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<strong>CCChat</strong><br />

April 2018 Issue 8<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> on Coercive<br />

Control<br />

Making <strong>The</strong><br />

Invisible Visible


Contents<br />

Editor's Notes<br />

5 Spring Has Sprung<br />

<strong>CCChat</strong> is now on Patreon<br />

6 Become a Patron and Help<br />

Make <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible<br />

Rachel Williams<br />

9 Her new book is here!<br />

Abuse Talk/ Online Book Club<br />

11 Jennifer Gilmour gives us the<br />

lowdown<br />

Steve<br />

16 "I always said I'd never hit a<br />

woman and then I did"<br />

<strong>Conference</strong> on Coercive Control<br />

22 What to expect on the day. a<br />

look at the speakers.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme<br />

43 Meet the <strong>Conference</strong> Sponsors<br />

Lorem Ipsum


Editor's Notes<br />

ABOUT THE EDITOR:<br />

Min Grob started <strong>Conference</strong><br />

on Coercive Control in June<br />

2015 following a relationship<br />

that was coercive and<br />

controlling.<br />

Since then, there have been<br />

three national conferences,<br />

various speaking<br />

engagements and a monthly<br />

online publication- <strong>CCChat</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>.<br />

2018 will see the start of<br />

<strong>CCChat</strong> Live Discussion<br />

Groups as well as details of<br />

the next <strong>Conference</strong> on<br />

Coercive Control which will<br />

be a dual venue event to be<br />

held in Bristol and<br />

Gloucester.<br />

Min is particularly<br />

interested in how<br />

perpetrator tactics can be<br />

identified and has spoken on<br />

the challenging subject of<br />

differentiating between<br />

strident discourse and<br />

deliberate baiting.<br />

With the use of examples<br />

from social media, various<br />

covert tactics aimed at<br />

provoking a response can be<br />

identified with the aim of<br />

creating greater awareness<br />

of how abuse manifests when<br />

it is invisible in plain sight.<br />

Min also talks on coercive<br />

control both her personal<br />

experiences and more<br />

generally.<br />

Let's grow the<br />

conversation!<br />

Editor contact details:<br />

contact@coercivecontrol.co.<br />

uk<br />

Photo by Alex Kilbee of<br />

https://www.museportraits.co<br />

.uk/<br />

spring has sprung and so have I<br />

I write this on a beautiful sunny day, listening to the birds. Spring<br />

has definitely sprung and I couldn't be more pleased. the longer<br />

days and the brighter mornings mean i not only have more energy to<br />

do things. but longer in which to do it!<br />

This is the conference edition of <strong>CCChat</strong> where we meet all the<br />

confirmed speakers and take a look at what is in store.<br />

the theme of this year's conference is 'Making the invisible visible'.<br />

when we are looking at below the radar abuse that is hidden in plain<br />

sight, it is crucial that we all recognise it for what it is and that<br />

those who understand share the knowledge that is not necessarily<br />

obvious to the naked eye.<br />

the cognitive dissonance around various forms of abuse and how they<br />

intersect causes me significant dismay. on the one hand the message<br />

is that mocking, belittling, name calling etc is abuse and needs to be<br />

tackled yet when it is online, it is something we are often advised to<br />

ignore, to not respond, to block.<br />

We all know that abuse dosn't stop just because we leave the<br />

relationship yet there is an assumption that it will simply fade away<br />

if we ignore it. this is something that may well be true of online<br />

provocateurs who try to get a rise out of people for kicks, but it is<br />

completely different when the abuser is someone who is specifically<br />

targeting someone with the intention causing distress and/or fear.<br />

the ostrich effect is something I am very interested in and ccchat<br />

will be looking at it extensively but, for now, the focus is on<br />

identifying what we can not see under our very noses.<br />

Until next month.<br />

Min x<br />

Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible 2018


<strong>CCChat</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is now on Patreon<br />

If you have enjoyed reading the magazine and would like to be<br />

a part of developing and improving it, please consider<br />

becoming a patron and help create a bigger platform for<br />

MAKING THE INVISIBLE VISIBLE<br />

Please cut and paste the following into your browser to take<br />

you directly to the page.<br />

https://www.patreon.com/user?u=5609243<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


Jennifer Gilmour<br />

Advocate for women in abusive relationships<br />

Author of Isolation Junction & Clipped Wings<br />

Columnist for <strong>CCChat</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

Host of Abuse Talk & Online Book Club<br />

www.jennifergilmour.com<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


Rachel Williams<br />

Author<br />

Survivor<br />

Ambassador<br />

All -Round Wonder Woman<br />

Author of: <strong>The</strong> Devil At Home<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


Abuse Talk & Book Club<br />

by Jennifer Gilmour<br />

This month Jennifer has exciting news of a new forum<br />

she is developing and reviews another book.<br />

ABUSE CHAT APRIL NEWS<br />

Since the last edition of <strong>CCChat</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> @AbuseChat has<br />

gone past another Twitter milestone of 300 followers and we<br />

are steadily growing. We have had members join in not just<br />

from the UK but also from the US, Canada, Italy and<br />

Spain. Its interesting to find out how different countries work<br />

in supporting victims of domestic abuse. You can join in<br />

every Wednesday 8-9pm GMT via #AbuseTalk<br />

I have also spent time in developing an #AbuseTalk forum<br />

which will be available soon, I am hopeful for May. I had the<br />

idea a couple of years ago and it has never left me but I<br />

didn’t know how to implement it, when running #AbuseTalk I<br />

soon realised the character limit on Twitter and privacy is a<br />

bit of a niggle.<br />

<strong>The</strong> forum cannot be seen publicly unless you register for a<br />

profile and it doesn’t have such a restriction for character<br />

limitation.Beta testers feel very positive about it and its<br />

received its main sponsor which I am delighted about.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Twitter chat will be continuing but it gives you an option<br />

to discuss further and whenever you want in the week.<br />

<strong>The</strong>mes covered are that of my own and those who join in, if<br />

you would like a particular topic’s covered then you can<br />

always get in touch with me via:<br />

contact@jennifergilmour.com<br />

Anyone can get involved with the discussions, all you have to<br />

do is sign into Twitter on the dedicated time and tweet with<br />

the #AbuseTalk. <strong>The</strong> account @AbuseChat will retweet and<br />

be involved in the conversation. If you have any articles, blog<br />

posts, thoughts, feelings on domestic abuse then this is a<br />

space were you can express it.<br />

ONLINE BOOK CLUB<br />

“More than books, books with messages”<br />

Online Book Club is a book club with a difference. Read<br />

books that relate to domestic abuse either for interest or for<br />

the educational value.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are interviews, reviews, as well as a chance to share<br />

your thoughts as talking points and win exclusive signed<br />

copies of some of the books featured.<br />

If you have any questions or want to get involved get in touch<br />

with Jennifer Gilmour, contact@jennifergilmour.com<br />

In February we had our very first giveaway for <strong>CCChat</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>. <strong>The</strong>res a lot of room to still enter so don’t worry…<br />

I have decided to extend the giveaway until the end of this<br />

month. <strong>The</strong> winner to be announced in the May edition of<br />

<strong>CCChat</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>. Heres the link: http://bit.ly/ccchatmag<br />

THIS MONTH'S BOOK:<br />

Broken Pieces by Rachel Thompson<br />

Broken Pieces is an award winning book about relationships,<br />

a study of women, and a book with heart. Broken Pieces is a<br />

collection of pieces inspired by life: love, loss, abuse, trust,<br />

grief, and ulti-mately, love again. In Thompson’s most<br />

intensive work to date, she opens her soul and invites the<br />

reader in for a visit. Thompson goes into those long buried<br />

rooms we lock up deep inside and shares a bit of her soul.<br />

Broken Pieces is vulnerable, raw honesty, and no-holds<br />

barred.<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


Jennifer's short review:<br />

<strong>The</strong> way Rachel has written this made her book a<br />

lot easy to digest and read in little shots. I do<br />

believe others may need to read it like this<br />

because of her honest account of what happened<br />

to her. Rachel’s thoughts within the book are<br />

something I can relate to and I believe her book<br />

will make those who have experienced sex abuse<br />

or child abuse less alone in their thoughts. Thank<br />

you for sharing and for breaking the silence.<br />

If you have read Broken Pieces, please share<br />

your thoughts with me and I will be happy to<br />

include them with the winner in next months<br />

edition. Send to me before 5th May at:<br />

contact@jennifergilmour.com<br />

ONLINE BOOK CLUB by Jennifer Gilmour<br />

“<strong>The</strong> message between the lines”<br />

BOOK GIVEAWAY<br />

Broken Pieces is the book you can win on the<br />

giveaway and you have until the end of April.<br />

For a chance to win email:<br />

contact@jennifergilmour.com<br />

or contact Jennifer on Twitter @AbuseChat<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


Steve is a former perpetrator of<br />

domestic abuse. He now campaigns<br />

to end abuse against women.<br />

Founder and Editor:<br />

@StopDVaWomen<br />

#StopDVaWomen<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


"I always said I’d never hit a woman,<br />

and then I did."<br />

Steve, a former perpetrator tells his story.<br />

“I told him I wanted to change from the person I’d become.”<br />

Steve<br />

I always said I’d never hit a woman, and then I<br />

did. I assaulted, kicked, my wife one day in June<br />

2014. We were out at a day <strong>Conference</strong> in<br />

Lancaster. I won’t make excuses, I won’t try to<br />

dress it up as anything other than assault. My wife<br />

asked me to leave the marital home, after<br />

struggling to find somewhere, I eventually left in<br />

July 2014. Friends, saying I needed to sort my<br />

head out, drove me to an Order of nuns on the<br />

Wirral. I stayed on and off for many weeks. It was<br />

during one of these stays that I read a pamphlet<br />

about domestic abuse. On the back, it had one<br />

sentence… ‘’Do you feel you are a perpetrator?’’ It<br />

was then it dawned on me, yes I am.<br />

When I left, I called Respect Phoneline, the people<br />

who put together the pamphlet. After being on the<br />

phone for over an hour, the guy asked me… ‘’What<br />

do you want?’’ I told him I wanted to change from<br />

the person I’d become. He gave me contact details<br />

of Relate GMS, who run a Domestic Violence<br />

Prevention Programme for male perpetrators. I<br />

called and was advised there was a six week<br />

waiting list, if I fulfilled the criteria. I was<br />

accepted onto the Programme and waited.<br />

I phoned three times…I asked if there was a space<br />

yet for me? Not yet… On week six of waiting I<br />

arrived for my first One-to-One with one of the<br />

Facilitators. I later referred to her as a cross<br />

between Driving Miss Daisy, and the Terminator.<br />

She was lovely, but very thorough. On week 1 I<br />

was asked…why did I assault my wife? <strong>The</strong> same<br />

on week 2, 3, 4…week 5 I was arrested. I was<br />

called by a PC from my local Police. Can I come in<br />

tomorrow to have a chat? Yes sure I said. I arrived<br />

at 3.30pm the following day and was arrested.<br />

Harassment the initial complaint, he dealt with<br />

the assault as well. <strong>The</strong> PC kept me in custody for<br />

six hours. He interviewed me and asked did I do<br />

it? Yes I replied. Did you? He asked again. Yes I<br />

said. Were there any witnesses? No. Any CCTV?<br />

No. So no one saw you? No I replied. I accepted a<br />

Police Caution, but was told do it again and you<br />

will go to prison.<br />

Later that week I had my one to one with my<br />

Facilitator, ‘’How’s your week been?’’ she asked, I<br />

told her of my arrest. On starting the Programme<br />

you have to sign a contract: *You turn up on time<br />

*Not be rude, speak over others *Be respectful of<br />

others *Take an active part on the Programme,<br />

not just turn up *Not have ongoing Police<br />

involvement etc…<br />

It was a difficult few weeks for me, I considered<br />

quitting a few times. Why? I was continually<br />

looking at my abuse, each week, over and over,<br />

and over. It was very painful, some may say good!<br />

But to connect with your abuse it has to be<br />

painful.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Group consists of a maximum of nine guys, it<br />

becomes a band of brothers, so to speak. You<br />

support each other, but also hold each other to<br />

account. You can’t pull the wool over the eyes of<br />

guys who’ve been abusive. <strong>The</strong>y’ll see straight<br />

through it. We’re all there to change, that’s it. No<br />

timewasters, you’re taking up a valuable place<br />

from someone who wants to change. By week 16 /<br />

17 I was getting to grips with what I was learning<br />

and the penny dropped so to speak.<br />

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It was still tough, but I was learning to deal<br />

with how I felt, my emotions, my<br />

anger…where it came from, I noticed when it<br />

was building…my Level 1. During this time<br />

my wife and I were meeting up, seeing if we<br />

could go forward with our relationship. It<br />

started as we were going to the same events<br />

through the summer, she thought it a good<br />

idea to break the ice prior to being in front of<br />

our friends.<br />

We started dating again. Eventually I got to<br />

my last evening on the Programme, it was<br />

another tough moment, what would happen<br />

after the Programme. What would I do on<br />

Thursday evenings? I sat on the train station<br />

on the way home, I received a text. It was<br />

from my wife: ‘’Well done, I’m proud of you!’’<br />

I sobbed my heart out.<br />

Time passes by, I left my employer and<br />

started with an agency driving trucks. My<br />

first two weeks were spent delivering to the<br />

area where the Police station I was processed<br />

in, every single day I was there. By the end of<br />

the second week I was screaming ‘’OK I<br />

understand!!’’ you see, both my wife and I<br />

are Christians. I saw it as a sign, a warning of<br />

a sort, not to do the same again, even though<br />

I said I wouldn’t to myself. I worked for the<br />

same company through the agency for 11<br />

weeks.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Thursday of my final week there, I<br />

walked into work and my boss shouted to me<br />

laughing, ‘’You’re going to prison!’’ I wasn’t<br />

laughing. I looked at my run sheet, yes I was<br />

going to prison, but delivering to one. I felt<br />

sick. I left the depot, feeling as though I was<br />

driving my own prison van. I arrived, spoke<br />

to the Prison Officer and was waved in.<br />

Over an hour I was in there, couldn’t wait to<br />

get out. When I did, it felt like I’d been<br />

released myself. I kept thinking to myself, I<br />

could be doing 25 to life…another lesson<br />

learnt. Eventually after dating for over 3<br />

years, my wife decided not to pursue our<br />

marriage. She resurrected the divorce which<br />

she’d paused a few years earlier. I was<br />

devastated. I still go to the drop in group<br />

held each month for those who’ve completed<br />

the Programme.<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


I still love my now ex-wife. We meet up occasionally for<br />

dinner, coffee and a walk. Our relationship we both consider<br />

is better now we're divorced. We’re not dating, just meeting<br />

as friends, but I live in hope...<br />

Male Victims:<br />

Mens Advice Line: Call freephone 0808 801 0327 Monday-<br />

Friday 9am-5pm or email info@mensadviceline.org.uk<br />

Perpetrator Programmes/Understanding<br />

Care 2 Talk<br />

http://www.care-2talk.co.uk<br />

Respect<br />

http://respect.uk.net/<br />

Mencentric<br />

www.mencentric.co.uk<br />

DVIP<br />

www.dvip.org<br />

SPLITZ<br />

www.splitz.org<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


Currently Reading:<br />

Look What You Made Me Do<br />

Helen Walmsley-Johnson<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


What to<br />

expect<br />

on the day<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


<strong>Conference</strong> on Coercive<br />

Control 2018 - Bristol<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Conference</strong> this year is at the University of<br />

Bristol and the theme: Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible<br />

Why is coercive control so<br />

difficult to identify and<br />

evidence?<br />

How can we increase<br />

understanding of abuse that<br />

is hidden in plain sight?<br />

How can we recognise the<br />

red flags so we can walk away<br />

sooner?<br />

How can we learn where to<br />

look when there is so much<br />

misinformation?<br />

This conference looks at<br />

abuse that falls below the<br />

radar. Because that is<br />

EXACTLY where<br />

perpetrators want it to<br />

remain.<br />

This is the 3rd national <strong>Conference</strong> on<br />

Coercive Control and the aim is to achieve a<br />

greater understanding of abuse that remains<br />

hidden in plain sight.<br />

What does this mean?<br />

It means the victim knows their abuser, what<br />

makes them tick and also the tactics they use<br />

to undermine, subjugate, isolate and control<br />

but it is not always apparent to outsiders.<br />

It is important to understand how this<br />

happens and the extent of it as, all too often,<br />

the abuser will provoke the victim into a<br />

negative responses and then claim that<br />

THEY, the abuser, is the victim.<br />

We need to be able to identify and evidence<br />

when this happens as, all too often, the<br />

natural tendency is to dismiss the abuse as a<br />

spat, a dispute, a tiff. All too often it is<br />

dismissed as toxic or hostile or volatile with<br />

the hidden subtext that both parties are<br />

culpable, rather than one who is provoking,<br />

prodding, goading, belittling, demeaning,<br />

degrading the other.<br />

This year's speakers will be looking at and<br />

around coercive control in order to shine a<br />

light on an oft misunderstood and<br />

misreprentated form of manipulation.<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


#CCCBristol18<br />

Dr Emma Katz<br />

Dr Emma Katz’s pioneering research investigates how children<br />

are harmed by coercive control (not only physical violence)<br />

in contexts of domestic abuse.<br />

Dr Emma Katz’s pioneering research<br />

investigates how children are harmed<br />

by coercive control (not only physical<br />

violence) in contexts of domestic<br />

abuse.<br />

Key issues for Emma are how children<br />

experience coercive control, how they<br />

resist it, and what helps them to<br />

recover.<br />

Emma has received international<br />

recognition and awards for her<br />

publications and talks, and her unique<br />

perspective is generating impacts on<br />

practice across the UK.<br />

Emma is Lecturer in Childhood and<br />

Youth at Liverpool Hope University.<br />

For more information about Dr Katz:<br />

https://www.hope.ac.uk/staff/katze.html<br />

Recent publications:<br />

Radford, Lorraine, Nancy Lombard, Fransizka<br />

Meinck, Emma Katz and Stanford Mahati (2017)<br />

'Researching Violence with Children:<br />

Experiences and Lessons from the UK and<br />

South Africa', Families, Relationships and<br />

Societies, vol. 6, no. 2, pp. 239-256.<br />

Available from:<br />

http://www.ingentaconnect.com/contentone/<br />

tpp/frs/2017/00000006/00000002/art00006<br />

Katz, Emma. (2016) ‘Beyond the Physical<br />

Incident Model: How Children Living with<br />

Domestic Violence are Harmed by and<br />

Resist Regimes of Coercive Control’ Child<br />

Abuse Review, vol. 25, no. 1, pp. 46-59.<br />

Available from:<br />

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/<br />

car.2422/abstract<br />

Katz, Emma. (2015) ‘Recovery-Promoters:<br />

Ways that Mothers and Children Support<br />

One Another’s Recoveries from Domestic<br />

Violence’ British Journal of Social Work,<br />

vol. 45, sup. 1, pp. i153-i169.<br />

Available from:<br />

http://bjsw.oxfordjournals.org/content/45/<br />

suppl_1/i153.abstract<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


#CCCBristol18<br />

Alison Boydell<br />

Alison Boydell co-founded JURIES (Jurors Understanding<br />

Rape is Essential Standard) with the late Jill Saward.<br />

Alison Boydell is a lifelong feminist and<br />

works as an Independent Sexual Violence<br />

Advocate (ISVA) for a Rape Crisis centre.<br />

Alison campaigns against violence against<br />

women and is involved in End Online<br />

Misogyny, which highlights online<br />

violence against women.<br />

Alison has spoken about online violence<br />

against women at Women's Aid and Rape<br />

Crisis England and Wales conferences as<br />

well as for the Centre for Women's<br />

Justice.<br />

Alison has identified similarities between<br />

domestic abuse behaviours and online<br />

abuse behaviours not perpetrated as part<br />

of domestic abuse.<br />

Alison also co-founded JURIES (Jurors<br />

Understanding Rape is Essential<br />

Standard) with the late Jill Saward.<br />

JURIES campaigns for juries in sexual<br />

offences trials to be briefed about the<br />

realities of rape to counter widely held<br />

rape myths and stereotypes.<br />

More recently, Alison has been<br />

campaigning against "sexual<br />

entertainment venues" (SEVs) in<br />

Sheffield and was part of the campaign<br />

group Zero Option, who supported a<br />

woman who brought legal action<br />

against Sheffield City Council for its<br />

unlawful granting of Spearmint<br />

Rhino's licence in 2016.<br />

Alison continues to campaign against<br />

strip clubs as Not Buying It working<br />

closely with the Women's Equality<br />

Party local branch and other interest<br />

groups.<br />

For more information:<br />

https://juriesunderstandingsv.wordpr<br />

ess.com/<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


#CCCBristol18<br />

John Trott<br />

John Trott is the Director - Founder of 'AbuseFreeLife'<br />

Investigative and Safeguarding Training and Consultancy.<br />

John Trott retired from the police in 2016 as<br />

a Detective Chief Inspector in charge of the<br />

Cornwall and Isles of Scilly Public Protection<br />

Unit. He was responsible for the prevention<br />

and investigation of child abuse, domestic<br />

abuse and vulnerable adult abuse and was<br />

the Devon and Cornwall Force lead for<br />

Domestic Abuse, Stalking, Forced Marriage,<br />

Honour Based Abuse, Female Genital<br />

Mutilation (FGM) and Safeguarding<br />

Vulnerable Adults/Adults at Risk.<br />

Additionally, he sat on the LSCB and SAB<br />

and chaired over 200 Multi Agency Risk<br />

Assessment <strong>Conference</strong>s. John is an<br />

accredited Senior Investigating Officer and<br />

has led on a number of serious<br />

and protracted investigations up to and<br />

including murder and recently, a number of<br />

high profile investigations in Health Care<br />

settings.<br />

Additionally, he has eighteen years’<br />

experience as a Hostage and Crisis<br />

Negotiator and Coordinator. John is a<br />

Domestic Homicide Review (DHR) Chair and<br />

has sat on a number of DHR panels.<br />

Nationally he was a member of the HMIC<br />

National Working Group for Domestic<br />

Abuse.<br />

John is now the Director of AbuseFreeLife.<br />

He consults with and trains police and other<br />

organisations around the United Kingdom on<br />

Domestic Abuse, Coercion and Control, Multi<br />

Agency Risk Assessment <strong>Conference</strong>s,<br />

Stalking, DASH<br />

Risk Assessment and Honour Based Abuse.<br />

He has lectured and spoken at several events<br />

including at Exeter and Plymouth University,<br />

the Department of Health National FGM<br />

conference, the National Caldicott Guardians<br />

conference and the National Stalking<br />

<strong>Conference</strong>.<br />

For more information:<br />

https://www.rockpool.life<br />

http://www.safelives.org.uk/<br />

2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible


#CCCBristol18<br />

Dr Karen Morgan<br />

Research Fellow in the Bristol Medical School,<br />

at the University of Bristol.<br />

Karen Morgan is a Research Fellow in the<br />

Bristol Medical School, at the University<br />

of Bristol.<br />

As well as over ten years’ research<br />

experience mostly in gender-based<br />

violence, she also has experience from the<br />

voluntary sector of supporting survivors<br />

of domestic and sexual abuse.<br />

In addition to her work on gendered<br />

violence, Karen has also written,<br />

lectured and provided conference<br />

papers on issues relating to animal<br />

rights and ethical veganism, and is an<br />

Associate Lecturer and Critical Reader<br />

consultant for the Open University.<br />

Currently, Karen is working on<br />

REPROVIDE, an NIHR-funded pilot trial<br />

of a domestic violence perpetrator<br />

programme, which is seeking to gather<br />

evidence as to the effectiveness of group<br />

programmes for male perpetrators.<br />

Previously, Karen was working on<br />

the Domestic Violence and Abuse<br />

Healthtalk module which provides a<br />

resource for women who have been in an<br />

abusive relationship, and for their<br />

families, friends, and professionals<br />

seeking to provide appropriate support.<br />

For more information:<br />

Eos Project<br />

http://www.bristol.ac.uk/<br />

primaryhealthcare/researchthemes/<br />

eos-home/<br />

Domestic Violence and Abuse<br />

Healthtalk module<br />

http://www.healthtalk.org/peoplesexperiences/domestic-violence-abuse<br />

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Sophia Cooke<br />

PhD Student at University of Cambridge,<br />

Blogger and Survivor<br />

Sophia Cooke is a PhD student at<br />

Cambridge. In 2017 Sophia found<br />

herself in the national press accused of<br />

lying about her ex partner assaulting<br />

her.<br />

As a result of her experiences, Sophia<br />

has released a blog.<br />

https://victimscanbestrong.com<br />

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#CCCBristol18<br />

Rachel Williams<br />

Rachel Williams survived 18 years of domestic<br />

abuse. She was shot by her estranged husband.<br />

Rachel Williams survived 18 years of<br />

domestic abuse. She was shot by her<br />

estranged husband who then killed<br />

himself.<br />

Rachel now raises awareness of<br />

domestic abuse with her tireless<br />

campaigning is an Ambassador for<br />

Welsh Women's Aid, Threshold - DAS<br />

<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme as well as a<br />

Pioneer for Safelives.<br />

On March 8th of this year, Rachel<br />

released her book <strong>The</strong> Devil at Home<br />

which tells her personal story in<br />

searing detail to help others<br />

understand what happens behind<br />

closed doors.<br />

Rachel is <strong>CCChat</strong>'s 2018<br />

Woman To Watch<br />

<strong>The</strong> Devil at Home is<br />

published by Penguin<br />

and available in<br />

bookshops, on<br />

Amazon and all good<br />

airports.<br />

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Sarah Phillimore<br />

Sarah Phillimore is a barrister interested in the<br />

intersection between free speech and abuse.<br />

Sarah Phillimore is a family<br />

barrister based in the South West<br />

of England.<br />

She is also the site administrator<br />

of the Child Protection Resource<br />

and a member of the<br />

Transparency Project, a charity<br />

that seeks to improve public<br />

understanding of the family law<br />

system.<br />

Sarah has a particular interest in<br />

issues of freedom of speech and<br />

responsible use of social media,<br />

particularly by regulated<br />

professionals.<br />

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#CCCBristol18<br />

Rosa de Guero<br />

Survivor Of Maternal Abuse<br />

Rosa reported her mother for child cruelty to<br />

herself and her siblings. <strong>The</strong> trial took place<br />

last year.<br />

In court, Rosa's mother admitted she found<br />

soiled pants in washing and claimed that she<br />

accidently fell forward and underwear went<br />

into Rosa's brother's mouth<br />

Rosa's mother also admitted to slapping<br />

Rosa's brother, throwing a toy elephant and<br />

biting another another daughter and<br />

throwing water at her kids.<br />

She told the court that her husband's long<br />

absences and lack of involvement around the<br />

house left her 'alone', 'isolated' and<br />

depressed' 'I was out of control. I was<br />

completely on the verge of insanity,' she said.<br />

Having admitted to some of the abuse, she<br />

would later tell the court that<br />

Rosa's allegations were 'beyond commenting<br />

on and 'absolutely ridiculous and extreme.'<br />

Rosa's mother was found not guilty of five<br />

counts of child cruelty and three counts of<br />

assault occasioning actual bodily harm<br />

between 1979 and 1993.<br />

Link:<br />

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/<br />

article-4903050/Wife-Pink-Floydengineer-cleared-child-cruelty.html<br />

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Rebecca Sharpe<br />

Sophie Mortimer<br />

Revenge Porn Helpline<br />

Rebecca Sharpe and Sophie Mortimer<br />

help run the Revenge Porn Helpline<br />

which offers practical assistance in<br />

reporting and removing content online<br />

as well as non-judgmental emotional<br />

support.<br />

Both will be talking about the coercive<br />

control around publishing intimate<br />

images.<br />

Have you had your intimate<br />

images posted online without<br />

your consent?<br />

<strong>The</strong> Revenge Porn Helpline is the UK's<br />

only dedicated service supporting<br />

adults. Call for free, one-on-one<br />

confidential advice and support via<br />

email and phone.<br />

Revenge Porn Helpline<br />

0345 6000 459<br />

What services do we offer?<br />

We offer practical assistance in reporting and<br />

removing content online.<br />

Whilst we cannot guarantee removal of all<br />

images, our exceptional partnerships with<br />

internet industry partners allows us to<br />

minimise the reach, and some of the harm,<br />

caused by revenge porn.<br />

We provide coaching and advice on how and<br />

when to gather evidence and approach the<br />

authorities, but cannot undertake criminal<br />

investigations or report to the police on the<br />

victim's behalf.<br />

We also offer support and legislative advice<br />

to law enforcement agencies. We are<br />

delighted to have an effective and positive<br />

working relationship with the QMUL Legal<br />

Advice Centre. Offering specialist support for<br />

victims, our clients are signposted to free,<br />

accessible, client-centred legal consultations.<br />

We do not have the capacity to provide long<br />

term counselling to our clients but do offer<br />

non-judgemental, emotional support.<br />

https://revengepornhelpline.org.uk/<br />

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Research Highlights Need For Police Forces To Have<br />

Greater Awareness Of Revenge Pornography<br />

In the first survey of its kind, researchers at the<br />

University of Suffolk have been investigating the<br />

understanding of revenge pornography within<br />

police forces, across the county and in the UK.<br />

This builds on the University’s growing expertise<br />

and pioneering research, which addresses topical<br />

issues, particularly those affecting young people,<br />

such as peer-on-peer abuse, revenge pornography,<br />

sexual abuse online and cyber security.<br />

It also follows the launch of the Centre of<br />

Excellence in Terrorism, Resilience, Intelligence<br />

and Crime (CENTRIC) in Suffolk and the Suffolk<br />

Institute for Social and Economic Research<br />

(SISER).<br />

Since the introduction of new legislation in 2015,<br />

making revenge pornography a crime in the UK,<br />

the number of cases has risen sharply with more<br />

victims feeling able to report the crime, while<br />

prevalence in the mainstream media is beginning<br />

to increase public awareness.<br />

In January 2018, YouTube star Chrissy Chambers<br />

won damages in a landmark UK revenge<br />

pornography case. Even though the offence<br />

occurred in 2011, before the new legislation, she<br />

was able to use the Civil Courts to sue her former<br />

partner for harassment, breach of confidence and<br />

misuse of private information.<br />

<strong>The</strong> aim of the research, conducted by Professor<br />

Emma Bond, Director of Research, and Katie<br />

Tyrrell, Researcher at the University of Suffolk,<br />

was to establish the level of understanding of<br />

revenge pornography among police officers and<br />

staff. <strong>The</strong> survey of national police forces,<br />

undertaken between late February and Early April<br />

2017, was part of a wider research initiative<br />

funded by the Police Knowledge Fund through the<br />

College of Policing and HEFCE, which aims to<br />

develop the understanding and use of research in<br />

policing.<br />

<strong>The</strong> survey was developed with the National<br />

Revenge Porn Helpline and was supported by the<br />

College of Policing. Revenge pornography is a<br />

form of online abuse with devastating personal<br />

consequences for victims.<br />

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Laura Higgins from the Revenge Porn Helpline<br />

commented, “We welcome this survey and its<br />

findings, which reflects the feedback we receive<br />

from many of our clients, that many police forces<br />

lack the knowledge or confidence required to<br />

manage reports and that many victims feel they<br />

are not taken seriously. Non-consensual image<br />

based abuse is a problem of our time and, as the<br />

only dedicated helpline for victims in the UK, we<br />

know that the number of cases is growing year-onyear.<br />

We urge police forces across the country to<br />

provide their teams with the training necessary to<br />

ensure victims feel able to report crimes safe in<br />

the knowledge that they will receive the support<br />

they require and that offenders will be brought to<br />

justice.”<br />

Dr Emma Bond<br />

<strong>The</strong> Revenge Porn Helpline is receiving increasing<br />

reports and calls from victims yearly, with nearly<br />

2,000 in the past year suggesting an increased<br />

need. <strong>The</strong> relatively recent introduction of<br />

legislation around revenge pornography means<br />

police officers and staff are often one of the first<br />

points of contact for victims, therefore their<br />

response to this is vital.<br />

<strong>The</strong> findings of the research and the outcomes of<br />

the survey highlighted the lack of formal training<br />

completed by police officers and staff. Of the 783<br />

police officers and staff who completed the survey,<br />

95% reported not receiving formal training on<br />

how to respond to cases of revenge pornography<br />

despite such devastating effects for the victims.<br />

<strong>The</strong>refore, going forward, training opportunities<br />

for police forces is crucial.<br />

In addition to the research, the University is<br />

hosting the Virtual Violence: Technologyfacilitated<br />

Domestic Abuse and Control<br />

conference on 10 May, bringing together multiagency<br />

practitioners, academics and students in<br />

order to raise awareness of technology-facilitated<br />

abuse, advance understanding around the<br />

digitalisation of abusive relationships and to<br />

discuss approaches moving forward.<br />

This follows the University’s recent activity<br />

highlighting safer internet use through the<br />

Blurring Boundaries conference, hosted earlier<br />

this month. <strong>The</strong> conference brought together<br />

experts from across the country to address a<br />

regional audience of delegates from schools,<br />

colleges, healthcare providers, social services and<br />

safeguarding organisations, focussing on topics<br />

affecting young people such as peer-on-peer<br />

abuse, revenge pornography, sexual abuse online,<br />

and cyber security.<br />

Read the full report here:<br />

http://journals.sagepub.com/eprint/<br />

ys7F87MKtfIm2XgzqAVu/full<br />

Katie Tyrrell, Researcher at the University of<br />

Suffolk, said “This is one of the first studies to<br />

quantify police understanding of revenge<br />

pornography and the results highlight the limited<br />

understanding of legislation and confidence in<br />

responding to cases of revenge pornography<br />

amongst police officers and staff within the UK,<br />

demonstrating an urgent need for training across<br />

police forces.”<br />

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<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme<br />

Founded by Pat Craven<br />

<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme<br />

Sponsors of<br />

<strong>Conference</strong> on Coercive Control 2018 and 2019.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme is a domestic<br />

violence programme which was created by<br />

Pat Craven. It was evolved from Pat's work<br />

with perpetrators of domestic violence.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme provides<br />

information, not therapy and was primarily<br />

designed for women as victims of domestic<br />

violence, since research shows that in the<br />

vast majority of cases of serious abuse are<br />

male on female. However, the programme,<br />

when provided as an intensive two day<br />

course, is also suitable for men, whether<br />

abusive and wishing to change their attitudes<br />

and behaviour or whether victims of same<br />

sex domestic abuse themselves.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme examines the roles<br />

played by attitudes and beliefs on the actions<br />

of abusive men and the responses of victims<br />

and survivors. <strong>The</strong> aim is to help them to<br />

make sense of and understand what has<br />

happened to them, instead of the whole<br />

experience just feeling like a horrible mess.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme course<br />

usually lasts for 11 or 12 weeks and is<br />

FREE. It is provided by hundreds of<br />

agencies across the UK. Some of them<br />

are rolling so women can join at any<br />

time but this varies according to the<br />

area.<br />

Freedom Programme<br />

help line number: 01942 262 270<br />

Help desk email:<br />

chris@fpcharity.co.uk.<br />

www.freedomprogramme.co.uk<br />

<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme also describes in<br />

detail how children are affected by being<br />

exposed to this kind of abuse and very<br />

importantly how their lives are improved<br />

when the abuse is removed.<br />

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