CCChat-Magazine_8-The-Conference-Edition
The Magazine on Coercive Control
The Magazine on Coercive Control
Create successful ePaper yourself
Turn your PDF publications into a flip-book with our unique Google optimized e-Paper software.
<strong>CCChat</strong><br />
April 2018 Issue 8<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> on Coercive<br />
Control<br />
Making <strong>The</strong><br />
Invisible Visible
Contents<br />
Editor's Notes<br />
5 Spring Has Sprung<br />
<strong>CCChat</strong> is now on Patreon<br />
6 Become a Patron and Help<br />
Make <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible<br />
Rachel Williams<br />
9 Her new book is here!<br />
Abuse Talk/ Online Book Club<br />
11 Jennifer Gilmour gives us the<br />
lowdown<br />
Steve<br />
16 "I always said I'd never hit a<br />
woman and then I did"<br />
<strong>Conference</strong> on Coercive Control<br />
22 What to expect on the day. a<br />
look at the speakers.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme<br />
43 Meet the <strong>Conference</strong> Sponsors<br />
Lorem Ipsum
Editor's Notes<br />
ABOUT THE EDITOR:<br />
Min Grob started <strong>Conference</strong><br />
on Coercive Control in June<br />
2015 following a relationship<br />
that was coercive and<br />
controlling.<br />
Since then, there have been<br />
three national conferences,<br />
various speaking<br />
engagements and a monthly<br />
online publication- <strong>CCChat</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>.<br />
2018 will see the start of<br />
<strong>CCChat</strong> Live Discussion<br />
Groups as well as details of<br />
the next <strong>Conference</strong> on<br />
Coercive Control which will<br />
be a dual venue event to be<br />
held in Bristol and<br />
Gloucester.<br />
Min is particularly<br />
interested in how<br />
perpetrator tactics can be<br />
identified and has spoken on<br />
the challenging subject of<br />
differentiating between<br />
strident discourse and<br />
deliberate baiting.<br />
With the use of examples<br />
from social media, various<br />
covert tactics aimed at<br />
provoking a response can be<br />
identified with the aim of<br />
creating greater awareness<br />
of how abuse manifests when<br />
it is invisible in plain sight.<br />
Min also talks on coercive<br />
control both her personal<br />
experiences and more<br />
generally.<br />
Let's grow the<br />
conversation!<br />
Editor contact details:<br />
contact@coercivecontrol.co.<br />
uk<br />
Photo by Alex Kilbee of<br />
https://www.museportraits.co<br />
.uk/<br />
spring has sprung and so have I<br />
I write this on a beautiful sunny day, listening to the birds. Spring<br />
has definitely sprung and I couldn't be more pleased. the longer<br />
days and the brighter mornings mean i not only have more energy to<br />
do things. but longer in which to do it!<br />
This is the conference edition of <strong>CCChat</strong> where we meet all the<br />
confirmed speakers and take a look at what is in store.<br />
the theme of this year's conference is 'Making the invisible visible'.<br />
when we are looking at below the radar abuse that is hidden in plain<br />
sight, it is crucial that we all recognise it for what it is and that<br />
those who understand share the knowledge that is not necessarily<br />
obvious to the naked eye.<br />
the cognitive dissonance around various forms of abuse and how they<br />
intersect causes me significant dismay. on the one hand the message<br />
is that mocking, belittling, name calling etc is abuse and needs to be<br />
tackled yet when it is online, it is something we are often advised to<br />
ignore, to not respond, to block.<br />
We all know that abuse dosn't stop just because we leave the<br />
relationship yet there is an assumption that it will simply fade away<br />
if we ignore it. this is something that may well be true of online<br />
provocateurs who try to get a rise out of people for kicks, but it is<br />
completely different when the abuser is someone who is specifically<br />
targeting someone with the intention causing distress and/or fear.<br />
the ostrich effect is something I am very interested in and ccchat<br />
will be looking at it extensively but, for now, the focus is on<br />
identifying what we can not see under our very noses.<br />
Until next month.<br />
Min x<br />
Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible 2018
<strong>CCChat</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is now on Patreon<br />
If you have enjoyed reading the magazine and would like to be<br />
a part of developing and improving it, please consider<br />
becoming a patron and help create a bigger platform for<br />
MAKING THE INVISIBLE VISIBLE<br />
Please cut and paste the following into your browser to take<br />
you directly to the page.<br />
https://www.patreon.com/user?u=5609243<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
Jennifer Gilmour<br />
Advocate for women in abusive relationships<br />
Author of Isolation Junction & Clipped Wings<br />
Columnist for <strong>CCChat</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
Host of Abuse Talk & Online Book Club<br />
www.jennifergilmour.com<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
Rachel Williams<br />
Author<br />
Survivor<br />
Ambassador<br />
All -Round Wonder Woman<br />
Author of: <strong>The</strong> Devil At Home<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
Abuse Talk & Book Club<br />
by Jennifer Gilmour<br />
This month Jennifer has exciting news of a new forum<br />
she is developing and reviews another book.<br />
ABUSE CHAT APRIL NEWS<br />
Since the last edition of <strong>CCChat</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> @AbuseChat has<br />
gone past another Twitter milestone of 300 followers and we<br />
are steadily growing. We have had members join in not just<br />
from the UK but also from the US, Canada, Italy and<br />
Spain. Its interesting to find out how different countries work<br />
in supporting victims of domestic abuse. You can join in<br />
every Wednesday 8-9pm GMT via #AbuseTalk<br />
I have also spent time in developing an #AbuseTalk forum<br />
which will be available soon, I am hopeful for May. I had the<br />
idea a couple of years ago and it has never left me but I<br />
didn’t know how to implement it, when running #AbuseTalk I<br />
soon realised the character limit on Twitter and privacy is a<br />
bit of a niggle.<br />
<strong>The</strong> forum cannot be seen publicly unless you register for a<br />
profile and it doesn’t have such a restriction for character<br />
limitation.Beta testers feel very positive about it and its<br />
received its main sponsor which I am delighted about.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Twitter chat will be continuing but it gives you an option<br />
to discuss further and whenever you want in the week.<br />
<strong>The</strong>mes covered are that of my own and those who join in, if<br />
you would like a particular topic’s covered then you can<br />
always get in touch with me via:<br />
contact@jennifergilmour.com<br />
Anyone can get involved with the discussions, all you have to<br />
do is sign into Twitter on the dedicated time and tweet with<br />
the #AbuseTalk. <strong>The</strong> account @AbuseChat will retweet and<br />
be involved in the conversation. If you have any articles, blog<br />
posts, thoughts, feelings on domestic abuse then this is a<br />
space were you can express it.<br />
ONLINE BOOK CLUB<br />
“More than books, books with messages”<br />
Online Book Club is a book club with a difference. Read<br />
books that relate to domestic abuse either for interest or for<br />
the educational value.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are interviews, reviews, as well as a chance to share<br />
your thoughts as talking points and win exclusive signed<br />
copies of some of the books featured.<br />
If you have any questions or want to get involved get in touch<br />
with Jennifer Gilmour, contact@jennifergilmour.com<br />
In February we had our very first giveaway for <strong>CCChat</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>. <strong>The</strong>res a lot of room to still enter so don’t worry…<br />
I have decided to extend the giveaway until the end of this<br />
month. <strong>The</strong> winner to be announced in the May edition of<br />
<strong>CCChat</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>. Heres the link: http://bit.ly/ccchatmag<br />
THIS MONTH'S BOOK:<br />
Broken Pieces by Rachel Thompson<br />
Broken Pieces is an award winning book about relationships,<br />
a study of women, and a book with heart. Broken Pieces is a<br />
collection of pieces inspired by life: love, loss, abuse, trust,<br />
grief, and ulti-mately, love again. In Thompson’s most<br />
intensive work to date, she opens her soul and invites the<br />
reader in for a visit. Thompson goes into those long buried<br />
rooms we lock up deep inside and shares a bit of her soul.<br />
Broken Pieces is vulnerable, raw honesty, and no-holds<br />
barred.<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
Jennifer's short review:<br />
<strong>The</strong> way Rachel has written this made her book a<br />
lot easy to digest and read in little shots. I do<br />
believe others may need to read it like this<br />
because of her honest account of what happened<br />
to her. Rachel’s thoughts within the book are<br />
something I can relate to and I believe her book<br />
will make those who have experienced sex abuse<br />
or child abuse less alone in their thoughts. Thank<br />
you for sharing and for breaking the silence.<br />
If you have read Broken Pieces, please share<br />
your thoughts with me and I will be happy to<br />
include them with the winner in next months<br />
edition. Send to me before 5th May at:<br />
contact@jennifergilmour.com<br />
ONLINE BOOK CLUB by Jennifer Gilmour<br />
“<strong>The</strong> message between the lines”<br />
BOOK GIVEAWAY<br />
Broken Pieces is the book you can win on the<br />
giveaway and you have until the end of April.<br />
For a chance to win email:<br />
contact@jennifergilmour.com<br />
or contact Jennifer on Twitter @AbuseChat<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
Steve is a former perpetrator of<br />
domestic abuse. He now campaigns<br />
to end abuse against women.<br />
Founder and Editor:<br />
@StopDVaWomen<br />
#StopDVaWomen<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
"I always said I’d never hit a woman,<br />
and then I did."<br />
Steve, a former perpetrator tells his story.<br />
“I told him I wanted to change from the person I’d become.”<br />
Steve<br />
I always said I’d never hit a woman, and then I<br />
did. I assaulted, kicked, my wife one day in June<br />
2014. We were out at a day <strong>Conference</strong> in<br />
Lancaster. I won’t make excuses, I won’t try to<br />
dress it up as anything other than assault. My wife<br />
asked me to leave the marital home, after<br />
struggling to find somewhere, I eventually left in<br />
July 2014. Friends, saying I needed to sort my<br />
head out, drove me to an Order of nuns on the<br />
Wirral. I stayed on and off for many weeks. It was<br />
during one of these stays that I read a pamphlet<br />
about domestic abuse. On the back, it had one<br />
sentence… ‘’Do you feel you are a perpetrator?’’ It<br />
was then it dawned on me, yes I am.<br />
When I left, I called Respect Phoneline, the people<br />
who put together the pamphlet. After being on the<br />
phone for over an hour, the guy asked me… ‘’What<br />
do you want?’’ I told him I wanted to change from<br />
the person I’d become. He gave me contact details<br />
of Relate GMS, who run a Domestic Violence<br />
Prevention Programme for male perpetrators. I<br />
called and was advised there was a six week<br />
waiting list, if I fulfilled the criteria. I was<br />
accepted onto the Programme and waited.<br />
I phoned three times…I asked if there was a space<br />
yet for me? Not yet… On week six of waiting I<br />
arrived for my first One-to-One with one of the<br />
Facilitators. I later referred to her as a cross<br />
between Driving Miss Daisy, and the Terminator.<br />
She was lovely, but very thorough. On week 1 I<br />
was asked…why did I assault my wife? <strong>The</strong> same<br />
on week 2, 3, 4…week 5 I was arrested. I was<br />
called by a PC from my local Police. Can I come in<br />
tomorrow to have a chat? Yes sure I said. I arrived<br />
at 3.30pm the following day and was arrested.<br />
Harassment the initial complaint, he dealt with<br />
the assault as well. <strong>The</strong> PC kept me in custody for<br />
six hours. He interviewed me and asked did I do<br />
it? Yes I replied. Did you? He asked again. Yes I<br />
said. Were there any witnesses? No. Any CCTV?<br />
No. So no one saw you? No I replied. I accepted a<br />
Police Caution, but was told do it again and you<br />
will go to prison.<br />
Later that week I had my one to one with my<br />
Facilitator, ‘’How’s your week been?’’ she asked, I<br />
told her of my arrest. On starting the Programme<br />
you have to sign a contract: *You turn up on time<br />
*Not be rude, speak over others *Be respectful of<br />
others *Take an active part on the Programme,<br />
not just turn up *Not have ongoing Police<br />
involvement etc…<br />
It was a difficult few weeks for me, I considered<br />
quitting a few times. Why? I was continually<br />
looking at my abuse, each week, over and over,<br />
and over. It was very painful, some may say good!<br />
But to connect with your abuse it has to be<br />
painful.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Group consists of a maximum of nine guys, it<br />
becomes a band of brothers, so to speak. You<br />
support each other, but also hold each other to<br />
account. You can’t pull the wool over the eyes of<br />
guys who’ve been abusive. <strong>The</strong>y’ll see straight<br />
through it. We’re all there to change, that’s it. No<br />
timewasters, you’re taking up a valuable place<br />
from someone who wants to change. By week 16 /<br />
17 I was getting to grips with what I was learning<br />
and the penny dropped so to speak.<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
It was still tough, but I was learning to deal<br />
with how I felt, my emotions, my<br />
anger…where it came from, I noticed when it<br />
was building…my Level 1. During this time<br />
my wife and I were meeting up, seeing if we<br />
could go forward with our relationship. It<br />
started as we were going to the same events<br />
through the summer, she thought it a good<br />
idea to break the ice prior to being in front of<br />
our friends.<br />
We started dating again. Eventually I got to<br />
my last evening on the Programme, it was<br />
another tough moment, what would happen<br />
after the Programme. What would I do on<br />
Thursday evenings? I sat on the train station<br />
on the way home, I received a text. It was<br />
from my wife: ‘’Well done, I’m proud of you!’’<br />
I sobbed my heart out.<br />
Time passes by, I left my employer and<br />
started with an agency driving trucks. My<br />
first two weeks were spent delivering to the<br />
area where the Police station I was processed<br />
in, every single day I was there. By the end of<br />
the second week I was screaming ‘’OK I<br />
understand!!’’ you see, both my wife and I<br />
are Christians. I saw it as a sign, a warning of<br />
a sort, not to do the same again, even though<br />
I said I wouldn’t to myself. I worked for the<br />
same company through the agency for 11<br />
weeks.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Thursday of my final week there, I<br />
walked into work and my boss shouted to me<br />
laughing, ‘’You’re going to prison!’’ I wasn’t<br />
laughing. I looked at my run sheet, yes I was<br />
going to prison, but delivering to one. I felt<br />
sick. I left the depot, feeling as though I was<br />
driving my own prison van. I arrived, spoke<br />
to the Prison Officer and was waved in.<br />
Over an hour I was in there, couldn’t wait to<br />
get out. When I did, it felt like I’d been<br />
released myself. I kept thinking to myself, I<br />
could be doing 25 to life…another lesson<br />
learnt. Eventually after dating for over 3<br />
years, my wife decided not to pursue our<br />
marriage. She resurrected the divorce which<br />
she’d paused a few years earlier. I was<br />
devastated. I still go to the drop in group<br />
held each month for those who’ve completed<br />
the Programme.<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
I still love my now ex-wife. We meet up occasionally for<br />
dinner, coffee and a walk. Our relationship we both consider<br />
is better now we're divorced. We’re not dating, just meeting<br />
as friends, but I live in hope...<br />
Male Victims:<br />
Mens Advice Line: Call freephone 0808 801 0327 Monday-<br />
Friday 9am-5pm or email info@mensadviceline.org.uk<br />
Perpetrator Programmes/Understanding<br />
Care 2 Talk<br />
http://www.care-2talk.co.uk<br />
Respect<br />
http://respect.uk.net/<br />
Mencentric<br />
www.mencentric.co.uk<br />
DVIP<br />
www.dvip.org<br />
SPLITZ<br />
www.splitz.org<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
Currently Reading:<br />
Look What You Made Me Do<br />
Helen Walmsley-Johnson<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
What to<br />
expect<br />
on the day<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
<strong>Conference</strong> on Coercive<br />
Control 2018 - Bristol<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Conference</strong> this year is at the University of<br />
Bristol and the theme: Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible<br />
Why is coercive control so<br />
difficult to identify and<br />
evidence?<br />
How can we increase<br />
understanding of abuse that<br />
is hidden in plain sight?<br />
How can we recognise the<br />
red flags so we can walk away<br />
sooner?<br />
How can we learn where to<br />
look when there is so much<br />
misinformation?<br />
This conference looks at<br />
abuse that falls below the<br />
radar. Because that is<br />
EXACTLY where<br />
perpetrators want it to<br />
remain.<br />
This is the 3rd national <strong>Conference</strong> on<br />
Coercive Control and the aim is to achieve a<br />
greater understanding of abuse that remains<br />
hidden in plain sight.<br />
What does this mean?<br />
It means the victim knows their abuser, what<br />
makes them tick and also the tactics they use<br />
to undermine, subjugate, isolate and control<br />
but it is not always apparent to outsiders.<br />
It is important to understand how this<br />
happens and the extent of it as, all too often,<br />
the abuser will provoke the victim into a<br />
negative responses and then claim that<br />
THEY, the abuser, is the victim.<br />
We need to be able to identify and evidence<br />
when this happens as, all too often, the<br />
natural tendency is to dismiss the abuse as a<br />
spat, a dispute, a tiff. All too often it is<br />
dismissed as toxic or hostile or volatile with<br />
the hidden subtext that both parties are<br />
culpable, rather than one who is provoking,<br />
prodding, goading, belittling, demeaning,<br />
degrading the other.<br />
This year's speakers will be looking at and<br />
around coercive control in order to shine a<br />
light on an oft misunderstood and<br />
misreprentated form of manipulation.<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
#CCCBristol18<br />
Dr Emma Katz<br />
Dr Emma Katz’s pioneering research investigates how children<br />
are harmed by coercive control (not only physical violence)<br />
in contexts of domestic abuse.<br />
Dr Emma Katz’s pioneering research<br />
investigates how children are harmed<br />
by coercive control (not only physical<br />
violence) in contexts of domestic<br />
abuse.<br />
Key issues for Emma are how children<br />
experience coercive control, how they<br />
resist it, and what helps them to<br />
recover.<br />
Emma has received international<br />
recognition and awards for her<br />
publications and talks, and her unique<br />
perspective is generating impacts on<br />
practice across the UK.<br />
Emma is Lecturer in Childhood and<br />
Youth at Liverpool Hope University.<br />
For more information about Dr Katz:<br />
https://www.hope.ac.uk/staff/katze.html<br />
Recent publications:<br />
Radford, Lorraine, Nancy Lombard, Fransizka<br />
Meinck, Emma Katz and Stanford Mahati (2017)<br />
'Researching Violence with Children:<br />
Experiences and Lessons from the UK and<br />
South Africa', Families, Relationships and<br />
Societies, vol. 6, no. 2, pp. 239-256.<br />
Available from:<br />
http://www.ingentaconnect.com/contentone/<br />
tpp/frs/2017/00000006/00000002/art00006<br />
Katz, Emma. (2016) ‘Beyond the Physical<br />
Incident Model: How Children Living with<br />
Domestic Violence are Harmed by and<br />
Resist Regimes of Coercive Control’ Child<br />
Abuse Review, vol. 25, no. 1, pp. 46-59.<br />
Available from:<br />
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/<br />
car.2422/abstract<br />
Katz, Emma. (2015) ‘Recovery-Promoters:<br />
Ways that Mothers and Children Support<br />
One Another’s Recoveries from Domestic<br />
Violence’ British Journal of Social Work,<br />
vol. 45, sup. 1, pp. i153-i169.<br />
Available from:<br />
http://bjsw.oxfordjournals.org/content/45/<br />
suppl_1/i153.abstract<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
#CCCBristol18<br />
Alison Boydell<br />
Alison Boydell co-founded JURIES (Jurors Understanding<br />
Rape is Essential Standard) with the late Jill Saward.<br />
Alison Boydell is a lifelong feminist and<br />
works as an Independent Sexual Violence<br />
Advocate (ISVA) for a Rape Crisis centre.<br />
Alison campaigns against violence against<br />
women and is involved in End Online<br />
Misogyny, which highlights online<br />
violence against women.<br />
Alison has spoken about online violence<br />
against women at Women's Aid and Rape<br />
Crisis England and Wales conferences as<br />
well as for the Centre for Women's<br />
Justice.<br />
Alison has identified similarities between<br />
domestic abuse behaviours and online<br />
abuse behaviours not perpetrated as part<br />
of domestic abuse.<br />
Alison also co-founded JURIES (Jurors<br />
Understanding Rape is Essential<br />
Standard) with the late Jill Saward.<br />
JURIES campaigns for juries in sexual<br />
offences trials to be briefed about the<br />
realities of rape to counter widely held<br />
rape myths and stereotypes.<br />
More recently, Alison has been<br />
campaigning against "sexual<br />
entertainment venues" (SEVs) in<br />
Sheffield and was part of the campaign<br />
group Zero Option, who supported a<br />
woman who brought legal action<br />
against Sheffield City Council for its<br />
unlawful granting of Spearmint<br />
Rhino's licence in 2016.<br />
Alison continues to campaign against<br />
strip clubs as Not Buying It working<br />
closely with the Women's Equality<br />
Party local branch and other interest<br />
groups.<br />
For more information:<br />
https://juriesunderstandingsv.wordpr<br />
ess.com/<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
#CCCBristol18<br />
John Trott<br />
John Trott is the Director - Founder of 'AbuseFreeLife'<br />
Investigative and Safeguarding Training and Consultancy.<br />
John Trott retired from the police in 2016 as<br />
a Detective Chief Inspector in charge of the<br />
Cornwall and Isles of Scilly Public Protection<br />
Unit. He was responsible for the prevention<br />
and investigation of child abuse, domestic<br />
abuse and vulnerable adult abuse and was<br />
the Devon and Cornwall Force lead for<br />
Domestic Abuse, Stalking, Forced Marriage,<br />
Honour Based Abuse, Female Genital<br />
Mutilation (FGM) and Safeguarding<br />
Vulnerable Adults/Adults at Risk.<br />
Additionally, he sat on the LSCB and SAB<br />
and chaired over 200 Multi Agency Risk<br />
Assessment <strong>Conference</strong>s. John is an<br />
accredited Senior Investigating Officer and<br />
has led on a number of serious<br />
and protracted investigations up to and<br />
including murder and recently, a number of<br />
high profile investigations in Health Care<br />
settings.<br />
Additionally, he has eighteen years’<br />
experience as a Hostage and Crisis<br />
Negotiator and Coordinator. John is a<br />
Domestic Homicide Review (DHR) Chair and<br />
has sat on a number of DHR panels.<br />
Nationally he was a member of the HMIC<br />
National Working Group for Domestic<br />
Abuse.<br />
John is now the Director of AbuseFreeLife.<br />
He consults with and trains police and other<br />
organisations around the United Kingdom on<br />
Domestic Abuse, Coercion and Control, Multi<br />
Agency Risk Assessment <strong>Conference</strong>s,<br />
Stalking, DASH<br />
Risk Assessment and Honour Based Abuse.<br />
He has lectured and spoken at several events<br />
including at Exeter and Plymouth University,<br />
the Department of Health National FGM<br />
conference, the National Caldicott Guardians<br />
conference and the National Stalking<br />
<strong>Conference</strong>.<br />
For more information:<br />
https://www.rockpool.life<br />
http://www.safelives.org.uk/<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
#CCCBristol18<br />
Dr Karen Morgan<br />
Research Fellow in the Bristol Medical School,<br />
at the University of Bristol.<br />
Karen Morgan is a Research Fellow in the<br />
Bristol Medical School, at the University<br />
of Bristol.<br />
As well as over ten years’ research<br />
experience mostly in gender-based<br />
violence, she also has experience from the<br />
voluntary sector of supporting survivors<br />
of domestic and sexual abuse.<br />
In addition to her work on gendered<br />
violence, Karen has also written,<br />
lectured and provided conference<br />
papers on issues relating to animal<br />
rights and ethical veganism, and is an<br />
Associate Lecturer and Critical Reader<br />
consultant for the Open University.<br />
Currently, Karen is working on<br />
REPROVIDE, an NIHR-funded pilot trial<br />
of a domestic violence perpetrator<br />
programme, which is seeking to gather<br />
evidence as to the effectiveness of group<br />
programmes for male perpetrators.<br />
Previously, Karen was working on<br />
the Domestic Violence and Abuse<br />
Healthtalk module which provides a<br />
resource for women who have been in an<br />
abusive relationship, and for their<br />
families, friends, and professionals<br />
seeking to provide appropriate support.<br />
For more information:<br />
Eos Project<br />
http://www.bristol.ac.uk/<br />
primaryhealthcare/researchthemes/<br />
eos-home/<br />
Domestic Violence and Abuse<br />
Healthtalk module<br />
http://www.healthtalk.org/peoplesexperiences/domestic-violence-abuse<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
#CCCBristol18<br />
Sophia Cooke<br />
PhD Student at University of Cambridge,<br />
Blogger and Survivor<br />
Sophia Cooke is a PhD student at<br />
Cambridge. In 2017 Sophia found<br />
herself in the national press accused of<br />
lying about her ex partner assaulting<br />
her.<br />
As a result of her experiences, Sophia<br />
has released a blog.<br />
https://victimscanbestrong.com<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
#CCCBristol18<br />
Rachel Williams<br />
Rachel Williams survived 18 years of domestic<br />
abuse. She was shot by her estranged husband.<br />
Rachel Williams survived 18 years of<br />
domestic abuse. She was shot by her<br />
estranged husband who then killed<br />
himself.<br />
Rachel now raises awareness of<br />
domestic abuse with her tireless<br />
campaigning is an Ambassador for<br />
Welsh Women's Aid, Threshold - DAS<br />
<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme as well as a<br />
Pioneer for Safelives.<br />
On March 8th of this year, Rachel<br />
released her book <strong>The</strong> Devil at Home<br />
which tells her personal story in<br />
searing detail to help others<br />
understand what happens behind<br />
closed doors.<br />
Rachel is <strong>CCChat</strong>'s 2018<br />
Woman To Watch<br />
<strong>The</strong> Devil at Home is<br />
published by Penguin<br />
and available in<br />
bookshops, on<br />
Amazon and all good<br />
airports.<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
#CCCBristol18<br />
Sarah Phillimore<br />
Sarah Phillimore is a barrister interested in the<br />
intersection between free speech and abuse.<br />
Sarah Phillimore is a family<br />
barrister based in the South West<br />
of England.<br />
She is also the site administrator<br />
of the Child Protection Resource<br />
and a member of the<br />
Transparency Project, a charity<br />
that seeks to improve public<br />
understanding of the family law<br />
system.<br />
Sarah has a particular interest in<br />
issues of freedom of speech and<br />
responsible use of social media,<br />
particularly by regulated<br />
professionals.<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
#CCCBristol18<br />
Rosa de Guero<br />
Survivor Of Maternal Abuse<br />
Rosa reported her mother for child cruelty to<br />
herself and her siblings. <strong>The</strong> trial took place<br />
last year.<br />
In court, Rosa's mother admitted she found<br />
soiled pants in washing and claimed that she<br />
accidently fell forward and underwear went<br />
into Rosa's brother's mouth<br />
Rosa's mother also admitted to slapping<br />
Rosa's brother, throwing a toy elephant and<br />
biting another another daughter and<br />
throwing water at her kids.<br />
She told the court that her husband's long<br />
absences and lack of involvement around the<br />
house left her 'alone', 'isolated' and<br />
depressed' 'I was out of control. I was<br />
completely on the verge of insanity,' she said.<br />
Having admitted to some of the abuse, she<br />
would later tell the court that<br />
Rosa's allegations were 'beyond commenting<br />
on and 'absolutely ridiculous and extreme.'<br />
Rosa's mother was found not guilty of five<br />
counts of child cruelty and three counts of<br />
assault occasioning actual bodily harm<br />
between 1979 and 1993.<br />
Link:<br />
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/<br />
article-4903050/Wife-Pink-Floydengineer-cleared-child-cruelty.html<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
#CCCBristol18<br />
Rebecca Sharpe<br />
Sophie Mortimer<br />
Revenge Porn Helpline<br />
Rebecca Sharpe and Sophie Mortimer<br />
help run the Revenge Porn Helpline<br />
which offers practical assistance in<br />
reporting and removing content online<br />
as well as non-judgmental emotional<br />
support.<br />
Both will be talking about the coercive<br />
control around publishing intimate<br />
images.<br />
Have you had your intimate<br />
images posted online without<br />
your consent?<br />
<strong>The</strong> Revenge Porn Helpline is the UK's<br />
only dedicated service supporting<br />
adults. Call for free, one-on-one<br />
confidential advice and support via<br />
email and phone.<br />
Revenge Porn Helpline<br />
0345 6000 459<br />
What services do we offer?<br />
We offer practical assistance in reporting and<br />
removing content online.<br />
Whilst we cannot guarantee removal of all<br />
images, our exceptional partnerships with<br />
internet industry partners allows us to<br />
minimise the reach, and some of the harm,<br />
caused by revenge porn.<br />
We provide coaching and advice on how and<br />
when to gather evidence and approach the<br />
authorities, but cannot undertake criminal<br />
investigations or report to the police on the<br />
victim's behalf.<br />
We also offer support and legislative advice<br />
to law enforcement agencies. We are<br />
delighted to have an effective and positive<br />
working relationship with the QMUL Legal<br />
Advice Centre. Offering specialist support for<br />
victims, our clients are signposted to free,<br />
accessible, client-centred legal consultations.<br />
We do not have the capacity to provide long<br />
term counselling to our clients but do offer<br />
non-judgemental, emotional support.<br />
https://revengepornhelpline.org.uk/<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
Research Highlights Need For Police Forces To Have<br />
Greater Awareness Of Revenge Pornography<br />
In the first survey of its kind, researchers at the<br />
University of Suffolk have been investigating the<br />
understanding of revenge pornography within<br />
police forces, across the county and in the UK.<br />
This builds on the University’s growing expertise<br />
and pioneering research, which addresses topical<br />
issues, particularly those affecting young people,<br />
such as peer-on-peer abuse, revenge pornography,<br />
sexual abuse online and cyber security.<br />
It also follows the launch of the Centre of<br />
Excellence in Terrorism, Resilience, Intelligence<br />
and Crime (CENTRIC) in Suffolk and the Suffolk<br />
Institute for Social and Economic Research<br />
(SISER).<br />
Since the introduction of new legislation in 2015,<br />
making revenge pornography a crime in the UK,<br />
the number of cases has risen sharply with more<br />
victims feeling able to report the crime, while<br />
prevalence in the mainstream media is beginning<br />
to increase public awareness.<br />
In January 2018, YouTube star Chrissy Chambers<br />
won damages in a landmark UK revenge<br />
pornography case. Even though the offence<br />
occurred in 2011, before the new legislation, she<br />
was able to use the Civil Courts to sue her former<br />
partner for harassment, breach of confidence and<br />
misuse of private information.<br />
<strong>The</strong> aim of the research, conducted by Professor<br />
Emma Bond, Director of Research, and Katie<br />
Tyrrell, Researcher at the University of Suffolk,<br />
was to establish the level of understanding of<br />
revenge pornography among police officers and<br />
staff. <strong>The</strong> survey of national police forces,<br />
undertaken between late February and Early April<br />
2017, was part of a wider research initiative<br />
funded by the Police Knowledge Fund through the<br />
College of Policing and HEFCE, which aims to<br />
develop the understanding and use of research in<br />
policing.<br />
<strong>The</strong> survey was developed with the National<br />
Revenge Porn Helpline and was supported by the<br />
College of Policing. Revenge pornography is a<br />
form of online abuse with devastating personal<br />
consequences for victims.<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
Laura Higgins from the Revenge Porn Helpline<br />
commented, “We welcome this survey and its<br />
findings, which reflects the feedback we receive<br />
from many of our clients, that many police forces<br />
lack the knowledge or confidence required to<br />
manage reports and that many victims feel they<br />
are not taken seriously. Non-consensual image<br />
based abuse is a problem of our time and, as the<br />
only dedicated helpline for victims in the UK, we<br />
know that the number of cases is growing year-onyear.<br />
We urge police forces across the country to<br />
provide their teams with the training necessary to<br />
ensure victims feel able to report crimes safe in<br />
the knowledge that they will receive the support<br />
they require and that offenders will be brought to<br />
justice.”<br />
Dr Emma Bond<br />
<strong>The</strong> Revenge Porn Helpline is receiving increasing<br />
reports and calls from victims yearly, with nearly<br />
2,000 in the past year suggesting an increased<br />
need. <strong>The</strong> relatively recent introduction of<br />
legislation around revenge pornography means<br />
police officers and staff are often one of the first<br />
points of contact for victims, therefore their<br />
response to this is vital.<br />
<strong>The</strong> findings of the research and the outcomes of<br />
the survey highlighted the lack of formal training<br />
completed by police officers and staff. Of the 783<br />
police officers and staff who completed the survey,<br />
95% reported not receiving formal training on<br />
how to respond to cases of revenge pornography<br />
despite such devastating effects for the victims.<br />
<strong>The</strong>refore, going forward, training opportunities<br />
for police forces is crucial.<br />
In addition to the research, the University is<br />
hosting the Virtual Violence: Technologyfacilitated<br />
Domestic Abuse and Control<br />
conference on 10 May, bringing together multiagency<br />
practitioners, academics and students in<br />
order to raise awareness of technology-facilitated<br />
abuse, advance understanding around the<br />
digitalisation of abusive relationships and to<br />
discuss approaches moving forward.<br />
This follows the University’s recent activity<br />
highlighting safer internet use through the<br />
Blurring Boundaries conference, hosted earlier<br />
this month. <strong>The</strong> conference brought together<br />
experts from across the country to address a<br />
regional audience of delegates from schools,<br />
colleges, healthcare providers, social services and<br />
safeguarding organisations, focussing on topics<br />
affecting young people such as peer-on-peer<br />
abuse, revenge pornography, sexual abuse online,<br />
and cyber security.<br />
Read the full report here:<br />
http://journals.sagepub.com/eprint/<br />
ys7F87MKtfIm2XgzqAVu/full<br />
Katie Tyrrell, Researcher at the University of<br />
Suffolk, said “This is one of the first studies to<br />
quantify police understanding of revenge<br />
pornography and the results highlight the limited<br />
understanding of legislation and confidence in<br />
responding to cases of revenge pornography<br />
amongst police officers and staff within the UK,<br />
demonstrating an urgent need for training across<br />
police forces.”<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme<br />
Founded by Pat Craven<br />
<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme<br />
Sponsors of<br />
<strong>Conference</strong> on Coercive Control 2018 and 2019.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme is a domestic<br />
violence programme which was created by<br />
Pat Craven. It was evolved from Pat's work<br />
with perpetrators of domestic violence.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme provides<br />
information, not therapy and was primarily<br />
designed for women as victims of domestic<br />
violence, since research shows that in the<br />
vast majority of cases of serious abuse are<br />
male on female. However, the programme,<br />
when provided as an intensive two day<br />
course, is also suitable for men, whether<br />
abusive and wishing to change their attitudes<br />
and behaviour or whether victims of same<br />
sex domestic abuse themselves.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme examines the roles<br />
played by attitudes and beliefs on the actions<br />
of abusive men and the responses of victims<br />
and survivors. <strong>The</strong> aim is to help them to<br />
make sense of and understand what has<br />
happened to them, instead of the whole<br />
experience just feeling like a horrible mess.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme course<br />
usually lasts for 11 or 12 weeks and is<br />
FREE. It is provided by hundreds of<br />
agencies across the UK. Some of them<br />
are rolling so women can join at any<br />
time but this varies according to the<br />
area.<br />
Freedom Programme<br />
help line number: 01942 262 270<br />
Help desk email:<br />
chris@fpcharity.co.uk.<br />
www.freedomprogramme.co.uk<br />
<strong>The</strong> Freedom Programme also describes in<br />
detail how children are affected by being<br />
exposed to this kind of abuse and very<br />
importantly how their lives are improved<br />
when the abuse is removed.<br />
2018 is the Year For Making <strong>The</strong> Invisible Visible
Listening Now:<br />
Podcast<br />
Real Crime Profile<br />
Lorem Ipsum