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Women Who Rock with Success is a networking diogital magazine for professional women. Women Who Rock with Success features Entrepreneur and CEO Katrina Ruth for the month of January. Januray is our Women Super-Bowl month.
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WOMEN<br />
JANUARY<br />
<strong>Who</strong> ROCK WITH<br />
SUCCESS<br />
2018<br />
W om en<br />
Su p er -B ow l<br />
Ed i ti on<br />
A L O O K BACK on<br />
M A RT I N<br />
L U T H ER K I N G JR.<br />
GET T A X A D V I CE<br />
5 Q U EST I O N S T O<br />
A SK W H EN<br />
H I RI N G<br />
A N I N T ERI O R<br />
D ESI GN ER<br />
Th e B est D i et<br />
Food<br />
to Stop<br />
Cr avi n gs For ever<br />
SI GN S YO U N EED T O<br />
CH A N GE YO U R<br />
FI N A N CI A L<br />
H A B I T S<br />
BusinessCoachKatrinaRuth
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08 Tax Relief Tips<br />
Table of Contents<br />
17 How to change your spending habits<br />
19 Money Mgmt. over the Holidays<br />
215 Hiring an Interior<br />
Designer?<br />
25<br />
30<br />
38<br />
53<br />
Journalism At Its Best<br />
Recipes to Trim the Fat<br />
A Look back on Martin Luther King Jr.<br />
Superbowl <strong>Women</strong>
"TIM E TO KICK FEAR TO TH E<br />
CU RB, ON CE AN D FOR ALL.<br />
IT?S ON LY YOU R LIFE!!!"
You're in the right place for important information you can use when it comes to<br />
your taxes and your money.<br />
We're not going to give you convoluted tax jargon; this is Real Life t ax advice-- the<br />
explanations you need, so you can understand your taxes, and avoid costly mistakes<br />
<strong>with</strong> the IRS. The Real Life team will show you how to keep more of your money and<br />
stay off the IRS radar. Visit our Store for great new products to help you <strong>with</strong> your<br />
taxes, both personal and small business. Visit our site often for updates on products<br />
and information designed <strong>with</strong> YOU in mind. ht t ps:/ / w w w.reallifet axadvice.com
* Don?t make these Holiday<br />
Mistakes <strong>with</strong> your Money:*<br />
1) We all overspend<br />
this time of year. But<br />
you need to eat later<br />
in<br />
life too. Check your<br />
pay stub to see if you<br />
have maxed out your<br />
401k<br />
contributions. Why?<br />
You want the tax<br />
break! It?s an<br />
immediate federal<br />
and state tax break.<br />
2) Dipping into your<br />
emergency fund to<br />
pay holiday bills ?<br />
don?t<br />
wipe<br />
out your emergency<br />
fund because you will<br />
regret it ? in August,<br />
when<br />
your<br />
central a/c goes and<br />
it?s 110 degrees out,<br />
you won?t even<br />
remember what you<br />
spent the money on.<br />
3) Checking for<br />
coupons while you<br />
wait on line? Don?t use<br />
public wifi ?<br />
a thief can get into<br />
your phone. VPN<br />
software is available<br />
for your phone.<br />
4) Spending big but counting on your bonus<br />
early next year to bail you<br />
out? Never count on money you don?t have.<br />
The company can have a<br />
downturn; you could be terminated. Pretend<br />
you don?t have it, and use it<br />
to pad your emergency fund.<br />
5) Thinking about a 401k loan to pay the bills?<br />
If you are terminated<br />
and can?t pay it back, it?s a distribution subject<br />
to tax and penalty. Use<br />
this for major emergencies/last resort only.<br />
6) Don?t open credit cards in the store.<br />
Unscrupulous employees will<br />
sell your information. Shoulder surfers can<br />
steal your personal<br />
information. Well-meaning employees may<br />
inadvertently leave your<br />
information around for someone to steal.
* 5 Tax Saving m oves t o m ake before Decem ber 31st :*<br />
1) Make your donations now. Discuss required record keeping. Clean your<br />
closets and make some $!<br />
2) Max out your 401k for a federal and state deduction. You?ll like<br />
the bigger refund you get, for saving money so you can eat later in life!<br />
3) Don?t wait until the new year to start getting your books and records<br />
together if you are self-employed. You should be working on this all<br />
year. Trying to get a year?s worth of bookkeeping and organizing will make<br />
you very unhappy, and you will miss deductions when you are sloppy and<br />
rushing.<br />
4) Company doesn?t offer a 401k? You have until 4/15 to fund a<br />
traditional IRA and receive a tax deduction. Start saving now so you can<br />
put away $5500. What a great tax break!
5) Did you have a change in<br />
filing status this year? If you<br />
married or<br />
got divorced, your tax bracket<br />
may change. Sit down <strong>with</strong> a tax<br />
pro now to<br />
do some planning. No one<br />
wants a surprise bill in April.<br />
* CEO, Choice Tax Solutions<br />
Inc.*<br />
* IRS Enrolled Agent (EA)*<br />
* Accredited Tax Advisor (ATA)*<br />
* Accredited Tax Preparer (ATP)*<br />
* Chartered Retirement<br />
Planning Counselor (CRPC)*
On<br />
average, Americans<br />
plan to spend an<br />
estimated $663.96<br />
each on gifts this<br />
holiday season. Of<br />
those buying gifts,<br />
on average, 54.4%<br />
will be using<br />
savings and 39.7%<br />
will be using credit<br />
card. In fact, over 2<br />
in 5 spenders<br />
(40.2%) are solely<br />
using their savings Recent finder<br />
for gifts this holiday research found<br />
season, while that 95.7% of<br />
over 1 in 4<br />
Americans<br />
&<br />
(27.3%) will be<br />
make an<br />
using solely<br />
impulsive<br />
their credit<br />
purchase either<br />
card. Here?s<br />
online or in<br />
how to avoid<br />
overspending at<br />
store. Shopping<br />
<strong>with</strong>out a plan is a<br />
the season for surefire way to go<br />
giving:<br />
over-budget or end<br />
up <strong>with</strong> purchase<br />
?Don?t be impulsive: regrets. Start your<br />
gift shopping by<br />
ht t p:/ / w w w.finder.com<br />
creating a holiday<br />
gift plan <strong>with</strong>in a<br />
set budget. This will<br />
help set boundaries<br />
before you<br />
even step foot into<br />
a store. ?Make<br />
aut om at ic<br />
paym ent s"<br />
The best and<br />
quickest way to<br />
meet your present<br />
budget, and avoid<br />
putting
Say you?ve budgeted for $1000 to pay for all of your gift and expenses, this<br />
will equal approximately $20 a week, which is a very manageable amount to<br />
put away.<br />
?Work <strong>with</strong> the sales:<br />
The savvy holiday shopper will have started early in the year or over the<br />
Thanksgiving weekend to make the most of discounts. However, even if<br />
starting now you can leverage the best deals by comparing gifts at<br />
different suppliers to find the best deal available. Online will help <strong>with</strong><br />
quick price checks minus the footwork.<br />
?Abstain from unnecessary:<br />
When shopping for others, it?s easy to get tempted by items that you might<br />
want for yourself. Stick to the tasks and gifts at hands and use a tool<br />
such as Icebox to put the items for yourself on hold for later. Icebox is a<br />
free Chrome extension that works by replacing the ?Buy Now?button on the<br />
Top 20 e-commerce sites and pop-up reminders on 400+ additional stores.
You can simply return to the item post holiday-spending when your funds are<br />
healthier, or if by some miracle you were left <strong>with</strong> a surplus in your<br />
budget.? Should you require any further commentary, please don?t hesitate to get in<br />
touch. I can be reached on 347-276-6617 or via jennifer@finder.com.
Leslie H. Tayne, Esq.<br />
has nearly 20 years?<br />
experience in t he pract ice<br />
area of consum er and<br />
business financial<br />
debt -relat ed services. She<br />
is highly accomplished in<br />
negotiation and<br />
settlements, and has gone<br />
up against large national<br />
banks, credit unions,<br />
collection agencies and<br />
multiple creditor legal<br />
representatives.
Her mission is to reshape the debt relief industry by<br />
giving clients a supportive and reliable environment built<br />
on experience, trust and results that will not only relieve<br />
clients of the stress from debts but also the burden of<br />
the never-ending debt cycle.A highly respected<br />
consumer and business debt-related expert, Leslie is<br />
often called upon by the media to comment on a variety<br />
of financial topics. She has written content for and been<br />
interviewed on a variety of national and local news<br />
outlets including Inc Magazine, Forbes, The Huffington<br />
Post, Fox News, CNBC, News day, The New York Daily<br />
News, as well as many, many more.<br />
Most recent ly, Leslie has been select ed t o Super<br />
law yers and t he Tayne law Group has been vot ed<br />
Bet h page Federal Credit Union?sbest debt<br />
consolidat ion service for t he last 4 years in a row.<br />
Leslie also is a regular expert blog cont ribut or for<br />
SWAAY m edia, a plat form t hat delivers<br />
visually-com pelling original cont ent t hat highlight s<br />
w om en at every st age of t he ent repreneurship<br />
journey; Leslie is also a regular cont ribut or for t he<br />
financial w ebsit e, Credit .com .
Signs You Need t o Change<br />
Your Financial Habit s<br />
You Are Unsure of How Much Money You Have<br />
in Your Bank Account<br />
Not knowing how much money you have in<br />
your bank account is a big red flag that may<br />
signal an unhealthy relationship <strong>with</strong><br />
money. This also probably means that you<br />
don?t have a budget in place. Without a<br />
budget, you?re most likely to overspend. If<br />
you don?t pay attention to how much you<br />
are able to spend based on the amount you<br />
actually have in your account could leave<br />
you <strong>with</strong> hefty overdraft fees. Start<br />
balancing your checkbook and track your<br />
spending to avoid being thrown into a<br />
financial abyss that will be difficult to get<br />
out of.<br />
Your Avoiding Your Bills<br />
Debt denial is a serious matter. Leaving<br />
your bills unopened will not make them go<br />
away. Ignoring your financial<br />
responsibilities can result in severe<br />
consequences. For example, if you are<br />
delinquent on payments, creditors can file a<br />
lawsuit against you in attempt to recover<br />
the amount owed. Should a judgment be<br />
put against you, the creditor can request a<br />
garnishment of your paycheck through your<br />
employer until the amount is satisfied.<br />
You Only Pay t he Minim um on Your Credit Card<br />
When you only pay the minimum amount<br />
on your credit cards you could be facing<br />
decades of payments. If you can?t pay your<br />
credit card balances in full, the totals could<br />
add up to double or triple the original<br />
balance.
Every credit card statement is required<br />
by the Credit Card Accountability,<br />
Responsibility, and Disclosure Act (CARD)<br />
to explain how long it will take to pay<br />
down your debt <strong>with</strong> just making the<br />
minimum payment. Take notice of this<br />
part of your statement. Knowing how<br />
long it will take you to pay off just one of<br />
your credit cards may be an eye-opener.<br />
If you have multiple credit cards in which<br />
you are only making the minimum, think<br />
about the magnitude of debt you could<br />
be incurring. You Use Balance Transfers Too<br />
Oft en<br />
There are some benefits to balance<br />
transfers. Taking advantage of 0%<br />
interestor lower interest rates can be<br />
helpful if you intend to play by the rules<br />
and regulations to keep these perks.<br />
However, there can be some downsides.<br />
If you are regularly using balance transfers, you<br />
could be racking up even more debt.<br />
Consider balance transfer fees which, depending<br />
on the amount you are transferring, could be<br />
exorbitant. For, example, the average balance<br />
transfer fee is 3%. If you have a $20,000 credit card<br />
balance it will cost you $600 to transfer. Balance<br />
transfers will not deter a spending problem.<br />
Moving balances from one credit card to another<br />
will only free up more credit. This may tempt you<br />
to use the card which creates more debt. Think<br />
carefully before deciding to transfer balances as it<br />
can become a vicious cycle of mounting debt!<br />
Recognizing the warning signs of unhealthy<br />
financial habits is the key to making changes on<br />
how you handle your money. For more<br />
information about getting out of debt and staying<br />
out, contact Tayne Law Group, P.C. Our debt relief<br />
lawyers are happy to answer any questions you<br />
may have.<br />
ht t p:/ / at t orney-new york.com
Money Managem ent over<br />
t he holidays: My t op 3 t ips for<br />
m aking sm art m oney choices<br />
over t he holidays:<br />
1. Don't go int o a st ore w it hout a list !<br />
- going int o a st ore during t he holidays is like going grocery<br />
shopping hungry. It is easy t o leave w it h buyer 's rem orse. No<br />
list - don't even go in 2. Pick at least 1 LAZY day<br />
- Over t he holidays, present s aren't t he only big expenses. There are<br />
night s out , pot lucks, m ovies, et c. Pick one day and m ake it your<br />
lazy day. It 's t he day w here you are saying NO. 3. Enjoy m om ent s - not st uff<br />
- inst ead of heading out t o anot her part y, invit e people over t o your<br />
place t o w at ch a m ovie. But on a Christ m as classic, m ake som e popcorn and<br />
laugh w it h loved ones.
Dean Mary Pearson<br />
Dean of t he School of Business at Sout hern Ut ah Universit y, offered a few<br />
t ips on how t o st ay on budget .<br />
ht t p:/ / w w w.suu.edu<br />
Financial stress has been referred to as the leading cause of depression<br />
and divorce. Practicing the principle of budgeting leads to financial<br />
freedom and personal growth. Budgeting helps individuals and businesses<br />
plan for current and future expenditures, providing a pathway to meet<br />
immediate and long term financial goals.<br />
A few tips to stay on budget:<br />
1. Shop less: An individual who goes to the store <strong>with</strong>out a budget,<br />
spends 20% more than anticipated.<br />
2. Stop, then Shop: Practice the 10% rule: For every $100 item you want<br />
to buy, take 10 minutes to think about it before buying. For every $200<br />
item you want to buy, take 20 minutes to think before buying.<br />
3. Use cash: An individual who uses a credit card spends 25% more than<br />
they would if they used cash.
5 QUESTIONS TO ASK WHEN<br />
HIRING AN INTERIOR DESIGNER<br />
It is important when you hire an interior<br />
designer to ask essential questions to<br />
clarify your needs and the ability of the<br />
designer to meet those needs. The<br />
relationship you create <strong>with</strong> your<br />
designer is very intimate; you are inviting<br />
he or she into your personal space and<br />
allowing them to essentially alter your<br />
life. Jennifer Fisher likes to think of this<br />
process of hiring the correct interior<br />
designer for your space as the beginning<br />
of ?dating.? As a client, you need to make<br />
sure you and your designer have<br />
chemistry and you set the foundation for<br />
your relationship
1. TIMELINE<br />
Since t his is your hom e t hat you are living in or<br />
m oving int o, it is im port ant t o underst and t he t im e<br />
com m it m ent you?re m aking w hen you hire an<br />
int erior designer. If you are expect ing a short<br />
t urn-around t im e and t he designer likes t o t ake<br />
longer on his or her project s, t his m ay not w ork. This<br />
also is im port ant t o know so you and t he int erior<br />
design can gauge how realist ic your t im eline is w it h<br />
your space.<br />
2. STYLE<br />
What kind of color palette do they usually gravitate<br />
toward, where do they seek inspiration, what trends are<br />
they currently into, and what styles peak their interest?<br />
These are all important things to know when talking to<br />
potential designers. If their style is drastically different<br />
than your own, it may be difficult to work together. This<br />
is your space, so it is important that your style and<br />
personality shine through it rather than your designer?s.<br />
3. BUDGET<br />
Sticking to your budget<br />
and having your designer<br />
understand it, is vital. It is<br />
important to know what is<br />
the budget the potential<br />
designer typically works<br />
<strong>with</strong> and if what you are<br />
willing to put in is do-able<br />
for the designer. Also,<br />
knowing how they manage<br />
the project budget is<br />
important, which allows
4. PIECES<br />
If all the designer?s purchases are one-of-a-kind customized pieces,<br />
a majority of your budget is going to go towards that. But, if your<br />
designer is a savvy shopper who frequents thrift stores and estate<br />
sales, you know that your budget will go much further. This is also<br />
important to know if you are seeking unique pieces and how big<br />
your project i is<br />
5. COMMUNICATION<br />
Hiring an int erior designer w ho w ill be able t o cat er t o your<br />
com m unicat ion needs is ext rem ely im port ant . Finding out<br />
pot ent ial designers?com m unicat ion st yle and preferred<br />
m et hod of com m unicat ion is a crucial deciding fact or w hen<br />
dealing w it h som et hing so personal as your hom e ? t he place<br />
w here you creat e your m em ories. It is nat ural t o w ant t o be as<br />
involved w it h t he design process as possible so having t hat<br />
open com m unicat ion w it h your designer is crucial.<br />
ht t ps:/ / jfisherint eriors.com
Jessica Kantor graduated from University of<br />
Nevada, Las Vegas <strong>with</strong> a BA in Print Journalism.<br />
She minored in International Relations and<br />
Archaeology. During her undergraduate career she<br />
also attended American University in Washington,<br />
D.C. and Université de Pau in France.<br />
Jessica's articles and photographs have been<br />
published in such print & digital publications as<br />
Healthcare Quarterly Magazine, Las Vegas Review<br />
Journal, Vegas Inc., The Addiction Blog, Vegas<br />
Seven, Vegas Rated, John Colton, and AWOL<br />
Magazine.<br />
?<br />
Jessica has freelanced since graduation, spending<br />
her time working on long-form features and<br />
profiles. For the past four years she has been<br />
honing her public relation and media relation<br />
talents in two large positions for behavioral<br />
healthcare companies.<br />
JESSICA KANTOR
JESSICA KANTOR
JESSICA KANTOR
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Sim ple Tuna Salad<br />
Recipe: Lunch Made Easy<br />
Ingredient s<br />
1. 1 cup of spout s of choice<br />
2. 1 cup of chopped parsley<br />
3. 2 cup of spinach (or green of<br />
choice)<br />
4. 1/ 4 cup red cabbage, chopped<br />
5. 1/ 4 cup color pepper, chopped<br />
6. 1/ 4 m ushroom (of choice),<br />
chopped<br />
7. 1t bsp sesam e seeds<br />
8. 1 can of w ild caught albacore t una<br />
9. 1/ 4 cup of Ranch salad dressing<br />
Inst ruct ions<br />
1. Mix all ingredient s t oget her and<br />
add t he Ranch dressing.<br />
2. Enjoy!<br />
Ingredients<br />
1. 1/2 cup healthy mayo<br />
2. 1/2 cup of full fat coconut milk<br />
3. 1 tbsp dry dill or 3 tbsp fresh dill,<br />
chopped<br />
4. 1 tsp granulated garlic powder or<br />
1 glove finely chopped<br />
5. 1/t tsp onion powder or 1 tsp.<br />
fresh onion finely chopped<br />
6. 1/4 tsp sea salt<br />
7. 1/8 tsp fresh cracked black<br />
pepper<br />
Ranch Dressing<br />
Instructions<br />
1. Mix all ingredient together in a<br />
hermetic container such as<br />
mason jar and shake well<br />
2. Enjoy on any salad.
What is THE BEST diet to stop food cravings?<br />
I know I?ve said that diets don?t work and that you should ditch the dieting mindset, but<br />
allow me to tell you why I?m going to talk about the ?D-word? today.<br />
Why I Dislike t he Word ?Diet ?<br />
First, let me tell you why I?really don?t like the word ?diet.?The?Merriam Webst er and<br />
Oxford dictionaries?define ?diet??in?a number of ways. Here are three:<br />
1. food and drink regularly provided or consumed<br />
2. a special course of food to which one restricts oneself, either to lose weight or for<br />
medical reasons.<br />
3. to?restrict oneself to small amounts or special kinds of food in order to lose<br />
weight.<br />
For the vast majority of women, ?diet??means?a temporary way of eating so they can<br />
achieve their respective goals, then going back to the way they ate before.<br />
That?s why?I?really?dislike the word ?diet.?<br />
If you?re looking for a way to stop your cravings, lose weight, or reduce emotional eating<br />
and/or overeating,?a temporary fix isn?t going to cut it. You must make lifestyle changes<br />
which will produce lifelong results.
Otherwise,?things will go back to the way they were before.?Why? Because a part of the<br />
reason you craved, gained?weight or overate?was because of your previous eating habits.<br />
So?although?I?ll use the D-word for the rest of this?blog post,?be sure to remember that I<br />
really mean best ?lifestyle change? to stop cravings forever. I?m sure you get my point.<br />
So is There a Best Diet t o St op Food Cravings Forever?<br />
You bet!<br />
Blood sugar regulation influences your sugar cravings. It also affects your hormonal<br />
health, brain health, gut health?etc. Your overall health is?impacted?by your blood sugar.<br />
The best diet to stop food cravings forever is the real food low carb lifest yle.?<br />
Yes,lifestyle,?NOT diet? Eat real food (food?that once grew, flew,?ran or swam) that are low<br />
in carbohydrates.?This is the type of lifestyle that I strongly recommend in the Crave Cure<br />
Program. Best Diet t o St op Food Cravings: 3 Tips t o Help<br />
You Get St art ed<br />
I recently had Dr. Adam ?Nally on The Beyond The Food Show podcast for The Crave Cure<br />
Series.?Dr. Nally, a.k.a. Dr. Muscles, is a family practitioner and a doctor of osteopathic<br />
medicine
During my interview <strong>with</strong> him, he shared 3 tips on how to get started on the?best diet to<br />
stop food cravings, sugar cravings,?and binge eating.<br />
1. Underst and t he principles of low -carbohydrat e or ket ogenic lifest yle.Dr.<br />
Nally says that a low carb lifestyle should be principle-based. This approach is<br />
simple and based on the mantra, ?Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day.<br />
Teach a man how to fish and he will eat for a lifetime.? You can read Dr.<br />
Nally?spost on his blog to learn more about the foundational principles of a<br />
low-carb lifestyle.<br />
2. Don?t beat yourself up.If you?re overweight, you shouldn?t feel guilty about it.<br />
Obesity is a metabolic issue caused by hormonal imbalances. Overcoming obesity<br />
is a matter of relearning how to use your hormones. Also, if you?re trying to lead a<br />
ketogenic lifestyle and you fall off the wagon, it doesn?t mean you can?t start<br />
again. Just get back up! Do som e fine-t uning.You can do this by modifying your<br />
protein intake, balancing your hormones (thyroid, leptin, estrogen, and<br />
testosterones), and exercising.<br />
3. To learn more about the low-carb lifestyle and its impact on cravings, listen to my<br />
interview wit Dr. Nally here or you can play the audio or video file below:
Ingredients<br />
1. 1 tsp organic dried turmeric*<br />
2. 1 tsp organic powdered ginger* *<br />
3. Juice of 1 1/2 fresh lemon<br />
4. Dash cayenne<br />
5. 2 cups of filtered water<br />
6. 5 drops of stevia or 1/2 tsp raw honey<br />
Instructions<br />
1. Place all ingredients in a blender and blend for 1<br />
minute.<br />
2. Serve <strong>with</strong> ice cube and enjoy!<br />
St ephanie Dodier<br />
Notes<br />
1. * QUICK NOTE: You can also use fresh turmeric root and<br />
fresh ginger root. Simply place 1? ginger root chopped<br />
and 1? turmeric root chopped in 2 cups of water and<br />
bring to a boil for 15 minutes. Let the mixture cool for<br />
30 minutes then strain the roots and mix in remaining<br />
ingredients in blender for 1 minutes. Serve.
KatrinaRuth
You want to stand out, change the world, go to bed at night KNOWING in your heart of<br />
hearts that you have given it your all and made the difference you are MEANT to make in<br />
the world?<br />
Then st op being so m ot her-freaking vanilla w it h w hat<br />
you say, how you present yourself, w ho you are.<br />
You can take your pretty website and shove it for all I care if that website is not in fact (and I<br />
really do wonder!) revealing the real you.<br />
Are you trying to be just another ?successful coach?or entrepreneur? Are you trying to<br />
make sure everyone loves or at least likes you? Are you writing about stuff that you?re sure<br />
will get you good Google love, that ?solves problems?and is ?topical?and is based on what<br />
you see your competitors or others around you doing? If so, t hen I got t a t ell you ?<br />
You?re boring me to tears. And I suspect you?re boring yourself to tears as well. Worse still,<br />
I think we both know that deep down you are a mix of ashamed, frustrated and mighty<br />
PISSED off that you?re not really letting rip <strong>with</strong> the energy, glory and perhaps even terror<br />
of who you really are. Nobody needs another business, life, weight loss, wellness, balance,<br />
healthy living, money, success coach or whatever.<br />
The world does not need more vanilla.<br />
Katrina
Nobody needs another business, life, weight loss, wellness, balance, healthy living,<br />
money, success coach or whatever.<br />
The world does not need more vanilla.<br />
If I want to read stock-standard stuff on any of the above topics I?ll go to an aggregate<br />
blog and find endless repetitive loops of the stuff.<br />
If you don?t stand for something? You stand for nothing.<br />
I?m not talking about being contrived, you know that.I?m not talking about deliberately<br />
stirring up controversy if in doing so it is not also based on how you actually think and<br />
feel. But that?s the thing, isn?t it?<br />
If I look at your stuff, read it, look at your site, do I KNOW how you really think and feel<br />
or am I seeing a carefully planned version of what YOU think you need to present to<br />
the world in order to succeed.<br />
The world needs you to be you.<br />
So stand up, take a stand, stand for SOMETHING, and if they wanna hate then let ?em<br />
hate. There is literally NOTHING you can share about who you really are, what you?ve<br />
really done, how you really think, that will scare off your ideal clients. And that?s who<br />
you want, isn?t it?<br />
Katrina
You want your tribe, your cult, your people who love you because they love the way you<br />
THINK, because they love your honesty, because you give them hope and massive<br />
inspiration for who they can become.<br />
The ones who are scared off, horrified, appalled at your so-called skeletons, your<br />
opinions, the stuff you talk about, laugh at, HOW you talk about it or laugh at it ?<br />
To hell w it h t hem .They?re not your people, never will be, and you can try all you like to<br />
please them but you will never truly be ABLE to if you are actually being YOU. So you can<br />
spend your days trying to be all things to all people, being careful not to piss anyone off,<br />
talking only behind the scenes to your BFFs and Mastermind buddies about what you<br />
REALLY think about business and life, and attracting a boring mix of boring people <strong>with</strong><br />
boring ideas and minds who will moan anytime you dare to slip up on your perfect<br />
polished persona, or You can come out, guns a-blazing, as the incredible, fabulous,<br />
amazing, demanding, driven, unbelievably AWESOME woman you are.<br />
You can keep playing it safe, running scared that if people find out the truth about your<br />
money, your business, how you think, your background, your self sabotaging issues or<br />
whatever that they will hate you and think you a sham OR ? You can recognise t hat w hen<br />
you let t hat st uff rip you find your t rue people.<br />
You can create products, programs, offerings that aim to fill a gap in the market and you can<br />
make a few bucks and get a nice warm fuzzy feeling in your belly, OR<br />
Katrina
You can creat e som et hing t hat t he vast m ajorit y of people w ill not get , w ill be<br />
scared by, or just t hink is plain ridiculous or even offensive but t hat your TRIBE w ill<br />
do anyt hing t o get t heir hands on.<br />
You can be just another coach, consultant, woman trying to make a few bucks online to live<br />
some sort of lesser version of normal, OR ?<br />
You can st art a revolut ion, t hrow fort h a call t o arm s, m ake it cryst al clear t hat you<br />
don?t give a f^&k w ho likes or agrees w it h you t hat you are going t o be not hing if<br />
not brut ally brut ally honest and real.<br />
So which is it gonna be?<br />
Selfish people who says what she thinks, shouts it loud and proud and does not CARE if it<br />
causes people to run scared or even think she?s a bad person, or boring old vanilla<br />
cupcake shoved into a dusty corner of the internet and hoping someone will come and<br />
love her? I think we both know what you have to do here. And if you?re not sure where to<br />
start <strong>with</strong> this, if you GET it but you?re thinking OMG but how? As in ? how do I do that<br />
<strong>with</strong>out confusing myself, but also, literally ? how do I actually stand up and figure out<br />
WHAT I stand for? Then baby what YOU need is some self-belief. You need to train<br />
yourself to be strong enough, empowered enough and god-damned confident enough in<br />
who you are to stand up and yell your message from the rooftops.<br />
www.KatrinaRuth.com
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1. King?s birt h nam e w as Michael, not<br />
Mart in.<br />
The civil rights leader was born Michael<br />
King Jr. on January 15, 1929. In 1934,<br />
however, his father, a pastor at Atlanta?s<br />
Ebenezer Baptist Church, traveled to<br />
Germany and became inspired by the<br />
Protestant Reformation leader Martin<br />
Luther. As a result, King Sr. changed his<br />
own name as well as that of his 5-year-old<br />
son.<br />
By Christ opher Klein<br />
2. King ent ered college at t he age of 15.<br />
King was such a gifted student that he skipped<br />
grades nine and 12 before enrolling in 1944 at<br />
Morehouse College, the alma mater of his father<br />
and maternal grandfather. Although he was the<br />
son, grandson and great-grandson of Baptist<br />
ministers, King did not intend to follow the family<br />
vocation until Morehouse president Benjamin E.<br />
Mays, a noted theologian, convinced him<br />
otherwise. King was ordained before graduating<br />
college <strong>with</strong> a degree in sociology.
3. King received his doct orat e in syst em at ic<br />
t heology.<br />
After earning a divinity degree from Pennsylvania?s<br />
Crozer Theological Seminary, King attended graduate<br />
school at Boston University, where he received his<br />
Ph.D. degree in 1955. The title of his dissertation was<br />
?A Comparison of the Conceptions of God in the<br />
Thinking of Paul Tillich and Henry Nelson Wieman.?<br />
4. King?s ?I Have a Dream ? speech w as not his first<br />
at t he Lincoln Mem orial.<br />
Six years before his iconic oration at the March on<br />
Washington, King was among the civil rights leaders<br />
who spoke in the shadow of the Great Emancipator<br />
during the Prayer Pilgrimage for Freedom on May 17,<br />
1957. Before a crowd estimated at between 15,000<br />
and 30,000, King delivered his first national address<br />
on the topic of voting rights. His speech, in which he<br />
urged America to ?give us the ballot,? drew strong<br />
reviews and positioned him at the forefront of the<br />
civil rights leadership.<br />
5. King w as im prisoned nearly<br />
30 t im es.<br />
According to the King Center, the<br />
civil rights leader went to jail 29<br />
times. He was arrested for acts of<br />
civil disobedience and on<br />
trumped-up charges, such as<br />
when he was jailed in<br />
Montgomery, Alabama, in 1956<br />
for driving 30 miles per hour in a<br />
25-mile-per-hour zone.
6. King narrow ly escaped an assassinat ion at t em pt<br />
a decade before his deat h.<br />
On September 20, 1958, King was in Harlem signing<br />
copies of his new book, ?Stride Toward Freedom,? in<br />
Blumstein?s department store when he was<br />
approached by Izola Ware Curry. The woman asked if<br />
he was Martin Luther King Jr. After he said yes, Curry<br />
said, ?I?ve been looking for you for five years,? and she<br />
plunged a seven-inch letter opener into his chest. The<br />
tip of the blade came to rest alongside his aorta, and<br />
King underwent hours of delicate emergency surgery.<br />
Surgeons later told King that just one sneeze could<br />
have punctured the aorta and killed him. From his<br />
hospital bed where he convalesced for weeks, King<br />
issued a statement affirming his nonviolent principles<br />
and saying he felt no ill will toward his mentally ill<br />
attacker.<br />
7. King?s last public speech<br />
foret old his deat h.<br />
King had come to Memphis in<br />
April 1968 to support the strike<br />
of the city?s black garbage<br />
workers, and in a speech on the<br />
night before his assassination,<br />
he told an audience at Mason<br />
Temple Church: ?Like anybody, I<br />
would like to live a long life.<br />
Longevity has its place. But I?m<br />
not concerned about that now ?<br />
I?ve seen the Promised Land. I<br />
may not get there <strong>with</strong> you. But I<br />
want you to know tonight, that<br />
we, as a people, will get to the<br />
Promised Land. And I?m happy<br />
tonight. I?m not worried about<br />
anything. I?m not fearing any<br />
man.
Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the<br />
Lord.?<br />
8. Mem bers of King?s fam ily did not believe Jam es<br />
Earl Ray act ed alone.<br />
Ray, a career criminal, pled guilty to King?s assassination<br />
but later recanted. King?s son Dexter met publicly <strong>with</strong><br />
Ray in 1997 and argued for the case to be reopened.<br />
King?s widow, Coretta, believed the Mafia and local, state<br />
and federal government agencies were deeply involved<br />
in the murder. She praised the result of a 1999 civil trial<br />
in which a Memphis jury decided the assassination was<br />
the result of a conspiracy and that Ray was set up to<br />
take the blame. A U.S. Department of Justice<br />
investigation released in 2000 reported no evidence of a<br />
conspiracy. 9. King?s m ot her w as also slain by a<br />
bullet .<br />
On June 30, 1974, as 69-year-old Alberta Williams King<br />
played the organ at a Sunday service inside Ebenezer<br />
Baptist Church, Marcus Wayne Chenault Jr. rose from<br />
the front pew, drew two pistols and began to fire shots.<br />
One of the bullets struck and<br />
killed King, who died steps<br />
from where her son had<br />
preached nonviolence. The<br />
deranged gunman said that<br />
Christians were his enemy and<br />
that although he had received<br />
divine instructions to kill King?s<br />
father, who was in the<br />
congregation, he killed King?s<br />
mother instead because she<br />
was closer. The shooting also<br />
left a church deacon dead.
Chenault received a death<br />
penalty sentence that was later<br />
changed to life imprisonment, in<br />
part due to the King family?s<br />
opposition to capital<br />
punishment.<br />
10. George Washingt on is t he<br />
only ot her Am erican t o have<br />
had his birt hday observed as<br />
a nat ional holiday.<br />
In 1983 President Ronald<br />
Reagan signed a bill that created<br />
a federal holiday to honor King.<br />
The holiday, first<br />
commemorated in 1986, is<br />
celebrated on the third Monday<br />
in January, close to the civil<br />
rights leader?s January 15<br />
birthday.
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However, along <strong>with</strong> the workout you may not<br />
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I grew up as the oldest of three girls; therefore, my father (an entrepreneur and<br />
basketball coach of high school and college teams) raised us to be independent Kat hryn<br />
women and become whatever we desire to be. His entrepreneurial spirit that was<br />
St arks<br />
displayed in the many businesses his built as well as his competitive nature and<br />
success were present when he encouraged me to start my own business. I was a<br />
second grade teacher <strong>with</strong> a BS in elementary education and Master?s degree in<br />
literacy and culture and my first published children?s book. I had no business<br />
experience but a lot of books in my apartment to sell; my dad simply told me to start<br />
a company. My father being an avid reader provided me <strong>with</strong> countless articles,<br />
books, and quotes from renowned business leaders as well as personal advice along<br />
the way. As a coach, he only provided me <strong>with</strong> feedback on how to get better in sales,<br />
marketing, and public speaking. My celebrations became his victories while a global<br />
literacy educational company (now twelve years old) was created. He knew that I<br />
could develop a company that highlighted my strengths-teaching, children, literacy,<br />
and education. He also showed me and instilled in me the importance of becoming<br />
the best version of myself in my field. In business, you can work <strong>with</strong> a lot of different<br />
personalities. By far, my favorite individual to work alongside is my dad. He is a<br />
business leader, mentor, supporter, loyal fan, and family who has definitely made the<br />
largest impact in my own business.