allure 22 July 2018

July 22, 2018 

The Fashion 

Edition 

Red Carpet Queens

Contents - 22/07 

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Editor’s Letter 

From being a tradition reserved for heads of 

governments, the red carpet tradition has evolved to 

become popular tradition at most functions; sometimes, 

busier than the main event. These days, it is a place of 

encounter for celebrities and camera both still and 

moving. 

For this reason, for high octane events such as movie, 

music, or style awards, celebrities go to great length to 

bring their A-game on, putting their best feet forward, 

and hoping if possible, to make the list of best dressed. 

Making this list brings a lot of satisfaction not just to the 

celebrity, but to all those who worked behind the scene 

to put the winning look together: Designer, stylist, make 

up artist, hair stylist etc. 

A few of our stars, constantly, make this hallowed list. 

They have mastered the art and knows what suits their 

body well enough to make a hit on the red carpet. 

On our cover, Yemisi Suleiman compiles a list of some of 

these stars, and tells us what makes them tick. page 

8-10 

Making a success of your appearance on the red carpet 

means, making certain important choices such as; colour 

of dress, type of fabric, design etc. Because it’s often 

about glamour on the red carpet, celebrities love to bling 

and shine and put on an ensemble that flows effortlessly. 

On page 6-7, Linda Orajekwe lists some popular red 

carpet choices. 

With all said and done, it’s not always perfect all the 

time. Some make all the efforts and still have a bad 

Fashion day. Loose stitches or button out of place can 

cause colossal harm and bring great embarrassment. Rita 

Chioma asked some celebrities to share their bad Fashion 

day experience. Read what they said on page 3. 

We do hope this edition will take 

your fashion game a notch higher. 

Enjoy the serve. 

Happy Sunday. 

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FASHION 

4 

6 

Showcasing Designers 

At Africa Fashion Week 

London 2018 

Favourite Red Carpet 

Choices And How To 

Style Them 

FEATURE 

12 Sexmatics: Sexually 

Reconnect 

PEOPLE... 

15 • Celebrities gather for EMLN 

2018 

• Eminent Yoruba Personalities 

Unite For Queen Moremi’s 

Book Launch 

11 12 

6 

Quotes 

“An 

“Life can only be understood 

backwards; but it must be 

lived forwards.” 

eye for an eye only 

ends up making the whole 

world blind.” 

- Mahatma Gandhi 

“A warm smile is the universal 

language of kindness.” 

- Soren Kierkegaard - William Arthur Ward 

Red carpet 

queens 

8ON THE 

COVER

Our Unforgettable 

VOX POP 

Fashion 

Bad Day 

- Celebrities Speak 

by - Rita Chioma 

Celebrities put in great efforts to look good. But even the most 

stylish and fashion conscious of them do have a fashion bad day. It 

could happen to anyone at anytime. 

Nigerian celebrities recall their unforgettable fashion experiences. 

My tailor made a 

disaster dress 

Genny Uzoma, Actress 

I had an interview appointment 

with a reputable TV channel and 

I needed to look good. So, I 

booked my tailor about four 

weeks earlier to make a 

dress. Typical of Nigerian 

tailors, she made it the day 

before in a big hurry. The 

dress was a disaster. I 

noticed it on the way and 

couldn’t change it. It was 

over rumpled, seams were 

tearing etc. 

I was so embarassed and 

couldnt even take a picture 

in the dress. Luckily for 

me, I sat down for the 

interview. It was just the 

upper body that was 

captured, mostly my 

face. 

My trouser 

tore underneath 

Yetunde Bakare, Actress 

I was wearing a very 

tight, rugged pair of 

jeans, it ended up 

tearing underneath 

while I was trying to 

cross a gutter. It 

was so 

embarrassing. I felt 

really bad that day 

because it was 

as if everybody 

was looking at 

me, and I 

couldn’t do 

anything again. 

I just had to go 

back home. 

My shirt got torn in a 

supermarket 

Debbie Shokoya, 

Movie Producer 

I was in a supermarket, 

when the T- Shirt I was 

putting on mistakenly, 

hooked on to the iron 

basket that is used in 

supermarkets. While 

trying to untangle it from 

the basket, it got torn. I 

had greeted a fan before 

the incident. That day, I 

had to quickly conclude 

what I went there for. 

My total outfit stirred 

controversy 

Tonia Nwosu, Actress 

Sometime ago, I went to an event looking all 

smart and elegant in a fashionable outfit 

that conveyed my intelligence and 

confidence. Then, I met a certain woman 

who appeared to be in her fifties but looks 

both classy and arrogant. She seems to 

have a fashion disagreement with my 

outfit. 

My flat boot and knit skirt were 

comfortable and the white blouse 

and blazer were elegant yet all 

business like. She was insistent 

that I should have worn a long 

pant instead displaying my knit 

skirt. She sounded very rude 

and rigidly argued 

endlessly. I felt really bad 

and I couldn’t follow the 

show to the end. I just 

left. 

My pretty shoes 

embarrassed me 

Lilian Amah, Filmmaker 

I went for a movie premiere and chose to wear a 

fairly new pair of shoes I hadn’t worn in a while. 

Because I was running late, I didn’t take time to 

move my work stuff out of the car before going for 

the event. As I stepped out of my car and took a 

few steps towards the hall, my pretty shoes gave 

way. It was a pair of strappy gold sandals. So once 

the front strap gave way, I couldn’t walk in them. 

Totally embarrassed, I limped back to the car 

wondering what on earth I was going to do. As I 

stepped into the car in despair, my eyes fell on 

the black slip on’s I had worn to work. I put them 

on and went into the hall conscious of the fact that 

I was wearing basic slip on’s to a high fashion 

event. But I was grateful I had an alternative. I 

learned from that fiasco to always have a spare 

pair of shoes in my car all the time. 

My Jumpsuit 

ripped open 

Florence Hungbo, 

Fashion Designer 

My jumpsuit got torn in Renaissance Hotel 

and my butts was out! I didn’t even know 

untill someone called my attention to it. I 

had to use my bag to cover it. I was so 

uncomfortable, because I didn’t know how 

many people that had seen it. I just 

sneaked out and went home

FASHION 

Head designer: Aji 

Head Designer for this 

year’s show is Aji, a social 

entrepreneur with several 

years of experience, dealing 

directly with multi-national 

clients. Aji is the founder, 

Creative Director and Head 

Designer for fashion Tech 

Company named, MIA 

London. Both collaborate 

with tailors based across 

Africa to make formalwear 

and streetwear, and 

connects brands and 

businesses with a network 

of African-based creatives. 

A qualified lawyer, Aji has 

carved out a niche for 

himself within the finance 

law field. He also assists 

with creative events and 

supporting start-ups and 

founders. 

Becca apparel 

Nigeria./ UK brand, Becca 

Apparel is a fashion label, 

established in 2015. The brand 

focuses on combining African 

prints with contemporary trends, 

to create a unique style for women 

for all occasions. Their designs 

are inspired by the dynamism of 

African culture and the emerging 

trend of a mixture of contemporary 

western designs, with African 

undertone.⠀ Since the African 

culture is very rich; the brand tries 

to capture and present its people 

and home in their designs. 

Showcasing Designe 

Fashion Week Londo 

By - Yemisi Suleiman 

Valentina O. Utoh 

Onyx by Valentina was 

conceptualized three years 

ago, out of love for pure 

art and the love for creating 

something out of the ordinary. 

It is solely inspired by the 

Almighty God. 

According to Valentina, “we 

put this creative art into 

wearable form, through the 

use of handmade beadwork to 

tell the story in every piece 

We called her Onyx by 

Valentina as Onyx is a black 

precious stone, symbolizing 

the black woman adorned 

in her be jewelled piece all 

created by Valentina. 

It’s been a worthy walk, 

as every inspiration for all 

collection, comes new and 

exciting from the Almighty 

God” 

Jésù SégunLondon; UK / Nigeria 

Jésù SégunLondon was founded 

in 2016 and quickly attained a 

reputation for being bold, luxurious 

and the epitome of statement 

pieces. Each shoe is designed with 

unrivalled attention to detail, with 

experienced artisans delivering 

far beyond aesthetics, “because 

we believe that quality, beauty 

and comfort work in unison”. Jésù 

SégunLondon represents the best 

of Nigeria and London. Watch them 

step out onto the runway this August. 

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/ July 22, 2018 

Osborne Ojarimoni 

British-born Nigerian, Osborne 

Ojarimoni is the founder and CEO 

of Erenti. Osborne has built up a 

profound knowledge-base that he 

will use to drive Erenti’s growth. 

While living in Lagos in 2004, 

Osborne was truly inspired by the 

Nigerian culture, and this is why 

he founded Erenti. He believes 

confidence is silent and all his 

designs were inspired for people to 

be confident in who they are and 

where they come from. 

As the Africa Fashion Week 

London sets to hold from August 

10 to 11 at the Freemasons’ Hall 

London, this year’s edition is set 

to be the biggest show ever, with 

designers from all over the world 

showcasing on the catwalks. 

Founded in 2011 by Ronke 

Ademiluyi, Africa Fashion Week 

London (AFWL) is one of Europe’s 

largest annual fashion event, 

promoting and nurturing African 

and African-inspired design talent. 

With AFWL favourites Mary Martin 

London, Van Else, Becca Apparel 

and more returning with fresh, 

amazing and futuristic styles to 

the catwalks, here are some of 

the showcasing designers at the 

AFWL 2018. 

Soboye; UK / Nigeria 

Graduating from Central St. Martins 

School of Art in the mid-nineties, 

Nigerian-born, UK- based Samson 

Soboye, rapidly embarked on a fashion 

styling career, working internationally 

on fashion shows and magazine 

editorials and advertising 

campaigns. His love of 

fabrics and colour, led him 

to launch his own collection 

of luxury lifestyle products 

and clothing. You can find 

Samson at his eponymous 

boutique in Shoreditch, London.

Kachi Blazers 

A Nigeria- UK based luxury brand, 

specializing in Afro-western Jackets 

and suits. Created in 2017 by a 

Pharmacist-turned-fashion designer/ 

stylist, “Kachi” Benson. The brand 

speaks for itself. It is a juxtapose 

of traditional African motifs and 

contemporary styles, giving 

their customers that sense 

of glamour and exclusivity. 

Prints are rich and bright 

and sourced mainly from 

Nigeria and Ghana in 

West Africa, Holland and 

China. 

“It is our mission to 

revolutionalise blazer and 

suit couture, by bringing 

to the streets of London 

prestigious designs and the 

colours from Africa.” 

rs At Africa 

n 2018 

Julieta Manassas 

Julieta Manassas is fashion 

designer and costume designer. 

Born in Luanda, Angola, Julieta 

now lives in Italy . She 

attended the professional 

training as Theatre Costume 

Designer and Stage Tailor 

at the Teatro Comunale di 

Bologna. 

Julieta opened her own 

Atelier in Bologna in 2009, a 

creative and innovative venue 

where Fashion, Design and 

Eco-design are mixed with art 

and experimentation to express 

her fashion style and her African 

roots. 

Julieta creates collections and 

tailor-made dresses, mixing 

vintage and new pathways in 

fashion. 

Beau SAPEUR; UGANDA 

Ugandan label Beau Sapeur, creates beautiful, 

unique pieces from hand-made and printed 

fabrics in Uganda. They are joining the 

movement to challenge people to dress in 

brighter colours and bolder prints. As the head 

designer disclosed, “Our subtle, clean, sharp 

designs let the fabric do all the talking whilst 

retaining the feel of being classic with a twist.” 

WB collection, Ghana 

WB Collection is a brand that 

is aimed at all ages, races, and 

genders who love to stand out, 

relating African culture to trends of 

today. 

WBC draws inspiration from the 

Ghanaian culture where “Jolomi” 

(Kaftans with embroidery) is worn 

to special occasions but also, 

predominantly, worn as casual 

every day wear but still carries the 

great importance and ownership 

of culture. 

WBC wants their consumers to 

be able to wear the royalties of 

Jolomi, but be comfortable and 

confident enough to wear it every 

day, by taking the most important 

accent and incorporating the rich 

colours of embroidery with an 

added twist of metallic threads to 

make the embroidery pop. 

Van Else 

Van Else started as 

a brand in 2012. The 

founder of Van Else is Else 

Hardjopawiro, Surinamese 

of Indonesian heritage. After a 

successful career of being a CEO of different 

organizations, she chose to follow her dream 

and passion; becoming a fashion designer and 

artist. 

VanElse has positioned itself as a luxury 

brand 

exclusively for women, 

with 

a target audience from 

upcoming to established 

and 

successful 

businesswomen. Her 

designs vary from 

business suits, 

jackets, skirts, 

trousers, robe 

manteaux and 

casual pieces 

as well. Her 

designs are 

made in the 

Netherlands. 

FASHION 

Mary martin London; UK 

Award-winning fashion designer, Mary Martin 

began a career in the music industry and enjoyed 

years of success as a vocalist and an artist 

manager. But her passion for fashion continued 

to grow. She is a firm favourite at Africa Fashion 

Week London, 2018 being her 4th show. She is 

a prolific designer, often taking inspiration with 

current events, like designing the viral Cecil The 

Lion dress, and creating a collection after the 

passing of David Bowie. 

Today, Mary Martin’s collections have been 

gaining recognition as a go- to for looks on the 

red carpet, and featured on shows such as 

Britain and Ireland’s Next Top Model Catwalk 

Show, SKY’S Fashion TV, and has received 

international accolades including being honoured 

as the “Best Designer” at the Mercedes Benz 

Fashion Festival in Accra, Ghana. 

Prelim 

Zimbabwean born 

designer Preline Martha 

is the designer behind 

the Prelim Label. A 

Prelim Design is always 

colourful driven with eye 

catching prints. 

Her collections feature 

an assortment of highenergy 

ready-to-wear 

looks from dresses, 

jumpsuits, bodysuits, and 

swimsuits to kimonos, 

mini bomber and wrap 

jackets; this collection 

explores a spectrum 

of tones through dark 

autumn hues to colourful 

summery prints using 

custom-made opulent 

fabrics and patterns. 

July 22, 2018 / 5

FASHION 

EARINGS 

Favourite Red Carpet 

Choices & How To 

Style Them 

Sequins Dress 

Sequin and stars go together 

and they add dimension to the 

fabric that instantly makes you 

feel glam. If you’re hoping to 

get the crowd’s attention, then 

this is your choice. 

How to Style: 

While the red carpet is a 

glamorous place, don’t go 

overboard with accessories 

and shoes. Keeping your 

jewellery to a minimum will 

help balance your look hence 

a simple earing will work; and 

do not wear a shoe covered in 

bling for the sake of a matching 

look. You you wouldn’t want to 

blind the crowd with your look, 

would you? 

Swirl Box 

Clutch 

Lyst Elegant Pump 

Lace dress: 

The lace dress is a 

mixture of ladylike 

demeanour and 

sophistication, a 

combination every 

woman loves to arm 

herself with. 

How to Style: 

To feel all the vibe 

the lace dress brings, 

don’t crowd with fussy 

accessories. Keep 

them to a minimum 

and style with a 

pair of heels for the 

elegant look and 

stride. 

6 

Sequin 

Dress 

Eden Heel Pump 

/ July 22, 2018 

Munachi Abii 

By - Linda Orajekwe 

The idea of red carpets started off 

as a way to mark the route taken 

by head of states and ceremonial 

and formal occasions: but as 

time as shown, this tradition has 

evolved, extending to events 

thereby making the red carpet 

that place where all the glitz and 

glamour take place despite it not 

being the main event. 

On the red carpet are men and 

women who have taken their time 

to look their best for the camera. 

Since we do not want you to get to 

the red carpet looking misplaced, 

we have compiled looks that can 

inspire you and alternate ways to 

style them if possible. 

Taraji P 

Henson 

Thigh-high slit 

From 2017 to date, 

the thigh-high dress is 

one dress to rock when 

aiming for sexy, bold 

and beautiful. 

How to Style: 

A dress with thigh-high 

slit is best worn with 

high - heel sandals 

to gives the proper 

illusion of the length of 

your legs. If the dress 

is an off shoulder, 

accessorize with 

matching necklace and 

earring to cover the 

distance between your 

neck and your dress 

Bracelet 

STEPHANIE 

LINUS-OKEKE 

Bra 

The plunging neckline: 

NECKLACE 

The plunging neckline is a risky 

choice on the red carpet:, always 

worn by women who aim for a 

bold and super sexy look. This 

look is easily pulled off by women 

with smaller breast size but, if you 

have a bigger bust, make sure you 

have enough room in your dress to 

accommodate your breast. 

How to Style: 

A simple necklace can work here 

but if you want no distractions from 

all the cleavage exposure or lack 

of, keep accessories to just ears 

and wrist. 

Gold 

earring 

The one 

shoulder dress 

After its triumph on the red 

carpet in the 80’s, the oneshoulder 

dress has become 

one of the ideal dresses for 

the red carpet especially, if 

you want to play it safe and 

leave it bare. 

How to Style: 

Keep your hair off your bare 

shoulder so it doesn’t cover 

up the shoulder you took 

your time to expose. Do not 

wear any necklace to avoid 

breaking up the clean lines 

created by the curve of the 

neckline. 

Gabrielle 

Union

FASHION 

backless 

BRA 

Backless Dress: 

CIARA 

Naomi 

Campbell 

Sheer dress: 

The love for sheer 

on the red carpet is 

a fever everywoman 

already caught, as 

they all want to flaunt 

their most flattering 

parts. But if you want 

to follow this trend, 

learn to do it right. 

How to Style: 

Two things to look out 

for if you want to wear 

sheer, are placement 

and your underwear. 

Covering must be 

placed right, and your 

underwear must not 

distract your look. 

TOKE 

MAKINWA 

Genevieve 

Nnaji 

The backless dress on the 

red carpet gives women the 

opportunity to flaunt their 

toned braless backs. 

How to Style: 

Ensure your back is pleasing 

to the eyes if you intend to 

expose it and select a dress 

that complements your skin. 

The deep cut of your back, 

should snag your back to 

fit perfectly. Try not to go 

overboard with accessory 

because, a sensual looking 

back gives enough attention 

for a night. If you have to 

wear a bra due to the size of 

your breast, pick a bra with 

a band that can serve as an 

accessory to the entire look 

and not distract. 

Pearl 

Rhinestone 

Earring 

Halter neck 

dress 

Halter 

Neck Dress 

The halter neck dress 

has graced the red 

carpet for years; with 

celebrities always 

looking for a great 

twist every time they 

step out in it. 

How to Style: 

Wear with strapless 

bra as strap will look 

out of place. For no 

reason should you 

pair this look with a 

necklace. Instead, 

make your earrings 

and bracelet count. 

Complete the look 

with a pair of strap 

sandals. 

Metallic 

Triple Strap 

Heels 

Strapless dress 

The strapless dress needs 

no introduction on the red 

carpet as it has been worn 

by both stars and royalties. 

How to Style: 

This red carpet classic can 

be styled with a matching 

scarf that is either sprawled 

over the shoulder, or hung 

on the arm and can also 

be adorned with delicate 

jewellery necklace and a 

teardrop earring. For a better 

feel of this look, style your 

hair up to accentuate your 

facial features. 

Bonang 

Matheba 

Ball gown: 

Opting for the signature, 

voluptuous ball gown, gives 

your look a chance to dress 

like a traditional princess. 

How to Style: 

Keep it simple and classy. 

Let the volume of your 

dress bring the attention 

without cluttering the look 

with too much jewellery. You 

can either style your hair 

up or let down and moved 

sideways to expose a part of 

your neck. A pair of dangling 

earrings and matching 

necklace will further 

enhance the look. 


REPORTAGE 

Red Carp 

Words By - Yemisi Suleiman 

They are classy, glamorous 

and always give us what to 

look forward to on the red 

carpet at all time. While the 

fashion industry continues to 

introduce us to new styles every 

season, the industry would not 

be where it is today without these 

Red Carpet Queens who often 

times, seamlessly, breath life into 

designers work on the red carpet. 

Here, are some of the Red 

Carpet stars who never fail to 

capture our attention with their 

stunning fashion choices. We call 

them the Red Carpet Queens. 

Omowunm 

Akinnifesi 

Long after relinquishing th 

crown, this former Most 

Beautiful Girl in Nigeria 

(MBGN), has continued to 

remain relevant in the styl 

circle. She doesn’t mess 

around when it comes to 

fashion. Omowunmi Akinn 

who now owns her own 

fashion line, is one beauty 

queen with a classy but se 

sense of style. 

She is also known for h 

impeccable, street and re 

carpet style. She never lo 

too precious or too overdo 

and always, often, gets it 

right with her overall look. 

Stephanie 

Coker 

This Presenter’s flirty, 

feminine style, makes 

her a red carpet 

favourite. Bolinto, as 

she is popularly known, 

is usually wearing the 

latest runway trends, 

but she mixes them with 

vintage pieces to create 

a whole new look. 

Inidinma 

Okojie 

This It-girl has a forwardthinking 

sense of style that 

makes her a delight of fashion 

photographers any day. She 

knows how to rock bold and 

unexpected colour pairings, 

with an eye for chic and 

trendy clothes which usually 

highlights her best features. 

Toke 

Makinw 

Asides being an OAP 

presenter, Toke Makin 

known for her high fas 

The Author of the boo 

Unbecoming who als 

bag line, has such a c 

always seems to look 

effortless in anything 

Although Toke’s st 

over the course of he 

would not be what it is 

her influence. From h 

embellished gowns, T 

positive light on the te 

blurred the line betwe 

and everyday wear. 

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High-fashion and 

experimental, Toni Tons 

sense of personal style can 

only be described as 

eclectic. She is good at 

keeping fans on edge about 

her next outfit, which often 

times are incredible. Some 

of her outfits are a little 

overboard, and can lean 

toward tacky, but you have 

to hand it to the 

photographer turned actor, 

for always being willing to 

take a fashion risk. 

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Beverly 

Naya 

The petite actress has 

long been considered a 

member of the fashion 

elite and for good 

reason: she is always a 

red carpet hit, always 

slaying any outfit. She 

puts in a lot of effort to 

always look modern and 

stylish, whether she is in 

a pair of jeans and a 

blazer, or a high-style 

red-carpet gown. 

Idia Aisen 

Rita 

Dominic 

Rita Dominic is 

naturally gorgeous, 

dresses her body type 

so well, and obviously 

has a great eye for 

fashion. The Nollywood 

A-list actress classic 

and sophisticated style, 

is always impeccable. 

Her iconic feminine 

dresses and tailored 

ensembles, make her 

one of the most 

influential fashion icons 

of her time. 

Ever since she made her appearance on TV, 

Idia Aisen has been climbing the ladder of style 

icon status with hit after hit on the red carpet. 

She is also a bit of a style chameleon that goes 

from boho fabulous one day, to effortlessly 

glamorous the next. Whether she is on the red 

carpet or promoting her book, Idia is always 

slaying. 


R EP REPORTAGE 

Bolanle 

Olukanni 

This Presenter’s flirty, 

feminine style, makes 

her a red carpet 

favourite. Bolinto, as 

she is popularly 

known, is usually 

wearing the latest 

runway trends, but she 

mixes them with 

vintage pieces to 

create a whole new 

look. 

Osas 

Ajibade 

Osas’s seductiveness 

in combination with her 

effortless glamour, is 

what makes her one of 

the favourites on the 

red carpet. From 

blazers, sultry dresses 

to pencil skirts, the 

actress knows how to 

transform professional 

attire into a simplistic, 

glamorous style. 

Mochedah 

Singer turned fashion 

designer, Mocheddah 

made waves with her 

unique sounds a few 

years back and was most 

loved then. A few years 

later, she took the fashion 

world by storm when she 

debuted her Mocheddah 

Fashion line with utterly 

feminine pieces for the 

young and trendy, a 

collection which definitely 

defines her personal style. 

She always dresses to 

impress and always 

knows how to wow the 

crowd on and off the red 

carpet. 

Eunice Efole 

Allure’s fashion Icon and 

Entrepreneur, never seems to 

have a bad fashion day. And while 

many movie stars have access to 

couture, and free clothes, Eunice 

Efole is one of the few who always 

seems to give top labels a good 

run. She has always been top on 

the fashion style radar, and we are 

continuously impressed with her 

ability to always look cool, modern, 

in whatever she wears. 

Lillian 

Esoro 

From ultra-feminine 

dresses to sleek suiting, 

Lillian is a great example 

of a woman who makes 

fashion work for her. She 

is not a slave to trends that 

won’t work on her body, 

and always dresses her 

curvy figure right. 

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FEATURE 

WITH 

Amaka 

Chika- Mbonu 

By - Rita Chioma 

Amaka Chika-Mbonu is a 

motivational speaker, writer 

and author. 

She has written books that give 

men deep insight into the mind of 

a woman, and give women a voice 

to speak their heart to men. 

Amaka has been a Christian 

Marriage Counsellor for over 15 

years, and is a certified pre-marital 

Counsellor. She is passionate 

about making marriages work. 

In this interview, she talks about 

her latest book, ‘49 Ways To Get 

Rid Of The Other Woman (Without 

Getting Caught’. 

What inspired you to write this new 

book? 

My inspiration comes from the fact that 

infidelity has become the norm rather than 

the exception in marriages today. This is 

evident even in Christendom. A study from 

Christianity Today; an evangelical Christian 

periodical, shows that 45 percent of Christians 

have done something they consider sexually 

inappropriate, 23 percent have had extramarital 

intercourse, and 28 percent have 

engaged in other forms of extramarital sexual 

contact. 

Notwithstanding, many of us ‘church folk’, 

sometimes, bury our heads in the sand and 

pretend it’s not happening unless of course, 

you’re caught. 

The book title is very interesting and 

oddly, specific. How did you settle on 

this? 

It would seem I have a thing for provocative 

and intriguing titles. My first book was, 

How To Get Your Wife To Swing From The 

Chandelier In A Red Negligée. Watch out for 

my third book by His grace. The title is quite 

something. 

How long did it take you to write the 

book? 

It took me a little over a year to write it. 

What difficulties did you encounter while 

writing the book? 

I’d say one of the major difficulties was trying 

to make the book relatable, without betraying 

the many confidences that have been shared with 

me over the years. I needed to make sure that no 

one would read the book and say, “Oh, I know 

who she’s talking about.” 

What lessons do you hope people will take 

away from the book? 

I want women all over the world to realise 

that the painful, heart wrenching, humiliating 

ordeal of having a third person in your marriage, 

can be confronted and dealt with if you believe 

your marriage is worth fighting for. I want 

women all over the world to realise, and be 

convicted in their hearts about who and what 

they are in their marriage, and the power they 

wield over it, if they are willing to exercise it. 

My deepest desire is to restore homes and 

marriages, rid them of anything not planted 

there by the originator of marriage, wrest power 

away from any intruder, (even if invited in 

by the husband, who by the way doesn’t have 

the legitimate right to do so), and put it back 

in the hands of the person in whom it should 

legitimately reside—the wife. 

Infidelity has been accepted as norm 

among men. Do you think there are any 

truly faithful man? 

Yes, infidelity has indeed become the 

aberrant norm, but I still 

believe that there are men 

out there who have the 

discipline, integrity and 

self control to be faithful. 

Faithful to one woman 

—their legitimate wife; 

faithful to adhere to the 

rules of engagement agreed 

upon when the relationship 

was embarked upon. It is 

inequitable to change the 

rules of engagement midgame, 

or in this case midmarriage. 

Are you worried some 

readers will think you’re 

gender biased? 

NO! 

Are there any plans to 

write a book addressing 

ways to get rid of the 

other man? 

I think I’ll leave that for a 

man to write. I do however 

have plans to write a book 

who’s working title is likely 

to be: Where did you plant 

your seed? We’ll see. 

Many are losing hope 

in the institution of 

marriage because of 

these issues. What do 

you think is the way 

forward? 

So true. I think it’s 

critical that we stop, and 

start again. Whatever we 

have been doing isn’t working. Something is 

so obviously, terribly wrong. The lines have 

become blurred with regard to what marriage 

is, and what it most definitely is not. We need 

to go back to the basics, to what the Being 

who the idea of marriage originated from 

says about it, and begin to take it from there. 

I explored this fully in my game-changing 

book about relationships, How To Get Your 

Wife To Swing From The Chandelier In A Red 

Negligée. A book that gives men deep insight 

into the mind of women, and women a voice to 

speak their heart to their man. 

Amaka Chika- Mbonu 

What would you say are the most 

common problems young or newlywed 

couples face? 

Leaving the originator of marriage out 

of it, unrealistic expectations and a lack of 

communication. This in turn goes back to what 

I said before about blurred lines. 

How do you suggest they get past these 

issues? 

Educate themselves about marriage prior to 

even meeting their future life-long husband or 

wife, and then be sure to enrol in pre-marital 

classes before they marry. That would be a 

good start. 

What projects are you working on now, 

and what can we expect from you in the 

near future? 

I’m working on so many things right now. 

Too many to talk about here. A movie, radio, 

more books for sure. 


Sexually Reconnect 

It is natural for spouses to undergo phases of 

waxing and waning sexual frequency. This can be 

as a result of illness, injury, stress, hectic 

schedules, and marital conflicts to mention just a 

few. A considerable gap can occur in a couple’s 

sex life, such that they go without love making/ 

intimacy for months or even years. Reduced 

sexual activity can affect sex drive especially, after 

a period of inactivity, so reconnecting sexually can 

be quite awkward. Basically, there are ways to 

restore sexual energy in a matrimony that is burnt 

out. 

It is normal for a healthy sexual desire to ebb, 

and flow all the time in the affairs of the heart. Life 

is hectic, jobs get in the way, and to a large extent, 

and the very thing that ought to be filling us up 

better than anything else, gets a back seat. 

Desiring to sexually reconnect with your spouse 

will make you happier, quarrels/arguments will 

subside faster, and you will feel more connected 

with your mate. A healthy sex talk is one of the few 

conversations that you ought to indulge in with 

your spouse on a regular basis; if this is absent, 

your relationship can nosedive. Read below tips to 

sexually reconnect with your spouse. 

Be sure to connect with your own body: first, by 

having self love for your being, so as to fully enjoy 

the pleasure of love making. This you can achieve 

by indulging in exercises such as going for a walk, 

yoga, gym or whatever sport you feel is the most 

fun for you. ‘’The oxygenation and cellular 

restoration not only improves your sexual 

enjoyment and stamina, but it helps balance your 

immune system and gives your sex drive a short in 

the hand.’’ 

Get rid of stumbling obstacles, if there are 

issues that you or your spouse need to trash out 

such as, unresolved argument or some stressors 

that either you or your mate has been struggling 

with. You need to have an open and deep 

conversation, so that the sexual energy can start 

flowing once more. 

Adopt connection exercises, these are super 

powerful for helping couples to slow down, drop 

into the moment and reconnect with your spouse in 

a way that we are not prone to on a constant basis. 

Cuddle for about ten minutes, as re-integrating 

more touch into our lives is one of the best ways to 

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spice sexual connection. Naturally, human beings 

crave for touch and are best appreciated when 

coming from a loved one. Shut off your internet 

devices, if possible, set a timer and cuddle for a 

while. The happy chemicals that get released in 

your brain will help you sleep better. 

Kissing is a deep intimate act, spend ten-fifteen 

minutes, don’t rush through it too quickly, slow 

down and fully enjoy it. Kissing is a form of 

conversation, along the line, some kind of touching, 

groping and grinding might occur, that will be cool 

but do allow the kissing to be the centre focus for a 

while. You will be shocked how its advantages 

transfuse throughout all of your foreplay. 

Regardless of what you end up doing in your 

sex play, remember to play, slow it down, take your 

time, enjoy yourself and wholly meet your mate’ 

satisfaction by taking turns in giving and receiving 

phases. 

Spoiling sessions: this is a simple exercise as 

the name implies. Couples should take turns to 

give each other gifts, within uninterrupted block of 

time, your preference [ thirty minutes, an hour, a 

day ] this is just an exercise, where you 

simultaneously practice being selfish while also 

honestly, asking for what you want. 

Your partner may want you to begin with a kiss, 

cuddling, massage, or you may want to indulge in 

certain positions for a while, maybe he/she wants 

slow, sensual intercourse while listening to their 

favorite music. Whatever you decide is up to the 

receiver, without doubt, within the confines that you 

are both comfortable with. 

Continue with what has worked the best for you, 

communicates your desires to your spouse, and 

make a commitment to make this practice become 

a regular routine in your marriage. Make your 

connection non-negotiable as nothing matters more 

than the bond you feel with your partner. 

Your joyousness, healthy body and job 

satisfaction is laced to how happy you feel at home. 

As a result, make it a priority, as your time and 

attention are the most valuable resources that you 

will ever have. Give them freely to your spouse and 

you will end up with a flourishing relationship. 

Get the help of a skilled sex therapist/coach. It’s 

often necessary to facilitate the process if situation 

gets complicated. 

Talk 

SPOT 

By - Yemisi Suleiman 

What some of your favourite 

celebrities said and we listened. 

““How you feel when your baby 

graduates form high school and 

you know school runs are over. 

For all those mums whose 

children go to day school. You get 

me right? Sacrifices sure have 

benefits..Looking forward to 

them”. 

Publisher of Today’s Woman 

Magazine Adesuwa 

Onyenokwe is definitely 

excited about her baby’s 

graduation. 

“I feel like I hit the jackpot 

and married the most 

beautiful lady in Nigerian 

history. Inside and Out. Pls 

argue with ya ancestors”. 

Singer and actor Banky 

W speaks glowingly of 

wife Adesua. 

“A lot of people 

have ruin 

themselves, all in 

the name of 

claiming what they 

are not. Be 

POSITIVE at all 

times”. 

Fact from Yoruba 

star Actor 

Odunlade 

Adekola to fans. 

“It is sad to know 

that in the 21st 

century, many 

children or young 

people in Nigeria 

have never known 

what it means to 

have uninterrupted 

power”. 

Fela Durotoye 

says it as it is. 

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ASK 

DOCTOR VIV. 

askdrvivian@gmail.com 

@derma_care 

Web: www.doctorviv.com 

Dr Vivian will answer your 

questions on skin care and ageing. 

Sweat It Out In 

A Sauna 

A sauna is a small room designed to be heated to high 

temperatures with well controlled humidity. Its use is a 

National tradition in Finland and the word sauna is 

derived from Finnish “Savuna” that means “in smoke”. 

Sauna usage dates back over 1,000 years and they are 

popular in other countries under different names. In 

Russiait is known as bania/banya, it is known as 

Thermae in Rome, Hamman in Turkey, and Sweat 

lodge in North America. The Finnish sauna is the most 

popular worldwide. In ancient times, saunas were huge 

holes in the ground that could accommodate entire 

communities or tribes. In the centre of the hole there 

was a pit for fire. This hole was covered to prevent cold, 

rain and heat from entering to help regulate optimal 

temperatures. Today saunas are common in sports 

arenas, spa facilities and physical education complexes. 

Saunas are used for both recreational and 

therapeutic purposes. Most people utilise them for 

relaxation and its use provides additional health 

benefits. The majority of saunas are built of wood 

which is often aromatic thus releasing pleasing 

aromas as they heat. There are two main types 

of saunas. One is known as dry and the other 

wet. Preference is a matter of taste. Wet saunas 

are sometimes called steam rooms, and are kept 

at lower temperatures than dry saunas (usually 

between 37 and 46 degrees Celsius). This 

temperature setting is to prevent superheated 

water from scalding the skin on contact. Dry saunas 

may be kept at much higher temperatures of up to 121 

degrees Celsius by keeping the ambient moisture or 

humidity down to nearly zero. Many saunas, including 

those using electric heaters, have some form of hot 

fragrant rocks which may be splashed with water to 

release both a short burst of steam, (temporarily 

creating the impression of a higher temperature), and 

a pleasing aroma. Some wood-burning saunas choose 

their fuels very carefully to help stimulate the 

participants through the scent of such substances. 

It is thought that Saunas are best used to their full 

potential by alternating heat and cold by spending 

enough time in the sauna to become hot, and then 

leaving it to cool back down then repeating the sauna 

treatment. Many people enjoy leaving the sauna to 

take a dip in a tub or pool of very cold water. Some feel 

that this shock is good for the immune system while 

others believe it can be detrimental to one’s health. 

Patients with high blood pressure should be especially 

careful of this immediate transition from hot to cold, as 

it spikes blood pressure for brief periods. 

Alcohol should never be consumed when using a 

sauna and should be particularly avoided in individuals 

with low blood pressure. Spending time in intense heat 

causes surface capillaries (tiny blood vessels) to dilate, 

lowering blood pressure even further. When sauna use 

is mixed with alcohol it can cause lightheadedness and 

fainting. When used properly, saunas can provide 

incredible relaxation, temporarily lower blood pressure 

and strengthen the immune system. Finnish saunas 

have become very 

popular worldwide 

and most gyms, 

health spas, and 

even public pools 

now have saunas 

available for their 

clients. 

During a 10 to 

20 minute sauna 

session, the heart rate 

increases by 50 to 75%. 

This provides the same 

metabolic result as physical 

exercise. This increased cardiac load is equivalent to a 

brisk walk. During a sauna, blood flow to the skin 

increases to as high as 50-70% of cardiac output which 

brings nutrients to surface tissue resulting in glowing 

healthy skin. Saunas also induce sweating which aids 

the comprehensive cleansing of the skin (which is the 

largest organ of the body) and sweat glands which is 

important as 30% of body waste and toxins are 

excreted through the skin. Profuse sweating enhances 

the detoxifying capacity of the skin by opening pores 

and flushing out impurities from the body. 

When taking a sauna session, the skin temperature 

rises to about 45 degrees Celsius and internal body 

temperature rises to about 39 degrees Celsius. 

Exposure to the high heat creates an artificial feverish 

state. Fever is part of the body’s natural healing 

process as it stimulates the immune system resulting 

in an increased production of disease fighting white 

blood cells and antibodies. It is advisable to use a 

sauna at least once a week and up to 4-5 times if 

possible. Increased usage has a greater effect on health. 

Using a sauna does assist in weight loss most of which 

is fluid loss initially. Using a sauna to help reduce 

blood pressure is one of the primary benefits of the 

sweat bath which is achieved by the excessive heat that 

cause the skin’s capillaries to dilate resulting in a drop 

in blood pressure. Individuals with a history of low 

blood pressure should consult a physician before using 

a sauna for extended periods of time. 

Reducing high blood pressure has obvious health 

benefits and alleviating stress and tension brings 

health and wellness to the mind as well as the body. 

The calming aspects of twenty minutes in a sauna are 

priceless in terms of long-term health benefits. Not 

only does the time in the sauna give the body relief 

from tension but it also gives the mind time to unwind, 

gather and reflect. The relaxing benefits of sauna use 

are probably the most redeeming. Muscles effortlessly 

relax after an intense workout. Throughout the day and 

work week, toxins build up in muscles which may lead 

to fatigue, back and neck pain, migraine headaches and 

high blood pressure which can all be alleviated by 

sauna use. Some other benefits of sauna usage include 

relief from the pain and stiffness of arthritis, healthy 

skin and a clear complexion from the detoxification 

process as a result of profuse sweating and the relief of 

strained and tired muscles after exercise. 

In a nutshell, sauna usage: 

• Leads to sweating and opening the pores 

• Helps to detoxify the body 

• Deep cleanses the skin by opening pores and 

flushing out impurities from the body 

• Relieves muscle and joint pain 

• Increases heart rate 

• Increases metabolism to promote weight loss 

• Relieves tension 

• Relaxes the mind and body 

• Increases the sense of well-being 

• Relieves tension headaches 

• Induces deeper, more relaxing sleep 

It is important to follow posted guidelines for health 

safety when using a sauna. 

Dr Vivian Oputa is a Medical Practitioner and 

Specialist is Aesthetic Medicine, Surgery and 

Dermatology. She is the Medical Director of 

Dermacare Medical Ltd. She is also a Wellness 

Coach and Anti Aging Medicine Specialist. 


FASHION 

Olivia Edomonu and 

Nosarumen Awanbor 

Emerge Winners of 

EMLN 2018 

by - Linda Orajekwe 

Sixteen year old Olivia Edomonu 

and Nosarumen Awanbor, aged 

19, have emerged winners of the 

Elite Model Look Nigeria 2018. 

They were picked at the Grand finale 

which took place recently, at the Art 

Twenty One gallery, Eko Hotel and 

Suites, Lagos. The 20 contestants which 

took part at the grand finale were picked 

from the over 1000 applicants that came 

for the annual casting. The models made 

two appearances, strutting on the runway 

in collections of some Nigerian designers; 

including, Meena, Kenneth Ize and Maki 

O’. 

After a night of great runways walks, 

good fashion, judges announced Olivia 

Edomonu and Nosarumen Nwanbor as 

winners. Making the announcement, the 

representative of Elite Model Look Paris, 

Sami Sabbarini, stated that the winners 

were selected because they met some 

important criteria the Elite Model Look 

always look out for. They include; beside 

being young, a good height and striking 

facial features. 

The winners will be joining winners 

from other countries, to compete at Elite 

Model Look World Finale scheduled to 

take place in 

Europe. The 

event also 

featured a 

style 

awards 

presentation 

to the bestdressed 

female and 

male guest of 

the night, with 

Nollywood 

actress, Rita 

Dominic and Legal 

practitioner, Eyimofe 

Atake given the prize for 

the Best Dressed Male and 

Female respectively. 

NOSARUMEN 

AWANBOR 

Founder of Elite Model Look Nigeria 

and host for the night, Elizabeth Elohor 

while delivering her speech noted that, 

while every year had always felt like the 

last time she’ll be organizing the 

competition, she says this year has been 

different. “No giving up this time. It’ll 

continue to get bigger and better” she 

thanked both sponsors and guests for 

their time and support. With the Nigerian 

OLIVIA 

EDOMONU 

modelling industry rising globally, Elite 

Model Look Nigeria has produced some 

of the best models in the country like 

Mayowa Nicholas, Davidson Obennebo 

who won the Elite Model Look World in 

2016, and Victor Ndigwe. These soughtafter 

models have walked pieces of 

international designers like Gucci, 

Prada, Dolce and Gabbana, Valentino 

and many more. 

SOME PARTICIPANTS ON STAGE 

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Celebrities 

gather for 

EMLN 2018 

By Oscar Ochiogu 

OC Ukeje 

Nkiru Anumudu 

Michelle Dede 

Lanre Dasilva 

Elohor Aisien 

The red carpet came alive as 

stars of the music, movie and 

fashion industry stepped out 

for the 2018 Elite Model Look 

Nigeria competition. The wellattended 

and well enjoyed event, 

saw 16-year-old Olivia Edomonu 

and 19-year-old Nosa Awanbor, 

emerge as winners of this year’s 

competition. 

Both winners will represent 

Nigeria at the Elite Model Look 

World finals, all expense trip paid. 

Pictured here are some of the 

faces that attended the event. 

Omawumi 

Rita Domonic 

Anita Brows 

Adetoye 

NICOLE 

Tracy Nwapa 

Eminent Yoruba 

Personalities unite 

for Queen Moremi’s 

Book Launch 

By Yemisi Suleiman 

Oba Francis Olushola Alao 

the Olugbon of Orile Igbon 

Ooni of Ife Adeyeye Ogunwusi & Wife of the 

Governor of Ogun State Olufunsho Amosun 

Princess Ronke Ademiluyi & a guest 

The ancient town of Ile Ife, the Osun State capital came 

alive last week Saturday when Royals, top Government 

officials and other eminent personalities particularly from 

the South Western States gathered to uphold the legacies 

of the Legendary Queen Moremi Ajasoro of the ancient 

and historical city of Ile-Ife. The event was the official book 

launch of the Queen Moremi Ajasoro held in honour of Mrs. 

Olufunsho Amosun, wife of the Executive Governor of Ogun 

State for her empathy, selflessness and humility. 

The book published by the Global Heritage Ambassador 

of Moremi Ajasoro legacies, Princess Ronke Ademiluyi, 

eulogizes the virtues of Queen Moremi Ajasoro, while 

celebrating the sacrifice the princess made for the people 

of Yorubaland. The 80-page book, written in both English 

and Yoruba languages, according to the Ooni of Ife Oba 

Ogunwusi, “is aimed at reviving our rapidly vanishing history 

and culture.” 

The event, held at the Oduduwa Hall of the Obafemi 

Awolowo University, Ile Ife, was spiced with cultural 

performances by the Arike Royal Dance troupe and others. 

Here are some personalities that graced the event. 

gov. ibikunle amosun 

Gov. Rotimi Akeredolu 

Iyalode Alaba Lawson 


INSTAGRAM 

MOMENTS 

With Yemisi Suleiman 

In case you missed, these were some of the most interesting 

stories and pictures as posted by your favourite celebrities 

on Instagram last week. 

MyHair Beauty look 

For hair and beauty inspiration of the week, MyHair 

Beauty outfit is got you covered with this celebrity, 

curly hair wig in burgundy. It’s classy and your best 

go-to item for that bad hair day. When visiting the 

salon is not on your agenda, just wear and go with 

all the glam. All thanks to Instagram, we can always 

count on an endless stream of inspiration from the 

internet’s biggest trendsetters in beauty, hair and 

fashion for the best. 

Chidinma’s style 

inspiration 

Each week on Instagram, we 

have celebrities who inspire us 

with their style. For this week, 

singer Chidinma Ekile brings 

on her glamorous side in the 

utterly gorgeous red dress. 

It’s structured, delicate and 

beautiful at the same time and 

we love it. 

MMS Plus Women Empowerment Program 

Over 50 Nigerian females ranging from 

Senior Secondary School students, to 

undergraduates in tertiary institutions, 

as well as career makers in civil service 

and the private sector, participated in the 

second edition of Women in Leadership 

and Career Empowerment Programme 

(WILCEP) which held recently in Lagos. 

Organized by MMS Plus Woman of 

Fortune Hall of Fame (WoFHoF), the 

event is part of the association’s efforts 

to contributing to the development of the 

female brand in the country. 

With resource persons drawn from 

different sectors of the economy, the event 

provided free, but thorough training for the 

participants in Digital Media, Blue Economy, 

Oil and Gas, Visual Content Production and 

Entrepreneurship; which are money-spinning 

sectors that the nation is yet to optimally 

explore. 

The 2-day event which held at the 

MMS International Image Centre, Festac, 

Lagos, according to the convener, Mr 

Kingsely Anaroke CEO of MMS Plus and 

WoFHoF, is aimed at equipping women with 

entrepreneurial drive and digital media skills, 

needed to face the world. 

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