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30 TOP<br />

TIPS<br />

FOR ATTAINING<br />

KHUSHOO<br />

IN PRAYER<br />

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TIPS, TRICKS<br />

AND TOOLS FOR<br />

YOUR DEEN<br />

.COM<br />

[30 Top Tips For Attaining <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ in Prayer]<br />

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About the Author<br />

Usman is the host of the Deenspiration podcast and blog. With his passion for Islam,<br />

mixed with a lively personality and creative media skills, his aim is to collaborate with<br />

talented and influential Muslims from around the world to provide simple, yet powerful<br />

and engaging tools through which others can improve and enjoy their practice of Islam.<br />

Contributors<br />

A great deal of gratitude and prayers go out to the following guest writers who contributed<br />

to this <strong>eBook</strong> by providing their top <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ tips—may they be blessed in this life<br />

and the next:<br />

• Mifrah Mahroof & Maheen Malik - Muslim Life Hackers Podcast<br />

• Sohaib Saeed- Quranica<br />

• Alima Ashfaq - Women of Ilm<br />

• Sumaira Zaheer - Muslimah Mommy<br />

• Belal Khan - Leechon<br />

• Mohammed Faris - Productive Muslim<br />

• Abu Muawiyah Ismail Kamdar - Islamic Self Help<br />

• Shahbaz Mirza - Ramadan Legacy<br />

• Halima El Khurghali - Quran Rehab<br />

• Omar Esa - Nasheed Artist<br />

• Omar Usman - Fiqh of Social Media<br />

• Abdul Azeem Climie - Pathways to Islam<br />

• Kate Hepburn - Healthy Muslimah<br />

• Shaykh Sajid Umar<br />

• Moutasem Al-Hameedy - Rashidoon<br />

• Zakia Usmani - Believer’s Path<br />

Contents<br />

How to use this <strong>eBook</strong>.............................................................................................. 8<br />

Introduction: <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ and it’s importance............................................................ 9<br />

BEFORE THE PRAYER.......................................................................................10<br />

Summary...............................................................................................................11<br />

Perfect your wudu...............................................................................................12<br />

Wear comfortable clothes..................................................................................14<br />

Prepare for the special occasion...................................................................... 16<br />

Get rid of those distractions............................................................................. 18<br />

Pray on time........................................................................................................ 20<br />

Switch them off....................................................................................................22<br />

Make sure you feel awesome............................................................................24<br />

Relax......................................................................................................................26<br />

Perfect your intentions....................................................................................... 28<br />

Remember death.................................................................................................30<br />

Destroy Shaytan...................................................................................................32<br />

Pray at the Masjid...............................................................................................34<br />

Bonus tip..............................................................................................................36<br />

DURING THE PRAYER......................................................................................38<br />

Summary...............................................................................................................39<br />

Forget the world.................................................................................................40<br />

Recite properly....................................................................................................42<br />

Ponder and reflect upon the words.................................................................44<br />

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Contents<br />

Contents<br />

Change things up a little...................................................................................46<br />

Take it easy... it’s not a race!.............................................................................48<br />

Cherish those special moments........................................................................50<br />

Have a conversation with Allah........................................................................52<br />

Think of the rewards for praying......................................................................54<br />

Beautify your prayer...........................................................................................56<br />

Fall in love with your Creator...........................................................................58<br />

Be humble in front of Allah.............................................................................. 60<br />

Let go of your doubts....................................................................................... 62<br />

Train your brain to focus!...................................................................................64<br />

Bonus Tip.............................................................................................................66<br />

For the teens.....................................................................................................86<br />

For new Muslims...............................................................................................88<br />

Closing words....................................................................................................90<br />

What to do next................................................................................................91<br />

SPONSORS............................................................................................................92<br />

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AFTER THE PRAYER...........................................................................................68<br />

Summary...............................................................................................................69<br />

Dhikr for the soul................................................................................................70<br />

Make Du’a............................................................................................................72<br />

Pray even more...................................................................................................74<br />

Hold yourself to account...................................................................................76<br />

Keep Deen’ing all day....................................................................................... 78<br />

BONUS SECTION................................................................................................80<br />

Summary.............................................................................................................. 81<br />

For the Mammas!................................................................................................82<br />

For the 9-5s / Entrepreneurs.............................................................................84<br />

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How To Use This <strong>eBook</strong><br />

Well done for downloading / picking up this book! You’re here because you recognized<br />

a lack of tranquillity and peace in your prayer and you need some help, right? Well,<br />

you’re definitely in the right place! This <strong>eBook</strong> was designed to provide you with some<br />

valuable tips, tricks and tools to help you on your way, so you’re sure to find some help<br />

in here - InshaAllah.<br />

It’s important to note that this <strong>eBook</strong> does not provide miracle cures for a lack of<br />

<strong>Khushoo</strong>’, nor is it extremely in-depth or complex in nature, but rather provides simple<br />

and actionable tips and tricks that you can implement as soon as you finish reading.<br />

Here are a few suggestions on how to get the most out of this <strong>eBook</strong>:<br />

Take is easy<br />

There are a number of tips in here, some which you may already be implementing dayto-<br />

day, and others that you’ve yet to try. The key is to do as much as you can without<br />

overwhelming yourself. The path to attaining <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ is a lifetime journey, so don’t feel<br />

disappointed if you cannot achieve it all at once. This <strong>eBook</strong> has been designed in such<br />

a way that it’s easy to dip in and out to refresh your memory on the tips, so be sure to<br />

keep it amongst your collection in order that it may benefit you when you need it most.<br />

Complete the <strong>Khushoo</strong> Exercise Worksheet<br />

Accompanied with <strong>eBook</strong> is a useful downloadable worksheet with an exercise for you<br />

to complete once you’ve learned the tips from this <strong>eBook</strong>. Although this is optional, it’s<br />

worth giving it a try to help you track and engage with your levels of <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ in prayer<br />

over a period of time. You can print and complete it as many times as you wish. If you<br />

missed it, visit www.deenspiration.com/khushootracker<br />

Listen to the podcast episodes<br />

For the purpose of easy reading, this <strong>eBook</strong> has been kept short and sweet. To<br />

compliment it, the <strong>eBook</strong> has also been brought to life through 4 episodes on the<br />

Deenspiration podcast - found primarily on iTunes (use the ‘Podcasts’ app if you have an<br />

iPhone), SoundCloud and Stitcher. Simply search for ‘Deenspiration’ in whichever of<br />

these apps you prefer to find the episodes. You can also find the podcast episodes at<br />

www.deenspiration.com/podcast<br />

Many of the guests within this <strong>eBook</strong> who’ve provided their top tips have also spoken<br />

on the episodes to elaborate on their tips and provide further advice, inspiration and<br />

take- home gems. There’s a lot more to gain from these episodes than what is in the<br />

<strong>eBook</strong>, so be sure not to miss out on these! Subscribing to the podcast will also give<br />

you access to all future episodes containing tips and tricks with special guests.<br />

Introduction<br />

What is <strong>Khushoo</strong>’?<br />

The term is often used when referring to Salah. Its many possible translations include<br />

tranquillity, humility, calmness, serenity, and submission. Ultimately, it describes the state<br />

that one desires to achieve when praying.<br />

Ibn al-Qayyim (may God be pleased with him) said:<br />

“The khushoo of true faith is when the heart feels aware and humble before the<br />

greatness and glory of Allah, and is filled with awe, fear, and shyness, so that the<br />

heart is utterly humbled before Allah and broken, as it were, with fear, shyness, love<br />

and the recognition of the blessings of Allah and its own sins.” [Kitab Al-Ruh]<br />

The Importance of <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ in Prayer<br />

The fact that prayer was gifted to the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon Him) by<br />

Allah SWT in the Heavens, unlike other acts of worship which were obligated on Earth,<br />

shows the extreme importance of prayer. To add to this, in a hadith reported by Imams<br />

Ahmad, Abu Dawood, An-Nasa'i, and Al-Hakim, the Prophet (peace be upon him) also<br />

taught us that prayer will be the first thing that we’ll be taken to account for on the Day<br />

of Judgement.<br />

In the Qur’an, <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ is associated with success (i.e. forgiveness and the reward of<br />

Paradise). Allah SWT says:<br />

“Successful indeed are the believers, They who are during their prayer humbly<br />

submissive” - [Qur’an - 23:1-2]<br />

Allah SWT also tells us in Qur’an that the Believing men and women who have <strong>Khushoo</strong>’<br />

in prayer are among those whom He has promised forgiveness and a great reward<br />

(see Qur’an - 33:35).<br />

If the prayer is this important, would it not then be wise to ensure that we perform it<br />

correctly, striving to be among those whom Allah SWT has described as being successful<br />

and worthy of His Unlimited Mercy, and His Paradise?<br />

In another verse, Allah SWT says:<br />

“And seek help in patience and al-salah (the prayer), and truly it is extremely heavy<br />

and hard except for al-Khashi’oon...” [Qur’an: 2:45].<br />

This also suggests that <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ is something to be sought after; an important component<br />

of a complete and rewarding prayer, and that attaining this state makes the prayer easier<br />

for us due to the connection with our Lord and certainty of His rewards.<br />

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BEFORE<br />

THE<br />

PRAYER<br />

SUMMARY<br />

The importance of preparation<br />

The first section of this <strong>eBook</strong>, rather than providing tips for attaining <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ within<br />

the prayer itself, focuses on a very vital component of our overall ability to attain<br />

<strong>Khushoo</strong>’ once we have entered into the spiritual realm of the prayer— the preparation!<br />

Sports champions look impressive on TV, but it’s the hours of blood sweat and tears<br />

that go into that ultimate performance which gives them a much higher chance of<br />

winning the most prestigious prize.<br />

Although it has been appointed five times per day, the Salah for us is the pinnacle of<br />

each and every day of our lives. It is the championship moment, a most honourable<br />

stage, and the prize is worth more than our imaginations can fathom. It only makes<br />

sense, therefore, that we take our preparations leading up to these moments very seriously.<br />

When our Lord calls us to stand before Him to pray, we have received a Divine<br />

invitation greater than all that this world has to offer, but without being “in the zone”,<br />

without having prepared, we are sure to lose our chances of reaping the rewards of<br />

this honourable meeting.<br />

As you read through this section, you’ll pick up some simple and effective tips to<br />

help you set your mind, body and heart right before you commence the prayer.<br />

The following sections thereafter will cover some of the things we can do within the<br />

prayer itself to send our souls into a spiritual bliss, as well as how to maximise the<br />

moments after the prayer has ended to remain connected to our Lord.<br />

Click here to listen to the podcast<br />

episode for this section of the ebook.<br />

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Perfect your wudu<br />

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Whoever performs ablution in<br />

an excellent manner, then his sins will depart from his body even from<br />

beneath his fingernails.” [Muslim]<br />

It starts all the way back here! Believe it or not, our <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ can be affected long<br />

before we even stand to pray. If your last prayer had no <strong>Khushoo</strong>’, ask yourself how<br />

well your wudu was performed.<br />

Many of us forget that performing wudu (ablution) is actually an act of worship, and<br />

therefore don’t take its performance seriously. The act of wudu is like a key to the<br />

Salah, and therefore the level of devotion and concentration you have when washing can<br />

directly impact your ability to attain true <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ during prayer. The act of wudu is<br />

sacred and was ordered by Allah SWT in the Qur’an—it should be taken seriously!<br />

Too often we see people performing wudu very fast, splashing water carelessly, and<br />

perhaps even missing some essential components in order to make the wudu complete,<br />

and therefore rendering their wudu invalid. It’s also very common to see people talking<br />

to each other when performing wudu and not paying very much attention. This is wrong<br />

and could be a real <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster!<br />

Many of us also forget the immense rewards and blessings that come as a result of<br />

performing wudu. Imagining your sins falling as you perform wudu and realising that<br />

you’re about to stand before Allah SWT can elevate your mood and spiritually prepare<br />

you for your upcoming meeting with Him.<br />

How To Implement This Tip<br />

• Make an intention to perform wudu —get in the zone!<br />

• Understand what you’re about to do and the rewards involved.<br />

• Remember that with each drop of water, your sins are being washed off!<br />

• Perform the wudu slowly, with care, and use as little water as you can.<br />

• Realise that your wudu is preparation to stand in front of the Lord of the Worlds.<br />

Let it cool you, purify you and spiritually awake you!<br />

• Do your utmost best to NOT speak to others around you when performing wudu.<br />

Remember, it’s an act of worship. Focus! Catch up with friends later.<br />

Bonus Tip<br />

Try to learn wudu properly, according to the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad<br />

(peace be upon him), and also the rulings pertaining to it, i.e. the essential<br />

requirements of wudu vs the Sunnah and recommended actions. This way,<br />

you’ll be sure to never miss a vital component and will perform the perfect<br />

wudu each time. As an added bonus, using tools such as the Siwak / toothstick<br />

(an act which is a highly emphasised Sunnah) while performing wudu will<br />

get you a lot of extra rewards, and not to mention, fresh breath!<br />

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Wear comfortable clothes!<br />

How To Implement This Tip<br />

Make sure that your clothes:<br />

• Are loose enough to allow for easy movement (super tight clothes are disliked).<br />

• Are of the right size/length to cover your body appropriately.<br />

• Don’t have anything on them that will cause you to itch, fidget or constantly<br />

have to fix them while praying.<br />

• Are clean enough to pray in and are free of any bad smells, so they do not<br />

distract you or the person next to you! (hint: smoking causes an awful smell!)<br />

• As a bonus, are super cosy! When clothes are extra cosy, they can make<br />

positions such as Ruku’, Sujood and sitting much more pleasant and relaxing,<br />

adding to the feeling of peace and tranquillity.<br />

“O Children of Adam! Take your adornment (by wearing your clean clothes)<br />

while praying...” [7:31]<br />

Clothes. We wear them everyday at different times, for various reasons and to serve<br />

different purposes. No matter what types of clothes we wear, one thing’s for sure: we<br />

always try to ensure that we are comfortable! Can you imagine playing sports in a tight<br />

fitted suit, or wearing a thick woolly jumper out in the hot summer sun? It would feel<br />

awkward and seriously uncomfortable, right?<br />

It’s not until we find the perfect outfit to wear for a particular situation that we feel<br />

just right, and so the same goes for our prayer. Remember, every little effort helps<br />

when aiming to attain <strong>Khushoo</strong>’.<br />

Whether we realise it or not, the clothing we wear can psychologically impact the way<br />

in which we behave. Think of the last time you put on a particular uniform before<br />

completing a task. For example, putting on a sports outfit before hitting the gym. Did<br />

you feel more involved in the task and more ready to perform it whilst in the uniform?<br />

It helped you get in the zone, didn’t it? Likewise, the clothing we wear for prayer<br />

should aid us in its performance and not act as a distraction or source of discomfort.<br />

We can’t always choose to wear what we wish, however, especially at work or in other<br />

situations. On the next page are some guidelines to help you get by in any situation,<br />

which will ultimately contribute to better <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ - InshaAllah.<br />

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Prepare for the special occasion<br />

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "No one will enter Paradise who<br />

has an atom's weight of pride in his heart." A man said, "What if a man<br />

likes his clothes to look good and his shoes to look good?" He said,<br />

"Allah is beautiful and loves beauty. Pride means denying the truth and<br />

looking down on people." [Muslim]<br />

Picture this: you’ve been invited to a big event at the end of the week. You’re excited<br />

and can’t wait to make all the fun preparations and finally get there to enjoy yourself.<br />

You’re so excited in fact that all week you think about what to wear; you prepare<br />

your finest clothes, best perfume, shoes, etc. On the day of the event, you’re so<br />

happy that you’re looking your absolute best for those who are there—be they friends,<br />

family, associates, colleagues or other important figures in your life.<br />

What am I getting at here? The fact of the matter is, when something is important<br />

to us, we prepare for it like crazy! The question then is: how many of us prepare like<br />

this for Salah? An event that happens five times per day, better than any other event<br />

we could attend, yet many of us take it for granted. Yes, it’s true that Allah SWT does<br />

not judge us on our outward appearance when praying, but rather what is in our<br />

hearts. However, looking your best for the Lord of the Worlds doesn’t hurt. In fact,<br />

it can increase your rewards even further. Ultimately, when you look good, you feel<br />

good. When you feel good in front of your Lord by doing that which pleases Him,<br />

you’re one step closer to attaining <strong>Khushoo</strong>’! The abovementioned hadith also indicates<br />

that there’s nothing wrong with dressing well, so long as the intention is correct. Yes,<br />

looking ‘fly’ is a good thing!<br />

How To Implement This Tip<br />

Although not always practical or possible due to our daily situations, try to apply the<br />

following whenever you can to help maximise your <strong>Khushoo</strong>’.<br />

• Prepare your best clothes and keep them by your place of prayer, making sure<br />

you’re able to put them on easily before commencing. This could be your<br />

favourite thawb / Jubba or Abayah, favourite shirt or any other outfit you feel<br />

would be pleasing to Allah SWT.<br />

• Keep a special set of clothes just for Jumu’ah, as the Prophet Muhammad (peace<br />

be upon him) encouraged us to wear our best garments for this blessed day. The<br />

same applies for the Eid prayers.<br />

• Clean your teeth and freshen your breath with a miswak (tooth stick) before<br />

praying.<br />

• Apply attar / perfume before praying to further beautify yourself for the sake of<br />

Allah SWT, and add that extra sense of feeling fresh and prepared.<br />

Bonus Tip<br />

Be sure that any clothes you wear will fully cover your awrah (nakedness)<br />

when praying. Looking good for Allah SWT is important, but not at the risk<br />

of revealing your nakedness. A classic (and very traumatic) example that many<br />

of us have had the horror of experiencing is seeing a view of somebody’s<br />

backside as they bend over for Ruku’ or Sujood. This often happens because<br />

of tight clothing or garments that are too short. Revealing the awrah during<br />

the prayer risks invalidating it, so we all must take great care in this. This<br />

applies to both men and women, by the way!<br />

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Remove those distractions!<br />

How To Implement This Tip<br />

• Remove distracting objects, pictures, food, clothes, etc. out of your way before<br />

praying so that you’re not tempted to look.<br />

• Turn off the television and any music. The quieter, the better.<br />

• Maintain a tidy prayer space in your house or regular place of worship that’s<br />

always kept free of distractions and mess.<br />

• Get rid of unpleasant smells around you. This is especially important if attending<br />

the Masjid for prayer. Smells of cigarette smoke, bad body odours or smelly foods<br />

can be really offensive distractions to those around you.<br />

• If you don’t have control over the place you’re praying in, and it’s very distracting<br />

(e.g. a loud shopping mall), try your best to use the least distracting spot for<br />

prayer such as the corner, or away from distracting objects, sounds, or people!<br />

It was narrated that Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: ‘A’ishah<br />

had a patterned curtain with which she covered the side of her house.<br />

The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Take<br />

this patterned curtain of yours away from us because its images kept<br />

distracting me in my prayer.” [Bukhari]<br />

Allah SWT has made it such that we can pray anywhere and everywhere that is clean<br />

and pure. For many of us, however, if we’re not at the Masjid, we usually pray at home,<br />

at work, or anywhere else we can find.<br />

Whether it’s in the living room, your bedroom, the back yard, the office or anywhere<br />

for that matter, try your best to make sure that there are no unnecessary distractions<br />

in front of, or around you.<br />

When trying to attain true <strong>Khushoo</strong>’, we want our focus to be on Allah SWT 100%.<br />

Before you pray, look around. Are there any distractions around you that may catch your<br />

attention while you pray? Pictures on the wall? Smelly socks on the floor? Loud voices<br />

or music? The television? Tech devices that may ring, ping or pop? Does your prayer<br />

mat itself have too many distracting patterns on it?<br />

Whatever the distraction may be, you’ll find that it’s worth it just to move it to the<br />

side, clean up a little or even cover up any distracting objects or images in front of<br />

you. This new empty space, as well as freedom from any audio distractions, will help<br />

you to further clear your mind and find that peace and tranquillity you’re seeking while<br />

praying to Allah SWT.<br />

Bonus Tip<br />

Don’t forget that when other people around you pray, YOU could be their<br />

distraction if you talk too loudly, move in front of them or behave inappropriately.<br />

Keep this in mind, especially in the Masjid. Don’t be a <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster for<br />

others!<br />

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Pray on time<br />

The Prophet (peace be upon him ) said, “The most beloved of deeds to<br />

Allah are: the Salah in its proper time...” [Bukhari and Muslim]<br />

How To Implement This Tip<br />

• If you need to, set an alarm or reminder on your phone near the beginning of the<br />

prayer time so that you don’t forget.<br />

• Don’t let Shaytan trick you into thinking that there is “plenty of time left” before<br />

the prayer ends. Try to think to yourself, “Hmm... who’s worth listening to?<br />

Shaytan, or the call of Allah SWT?”. Easy answer, right?!<br />

• Make sure you plan your day around the Salah, and that you don’t just squeeze<br />

your prayer into your day. This requires a mind-set shift and thinking of Salah as a<br />

top priority rather than a mere obstacle in your way.<br />

• Remember the huge levels of rewards and blessings for those who pray on time,<br />

as well as the potential punishment of praying late!<br />

• Remember that prayer will be the first thing we’re questioned about on the Day<br />

of Judgement, and if our prayers were good in this life, our fate will be good<br />

upon questioning. Not just good with regards to <strong>Khushoo</strong>’, but also the time at<br />

which we pray.<br />

• Be around friends who have a habit of praying on time - remind each other! It’s a<br />

lot easier to complete a task when others around you are doing it too.<br />

Many of us fall into the trap of thinking, “Oh there’s plenty of time left, I’ll just pray<br />

later”, and therefore resort to delaying the prayer until it’s almost over, or worse, missing<br />

it altogether! Not only is this counterproductive, resulting in you having to rush the<br />

prayer and lose lots of <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ and rewards, but it can, in fact, become sinful if done<br />

habitually without a valid reason.<br />

Do you ever notice that when you pray on time, knowing that you don’t have to rush<br />

through the movements and quickly finish, you’re overcome with a feeling of calmness,<br />

content, and tranquillity? This is a step closer to attaining true <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ in the prayer<br />

by pleasing Allah SWT, and allowing you all the time in the world to focus on speaking<br />

with Him, praising Him and contemplating over the wonders that flow throughout the<br />

Qur’an. The benefit and rewards that you derive from the prayer will also be much<br />

more compared to one that is prayed in a rushed manner in the last few minutes.<br />

If you have a habit of constantly delaying the prayer, try to ask yourself what it is that<br />

makes you delay it. Are those other things more important than gaining all of those<br />

rewards? Think of that wonderful feeling of finishing the prayer early and having plenty<br />

of time to work before the next prayer starts. It takes no time at all, and will make<br />

you more productive!<br />

Praying late also shows a sign of laziness and lack of care for Allah SWT and His call.<br />

Remember, He calls you five times per day to stand before Him. Is that an invitation<br />

worth rejecting?<br />

Bonus Tip<br />

If praying early is too difficult, start off by choosing the easiest prayer of the day<br />

for you. In the beginning, be sure to pray this prayer on time every day. In a week<br />

or two, choose the second easiest prayer and pray it on time. Then begin adding<br />

and praying the other prayers earlier too until a habit is formed. Try this and you’ll<br />

have a habit of praying every prayer early in no time, InshaAllah.<br />

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How To Implement This Tip<br />

• Put your phone/gadget on silent, airplane mode, or even better...off!<br />

• Move gadgets far away if you can. Nothing will happen to Facebook in those<br />

5-10 minutes, don’t worry!<br />

• Try your best to stop all social media and technological activities at least 5-10<br />

minutes before praying to allow your brain to settle and clear itself from all of<br />

the clutter.<br />

Switch them off!<br />

If <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ is about attaining peace, serenity and tranquillity in the prayer, focusing<br />

totally on Allah SWT and what you’re reciting, it’s pretty obvious that the sound of a<br />

new notification, text message or a phone call is going to distract you for a moment<br />

during prayer, or even worse, distract lots of others! Not only that, it leaves many of<br />

us frantically trying to reach into our pockets to find the off switch, causing us to move<br />

around too much and potentially invalidate our prayers.<br />

Unfortunately, we live in a time where the majority of us are obsessed with our gadgets<br />

and constantly being connected to every social network possible, or seeing the latest<br />

and coolest thing on the net. Even though these gadgets can be used for good, our<br />

inability to control our usage can have a damaging impact not only on our <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ but<br />

our lives in general. Laziness, lack of focus, loss of patience and major procrastination<br />

are just a few examples of side effects that are a result of this addiction.<br />

Later on in the Bonus Section of this <strong>eBook</strong>, guest writer Omar Usman (Fiqh of Social<br />

Media) goes deeper into this issue, describing the very problems many of us have with<br />

regards to smart phones, social media and the ways in which they distract us during<br />

our Salah.<br />

Bonus Tip<br />

Remember that when you are in the Masjid, you have to take extra care to<br />

ensure that you’re not a <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster for other people. Imagine being the<br />

reason that every single person in the prayer congregation took their attention<br />

away from Allah SWT because YOUR mobile phone rang? It’s important to<br />

note that if your phone does ring in the Masjid during Salah, you should<br />

turn it off so as to not disturb anyone.<br />

Guest Tip!<br />

“My favorite khushoo hack is to completely disconnect<br />

from everything - physically and mentally. The best<br />

way to do this is by going to the mosque for prayer<br />

(disconnecting physically) and leaving your phone in<br />

the car (disconnecting mentally). If that's not possible<br />

and you're at home, then leave your room/phone and<br />

move to a different area in the house.”<br />

Mifrah Mahroof - Co-founder,<br />

www.MuslimLifeHackers.com (podcast)<br />

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Make sure you feel awesome<br />

The Prophet (saw) advised to: “Take benefit of five before five: ... your<br />

health before your sickness ... [Hakim]<br />

How To Implement This Tip<br />

• Keep a healthy diet and regular fitness routine to stay in tip top shape. You can<br />

take nutrition and lifestyle inspiration from the Sunnah - there are immense<br />

blessings and wisdom therein!<br />

• Make sure the food you eat before praying won’t make you feel lazy and sluggish<br />

- especially before Taraweeh in Ramadan!<br />

• Grab a light snack if you feel really hungry before praying (so long as there’s<br />

enough time!), so you don’t hear your stomach rumbling as you fantasise<br />

about food!<br />

• Properly relieve yourself (i.e. visit the bathroom) before praying if you need to go.<br />

Struggling to hold it in will definitely distract you during prayer. Plus,<br />

it’s considered to be really disliked to pray while needing to answer the<br />

call of nature.<br />

• Take a little rest if you don’t feel too great. Sip water, relax, then begin.<br />

• Try to maintain a stress-free life. Stress can have large effects on our physical wellbeing,<br />

making it a very common <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster! Use Salah as your stress-free<br />

get away from the hustle and bustle of life. Let it be the coolness to your eyes.<br />

Earlier we mentioned that our clothes should be clean and comfortable, making our<br />

prayer a more enjoyable experience. However, there’s something much more important<br />

that should be in check before we pray - our bodies!<br />

Being physically uncomfortable can be a real <strong>Khushoo</strong>’ buster. We can’t always help this<br />

of course, especially if we’re ill, but we should always try to keep our bodies in tip-top<br />

shape with the intentions of not only being healthy but to be able to worship Allah SWT<br />

better too. Our bodies are entrusted to us by Allah SWT, so it is our duty to take care<br />

of them.<br />

Our diets, sleeping patterns, daily routines, the amount (or lack of) physical activities<br />

we engage in, our relationships with others, levels of stress and overall quality of life<br />

can all affect both our physical and spiritual states.<br />

The Prophet (peace be upon him) and the Companions (may Allah SWT be pleased<br />

with them) regularly engaged in physical activities such as horse riding, swimming,<br />

running, wrestling and others to keep fit and in shape. The Prophet (peace be upon<br />

him) was even described as having ‘squares on his stomach’ - i.e., a 6-pack! Now is<br />

that motivation to workout or what?<br />

Keeping our minds, bodies and souls in good condition can contribute to an overall<br />

satisfying experience when we stand before Allah SWT in prayer - InshaAllah.<br />

Guest Tip!<br />

"If someone asks me about khushoo’ then I'm going<br />

to tell them about sleep! Talking about sleep seems<br />

a bit odd but this is especially important when you<br />

are young and just starting to build those life long<br />

routines. Getting in the habit of sleeping at such a time<br />

that you wake up in the quiet hours of the morning<br />

is the biggest hack to khushoo’ I know. The day is<br />

so much calmer when you wake on time catch the<br />

night prayers then pray the Fajr with the concentration<br />

it deserves. Watch how the rest of your day is filled<br />

with effortless ease and your mind is literally ready<br />

for that awesome sense of peace."<br />

Maheen Malik - Co-founder,<br />

www.MuslimLifeHackers.com (podcast)<br />

(Note: I interviewed sister Amina Khan from Amanah Fitness in<br />

an episode of the Deenspiration podcast. Although the episode<br />

covered health and nutrition tips for Ramadan, these tips can still be<br />

applied throughout the year. Visit www.deenspiration.com/podcast<br />

to find and listen to the episode.)<br />

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