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<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />

PARENTING PARTNERS<br />

MARCH <strong>2018</strong> | southwood.org<br />

saturday seminars:<br />

engaging the world where we live<br />

resurection, so what?:<br />

the importance of easter


SOUTHWOOD<br />

OVERVIEW<br />

CONTENTS<br />

<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />

DESIGNER Eli Maples<br />

CONTRIBUTORS<br />

Will Spink<br />

Ron Clegg<br />

Robert Blevins<br />

Peter Render<br />

Derrick Harris<br />

Christine Betts<br />

James Parker<br />

PHOTOS<br />

Southwood Members<br />

FEEDBACK!<br />

We want to hear from you! Please send<br />

your suggestions and comments to<br />

branches@southwood.org<br />

1000 CARL T. JONES DRIVE | HUNTSVILLE, ALABAMA 35802<br />

(256) 882-3085 | WWW.SOUTHWOOD.ORG<br />

COVER PHOTO<br />

Father and son hold hands<br />

CHURCH STAFF<br />

CHRISTINE BETTS Assistant Director, Youth/Families<br />

NIÑA CASH Director of Children's Ministry<br />

RITA CLARDY Executive Assistant<br />

SHANNON CLARK Administrative Assistant<br />

RON CLEGG Assistant Pastor, Discipleship<br />

TY COMMONS Youth and Family Intern<br />

JANICE CROWSON Director of Facilities/Finance<br />

KIM DELCHAMPS Administrative Assistant<br />

TERRI GOOD Accountant/Bookkeeper<br />

DERRICK HARRIS Asst. Pastor, Shepherding & Young Families<br />

ELI MAPLES Graphic Designer<br />

ROBERT BLEVINS Director of Community Development<br />

JAMES PARKER Chief Musician<br />

PETER RENDER Assistant Pastor, Youth/Families<br />

ANGELA SIERK Assistant Director/Children's Ministry<br />

WILL SPINK Senior Pastor<br />

3 pastor's note<br />

4 saturday seminars<br />

Living missionally where we are<br />

5 who is my neighbor<br />

6 parenting partners<br />

8 ask a pastor<br />

resurection, so what?<br />

10 unclaimed baggage<br />

photos from the sr. high retreat<br />

11 all that's fair<br />

UPCOMING EVENTS<br />

Saturday Seminars<br />

<strong>March</strong> 10<br />

Time Change<br />

<strong>March</strong> 11<br />

Southwood Women's Retreat<br />

<strong>March</strong> 16-18<br />

Maundy Thursday Service<br />

<strong>March</strong> 29<br />

Good Friday Service<br />

<strong>March</strong> 30<br />

Easter Egg Hunt<br />

<strong>March</strong> 31<br />

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PASTOR’S NOTE<br />

A Beautiful Evening<br />

A couple of weeks ago on a Tuesday night<br />

about 75 parents of young children gathered<br />

in the Lodge to eat tacos, share the joys and<br />

struggles of parenting, and be encouraged<br />

and equipped for pointing their kids to Jesus.<br />

Across the street about 80 of their kids ate pizza,<br />

shared toys (and germs), and demonstrated<br />

their need for being pointed to Jesus.<br />

Actually they behaved perfectly (mostly), but<br />

you get the idea. It was a beautiful evening.<br />

What a delight to see people connect with<br />

each other and consider the common calling<br />

God has given them as parents. In the midst of<br />

busy lives, what was happening around those<br />

plastic tables will undoubtedly have eternal<br />

impact. This night is indicative of the heart<br />

that we have at Southwood for impacting the<br />

next generation. We believe that parents have<br />

a great responsibility for the nurture of their<br />

children and that we have the great privilege<br />

to partner with, encourage, and equip them in<br />

that gloriously difficult task.<br />

You can read more of that heart in the middle of<br />

this issue of <strong>BRANCHES</strong>, as Pastor Derrick and<br />

Pastor Peter describe a vision for more such<br />

evenings and more such relationships with<br />

parents in our congregation and community<br />

in the days and years ahead. We can’t wait to<br />

see the Gospel transform lives now and impact<br />

generations for the future through these<br />

relationships.<br />

But I haven’t even told you the most beautiful<br />

part of the evening yet. In order to feed and<br />

care for the 150 people mentioned above, we<br />

needed a lot of help. And the majority of that<br />

help came from Southwood members (more<br />

than 20 of them!) who no longer have young<br />

children at home. Some of them have spent<br />

many years raising children of their own, and<br />

others of them have for many years made the<br />

children of Southwood their family. But they<br />

cooked, they served food, they chased kids,<br />

they cleaned up after spills, they talked with<br />

young parents, and they prayed for young kids.<br />

Now that’s beautiful. When we show up to<br />

serve rather than consume, when we help pull<br />

off events not designed for us, when we treat<br />

others as more important than ourselves, we<br />

are loving in the beautiful way God has created<br />

his family to love. This happens in many ways<br />

in the life of our church, but I didn’t want you<br />

to miss this one!<br />

As I thanked some of those volunteers, they<br />

said things like “I can’t imagine parenting<br />

these days; anything I can do to help these<br />

parents, I’m happy to do,” “It encourages my<br />

heart to see these young people looking to<br />

Jesus and connecting with each other,” and<br />

“O, I wouldn’t be anywhere else; please let<br />

me know when you do this again so I can help<br />

again.”<br />

As I talked with some of the young parents,<br />

they said things like “What a huge blessing<br />

to have people I look up to so much serving<br />

us at an event like this,” “I love the fact that<br />

our church has people ahead of me on this<br />

parenting path who care enough to share what<br />

God has taught them with us,” and “I hope we<br />

do this more often. And I hope we as younger<br />

people can return the favor to those who<br />

served us tonight.”<br />

Wouldn’t that be beautiful? It may not be age<br />

differences every time, but when we love and<br />

serve those who are different from us in any<br />

way rather than focusing on what we need and<br />

want others to do for us, we’re loving a little bit<br />

more like Jesus. One generation commends<br />

his works to another, and the greatness of the<br />

grace of Jesus spreads exponentially to more<br />

who need to know Him.<br />

I hope you’ll take a moment to thank God for<br />

loving us enough to put us in this kind of family<br />

together. And I hope while you’re praying,<br />

you’ll ask him to give us hearts that continue<br />

looking to welcome others into this family – so<br />

they can learn about parenting, so they can<br />

serve alongside us, but ultimately so they can<br />

experience the beauty of the family of God.<br />

Will Spink<br />

Senior Pastor<br />

If you would like to contact<br />

Will, use the following:<br />

will.spink@southwood.org<br />

@WillSpink<br />

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SOUTHWOOD<br />

SESSION UPDATE<br />

At the annual congregational meeting in February, we rejoiced<br />

together in God’s gracious provision for Southwood and in<br />

many encouraging ways God is at work to advance<br />

his kingdom here and around the world. The<br />

congregation elected Brent Snyder to the<br />

office of deacon in the church, and Bud<br />

Smith, Landa Pennington, and Jimmy<br />

Cook were selected as trustees for the<br />

corporation.<br />

We also at that meeting presented<br />

the <strong>2018</strong> budget, which is set at<br />

$2,113,605. We consider every<br />

penny of this budget to be for God’s<br />

mission, and we ask you to pray and<br />

give with us so that we might in<br />

particular share funds with kingdom<br />

partners here and around the world<br />

as well as support our Southwood<br />

staff which currently has every approved<br />

position filled for the first time in many years.<br />

OPERATIONS<br />

MINISTRIES<br />

$<br />

226,717 • 11%<br />

$<br />

533,935 • 25%<br />

DEBT SERVICE<br />

$<br />

153,800 • 8%<br />

The Congregation voted to approve pursuing the sale of the<br />

White House property, which the church purchased about five<br />

years ago. The Trustees have received helpful input from several<br />

members at recent informational meetings and will work to<br />

complete the sale on behalf of the church. Please contact the<br />

church office if you have any further questions, and<br />

we would be happy to answer them at any time.<br />

MISSION PARTNERS<br />

$<br />

200,983 • (Planned at<br />

11% of Operating Expenses)<br />

STAFF<br />

$<br />

998,070 • 47%<br />

Finally, thank you for praying for our<br />

recent Officers Retreat. Your elders<br />

and deacons enjoyed a rich time of<br />

fellowship and discussion of various<br />

items including strategic planning<br />

and discipleship. A significant<br />

portion of our time away, however,<br />

was spent praying for each other<br />

and for the congregation. We<br />

found this to be deeply needful<br />

for each of us, and we encourage<br />

you to be sharing and praying with<br />

us, with your small groups, and in<br />

many other contexts as we seek to<br />

follow Christ and advance his kingdom<br />

together.<br />

LIVING MISSIONALLY: ENGAGING THE WORLD WHERE WE LIVE<br />

Saturday Seminars are a new discipleship opportunity at<br />

Southwood designed to provide more intensive equipping<br />

for faithful living and effective ministry. Our desire is to take<br />

advantage of concentrated times to provide training on particular<br />

topics focused on living out our faith and engaging the world<br />

around us. In this setting we can dive deep into challenging<br />

areas and take the time to work out the practical implications<br />

in our lives.<br />

Our first seminar, entitled “Living Missionally,” will address ways<br />

to build relationships across cultural, ethnic, and socioeconomic<br />

barriers. It will be led by Ted Offutt, the Director of Training<br />

for Encompass World Partners. This initial seminar will begin<br />

at 9:00am with a light breakfast and end at 1:00pm after lunch.<br />

There is no cost for this seminar. Just come and learn with us<br />

how to more intentionally build relationships with those who<br />

need to hear about the Kingdom of Jesus. To sign up, email<br />

shannon.clark@southwood.org<br />

4 MARCH <strong>2018</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG


CORNERSTONE CONFERENCE FOR COMMUNITY COMPASSION<br />

Crossing the Street<br />

We interact with countless people on a daily basis -- in our<br />

neighborhoods, at our schools, at our jobs, or even in the coffee<br />

shop. But actually “crossing the street” to get to know these<br />

neighbors takes effort and intentionality. Who are the neighbors<br />

God might be calling us to engage through a kind word,<br />

invitation to coffee, or simple act of service? Let’s challenge<br />

ourselves to be on the lookout for these opportunities as they<br />

occur, and really notice the people that the Lord has placed in<br />

our midst.<br />

by Robert Blevins<br />

At this year’s C4 Conference hosted by the Cornerstone<br />

Initiative, we examined the question, “Who is my neighbor?”<br />

The conference focused on our call as believers not only to serve<br />

others but also to pursue authentic relationships.<br />

This reminds me of back when I was in high school. I had<br />

realized that the best place to play basketball wasn’t out in the<br />

country where I lived, but in the neighborhood of a city that was<br />

unfamiliar to me. There, I found myself the only white guy in an<br />

African-American community where I wasn’t known or trusted. I<br />

did a lot of standing on the sidelines during those first few pickup<br />

games! It was pretty awkward. But once I proved that I could<br />

hold my own, I gained access onto the courts...and eventually<br />

into their lives. Through mutual, authentic friendships I started<br />

seeing—and caring about—the issues that affected them.<br />

In the church, we often think of being a good neighbor as<br />

squeezing volunteer work into our busy schedules. Three<br />

themes surfaced in the C4 Conference that challenged this idea<br />

of “neighboring” as an extracurricular activity:<br />

• We cannot say that we honor God and NOT love our<br />

neighbor (in other words, loving our neighbor is not an<br />

option).<br />

• Loving our neighbor means relinquishing idols of apathy,<br />

fear, and comfort.<br />

Crossing the City<br />

Our neighbors are more than those who live in the same cul de<br />

sac. City council member Devyn Keith challenged us to embrace<br />

both the Huntsville known for PhDs and progress, as well as the<br />

parts in our city dealing with higher levels of crime and violence.<br />

If we only know these communities by what we see on the news,<br />

we miss the richness and resilience of our entire city.<br />

Southwood partners with a number of ministries that serve<br />

people of diverse ethnicities and socio-economic backgrounds.<br />

This affords us an opportunity to come alongside our neighbors<br />

all over the city. Doing so requires us to shed perceived positions<br />

of power and take on a posture of humility. What might this look<br />

like practically? It means meeting people on their terms. We<br />

listen more than we talk. We learn about why new friends might<br />

make certain life choices rather than judge. We open ourselves<br />

to having our opinions, attitudes and lifestyles transformed as<br />

we gain a broader perspective of people in our city. This type<br />

of mutual discipleship leads us to bear each other's burdens as<br />

fellow citizens of Huntsville and, in some cases, co-laborers in<br />

the kingdom.<br />

Good Neighboring as a Lifestyle<br />

Perhaps your stage of life doesn’t allow you to volunteer in a<br />

ministry or host parties for your neighbors. But I’d challenge<br />

you to seek out avenues to practice good neighboring in ways<br />

that fit into the natural rhythms of your life, as well as to pray for<br />

neighbors both near and far.<br />

Who is my neighbor? Image bearers of God whom He calls me<br />

to love.<br />

• Loving neighbors across socioeconomic and racial lines is<br />

often awkward and costly, but essential.<br />

COMMUNITY IMPACT DAY:<br />

On April 7, we’ll have an opportunity to express grace to<br />

our neighbors by serving alongside a few of our ministry<br />

partners. Please save the date and be on the lookout for<br />

more information later this month.


SOUTHWOOD<br />

PARENTING<br />

PARTNERS<br />

by Derrick Harris<br />

and Peter Render<br />

Parenting! What comes to mind when you read the word?<br />

Good? Bad? I don’t wanna talk about it? Do you gloat in your<br />

successes or loathe the memories of past mistakes? Whatever<br />

comes to your mind, it will never change one fact: there is only<br />

one perfect parent and it is not you. It’s not us either. It IS God.<br />

Though, if we analyze his style of parenting, it can become, well,<br />

downright confusing.<br />

Many have judged God by our modern secular parenting<br />

standards and accused him of cosmic child abuse for letting<br />

his only son die, abandonment for watching it happen, and<br />

negligence for being nowhere in sight. But wait, Jesus IS God!<br />

Therefore, we should rightfully and respectfully award God with<br />

the glory that he is due. God, the Author of life, redeemed the<br />

entire universe through his life, death, and resurrection, offers<br />

us eternal security, provides constant presence and friendship<br />

through his Spirit, and extends the opportunity to be adopted<br />

as his sons and daughters through faith. He also has a plan to<br />

renovate all of creation through lives that are surrendered to his<br />

will until he returns to take us all home. When we really remember<br />

who God is, we are forced to focus on his righteousness that has<br />

been imputed to us and has washed away our ultimate failures.<br />

Parenting is yet one more opportunity to remember our Creator,<br />

our redemption, and our future hope.<br />

Peter and I have been working with parents for nearly 40 years<br />

combined, and we have never heard a parent say, “I’ve got this<br />

parenting thing down and I don’t need any help or support.”<br />

Rather, it has been the complete opposite. It’s been countless<br />

meetings with families, typically done in confidence, where they<br />

unmask their struggles with parenting. Most feel as though they<br />

are the only ones who have difficulty, describing the lonely island<br />

that they inhabit as castaways from the “normal” life. This lonely<br />

island feels like separation from the rest of the world where they<br />

are just trying to figure out how to survive. Many times, they<br />

blame themselves for the struggles they are facing. They feel<br />

ill-equipped to face the challenges that rearing another sinful<br />

creature affords. The struggle works itself into every crevice<br />

of their lives, especially their marriages. We get the amazing<br />

opportunity to pray with them, lead them to God’s throne of<br />

grace, and remind them of the truth. You are made in the image<br />

of God, and so are your children, which means that you are not<br />

alone AND that you are not in control.<br />

As parents, God has given you influence, but he has not given<br />

you control. To find joy in parenting, we must surrender control<br />

to the Author of our children. God has not designed parents to<br />

be perfect or to control their child’s faith outcomes or choices.<br />

Rather, he has designed parents to have influence, over time.<br />

Influence means that we cannot control the outcomes. Trying to<br />

control outcomes will only leave us busier, emptier, and missing<br />

even more opportunities to relate with our children.<br />

Our lives are made up of phases. Those phases change fast. For<br />

our children they change every year. Family ministries expert<br />

Reggie Joiner defines a phase as “a timeframe in a kid’s life<br />

when you can leverage distinctive opportunities to influence<br />

their future and their faith.“ That’s why it is important for us all<br />

to learn as much as we can about the ever changing phases of<br />

our children. Joiner also writes that “the average parent has<br />

less than 1,000 weeks from the time their kids are born until they<br />

move out of the house.” WOW! That means that every moment<br />

counts. Though every child is unique, there are similarities<br />

that we can learn. God has hardwired us for different needs in<br />

different phases. The book It’s Just a Phase So Don’t Miss It<br />

sums up the major developmental phases of our children in four<br />

words: EMBRACE, ENGAGE, AFFIRM, and MOBILIZE.<br />

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EMBRACE their physical needs (Birth-Preschool): During this<br />

phase parents must learn to “embrace” their child’s tangible<br />

needs so they can begin to establish physical trust. In doing<br />

so, they teach them about the loving embrace of our loving<br />

Heavenly Father.<br />

ENGAGE their interests (1st Grade-5th Grade): During the<br />

elementary years, parents should take a crash course in<br />

storytelling and play so they can “engage” the interest of their<br />

child. This will be the best time to earn relational credit, which<br />

you’ll need to cash in later.<br />

AFFIRM their personal journey (6th Grade-8th Grade): During<br />

middle school, parents need to master the skill of never<br />

freaking out. This is when they learn to “affirm” the personal<br />

journey of their tween. During this time, they will have plenty<br />

of opportunities to prove a relational commitment.<br />

MOBILIZE their potential (9th Grade-12th Grade): At ninth<br />

grade, parents start mastering the art of negotiating. They<br />

have approximately 200 weeks left to “mobilize” their kid<br />

toward a better future. This is when parents need to leverage<br />

their relational influence.<br />

Whatever phase or phases of parenting you are in, it’s going<br />

to move fast, and God has designed you to be the primary<br />

influencer. Remember that you are not alone and you are not<br />

in control.<br />

Deuteronomy 6:1-8 reads, “Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God,<br />

the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your<br />

heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these<br />

words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You<br />

shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of<br />

them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the<br />

way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.”<br />

This reality is the reason why our children and youth ministries<br />

are necessarily FAMILY ministries. Yes, we love you and<br />

want to be actively involved in your lives, learning from each<br />

other in Christian community. But also, we are charged with<br />

something similar to you. God’s ultimate role for parents is to<br />

be mature followers of Jesus, raising up immature followers to<br />

maturity. Our ultimate role as pastors is not too different. We<br />

struggle, together as one family, “with all Christ’s energy that<br />

he powerfully works within us” (Col. 1:28-29). None of us is on<br />

an island. None of us is too far gone for help. None of us has<br />

it figured out. But our Creator and Father has made a way for<br />

us to be better parents. We have a way to grow in our abilities<br />

through the Holy Spirit in the same ways that we grow in other<br />

areas that we cannot figure out. Intentional pursuit, interrupted<br />

by sin, repentance, and running to Christ. Sound familiar?<br />

What we do every day matters. How we do it matters, too.<br />

It requires intentionality, support, and learning on our part as<br />

parents so that we may do our best to prepare for the parenting<br />

phase that we are in and the one we’re moving towards. That’s<br />

one of the reasons that Peter and I have designed something<br />

called a Parent C.A.F.E. that will begin on Tuesday, April 17.<br />

It’s all in the name. This is an environment designed for us<br />

to C-onnect, A-cknowledge that we don’t have it all together,<br />

F-ocus on what really matters, and E-ncourage each other. In<br />

short, this is an evening designed to support, encourage, and<br />

help equip each other for this journey called parenting. Would<br />

you consider joining us?<br />

JOIN US<br />

APRIL 17<br />

FOR THE FIRST PARENT C.A.F.E.!<br />

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SOUTHWOOD<br />

ASK A PASTOR<br />

Resurection,<br />

So What<br />

by Ron Clegg<br />

core of my being.<br />

On another more daily level, though, for me the resurrection<br />

is huge. It means death is ended, and life is coming. It is a<br />

promise to me that my death is not the end of the story, nor is it<br />

even an extremely bad thing. Death is swallowed up in life, and<br />

in that new life, all things will be made new. Internally, that gives<br />

me a joyous hope.<br />

Q<br />

It is not hard to notice that<br />

Easter, the day we celebrate the<br />

resurrection of Jesus, is not quite<br />

the celebration that Christmas is.<br />

So, what is the significance of the<br />

resurrection?<br />

Life on this side of heaven is a process of dying, and not just<br />

physically. Daily my fl esh, that part of me that insists on selfcontrol,<br />

self-autonomy, self-suffi ciency, and self-determination is<br />

steadily dying. Through His Spirit, God the Father is opposing<br />

my fl esh and putting it to death. He does that through exposing<br />

my sin and shame. He brings my sin to the surface in ways<br />

that are very hurtful to other people. My self-determination is<br />

the source of so much emptiness, thirst, and dissatisfaction. I<br />

absolutely long for the day when my struggle with sin will end<br />

and this painful process of dying will be completed, because<br />

I know what lies on the other side. The resurrection of Jesus<br />

guarantees that life is coming—new life, resurrected life, eternal<br />

life, gloriously joyous and free life! I can’t wait until that day<br />

comes. In the here and now, I wait in certain hope because<br />

Jesus rose from the dead.<br />

A<br />

In this season that we celebrate the resurrection<br />

of Jesus from the dead, we often spend a<br />

great deal of time defending the reality of the<br />

resurrection. This historical event is absolutely<br />

critical for our faith, no doubt. But on a daily<br />

basis, what difference does it make? How does it make my day,<br />

my relationships, my work, and my play different? So what that<br />

Jesus rose from the dead—What is the big deal?<br />

We can look at it on a theological level and say that the<br />

resurrection was God the Father’s glorious stamp of approval<br />

on the sacrifi ce Jesus made for our sins. It validated everything<br />

Jesus did and said. It also means that, because of the<br />

resurrection, my justifi cation, my perfect standing with God<br />

the Eternal Judge, is settled. I am accepted, approved, and<br />

enjoyed. No more divine enmity. No more condemnation.<br />

Rather, I now am the target of the Judge’s passionate and<br />

unending delight. That truth is life-changing. It gives me a<br />

freedom that goes deep and causes joy to gush up from the<br />

On another level, daily I experience the pain and frustration<br />

of death that is physical. I live with a very dear woman who<br />

is almost 92 years old and who suffers with dementia. She<br />

can no longer do the simplest things in life. She is helpless<br />

as she waits in abject confusion and darkness until the day of<br />

her fi nal departure. But this is not the end of the story. A day<br />

is coming when she will leave the darkness of this life behind,<br />

and with clarity of mind like she has never had, she will rejoice<br />

in the fullness of her resurrected life. She will know fully. She<br />

will remember. She will praise the One who was raised from<br />

the grave. Jesus said He would make all things new, and the<br />

resurrection was simply the fi rst step in that wonderful journey, a<br />

journey of hope for all who trust in Him.<br />

So, what difference does the resurrection make? Everything.<br />

Because Jesus came up from the grave, I do not go through my<br />

days without hope. I am moving towards something that is so<br />

good, so much better even than Christmas, that I can’t wait for<br />

it fi nally to come.<br />

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SOUTHWOOD<br />

CURL UP WITH...<br />

EASTER READINGS<br />

AVAILABLE IN THE GUEST CENTER:<br />

DOCTRINE OF REPENTANCE<br />

by Thomas Watson<br />

Knowing what repentance is and<br />

actually repenting are essential to true<br />

Christianity. Jesus Christ himself said<br />

that if we do not repent, we will perish!<br />

Thomas Watson was a master of both<br />

Scripture and the human heart and<br />

wrote with a simplicity and directness<br />

that keeps his work fresh and powerful<br />

for the twenty-first century.<br />

THE PASSION OF JESUS CHRIST<br />

by John Piper<br />

Denying that Christ suffered and<br />

died is like denying the Holocaust.<br />

Those who deny either event live in a<br />

historical dreamworld. Jesus suffered<br />

unspeakably and died. The Passion<br />

of Jesus Christ shows that the gore<br />

of Christ's suffering is turned to glory<br />

by the enormity and diversity of what<br />

his death achieved. To do this, John<br />

Piper uncovers fifty accomplishments<br />

of Christ's suffering. He shuns<br />

embellishment and shows from the<br />

Bible key evidence for each outcome of<br />

Christ's death.<br />

MISSION ACCOMPLISHED<br />

by Scott James<br />

Although Easter Sunday only happens<br />

once a year, the truths behind it are big<br />

enough to shape our lives every single<br />

day. Starting on Palm Sunday, your<br />

family will spend two weeks (fourteen<br />

devotions) walking in time with Jesus<br />

as he finished the work his Father had<br />

given him. Extending beyond Easter<br />

Sunday will encourage your family to<br />

follow the risen Jesus as he calls his<br />

disciples on a Spirit-filled mission to<br />

spread the good news to all nations.<br />

Each devotion takes just ten minutes<br />

and is suitable for all ages of children.<br />

MY EASTER BASKET AND THE TRUE<br />

STORY OF EASTER<br />

by Mary Manz Simon<br />

Easter is about much more than yellow<br />

chicks and white bunnies. Young<br />

children can use the colors in this<br />

basket to discover the real meaning of<br />

this special day. As they walk through<br />

the Bible story, they will learn why we<br />

celebrate Easter–because Jesus is alive!


y Christine Betts<br />

Our luggage is not light as we arrive Friday night.<br />

Our hearts are of one accord as we listen to Mike Ford.<br />

We are told, “Do not seek to sin, but give Jesus your burden.”<br />

We enjoy skits, small groups, and ice cream scoops.<br />

We play lots of pool and ping-pong and dance to our favorite song.<br />

The time we spend doing devotions brings quite a few emotions.<br />

The afternoon is spent playing games in the monsoon.<br />

From a pyramid to a human pretzel everyone is competing for the medal.<br />

From painting to playing kickball there was fun to be had by all.<br />

Everyone paints wood and all of them look good.<br />

Everyone screams each other’s names and plays lots of games.<br />

We take courage and let go of our baggage.<br />

We are gently serenaded by guitars under the cloud-covered stars.<br />

The bags are loaded up and there is coffee in each cup.<br />

The games and the talks are all complete so we come home from the winter retreat.


ALL THAT IS FAIR<br />

WERE YOU THERE?<br />

by James Parker<br />

Let's pretend you are standing on the edge of the Grand<br />

Canyon. You look to the opposite edge many miles away.<br />

Your gaze moves from the horizon down to the raging river<br />

thousands of feet below. You follow every twist and turn of the<br />

landscape, every variation in color and light, every tree, every<br />

squirrel, every bird... the scene surrounds you. It wraps you up<br />

in a cosmic bear hug. It makes you feel like your senses are just<br />

too small to receive it. Your head feels like it's spinning off your<br />

shoulders desperately trying to take it all in. Then, you take a<br />

few pictures...<br />

Let's also pretend that you still use a film camera. You wait<br />

with eager anticipation for the photos to be developed,<br />

remembering the awesome power of the experience you had.<br />

A few hours or maybe a day of waiting and reminiscing. You've<br />

recounted your trip to your friends dozens of times already<br />

and you've only just returned the day before. Its impact is<br />

profoundly imprinted on your memory and you can't wait to<br />

go back. Until then, settling for a eucharistic remembrance<br />

in pictures and stories of glory will have to be your surrogate.<br />

The pharmacy calls, your images are ready...<br />

Stretching the speed limit a bit, you earnestly make your way<br />

to pick them up. A few rolls of film from your day at the canyon<br />

and a heart full of anticipation. Maybe you'll feel that same<br />

feeling again? Maybe the belonging sense of smallness will<br />

return and you can be overcome with delight and gratitude.<br />

Swipe your card, grab the envelopes, and head to the car. As<br />

soon as you sit down at the wheel you start flipping through the<br />

photos. They're wonderful! Better than you'd imagined. Most<br />

of the time on a 24 exposure roll, you'd be lucky to get 3 good<br />

shots, but almost all of these are phenomenal. You captured<br />

the setting sunlight in exaggerated ways, leaving an artistic<br />

impression of something other than what you remember,<br />

something even beyond nature, almost spiritual, enhancing<br />

your memory of the day. But as lovely as these pictures are,<br />

something's missing...<br />

That same feeling didn't rush back to you. Why? Is something<br />

wrong with you? Are the pictures not as good as you think?<br />

No, it's just that experiencing something first-hand will always<br />

yield a greater impact. Any attempt to rehash an experience<br />

will fall short of actually being there. It doesn't matter if you're<br />

trying to recount in words, pictures, music, dance... Nor does<br />

it matter if the experience was massive or mundane, painful<br />

or pleasant. At some point, our attempts at bringing people<br />

into our remembrances will fall flat. It is the natural limitation<br />

of being separated from each other's hearts and spirits by flesh<br />

and bone...<br />

There was this one time in human history, when a man came<br />

saying all sorts of crazy things about himself and his father in<br />

heaven. He lived among us as one of us, yet not one of us.<br />

He taught to multitudes. He worked miracles. He had deep<br />

relationships. He said he was one with the father. As if the<br />

limitations of his humanity had been bypassed. How can a bag<br />

of flesh and bone be one with the father? Don't you have to die<br />

first for your spirit to be free to be in union with its creator? He<br />

could never quite make us see exactly how that was possible.<br />

Until...<br />

He looked up to heaven from the cross of a thief and said "It<br />

is finished." The temple veil tore, just like his body, removing<br />

the inherent barrier of flesh and bone. He was buried, and on<br />

the third day he rose again from the grave. That Grand Canyon<br />

oneness that no frame can capture, because we are individuals<br />

divided from each other... Jesus himself became that road back<br />

to oneness. Back in the day, we depended on someone like<br />

Moses to describe the glory of the lord to us, to bear witness<br />

to the burning bush, to be the mouthpiece of the law. But now,<br />

we have Jesus.<br />

"Jesus said to him [Thomas], 'I am the way, and the truth, and<br />

the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you<br />

had known me, you would have known my Father also. From<br />

now on you do know him and have seen him.'... 'Whoever has<br />

seen me has seen the Father'"<br />

Easter is so dramatic, so huge. All of our remembrances fall<br />

profoundly flat. The very best songs, sermons, and soliloquies<br />

we can muster just do not carry the impact of what it must have<br />

been like for Mary Magdalene, Thomas the doubter, Simon<br />

Peter, and everyone else who witnessed those events. Our<br />

hearts are bigger than the canvas on which we paint.<br />

This year during Holy Week, it's my prayer that we would all<br />

recognize the limitations of what we do to celebrate these<br />

events. But at the same time, remember that our hearts were<br />

made for God himself. The images are not the thing itself. The<br />

hymns we sing are only a retelling. Jesus, not pictures, is the<br />

thing. He is the Grand Canyon. He fills our bottomless hearts.


Grace<br />

Coming Alive to the Compelling Love of God !<br />

HUNTSVILLE <strong>2018</strong><br />

&MEN<br />

April SATURDAY21st, <strong>2018</strong><br />

SOUTHWOOD PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH<br />

9:00AM - 4:00PM<br />

Scotty Smith<br />

“How the Gospel<br />

Changes Men”<br />

Author & Teacher-In-Residence<br />

West End Community Church (PCA)<br />

“Everyday Prayers: 365 Days<br />

to a Gospel-Centered Faith”<br />

Franklin, TN<br />

How does the good news of the Gospel help us change? Come for discussions<br />

that will be personal not just clinical. Warm not just analytical. Practical not<br />

just theoretical. Encouraging not burdening. If you have an interest in how the<br />

Gospel makes you a happier, more fruitful man, join us on April 21st, <strong>2018</strong> at<br />

the Grace & Men Conference at Southwood Presbyterian.<br />

Conference Cost<br />

Southwood (or Group) Cost: $52<br />

Student Cost: $29<br />

Price includes boxed lunch & refreshments<br />

Register online<br />

at graceandmen.com

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