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30 TOP<br />
TIPS<br />
FOR ATTAINING<br />
KHUSHOO<br />
IN PRAYER<br />
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TIPS, TRICKS<br />
AND TOOLS FOR<br />
YOUR DEEN<br />
.COM<br />
[30 Top Tips For Attaining <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ in Prayer]<br />
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About the Author<br />
Usman is the host of the Deenspiration podcast and blog. With his passion for Islam,<br />
mixed with a lively personality and creative media skills, his aim is to collaborate with<br />
talented and influential Muslims from around the world to provide simple, yet powerful<br />
and engaging tools through which others can improve and enjoy their practice of Islam.<br />
Contributors<br />
A great deal of gratitude and prayers go out to the following guest writers who contributed<br />
to this <strong>eBook</strong> by providing their top <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ tips—may they be blessed in this life<br />
and the next:<br />
• Mifrah Mahroof & Maheen Malik - Muslim Life Hackers Podcast<br />
• Sohaib Saeed- Quranica<br />
• Alima Ashfaq - Women of Ilm<br />
• Sumaira Zaheer - Muslimah Mommy<br />
• Belal Khan - Leechon<br />
• Mohammed Faris - Productive Muslim<br />
• Abu Muawiyah Ismail Kamdar - Islamic Self Help<br />
• Shahbaz Mirza - Ramadan Legacy<br />
• Halima El Khurghali - Quran Rehab<br />
• Omar Esa - Nasheed Artist<br />
• Omar Usman - Fiqh of Social Media<br />
• Abdul Azeem Climie - Pathways to Islam<br />
• Kate Hepburn - Healthy Muslimah<br />
• Shaykh Sajid Umar<br />
• Moutasem Al-Hameedy - Rashidoon<br />
• Zakia Usmani - Believer’s Path<br />
Contents<br />
How to use this <strong>eBook</strong>.............................................................................................. 8<br />
Introduction: <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ and it’s importance............................................................ 9<br />
BEFORE THE PRAYER.......................................................................................10<br />
Summary...............................................................................................................11<br />
Perfect your wudu...............................................................................................12<br />
Wear comfortable clothes..................................................................................14<br />
Prepare for the special occasion...................................................................... 16<br />
Get rid of those distractions............................................................................. 18<br />
Pray on time........................................................................................................ 20<br />
Switch them off....................................................................................................22<br />
Make sure you feel awesome............................................................................24<br />
Relax......................................................................................................................26<br />
Perfect your intentions....................................................................................... 28<br />
Remember death.................................................................................................30<br />
Destroy Shaytan...................................................................................................32<br />
Pray at the Masjid...............................................................................................34<br />
Bonus tip..............................................................................................................36<br />
DURING THE PRAYER......................................................................................38<br />
Summary...............................................................................................................39<br />
Forget the world.................................................................................................40<br />
Recite properly....................................................................................................42<br />
Ponder and reflect upon the words.................................................................44<br />
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Contents<br />
Contents<br />
Change things up a little...................................................................................46<br />
Take it easy... it’s not a race!.............................................................................48<br />
Cherish those special moments........................................................................50<br />
Have a conversation with Allah........................................................................52<br />
Think of the rewards for praying......................................................................54<br />
Beautify your prayer...........................................................................................56<br />
Fall in love with your Creator...........................................................................58<br />
Be humble in front of Allah.............................................................................. 60<br />
Let go of your doubts....................................................................................... 62<br />
Train your brain to focus!...................................................................................64<br />
Bonus Tip.............................................................................................................66<br />
For the teens.....................................................................................................86<br />
For new Muslims...............................................................................................88<br />
Closing words....................................................................................................90<br />
What to do next................................................................................................91<br />
SPONSORS............................................................................................................92<br />
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AFTER THE PRAYER...........................................................................................68<br />
Summary...............................................................................................................69<br />
Dhikr for the soul................................................................................................70<br />
Make Du’a............................................................................................................72<br />
Pray even more...................................................................................................74<br />
Hold yourself to account...................................................................................76<br />
Keep Deen’ing all day....................................................................................... 78<br />
BONUS SECTION................................................................................................80<br />
Summary.............................................................................................................. 81<br />
For the Mammas!................................................................................................82<br />
For the 9-5s / Entrepreneurs.............................................................................84<br />
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How To Use This <strong>eBook</strong><br />
Well done for downloading / picking up this book! You’re here because you recognized<br />
a lack of tranquillity and peace in your prayer and you need some help, right? Well,<br />
you’re definitely in the right place! This <strong>eBook</strong> was designed to provide you with some<br />
valuable tips, tricks and tools to help you on your way, so you’re sure to find some help<br />
in here - InshaAllah.<br />
It’s important to note that this <strong>eBook</strong> does not provide miracle cures for a lack of<br />
<strong>Khushoo</strong>’, nor is it extremely in-depth or complex in nature, but rather provides simple<br />
and actionable tips and tricks that you can implement as soon as you finish reading.<br />
Here are a few suggestions on how to get the most out of this <strong>eBook</strong>:<br />
Take is easy<br />
There are a number of tips in here, some which you may already be implementing dayto-<br />
day, and others that you’ve yet to try. The key is to do as much as you can without<br />
overwhelming yourself. The path to attaining <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ is a lifetime journey, so don’t feel<br />
disappointed if you cannot achieve it all at once. This <strong>eBook</strong> has been designed in such<br />
a way that it’s easy to dip in and out to refresh your memory on the tips, so be sure to<br />
keep it amongst your collection in order that it may benefit you when you need it most.<br />
Complete the <strong>Khushoo</strong> Exercise Worksheet<br />
Accompanied with <strong>eBook</strong> is a useful downloadable worksheet with an exercise for you<br />
to complete once you’ve learned the tips from this <strong>eBook</strong>. Although this is optional, it’s<br />
worth giving it a try to help you track and engage with your levels of <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ in prayer<br />
over a period of time. You can print and complete it as many times as you wish. If you<br />
missed it, visit www.deenspiration.com/khushootracker<br />
Listen to the podcast episodes<br />
For the purpose of easy reading, this <strong>eBook</strong> has been kept short and sweet. To<br />
compliment it, the <strong>eBook</strong> has also been brought to life through 4 episodes on the<br />
Deenspiration podcast - found primarily on iTunes (use the ‘Podcasts’ app if you have an<br />
iPhone), SoundCloud and Stitcher. Simply search for ‘Deenspiration’ in whichever of<br />
these apps you prefer to find the episodes. You can also find the podcast episodes at<br />
www.deenspiration.com/podcast<br />
Many of the guests within this <strong>eBook</strong> who’ve provided their top tips have also spoken<br />
on the episodes to elaborate on their tips and provide further advice, inspiration and<br />
take- home gems. There’s a lot more to gain from these episodes than what is in the<br />
<strong>eBook</strong>, so be sure not to miss out on these! Subscribing to the podcast will also give<br />
you access to all future episodes containing tips and tricks with special guests.<br />
Introduction<br />
What is <strong>Khushoo</strong>’?<br />
The term is often used when referring to Salah. Its many possible translations include<br />
tranquillity, humility, calmness, serenity, and submission. Ultimately, it describes the state<br />
that one desires to achieve when praying.<br />
Ibn al-Qayyim (may God be pleased with him) said:<br />
“The khushoo of true faith is when the heart feels aware and humble before the<br />
greatness and glory of Allah, and is filled with awe, fear, and shyness, so that the<br />
heart is utterly humbled before Allah and broken, as it were, with fear, shyness, love<br />
and the recognition of the blessings of Allah and its own sins.” [Kitab Al-Ruh]<br />
The Importance of <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ in Prayer<br />
The fact that prayer was gifted to the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon Him) by<br />
Allah SWT in the Heavens, unlike other acts of worship which were obligated on Earth,<br />
shows the extreme importance of prayer. To add to this, in a hadith reported by Imams<br />
Ahmad, Abu Dawood, An-Nasa'i, and Al-Hakim, the Prophet (peace be upon him) also<br />
taught us that prayer will be the first thing that we’ll be taken to account for on the Day<br />
of Judgement.<br />
In the Qur’an, <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ is associated with success (i.e. forgiveness and the reward of<br />
Paradise). Allah SWT says:<br />
“Successful indeed are the believers, They who are during their prayer humbly<br />
submissive” - [Qur’an - 23:1-2]<br />
Allah SWT also tells us in Qur’an that the Believing men and women who have <strong>Khushoo</strong>’<br />
in prayer are among those whom He has promised forgiveness and a great reward<br />
(see Qur’an - 33:35).<br />
If the prayer is this important, would it not then be wise to ensure that we perform it<br />
correctly, striving to be among those whom Allah SWT has described as being successful<br />
and worthy of His Unlimited Mercy, and His Paradise?<br />
In another verse, Allah SWT says:<br />
“And seek help in patience and al-salah (the prayer), and truly it is extremely heavy<br />
and hard except for al-Khashi’oon...” [Qur’an: 2:45].<br />
This also suggests that <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ is something to be sought after; an important component<br />
of a complete and rewarding prayer, and that attaining this state makes the prayer easier<br />
for us due to the connection with our Lord and certainty of His rewards.<br />
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BEFORE<br />
THE<br />
PRAYER<br />
SUMMARY<br />
The importance of preparation<br />
The first section of this <strong>eBook</strong>, rather than providing tips for attaining <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ within<br />
the prayer itself, focuses on a very vital component of our overall ability to attain<br />
<strong>Khushoo</strong>’ once we have entered into the spiritual realm of the prayer— the preparation!<br />
Sports champions look impressive on TV, but it’s the hours of blood sweat and tears<br />
that go into that ultimate performance which gives them a much higher chance of<br />
winning the most prestigious prize.<br />
Although it has been appointed five times per day, the Salah for us is the pinnacle of<br />
each and every day of our lives. It is the championship moment, a most honourable<br />
stage, and the prize is worth more than our imaginations can fathom. It only makes<br />
sense, therefore, that we take our preparations leading up to these moments very seriously.<br />
When our Lord calls us to stand before Him to pray, we have received a Divine<br />
invitation greater than all that this world has to offer, but without being “in the zone”,<br />
without having prepared, we are sure to lose our chances of reaping the rewards of<br />
this honourable meeting.<br />
As you read through this section, you’ll pick up some simple and effective tips to<br />
help you set your mind, body and heart right before you commence the prayer.<br />
The following sections thereafter will cover some of the things we can do within the<br />
prayer itself to send our souls into a spiritual bliss, as well as how to maximise the<br />
moments after the prayer has ended to remain connected to our Lord.<br />
Click here to listen to the podcast<br />
episode for this section of the ebook.<br />
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Perfect your wudu<br />
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Whoever performs ablution in<br />
an excellent manner, then his sins will depart from his body even from<br />
beneath his fingernails.” [Muslim]<br />
It starts all the way back here! Believe it or not, our <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ can be affected long<br />
before we even stand to pray. If your last prayer had no <strong>Khushoo</strong>’, ask yourself how<br />
well your wudu was performed.<br />
Many of us forget that performing wudu (ablution) is actually an act of worship, and<br />
therefore don’t take its performance seriously. The act of wudu is like a key to the<br />
Salah, and therefore the level of devotion and concentration you have when washing can<br />
directly impact your ability to attain true <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ during prayer. The act of wudu is<br />
sacred and was ordered by Allah SWT in the Qur’an—it should be taken seriously!<br />
Too often we see people performing wudu very fast, splashing water carelessly, and<br />
perhaps even missing some essential components in order to make the wudu complete,<br />
and therefore rendering their wudu invalid. It’s also very common to see people talking<br />
to each other when performing wudu and not paying very much attention. This is wrong<br />
and could be a real <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster!<br />
Many of us also forget the immense rewards and blessings that come as a result of<br />
performing wudu. Imagining your sins falling as you perform wudu and realising that<br />
you’re about to stand before Allah SWT can elevate your mood and spiritually prepare<br />
you for your upcoming meeting with Him.<br />
How To Implement This Tip<br />
• Make an intention to perform wudu —get in the zone!<br />
• Understand what you’re about to do and the rewards involved.<br />
• Remember that with each drop of water, your sins are being washed off!<br />
• Perform the wudu slowly, with care, and use as little water as you can.<br />
• Realise that your wudu is preparation to stand in front of the Lord of the Worlds.<br />
Let it cool you, purify you and spiritually awake you!<br />
• Do your utmost best to NOT speak to others around you when performing wudu.<br />
Remember, it’s an act of worship. Focus! Catch up with friends later.<br />
Bonus Tip<br />
Try to learn wudu properly, according to the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad<br />
(peace be upon him), and also the rulings pertaining to it, i.e. the essential<br />
requirements of wudu vs the Sunnah and recommended actions. This way,<br />
you’ll be sure to never miss a vital component and will perform the perfect<br />
wudu each time. As an added bonus, using tools such as the Siwak / toothstick<br />
(an act which is a highly emphasised Sunnah) while performing wudu will<br />
get you a lot of extra rewards, and not to mention, fresh breath!<br />
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Wear comfortable clothes!<br />
How To Implement This Tip<br />
Make sure that your clothes:<br />
• Are loose enough to allow for easy movement (super tight clothes are disliked).<br />
• Are of the right size/length to cover your body appropriately.<br />
• Don’t have anything on them that will cause you to itch, fidget or constantly<br />
have to fix them while praying.<br />
• Are clean enough to pray in and are free of any bad smells, so they do not<br />
distract you or the person next to you! (hint: smoking causes an awful smell!)<br />
• As a bonus, are super cosy! When clothes are extra cosy, they can make<br />
positions such as Ruku’, Sujood and sitting much more pleasant and relaxing,<br />
adding to the feeling of peace and tranquillity.<br />
“O Children of Adam! Take your adornment (by wearing your clean clothes)<br />
while praying...” [7:31]<br />
Clothes. We wear them everyday at different times, for various reasons and to serve<br />
different purposes. No matter what types of clothes we wear, one thing’s for sure: we<br />
always try to ensure that we are comfortable! Can you imagine playing sports in a tight<br />
fitted suit, or wearing a thick woolly jumper out in the hot summer sun? It would feel<br />
awkward and seriously uncomfortable, right?<br />
It’s not until we find the perfect outfit to wear for a particular situation that we feel<br />
just right, and so the same goes for our prayer. Remember, every little effort helps<br />
when aiming to attain <strong>Khushoo</strong>’.<br />
Whether we realise it or not, the clothing we wear can psychologically impact the way<br />
in which we behave. Think of the last time you put on a particular uniform before<br />
completing a task. For example, putting on a sports outfit before hitting the gym. Did<br />
you feel more involved in the task and more ready to perform it whilst in the uniform?<br />
It helped you get in the zone, didn’t it? Likewise, the clothing we wear for prayer<br />
should aid us in its performance and not act as a distraction or source of discomfort.<br />
We can’t always choose to wear what we wish, however, especially at work or in other<br />
situations. On the next page are some guidelines to help you get by in any situation,<br />
which will ultimately contribute to better <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ - InshaAllah.<br />
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Prepare for the special occasion<br />
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "No one will enter Paradise who<br />
has an atom's weight of pride in his heart." A man said, "What if a man<br />
likes his clothes to look good and his shoes to look good?" He said,<br />
"Allah is beautiful and loves beauty. Pride means denying the truth and<br />
looking down on people." [Muslim]<br />
Picture this: you’ve been invited to a big event at the end of the week. You’re excited<br />
and can’t wait to make all the fun preparations and finally get there to enjoy yourself.<br />
You’re so excited in fact that all week you think about what to wear; you prepare<br />
your finest clothes, best perfume, shoes, etc. On the day of the event, you’re so<br />
happy that you’re looking your absolute best for those who are there—be they friends,<br />
family, associates, colleagues or other important figures in your life.<br />
What am I getting at here? The fact of the matter is, when something is important<br />
to us, we prepare for it like crazy! The question then is: how many of us prepare like<br />
this for Salah? An event that happens five times per day, better than any other event<br />
we could attend, yet many of us take it for granted. Yes, it’s true that Allah SWT does<br />
not judge us on our outward appearance when praying, but rather what is in our<br />
hearts. However, looking your best for the Lord of the Worlds doesn’t hurt. In fact,<br />
it can increase your rewards even further. Ultimately, when you look good, you feel<br />
good. When you feel good in front of your Lord by doing that which pleases Him,<br />
you’re one step closer to attaining <strong>Khushoo</strong>’! The abovementioned hadith also indicates<br />
that there’s nothing wrong with dressing well, so long as the intention is correct. Yes,<br />
looking ‘fly’ is a good thing!<br />
How To Implement This Tip<br />
Although not always practical or possible due to our daily situations, try to apply the<br />
following whenever you can to help maximise your <strong>Khushoo</strong>’.<br />
• Prepare your best clothes and keep them by your place of prayer, making sure<br />
you’re able to put them on easily before commencing. This could be your<br />
favourite thawb / Jubba or Abayah, favourite shirt or any other outfit you feel<br />
would be pleasing to Allah SWT.<br />
• Keep a special set of clothes just for Jumu’ah, as the Prophet Muhammad (peace<br />
be upon him) encouraged us to wear our best garments for this blessed day. The<br />
same applies for the Eid prayers.<br />
• Clean your teeth and freshen your breath with a miswak (tooth stick) before<br />
praying.<br />
• Apply attar / perfume before praying to further beautify yourself for the sake of<br />
Allah SWT, and add that extra sense of feeling fresh and prepared.<br />
Bonus Tip<br />
Be sure that any clothes you wear will fully cover your awrah (nakedness)<br />
when praying. Looking good for Allah SWT is important, but not at the risk<br />
of revealing your nakedness. A classic (and very traumatic) example that many<br />
of us have had the horror of experiencing is seeing a view of somebody’s<br />
backside as they bend over for Ruku’ or Sujood. This often happens because<br />
of tight clothing or garments that are too short. Revealing the awrah during<br />
the prayer risks invalidating it, so we all must take great care in this. This<br />
applies to both men and women, by the way!<br />
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Remove those distractions!<br />
How To Implement This Tip<br />
• Remove distracting objects, pictures, food, clothes, etc. out of your way before<br />
praying so that you’re not tempted to look.<br />
• Turn off the television and any music. The quieter, the better.<br />
• Maintain a tidy prayer space in your house or regular place of worship that’s<br />
always kept free of distractions and mess.<br />
• Get rid of unpleasant smells around you. This is especially important if attending<br />
the Masjid for prayer. Smells of cigarette smoke, bad body odours or smelly foods<br />
can be really offensive distractions to those around you.<br />
• If you don’t have control over the place you’re praying in, and it’s very distracting<br />
(e.g. a loud shopping mall), try your best to use the least distracting spot for<br />
prayer such as the corner, or away from distracting objects, sounds, or people!<br />
It was narrated that Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: ‘A’ishah<br />
had a patterned curtain with which she covered the side of her house.<br />
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Take<br />
this patterned curtain of yours away from us because its images kept<br />
distracting me in my prayer.” [Bukhari]<br />
Allah SWT has made it such that we can pray anywhere and everywhere that is clean<br />
and pure. For many of us, however, if we’re not at the Masjid, we usually pray at home,<br />
at work, or anywhere else we can find.<br />
Whether it’s in the living room, your bedroom, the back yard, the office or anywhere<br />
for that matter, try your best to make sure that there are no unnecessary distractions<br />
in front of, or around you.<br />
When trying to attain true <strong>Khushoo</strong>’, we want our focus to be on Allah SWT 100%.<br />
Before you pray, look around. Are there any distractions around you that may catch your<br />
attention while you pray? Pictures on the wall? Smelly socks on the floor? Loud voices<br />
or music? The television? Tech devices that may ring, ping or pop? Does your prayer<br />
mat itself have too many distracting patterns on it?<br />
Whatever the distraction may be, you’ll find that it’s worth it just to move it to the<br />
side, clean up a little or even cover up any distracting objects or images in front of<br />
you. This new empty space, as well as freedom from any audio distractions, will help<br />
you to further clear your mind and find that peace and tranquillity you’re seeking while<br />
praying to Allah SWT.<br />
Bonus Tip<br />
Don’t forget that when other people around you pray, YOU could be their<br />
distraction if you talk too loudly, move in front of them or behave inappropriately.<br />
Keep this in mind, especially in the Masjid. Don’t be a <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster for<br />
others!<br />
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Pray on time<br />
The Prophet (peace be upon him ) said, “The most beloved of deeds to<br />
Allah are: the Salah in its proper time...” [Bukhari and Muslim]<br />
How To Implement This Tip<br />
• If you need to, set an alarm or reminder on your phone near the beginning of the<br />
prayer time so that you don’t forget.<br />
• Don’t let Shaytan trick you into thinking that there is “plenty of time left” before<br />
the prayer ends. Try to think to yourself, “Hmm... who’s worth listening to?<br />
Shaytan, or the call of Allah SWT?”. Easy answer, right?!<br />
• Make sure you plan your day around the Salah, and that you don’t just squeeze<br />
your prayer into your day. This requires a mind-set shift and thinking of Salah as a<br />
top priority rather than a mere obstacle in your way.<br />
• Remember the huge levels of rewards and blessings for those who pray on time,<br />
as well as the potential punishment of praying late!<br />
• Remember that prayer will be the first thing we’re questioned about on the Day<br />
of Judgement, and if our prayers were good in this life, our fate will be good<br />
upon questioning. Not just good with regards to <strong>Khushoo</strong>’, but also the time at<br />
which we pray.<br />
• Be around friends who have a habit of praying on time - remind each other! It’s a<br />
lot easier to complete a task when others around you are doing it too.<br />
Many of us fall into the trap of thinking, “Oh there’s plenty of time left, I’ll just pray<br />
later”, and therefore resort to delaying the prayer until it’s almost over, or worse, missing<br />
it altogether! Not only is this counterproductive, resulting in you having to rush the<br />
prayer and lose lots of <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ and rewards, but it can, in fact, become sinful if done<br />
habitually without a valid reason.<br />
Do you ever notice that when you pray on time, knowing that you don’t have to rush<br />
through the movements and quickly finish, you’re overcome with a feeling of calmness,<br />
content, and tranquillity? This is a step closer to attaining true <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ in the prayer<br />
by pleasing Allah SWT, and allowing you all the time in the world to focus on speaking<br />
with Him, praising Him and contemplating over the wonders that flow throughout the<br />
Qur’an. The benefit and rewards that you derive from the prayer will also be much<br />
more compared to one that is prayed in a rushed manner in the last few minutes.<br />
If you have a habit of constantly delaying the prayer, try to ask yourself what it is that<br />
makes you delay it. Are those other things more important than gaining all of those<br />
rewards? Think of that wonderful feeling of finishing the prayer early and having plenty<br />
of time to work before the next prayer starts. It takes no time at all, and will make<br />
you more productive!<br />
Praying late also shows a sign of laziness and lack of care for Allah SWT and His call.<br />
Remember, He calls you five times per day to stand before Him. Is that an invitation<br />
worth rejecting?<br />
Bonus Tip<br />
If praying early is too difficult, start off by choosing the easiest prayer of the day<br />
for you. In the beginning, be sure to pray this prayer on time every day. In a week<br />
or two, choose the second easiest prayer and pray it on time. Then begin adding<br />
and praying the other prayers earlier too until a habit is formed. Try this and you’ll<br />
have a habit of praying every prayer early in no time, InshaAllah.<br />
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How To Implement This Tip<br />
• Put your phone/gadget on silent, airplane mode, or even better...off!<br />
• Move gadgets far away if you can. Nothing will happen to Facebook in those<br />
5-10 minutes, don’t worry!<br />
• Try your best to stop all social media and technological activities at least 5-10<br />
minutes before praying to allow your brain to settle and clear itself from all of<br />
the clutter.<br />
Switch them off!<br />
If <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ is about attaining peace, serenity and tranquillity in the prayer, focusing<br />
totally on Allah SWT and what you’re reciting, it’s pretty obvious that the sound of a<br />
new notification, text message or a phone call is going to distract you for a moment<br />
during prayer, or even worse, distract lots of others! Not only that, it leaves many of<br />
us frantically trying to reach into our pockets to find the off switch, causing us to move<br />
around too much and potentially invalidate our prayers.<br />
Unfortunately, we live in a time where the majority of us are obsessed with our gadgets<br />
and constantly being connected to every social network possible, or seeing the latest<br />
and coolest thing on the net. Even though these gadgets can be used for good, our<br />
inability to control our usage can have a damaging impact not only on our <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ but<br />
our lives in general. Laziness, lack of focus, loss of patience and major procrastination<br />
are just a few examples of side effects that are a result of this addiction.<br />
Later on in the Bonus Section of this <strong>eBook</strong>, guest writer Omar Usman (Fiqh of Social<br />
Media) goes deeper into this issue, describing the very problems many of us have with<br />
regards to smart phones, social media and the ways in which they distract us during<br />
our Salah.<br />
Bonus Tip<br />
Remember that when you are in the Masjid, you have to take extra care to<br />
ensure that you’re not a <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster for other people. Imagine being the<br />
reason that every single person in the prayer congregation took their attention<br />
away from Allah SWT because YOUR mobile phone rang? It’s important to<br />
note that if your phone does ring in the Masjid during Salah, you should<br />
turn it off so as to not disturb anyone.<br />
Guest Tip!<br />
“My favorite khushoo hack is to completely disconnect<br />
from everything - physically and mentally. The best<br />
way to do this is by going to the mosque for prayer<br />
(disconnecting physically) and leaving your phone in<br />
the car (disconnecting mentally). If that's not possible<br />
and you're at home, then leave your room/phone and<br />
move to a different area in the house.”<br />
Mifrah Mahroof - Co-founder,<br />
www.MuslimLifeHackers.com (podcast)<br />
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Make sure you feel awesome<br />
The Prophet (saw) advised to: “Take benefit of five before five: ... your<br />
health before your sickness ... [Hakim]<br />
How To Implement This Tip<br />
• Keep a healthy diet and regular fitness routine to stay in tip top shape. You can<br />
take nutrition and lifestyle inspiration from the Sunnah - there are immense<br />
blessings and wisdom therein!<br />
• Make sure the food you eat before praying won’t make you feel lazy and sluggish<br />
- especially before Taraweeh in Ramadan!<br />
• Grab a light snack if you feel really hungry before praying (so long as there’s<br />
enough time!), so you don’t hear your stomach rumbling as you fantasise<br />
about food!<br />
• Properly relieve yourself (i.e. visit the bathroom) before praying if you need to go.<br />
Struggling to hold it in will definitely distract you during prayer. Plus,<br />
it’s considered to be really disliked to pray while needing to answer the<br />
call of nature.<br />
• Take a little rest if you don’t feel too great. Sip water, relax, then begin.<br />
• Try to maintain a stress-free life. Stress can have large effects on our physical wellbeing,<br />
making it a very common <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster! Use Salah as your stress-free<br />
get away from the hustle and bustle of life. Let it be the coolness to your eyes.<br />
Earlier we mentioned that our clothes should be clean and comfortable, making our<br />
prayer a more enjoyable experience. However, there’s something much more important<br />
that should be in check before we pray - our bodies!<br />
Being physically uncomfortable can be a real <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster. We can’t always help this<br />
of course, especially if we’re ill, but we should always try to keep our bodies in tip-top<br />
shape with the intentions of not only being healthy but to be able to worship Allah SWT<br />
better too. Our bodies are entrusted to us by Allah SWT, so it is our duty to take care<br />
of them.<br />
Our diets, sleeping patterns, daily routines, the amount (or lack of) physical activities<br />
we engage in, our relationships with others, levels of stress and overall quality of life<br />
can all affect both our physical and spiritual states.<br />
The Prophet (peace be upon him) and the Companions (may Allah SWT be pleased<br />
with them) regularly engaged in physical activities such as horse riding, swimming,<br />
running, wrestling and others to keep fit and in shape. The Prophet (peace be upon<br />
him) was even described as having ‘squares on his stomach’ - i.e., a 6-pack! Now is<br />
that motivation to workout or what?<br />
Keeping our minds, bodies and souls in good condition can contribute to an overall<br />
satisfying experience when we stand before Allah SWT in prayer - InshaAllah.<br />
Guest Tip!<br />
"If someone asks me about khushoo’ then I'm going<br />
to tell them about sleep! Talking about sleep seems<br />
a bit odd but this is especially important when you<br />
are young and just starting to build those life long<br />
routines. Getting in the habit of sleeping at such a time<br />
that you wake up in the quiet hours of the morning<br />
is the biggest hack to khushoo’ I know. The day is<br />
so much calmer when you wake on time catch the<br />
night prayers then pray the Fajr with the concentration<br />
it deserves. Watch how the rest of your day is filled<br />
with effortless ease and your mind is literally ready<br />
for that awesome sense of peace."<br />
Maheen Malik - Co-founder,<br />
www.MuslimLifeHackers.com (podcast)<br />
(Note: I interviewed sister Amina Khan from Amanah Fitness in<br />
an episode of the Deenspiration podcast. Although the episode<br />
covered health and nutrition tips for Ramadan, these tips can still be<br />
applied throughout the year. Visit www.deenspiration.com/podcast<br />
to find and listen to the episode.)<br />
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