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Tikkun Olam<br />

Tamuz-Elul <strong>5778</strong><br />

<strong>June</strong>-August <strong>2018</strong><br />

Tikkun Olam Within The<br />

Interpersonal Realm<br />

Rabbi Jeffrey Kamins<br />

To Heal The Broken<br />

Places<br />

Rabbi Jacqueline Ninio<br />

The Real Cost<br />

Of Kashrut<br />

Reverend Sam Zwarenstein<br />

Behind The<br />

Pink Triangle<br />

Yoav Yaron<br />

Sordid Beauty<br />

Shira Sebban


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YOUR QUARTERLY JOURNAL ON SPIRITUALITY, LEARNING & COMMUNITY<br />

<strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> offers a home where you can live your Judaism in a contemporary<br />

world, drawing on our ancient teachings and traditions. We are a pluralistic community<br />

offering a choice of services, programs and activities for the Masorti, Progressive and Renewal<br />

movements. We do this with contemporary understanding to create a dynamic and diverse<br />

community, welcoming you and your involvement.<br />

PROGRESSIVE<br />

The structure of our Progressive services<br />

allows you to choose the type of prayer<br />

that is most meaningful for you.<br />

You may choose from alternate<br />

readings in English, you may read<br />

the Hebrew prayer (available in<br />

both Hebrew script, and in English<br />

transliteration), or you may choose to<br />

take a moment of personal reflection.<br />

Our Friday night “Shabbat Live”<br />

service is a moving, innovative service<br />

where prayer is enhanced with musical<br />

instruments, beautiful melodies,<br />

creative readings and stories.<br />

Shabbat Live is held at<br />

6:15pm every Friday.<br />

The Progressive Shabbat Service begins<br />

at 10am each Saturday morning.<br />

MASORTI<br />

Our Masorti (traditional) services<br />

are run almost entirely in Hebrew,<br />

honouring the tradition with<br />

contemporary insights.<br />

As with all services at <strong>Emanuel</strong><br />

<strong>Synagogue</strong>, men and women<br />

participate equally and fully.<br />

The Friday night Carlebach service<br />

is a traditional Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

service, featuring the well-known<br />

melodies of Shlomo Carlebach.<br />

The Carlebach service is held<br />

at 6.15pm every Friday.<br />

Our Masorti Shabbat Service begins<br />

at 9am on Saturday mornings.<br />

We also hold a Masorti Minyan<br />

at 6:45am on Monday and<br />

Thursday mornings.<br />

RENEWAL<br />

The Renewal movement is devoted to<br />

personal and spiritual development,<br />

reinvigorating modern Judaism with<br />

Kabbalistic and musical practices.<br />

Through our Renewal activities<br />

you will have the opportunity to<br />

reach a new level of awareness,<br />

stress relief, self-development,<br />

relaxation and inner healing.<br />

6 July 6:15pm Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

A Renewal-style Shabbat eve with<br />

music, meditation and prayer.<br />

19 August 10am-3pm<br />

Kabbalah Art and Meditation Seminar<br />

with David Friedman, visiting<br />

artist from Israel.<br />

Kabbalah Tour of Israel<br />

October 2019<br />

10-day tour of Israel with a<br />

focus on Jewish Spirituality.<br />

Led by Rabbi Dr. Orna Triguboff and<br />

Israeli musicians, teachers and artists.<br />

email: orna@emanuel.org.au<br />

Rabbi Jeffrey B. Kamins Rabbi Jacqueline Ninio Rabbi Dr Orna Triguboff Rabbi Rafi Kaiserblueth Reverand Sam Zwarenstein


{ CEO UPDATE}<br />

CHANGING THE WORLD<br />

Introducing Global Citizen<br />

at <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong><br />

Suzanna Helia<br />

It was a hot summer day in late<br />

December, I was on Sydney Harbour<br />

with family and friends, enjoying<br />

boating, lunch and swimming.<br />

My two boys being well, boys I<br />

guess, had left their hats at home<br />

and didn’t put on any sunblock.<br />

As any parent would, I panicked, and<br />

asked around if anyone would have a<br />

spare hat or a cap as I didn’t want the<br />

boys to get sunburnt. To my surprise,<br />

one of the people on the boat (a friend<br />

of a friend) passed me a hat, with a<br />

Global Citizen logo on it. I thanked<br />

him, and jokingly asked if he had one<br />

more, as both my boys needed one.<br />

And he reaches into his bag and passes<br />

me another hat. I thank the guy as it<br />

seems that whatever a child would need<br />

on a boat, this guy had it! Intrigued,<br />

I asked him, "Why do you have all<br />

this things with you? Your children<br />

seem to be very well equipped." He<br />

simply answered, "I like to give".<br />

A few weeks later I received a book<br />

in the mail; Give and Take by Adam<br />

Grant. It was profound. I finished<br />

reading it in one sitting. It had so<br />

many interesting perspectives. One<br />

comment that I continue to dwell<br />

on is: “it is well to remember that<br />

the entire universe, with one trifling<br />

exception, is composed of others” .<br />

We are all here together and need to<br />

look after one another, I thought.<br />

I have always felt passionate about<br />

innovation and the ability to make a<br />

difference. Now I had the urge – if I<br />

don’t try to make a difference, who<br />

will? I go to the screening of a film<br />

by Global Citizen in Sydney with my<br />

three children. It is pouring with rain<br />

and by the time we get from the car<br />

to the Powerhouse Museum we are<br />

soaking wet. Despite our discomfort,<br />

by the time we finish watching the<br />

movie, my children are inspired. They<br />

ask me if I can help them to get this<br />

initiative happening at their school,<br />

and in the synagogue. My oldest,<br />

Oscar Louis is already planning who<br />

will be on his team; to work out how<br />

he could get his friends' parents to<br />

understand and support this cause<br />

and how to get his school to work<br />

{INSIDE THIS EDITION}<br />

TRANSFORMATIVE<br />

LEARNING<br />

22<br />

MITZVAH VS GOOD DEED<br />

Daniel Samowitz<br />

26<br />

FIGHTING FOR LIFE<br />

Donna Jacobs-Sife<br />

24<br />

REMEMBER THIS<br />

Nicole Waldner<br />

INSPIRING PRAYER<br />

7<br />

NEW BUILDING WINS<br />

DESIGN AWARD<br />

11<br />

UNDERSTANDING TIKKUN OLAM<br />

Rabbi Rafi Kaiserblueth<br />

14<br />

THE REAL COST OF KASHRUT<br />

Reverend Sam Zwarenstein<br />

Cover art by David Friedman<br />

See page 16 for details of the Seminar<br />

in August featuring David


with them. My daughter Saskia is<br />

horrified by the thought that there are<br />

countries where children don’t have<br />

toilets in the school, and girls of her<br />

age can get married off. Felix chats to<br />

the musician and discovers that you<br />

can make an impact with music, "Hey<br />

that is awesome!", he says. Felix loves<br />

his piano, especially Jazz and Blues.<br />

So, this is how it all came together.<br />

At <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> we have<br />

a fantastic social justice program<br />

including feeding homeless at the<br />

Matthew Talbot Hostel, to some of us<br />

sleeping on the street to raise funds for<br />

St. Vincent’s De Paul, organizing food<br />

delivery to the elderly and arranging<br />

reading support for underprivileged<br />

children. We bake and provide little<br />

gifts for the elderly before Jewish<br />

festivals, we collect needed items<br />

and deliver to detention centers, we<br />

organise Mitzvah days and fundraisers<br />

for a variety of important causes. The<br />

work is endless and rewarding but<br />

very difficult for a child under the<br />

age of eighteen to participate in.<br />

We arranged for Stand Up (a social<br />

justice program) to be included<br />

into our curriculum to educate<br />

youth on social justice issues and<br />

support. This is part of their Bnei<br />

Mitzvah program, however if we do<br />

not provide a path for the children<br />

to actually apply their energy and<br />

enthusiasm to make a difference,<br />

their excitement will fade away.<br />

We want to create a way for children<br />

in our community to accomplish<br />

something meaningful, beyond their<br />

academic or sporting achievements.<br />

And from this, the Global Citizen<br />

at <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> Program was<br />

born. The purpose of this initiative<br />

is to provide young people with<br />

the tools to influence and to make<br />

a difference to people in need.<br />

It will be part of the multiple social<br />

justice initiatives that I am so proud<br />

of, that <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> supports<br />

and leads, it is about engaging young<br />

people after their Bnei Mitzvah<br />

program and aligns with our<br />

fundamental values by empowering<br />

them to make the world a better<br />

place. We are aiming to launch this<br />

program very soon and I encourage<br />

you all to join young and old,<br />

parents, children and friends.<br />

Two of Suzanna's children at the<br />

Global Citizen screening<br />

SUSTAINING THE<br />

ENVIRONMENT &<br />

HEALING THE WORLD<br />

4<br />

CHANGING THE WORLD<br />

Suzanna Helia<br />

6<br />

TIKKUN OLAM WITHIN THE<br />

INTERPERSONAL REALM<br />

Rabbi Jeffrey Kamins<br />

20<br />

BEHIND THE PINK TRIANGLE<br />

Yoav Yaron<br />

25<br />

INTRODUCING GLOBAL CITIZEN<br />

Marina Capponi<br />

CONNECTING WITH ISRAEL<br />

& WORLD JEWRY<br />

16<br />

ART AND SPIRIT<br />

Rabbi Dr Orna Triguboff<br />

21<br />

WORLD CONGRESS OF<br />

LGBT JEWS IN SYDNEY<br />

Kim Gotlieb<br />

27<br />

SORDID BEAUTY<br />

Shira Sebban<br />

30<br />

UPJ BIENNIAL<br />

COMMUNITY<br />

8<br />

TO HEAL THE BROKEN PLACES<br />

Rabbi Jacqueline Ninio<br />

19<br />

CELEBR8!<br />

23<br />

MAZAL TOV RUTH<br />

29<br />

OUR NEW BOARD MEMBERS<br />

33<br />

NEW MEMBERS<br />

34<br />

MAZAL TOV<br />

35<br />

WEDDING MAKES HISTORY<br />

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{TIKKUN OLAM WITHIN THE INTERPERSONAL REALM}<br />

Rabbi Jeffrey Kamins<br />

It has been an exciting month with the dedication of our new sanctuary - part<br />

of the Millie Phillips Building. This building also houses our new preschool<br />

(to be dedicated once we receive all the relevant permits allowing the children<br />

to move there). On that special evening, I wanted to thank so many people,<br />

but inevitably, as perfection rests only within the ultimate mysterious one we<br />

call God, I made several omissions. Welcome to the realm of the human!<br />

According to kabbalist thought, since<br />

perfection only resides in the realm<br />

of the Holy One, the creation of<br />

the universe we inhabit necessarily<br />

comes with imperfection and the<br />

need to repair. This repair is known<br />

as “Tikkun”. We often use the<br />

phrase “Tikkun Olam”, repairing the<br />

universe, in the sense of the social<br />

justice work we do as individuals and<br />

a community. However, the early<br />

rabbinic phrase enshrined in the<br />

prayer “Aleinu”, that concludes every<br />

service, and features prominently on<br />

Rosh Hashanah, speaks of “repairing<br />

the world within the sovereignty<br />

of God.” This means that we must<br />

understand the work of Tikkun<br />

not just as right action, but also<br />

spiritual, healing work as well.<br />

Now, right action is at the core of<br />

what Judaism is about, and made<br />

clear from the Torah’s injunction,<br />

“Justice, justice you shall pursue”<br />

(Deuteronomy 16:20). It is<br />

reinforced by dozens and dozens of<br />

mitzvot focusing on our acting in<br />

all spheres of life involving justice<br />

and equity, particularly looking after<br />

those less privileged in economic<br />

and social power structures. The<br />

prophets emphasize this message in<br />

their teachings; famously in Isaiah’s<br />

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teaching: “Learn to do good; devote<br />

yourselves to justice; aid the wronged;<br />

uphold the rights of the orphan;<br />

defend the cause of the widow”;<br />

and Amos’s call: “But let justice well<br />

up like water, righteousness like an<br />

unfailing stream.” (Isaiah 1:17 and<br />

Amos 5:24). For thousands of years,<br />

we have had an understanding as<br />

a people, that because we suffered<br />

the oppression of slavery under<br />

the Egyptians, we are called to<br />

alleviate and eventually end that<br />

physical suffering for all people.<br />

But Judaism goes further than this in<br />

its notion of Tikkun, because when<br />

we came out of Egypt we were called<br />

to freedom in order to serve. That<br />

life of service primarily calls us to<br />

a spiritual mission as a “kingdom<br />

of priests and a holy nation.” Our<br />

teachings about God have been<br />

somewhat confused because of all<br />

the verbiage and action associated<br />

with belief. However, stripped to its<br />

core, as in the opening words of the<br />

Shema, we are called to understand<br />

that “is” is our God, and all that<br />

“is” is one. Our rabbis taught:<br />

“The one who saves a single life is<br />

considered as if he or she saved the<br />

entire universe.” All being one,<br />

each individual is an entire universe<br />

(olam in Hebrew) in him or herself.<br />

Tikkun Olam requires us to heal<br />

the wounds we have caused others.<br />

With those thoughts in mind,<br />

reflecting on the opening night, I<br />

want to acknowledge that I may<br />

have hurt certain people. Although<br />

I did mention how co-operative our<br />

builders have been, in particular, I<br />

want to mention Belmadar’s Site<br />

Manager, James Blackburne, who<br />

has been on site daily, working with<br />

such deep understanding of helping<br />

build our spiritual community. I<br />

would also like to thank Aaron<br />

Huey, the assistant foreman, Stuart<br />

Tan, Belmadar’s Project Manager,<br />

Alf Marrocco, Belmadar’s Managing<br />

Director and Geoff Finch, our Project<br />

Manager - they have enjoyed our<br />

full faith throughout the project.<br />

Nor would this project have been<br />

brought to fruition without the<br />

sterling work of the building<br />

committees over the last decade,<br />

led by highly devoted volunteers<br />

Gordon Woolf, Robert Woolf and<br />

Alex Lehrer. Our CEO Suzanna<br />

Helia, with tireless effort, has<br />

ensured that the project moved<br />

forward to success. She has had<br />

the steadfast support of our Board,<br />

led by Louise Thurgood Phillips,<br />

our recently retired president.<br />

In the rush of activity that wonderful<br />

night, I know there were hundreds<br />

of people I did not have the time to<br />

recognise and greet personally. In<br />

fact, reflecting on my last 29 years<br />

in the rabbinate, I have<br />

thought of so many<br />

people with whom I have<br />

not used my best words or<br />

demonstrated my highest<br />

values, and inadvertently<br />

hurt and disappointed in<br />

some way. It has made<br />

me realise that life is not<br />

long enough to truly<br />

do “Tikkun Olam” in<br />

terms of each individual<br />

universe with whom we engage. We<br />

can only hope that at the end of it<br />

all, our personal ledgers demonstrate<br />

that our wrongs are diminishing, and<br />

that the requisite Tikkun Olam has<br />

been undertaken to the best of our<br />

ability. As our rabbis taught in Pirkei<br />

Avot: “It is not incumbent upon<br />

you to finish the work, but neither<br />

are you free to desist from it.”<br />

INSPIRING PRAYER<br />

EMANUEL SYNAGOGUE'S<br />

NEW BUILDING WINS<br />

DESIGN AWARD<br />

The new Millie Phillips Building<br />

has just been awarded a Silver<br />

Award in the <strong>2018</strong> Sydney<br />

Design Awards. The Award<br />

noted that the design of the<br />

Sanctuary reflects the values of<br />

the community and expands its<br />

architectural heritage. It indicated<br />

the architecture displays a concern<br />

for transparency and connection<br />

to the exterior environment<br />

- natural light, fresh air.<br />

Congratulations to Lippmann<br />

Partnership and the design team.<br />

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{TO HEAL THE BROKEN PLACES}<br />

Rabbi Jacqueline Ninio<br />

The year was 1946 and the war had finally ended. Rabbi Schenk rose and spoke<br />

passionately about the role of the synagogue, he said: “Judaism must not stand aside<br />

when the great problems of humanity which are reborn in every new epoch, struggle in<br />

the minds of men to gain expression, battle in the societies of mankind to find their way.<br />

We must not as Jews, deny<br />

ourselves to the problems of<br />

the time, nor hide ourselves, as<br />

Jews in the face of them; they<br />

must not be something that<br />

goes on outside our Judaism<br />

in another sphere. We are Jews<br />

also for the sake of humanity…<br />

we must fight the Jewish fight<br />

for the new world of men, of<br />

God’s children, of universal<br />

morality, justice and peace.”<br />

For Rabbi Schenk it was not<br />

possible to divorce the spiritual<br />

from the religious, for one led<br />

to the other. And so too for the<br />

founders of Temple <strong>Emanuel</strong>,<br />

who all saw the work for tikkun<br />

olam, healing the world, as<br />

fundamental to their lives, their<br />

Judaism and their synagogue.<br />

Judaism has always been a<br />

religion of action; the great<br />

prophets of our tradition exhort<br />

us to act. They argue that the<br />

spiritual means nothing unless<br />

it inspires us to correct the<br />

injustices of the world and to<br />

heal the broken places. Rabbi<br />

Abraham Joshua Heschel said:<br />

“A religious man is a person<br />

who holds God and man in<br />

one thought at one time, at all<br />

times. Who suffers harm done<br />

to others, whose greatest passion<br />

is compassion, whose greatest<br />

strength is love and defiance of<br />

despair.” Judaism is a religion<br />

of the day to day, the here and<br />

now. Our texts cry to us to<br />

take action, to be involved.<br />

Heschel said: “The teaching<br />

of Judaism is the theology<br />

of the common deed. God<br />

is concerned with the<br />

everydayness, the trivialities<br />

of life… the prophets’<br />

field of concern is not the<br />

mysteries of heaven, the<br />

glories of eternity but the<br />

blights of society, the affairs<br />

of the marketplace…<br />

the prophet addresses<br />

himself to those who<br />

trample upon the needy,<br />

increase the price of<br />

grain, use dishonest scales<br />

and sell the refuse of corn”<br />

And our synagogue has a proud<br />

history of involvement in social<br />

action, in bold acts of tikkun<br />

olam, healing the world. In the<br />

founding years, the synagogue,<br />

especially through its Board<br />

and its Women’s Guild, worked<br />

tirelessly in the war efforts. They<br />

welcomed refugees coming<br />

from Europe, cared for military<br />

personnel far from home,<br />

helped with soup kitchens,<br />

trained as home nurses to offer<br />

care to the wounded and sick.<br />

The Women’s Guild members<br />

made camouflage netting for<br />

the war efforts, sitting in their<br />

homes in the evenings and<br />

Rabbi Max Schenk<br />

working during the day<br />

in Martin Place creating the<br />

nets. The synagogue continued<br />

to reach out and help during<br />

the war years, and afterwards<br />

settling new arrivals, healing<br />

and welcoming them into<br />

community. At the same time,<br />

almost every member of the<br />

congregation was working<br />

to help others in individual<br />

projects outside the synagogue,<br />

something which has spanned<br />

the generations of synagogue<br />

members, so many contributing<br />

to shaping a better world<br />

either under the banner of the<br />

synagogue or individually.<br />

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In the 1980s, there was a<br />

wave of immigration from<br />

the Former Soviet Union and<br />

South Africa. The synagogue<br />

made a concerted effort to<br />

welcome the new arrivals,<br />

especially those from the FSU.<br />

There was a synagogue op<br />

shop which helped to support<br />

those in the community<br />

who needed assistance.<br />

There were annual collections<br />

to help those in the broader<br />

community including<br />

collecting coats for the<br />

winter and food each year<br />

for Mazon, an organization<br />

established together with North<br />

Shore Temple <strong>Emanuel</strong> to<br />

alleviate hunger. Social justice<br />

programs were linked with<br />

all the Jewish festivals, and<br />

collections were made and<br />

donations given, in line with<br />

the themes of the festival.<br />

For many years, <strong>Emanuel</strong><br />

has had a connection with<br />

the Exodus Foundation,<br />

cooking and serving Easter<br />

Lunch for the clients. On<br />

a number of occasions<br />

volunteers were invited to<br />

speak at the Easter service.<br />

<strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>’s social<br />

justice group has been<br />

involved with refugees and<br />

asylum seekers, young people’s<br />

literacy programs, feeding the<br />

hungry and homeless, as well<br />

as collecting items to assist in<br />

many areas of the community.<br />

They also provide a forum for<br />

information about issues which<br />

face the community, from<br />

the environmental concerns<br />

and mental health, to asylum<br />

seeker policies and<br />

distribution of wealth.<br />

Interfaith dialogue<br />

was a feature of the<br />

synagogue as well,<br />

something which has<br />

continued through the<br />

80 years - reaching out<br />

to other communities,<br />

building bridges of<br />

understanding and<br />

working on shared projects.<br />

COMMUNITY<br />

Our congregation has a proud<br />

history of involvement in<br />

projects which help to shape<br />

a better world. Inspired by<br />

the teachings of our tradition,<br />

impelled by the words of the<br />

prophets, our congregation has<br />

always held as an imperative<br />

the need to do acts of tikkun<br />

olam. And we do so because<br />

we are Jews. The synagogue<br />

should not only be a place<br />

Volunteers serving meals at Matthew Talbot Hostel<br />

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of spiritual uplift, but also a<br />

place where we confront the<br />

challenges of the world, and<br />

be inspired to shape a better<br />

tomorrow because the spiritual<br />

leads to the practical. The Torah<br />

is a political document; it sends<br />

us back into the world to care<br />

as God does, about suffering,<br />

prejudice, poverty and war.<br />

The foundational document<br />

of Judaism calls upon us to<br />

speak, to act and to care, and<br />

the inspiration for such deeds<br />

can also come from the pulpit.<br />

Sometimes we need to be<br />

challenged; we need to hear<br />

opinions which are different<br />

from our own; we need to<br />

find the space for respectful<br />

dialogue and discussion. But<br />

this must always be grounded<br />

in the spiritual, inspired from<br />

a place of love and concern<br />

for the world and for one<br />

another. There must be room<br />

for both politics and spirit in<br />

the synagogue, for there is a<br />

need for religious voices to be<br />

heard promoting peace, justice<br />

and compassion. Otherwise<br />

we risk the religious agenda<br />

being hijacked by extremist<br />

voices who do not speak for<br />

us, who do not represent<br />

our understanding of our<br />

traditions and teachings.<br />

Religion and politics are interwoven,<br />

and it is our sacred duty<br />

to have our voices heard, not<br />

just as concerned citizens but as<br />

people of faith; people who are<br />

inspired to action by the words<br />

of our holy texts. Grounded<br />

in our tradition and our<br />

experience, we must speak, we<br />

must care, and along with our<br />

mouths, our feet, our hands,<br />

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{UNDERSTANDING TIKKUN OLAM}<br />

Rabbi Rafi Kaiserblueth<br />

Tikkun Olam is a ubiquitous term that has become so common<br />

place that the original meaning has been lost.<br />

If we dig a little beneath the surface,<br />

we realise very quickly that it is<br />

not as simple as “fixing the world,”<br />

but a powerful amalgamation<br />

of concepts. It has evolved to<br />

encompass several distinct ideas<br />

apart from the conception of today.<br />

Probably the earliest usage of the<br />

term comes from the Aleinu prayer,<br />

first written for use during Rosh<br />

Hashanah, most likely in the 2nd<br />

century. The term there refers to<br />

an idea “to establish/fix the world<br />

under the kingdom of God”, or<br />

“perfecting earth by Your (God’s)<br />

kingship.” Different prayer books<br />

translate that line in a variety of ways,<br />

probably reflecting our modern-day<br />

discomfort with the concept of one<br />

religion reigning supreme over all<br />

the others. The concept is generally<br />

understood to mean a cleansing of<br />

the world of all impurities (read<br />

idolatry) that will allow the full<br />

manifestation of God’s presence.<br />

There is also a reference in the<br />

Midrash roughly contemporary<br />

with the Aleinu being written. In<br />

the Midrash, the rabbis use the term<br />

Tikkun Olam to mean the work<br />

of creating a sustainable world fit<br />

for habitation. In one particular<br />

Midrash, God uses rain to establish<br />

the world (l’taken olam) and<br />

sustain it. This reading is concerned<br />

solely with the physical world.<br />

Around the same time that Aleinu<br />

was being written, the Mishnah was<br />

being codified. In it, there are several<br />

references to the term Tikkun Olam,<br />

however in the case of the Mishnah,<br />

the reference is an entirely different<br />

concept. Here it is almost always<br />

justifying the creation of a legal<br />

loophole to protect the marginalised<br />

and less fortunate. The purpose<br />

in these cases refers to a notion of<br />

preserving a system as a whole.<br />

Finally, many hundreds of years<br />

later, during the rise of the Kabbalist<br />

movement, Tikkun Olam came<br />

to be used to refer to the idea of<br />

realising a divine perfection in the<br />

world, where the original state of the<br />

universe would be restored through<br />

our human performance of mitzvot,<br />

both ritual and ethical. It was a<br />

radical idea that humans could have<br />

a direct impact on the cosmos. Jews<br />

had to look beyond a specific act,<br />

and look at the larger picture to see<br />

what impact that act might have.<br />

It is only in the last 40 years or so<br />

that the term Tikkun Olam came<br />

to be a catchall term that signified<br />

acts of social justice. As with many<br />

concepts in our tradition, the term<br />

obviously has evolved. In fact, it is<br />

possible to see elements of each of<br />

the concepts reflected in our current<br />

understanding of the<br />

term Tikkun Olam.<br />

Whether one is<br />

engaged in providing<br />

for the homeless and<br />

refugees; or political<br />

activism, environmental<br />

causes, aiming to<br />

rid the world of evil,<br />

creating a sustainable<br />

world, protecting<br />

the marginalised; or<br />

positively affecting the planet around<br />

us to bring the divine presence<br />

among us – then that is truly a<br />

repair of our world. The work is<br />

grounded in a divinely inspired<br />

idea to create a world rid of evil,<br />

that is sustainable and accessible to<br />

everyone, and that brings us closer<br />

to the original state of creation when<br />

all was in a state of harmony.<br />

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INSPIRING PRAYER<br />

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{THE REAL COST OF KASHRUT}<br />

Reverend Sam Zwarenstein<br />

This very sore topic is often debated and it isn’t going away any time<br />

soon. The cost of keeping kosher, especially when it comes to purchasing<br />

meat and other specifically hechshered (certified) products, is very<br />

scary, and in many cases, bordering on being prohibitive.<br />

You only have to pay<br />

a visit to the kosher<br />

section in your<br />

local supermarket,<br />

or head on in to a<br />

kosher establishment<br />

(restaurant, butcher,<br />

etc.), and you say; “Here<br />

we go again”. You can’t<br />

help but feel as though<br />

you’re being ripped off<br />

and taken advantage of.<br />

It would not be fair to<br />

place any of the blame<br />

on the establishments<br />

themselves, as they<br />

are caught up in the<br />

same big (kosher)<br />

hamster wheel that<br />

we are, i.e. they<br />

charge the prices they do because they<br />

are lumbered with unfair costs and<br />

somewhat ridiculous hindrances.<br />

In March 2012 (six years ago), Rabbi<br />

Meir Rabi of Kosher VeYosher wrote an<br />

article called “The Cost of Kosher”, in<br />

which he delivered a scathing attack on<br />

the kashrut authorities (operating then),<br />

and the inexplicable cost variations<br />

levied upon the Jews of Australia.<br />

In his article, he wrote:<br />

“Kosher has been made unnecessarily<br />

difficult, and unjustifiably expensive.<br />

We do not, and many believe that<br />

we cannot, explain and justify that<br />

the costs are fair and not extortive.<br />

Kosher has been made to look silly<br />

and political. That’s the consequence<br />

of insisting that a kitchen must<br />

be Koshered after being used by<br />

a Kosher caterer supervised by a<br />

different Kosher organisation.<br />

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Kosher has been made to look<br />

trivial. That’s the consequence of<br />

knowing that the products on the<br />

Kosher list are not Kosher enough<br />

for the rabbi who endorses the list.<br />

Kosher has been made to look petty.<br />

That’s the consequence of accepting as<br />

Kosher the same food in one state of<br />

Australia but not in another state.”<br />

Some of these issues are not limited<br />

to the Australian scene, and there are<br />

many communities around the world<br />

where some of the same absurdities are<br />

rife. Where is the sense of community<br />

cohesiveness and responsibility that one<br />

would expect from such authorities?<br />

What happened to the notion of<br />

making kashrut accessible to the masses,<br />

affordable to all who desire to keep<br />

kosher, and treating the community not<br />

only with respect, but also promoting<br />

the values associated<br />

with keeping kosher?<br />

We all know about the<br />

2014/2015 Kashrut<br />

Commission of Inquiry,<br />

which highlighted a<br />

number of issues within<br />

the NSW Kashrut<br />

Authority, and eventually<br />

resulted in the formation<br />

of a second authority<br />

in NSW (Community<br />

Kashrut or CK).<br />

It took a formal<br />

commission and an<br />

enormous amount of<br />

community engagement<br />

to get to this result.<br />

Why? Well, that can be<br />

debated at length on<br />

many levels. I will however, state that<br />

I believe it is because of unwillingness<br />

of the “authorities” to engage in<br />

change, as well as the audacity of some<br />

people in positions of power. These<br />

people think they know what’s best<br />

for us at all times in these matters,<br />

and that we should continue to trust<br />

their judgement and their decrees.<br />

When you place yourself on a pedestal,<br />

and you determine the matters that<br />

Rabbi Meir wrote about to be the<br />

absolute truth, and the only way<br />

to (in this case) keep kosher, then<br />

you build unrealistic expectations<br />

for those who strive to live by the<br />

laws of kashrut. Effectively, you are<br />

hindering, rather than facilitating a<br />

community’s ability to keep kosher.<br />

Instead of helping to keep the price of<br />

kosher goods and services in line with<br />

reasonable expectations, you help to


drive prices through the roof. Instead<br />

of building a community-focused<br />

environment for those who choose<br />

to keep kosher, you put stumbling<br />

blocks for all concerned. For instance,<br />

insisting that a kitchen used by a<br />

caterer supervised by another kashrut<br />

authority be re-kashered, because that<br />

caterer is not under your supervision.<br />

Similarly, products determined to<br />

be kosher for everyone else, are not<br />

necessarily “kosher enough” for the<br />

rabbinic authority who endorsed<br />

the kashrut of that product.<br />

Then there’s the absurd notion<br />

that food can be kosher in one<br />

geographical region, but as soon as<br />

it is taken to another area it may no<br />

longer be kosher. So, food coming<br />

from Melbourne, for instance, may<br />

be deemed kosher, but take that<br />

same food to Sydney, and it may<br />

no longer be considered kosher.<br />

Maintaining that level of absurdity<br />

will only end up in tears- in fact, it<br />

already has. Think about the number of<br />

Jewish families who are trying to keep<br />

kosher. Think about the many people<br />

who have undertaken the life-changing<br />

decision to convert to Judaism. In their<br />

interview with the Beit Din, we asked<br />

them to affirm their commitment to a<br />

Jewish life and its ideals, which includes<br />

the principles of kashrut, and how we<br />

respect and live by those principles.<br />

We tell everyone that keeping kosher<br />

is a level we should strive towards,<br />

and that the principles of kashrut are<br />

amongst the holiest and most noble in<br />

Judaism. Then we engage in ridiculous<br />

acts of hypocrisy, contradiction and<br />

superiority. Where is the holiness and<br />

sanctity of kashrut, if we allow the rules<br />

and conditions to reach this level?<br />

We now have another kashrut<br />

authority in NSW, the aforementioned<br />

Community Kashrut (CK). This has<br />

provided some alternatives and more<br />

competition, which certainly in this<br />

case, will be good. It’s still early days,<br />

but more establishments and caterers<br />

are being endorsed through the CK.<br />

This is also leading to better results<br />

under the KA as well, with more<br />

establishments obtaining approval<br />

under their authority as well. I’m not<br />

mentioning any names, but getting four<br />

challot for $10 is a refreshing change.<br />

Kashrut however, is bigger than all of<br />

this - believe it or not. In spite of all<br />

these contentious issues, kashrut remains<br />

an ideal of our culture and religion.<br />

It is one of several key elements that<br />

defines what it means to be Jewish.<br />

Keeping kosher is not only about<br />

buying approved and supervised<br />

items, despite what one would think<br />

after reading the above examples. It<br />

also entails a level of responsibility,<br />

a commitment to the animals and<br />

the environment we find ourselves<br />

entrenched in, and taking advantage of.<br />

We have a responsibility to acknowledge<br />

that the delicious roast served up for<br />

dinner didn’t just appear on the plate,<br />

and it isn’t a coincidence that we find<br />

it (almost) ready for our use in the<br />

supermarket/ butchery. It came from a<br />

living being, and had to be slaughtered,<br />

cut, and prepared, according to the laws<br />

of kashrut. Similarly, the eggs we eat or<br />

use for baking didn’t just appear out of<br />

thin air. They are part of an ecosystem,<br />

and kashrut teaches us that we should<br />

act responsibly when interacting with<br />

and taking from that ecosystem. A<br />

deeper level of kashrut also teaches us<br />

respect for (in this case) the chickens<br />

that laid those eggs. We should consider<br />

how are they have been treated. We<br />

should strive to buy free-range eggs, so<br />

that we are supporting the right ideals<br />

and ensuring the right behaviour.<br />

Although I’ve dedicated a smaller portion<br />

of this article to the greater responsibility<br />

of kashrut (i.e. a commitment to not<br />

only do the right thing through the<br />

laws of kashrut, but also the social<br />

responsibility of kashrut), I abhor the<br />

focus placed by some members of our<br />

wider community that keeping kosher<br />

relates solely to maintaining control and<br />

creating an environment where they<br />

don’t even treat fellow Jews<br />

with respect, let alone the<br />

environment and all<br />

that lives within it.<br />

Promoting kashrut is<br />

an essential goal of any<br />

Jewish community,<br />

but it has to match<br />

the ideals of, and<br />

reasons for keeping<br />

kosher. It is our<br />

religious and cultural<br />

duty to endorse<br />

kashrut, to continue learning<br />

and to help others understand<br />

what it means to keep kosher.<br />

INSPIRING PRAYER<br />

There is no question that we must always<br />

strive to live by these ideals, and seek to<br />

improve the levels of kashrut. Having<br />

said that, that focus cannot be limited to<br />

the concerns raised above, even though<br />

they are extremely important and must<br />

be part of the overall approach. In order<br />

to provide long term sustainability of<br />

kashrut and its ideals, our plans and<br />

actions must also focus on the deeper<br />

levels of kashrut, on being part of a<br />

greater picture, and acknowledging that<br />

we have a bigger responsibility than just<br />

overseeing day to day operations and<br />

worrying about why we think somebody<br />

else’s kashrut is not as good as ours.<br />

Let’s start by changing the way<br />

we approach kashrut, and taking<br />

responsibility for our role in the overall<br />

picture. That way, we allow ourselves<br />

to strive to the true ideals of tikkun<br />

olam, by changing ourselves, then<br />

our community, and then the world.<br />

Along the way we’ll dispense with<br />

the trivialities and the politics, and<br />

make ourselves and others proud of<br />

our commitment to kashrut.<br />

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{ART AND SPIRIT}<br />

David Friedman visiting from Tsfat<br />

Rabbi Dr Orna Triguboff<br />

To warm our winter, the mystic and artist, David Friedman, will be presenting<br />

his art and teaching Jewish meditation at <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>. To get a<br />

sense of who David is, I interviewed him and here is what he said:<br />

I was born in Denver, Colorado<br />

and raised in a Modern Orthodox<br />

family. I developed a talent for art<br />

at an early age, and started to get<br />

serious about art as a teenager. I<br />

liked the artwork of album covers<br />

of 60’s and early 70’s music, which<br />

was an early inspiration for me. I<br />

was also inspired by mandala art of<br />

The Star of David by David Friedman<br />

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India. I attended the Rhode Island<br />

School of Design in Providence for<br />

a year, and then left to study Torah<br />

and Jewish mysticism in Denver,<br />

with the late Rabbi B. C. S. Twerski.<br />

I emigrated to Israel in 1977 at<br />

the age of 20, and spent two years<br />

studying Torah in Jerusalem, where<br />

I met my wife, Miriam. We got<br />

married in 1979 and moved to<br />

Tsfat. In Tsfat, I mostly immersed<br />

myself in Talmud study and other<br />

classic texts of Judaism as well as<br />

Kabbalah, but I continued to make<br />

art at night. As early as 1980, I<br />

began to produce artwork that<br />

was based on Torah concepts in<br />

an attempt to integrate Torah and<br />

art. I felt that I could make Jewish<br />

mandalas. The first piece I produced<br />

as a print (The Orchard of the<br />

Torah) is based on the design of a<br />

Tibetan mandala, and continues<br />

to be a top-selling print for me.<br />

After a bout with cancer in 1987<br />

(advanced-stage Hodgkin’s disease,<br />

which I received eight months<br />

of aggressive chemotherapy), I<br />

started practising meditation, and<br />

discovered that there was such a<br />

thing as Jewish Meditation. The<br />

books of Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan<br />

showed me how meditation is<br />

an important part of Kabbalah,<br />

that has been quite hidden until<br />

recently. I started practising yoga,<br />

developed healthy eating habits<br />

thanks to my wife Miriam, and<br />

focused primarily on the study of<br />

Kabbalah. This combination of<br />

Kabbalah, meditation, and modern<br />

conceptual art produced a large<br />

series of kabbalistic/meditative<br />

paintings, most of which I executed<br />

in watercolors and pen-and-ink.<br />

I developed my own original<br />

system of translating kabbalistic<br />

concepts into graphic shapes and<br />

colours, based mostly on Sefer<br />

Yetzirah (the Book of Creation),<br />

but also inspired from other texts.<br />

I have exhibited in North America


and Israel, and my works can be found in many<br />

homes and art collections around the world.<br />

I often lecture on Kabbalah and Jewish Meditation<br />

to groups of teenagers and adults, whether tourists,<br />

students or spiritual seekers from around the<br />

world. These groups usually find my presentations<br />

enjoyable and educational as I use my art to<br />

simplify and clarify profound kabbalistic ideas - as<br />

they say, 'a picture is worth a thousand words'.<br />

Although I have studied many classical Torah Texts<br />

(both conventional and esoteric) I am primarily selftaught,<br />

and I prefer the way of the mystic to be as<br />

independent and non-denominational as possible.<br />

Two of my main influences in the realm of Kabbalah,<br />

whose texts I frequently teach, are the great 18th<br />

Century kabbalist, Rabbi Moshe Chayim Luzzatto,<br />

and the early 20th Century mystic, Rabbi Abraham<br />

Isaac Hakohen Kook. I continue to live, work<br />

and teach in Tsfat, Israel, with my wife Miriam.<br />

MYSTICAL ART<br />

Let’s have a look at a few of David’s<br />

paintings and how he explains them:<br />

Kabbalah inspired artwork by David Friedman<br />

David Friedman<br />

QUESTION: WHAT IS YOUR UNDERSTANDING<br />

OF THE STAR OF DAVID?<br />

I connect it with a teaching from the ancient Jewish<br />

text: Sefer Yetzirah, Book of Creation: It talks about<br />

space having 6 directions (up, down, left, right, front<br />

and back) and there being a place in the centre of<br />

them which it calls “the Holy Palace” precisely in<br />

the centre, and it is the essence of them all. It relates<br />

it to the holiness of the Shabbat, the 7th day.<br />

So, when you look at the magen david, each point<br />

symbolises one of the 6 directions of space, and<br />

the centre of the star is a holy palace, a<br />

place of harmony. In this image I was<br />

inspired by the artist M. C Escher.<br />

QUESTION: YOU SEEM TO BE<br />

FASCINATED BY LETTERS, CAN YOU<br />

TELL US ABOUT THIS IMAGE? (left)<br />

This is a painting of 3 key letters:<br />

the Shin ש is red, the Mem ‏,מ blue<br />

and Aleph א in yellow. (see left)<br />

The Shin, stands for fire (aish in<br />

Hebrew) and rises like red hot fire; the<br />

Mem, which stands for water (mayim<br />

in Hebrew), flows downward like water. They<br />

are opposites - the outward hissing sound of<br />

Shhh, and the inward humming of Mmmm.<br />

CONNECTION WITH ISRAEL &<br />

WORLD JEWRY<br />

א The yellow which surrounds them represents Aleph<br />

– the first Hebrew letter. It symbolises a breath of air or<br />

light (the Hebrew words for light and air are similar).<br />

Aleph stands for the One that includes the Two – just<br />

as one breath of air includes the exhale and the inhale.<br />

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These three letters are known in the Sefer Yetzirah<br />

“Book of Creation” as the Three Mother letters,<br />

and are the subject of many of my paintings.<br />

QUESTION: DO YOU TEACH<br />

MEDITATIONS BASED ON THIS?<br />

Yes, the Jewish meditations I teach are based<br />

on Kabbalah. For example I have a meditation<br />

I teach based on the letters: Shin ש is red,<br />

the Mem ‏,מ blue and Aleph ‏.א It is a breath<br />

meditation, as well as sounding the letters.<br />

My art is also like a meditative piece of art that<br />

can inspire people just by looking at it. Having the<br />

art on a wall can help people relax and focus.<br />

I’m really looking forward to visiting the<br />

<strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> community in August.<br />

See you then.<br />

ART KABBALAH AND<br />

MEDITATION SEMINAR<br />

with<br />

RABBI DR ORNA TRIGUBOFF<br />

and visiting Artist from Tzfat, Israel<br />

DAVID FRIEDMAN<br />

Kabbalist, Artist and Meditation Teacher<br />

SUNDAY 19TH AUGUST<br />

10:30am-3pm<br />

email: orna@emanuel.org.au<br />

A 10-day tour of Israel<br />

with a focus on Jewish<br />

Spirituality. We explore<br />

ancient sites, learn<br />

with the best kabbalah<br />

teachers in the world<br />

and experience authentic<br />

inspiring tikun olam<br />

projects, getting to know<br />

the people involved.<br />

KABBALAH TOUR<br />

OF ISRAEL<br />

OCTOBER 2019<br />

LED BY RABBI DR.<br />

ORNA TRIGUBOFF<br />

AND ISRAELI<br />

MUSICIANS,<br />

TEACHERS AND<br />

ARTISTS.<br />

For more information,<br />

please email<br />

orna@emanuel.org.au<br />

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{CELEBR8}<br />

Photos from the Opening of our new Sanctuary<br />

COMMUNITY<br />

Photos by Bob Trijbetz<br />

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{BEHIND THE PINK TRIANGLE}<br />

Yoav Yaron<br />

Why Gay history matters when remembering the Holocaust<br />

The future of Holocaust<br />

remembrance has become a growing<br />

concern for Jewish communities<br />

worldwide. As a third-generation<br />

descendant of Holocaust survivors,<br />

I almost consider it my privilege to<br />

be able to see and listen to survivors’<br />

memories and stories from early<br />

childhood through to adulthood<br />

– many of which I can still vividly<br />

recall. These living memories, often<br />

of members of the Kibbutz I grew<br />

up in, were the building blocks<br />

of my Holocaust education.<br />

They inspired an enduring interest<br />

not just for me, but for many others.<br />

Projects like 'Zikaron BaSalon', draw<br />

dozens of listeners to thousands of<br />

Holocaust commemorations services<br />

every year. It seeks to strengthen<br />

one's personal connection to the<br />

Holocaust, through survivors'<br />

stories and testimonies. Yet with<br />

regards to future generations,<br />

there remains a pressing question:<br />

How can we keep the memory<br />

alive without a living memory?<br />

An ongoing debate in the Israeli<br />

Holocaust Education discourse deals<br />

with the question of 'the lesson(s)<br />

learned'. On one hand, many choose<br />

to stress the significance of Israel as<br />

a Jewish homeland, and the anti-<br />

Semitism that is still raging in many<br />

countries. Other educators emphasise<br />

what they see as the humanistic<br />

lessons that stem from the Holocaust,<br />

warning against xenophobia, racism,<br />

and other forms of oppression.<br />

In the age of identity politics and<br />

individual expressionism, I believe<br />

future generations will find the latter<br />

far more relatable and potent. Other<br />

stories by those who were subject to<br />

persecution may also be instructive.<br />

After all, while the mass-murder<br />

of the Jewish people was the most<br />

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disastrous, the Nazis also murdered<br />

and persecuted a large number of<br />

other 'Untermenschen' (‘under’,<br />

or in other words ‘inferior’,<br />

people) which they considered<br />

undesirable under their racial<br />

policy. The disabled, for instance,<br />

were amongst the first victims to<br />

be killed in gas chambers as early as<br />

1939. Non-Aryans who interfered<br />

with the concept of the German<br />

'Living Space' were exterminated<br />

by Nazi troops, and Europeans of<br />

African descent were persecuted<br />

for contaminating the race.<br />

Among these stories, the Gay<br />

and Lesbian story of persecution<br />

has won less attention in research<br />

and Holocaust-related discourses.<br />

Homophobia it seems, persisted<br />

after the war, and it was not until<br />

the 1980's that this story was<br />

acknowledged. In fact, a German<br />

apology, for those who consider<br />

these apologies a matter of moral<br />

importance, was only made in 2002.<br />

It wasn't until recent decades that<br />

characters such as Freddy Hirsch, a<br />

Jewish educator, 'reclaimed' his sexual<br />

identity, even though it was known<br />

to many in both Theresienstadt<br />

and Birkenau, where he helped<br />

thousands of Jewish children.<br />

His sexuality, in fact, may be the<br />

reason that he was overlooked from<br />

collective commemorations. Or the<br />

incredible love affair between Nazi<br />

commander Anneliese Kohlmann<br />

and the Czech-Jewish prisoner Lotte<br />

Rosner. This story was adapted into<br />

the play 'Under the Skin' by the<br />

Israeli playwright Yonatan Calderon,<br />

and premièred in London's Old<br />

Red Lion Theatre in <strong>2018</strong>. Beyond<br />

these figures, which have become<br />

internationally acclaimed in today's<br />

research, there must be thousands<br />

Mug shot of homosexual Auschwitz prisoner: August Pfeiffer, servant, born Aug. 8, 1895,<br />

in Weferlingen, arrived to Auschwitz Nov. 1, 1941, and died there Dec. 28, 1941.<br />

of other stories that have never,<br />

and perhaps, could never be told.<br />

For the inmates of the Nazi<br />

concentration camps, it may not have<br />

mattered what colour triangle they<br />

wore on their badge. However, it<br />

apparently was common knowledge<br />

that homosexuals suffered an unusual<br />

degree of cruelty by their captors,<br />

and were subjected to even more<br />

abuse than their fellow inmates. This<br />

category of prisoners, relatively small<br />

in number (estimated to be around<br />

15,000 gay men were imprisoned in<br />

camps), represents only a small, most<br />

unfortunate fraction of a thriving gay


and lesbian community. These people<br />

were forced to go underground,<br />

flee and often marry a partner of<br />

the other sex, to avoid being sent to<br />

the concentration camps. From an<br />

historical perspective, the incitement<br />

of Nazi anti-gay propaganda and<br />

acts of violence, such as the purging<br />

of gay clubs, and the breaking<br />

into the Institute of Sex Research,<br />

that ended in the public burning<br />

of its libraries, paved the way for<br />

Nazi brutality which was later<br />

turned against the Jewish people.<br />

These belatedly-told Holocaust<br />

stories seem to be instructive even<br />

to our own generations, let alone<br />

generations to come. Together with<br />

histories of other groups persecuted<br />

by the Nazis, we begin to see the<br />

political developments and increase<br />

in brutality as it gradually and<br />

systematically grew; it became the<br />

well-organized and brutal violence<br />

carried out against the Jews on all<br />

fronts of Europe. On the other<br />

hand, in these histories there lies a<br />

stark reminder for us and for future<br />

generations; i.e. in no version of<br />

Martin Niemöller's famous poem<br />

'First they came for...' (arguably<br />

the most used, however ill-read, by<br />

Holocaust educators) do the Jews<br />

appear to be the first to be called for.<br />

This is by no means a call to abandon<br />

the Jewish Holocaust history, and<br />

its particularity. It is an invitation<br />

to revisit the deadliest catastrophe<br />

in our people's history through<br />

its large totalitarian context, and<br />

to learn and teach some of the<br />

inevitable human lessons therein.<br />

These completing histories of<br />

persecution and suffering should<br />

not be detached from our own.<br />

Yoav Yaron is the NSW<br />

Shaliach Australasian Union<br />

of Jewish Students | AUJS<br />

{THE WORLD CONGRESS OF LGBT<br />

JEWS IN SYDNEY}<br />

March 21-24, 2019<br />

Dayenu, Sydney’s Jewish LGBT+ Group is proud to<br />

announce they were successful in securing the bid for the<br />

2019 Conference in Sydney in March next year.<br />

The World Congress held its last<br />

conference in Rome, and previously<br />

in Paris as well as many destinations<br />

around the globe. Since Sydney is<br />

further away for most delegates, it<br />

was challenging to inspire them to<br />

come Downunder, but Dayenu is<br />

very excited to step up to the work at<br />

hand.<br />

<strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> has already<br />

shown considerable support for<br />

staging the Conference, which will<br />

be able to utilise the state-of-theart<br />

technology built into the new<br />

<strong>Synagogue</strong>, where many of the<br />

activities will take place.<br />

The Congress is keen to live-stream<br />

many aspects of the Conference, for<br />

which the new shule is ideally suited.<br />

It would be wonderful if there<br />

were some members of <strong>Emanuel</strong><br />

<strong>Synagogue</strong>, who would be willing<br />

to host one or two delegates in their<br />

home, over that weekend. Contact<br />

Kim Gotlieb on kim@kimgotlieb.<br />

com for further details.<br />

Dayenu President and World<br />

Congress Co-ordinator, Kim<br />

Gotlieb said, “We are so excited to<br />

be hosting this event. There is so<br />

much emerging from the broader<br />

Jewish community in support of the<br />

LGBT+ community. Our aim is to<br />

maximise the interface both within<br />

the Jewish sphere and in relationship<br />

Delegates address the previous World Congress in Rome<br />

SUSTAINING THE ENVIRONMENT<br />

& HEALING THE WORLD<br />

with the generalised queer<br />

community.”<br />

Beyond the Conference<br />

itself, there will be a range of<br />

opportunities for everyone to engage<br />

in this momentous happening.<br />

Watch for details or email Kim<br />

(kim@kimgotlieb.com) to show your<br />

support or to get involved.<br />

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{MITZVAH VS GOOD DEED}<br />

By Daniel Samowitz<br />

A father came up to me recently and said “Daniel I don’t think my son is learning<br />

in Bar mitzvah class.” I smiled at him and said “Yeah, I’ve heard that before!”<br />

A lot of educational institutions<br />

value knowing the facts, value<br />

having the right answer, place<br />

the highest emphasis on knowing<br />

what happened, whereas we<br />

want the students to seek to<br />

understand. At <strong>Emanuel</strong> we value<br />

the education of the character, and<br />

the nurturing of a curious spirit”.<br />

I further explained that in our<br />

programs we delve into the Jewish<br />

narrative and my educational priority<br />

is for our students to grow a love for<br />

learning, to grow a love for turning<br />

up, to increase their excitement<br />

for class, and ultimately to grow<br />

a love for community. I want this<br />

educational hub on Ocean Street to<br />

be a second home and a safe space.<br />

A space they can feel unique and<br />

connected to previous generations.<br />

thing we do? And then we played<br />

this game in class and it was so fun<br />

and in the game I had to act out<br />

a mitzvah and then... and then...<br />

and the story went on and on.<br />

“And then I disagreed so I ran to<br />

Rabbi Kaiserbluth and he said what<br />

a mitzvah is and I was so sure the<br />

week before Rabbi Kamins said<br />

something different, so Samo (our<br />

teacher) stopped the class and let<br />

the class run up to Rabbi Kamins’<br />

At <strong>Emanuel</strong>, our education is<br />

about connecting our students to<br />

their Jewish story, and encouraging<br />

a generation that have a million<br />

things to do on a weekday and<br />

a million channels and apps to<br />

engage with, to WANT to come<br />

to synagogue. Finding meaningful<br />

and powerful ways for them to<br />

choose to engage with a dilemma<br />

and create and express their opinion<br />

about something the Jewish people<br />

The father looked at me confused<br />

and with many more questions. I<br />

asked him next time he sees his son<br />

to ask him the difference between<br />

a good deed and a Mitzvah. This<br />

was a concept with which we had<br />

dealt the day before in class. He<br />

asked “why”? I said “don’t focus on<br />

your son’s answer, which will be<br />

correct, but look into your sons’<br />

face and see the excitement, see<br />

the joyful engagement shine out<br />

when he gives you his answer.<br />

The father called me the next<br />

day. “What have you done to my<br />

son?” he exclaimed. “I couldn’t get<br />

him to stop talking … He said:<br />

“It’s so annoying how when people<br />

say you’re doing a mitzvah they<br />

are saying the wrong thing and at<br />

first I thought the wrong thing too<br />

because I thought it was just a nice<br />

22<br />

Bnei Mitzvah students take a close look at a torah<br />

desk in the middle of class to ask<br />

him the definition of a mitzvah….”<br />

This was just one Thursday<br />

afternoon of many: a whole cohort<br />

of students running around the<br />

synagogue campus, playing,<br />

laughing, disagreeing with the<br />

Rabbis and the teachers, in their<br />

safe space, their second home<br />

and not for a second did any of<br />

them think they were learning.<br />

have been struggling with for<br />

generations. Connecting hearts<br />

and minds with their Jewishness.<br />

In my parents’ generation B’nei<br />

mitzvah class was sitting in the<br />

chair and learning the aleph bet<br />

for hours. Some of them loved it<br />

some of them did not. One thing<br />

for sure is they could remember the<br />

aleph bet. With this new tech savy,<br />

hyperactive, constantly questioning<br />

generation, we need to educate


differently. That is why we engage<br />

their Jewish character, we ignite their<br />

internal desire, a desire for more,<br />

to understand, to connect to his or<br />

her community, his or her story.<br />

The father I spoke to saw that his<br />

son’s attitude towards what it means<br />

to be Jewish had changed by virtue<br />

of the journey his son had been on<br />

in the B’nei mitzvah course. His son<br />

had dealt with his own ideas of what<br />

it means to be Jewish in <strong>2018</strong> and<br />

what his answers were going to be.<br />

Our students walk out of our B’nei<br />

mitzvah course understanding<br />

community, building a life of<br />

meaning and how being Jewish<br />

is a way to enhance and grow<br />

these ideals. I am not interested in<br />

trying to attract the students by<br />

entertaining them. Having a Bar<br />

and/or Bat mitzvah or coming to<br />

Kef kids (<strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>'s<br />

Hebrew School) is not an attractive<br />

extra mural activity in competition<br />

with gymnastics and swimming. I<br />

want our students to have the right<br />

answers and to be able to recite the<br />

prayers but I really want to instill in<br />

them a questioning, a love of learning<br />

and a thirst for more, a wanting<br />

to be a part of something bigger<br />

than themselves. I want them to<br />

feel responsible for their<br />

community and I want<br />

them to understand being<br />

Jewish is not a burden -<br />

“something I have to do”<br />

- but an aspect of who<br />

they are and something<br />

they need more tools<br />

to explore. There is no<br />

better way than coming<br />

to our educational<br />

programs and gaining the tools to<br />

build their own authentic Jewish<br />

mission statement one that envisions<br />

and builds an authentic personal<br />

and collective Jewish future.<br />

TRANSFORMATIVE LEARNING<br />

{MAZAL TOV RUTH!}<br />

Special Mazal Tov to Ruth Rack,<br />

our wonderful, long-standing<br />

member of <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>,<br />

champion of choral music and<br />

stalwart of the <strong>Emanuel</strong> choir,<br />

who celebrated her 90th birthday<br />

this year on the 3rd April.<br />

By pure serendipity Ruth’s<br />

birthday coincides with other<br />

personal anniversaries including<br />

her 52-year association with the<br />

<strong>Emanuel</strong> choir. In addition,<br />

her birthday celebration falls in<br />

line with the 80th Anniversary<br />

of the founding of her beloved<br />

<strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>, at which<br />

she celebrated the opening of<br />

Stage 1 of the long-awaited<br />

redevelopment of the new<br />

<strong>Synagogue</strong> campus.<br />

Ruth’s dedication to the <strong>Emanuel</strong><br />

community through her Jewish<br />

practice continues on many<br />

levels including her ongoing<br />

support of our musicians and<br />

singers. Her indefatigable energy<br />

is currently being channelled<br />

into creating an archive of<br />

the history of the <strong>Synagogue</strong><br />

choir and its important<br />

Online<br />

Kabbalah<br />

Text Study & Meditation<br />

Tuesday evenings in August 8:00pm<br />

We will explore the 13th Century Kabbalah of Rabbi<br />

Avraham Abulafia, his ideas about language, sound,<br />

healing, developing focus and connection to self.<br />

For info email: orna@emanuel.org.au<br />

role in the cantorial and musical<br />

life of the community.<br />

Her greatest pride is her family<br />

including her six grandchildren<br />

and three great-grandchildren.<br />

She is a long-standing committee<br />

member of the Child Holocaust<br />

Survivors Association and<br />

member of the Sydney Jewish<br />

Museum. In 2000 Ruth wrote<br />

and published an account of her<br />

experiences. The Book of Ruth<br />

is now entering its 2nd edition.<br />

To all who know Ruth well will<br />

testify to her zest for life, her<br />

positivity, and her capacity for<br />

friendships. She continues to<br />

be an inspiration to so many,<br />

and a blessing to us all.<br />

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{REMEMBER THIS}<br />

Nicole Waldner<br />

I can’t write music, so I’ve always composed my songs by whistling. I play piano with<br />

one hand only, the left one, ‘cause with my right hand I keep time. I conduct myself.<br />

As for my singing, my boss puts it this<br />

way, “Little Seress, you’ve got a voice,<br />

you just can’t sing.” They call me Little<br />

Seress because when I sit down behind<br />

the piano I pretty much disappear<br />

behind it. I’ve been making music for<br />

43 years. I include the four years in<br />

forced labour camp and the eight years<br />

the Communists banned me from<br />

playing. I include them because even<br />

then I had all of my songs inside me.<br />

The very first time I sat down behind a<br />

piano I knew I was home. This is what<br />

I wanted. What amazes me most after<br />

all these years - even now in 1966 when<br />

my music’s not exactly the fashion any<br />

more - is that I managed to pull it off.<br />

People still remember Gloomy Sunday.<br />

That was my song. Billie Holiday<br />

had a big hit with it in 1941. Louis<br />

Armstrong sang it. Bing Crosby,<br />

Frank Sinatra, Josephine Baker, Sarah<br />

Vaughn, Ray Charles. They sang it<br />

all over Europe too. They recorded it<br />

in China and Japan, even somewhere<br />

in Africa. 28 languages it’s been<br />

translated into, at least. People came<br />

from all over the world to hear me<br />

play. Toscanini and Visconti from Italy,<br />

Otto Klemperer from Berlin. Louis<br />

Armstrong! Even Spencer Tracy and<br />

John Steinbeck came from Hollywood.<br />

All this because of one song. All this<br />

from the old ghetto of Budapest.<br />

I think what made Gloomy Sunday such<br />

a big hit was the times we were living in.<br />

I wrote it in 1933. The Nazis had just<br />

come to power. We were all recovering<br />

from one world war and already we<br />

could smell another one coming. The<br />

chords at the start, they really set the<br />

tone. I work those high octave keys<br />

for emotion. As for the words, I didn’t<br />

write them. I mean I did, originally, but<br />

mine were considered too bleak. You<br />

can’t tell people, “Love is dead”. You<br />

can’t say, “The world has ended”. You<br />

can’t take away people’s hope. It isn’t<br />

right. Maybe the doctors can, or the<br />

Nazis, but not the musicians, not the<br />

poets. People come to us for hope, for<br />

relief. So we went with Jávor’s lyrics. I<br />

wouldn’t go so far as to call his version<br />

optimistic, it was still my song after all,<br />

but he made it more personal. People<br />

could relate to it because everyone’s had<br />

a broken heart before, and everyone<br />

loves a love song, ‘cause even when<br />

it’s love gone wrong, it’s still love.<br />

No one in Hungary has ever had an<br />

international hit like me. Not Feri Lehár<br />

and not Feri Liszt either. They invited<br />

me to Paris and New York. I didn’t<br />

go. Even before the war I wasn’t big<br />

on traveling, but after the war I didn’t<br />

want to go anywhere. I just wanted<br />

my piano, my audience. It’s not just<br />

all the unknowns when you travel, it’s<br />

the trains and aeroplanes which scare<br />

the hell outta me. Boats are the pits.<br />

After I’ve been on one of those Danube<br />

barges my bed rocks for days. I don’t<br />

even like buses or trams, that kind of<br />

bone shake I can do without. I never<br />

take the metro because the thought<br />

of being underground sends me into<br />

a spin. I rarely even go to Buda. This<br />

is where I wrote my songs, so this is<br />

home. Kispipa is only two blocks away.<br />

The food is best not spoken about and<br />

they don’t clean the place too often,<br />

but every night that’s where I play.<br />

The royalties never quite panned out.<br />

Maybe I should have gone to New<br />

York? But to hell with the money,<br />

everyone’s poor here. What really gets<br />

me though is that I’m going to be<br />

defined by that song, and its ugly wake<br />

too. When it started getting attention<br />

in the ‘30s and ‘40s there were all<br />

these stories in the papers about people<br />

who committed suicide clutching the<br />

score to Gloomy, supposedly. Then the<br />

Americans dubbed it “The Hungarian<br />

Suicide Song”. Personally, I blame Ray<br />

Ventura. He was the one that started<br />

this whole business. They say that in<br />

Paris, in ’36, every night before he<br />

played my song, he’d read out all these<br />

lies to the audience. How many people<br />

died in Reykjavik when they heard my<br />

song and how many in Rome. Then,<br />

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as if that wasn’t enough, after the first<br />

verse, the drummer would get up and<br />

shoot himself in the head with a starter<br />

pistol! Talk about a bunch of posers!<br />

The thing is no one can control what<br />

happens to their songs. Music travels,<br />

and don’t I know it, but rumours, once<br />

they get started, they travel more.<br />

I used to print up song lists and hand<br />

them out to the audience so that<br />

they’d know I’d written other songs<br />

too, but they always wanted Gloomy<br />

Sunday. I guess that without meaning<br />

to or wanting to it seems I captured<br />

what they call the spirit of the times.<br />

Gloom. Doom. Lost love. Love I don’t<br />

mind, even lost love I don’t mind. But<br />

that kind of love, the kind that kills<br />

you and you kill yourself for, I don’t<br />

want to be remembered for that.<br />

The other night someone in the<br />

audience asked me what my favourite<br />

song is and I said, Let’s Love Each<br />

Other Peeps. Hands down. That was<br />

a big hit for me too. I wrote it the<br />

year before Gloomy, in 1932, and<br />

that year the whole country sang it.<br />

Let’s love each other peeps,<br />

the heart is the greatest treasure.<br />

In all the wide world,<br />

Love is the grandest pleasure.<br />

The melody is sweet as a good liqueur,<br />

the words too, most of them anyway.<br />

It’s the sense of urgency that makes it<br />

so timeless. Let’s love each<br />

other right now, ‘cause it’s<br />

all so damn fleeting. I’ve<br />

started opening and closing<br />

every set with Let’s Love<br />

Each Other Peeps. I like to<br />

sing it on my way to work<br />

and on my way back home.<br />

I whisper it to myself like a<br />

prayer, as if it mattered. As<br />

if the right song really could<br />

change something. Remember this.<br />

If you would like to read more<br />

of Nicole’s work please visit<br />

www.nicolewaldner.com<br />

TRANSFORMATIVE LEARNING<br />

INTRODUCING GLOBAL CITIZEN<br />

At <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>, we have the vision to empower young people to<br />

change the world through entrepreneurial learning and thinking.<br />

This empowerment starts with our B'nei<br />

Mitzvah program which encompasses<br />

a social justice element that forms an<br />

important part of the curriculum.<br />

However, post-B'nei Mitzvah how do<br />

we inspire young people to become<br />

agencies of change or to care about<br />

their social impact on the world?<br />

And there the excitement begins….<br />

inspired by a conversation with our<br />

CEO Suzanna Helia about<br />

the positive reaction of<br />

young Australians at a recent<br />

screening of the Global<br />

Citizen documentary Louder<br />

Together, hatched the idea of<br />

Global Citizen at <strong>Emanuel</strong>.<br />

This involves a new<br />

programme for schoolaged<br />

youth to allow them to<br />

think critically and creatively<br />

about the different ways<br />

they could change the world<br />

through a social purpose<br />

lens. The programme aims<br />

to inspire them to see how they can<br />

develop ideas or use their advocacy<br />

to end the world's most inhumane<br />

problems. It empowers our youth<br />

to take action and see themselves<br />

as a Global Citizen. Young people<br />

and their families who are interested<br />

in participating in the program are<br />

encouraged to attend an information<br />

evening and pre-screening of the<br />

Global Citizen documentary 'Louder<br />

Together' narrated by Hugh Jackman<br />

that will be announced soon.<br />

I am so excited to be sharing with you<br />

this fantastic launch and look forward<br />

to meeting your families and inspiring<br />

young minds at the event.<br />

Marina Capponi<br />

marina@emanuel.org.au<br />

25


{FIGHTING FOR LIFE}<br />

Donna Jacobs-Sife<br />

Years ago, doctors opened my father’s chest and breast bone,<br />

reached into his body and held his heart in their hands.<br />

There it lay beating before them,<br />

as they gazed upon the ungazable.<br />

They cut his heart open and removed<br />

the valve that was blocking his flow<br />

of blood, and replaced it with the<br />

valve of a pig. We made many jokes<br />

about his unkosher heart in the build<br />

up before the Big Day.<br />

We went to see him, having<br />

prepared ourselves for what<br />

we would see. "There will be<br />

lots of tubes" we told each<br />

other, "and he will be very<br />

pale". But nothing quite<br />

prepares you for the sight<br />

of your beloved in a state<br />

of coma, on life support.<br />

He looked so vulnerable,<br />

so unfamiliar. We held his<br />

hand, and whispered that<br />

we loved him in his ear,<br />

and left. We walked across<br />

the park to the car silently,<br />

holding each other’s hands<br />

tightly, four abreast, marching against<br />

the cold wind, an army - linked by<br />

common blood and full hearts.<br />

Across the road, I noticed that<br />

my car door was open. "Look," I<br />

said to my sister, "mum must have<br />

forgotten to close the door." But as<br />

my eyes began to focus I thought I<br />

saw someone sitting in the passenger<br />

seat. Disengaging from the others<br />

I ran across the road, and saw that<br />

indeed, a man was sitting in my car.<br />

"Hey!" I shouted, crisp and sharp.<br />

He jumped out, like a wild foraging<br />

animal, disturbed by the sudden<br />

appearance of man. "Sorry, sorry,<br />

sorry" he babbled. "I was so desperate.<br />

Here," he said, taking my hand, "take<br />

it back". Two five-cent pieces and a<br />

ten-cent piece rolled into my hand.<br />

He was quite beautiful really, my<br />

age, with a torn thin checked shirt<br />

and tight black jeans. His immediate<br />

contrition touched me. Instinctively<br />

my fingers tightened on his and I<br />

felt the trembling and knew that<br />

it was more than cold, it was also<br />

the disease of withdrawal. "Its ok,"<br />

I said to him, "I understand." I<br />

understood that he was cold and in<br />

pain. I understood that he was so<br />

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sorry that life had brought him to<br />

this moment. His eyes, hooded with<br />

shame, held mine. So vulnerable, so<br />

familiar. For a moment, the world<br />

stopped spinning and all that existed<br />

were two pairs of human eyes holding<br />

each other. Gazing upon what is so<br />

often ungazable, in these<br />

cold streets of Sydney. For<br />

a moment he let me hold<br />

his heart in my hands, and I<br />

knew that nothing separated<br />

us. His pain was mine. His<br />

shame was mine. My fingers<br />

loosened their soft grip<br />

and as he slipped away, we<br />

smiled. Turning back, rather<br />

tenderly, almost fatherly he<br />

said "lock your car in future."<br />

That night they gave my<br />

father morphine to numb the<br />

pain. The man from the street<br />

was probably was in some<br />

seedy place, administering<br />

to himself to numb his own pain.<br />

My father was fighting to regain life,<br />

to mend his heart; not so different<br />

from that man. Both were soldiers on<br />

the front line. The doctors removed<br />

the blockage in my father’s heart,<br />

and somehow I can’t help but feel<br />

that this man and I did something<br />

similar for each other. Something<br />

that dwells in the mystery of a<br />

moment, when two people allow<br />

themselves to be seen by the other.<br />

As I drove away, I saw that man<br />

standing at the lights. I noticed he was<br />

standing tall with his head up against<br />

the lightpole, looking at the stars.<br />

I knew how he felt, my heart was<br />

hopeful too. I beeped. We waved.<br />

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{SORDID BEAUTY}<br />

Shira Sebban<br />

Garishly painted faces leered at Naomi as she scurried nervously down Jaffa’s<br />

dark, unpaved lanes. She shuddered as strange, shadowy figures darted<br />

urgently past the workshops, factories, stores and out-door cafes, where the<br />

smoke of nargilehs mingled with a heady aroma of spice and perfume.<br />

Police seemed to be on<br />

guard everywhere.<br />

Passing a police car, she noticed<br />

some prostitutes sitting in the back,<br />

mostly young girls in skimpy clothes.<br />

“They were waiting to be taken to<br />

the station and charged,” she would<br />

later note in her diary. She had<br />

known of course that prostitutes,<br />

both Jewish and Arabic, had<br />

long been plying their trade in<br />

brothels on the roads between<br />

Tel Aviv and Jaffa, but this<br />

was the first time she had been<br />

so close to the action and her<br />

discomfort was evident.<br />

“Let’s go!” she urged<br />

her companions.<br />

Reluctantly, Aliza nudged<br />

Motke, raised her eyebrows<br />

and shrugged wryly. “You’re<br />

not much of a Sabra<br />

anymore, are you?”<br />

The evening had not been<br />

meant to end this way. Aliza,<br />

fun loving and capricious as<br />

ever, had been keen to hear<br />

Aris San, a 17-year-old, short<br />

Greek singer, who had recently<br />

arrived from Athens and was<br />

already making quite a name<br />

for himself. Motke had been<br />

only too happy to oblige,<br />

driving the women to the wellknown<br />

Arianna nightclub.<br />

The sharp metallic sounds of<br />

the bouzouki wafted through the<br />

thick, sweltering May night air<br />

as they approached the Salonican<br />

Jewish-owned Arianna, the bastion<br />

of Greek popular music in Israel.<br />

Constructed on the ruins of an<br />

Arab building, it was not far from<br />

Jaffa’s old central bathhouse, which<br />

had been converted into another<br />

nightclub known as the Hamam.<br />

“The Arianna looks very ordinary<br />

from the outside,” Naomi would<br />

subsequently record, “but is situated<br />

in beautiful surroundings near the<br />

sea and close to mosques, towers and<br />

ruins of a house – charming indeed”.<br />

A few years later, by the 1960s,<br />

the Arianna would have become a<br />

favorite haunt for army officers and<br />

members of the Mapai Government,<br />

the forerunner of Israel’s Labor<br />

Party. The crowds, which would<br />

line up around the Jaffa Clock<br />

Tower to get in, included such<br />

luminaries as Chief of Staff, Major-<br />

General Moshe Dayan and his wife<br />

Ruth, who would go there to dance<br />

on a Friday or Saturday night.<br />

For Naomi, however, the spell was<br />

broken. The chaotic commotion of<br />

Jaffa was too much for her. Perhaps<br />

Aliza was right… she had<br />

become too Australian.<br />

At any rate, she preferred<br />

Jaffa by day. Hadn’t she and<br />

her cousin Miriam battled<br />

through the bustling maze<br />

of winding, dirty alleys just<br />

over a month ago to visit<br />

the home of the late War of<br />

Independence hero Yitzhak<br />

Sadeh? She recalled stopping<br />

at the end of the street<br />

now known<br />

as Zichron<br />

Kedoshim to see<br />

the house that<br />

had belonged<br />

to the first<br />

commander of<br />

the Palmach, the<br />

elite strike force<br />

of the pre-state<br />

underground<br />

Jewish army,<br />

the Haganah.<br />

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Perched near cliffs, with<br />

panoramic views, it had<br />

been easy to picture the<br />

charismatic Major-Generalturned<br />

writer, nicknamed HaZaken<br />

(The Old Man) while still only in<br />

his fifties, hosting his disciples and<br />

fellow warriors, Yigal Allon and<br />

Yitzhak Rabin, in the enormous,<br />

blossoming garden, with stairs<br />

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leading down to the sea. Naomi<br />

could even visualize the goat that<br />

Sadeh had kept tethered to a tree in<br />

defiance of then new Israeli laws.<br />

His room was just as he had left it in<br />

1952 – a modest bed and wooden<br />

desk, books and photographs,<br />

many of him in action against<br />

the Egyptians, a collection of<br />

military maps and guns, swords<br />

and daggers amassed during his<br />

military exploits – all as you would<br />

expect of one of the founders<br />

of the Israel Defense Forces.<br />

That had been a wonderful<br />

afternoon, Naomi thought,<br />

remembering how they had<br />

earlier visited Tamar, lingering<br />

over tea and luxuriating in<br />

the stunning surrounds.<br />

Tamar had been most hospitable,<br />

and the large garden around her<br />

Arab limestone villa overlooking the<br />

azure sea far below was exquisite,<br />

the hilly lawn carpeted with the<br />

purple and yellow wildflowers so<br />

typical of the Mediterranean coast.<br />

Shaded by pine trees and cooled<br />

by sea breezes, the stone slabs and<br />

fountains taken, as Naomi noted,<br />

“from the recent excavations<br />

in Ashkelon”, had glistened in<br />

the sunny Friday stillness.<br />

“A most ideal place to live,” she<br />

would later pronounce. Indeed,<br />

situated south of Old Jaffa, Ajami<br />

– the neighborhood where Tamar<br />

resided – had been founded as<br />

a small, wealthy, upper middleclass<br />

residential settlement by<br />

Maronite Christians in the late<br />

19th century under Ottoman rule.<br />

Since the establishment of the Israeli<br />

State, however, the roughly 4000<br />

Arabs who had remained in and<br />

around Jaffa were now concentrated<br />

in Ajami, where many buildings<br />

had been demolished. Meanwhile,<br />

Tamar’s family had been among the<br />

thousands who had settled in homes<br />

vacated by the 70,000 or so Arabs<br />

who had fled or been displaced.<br />

Ultimately, Ajami would<br />

rapidly deteriorate to become a<br />

cramped and dilapidated home<br />

to the destitute, both Jewish<br />

and Arabic … facts that Sabraturned-outsider<br />

Naomi seemed<br />

blissfully unaware of during her<br />

visit on that day in 1957.<br />

This story is from ‘Unlocking the<br />

Past: Stories from My Mother’s<br />

Diary’ – a new book by Shira<br />

Sebban. It is available on Amazon<br />

as an e-book or as a paperback<br />

from the publisher’s online<br />

Australian store: mazopub.com<br />

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{OUR NEW BOARD MEMBERS}<br />

At the Annual General Meeting of <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> on May 22,<br />

we welcomed two new Board Members, Michael Hukic and Casey Guth.<br />

MICHAEL HUKIC<br />

Michael has a background in<br />

banking, and he is currently<br />

completing an MBA at the<br />

University of New South Wales.<br />

He hopes his business skills, and<br />

his passion for our dynamic and<br />

diverse community, allow him<br />

to make a valuable contribution<br />

to our <strong>Synagogue</strong>. Michael is<br />

passionate about learning and<br />

currently working on completing<br />

his MBA through UNSW AGSM<br />

Business School. Prior to this<br />

Michael has completed his studies<br />

in commerce and Applied Finance.<br />

Professionally Michael has been<br />

in banking and finance for close<br />

to 15 years helping number<br />

of corporate and not for profit<br />

organisations focusing on<br />

creating long term relationship.<br />

Passionate about meeting and<br />

getting to know different people<br />

from different walks of life.<br />

Outside of work and studying,<br />

Michael loves to spend quality time<br />

with family, friends and his much<br />

loved dog Archie (the boxer).<br />

Michael is strong advocate for<br />

diversity (in full meaning) and<br />

he is passionate about helping<br />

all our members including the<br />

members of GLBTIQ +, members<br />

with disability and refugees.<br />

You will see Michael at most Shabbat<br />

Live nights and major events at the<br />

<strong>Synagogue</strong>. Please don't hesitate to<br />

say hello as Michael looks forward<br />

to meet you and hear all your<br />

comments and feedback. Michael<br />

is particularly looking forward to<br />

being involved in the upcoming<br />

World Congress of LGBT Jews to<br />

be held in Sydney early next year.<br />

CASEY GUTH<br />

Casey Guth is an enthusiastic,<br />

diligent and high-achieving Media<br />

Sales Manager who has spent the<br />

last ten years at Fairfax Media and<br />

News Corp Australia. She hopes<br />

to utilize her communications,<br />

interpersonal and relationship<br />

management skills on the Board of<br />

Directors at <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>.<br />

Volunteer work is close to her<br />

heart and a key focus area for her<br />

work on the board. She was on<br />

The Sydney Children’s Hospital<br />

events Committee for four years,<br />

and participates in the Montefiore<br />

Nursing Home volunteer program.<br />

In early <strong>2018</strong>, Casey spent one<br />

month in Israel volunteering<br />

at hospitals and nursing homes<br />

throughout the country.<br />

Excerpts from Casey’s<br />

speech at Recent AGM<br />

‘I really want to partner in working<br />

towards the creation of a secure<br />

financial and spiritual future for<br />

<strong>Emanuel</strong> – for generations to<br />

come. As a Board Member of the<br />

<strong>Synagogue</strong>, I will set an example<br />

for fellow congregants through<br />

participation in education<br />

and cultural programs<br />

as well as Shabbat<br />

and holiday worship<br />

services. Serving as a<br />

role model for our community<br />

is an opportunity I will relish’<br />

‘I hope to create ways and means<br />

by which my congregation can<br />

adopt the great principles and<br />

ideals of our people in order to<br />

become a congregation of vision,<br />

one that truly represents a centre<br />

of Jewish Life, encompassing<br />

our values: integrity, leadership,<br />

inclusive respect and growth.<br />

COMMUNITY<br />

‘I see this as a marvellous opportunity<br />

to develop the programmatic and<br />

spiritual direction of <strong>Emanuel</strong>;<br />

young adult engagement; the<br />

strategic plan and policy’<br />

‘I have no doubt that my service on<br />

the Board will be a meaningful one as<br />

<strong>Emanuel</strong> has been such a supportive<br />

environment for me. I can only hope<br />

to give back as much as the team and<br />

community have given to me’.<br />

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The UPJ Biennial is all about focusing on the<br />

“progress” in Progressive Judaism. We’ll be asking<br />

how we can keep progressing with the times, while<br />

maintaining a grip on the traditional values that<br />

have always undergirded our movement and given it<br />

authenticity.<br />

Another key word is “transformation”: How can we transform our movement from being the most<br />

inspirational and creative movement in Judaism in the 20th century to becoming the most visionary and<br />

responsive Jewish movement for the 21st century?<br />

To help us progress and transform in ways that are important to us, all the while expressing the values<br />

which are the beating heart of our movement, we are bringing to our region one of the most dynamic<br />

and insightful Jewish scholars of our age, a world-renowned figure, Rabbi Dr Lawrence A. Hoffman from<br />

the Hebrew Union College in New York.<br />

Larry Hoffman has revolutionised Jewish thinking in two areas: worship and liturgy, what he calls “the art<br />

of public prayer”; and synagogue transformation, creating synagogues that are relevant and meaningful<br />

for the 21st century. In addition, he has written a unique spiritual travel guide for Israel, which can<br />

enable us in the UPJ to redefine our relationship to the land, people and state of Israel.<br />

We’ll be hearing from Rabbi Hoffman on his analyses of where we’ve been and where we hope to go in<br />

terms of public worship, synagogue life and Israel consciousness, discussing their relevance to our own<br />

congregations and regions, as well as listen to expert opinion on our relationship to Israel, and on Jewish<br />

demography – the Gen17 report on Jewish life in Australia and its analogues in New Zealand and Asia.<br />

Every UPJ Biennial is also notorious for the opening night cocktail party with top-notch guest speakers<br />

(watch this space!), creative and uplifting Shacharit and Shabbat services, great dinners and after-dinner<br />

entertainments, Netzer-led havdalah, opportunities for regional forums and special interest groups to<br />

meet, Saturday night “Ted Talks” (new to this Conference, a chance for you to share your thoughts from<br />

a soap-box on a subject close to your heart!), and much more. There will even be a shuk selling all sorts<br />

of Judaica from books to art works.<br />

This Conference is not all “serious work”; like all our conferences, it will be filled with fun, laughter and<br />

camaraderie as well.<br />

If you want to have a real say about the kind of progress we hope to make in Progressive Judaism over<br />

the years to come, then we look forward to seeing you at the Biennial Conference in November!<br />

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For further information on the Conference program, contact<br />

Rabbi Fred Morgan, Movement Rabbi for the UPJ, at<br />

fred.morgan@upj.org.au<br />

For registration and administrative matters relating to the<br />

Conference, go to www.tinyurl.com/upj-biennial-<strong>2018</strong>, or<br />

contact Jocelyn Robuck, Executive Officer of the UPJ, at<br />

jocelyn@upj.org.au


Chanukah In July<br />

Sunday July 29 from 6:00pm<br />

Light up your winter nights with Chanukah in July!<br />

Warm up the cold winter with a night of light and wonder as we celebrate Chanukah<br />

in July.<br />

Join us for a warming meal with the traditional Chanukah fare, music and a journey<br />

through the 8 decades of our synagogue as we light 8 candles and tell 8 stories.<br />

Bookings now open at tinyurl.com/julymenorah<br />

Plus61J together with <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> present<br />

Israel, Jews & the Middle East<br />

through film<br />

Join us each month for a fascinating festival of film followed by engaging discussion<br />

12th September<br />

Walk on Water (2005, 104 minutes)<br />

The Sabra and the Shoah – The end of the dream?<br />

Eyal is an agent in Mossad, the Israeli security service and the agency decides that he needs to take<br />

on a less challenging assignment: to find an aging Nazi war criminal and get him "before God does".<br />

10th October<br />

Immigration from Arab countries<br />

Farewell Baghdad / The Dove Flyer (2013, 105 minutes)<br />

An Israeli film takes us through the story of a 16-year-old Jewish boy, and depicts the story<br />

of the last days of the Baghdad Jewish community of the 1950s, and on the eve of the<br />

Aliyah of almost all of that community to Israel in Operation Ezra and Nehemiah.<br />

14th November The Palestinian point of view<br />

Paradise Now (2006, 90 minutes) -Follows Palestinian childhood friends Said and Khaled who live in Nablus<br />

and have been recruited for suicide attacks in Tel Aviv. It focuses on what would be their last days together.<br />

12th December Gotta be Happy” – Yiddish humor in America<br />

The Komediant (2004, 85 Minutes)<br />

Wistful and melancholy recollections of Yiddish theatre are conveyed in this<br />

documentary, which centers on the story of the Burstein family.<br />

Book now: emanuel.org.au/films<br />

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{AROUND EMANUEL}<br />

Scenes of life around our <strong>Synagogue</strong><br />

Michelle Lowy and Aliza Waxman perform at A Night<br />

with the Music of Simon & Garfunkel and Cat Stevens<br />

Kim Cunio joins Rabbi Dr Orna Triguboff<br />

for a Renewal Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

Some of our<br />

wonderful Kef Kids<br />

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{NEW MEMBERS}<br />

Welcome new members<br />

Mayan Amiezer & Mariana Zhuryan<br />

Mr Mark Avraham<br />

Dr Laurie Berg & Ms Natalie Purcell<br />

Mr George Boski<br />

Ms Marina Capponi<br />

Ms Danielle Celermajer<br />

Mr John Cohen<br />

Mr Nathan & Mrs Rachel Cohen<br />

Mr Edward & Mrs Irit Davis<br />

Mrs Irene Deutsch and<br />

Mr Morris Symonds<br />

Mr Rod & Mrs Joanne Donoso<br />

Mrs Deborah Dorrian<br />

Frank Dorrian<br />

Ms Romy Ehrlich<br />

Mr Tim Ellis<br />

Mr Matthew & Mrs Danielle Ellison<br />

Miss Brittany Foetschl<br />

Mr David Whitcombe &<br />

Ms Alexis Goodstone<br />

Mrs Zinaida Gorelick-Weiss<br />

Dr Richard Grant<br />

Mr Rami Harel<br />

Ms Sophie Inwald<br />

Mr Peter & Mrs Susan Kadar<br />

Mr Richard & Mrs Gina Karsay<br />

Mr Erez Sharabani & Mr Nic Kat<br />

Mr Arnaldo Kretzig & Ms<br />

Kerryn McIntyre<br />

Mr Anthony & Mrs Louise Leibowitz<br />

Mr Mark Levi<br />

Mr Roman Kuperman & Dr Joy Liu<br />

Mr Herman & Mrs<br />

Frances Melkman<br />

Mr Darryl & Mrs<br />

Libby Pribut<br />

Mr Bob & Mrs Eva Rosen<br />

Mr George Ryner<br />

Mr Raymond Salomonn<br />

Mr Dennis Tavill<br />

Mr Alan & Mrs Eve Taylor<br />

Mr Adam Tsipris & Mrs<br />

Emma Solomon<br />

Zoltan & Nicole Waldner<br />

Mr Alan Weinstein<br />

Mr Simeon Weisz &<br />

Ms Adriana Granados-Fallas<br />

Mrs Karen Wolf<br />

COMMUNITY<br />

NOURISHMENT FOR MIND, BODY AND<br />

SOUL. ENJOY LUNCH, MEET FRIENDS AND<br />

DELVE INTO TORAH.<br />

Join us on the second Saturday morning of<br />

each month following Shabbat services:<br />

July 14<br />

August 11<br />

September 8<br />

October 13<br />

Lunch<br />

‘n’<br />

Learn<br />

Rabbi Rafi Kaiserblueth<br />

Rabbi Jeffrey Kamins<br />

Rev Sam Zwarenstein<br />

George Mordecai<br />

{BEREAVEMENT<br />

SUPPORT<br />

GROUP}<br />

Experience has shown that<br />

bereavement support can provide<br />

people with appropriate care in their<br />

time of need. Jacky Gerald, who<br />

has experience in this field, will be<br />

facilitating a number of one-hour<br />

group sessions for those seeking<br />

help in dealing with bereavement.<br />

As these sessions will be held off-site (in<br />

the CBD), registration will be required.<br />

To register, email info@emanuel.org.au,<br />

and we will send you details (including<br />

address and times) of the sessions.<br />

Please Note: This will be a closed<br />

group for up to six individuals to<br />

attend each of the three sessions. We<br />

shall offer another group should more<br />

than this number wish to attend.<br />

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{MAZAL TOV}<br />

Read about some of our members who have recently become Bar/Bat Mitzvah.<br />

AIDEN MERTEN<br />

School: <strong>Emanuel</strong> School<br />

Hobbies: Reading and<br />

playing the piano<br />

Likes: Food, reading, music,<br />

being with friends<br />

Dislikes: Vegetables, boring stuff.<br />

Pets: A dog called Nutmeg.<br />

About me: I love to read more than<br />

anything in the whole world. My<br />

other interests included eating and<br />

making music. I am in multiple<br />

bands and choirs at school and love<br />

all types of music. My favourite<br />

subjects at school are science, maths,<br />

music and HSIE (Geography and<br />

History). I don't know what I want<br />

to do as a job in the future but I<br />

have a few ideas. I believe that it<br />

is important to do what you love<br />

but also to try help other people<br />

whenever yoI would like to try to<br />

help fix global warming. I want to<br />

be more organised and less clumsy.<br />

Tikkun Olam: I'm involved in a<br />

few social justice projects. I will<br />

be donating half of the money I<br />

receive for my bar mitzvah to the<br />

charity Books in Homes Australia<br />

which is a charity that provides<br />

books to disadvantaged children<br />

to take home, and this helps them<br />

develop reading skills needed for<br />

success in life. I am also organizing<br />

an event that I am calling the Read<br />

Against Racism Readathon. This<br />

is where I will be getting kids to<br />

read books over a month and get<br />

people to sponsor them. The kids<br />

will have to read one book about<br />

racism. All the proceeds will go to<br />

the charity Together for Humanity.<br />

My aim is to raise money and<br />

awareness against racism.<br />

What will you remember most<br />

about your Bar Mitzvah?<br />

The thing I will remember most<br />

about my Bar Mitzvah is all the<br />

practice I had to do. I<br />

will also remember my<br />

tutor Kim. We had lots of<br />

fun times together.<br />

TOBY DANON<br />

School: <strong>Emanuel</strong> School<br />

Hobbies: Tennis, playing drums,<br />

piano, drawing, cooking and reading<br />

Likes: Sushi, architecture,<br />

animals and music.<br />

About me: I really enjoy music,<br />

playing instruments and seeing<br />

live bands. On the weekends,<br />

I'm involved with Maccabi<br />

tennis. I really care about animals<br />

and support charities who look<br />

after them. I hope to be an<br />

architect when I leave school.<br />

Social Justice: I've baked biscuits<br />

for the homeless, donated to<br />

ALIZA SCHETZER<br />

School: Rose Bay<br />

Secondary College<br />

Hobbies: Photography<br />

Likes: Music, naure and travelling.<br />

Dislikes: Tomatoes.<br />

Pets: Two dogs - Ginger<br />

and Sammy<br />

About me: In school,<br />

I'm in a rock band called<br />

Hallucination. My favourite<br />

subjects are music and art.<br />

Social Justice: To give an<br />

equal amount of education<br />

around the world.<br />

What will you remember most<br />

about your Bat Mitzvah?<br />

Writing my Haftarah speech.<br />

charity and would like to volunteer<br />

more to help those in need.<br />

What will you remember most<br />

about your Bat Mitzvah? I'll always<br />

remember the values that I was<br />

taught while learning my portion.<br />

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{WEDDING MAKES HISTORY AT<br />

EMANUEL SYNAGOGUE}<br />

History was made at Sydney’s <strong>Emanuel</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> on May 2nd,<br />

with the first religious same-sex marriage held in Australia. The<br />

happy couple were Oscar Shub and Ilan Buchman.<br />

COMMUNITY<br />

The touching ceremony was performed<br />

by Senior Rabbi Jeffrey Kamins in<br />

front of 170 friends and family. In<br />

another milestone, the couple were<br />

the first to be married in the new<br />

Sanctuary. Underlining the importance<br />

the ceremony held for them, Oscar<br />

said: “Certainly the reason we chose<br />

to get married in a synagogue – and<br />

we believe it’s an appropriate message<br />

to send to the Jewish community – is<br />

that times have changed and that if<br />

people suddenly discover that they<br />

have gay children or gay grandchildren,<br />

those children or grandchildren<br />

can still lead a regular existence.”<br />

Ilan concurred: “For young people<br />

and those not out yet, hopefully by us<br />

getting married, officially with a rabbi<br />

officiating, it sends a good message.”<br />

In agreement were the 168 guests<br />

attending: family and friends who<br />

flew in from the many places where<br />

the couple had lived, including<br />

South Africa, Israel, England,<br />

Canada, Perth and Melbourne.<br />

Raucous applause erupted at the<br />

ceremony’s conclusion, when Rabbi<br />

Kamins said: “You have performed the<br />

rituals, signed the documents and said<br />

the words that make you husband and<br />

husband, in accordance with the laws<br />

of this Commonwealth of Australia.”<br />

As Oscar said after the wedding:<br />

“When he said, ‘I pronounce you<br />

“husband and husband” and the whole<br />

synagogue broke into clapping; it was<br />

just amazing – it was fantastic!”<br />

Their love story has been 47 years in the<br />

making: Oscar and Ilan met in 1971.<br />

Ilan grew up in Lvov, Poland and went<br />

to Israel when he was 18; they met at<br />

a mutual friend’s dinner party in Tel<br />

Aviv when Oscar was on his way to<br />

Europe from his home in South Africa.<br />

In addition to some of the wording<br />

being tweaked, a couple of traditions<br />

were also adapted. Usually the bride<br />

walks around the groom seven times.<br />

Instead, each groom circled the other<br />

three times and the seventh one they<br />

did together, like a figure eight.<br />

And both grooms smashed a glass<br />

simultaneously. “As you know, it is the<br />

custom that the man breaks<br />

the glass,” explained Ilan. “So<br />

for us it was really fantastic because we<br />

feel, not just in terms of our life, we<br />

like to expand the traditions; because<br />

being Jewish is not just sitting in<br />

synagogue, there’s more to it than that.”<br />

Prior to the glasses being broken,<br />

Rabbi Kamins not only referenced<br />

the Temple’s destruction, but also<br />

today’s modern reality: “There’s lots of<br />

brokenness in this world, lots of people<br />

who face tragedy and discrimination.<br />

...there’s still so much work to do, in<br />

our country and around the world, to<br />

bring that sense of wholeness and peace.<br />

“But these shards of glass are not just<br />

to think of what is broken but also<br />

of the power of your love to bring<br />

healing.” With that, the simultaneous<br />

smashing was greeted by a loud and<br />

joyful “Mazeltov!” by the guests.<br />

The atmosphere at the ceremony was<br />

palpable – charged with excitement. As<br />

well as many friends and relatives, the<br />

ceremony was observed with interest<br />

by the wider community and media.<br />

Australian Marriage Equality co-chair<br />

Alex Greenwich MP said: “Many<br />

Rabbis and people of the Jewish<br />

faith have played a leading role in<br />

Australia’s movement for marriage<br />

equality, so it is no surprise that the<br />

first religious same-sex marriage<br />

ceremony will occur in a <strong>Synagogue</strong>.<br />

“Congratulations to the couple, and the<br />

wider Jewish community for showing<br />

that various faith groups are fully<br />

supportive of LGBTI friends, family and<br />

parishioners.” .<br />

Article adapted from reports by<br />

Plus61J and Wentworth Courier<br />

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COMMUNITY<br />

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{...TZEDAKAH CONTINUED}<br />

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{BIRTHS}<br />

Mazal Tov to<br />

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Fernanda Fromer<br />

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Rachel Cohen<br />

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Jaime Comber<br />

Mr Daniel Faludi &<br />

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& Ms Anne Classine<br />

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Joanna Davidson<br />

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Louka Marmot<br />

Adam Ossher and<br />

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Amanda Altshuler<br />

Mrs Natalie & Mr<br />

Larry Wagenheim<br />

COMMUNITY<br />

{B’NEI MITZVAH}<br />

Mazal Tov to<br />

Elad Ben-David<br />

Avraam Polites Carleton<br />

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Sam Hadassin<br />

Dakota Madison<br />

Kedzier-Hurst<br />

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Jonathan Riesel<br />

Macs Rubain<br />

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Aliza Trish Schetzer<br />

Rosie Hannah Sharpe<br />

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Jack Cooper Simon<br />

Daniel Slade<br />

Benjamin Stubbs-Goulston<br />

Joshua Stubbs-Goulston<br />

Deborah Jane Winter<br />

{MARRIAGE}<br />

To rejoice with the happy couple<br />

Alan Harca & Eliza Sevitt<br />

Jonathan Raymond<br />

& Kimberley Levi<br />

Kristine Mientka &<br />

Sam Shoolman<br />

Alan Harca & Eliza Sevitt<br />

Oscar Shub & Ilan Buchman<br />

Joshua Weinstock<br />

& Jenita Stoloff<br />

Scott Whitmont and<br />

Christopher Whitmont-Stein<br />

{DECEASED}<br />

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Jacob Hassan<br />

Meda Meyer<br />

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Susan Eva Josef<br />

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Frank Wolf<br />

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{SERVICE TIMES}<br />

Morning Minyan<br />

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All service times are subject to change. Please check our website<br />

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Tisha B'Av<br />

Saturday 21st July<br />

6:15pm Tisha B'Av services including the chanting of Eicha (the Book of<br />

Lamentations) and kinnot (elegise) sung by the community choir<br />

Sunday 22nd July<br />

9:00am Tisha B'Av morning services<br />

3:00pm Screening of the movie The Forgotten Refugees about the experiences<br />

of the exile of Jews from Arab lands. We will watch the film and then have the<br />

opportunity to hear from people in the community who were refugees from Arab<br />

lands talk about their experiences<br />

4:45pm Mincha Ma’ariv services followed by a light meal to break fast.<br />

{CONTACT US}<br />

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