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Black Students Marched Against Gun Violence In<br />
Florida, But You Likely Didn’t Hear About It<br />
Only a handful of national media outlets covered the protest.<br />
Students at Miami Northwestern HS walk out to protest gun violence in the<br />
neighborhood<br />
Hundreds of students from a predominantly<br />
black school in Miami’s Liberty City<br />
neighborhood took to the streets earlier this<br />
week to protest gun violence ― and national<br />
media barely covered it.<br />
On Tuesday, teens from Miami Northwestern<br />
Senior High School marched<br />
from their school’s campus to a housing<br />
complex where four young people were<br />
shot on Sunday. Kimson Green, a 17-yearold<br />
sophomore at the school, and Rickey<br />
Dixon, an 18-year-old alumnus, were killed.<br />
Students chanted: “No justice. No peace. No<br />
violence in the streets,” the Miami Herald<br />
reported.<br />
The shootings and subsequent protest in<br />
Liberty City ― an area where gun violence<br />
has been a recurring issue ― were just<br />
hours away from Parkland, Florida, where<br />
17 people were killed in a mass shooting at<br />
Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School<br />
in February.<br />
National media outlets extensively<br />
covered the shooting in Parkland ― a predominantly<br />
white, more affluent area ― and<br />
have actively followed Parkland students’<br />
activism and their March for Our Lives<br />
movement since then. Yet only a handful<br />
of outlets covered the Liberty City protest,<br />
including The Associated Press, Teen Vogue<br />
and Blavity (not HuffPost), even as local<br />
media covered it heavily.<br />
“It’s a racial thing,” 16-year-old student<br />
Mi-Olda Faustin told the Miami Herald at<br />
Tuesday’s protest. “If you’re white, you get<br />
more publicity about these things.”<br />
“Like Stoneman Douglas, if they can<br />
… let their voices be heard, why can’t we<br />
do the same and let our voices be heard?”<br />
another unidentified student participating in<br />
the protest told local NPR reporter Nadege<br />
Green. “Why can’t we do the same thing?<br />
It’s because we’re black? It’s because we’re<br />
in the ghetto ... because we’re poor ... and<br />
they’re richer? I don’t understand.”<br />
Amid the public attention focused on<br />
March for Our Lives’ student leaders, who<br />
are largely white, some teens of color ― both<br />
at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School<br />
and beyond ― have spoken out about how<br />
they are getting less recognition.<br />
By Sarah Ruiz-Grossman<br />
“We’re saying you don’t see much of<br />
us at the forefront,” 17-year-old Stoneman<br />
Douglas junior Mei-Ling Ho-Shing, who<br />
is black, told HuffPost last week. She and a<br />
group of other black students at the school<br />
held a news conference late last month<br />
to express that their voices weren’t being<br />
sufficiently heard by the media or their<br />
own peers.<br />
Green ― who has long been covering<br />
gun violence in the area and is also an<br />
alumnus of Miami Northwestern ― tweeted<br />
that national attention to the Parkland students’<br />
movement likely helped the Liberty<br />
City students’ march get even the level of<br />
media and political attention that it did.<br />
Local students have long been activating<br />
around the issue of gun violence, she said,<br />
but their previous marches got little to no<br />
recognition.<br />
It’s worth noting that the student leaders<br />
of March for Our Lives have made a<br />
significant effort to make their movement<br />
inclusive and recognize other communities<br />
hurt by gun violence. As the Miami Northwestern<br />
march took place, several prominent<br />
Parkland student activists tweeted their<br />
support.
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Many Not Prepared for Life<br />
After Retirement, Study Shows<br />
By Trimmel Gomes<br />
TALLAHASSEE, Fla. - While retirement is a time<br />
for people to relax and unwind, recent studies show it’s<br />
become more stressful for many because of a lack of<br />
financial planning. Studies by the Insured Retirement<br />
Institute provide alarming new statistics that show that<br />
42 percent of Baby Boomers and 40 percent of those<br />
born in Generation X have yet to save anything for life<br />
after retirement.<br />
Cathy Weatherford, the institute’s president and<br />
C-E-O, says saving begins with setting a goal.<br />
“Always when we set goals, we do better towards<br />
achieving them,” says Weatherford. “And so, thinking<br />
about at what age you would want to retire, how much<br />
money you would need, and then mapping out your<br />
strategy.”<br />
According to the institute, a lack of strategy could<br />
turn into a struggle to pay for basic life expenses and<br />
health care.<br />
This is National Retirement Planning Week, sandwiched<br />
inside Financial Literacy Month and close to Tax<br />
Day on April 17. The intent is to put a focus on financial<br />
needs after the work life.<br />
The Insured Retirement Institute says learning how<br />
to plan and save and utilizing a financial adviser are key<br />
to being prepared. Weatherford says there is still time<br />
for people in the late stages of their careers to start the<br />
process.<br />
“Today is the day, the best day to get started so that<br />
you could prepare for a good, financially sound retirement,”<br />
says Weatherford.<br />
Weatherford says being financially smart, such as<br />
paying off credit cards or downsizing on homes, can<br />
reduce expenses that will pay off in the long run.<br />
Statewide Campaign Launched to Improve<br />
Florida Children’s Well-Being<br />
By Trimmel Gomes<br />
Children’s advocates announce a statewide campaign<br />
to reverse Florida’s downward trend in child wellbeing.<br />
(Trimmel Gomes)<br />
TALLAHASSEE, Fla.<br />
- Children’s advocates in<br />
Florida say state officials<br />
need to put just as much<br />
effort into improving the<br />
lives of families, as they<br />
do promoting tourism or<br />
the state’s business climate.<br />
They say that lack of focus<br />
is one reason Florida ranks<br />
in the bottom 10 states for<br />
child well-being.<br />
The new Kids Count<br />
Child Well-Being Index<br />
ranks Florida’s 67 counties<br />
on 16 indicators of<br />
how kids fare in health,<br />
economic, educational and<br />
community factors. It shows<br />
nearly 870,000 children, or<br />
more than one in five, live<br />
in poverty.<br />
Roy Miller, president<br />
and founder of the Children’s<br />
Campaign, sees it as<br />
proof that the state needs to<br />
shine a bigger spotlight on<br />
these issues to turn things<br />
around.<br />
“It says that Florida is<br />
in crisis in terms of the<br />
health and well-being of its<br />
children,” says Miller. “And<br />
we need new solutions, we<br />
need new commitments<br />
in order to move the ranking<br />
of Florida in a positive<br />
direction.”<br />
The report shows modest<br />
improvement statewide<br />
for fewer students living in<br />
poverty and more graduating<br />
on time. More a dozen<br />
organizations have launched<br />
the “Made in Florida, 100<br />
Percent for Civic Engagement”<br />
campaign to get leaders<br />
to use the report findings<br />
and examine their current<br />
policies.<br />
Among the largest counties,<br />
Miami-Dade ranked<br />
62nd overall for families’<br />
economic well-being. Broward<br />
County ranked 45th,<br />
Orange ranked 46th, and<br />
Hillsborough 26th.<br />
Cindy Arenberg Seltzer<br />
is the president and CEO<br />
of the Children’s Services<br />
Council of Broward County.<br />
She says the high cost of<br />
living in bigger cities is one<br />
factor affecting how parents<br />
can care for their children.<br />
“Our smaller counties<br />
are doing better,” she says.<br />
“Your larger counties are<br />
struggling more, and a lot of<br />
it is the economics.”<br />
The report says 74<br />
percent of Florida fourth<br />
graders are not proficient<br />
in English, and 78 percent<br />
of eighth graders need help<br />
with math. For child health,<br />
it shows progress has stalled<br />
in a couple of areas.<br />
Norin Dollard, director<br />
of Florida Kids Count, says<br />
not all the results are bad,<br />
and notes the problems can<br />
be fixed.<br />
“And it’s not that we<br />
have not made improvements,<br />
but other states have<br />
made greater gains when it<br />
comes to investing in their<br />
kids,” says Dollard. “We’ve<br />
made tremendous gains in<br />
Florida in terms of getting<br />
kids health insurance.”<br />
Dollard says policymakers<br />
can have an impact by<br />
investing in kids. Florida’s<br />
study was conducted by<br />
researchers at the University<br />
of South Florida’s College<br />
of Behavioral and Community<br />
Sciences, and funded in<br />
part by the Annie E. Casey<br />
Foundation.
April <strong>13</strong> - 19, <strong>2018</strong> | Orlando Advocate 7<br />
Lifestyle<br />
Reviewed by Amy Aiyegbusi<br />
A J Ghent, hailing from<br />
Fort Pierce, Florida, has music<br />
literally running through his veins.<br />
His great uncle, Willie Eason, is<br />
the creator of the “sacred steel”<br />
tradition—a style of pedal-steel<br />
guitar playing that’s unique to certain<br />
African American Pentecostal<br />
churches—and his grandfather,<br />
Henry Nelson, is the founder of<br />
the “sacred steel” rhythmic guitar<br />
style. With role models like these,<br />
it’s no wonder Ghent wore out his<br />
father’s sacred steel CDs by the<br />
age of twelve. After high school, he<br />
and his wife, singer MarLa, packed<br />
up and moved to Atlanta, Georgia<br />
where soon after Ghent began a<br />
mentorship under the legendary<br />
Colonel Bruce Hampton, one of<br />
the original founders of Atlanta’s<br />
Hampton Grease Band. Gaining<br />
experience with Hampton’s band<br />
set the stage for Ghent’s subsequent<br />
career moves, including<br />
being “true to himself” as Hampton<br />
advised.<br />
AJ Ghent<br />
The Neo Blues Project<br />
Ghent’s newest release, The<br />
Neo Blues Project, is a study in just<br />
that. The entire album is something<br />
different altogether—a musical<br />
fusion of blues, steel guitar, and<br />
rock that takes art and skill to<br />
master. But that’s something that<br />
Ghent has spent his whole life<br />
perfecting, along with his custom<br />
built 8-string lap steel hybrids. The<br />
offering weighs in at just six tracks,<br />
but don’t let its size fool you. This<br />
album packs a solid punch right<br />
where it’s necessary to keep the<br />
music in your head long after the<br />
last chord fades.<br />
On his rock anthem “Power,”<br />
Ghent offers a track to fuel a revolution:<br />
“I’m gonna wait it out, ‘til<br />
my change comes / and I’m gonna<br />
pray, it won’t be long / ‘cause I’ve<br />
been tempted and I’ve been tried /<br />
and I’m a soldier ‘til I die / so you<br />
can bring it on, all your pain / you<br />
know why? ‘cause it’s a revolution<br />
comin’”<br />
Combining his own style with<br />
elements of rock guitarists like<br />
Jimi Hendrix and Lenny Kravitz,<br />
Ghent part-wails and part-steels his<br />
way through each song. “Long List<br />
Friend,” co-written with his wife, is<br />
a blues ballad all of us can relate to<br />
in our search for “The One.”<br />
But if you are celebrating<br />
the letting go of a former love,<br />
check out the final track, “Gonna<br />
Rock.” Its meaning and intent<br />
are completely celebratory, to<br />
say the least. “Wash Ya Hair” is a<br />
fun, catchy tune that really brings<br />
all of Ghent’s diverse talents of<br />
vocalization and guitar-playing to<br />
the forefront: “Shake ‘em off, wash<br />
your hair, let it shine, Everywhere.”<br />
Ghent’s compact project completes<br />
its mission. The Neo Blues<br />
Project entertains the senses, introduces<br />
us to the full range of<br />
Ghent’s talents, and gives us a<br />
foot-tapping, air-slamming trip into<br />
the world of blues rock in legendary<br />
style. If this is Ghent being true<br />
to himself, I personally can’t wait<br />
for anything this talented artist has<br />
to offer us.
April <strong>13</strong> - 19, <strong>2018</strong> | Orlando Advocate 8<br />
Health & Wellness<br />
Food<br />
Spicy Chicken Sausage Ragout<br />
Over Creamy Polenta<br />
By dariuscooks<br />
It’s a mouthful…literally.<br />
Some of my best meal ideas only take about 20 minutes. Today is no exception and yes,<br />
it’s another back pocket recipe that’ll save you loads of time. Not only is it quick cooking,<br />
but it’s jam packed with loads of flavor. Get ready for your next weeknight obsession with<br />
a recipe I’d like to call – Spicy Chicken Sausage Ragout.<br />
1 pound of chicken Italian sausage, casings removed<br />
1/2 cup of diced onion<br />
1/2 cup of diced bell pepper<br />
4 cloves of minced garlic<br />
1 1/2 tablespoons of olive oil<br />
2 teaspoons of tomato paste<br />
1 cup of red wine<br />
1 can of diced tomatoes<br />
1 cup of fresh chopped cherry tomatoes<br />
2 sprigs of fresh thyme<br />
1/2 chicken bouillon cube<br />
1 good pinch of garlic powder<br />
1 good pinch of red pepper flakes<br />
1 good pinch of dried Italian seasoning<br />
1 good pinch of sugar<br />
salt and pepper, to taste<br />
fresh basil, to garnish<br />
Start by sautéing the chicken sausage with the onions, bell peppers, and<br />
garlic in olive oil. Season with a good pinch of salt and pepper. When the<br />
sausage is just about cooked through, add in the tomato paste and let cook for<br />
about 60 seconds. Then, add in the red wine and chicken bouillon. Cook for a<br />
few moments until the wine has reduced by about half. Then, add in the fresh<br />
thyme, garlic powder, red pepper flakes, dried Italian seasoning, and sugar.<br />
Serve over creamy polenta. And be sure to garnish with chopped basil and<br />
a good drizzle of olive oil!<br />
*For the polenta, I just cooked it in chicken stock and then added mascarpone<br />
cheese, heavy cream, and Pecorino Romano cheese. That’s it!<br />
CELIBACY ENHANCED MY<br />
PERSONAL GROWTH<br />
Jasmine Danielle<br />
We live in<br />
a time when instant gratification<br />
has become the<br />
norm. From nuking our<br />
food in the microwave to<br />
making purchases at the<br />
click of a button (is Amazon<br />
Prime not the plug?).<br />
We need things now and<br />
if we can’t have what we<br />
want immediately, we don’t<br />
want it at all.<br />
Abstaining from sex<br />
isn’t for everyone, especially<br />
those of us who have<br />
experienced great sex at<br />
any point in our lives. A<br />
single sexual experience<br />
can leave us believing it’s<br />
the world’s greatest gift,<br />
but just like all those things<br />
we resort to for instant<br />
gratification, we can’t truly<br />
find happiness or a sense of<br />
self-worth in those experiences.<br />
In other words, that<br />
pleasure that we get from<br />
our sexual encounters is<br />
only temporary, so we feel<br />
great for a moment, but<br />
what about long-term?<br />
Celibacy is defined<br />
as the state of abstaining<br />
from any sexual relations.<br />
If you’re thinking about<br />
taking the plunge, there<br />
are some things that you<br />
should consider. First, consider<br />
why it is you want<br />
to take a shot at celibacy.<br />
People abstain for a number<br />
of reasons, some of<br />
which can be spiritual or<br />
for the sake of physical<br />
and mental health. For me,<br />
I had enough of meaningless<br />
encounters and I<br />
was also seeking spiritual<br />
soundness. I thought the<br />
challenge of refraining<br />
from my norm would help<br />
me achieve this spiritual<br />
soundness and that I could<br />
walk away feeling whole<br />
again.<br />
You should also consider<br />
how eliminating sex<br />
would affect your mind and<br />
body. I did some “research”<br />
to learn what studies said<br />
about the physical and<br />
mental effects of celibacy<br />
because I was no expert.<br />
Certain articles proved to<br />
be pretty discouraging. Trying<br />
to find articles online<br />
that supported celibacy was<br />
like trying to find an honest<br />
person in Hollywood, and<br />
a year later it still seems<br />
like most articles I find are<br />
anti-celibacy. Had I taken<br />
those findings to heart and<br />
aborted my mission to<br />
celibacy, I would still be<br />
an emotional wreck.<br />
A few articles that I<br />
read, coming from sensational<br />
sources, highlight<br />
the cons of going celibate.<br />
They discuss how celibacy<br />
has a negative effect on the<br />
immune system, how it<br />
can drive the libido down,<br />
how it can lead to erectile<br />
dysfunction in men and<br />
how it can lead to a spike<br />
in blood pressure. The few<br />
sources I found in favor of<br />
celibacy actually discuss<br />
conflicting research and<br />
place emphasis on the fact<br />
that you will drastically<br />
lower your risk of STDs<br />
and UTIs. This year was the<br />
first year I ever caught the<br />
flu, and I rarely get sick, so<br />
maybe there is some truth<br />
to what I found through my<br />
“instant research”.<br />
You must also consider<br />
how this choice will affect<br />
your relationships.<br />
This is a decision that you<br />
must make for yourself,<br />
but if you’re in a committed<br />
relationship you may<br />
want to discuss this with<br />
your partner. The decision<br />
was easy for me because<br />
I wasn’t, and am not, in a<br />
committed relationship, so<br />
there was no one else to<br />
consider. You can’t force<br />
celibacy on your partner.<br />
If you’re uncomfortable<br />
having this discussion<br />
with your partner, maybe<br />
you should then consider<br />
whether this person is truly<br />
for you.<br />
Finally, you can and<br />
should consider an action<br />
plan. The “taking it day-byday”<br />
thing doesn’t really<br />
work, especially if you lack<br />
self-control; I know from<br />
experience. This go-round<br />
was not my first time declaring<br />
myself celibate,<br />
but it was the first time<br />
that I consciously made an<br />
effort to stick to my guns. I<br />
opted out of functions and<br />
situations that I knew had<br />
the potential to put me in<br />
tempting circumstances.<br />
I cut off communication<br />
with my current partner and<br />
any potential partners (you<br />
know, the folks I could only<br />
see myself with physically<br />
and not long-term). I also<br />
made the decision to take<br />
a break from dating until I<br />
felt I was truly in tune with<br />
my decision to abstain.<br />
The sexual experience<br />
is indeed a very natural<br />
thing, but it does have<br />
a deeper effect on us,<br />
whether we like to admit<br />
it or not. On one hand, sex<br />
can be a stress reliever,<br />
but on the other hand, the<br />
experience (and state of the<br />
physical relationship) can<br />
lead to stress, anxiety, and<br />
depression. My personal<br />
experience tells me that I<br />
made the right choice.
9<br />
Beauty<br />
ADULT ACNE: WHY THE<br />
SUDDEN BREAKOUT?<br />
Tia Muhammad<br />
I personally have had a long<br />
stint with clear skin. Most of my life<br />
and even in teenage years I was zit<br />
and worry-free without doing much<br />
at all to my skin or considering what<br />
I put into my body. Yet, there I stood<br />
at the age of 27 with a face full of<br />
acne, dark scars, and uncontrollable<br />
blemishes. I couldn’t help but think,<br />
what the hell happened?<br />
Well, according to my research,<br />
it’s a real condition and it’s called<br />
Adult-Onset Acne. Frustrating and<br />
extremely common, this type of<br />
acne hits most women around their<br />
30-50s. However, it can start around<br />
the age of 23 but can also occur at<br />
any age in people who have never<br />
had spots before. Usually, it’s at a<br />
time when women’s hormones are<br />
fluctuating and going ramped, and<br />
going well into menopause.<br />
This imbalance in hormones<br />
flourishes around our periods,<br />
during child-bearing ages, pregnancy,<br />
pre-menopause, and even<br />
after discontinuing or starting birth<br />
control pills.<br />
For me, it all started around<br />
a time I was on pain medications<br />
after a major surgery to remove<br />
fibroids. Not only was I exposed to<br />
the factors of the hormonal changes<br />
with the infliction to my uterus, but<br />
I got double teamed when I was put<br />
on medications for after-care and<br />
then the stress from it all started to<br />
settle in. With all those dynamics,<br />
I was bound to become a cesspool<br />
for acne.<br />
According to the American<br />
Academy of Dermatology, adultonset<br />
acne affects nearly 20% of<br />
women and it is largely caused by<br />
genetics and hormones and not, as<br />
myth would have it, through having<br />
dirty skin and too much pizza. Even<br />
after menopause women can still<br />
suffer from acne.<br />
To add on, the male hormone,<br />
androgen, is linked to the condition<br />
as well. What some don’t realize<br />
is that the same hormone is also<br />
produced by women too. When<br />
a woman produces it in excessive<br />
amounts during menopause,<br />
estrogen levels can drop and so the<br />
proportion of androgen rises.<br />
This causes a build-up of dead<br />
skin cells and increased oil production,<br />
clogging up the hair follicles.<br />
Bacteria moves in and the<br />
skin erupts into pustules, nodules<br />
(bumps) and cysts. Nodules that are<br />
inflamed and push deeper into the<br />
skin can be painful for weeks and<br />
can definitely cause scarring.<br />
So, what can you do?<br />
Recovering from adult-onset<br />
acne can be a very tough feat. A<br />
year later, I am now acne-free but<br />
the work has only begun. Although<br />
my face is no longer pulsating from<br />
pain, I now have to deal with what<br />
was left behind, scaring.<br />
Here are some things that helped<br />
me achieve acne-free skin:<br />
Switching your face wash. I<br />
used to use the scrubs, the facial<br />
cleansing brushes, and etc. But what<br />
I found is that I was just irritating<br />
and drying out my skin what those<br />
things. Look at your face and take<br />
notice of the areas in which the acne<br />
is appearing.<br />
I saw them mostly on my right<br />
cheek and a few on my forehead.<br />
The two places bacteria would build<br />
up the most, from my cell phone<br />
and headphones to the headwraps<br />
I wore every night. These things<br />
totally matter. So, I switched from<br />
a salicylic acid face wash (which is<br />
a chemical and anti-inflammatory<br />
exfoliant) to a benzoyl peroxide<br />
product that is antibacterial and has<br />
antimicrobial functions. The switch<br />
made all the difference.<br />
Start using more natural products.<br />
Instead of using the typical<br />
toners found at my local drugstore, I<br />
decided to use Apple Cider Vinegar.<br />
After every wash, I took a cotton<br />
ball of ACV and wiped upward on<br />
my entire face. The smell is a little<br />
harsh but you will feel thoroughly<br />
clean afterward. Trust.<br />
Moisturize, Moisturize, Moisturize!<br />
This was the hardest part<br />
to wrap my head around. If I’m<br />
all oily and backed up, why in the<br />
world would I add more oil to my<br />
skin? The answer is simple. Your<br />
skin needs the protection. After I<br />
toned my face, I would moisturize<br />
my face with Sweet Almond Oil and<br />
then Aloe Vera Gel. Natural and a<br />
humectant, this combination, your<br />
skin will love.<br />
Drink water and eat a lot more<br />
veggies and fruits. Water and a<br />
proper diet are necessary for that<br />
glow you want. Try drinking at<br />
least 8, 8oz. glasses of water a day<br />
and start the day off with a veggie<br />
and fruit smoothie– then off you go!<br />
Finding a solution to your skin<br />
problems might not come easy. It<br />
took me an entire year to finally get<br />
it right! The truth is, acne solutions<br />
are not a one size fits all. You have to<br />
experiment and go through trails to<br />
find your own curing regimen. Just<br />
know that you will eventually find it.<br />
Faith<br />
Four Tips to Encourage<br />
Single Christian Women in Their<br />
Work<br />
I’d like to honor the single<br />
Christian woman who is working<br />
late tonight instead of being taken<br />
out to dinner. (But, please keep<br />
reading even if that’s not you. If<br />
you’ve ever been disappointed<br />
with God, I hope this encourages<br />
you, too.)<br />
THE LONGING FOR FAM-<br />
ILY<br />
A 38-year-old, single Christian<br />
friend of mine told me recently<br />
that she got a promotion.<br />
The only problem, she said, is that<br />
she’d rather be a stay-at-home<br />
mom, “packing school lunches.”<br />
This isn’t someone who’s<br />
simply dreaming about the greener<br />
grass on the other side of the<br />
hill. This is a gal who has sought<br />
to steward her talents for God’s<br />
glory. She earned a graduate<br />
degree and is in a job leveraging<br />
her strengths and bringing<br />
about great flourishing around<br />
her—both in and outside of work.<br />
But the natural longing for<br />
family of many Christian women<br />
like my friend is real—it’s Godgiven.<br />
This is why stewarding<br />
your vocation as a single Christian<br />
woman can be confusing. As<br />
you apply yourself and advance<br />
in your career, it can feel like<br />
you’re getting further away from<br />
marriage and family. I’ve heard<br />
women say:<br />
I’m afraid that if I pursue my<br />
work with vigor that it will signal<br />
to God that I’m less interested in<br />
marriage and family;<br />
or,<br />
I’m afraid that my Ph.D.<br />
scares men away.<br />
As someone who was in this<br />
demographic for many years, I<br />
wanted to share a few thoughts<br />
about what I have learned along<br />
the way.<br />
1. CHOOSE TO BE FULLY<br />
ALIVE.<br />
Christian singles, and others<br />
who similarly wait on God’s<br />
timing for something, have a<br />
choice to make. We can either<br />
keep our hearts alive to the Lord,<br />
or turn away from him and kill<br />
Orlando Advocate | April <strong>13</strong> - 19, <strong>2018</strong><br />
FOUR TIPS TO ENCOURAGE SINGLE<br />
CHRISTIAN WOMEN IN THEIR WORK<br />
by Institute for Faith, Work & Economics<br />
our desire.<br />
It’s comforting that scripture<br />
recognizes the often-hard reality<br />
of life this side of heaven—that<br />
there is longing and disappointment:<br />
Hope deferred makes the<br />
heart sick, but a longing fulfilled<br />
is a tree of life (Prov. <strong>13</strong>:12).<br />
What do women long for?<br />
While women do value significance<br />
and meaning in their work,<br />
they also long for intimacy in<br />
relationship.<br />
Seeking intimacy with the<br />
Lord has sustained me in the<br />
“now, but not yet” aspect of life<br />
and God’s kingdom. The Bible<br />
instructs us to be honest and<br />
pour out our hearts to the Lord<br />
(Ps. 62:8). This way, we keep our<br />
heart alive and its longings close<br />
to the surface, though painful. As<br />
we open our hearts to God and<br />
his will, he can pour out his love<br />
and give us both a vision and a<br />
desire for what he is calling us<br />
to do today.<br />
An additional benefit of<br />
choosing to be fully alive is<br />
that it has a ripple effect on our<br />
relationships, family, and even<br />
our work.<br />
2. BE FULLY FEMALE.<br />
God has made us uniquely<br />
male and female, in his image<br />
(Genesis 1:27). The fact that he<br />
has you in the office and not at<br />
home nurturing children right<br />
now is not a mistake. Not only are<br />
you designed with specific talents<br />
unique to you, your perspective as<br />
a woman adds richness to a work<br />
product that otherwise might only<br />
have a male perspective.<br />
While women have different<br />
strengths, being fully feminine<br />
may mean letting an empathetic,<br />
nurturing side show through as<br />
you interact with colleagues and<br />
add your input to projects.<br />
God has also designed many<br />
women, like him, to be strong<br />
protectors of the weak and vulnerable.<br />
Author Carolyn Custis<br />
James writes that the Hebrew<br />
word for “helper” (ezer), used to<br />
describe women in Genesis 2:18,<br />
can be defined as “strong helper,”<br />
even like a warrior. Without the<br />
work of women, our society<br />
would be a much different place.<br />
3. KNOW GOD.<br />
When years pass and longings<br />
go unfulfilled, some single<br />
women begin to lose enthusiasm<br />
about growing their skills on the<br />
job and lose faith in God’s loving<br />
character.<br />
In Jesus’ Parable of the Talents,<br />
we learn how important it<br />
is to put our faith in who God<br />
really is. Many people learn from<br />
this parable we are to invest and<br />
grow our talents for God, not<br />
“bury” them. This is true. But few<br />
understand how it also teaches<br />
that trusting in the true character<br />
of God compels us to serve him<br />
well. The servant who buried his<br />
talent said,<br />
”Master,’ he said, “I knew that<br />
you are a hard man, harvesting<br />
where you have not sown and<br />
gathering where you have not<br />
scattered seed. So I was afraid<br />
and went out and hid your gold<br />
in the ground” (Matt. 25:24-25).<br />
The wicked servant buried his<br />
talent because he didn’t trust in<br />
the character of God. If we serve<br />
a God of love, who gave his one<br />
and only son on our behalf, can’t<br />
we trust him with our hearts and<br />
our vocation?<br />
4. KNOW YOUR PURPOSE.<br />
When we have a transcendent,<br />
God-given purpose, everything<br />
looks different. I’ve seen single<br />
Christian women go from tears<br />
and slumping in their chairs to sitting<br />
up straight with hope in their<br />
eyes when they are reminded of<br />
their identity in Christ and their<br />
purpose. Each one of us, no matter<br />
our marital status, plays an<br />
active role through our work in<br />
God’s master plan of restoration<br />
through Jesus Christ.<br />
This is where churches can do<br />
better in coming alongside single<br />
women, not just to comfort and<br />
encourage them as they live a<br />
single life, but to challenge them<br />
in their calling.<br />
The topic of Christian singleness<br />
and vocation, like life’s most<br />
pressing and difficult questions,<br />
deserves a rich theology. Whether<br />
we’re packing lunches or sitting<br />
at an office computer, we owe it<br />
to ourselves to wrestle with the<br />
Lord and dig into scripture to<br />
reflect deeply and soundly about<br />
our vocations.
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Orlando Advocate | Apr <strong>13</strong> - 19, <strong>2018</strong><br />
In Both Rich And Poor Schools, Black<br />
Students Face Harsher Punishments<br />
A new government watchdog report shows how black students<br />
and students with disabilities are punished more severely.<br />
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A nonpartisan government watchdog<br />
agency released a report Wednesday outlining<br />
severe disparities between how white<br />
students and students of color are disciplined<br />
― the same day Education Secretary Betsy<br />
DeVos met with groups to discuss possibly<br />
rescinding Obama-era guidance designed to<br />
reduce these inequities.<br />
The Government Accountability Office<br />
report, which was requested by Reps. Bobby<br />
Scott (D-Va.) and Jerrold Nadler (D-N.Y.),<br />
comes as civil rights leaders are fighting<br />
tooth and nail to save this guidance. The 2014<br />
guidance calls on schools to reduce their<br />
reliance on harsh disciplinary practices like<br />
suspensions and expulsions. It also warns<br />
schools they could run afoul of federal law<br />
if certain groups of students are disproportionately<br />
punished.<br />
The Education Department data analyzed<br />
in this report is from the 20<strong>13</strong>-2014 school<br />
year, and reveals deep discipline disparities<br />
across student groups ― the very problem<br />
the guidance is intended to address. Independent<br />
of school poverty level, type of public<br />
school or type of disciplinary action, boys,<br />
students with disabilities, and black students<br />
are being punished at far higher rates than<br />
other students. For black students, these<br />
inequities start as early as preschool.<br />
This is the first such analysis to explicitly<br />
compare schools at different poverty levels.<br />
In high-poverty schools, black students are<br />
overrepresented among students who receive<br />
suspensions by 25 percentage points, and in<br />
more affluent schools, they are overrepresented<br />
by 12 points, the data shows. Students<br />
with disabilities face similar problems. In<br />
affluent schools, students with disabilities are<br />
overrepresented among students who receive<br />
suspensions by 20 points, while in low-income<br />
schools, they are overrepresented by<br />
nearly 11 points.<br />
Notably, some disability groups claim<br />
they were left out of Wednesday’s discussions<br />
with DeVos on the disciplinary guidance.<br />
Two advocacy groups told HuffPost<br />
they asked for an invitation to the summit<br />
but were either rebuffed or ignored. Spokespeople<br />
for the Education Department did not<br />
respond to HuffPost’s request for comment<br />
on the matter.<br />
Even though black students only make up<br />
about 16 percent of public school students,<br />
they account for nearly 40 percent of students<br />
who are suspended from school, the report<br />
By Rebecca Klein<br />
says. A similar pattern exists for students<br />
with disabilities, and for male students in<br />
general. Students with disabilities make up<br />
about 12 percent of public school students,<br />
but account for a quarter of those who are<br />
suspended, referred to outside law enforcement<br />
or arrested at school.<br />
“The analysis shows that students of<br />
color suffer harsher discipline for lesser<br />
offenses than their white peers and that<br />
racial bias is a driver of discipline disparities,”<br />
Scott said in a statement. “This report<br />
underscores the need to combat these gross<br />
disparities by strengthening, not rescinding,<br />
the 2014 Discipline Guidance Package,<br />
which recommends specific strategies to<br />
reduce the disparities without jeopardizing<br />
school safety.”<br />
Proponents of the Obama-era guidance<br />
say that having the federal government voice<br />
its priorities in this area is an important step<br />
in keeping students safe. Indeed, harsh school<br />
discipline can have far-reaching effects on a<br />
student’s life. Students who face suspensions<br />
are more likely to drop out of school or<br />
eventually enter the criminal justice system.<br />
Advocates say the guidance is designed to<br />
help stymie this cycle.<br />
But critics say the pressure to reduce<br />
reliance on suspensions has meant keeping<br />
disruptive or dangerous students in the<br />
classroom, thereby posing a threat to other<br />
students and staff members.<br />
One critic of the guidance, a mother who<br />
met with DeVos on Wednesday, previously<br />
said she has watched her children’s school<br />
district become more relaxed in discipline.<br />
“Whatever intentions were set forth in<br />
the guidance, the response to the guidance<br />
has been kind of knee-jerk in nature that<br />
has ended up hurting all of the children,”<br />
said Nicole Landers of Baltimore County<br />
when asked about her general feelings on<br />
the guidance. “It takes away the rights from<br />
the victimized students, as the offending<br />
students are left in the classroom to avoid<br />
suspensions.”<br />
However, the GAO report shows that national<br />
suspension rates had already begun to<br />
fall before the guidance was implemented.<br />
The Education Department has said there<br />
is no specific timeline for when a decision<br />
will be made on whether to keep the guidance.<br />
The department did not respond to a<br />
request for comment on the guidance.<br />
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