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Black Students Marched Against Gun Violence In<br />

Florida, But You Likely Didn’t Hear About It<br />

Only a handful of national media outlets covered the protest.<br />

Students at Miami Northwestern HS walk out to protest gun violence in the<br />

neighborhood<br />

Hundreds of students from a predominantly<br />

black school in Miami’s Liberty City<br />

neighborhood took to the streets earlier this<br />

week to protest gun violence ― and national<br />

media barely covered it.<br />

On Tuesday, teens from Miami Northwestern<br />

Senior High School marched<br />

from their school’s campus to a housing<br />

complex where four young people were<br />

shot on Sunday. Kimson Green, a 17-yearold<br />

sophomore at the school, and Rickey<br />

Dixon, an 18-year-old alumnus, were killed.<br />

Students chanted: “No justice. No peace. No<br />

violence in the streets,” the Miami Herald<br />

reported.<br />

The shootings and subsequent protest in<br />

Liberty City ― an area where gun violence<br />

has been a recurring issue ― were just<br />

hours away from Parkland, Florida, where<br />

17 people were killed in a mass shooting at<br />

Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School<br />

in February.<br />

National media outlets extensively<br />

covered the shooting in Parkland ― a predominantly<br />

white, more affluent area ― and<br />

have actively followed Parkland students’<br />

activism and their March for Our Lives<br />

movement since then. Yet only a handful<br />

of outlets covered the Liberty City protest,<br />

including The Associated Press, Teen Vogue<br />

and Blavity (not HuffPost), even as local<br />

media covered it heavily.<br />

“It’s a racial thing,” 16-year-old student<br />

Mi-Olda Faustin told the Miami Herald at<br />

Tuesday’s protest. “If you’re white, you get<br />

more publicity about these things.”<br />

“Like Stoneman Douglas, if they can<br />

… let their voices be heard, why can’t we<br />

do the same and let our voices be heard?”<br />

another unidentified student participating in<br />

the protest told local NPR reporter Nadege<br />

Green. “Why can’t we do the same thing?<br />

It’s because we’re black? It’s because we’re<br />

in the ghetto ... because we’re poor ... and<br />

they’re richer? I don’t understand.”<br />

Amid the public attention focused on<br />

March for Our Lives’ student leaders, who<br />

are largely white, some teens of color ― both<br />

at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School<br />

and beyond ― have spoken out about how<br />

they are getting less recognition.<br />

By Sarah Ruiz-Grossman<br />

“We’re saying you don’t see much of<br />

us at the forefront,” 17-year-old Stoneman<br />

Douglas junior Mei-Ling Ho-Shing, who<br />

is black, told HuffPost last week. She and a<br />

group of other black students at the school<br />

held a news conference late last month<br />

to express that their voices weren’t being<br />

sufficiently heard by the media or their<br />

own peers.<br />

Green ― who has long been covering<br />

gun violence in the area and is also an<br />

alumnus of Miami Northwestern ― tweeted<br />

that national attention to the Parkland students’<br />

movement likely helped the Liberty<br />

City students’ march get even the level of<br />

media and political attention that it did.<br />

Local students have long been activating<br />

around the issue of gun violence, she said,<br />

but their previous marches got little to no<br />

recognition.<br />

It’s worth noting that the student leaders<br />

of March for Our Lives have made a<br />

significant effort to make their movement<br />

inclusive and recognize other communities<br />

hurt by gun violence. As the Miami Northwestern<br />

march took place, several prominent<br />

Parkland student activists tweeted their<br />

support.


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Many Not Prepared for Life<br />

After Retirement, Study Shows<br />

By Trimmel Gomes<br />

TALLAHASSEE, Fla. - While retirement is a time<br />

for people to relax and unwind, recent studies show it’s<br />

become more stressful for many because of a lack of<br />

financial planning. Studies by the Insured Retirement<br />

Institute provide alarming new statistics that show that<br />

42 percent of Baby Boomers and 40 percent of those<br />

born in Generation X have yet to save anything for life<br />

after retirement.<br />

Cathy Weatherford, the institute’s president and<br />

C-E-O, says saving begins with setting a goal.<br />

“Always when we set goals, we do better towards<br />

achieving them,” says Weatherford. “And so, thinking<br />

about at what age you would want to retire, how much<br />

money you would need, and then mapping out your<br />

strategy.”<br />

According to the institute, a lack of strategy could<br />

turn into a struggle to pay for basic life expenses and<br />

health care.<br />

This is National Retirement Planning Week, sandwiched<br />

inside Financial Literacy Month and close to Tax<br />

Day on April 17. The intent is to put a focus on financial<br />

needs after the work life.<br />

The Insured Retirement Institute says learning how<br />

to plan and save and utilizing a financial adviser are key<br />

to being prepared. Weatherford says there is still time<br />

for people in the late stages of their careers to start the<br />

process.<br />

“Today is the day, the best day to get started so that<br />

you could prepare for a good, financially sound retirement,”<br />

says Weatherford.<br />

Weatherford says being financially smart, such as<br />

paying off credit cards or downsizing on homes, can<br />

reduce expenses that will pay off in the long run.<br />

Statewide Campaign Launched to Improve<br />

Florida Children’s Well-Being<br />

By Trimmel Gomes<br />

Children’s advocates announce a statewide campaign<br />

to reverse Florida’s downward trend in child wellbeing.<br />

(Trimmel Gomes)<br />

TALLAHASSEE, Fla.<br />

- Children’s advocates in<br />

Florida say state officials<br />

need to put just as much<br />

effort into improving the<br />

lives of families, as they<br />

do promoting tourism or<br />

the state’s business climate.<br />

They say that lack of focus<br />

is one reason Florida ranks<br />

in the bottom 10 states for<br />

child well-being.<br />

The new Kids Count<br />

Child Well-Being Index<br />

ranks Florida’s 67 counties<br />

on 16 indicators of<br />

how kids fare in health,<br />

economic, educational and<br />

community factors. It shows<br />

nearly 870,000 children, or<br />

more than one in five, live<br />

in poverty.<br />

Roy Miller, president<br />

and founder of the Children’s<br />

Campaign, sees it as<br />

proof that the state needs to<br />

shine a bigger spotlight on<br />

these issues to turn things<br />

around.<br />

“It says that Florida is<br />

in crisis in terms of the<br />

health and well-being of its<br />

children,” says Miller. “And<br />

we need new solutions, we<br />

need new commitments<br />

in order to move the ranking<br />

of Florida in a positive<br />

direction.”<br />

The report shows modest<br />

improvement statewide<br />

for fewer students living in<br />

poverty and more graduating<br />

on time. More a dozen<br />

organizations have launched<br />

the “Made in Florida, 100<br />

Percent for Civic Engagement”<br />

campaign to get leaders<br />

to use the report findings<br />

and examine their current<br />

policies.<br />

Among the largest counties,<br />

Miami-Dade ranked<br />

62nd overall for families’<br />

economic well-being. Broward<br />

County ranked 45th,<br />

Orange ranked 46th, and<br />

Hillsborough 26th.<br />

Cindy Arenberg Seltzer<br />

is the president and CEO<br />

of the Children’s Services<br />

Council of Broward County.<br />

She says the high cost of<br />

living in bigger cities is one<br />

factor affecting how parents<br />

can care for their children.<br />

“Our smaller counties<br />

are doing better,” she says.<br />

“Your larger counties are<br />

struggling more, and a lot of<br />

it is the economics.”<br />

The report says 74<br />

percent of Florida fourth<br />

graders are not proficient<br />

in English, and 78 percent<br />

of eighth graders need help<br />

with math. For child health,<br />

it shows progress has stalled<br />

in a couple of areas.<br />

Norin Dollard, director<br />

of Florida Kids Count, says<br />

not all the results are bad,<br />

and notes the problems can<br />

be fixed.<br />

“And it’s not that we<br />

have not made improvements,<br />

but other states have<br />

made greater gains when it<br />

comes to investing in their<br />

kids,” says Dollard. “We’ve<br />

made tremendous gains in<br />

Florida in terms of getting<br />

kids health insurance.”<br />

Dollard says policymakers<br />

can have an impact by<br />

investing in kids. Florida’s<br />

study was conducted by<br />

researchers at the University<br />

of South Florida’s College<br />

of Behavioral and Community<br />

Sciences, and funded in<br />

part by the Annie E. Casey<br />

Foundation.


April <strong>13</strong> - 19, <strong>2018</strong> | Orlando Advocate 7<br />

Lifestyle<br />

Reviewed by Amy Aiyegbusi<br />

A J Ghent, hailing from<br />

Fort Pierce, Florida, has music<br />

literally running through his veins.<br />

His great uncle, Willie Eason, is<br />

the creator of the “sacred steel”<br />

tradition—a style of pedal-steel<br />

guitar playing that’s unique to certain<br />

African American Pentecostal<br />

churches—and his grandfather,<br />

Henry Nelson, is the founder of<br />

the “sacred steel” rhythmic guitar<br />

style. With role models like these,<br />

it’s no wonder Ghent wore out his<br />

father’s sacred steel CDs by the<br />

age of twelve. After high school, he<br />

and his wife, singer MarLa, packed<br />

up and moved to Atlanta, Georgia<br />

where soon after Ghent began a<br />

mentorship under the legendary<br />

Colonel Bruce Hampton, one of<br />

the original founders of Atlanta’s<br />

Hampton Grease Band. Gaining<br />

experience with Hampton’s band<br />

set the stage for Ghent’s subsequent<br />

career moves, including<br />

being “true to himself” as Hampton<br />

advised.<br />

AJ Ghent<br />

The Neo Blues Project<br />

Ghent’s newest release, The<br />

Neo Blues Project, is a study in just<br />

that. The entire album is something<br />

different altogether—a musical<br />

fusion of blues, steel guitar, and<br />

rock that takes art and skill to<br />

master. But that’s something that<br />

Ghent has spent his whole life<br />

perfecting, along with his custom<br />

built 8-string lap steel hybrids. The<br />

offering weighs in at just six tracks,<br />

but don’t let its size fool you. This<br />

album packs a solid punch right<br />

where it’s necessary to keep the<br />

music in your head long after the<br />

last chord fades.<br />

On his rock anthem “Power,”<br />

Ghent offers a track to fuel a revolution:<br />

“I’m gonna wait it out, ‘til<br />

my change comes / and I’m gonna<br />

pray, it won’t be long / ‘cause I’ve<br />

been tempted and I’ve been tried /<br />

and I’m a soldier ‘til I die / so you<br />

can bring it on, all your pain / you<br />

know why? ‘cause it’s a revolution<br />

comin’”<br />

Combining his own style with<br />

elements of rock guitarists like<br />

Jimi Hendrix and Lenny Kravitz,<br />

Ghent part-wails and part-steels his<br />

way through each song. “Long List<br />

Friend,” co-written with his wife, is<br />

a blues ballad all of us can relate to<br />

in our search for “The One.”<br />

But if you are celebrating<br />

the letting go of a former love,<br />

check out the final track, “Gonna<br />

Rock.” Its meaning and intent<br />

are completely celebratory, to<br />

say the least. “Wash Ya Hair” is a<br />

fun, catchy tune that really brings<br />

all of Ghent’s diverse talents of<br />

vocalization and guitar-playing to<br />

the forefront: “Shake ‘em off, wash<br />

your hair, let it shine, Everywhere.”<br />

Ghent’s compact project completes<br />

its mission. The Neo Blues<br />

Project entertains the senses, introduces<br />

us to the full range of<br />

Ghent’s talents, and gives us a<br />

foot-tapping, air-slamming trip into<br />

the world of blues rock in legendary<br />

style. If this is Ghent being true<br />

to himself, I personally can’t wait<br />

for anything this talented artist has<br />

to offer us.


April <strong>13</strong> - 19, <strong>2018</strong> | Orlando Advocate 8<br />

Health & Wellness<br />

Food<br />

Spicy Chicken Sausage Ragout<br />

Over Creamy Polenta<br />

By dariuscooks<br />

It’s a mouthful…literally.<br />

Some of my best meal ideas only take about 20 minutes. Today is no exception and yes,<br />

it’s another back pocket recipe that’ll save you loads of time. Not only is it quick cooking,<br />

but it’s jam packed with loads of flavor. Get ready for your next weeknight obsession with<br />

a recipe I’d like to call – Spicy Chicken Sausage Ragout.<br />

1 pound of chicken Italian sausage, casings removed<br />

1/2 cup of diced onion<br />

1/2 cup of diced bell pepper<br />

4 cloves of minced garlic<br />

1 1/2 tablespoons of olive oil<br />

2 teaspoons of tomato paste<br />

1 cup of red wine<br />

1 can of diced tomatoes<br />

1 cup of fresh chopped cherry tomatoes<br />

2 sprigs of fresh thyme<br />

1/2 chicken bouillon cube<br />

1 good pinch of garlic powder<br />

1 good pinch of red pepper flakes<br />

1 good pinch of dried Italian seasoning<br />

1 good pinch of sugar<br />

salt and pepper, to taste<br />

fresh basil, to garnish<br />

Start by sautéing the chicken sausage with the onions, bell peppers, and<br />

garlic in olive oil. Season with a good pinch of salt and pepper. When the<br />

sausage is just about cooked through, add in the tomato paste and let cook for<br />

about 60 seconds. Then, add in the red wine and chicken bouillon. Cook for a<br />

few moments until the wine has reduced by about half. Then, add in the fresh<br />

thyme, garlic powder, red pepper flakes, dried Italian seasoning, and sugar.<br />

Serve over creamy polenta. And be sure to garnish with chopped basil and<br />

a good drizzle of olive oil!<br />

*For the polenta, I just cooked it in chicken stock and then added mascarpone<br />

cheese, heavy cream, and Pecorino Romano cheese. That’s it!<br />

CELIBACY ENHANCED MY<br />

PERSONAL GROWTH<br />

Jasmine Danielle<br />

We live in<br />

a time when instant gratification<br />

has become the<br />

norm. From nuking our<br />

food in the microwave to<br />

making purchases at the<br />

click of a button (is Amazon<br />

Prime not the plug?).<br />

We need things now and<br />

if we can’t have what we<br />

want immediately, we don’t<br />

want it at all.<br />

Abstaining from sex<br />

isn’t for everyone, especially<br />

those of us who have<br />

experienced great sex at<br />

any point in our lives. A<br />

single sexual experience<br />

can leave us believing it’s<br />

the world’s greatest gift,<br />

but just like all those things<br />

we resort to for instant<br />

gratification, we can’t truly<br />

find happiness or a sense of<br />

self-worth in those experiences.<br />

In other words, that<br />

pleasure that we get from<br />

our sexual encounters is<br />

only temporary, so we feel<br />

great for a moment, but<br />

what about long-term?<br />

Celibacy is defined<br />

as the state of abstaining<br />

from any sexual relations.<br />

If you’re thinking about<br />

taking the plunge, there<br />

are some things that you<br />

should consider. First, consider<br />

why it is you want<br />

to take a shot at celibacy.<br />

People abstain for a number<br />

of reasons, some of<br />

which can be spiritual or<br />

for the sake of physical<br />

and mental health. For me,<br />

I had enough of meaningless<br />

encounters and I<br />

was also seeking spiritual<br />

soundness. I thought the<br />

challenge of refraining<br />

from my norm would help<br />

me achieve this spiritual<br />

soundness and that I could<br />

walk away feeling whole<br />

again.<br />

You should also consider<br />

how eliminating sex<br />

would affect your mind and<br />

body. I did some “research”<br />

to learn what studies said<br />

about the physical and<br />

mental effects of celibacy<br />

because I was no expert.<br />

Certain articles proved to<br />

be pretty discouraging. Trying<br />

to find articles online<br />

that supported celibacy was<br />

like trying to find an honest<br />

person in Hollywood, and<br />

a year later it still seems<br />

like most articles I find are<br />

anti-celibacy. Had I taken<br />

those findings to heart and<br />

aborted my mission to<br />

celibacy, I would still be<br />

an emotional wreck.<br />

A few articles that I<br />

read, coming from sensational<br />

sources, highlight<br />

the cons of going celibate.<br />

They discuss how celibacy<br />

has a negative effect on the<br />

immune system, how it<br />

can drive the libido down,<br />

how it can lead to erectile<br />

dysfunction in men and<br />

how it can lead to a spike<br />

in blood pressure. The few<br />

sources I found in favor of<br />

celibacy actually discuss<br />

conflicting research and<br />

place emphasis on the fact<br />

that you will drastically<br />

lower your risk of STDs<br />

and UTIs. This year was the<br />

first year I ever caught the<br />

flu, and I rarely get sick, so<br />

maybe there is some truth<br />

to what I found through my<br />

“instant research”.<br />

You must also consider<br />

how this choice will affect<br />

your relationships.<br />

This is a decision that you<br />

must make for yourself,<br />

but if you’re in a committed<br />

relationship you may<br />

want to discuss this with<br />

your partner. The decision<br />

was easy for me because<br />

I wasn’t, and am not, in a<br />

committed relationship, so<br />

there was no one else to<br />

consider. You can’t force<br />

celibacy on your partner.<br />

If you’re uncomfortable<br />

having this discussion<br />

with your partner, maybe<br />

you should then consider<br />

whether this person is truly<br />

for you.<br />

Finally, you can and<br />

should consider an action<br />

plan. The “taking it day-byday”<br />

thing doesn’t really<br />

work, especially if you lack<br />

self-control; I know from<br />

experience. This go-round<br />

was not my first time declaring<br />

myself celibate,<br />

but it was the first time<br />

that I consciously made an<br />

effort to stick to my guns. I<br />

opted out of functions and<br />

situations that I knew had<br />

the potential to put me in<br />

tempting circumstances.<br />

I cut off communication<br />

with my current partner and<br />

any potential partners (you<br />

know, the folks I could only<br />

see myself with physically<br />

and not long-term). I also<br />

made the decision to take<br />

a break from dating until I<br />

felt I was truly in tune with<br />

my decision to abstain.<br />

The sexual experience<br />

is indeed a very natural<br />

thing, but it does have<br />

a deeper effect on us,<br />

whether we like to admit<br />

it or not. On one hand, sex<br />

can be a stress reliever,<br />

but on the other hand, the<br />

experience (and state of the<br />

physical relationship) can<br />

lead to stress, anxiety, and<br />

depression. My personal<br />

experience tells me that I<br />

made the right choice.


9<br />

Beauty<br />

ADULT ACNE: WHY THE<br />

SUDDEN BREAKOUT?<br />

Tia Muhammad<br />

I personally have had a long<br />

stint with clear skin. Most of my life<br />

and even in teenage years I was zit<br />

and worry-free without doing much<br />

at all to my skin or considering what<br />

I put into my body. Yet, there I stood<br />

at the age of 27 with a face full of<br />

acne, dark scars, and uncontrollable<br />

blemishes. I couldn’t help but think,<br />

what the hell happened?<br />

Well, according to my research,<br />

it’s a real condition and it’s called<br />

Adult-Onset Acne. Frustrating and<br />

extremely common, this type of<br />

acne hits most women around their<br />

30-50s. However, it can start around<br />

the age of 23 but can also occur at<br />

any age in people who have never<br />

had spots before. Usually, it’s at a<br />

time when women’s hormones are<br />

fluctuating and going ramped, and<br />

going well into menopause.<br />

This imbalance in hormones<br />

flourishes around our periods,<br />

during child-bearing ages, pregnancy,<br />

pre-menopause, and even<br />

after discontinuing or starting birth<br />

control pills.<br />

For me, it all started around<br />

a time I was on pain medications<br />

after a major surgery to remove<br />

fibroids. Not only was I exposed to<br />

the factors of the hormonal changes<br />

with the infliction to my uterus, but<br />

I got double teamed when I was put<br />

on medications for after-care and<br />

then the stress from it all started to<br />

settle in. With all those dynamics,<br />

I was bound to become a cesspool<br />

for acne.<br />

According to the American<br />

Academy of Dermatology, adultonset<br />

acne affects nearly 20% of<br />

women and it is largely caused by<br />

genetics and hormones and not, as<br />

myth would have it, through having<br />

dirty skin and too much pizza. Even<br />

after menopause women can still<br />

suffer from acne.<br />

To add on, the male hormone,<br />

androgen, is linked to the condition<br />

as well. What some don’t realize<br />

is that the same hormone is also<br />

produced by women too. When<br />

a woman produces it in excessive<br />

amounts during menopause,<br />

estrogen levels can drop and so the<br />

proportion of androgen rises.<br />

This causes a build-up of dead<br />

skin cells and increased oil production,<br />

clogging up the hair follicles.<br />

Bacteria moves in and the<br />

skin erupts into pustules, nodules<br />

(bumps) and cysts. Nodules that are<br />

inflamed and push deeper into the<br />

skin can be painful for weeks and<br />

can definitely cause scarring.<br />

So, what can you do?<br />

Recovering from adult-onset<br />

acne can be a very tough feat. A<br />

year later, I am now acne-free but<br />

the work has only begun. Although<br />

my face is no longer pulsating from<br />

pain, I now have to deal with what<br />

was left behind, scaring.<br />

Here are some things that helped<br />

me achieve acne-free skin:<br />

Switching your face wash. I<br />

used to use the scrubs, the facial<br />

cleansing brushes, and etc. But what<br />

I found is that I was just irritating<br />

and drying out my skin what those<br />

things. Look at your face and take<br />

notice of the areas in which the acne<br />

is appearing.<br />

I saw them mostly on my right<br />

cheek and a few on my forehead.<br />

The two places bacteria would build<br />

up the most, from my cell phone<br />

and headphones to the headwraps<br />

I wore every night. These things<br />

totally matter. So, I switched from<br />

a salicylic acid face wash (which is<br />

a chemical and anti-inflammatory<br />

exfoliant) to a benzoyl peroxide<br />

product that is antibacterial and has<br />

antimicrobial functions. The switch<br />

made all the difference.<br />

Start using more natural products.<br />

Instead of using the typical<br />

toners found at my local drugstore, I<br />

decided to use Apple Cider Vinegar.<br />

After every wash, I took a cotton<br />

ball of ACV and wiped upward on<br />

my entire face. The smell is a little<br />

harsh but you will feel thoroughly<br />

clean afterward. Trust.<br />

Moisturize, Moisturize, Moisturize!<br />

This was the hardest part<br />

to wrap my head around. If I’m<br />

all oily and backed up, why in the<br />

world would I add more oil to my<br />

skin? The answer is simple. Your<br />

skin needs the protection. After I<br />

toned my face, I would moisturize<br />

my face with Sweet Almond Oil and<br />

then Aloe Vera Gel. Natural and a<br />

humectant, this combination, your<br />

skin will love.<br />

Drink water and eat a lot more<br />

veggies and fruits. Water and a<br />

proper diet are necessary for that<br />

glow you want. Try drinking at<br />

least 8, 8oz. glasses of water a day<br />

and start the day off with a veggie<br />

and fruit smoothie– then off you go!<br />

Finding a solution to your skin<br />

problems might not come easy. It<br />

took me an entire year to finally get<br />

it right! The truth is, acne solutions<br />

are not a one size fits all. You have to<br />

experiment and go through trails to<br />

find your own curing regimen. Just<br />

know that you will eventually find it.<br />

Faith<br />

Four Tips to Encourage<br />

Single Christian Women in Their<br />

Work<br />

I’d like to honor the single<br />

Christian woman who is working<br />

late tonight instead of being taken<br />

out to dinner. (But, please keep<br />

reading even if that’s not you. If<br />

you’ve ever been disappointed<br />

with God, I hope this encourages<br />

you, too.)<br />

THE LONGING FOR FAM-<br />

ILY<br />

A 38-year-old, single Christian<br />

friend of mine told me recently<br />

that she got a promotion.<br />

The only problem, she said, is that<br />

she’d rather be a stay-at-home<br />

mom, “packing school lunches.”<br />

This isn’t someone who’s<br />

simply dreaming about the greener<br />

grass on the other side of the<br />

hill. This is a gal who has sought<br />

to steward her talents for God’s<br />

glory. She earned a graduate<br />

degree and is in a job leveraging<br />

her strengths and bringing<br />

about great flourishing around<br />

her—both in and outside of work.<br />

But the natural longing for<br />

family of many Christian women<br />

like my friend is real—it’s Godgiven.<br />

This is why stewarding<br />

your vocation as a single Christian<br />

woman can be confusing. As<br />

you apply yourself and advance<br />

in your career, it can feel like<br />

you’re getting further away from<br />

marriage and family. I’ve heard<br />

women say:<br />

I’m afraid that if I pursue my<br />

work with vigor that it will signal<br />

to God that I’m less interested in<br />

marriage and family;<br />

or,<br />

I’m afraid that my Ph.D.<br />

scares men away.<br />

As someone who was in this<br />

demographic for many years, I<br />

wanted to share a few thoughts<br />

about what I have learned along<br />

the way.<br />

1. CHOOSE TO BE FULLY<br />

ALIVE.<br />

Christian singles, and others<br />

who similarly wait on God’s<br />

timing for something, have a<br />

choice to make. We can either<br />

keep our hearts alive to the Lord,<br />

or turn away from him and kill<br />

Orlando Advocate | April <strong>13</strong> - 19, <strong>2018</strong><br />

FOUR TIPS TO ENCOURAGE SINGLE<br />

CHRISTIAN WOMEN IN THEIR WORK<br />

by Institute for Faith, Work & Economics<br />

our desire.<br />

It’s comforting that scripture<br />

recognizes the often-hard reality<br />

of life this side of heaven—that<br />

there is longing and disappointment:<br />

Hope deferred makes the<br />

heart sick, but a longing fulfilled<br />

is a tree of life (Prov. <strong>13</strong>:12).<br />

What do women long for?<br />

While women do value significance<br />

and meaning in their work,<br />

they also long for intimacy in<br />

relationship.<br />

Seeking intimacy with the<br />

Lord has sustained me in the<br />

“now, but not yet” aspect of life<br />

and God’s kingdom. The Bible<br />

instructs us to be honest and<br />

pour out our hearts to the Lord<br />

(Ps. 62:8). This way, we keep our<br />

heart alive and its longings close<br />

to the surface, though painful. As<br />

we open our hearts to God and<br />

his will, he can pour out his love<br />

and give us both a vision and a<br />

desire for what he is calling us<br />

to do today.<br />

An additional benefit of<br />

choosing to be fully alive is<br />

that it has a ripple effect on our<br />

relationships, family, and even<br />

our work.<br />

2. BE FULLY FEMALE.<br />

God has made us uniquely<br />

male and female, in his image<br />

(Genesis 1:27). The fact that he<br />

has you in the office and not at<br />

home nurturing children right<br />

now is not a mistake. Not only are<br />

you designed with specific talents<br />

unique to you, your perspective as<br />

a woman adds richness to a work<br />

product that otherwise might only<br />

have a male perspective.<br />

While women have different<br />

strengths, being fully feminine<br />

may mean letting an empathetic,<br />

nurturing side show through as<br />

you interact with colleagues and<br />

add your input to projects.<br />

God has also designed many<br />

women, like him, to be strong<br />

protectors of the weak and vulnerable.<br />

Author Carolyn Custis<br />

James writes that the Hebrew<br />

word for “helper” (ezer), used to<br />

describe women in Genesis 2:18,<br />

can be defined as “strong helper,”<br />

even like a warrior. Without the<br />

work of women, our society<br />

would be a much different place.<br />

3. KNOW GOD.<br />

When years pass and longings<br />

go unfulfilled, some single<br />

women begin to lose enthusiasm<br />

about growing their skills on the<br />

job and lose faith in God’s loving<br />

character.<br />

In Jesus’ Parable of the Talents,<br />

we learn how important it<br />

is to put our faith in who God<br />

really is. Many people learn from<br />

this parable we are to invest and<br />

grow our talents for God, not<br />

“bury” them. This is true. But few<br />

understand how it also teaches<br />

that trusting in the true character<br />

of God compels us to serve him<br />

well. The servant who buried his<br />

talent said,<br />

”Master,’ he said, “I knew that<br />

you are a hard man, harvesting<br />

where you have not sown and<br />

gathering where you have not<br />

scattered seed. So I was afraid<br />

and went out and hid your gold<br />

in the ground” (Matt. 25:24-25).<br />

The wicked servant buried his<br />

talent because he didn’t trust in<br />

the character of God. If we serve<br />

a God of love, who gave his one<br />

and only son on our behalf, can’t<br />

we trust him with our hearts and<br />

our vocation?<br />

4. KNOW YOUR PURPOSE.<br />

When we have a transcendent,<br />

God-given purpose, everything<br />

looks different. I’ve seen single<br />

Christian women go from tears<br />

and slumping in their chairs to sitting<br />

up straight with hope in their<br />

eyes when they are reminded of<br />

their identity in Christ and their<br />

purpose. Each one of us, no matter<br />

our marital status, plays an<br />

active role through our work in<br />

God’s master plan of restoration<br />

through Jesus Christ.<br />

This is where churches can do<br />

better in coming alongside single<br />

women, not just to comfort and<br />

encourage them as they live a<br />

single life, but to challenge them<br />

in their calling.<br />

The topic of Christian singleness<br />

and vocation, like life’s most<br />

pressing and difficult questions,<br />

deserves a rich theology. Whether<br />

we’re packing lunches or sitting<br />

at an office computer, we owe it<br />

to ourselves to wrestle with the<br />

Lord and dig into scripture to<br />

reflect deeply and soundly about<br />

our vocations.


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Orlando Advocate | Apr <strong>13</strong> - 19, <strong>2018</strong><br />

In Both Rich And Poor Schools, Black<br />

Students Face Harsher Punishments<br />

A new government watchdog report shows how black students<br />

and students with disabilities are punished more severely.<br />

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A nonpartisan government watchdog<br />

agency released a report Wednesday outlining<br />

severe disparities between how white<br />

students and students of color are disciplined<br />

― the same day Education Secretary Betsy<br />

DeVos met with groups to discuss possibly<br />

rescinding Obama-era guidance designed to<br />

reduce these inequities.<br />

The Government Accountability Office<br />

report, which was requested by Reps. Bobby<br />

Scott (D-Va.) and Jerrold Nadler (D-N.Y.),<br />

comes as civil rights leaders are fighting<br />

tooth and nail to save this guidance. The 2014<br />

guidance calls on schools to reduce their<br />

reliance on harsh disciplinary practices like<br />

suspensions and expulsions. It also warns<br />

schools they could run afoul of federal law<br />

if certain groups of students are disproportionately<br />

punished.<br />

The Education Department data analyzed<br />

in this report is from the 20<strong>13</strong>-2014 school<br />

year, and reveals deep discipline disparities<br />

across student groups ― the very problem<br />

the guidance is intended to address. Independent<br />

of school poverty level, type of public<br />

school or type of disciplinary action, boys,<br />

students with disabilities, and black students<br />

are being punished at far higher rates than<br />

other students. For black students, these<br />

inequities start as early as preschool.<br />

This is the first such analysis to explicitly<br />

compare schools at different poverty levels.<br />

In high-poverty schools, black students are<br />

overrepresented among students who receive<br />

suspensions by 25 percentage points, and in<br />

more affluent schools, they are overrepresented<br />

by 12 points, the data shows. Students<br />

with disabilities face similar problems. In<br />

affluent schools, students with disabilities are<br />

overrepresented among students who receive<br />

suspensions by 20 points, while in low-income<br />

schools, they are overrepresented by<br />

nearly 11 points.<br />

Notably, some disability groups claim<br />

they were left out of Wednesday’s discussions<br />

with DeVos on the disciplinary guidance.<br />

Two advocacy groups told HuffPost<br />

they asked for an invitation to the summit<br />

but were either rebuffed or ignored. Spokespeople<br />

for the Education Department did not<br />

respond to HuffPost’s request for comment<br />

on the matter.<br />

Even though black students only make up<br />

about 16 percent of public school students,<br />

they account for nearly 40 percent of students<br />

who are suspended from school, the report<br />

By Rebecca Klein<br />

says. A similar pattern exists for students<br />

with disabilities, and for male students in<br />

general. Students with disabilities make up<br />

about 12 percent of public school students,<br />

but account for a quarter of those who are<br />

suspended, referred to outside law enforcement<br />

or arrested at school.<br />

“The analysis shows that students of<br />

color suffer harsher discipline for lesser<br />

offenses than their white peers and that<br />

racial bias is a driver of discipline disparities,”<br />

Scott said in a statement. “This report<br />

underscores the need to combat these gross<br />

disparities by strengthening, not rescinding,<br />

the 2014 Discipline Guidance Package,<br />

which recommends specific strategies to<br />

reduce the disparities without jeopardizing<br />

school safety.”<br />

Proponents of the Obama-era guidance<br />

say that having the federal government voice<br />

its priorities in this area is an important step<br />

in keeping students safe. Indeed, harsh school<br />

discipline can have far-reaching effects on a<br />

student’s life. Students who face suspensions<br />

are more likely to drop out of school or<br />

eventually enter the criminal justice system.<br />

Advocates say the guidance is designed to<br />

help stymie this cycle.<br />

But critics say the pressure to reduce<br />

reliance on suspensions has meant keeping<br />

disruptive or dangerous students in the<br />

classroom, thereby posing a threat to other<br />

students and staff members.<br />

One critic of the guidance, a mother who<br />

met with DeVos on Wednesday, previously<br />

said she has watched her children’s school<br />

district become more relaxed in discipline.<br />

“Whatever intentions were set forth in<br />

the guidance, the response to the guidance<br />

has been kind of knee-jerk in nature that<br />

has ended up hurting all of the children,”<br />

said Nicole Landers of Baltimore County<br />

when asked about her general feelings on<br />

the guidance. “It takes away the rights from<br />

the victimized students, as the offending<br />

students are left in the classroom to avoid<br />

suspensions.”<br />

However, the GAO report shows that national<br />

suspension rates had already begun to<br />

fall before the guidance was implemented.<br />

The Education Department has said there<br />

is no specific timeline for when a decision<br />

will be made on whether to keep the guidance.<br />

The department did not respond to a<br />

request for comment on the guidance.<br />

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