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21st century prisoners

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For children or teenagers is harder to go to a park or a friend’s house and as result they just<br />

stay home, doing whatever. Stay home all day, sometimes it’s nice to be at home, but every<br />

day makes them feel like they can’t go out, feel like <strong>prisoners</strong>.<br />

The only way of communication for them is by message or phone calls. As result, they spend<br />

a lot of time texting with friends, and parents get angry, because when they arrive their kids<br />

are at their phones. Except that they weren’t there to talk to them, so they talked to friends,<br />

because parents were busy working to earn money, money which isn’t still enough.<br />

Adults arrive so exhausted and tired from job they don’t pay much attention to children, and<br />

if they do is to correct them, to ask them why are they still inside their room, and what did<br />

they expect if they didn’t let them go out?<br />

At that age, human being is a communicative being, they can’t live without saying someone<br />

how they feel, what they did, how they passed the day, and asking the same questions to<br />

someone else.<br />

This not only affects their social life, but their school performance as the parents must be the<br />

motivation for the children to keep doing what they’re doing right and improve what’s wrong.<br />

If the parents don’t pay this attention there’s a really small possibility for the kids to know<br />

what’s correct. The students start failing, the problems outside school start increasing, and<br />

parents get mad because their children are doing a mess, though they weren’t there to say<br />

what was a mess and what wasn’t in the first time.<br />

They weren’t there. And every child wants their parents to be there. To be there showing<br />

affect, showing them that they are important, celebrating their victories, comforting their<br />

failures and teaching from them. Every child wants someone who expresses that they care<br />

about them, and if its not parents, someone else will be. This someone else, they can’t see in<br />

person, they talk by technology.

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