operating Expenses)<br />
STAFF<br />
$<br />
998,070 • 47%<br />
Finally, thank you for praying for our<br />
recent Officers Retreat. Your elders<br />
and deacons enjoyed a rich time of<br />
fellowship and discussion of various<br />
items including strategic planning<br />
and discipleship. A significant<br />
portion of our time away, however,<br />
was spent praying for each other<br />
and for the congregation. We<br />
found this to be deeply needful<br />
for each of us, and we encourage<br />
you to be sharing and praying with<br />
us, with your small groups, and in<br />
many other contexts as we seek to<br />
follow Christ and advance his kingdom<br />
together.<br />
LIVING MISSIONALLY: ENGAGING THE WORLD WHERE WE LIVE<br />
Saturday Seminars are a new discipleship opportunity at<br />
Southwood designed to provide more intensive equipping<br />
for faithful living and effective ministry. Our desire is to take<br />
advantage of concentrated times to provide training on particular<br />
topics focused on living out our faith and engaging the world<br />
around us. In this setting we can dive deep into challenging<br />
areas and take the time to work out the practical implications<br />
in our lives.<br />
Our first seminar, entitled “Living Missionally,” will address ways<br />
to build relationships across cultural, ethnic, and socioeconomic<br />
barriers. It will be led by Ted Offutt, the Director of Training<br />
for Encompass World Partners. This initial seminar will begin<br />
at 9:00am with a light breakfast and end at 1:00pm after lunch.<br />
There is no cost for this seminar. Just come and learn with us<br />
how to more intentionally build relationships with those who<br />
need to hear about the Kingdom of Jesus. To sign up, email<br />
shannon.clark@southwood.org<br />
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CORNERSTONE CONFERENCE FOR COMMUNITY COMPASSION<br />
Crossing the Street<br />
We interact with countless people on a daily basis -- in our<br />
neighborhoods, at our schools, at our jobs, or even in the coffee<br />
shop. But actually “crossing the street” to get to know these<br />
neighbors takes effort and intentionality. Who are the neighbors<br />
God might be calling us to engage through a kind word,<br />
invitation to coffee, or simple act of service? Let’s challenge<br />
ourselves to be on the lookout for these opportunities as they<br />
occur, and really notice the people that the Lord has placed in<br />
our midst.<br />
by Robert Blevins<br />
At this year’s C4 Conference hosted by the Cornerstone<br />
Initiative, we examined the question, “Who is my neighbor?”<br />
The conference focused on our call as believers not only to serve<br />
others but also to pursue authentic relationships.<br />
This reminds me of back when I was in high school. I had<br />
realized that the best place to play basketball wasn’t out in the<br />
country where I lived, but in the neighborhood of a city that was<br />
unfamiliar to me. There, I found myself the only white guy in an<br />
African-American community where I wasn’t known or trusted. I<br />
did a lot of standing on the sidelines during those first few pickup<br />
games! It was pretty awkward. But once I proved that I could<br />
hold my own, I gained access onto the courts...and eventually<br />
into their lives. Through mutual, authentic friendships I started<br />
seeing—and caring about—the issues that affected them.<br />
In the church, we often think of being a good neighbor as<br />
squeezing volunteer work into our busy schedules. Three<br />
themes surfaced in the C4 Conference that challenged this idea<br />
of “neighboring” as an extracurricular activity:<br />
• We cannot say that we honor God and NOT love our<br />
neighbor (in other words, loving our neighbor is not an<br />
option).<br />
• Loving our neighbor means relinquishing idols of apathy,<br />
fear, and comfort.<br />
Crossing the City<br />
Our neighbors are more than those who live in the same cul de<br />
sac. City council member Devyn Keith challenged us to embrace<br />
both the Huntsville known for PhDs and progress, as well as the<br />
parts in our city dealing with higher levels of crime and violence.<br />
If we only know these communities by what we see on the news,<br />
we miss the richness and resilience of our entire city.<br />
Southwood partners with a number of ministries that serve<br />
people of diverse ethnicities and socio-economic backgrounds.<br />
This affords us an opportunity to come alongside our neighbors<br />
all over the city. Doing so requires us to shed perceived positions<br />
of power and take on a posture of humility. What might this look<br />
like practically? It means meeting people on their terms. We<br />
listen more than we talk. We learn about why new friends might<br />
make certain life choices rather than judge. We open ourselves<br />
to having our opinions, attitudes and lifestyles transformed as<br />
we gain a broader perspective of people in our city. This type<br />
of mutual discipleship leads us to bear each other's burdens as<br />
fellow citizens of Huntsville and, in some cases, co-laborers in<br />
the kingdom.<br />
Good Neighboring as a Lifestyle<br />
Perhaps your stage of life doesn’t allow you to volunteer in a<br />
ministry or host parties for your neighbors. But I’d challenge<br />
you to seek out avenues to practice good neighboring in ways<br />
that fit into the natural rhythms of your life, as well as to pray for<br />
neighbors both near and far.<br />
Who is my neighbor? Image bearers of God whom He calls me<br />
to love.<br />
• Loving neighbors across socioeconomic and racial lines is<br />
often awkward and costly, but essential.<br />
COMMUNITY IMPACT DAY:<br />
On April 7, we’ll have an opportunity to express grace to<br />
our neighbors by serving alongside a few of our ministry<br />
partners. Please save the date and be on the lookout for<br />
more information later this month.
SOUTHWOOD<br />
PARENTING<br />
PARTNERS<br />
by Derrick Harris<br />
and Peter Render<br />
Parenting! What comes to mind when you read the word?<br />
Good? Bad? I don’t wanna talk about it? Do you gloat in your<br />
successes or loathe the memories of past mistakes? Whatever<br />
comes to your mind, it will never change one fact: there is only<br />
one perfect parent and it is not you. It’s not us either. It IS God.<br />
Though, if we analyze his style of parenting, it can become, well,<br />
downright confusing.<br />
Many have judged God by our modern secular parenting<br />
standards and accused him of cosmic child abuse for letting<br />
his only son die, abandonment for watching it happen, and<br />
negligence for being nowhere in sight. But wait, Jesus IS God!<br />
Therefore, we should rightfully and respectfully award God with<br />
the glory that he is due. God, the Author of life, redeemed the<br />
entire universe through his life, death, and resurrection, offers<br />
us eternal security, provides constant presence and friendship<br />
through his Spirit, and extends the opportunity to be adopted<br />
as his sons and daughters through faith. He also has a plan to<br />
renovate all of creation through lives that are surrendered to his<br />
will until he returns to take us all home. When we really remember<br />
who God is, we are forced to focus on his righteousness that has<br />
been imputed to us and has washed away our ultimate failures.<br />
Parenting is yet one more opportunity to remember our Creator,<br />
our redemption, and our future hope.<br />
Peter and I have been working with parents for nearly 40 years<br />
combined, and we have never heard a parent say, “I’ve got this<br />
parenting thing down and I don’t need any help or support.”<br />
Rather, it has been the complete opposite. It’s been countless<br />
meetings with families, typically done in confidence, where they<br />
unmask their struggles with parenting. Most feel as though they<br />
are the only ones who have difficulty, describing the lonely island<br />
that they inhabit as castaways from the “normal” life. This lonely<br />
island feels like separation from the rest of the world where they<br />
are just trying to figure out how to survive. Many times, they<br />
blame themselves for the struggles they are facing. They feel<br />
ill-equipped to face the challenges that rearing another sinful<br />
creature affords. The struggle works itself into every crevice<br />
of their lives, especially their marriages. We get the amazing<br />
opportunity to pray with them, lead them to God’s throne of<br />
grace, and remind them of the truth. You are made in the image<br />
of God, and so are your children, which means that you are not<br />
alone AND that you are not in control.<br />
As parents, God has given you influence, but he has not given<br />
you control. To find joy in parenting, we must surrender control<br />
to the Author of our children. God has not designed parents to<br />
be perfect or to control their child’s faith outcomes or choices.<br />
Rather, he has designed parents to have influence, over time.<br />
Influence means that we cannot control the outcomes. Trying to<br />
control outcomes will only leave us busier, emptier, and missing<br />
even more opportunities to relate with our children.<br />
Our lives are made up of phases. Those phases change fast. For<br />
our children they change every year. Family ministries expert<br />
Reggie Joiner defines a phase as “a timeframe in a kid’s life<br />
when you can leverage distinctive opportunities to influence<br />
their future and their faith.“ That’s why it is important for us all<br />
to learn as much as we can about the ever changing phases of<br />
our children. Joiner also writes that “the average parent has<br />
less than 1,000 weeks from the time their kids are born until they<br />
move out of the house.” WOW! That means that every moment<br />
counts. Though every child is unique, there are similarities<br />
that we can learn. God has hardwired us for different needs in<br />
different phases. The book It’s Just a Phase So Don’t Miss It<br />
sums up the major developmental phases of our children in four<br />
words: EMBRACE, ENGAGE, AFFIRM, and MOBILIZE.<br />
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EMBRACE their physical needs (Birth-Preschool): During this<br />
phase parents must learn to “embrace” their child’s tangible<br />
needs so they can begin to establish physical trust. In doing<br />
so, they teach them about the loving embrace of our loving<br />
Heavenly Father.<br />
ENGAGE their interests (1st Grade-5th Grade): During the<br />
elementary years, parents should take a crash course in<br />
storytelling and play so they can “engage” the interest of their<br />
child. This will be the best time to earn relational credit, which<br />
you’ll need to cash in later.<br />
AFFIRM their personal journey (6th Grade-8th Grade): During<br />
middle school, parents need to master the skill of never<br />
freaking out. This is when they learn to “affirm” the personal<br />
journey of their tween. During this time, they will have plenty<br />
of opportunities to prove a relational commitment.<br />
MOBILIZE their potential (9th Grade-12th Grade): At ninth<br />
grade, parents start mastering the art of negotiating. They<br />
have approximately 200 weeks left to “mobilize” their kid<br />
toward a better future. This is when parents need to leverage<br />
their relational influence.<br />
Whatever phase or phases of parenting you are in, it’s going<br />
to move fast, and God has designed you to be the primary<br />
influencer. Remember that you are not alone and you are not<br />
in control.<br />
Deuteronomy 6:1-8 reads, “Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God,<br />
the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your<br />
heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these<br />
words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You<br />
shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of<br />
them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the<br />
way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.”<br />
This reality is the reason why our children and youth ministries<br />
are necessarily FAMILY ministries. Yes, we love you and<br />
want to be actively involved in your lives, learning from each<br />
other in Christian community. But also, we are charged with<br />
something similar to you. God’s ultimate role for parents is to<br />
be mature followers of Jesus, raising up immature followers to<br />
maturity. Our ultimate role as pastors is not too different. We<br />
struggle, together as one family, “with all Christ’s energy that<br />
he powerfully works within us” (Col. 1:28-29). None of us is on<br />
an island. None of us is too far gone for help. None of us has<br />
it figured out. But our Creator and Father has made a way for<br />
us to be better parents. We have a way to grow in our abilities<br />
through the Holy Spirit in the same ways that we grow in other<br />
areas that we cannot figure out. Intentional pursuit, interrupted<br />
by sin, repentance, and running to Christ. Sound familiar?<br />
What we do every day matters. How we do it matters, too.<br />
It requires intentionality, support, and learning on our part as<br />
parents so that we may do our best to prepare for the parenting<br />
phase that we are in and the one we’re moving towards. That’s<br />
one of the reasons that Peter and I have designed something<br />
called a Parent C.A.F.E. that will begin on Tuesday, April 17.<br />
It’s all in the name. This is an environment designed for us<br />
to C-onnect, A-cknowledge that we don’t have it all together,<br />
F-ocus on what really matters, and E-ncourage each other. In<br />
short, this is an evening designed to support, encourage, and<br />
help equip each other for this journey called parenting. Would<br />
you consider joining us?<br />
JOIN US<br />
APRIL 17<br />
FOR THE FIRST PARENT C.A.F.E.!<br />
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ASK A PASTOR<br />
Resurection,<br />
So What<br />
by Ron Clegg<br />
core of my being.<br />
On another more daily level, though, for me the resurrection<br />
is huge. It means death is ended, and life is coming. It is a<br />
promise to me that my death is not the end of the story, nor is it<br />
even an extremely bad thing. Death is swallowed up in life, and<br />
in that new life, all things will be made new. Internally, that gives<br />
me a joyous hope.<br />
Q<br />
It is not hard to notice that<br />
Easter, the day we celebrate the<br />
resurrection of Jesus, is not quite<br />
the celebration that Christmas is.<br />
So, what is the significance of the<br />
resurrection?<br />
Life on this side of heaven is a process of dying, and not just<br />
physically. Daily my fl esh, that part of me that insists on selfcontrol,<br />
self-autonomy, self-suffi ciency, and self-determination is<br />
steadily dying. Through His Spirit, God the Father is opposing<br />
my fl esh and putting it to death. He does that through exposing<br />
my sin and shame. He brings my sin to the surface in ways<br />
that are very hurtful to other people. My self-determination is<br />
the source of so much emptiness, thirst, and dissatisfaction. I<br />
absolutely long for the day when my struggle with sin will end<br />
and this painful process of dying will be completed, because<br />
I know what lies on the other side. The resurrection of Jesus<br />
guarantees that life is coming—new life, resurrected life, eternal<br />
life, gloriously joyous and free life! I can’t wait until that day<br />
comes. In the here and now, I wait in certain hope because<br />
Jesus rose from the dead.<br />
A<br />
In this season that we celebrate the resurrection<br />
of Jesus from the dead, we often spend a<br />
great deal of time defending the reality of the<br />
resurrection. This historical event is absolutely<br />
critical for our faith, no doubt. But on a daily<br />
basis, what difference does it make? How does it make my day,<br />
my relationships, my work, and my play different? So what that<br />
Jesus rose from the dead—What is the big deal?<br />
We can look at it on a theological level and say that the<br />
resurrection was God the Father’s glorious stamp of approval<br />
on the sacrifi ce Jesus made for our sins. It validated everything<br />
Jesus did and said. It also means that, because of the<br />
resurrection, my justifi cation, my perfect standing with God<br />
the Eternal Judge, is settled. I am accepted, approved, and<br />
enjoyed. No more divine enmity. No more condemnation.<br />
Rather, I now am the target of the Judge’s passionate and<br />
unending delight. That truth is life-changing. It gives me a<br />
freedom that goes deep and causes joy to gush up from the<br />
On another level, daily I experience the pain and frustration<br />
of death that is physical. I live with a very dear woman who<br />
is almost 92 years old and who suffers with dementia. She<br />
can no longer do the simplest things in life. She is helpless<br />
as she waits in abject confusion and darkness until the day of<br />
her fi nal departure. But this is not the end of the story. A day<br />
is coming when she will leave the darkness of this life behind,<br />
and with clarity of mind like she has never had, she will rejoice<br />
in the fullness of her resurrected life. She will know fully. She<br />
will remember. She will praise the One who was raised from<br />
the grave. Jesus said He would make all things new, and the<br />
resurrection was simply the fi rst step in that wonderful journey, a<br />
journey of hope for all who trust in Him.<br />
So, what difference does the resurrection make? Everything.<br />
Because Jesus came up from the grave, I do not go through my<br />
days without hope. I am moving towards something that is so<br />
good, so much better even than Christmas, that I can’t wait for<br />
it fi nally to come.<br />
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CURL UP WITH...<br />
EASTER READINGS<br />
AVAILABLE IN THE GUEST CENTER:<br />
DOCTRINE OF REPENTANCE<br />
by Thomas Watson<br />
Knowing what repentance is and<br />
actually repenting are essential to true<br />
Christianity. Jesus Christ himself said<br />
that if we do not repent, we will perish!<br />
Thomas Watson was a master of both<br />
Scripture and the human heart and<br />
wrote with a simplicity and directness<br />
that keeps his work fresh and powerful<br />
for the twenty-first century.<br />
THE PASSION OF JESUS CHRIST<br />
by John Piper<br />
Denying that Christ suffered and<br />
died is like denying the Holocaust.<br />
Those who deny either event live in a<br />
historical dreamworld. Jesus suffered<br />
unspeakably and died. The Passion<br />
of Jesus Christ shows that the gore<br />
of Christ's suffering is turned to glory<br />
by the enormity and diversity of what<br />
his death achieved. To do this, John<br />
Piper uncovers fifty accomplishments<br />
of Christ's suffering. He shuns<br />
embellishment and shows from the<br />
Bible key evidence for each outcome of<br />
Christ's death.<br />
MISSION ACCOMPLISHED<br />
by Scott James<br />
Although Easter Sunday only happens<br />
once a year, the truths behind it are big<br />
enough to shape our lives every single<br />
day. Starting on Palm Sunday, your<br />
family will spend two weeks (fourteen<br />
devotions) walking in time with Jesus<br />
as he finished the work his Father had<br />
given him. Extending beyond Easter<br />
Sunday will encourage your family to<br />
follow the risen Jesus as he calls his<br />
disciples on a Spirit-filled mission to<br />
spread the good news to all nations.<br />
Each devotion takes just ten minutes<br />
and is suitable for all ages of children.<br />
MY EASTER BASKET AND THE TRUE<br />
STORY OF EASTER<br />
by Mary Manz Simon<br />
Easter is about much more than yellow<br />
chicks and white bunnies. Young<br />
children can use the colors in this<br />
basket to discover the real meaning of<br />
this special day. As they walk through<br />
the Bible story, they will learn why we<br />
celebrate Easter–because Jesus is alive!
y Christine Betts<br />
Our luggage is not light as we arrive Friday night.<br />
Our hearts are of one accord as we listen to Mike Ford.<br />
We are told, “Do not seek to sin, but give Jesus your burden.”<br />
We enjoy skits, small groups, and ice cream scoops.<br />
We play lots of pool and ping-pong and dance to our favorite song.<br />
The time we spend doing devotions brings quite a few emotions.<br />
The afternoon is spent playing games in the monsoon.<br />
From a pyramid to a human pretzel everyone is competing for the medal.<br />
From painting to playing kickball there was fun to be had by all.<br />
Everyone paints wood and all of them look good.<br />
Everyone screams each other’s names and plays lots of games.<br />
We take courage and let go of our baggage.<br />
We are gently serenaded by guitars under the cloud-covered stars.<br />
The bags are loaded up and there is coffee in each cup.<br />
The games and the talks are all complete so we come home from the winter retreat.
ALL THAT IS FAIR<br />
WERE YOU THERE?<br />
by James Parker<br />
Let's pretend you are standing on the edge of the Grand<br />
Canyon. You look to the opposite edge many miles away.<br />
Your gaze moves from the horizon down to the raging river<br />
thousands of feet below. You follow every twist and turn of the<br />
landscape, every variation in color and light, every tree, every<br />
squirrel, every bird... the scene surrounds you. It wraps you up<br />
in a cosmic bear hug. It makes you feel like your senses are just<br />
too small to receive it. Your head feels like it's spinning off your<br />
shoulders desperately trying to take it all in. Then, you take a<br />
few pictures...<br />
Let's also pretend that you still use a film camera. You wait<br />
with eager anticipation for the photos to be developed,<br />
remembering the awesome power of the experience you had.<br />
A few hours or maybe a day of waiting and reminiscing. You've<br />
recounted your trip to your friends dozens of times already<br />
and you've only just returned the day before. Its impact is<br />
profoundly imprinted on your memory and you can't wait to<br />
go back. Until then, settling for a eucharistic remembrance<br />
in pictures and stories of glory will have to be your surrogate.<br />
The pharmacy calls, your images are ready...<br />
Stretching the speed limit a bit, you earnestly make your way<br />
to pick them up. A few rolls of film from your day at the canyon<br />
and a heart full of anticipation. Maybe you'll feel that same<br />
feeling again? Maybe the belonging sense of smallness will<br />
return and you can be overcome with delight and gratitude.<br />
Swipe your card, grab the envelopes, and head to the car. As<br />
soon as you sit down at the wheel you start flipping through the<br />
photos. They're wonderful! Better than you'd imagined. Most<br />
of the time on a 24 exposure roll, you'd be lucky to get 3 good<br />
shots, but almost all of these are phenomenal. You captured<br />
the setting sunlight in exaggerated ways, leaving an artistic<br />
impression of something other than what you remember,<br />
something even beyond nature, almost spiritual, enhancing<br />
your memory of the day. But as lovely as these pictures are,<br />
something's missing...<br />
That same feeling didn't rush back to you. Why? Is something<br />
wrong with you? Are the pictures not as good as you think?<br />
No, it's just that experiencing something first-hand will always<br />
yield a greater impact. Any attempt to rehash an experience<br />
will fall short of actually being there. It doesn't matter if you're<br />
trying to recount in words, pictures, music, dance... Nor does<br />
it matter if the experience was massive or mundane, painful<br />
or pleasant. At some point, our attempts at bringing people<br />
into our remembrances will fall flat. It is the natural limitation<br />
of being separated from each other's hearts and spirits by flesh<br />
and bone...<br />
There was this one time in human history, when a man came<br />
saying all sorts of crazy things about himself and his father in<br />
heaven. He lived among us as one of us, yet not one of us.<br />
He taught to multitudes. He worked miracles. He had deep<br />
relationships. He said he was one with the father. As if the<br />
limitations of his humanity had been bypassed. How can a bag<br />
of flesh and bone be one with the father? Don't you have to die<br />
first for your spirit to be free to be in union with its creator? He<br />
could never quite make us see exactly how that was possible.<br />
Until...<br />
He looked up to heaven from the cross of a thief and said "It<br />
is finished." The temple veil tore, just like his body, removing<br />
the inherent barrier of flesh and bone. He was buried, and on<br />
the third day he rose again from the grave. That Grand Canyon<br />
oneness that no frame can capture, because we are individuals<br />
divided from each other... Jesus himself became that road back<br />
to oneness. Back in the day, we depended on someone like<br />
Moses to describe the glory of the lord to us, to bear witness<br />
to the burning bush, to be the mouthpiece of the law. But now,<br />
we have Jesus.<br />
"Jesus said to him [Thomas], 'I am the way, and the truth, and<br />
the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you<br />
had known me, you would have known my Father also. From<br />
now on you do know him and have seen him.'... 'Whoever has<br />
seen me has seen the Father'"<br />
Easter is so dramatic, so huge. All of our remembrances fall<br />
profoundly flat. The very best songs, sermons, and soliloquies<br />
we can muster just do not carry the impact of what it must have<br />
been like for Mary Magdalene, Thomas the doubter, Simon<br />
Peter, and everyone else who witnessed those events. Our<br />
hearts are bigger than the canvas on which we paint.<br />
This year during Holy Week, it's my prayer that we would all<br />
recognize the limitations of what we do to celebrate these<br />
events. But at the same time, remember that our hearts were<br />
made for God himself. The images are not the thing itself. The<br />
hymns we sing are only a retelling. Jesus, not pictures, is the<br />
thing. He is the Grand Canyon. He fills our bottomless hearts.
Grace<br />
Coming Alive to the Compelling Love of God !<br />
HUNTSVILLE <strong>2018</strong><br />
&MEN<br />
April SATURDAY21st, <strong>2018</strong><br />
SOUTHWOOD PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH<br />
9:00AM - 4:00PM<br />
Scotty Smith<br />
“How the Gospel<br />
Changes Men”<br />
Author & Teacher-In-Residence<br />
West End Community Church (PCA)<br />
“Everyday Prayers: 365 Days<br />
to a Gospel-Centered Faith”<br />
Franklin, TN<br />
How does the good news of the Gospel help us change? Come for discussions<br />
that will be personal not just clinical. Warm not just analytical. Practical not<br />
just theoretical. Encouraging not burdening. If you have an interest in how the<br />
Gospel makes you a happier, more fruitful man, join us on April 21st, <strong>2018</strong> at<br />
the Grace & Men Conference at Southwood Presbyterian.<br />
Conference Cost<br />
Southwood (or Group) Cost: $52<br />
Student Cost: $29<br />
Price includes boxed lunch & refreshments<br />
Register online<br />
at graceandmen.com