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For Max


For Max Sullivan Maisel<br />

1994 - 2015<br />

There is some reality that is much larger and more complex than we are<br />

able to perceive. (And yet) Poets perceive multiple dimensions within a<br />

single perception – reality as it truly is. “When two systems interact and<br />

their energies intermingle – once the systems separate, something of each<br />

remains in the other, leaving the two connected within the quantum<br />

realm.”* nsm<br />

*Kandiah,Krish. Paradoxology.2015.


Particles Unobserved<br />

Winter white-on-white<br />

obscures the hesitant<br />

horizon<br />

where earth and sky<br />

and lake dissolve<br />

Shadow children<br />

move in single file<br />

in and out and<br />

in-between<br />

the silhouettes<br />

of guardian trees<br />

Summer laughter<br />

sweeps the swings<br />

against<br />

the pillowed mounds<br />

of snow<br />

while<br />

halfway to belief<br />

a solitary frozen<br />

flag is trembling<br />

in a minor key<br />

Danger!<br />

Ice is dressed<br />

to lure you in<br />

nsm 2/20/15


II<br />

The hooded figure<br />

looms above<br />

antarctic steppes<br />

attentive to<br />

the wailing wolf<br />

marooned<br />

beyond<br />

compassion<br />

She never sleeps<br />

Her eyes are<br />

charcoal embers<br />

blown to life<br />

by piercing winds<br />

like laser beams<br />

skimming off<br />

our fears<br />

We barely<br />

hear her breathe<br />

and yet<br />

our tiny ones<br />

are wrapped<br />

in primitive<br />

cocoons<br />

she knits<br />

with icy<br />

needles<br />

nsm 2/21/15


Max<br />

Is still<br />

The smooth<br />

Slim stone<br />

I skim<br />

Across<br />

The brimming<br />

Moments<br />

In my days<br />

The ripples<br />

On the surface<br />

Travel outwards<br />

Til they finally<br />

Disappear<br />

Somewhere<br />

Out there<br />

In space<br />

Unmeasured<br />

Unexplored<br />

Undiscovered<br />

And yet<br />

Some other day<br />

I'll wait again<br />

For just another<br />

Brimming moment<br />

Just another<br />

Smooth slim stone.<br />

NSM, March 2015


Max Sullivan Maisel<br />

January 15, 1994<br />

February 22, 2015


“Only For So Short a While<br />

Have You Loaned Us to Each Other”<br />

Remembering Max<br />

Processional…………… “Morning Has Broken”<br />

Welcome……………… Father Daley<br />

An Aztec Prayer……… Nancy Sullivan Murray<br />

The extensive Murray and Maisel families want<br />

to thank you for the warm thoughts and deep<br />

concern that have embraced us through this<br />

difficult period. We will remember and celebrate<br />

Max through every season of the years ahead.<br />

“His Eye is on the Sparrow”<br />

……………………………. Twiggy Meshele Eure<br />

Remembering Max….. Clare Murray Volo<br />

Singing Bowls………..Gail Aiken and Edie Stanton<br />

“The Peace of Wild Things”<br />

……………………………. Eileen Murray<br />

Reflective Music……… Linda Griffin<br />

Kaddish Prayer………. Robert Druger M.D.<br />

Please join us for lunch in the Parish Center,<br />

provided by “Caring Hands,” a ministry of All<br />

Saints Parish Community. While the Parish<br />

Center is not handicapped accessible, we will be<br />

happy to help those who require assistance<br />

navigating its stairways. There will be a few<br />

tables at street level.<br />

“Litany of Peace” ….Choral Voices & Congregation<br />

Zen Poem………………. Clare Murray Volo<br />

“Imagine”………………. Sydni Noelle Eure<br />

Closing remarks…… Nancy Sullivan Murray<br />

Final Blessing Father Daley<br />

Recessional<br />

“On Eagles’ Wings”


Max Sullivan Maisel<br />

chose to slip into Lake Ontario<br />

on the coldest night<br />

of Winter 2015.<br />

A sweet and talented young man,<br />

a gifted landscape photographer,<br />

Max was beloved by his parents,<br />

Ivan and Meg, and treasured by<br />

His sisters, Sarah and Elizabeth,<br />

plus all the Maisel and Murray families.<br />

The Rescue teams and the Divers<br />

worked tirelessly under severe<br />

conditions and near zero temperatures.<br />

His body was identified on April 18, 2015.<br />

A Memorial Service had been held<br />

In March at the Jewish Temple in<br />

Bridgeport. Connecticut. 900 people<br />

were present. Another service was held<br />

at All Saints Church on April 18, 2015.<br />

The program is enclosed herein.<br />

His Journey Continues.


Saturday, we go to our cabin in Canada. Brendan hands<br />

me a small piece of a bone from Max. Together, John and<br />

I drop it into Charleston lake.<br />

Monday Sept. 6th, Tuesday Sept. 7th: staying very quiet the whole time; images come<br />

and go; the words appear and settle on the page; there are no changes, no corrections:<br />

it's "Unfinished," as is Max and his story.<br />

I didn't share it with Meg&Ivan til yesterday - when I sent it to myself by mistake (?).<br />

Meg replied, "It's a lovely poem, Mom. Leave it as it is."


“Unfinished”<br />

I see you<br />

leaping<br />

off the dock<br />

with your sisters and<br />

the cousin-girls<br />

who bob<br />

like fireflies<br />

sparking up the night<br />

I see you<br />

in your seal-cub<br />

nakedness<br />

slipping easily beneath<br />

the silvery surface<br />

of the lake<br />

I see you<br />

rising up<br />

amid the loons<br />

preparing<br />

for their flight<br />

to places you and they<br />

have never seen<br />

I see you<br />

strolling<br />

with my spirit tiger<br />

designing<br />

ways to stay<br />

untamed<br />

I see you . . .<br />

nsm 9/5/15

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