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In this issue Eline Pedersen., chiropractic, share her story with us. Read how to motivate your team from MaLish Global, helping you to target the best results for your employees, customers and stakeholders. Olga Stepien tells us why it Pays for Women to be Financially Independent and we look at What is Spiritual Practice, as well as many more informative and inspiring articles for the entrepreneur.

In this issue Eline Pedersen., chiropractic, share her story with us. Read how to motivate your team from MaLish Global, helping you to target the best results for your employees, customers and stakeholders. Olga Stepien tells us why it Pays for Women to be Financially Independent and we look at What is Spiritual Practice, as well as many more informative and inspiring articles for the entrepreneur.

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4reasons<br />

why you<br />

should target<br />

the Hispanic<br />

Market ASAP!<br />

Motivation<br />

How to get<br />

the best<br />

out of your team<br />

<strong>Eline</strong><br />

<strong>Pedersen</strong><br />

Doctor of Chiropractic


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Vikki Thomas<br />

Special - p.12<br />

It is time for the business world to<br />

step up and stop slavery!<br />

Katerina Stephanou<br />

Spice it Up - p.48<br />

Chana Bhaji: Ideal for after a<br />

workout<br />

Sarah Ali Choudhury<br />

Pashion Fashion - p.54<br />

Dressed for Success<br />

Olga Anderson<br />

Healing Stress<br />

with Watsu<br />

Michael de Glanville<br />

p.10<br />

Well Being and<br />

Burnout<br />

Nova Reid<br />

p.26<br />

FIT FEATURES<br />

<strong>Eline</strong> <strong>Pedersen</strong><br />

Doctor of Chiropractic<br />

p.14<br />

Chelsey Baker<br />

The Mentoring<br />

Champion<br />

p.38<br />

Team Motivation<br />

MaLish<br />

p.24<br />

LOANI<br />

Viola Edward<br />

p.30<br />

iCAAD<br />

Samantha Quinlan<br />

p.52<br />

Getting the Tables<br />

Turned<br />

Ismael Cala<br />

p.58<br />

4 reasons why you<br />

should target the<br />

Hispanic Market<br />

ASAP!<br />

Nydia Monárrez<br />

p.6<br />

Why It Pays<br />

for Women to<br />

be Financially<br />

Independent<br />

Olga Stepien<br />

p.28<br />

Breathwork<br />

Rhythm Dissolves<br />

Stress’ Tentacles<br />

Viola Edward<br />

p.44<br />

What is Spirituality<br />

Christopher Gladwell<br />

p.34<br />

Air is Our Teacher<br />

Amit Kaur Puri<br />

p.60<br />

Are you<br />

Environmentally<br />

<strong>Fit</strong>?<br />

Claire Morley<br />

p.20<br />

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<strong>Business</strong><br />

reasons why<br />

you should target the<br />

Hispanic Market ASAP!<br />

The US Hispanic population is more than 56<br />

million strong. And while the purchasing power<br />

of the American Hispanic community in 2016<br />

was approximately $1.5 trillion, many retailers,<br />

including large ecommerce companies, failed<br />

to take the most rudimentary steps to target this<br />

burgeoning sector.<br />

These include steps like localising their online<br />

content and translating shopping sites. Here<br />

are four reasons why adapting your content<br />

for the Hispanic community makes plain<br />

business sense:<br />

1 It’s what the consumer wants.<br />

According to a recent survey, the vast majority<br />

of respondents Worldwide are more likely to<br />

buy from a website in their native language.<br />

The obvious conclusion is that people prefer<br />

to shop in their own language and there’s no<br />

reason America’s Spanish-speaking community<br />

would be any exception.<br />

2 It’s cost-efficient.<br />

The cost of translation is very low in comparison<br />

to the potential increase in sales, and in most<br />

cases, the return on investment is nearly<br />

immediate. Some of the largest US enterprises<br />

allocate a percent of their overall budget on<br />

professional localisation, while enjoying some<br />

50% annual revenue from non-native Englishspeaking<br />

consumers. Even if businesses<br />

doubled their budgets to translate websites<br />

and other marketing material, the cost-benefit<br />

would still be a no-brainer.<br />

3 Cultural adaption translates<br />

into increased sales and brand<br />

reputation.<br />

By tailoring your content for the American-<br />

Hispanic community, you’re conveying the<br />

message that your business understands and<br />

respects the community’s cultural diversity.<br />

In other words, it’s not just translation that is<br />

key here, but the cultural adaption of content<br />

that is keenly sensitive to local nuances and<br />

customs which will truly make your product<br />

or service and your overall brand attractive to<br />

consumers.<br />

4. It works.<br />

Even businesses that serve the “larger American<br />

public” can still make localisation a priority. With<br />

web content translated and audio spoken in<br />

Spanish to the Hispanic community, it is clear<br />

that success can be traced, at least partially, to<br />

this strategy. I hope you’re convinced: When<br />

it comes to the Hispanic community, there’s<br />

plenty of money that’s being lost in translation<br />

-- or, in this case, the lack thereof.<br />

How to Reach The Hispanic Market: The New<br />

Frontier for Direct Marketers!<br />

I am personally part of a dynamic, growing<br />

demographic in this country with incredible<br />

potential for direct marketers. Hispanic<br />

incomes over $150,000 grew 194% between<br />

2005-2015 and those of us earning between<br />

$40-100K account for 40 percent of our buying<br />

power in the US.<br />

Statistics also show that the population of young<br />

Hispanic homeowners are also are on the rise.<br />

The 2016 State of Hispanic Homeownership<br />

Report revealed that Hispanic households<br />

increased by 6.7 million, which comprises<br />

42.5 percent of the household growth in<br />

the US. In response to this demographic<br />

trend, even retail giant Amazon rolled out a<br />

Spanish language version of Amazon.com,<br />

completely shattering the myth that their USborn,<br />

Hispanic customers have no need for a<br />

Spanish website. Yet many direct marketers<br />

never consider this market, or just assume<br />

we are too difficult to reach. The good news is<br />

that reaching us is easier than you think, and<br />

in most cases we are much more receptive to<br />

your message than you would ever imagine. In<br />

other words, if you offer a product, service or<br />

program for a virtually universal audience, you<br />

should be sharing it with Latinos!<br />

When people first approach me about selling<br />

to the Hispanic market, their hesitation<br />

stems from the differences among us—our<br />

many countries of origin and even our minor<br />

differences in accent and word choice. They<br />

believe marketing to Hispanics is complicated,<br />

and that you have to be an expert to do it right.<br />

The truth is, it doesn’t hurt to become an expert,<br />

6 7


<strong>Business</strong><br />

but you don’t have to be one to succeed. We<br />

are different, and it takes a different approach<br />

to sell to us. But again, you don’t have to be an<br />

expert; you just need to know one.<br />

So what are the most important things to know<br />

to start marketing to this community? To reach<br />

us, it’s important to understand our behaviour.<br />

For example, our media consumption and<br />

buying behaviour vary significantly compared<br />

to other minorities such as Asian Americans<br />

and African Americans:<br />

When it comes<br />

to the Hispanic<br />

community,<br />

there’s plenty<br />

of money that’s<br />

being lost in<br />

translation<br />

• We prefer to shop in our native language<br />

online.<br />

• We are creating new businesses faster than<br />

other demographics.<br />

• We appreciate bilingual packaging.<br />

• We are the most avid radio listeners.<br />

• We love our smartphones and spend the<br />

most time on them over other devices.<br />

• We use our phones for scanning QR codes as<br />

much as we do for social media.<br />

If you spend time researching the Hispanic<br />

market for your offering, chances are the<br />

results may surprise and inspire you! You may<br />

even find your ideal audience.<br />

Sound good?<br />

Here are some first steps:<br />

• Designate a budget for Hispanic marketing<br />

that’s in proportion to the size of your<br />

enterprise, just like the big retailers do.<br />

• Include a line item to hire an experienced,<br />

knowledgeable Hispanic marketing consultant<br />

who can help create and implement a strategy<br />

for you.<br />

• The top three most appreciated apps for us<br />

are dating/personal ads, college courses and<br />

music.<br />

• We are adjusting our shopping behaviours<br />

to large basket sizes, looking for familysize/<br />

volume packaging in our shopping.<br />

We also have distinct cultural values which<br />

vary significantly from Anglos. I call these the<br />

Hispanic “hot buttons.” They include:<br />

• Monitor your sales and progress and adjust<br />

your strategy as need be.<br />

Experiment with what works best in different<br />

geographic areas. Remember that knowing<br />

how to market to Hispanics and doing it<br />

well (and maybe even first!) can give you an<br />

invaluable edge over your competitors. Speak<br />

to us and we will speak back—in brand loyalty,<br />

increased sales and new markets around the<br />

world!<br />

• Family. We are close and rely on the opinions<br />

of our family members to assist with buying<br />

decisions.<br />

• Food. We have a sense of pride and joy in our<br />

special recipes and flavours. Food is central to<br />

our special events.<br />

• Celebration. We get together regularly to<br />

celebrate family accomplishments.<br />

• Faith. We believe deeply in the divine and<br />

divine intervention in life.<br />

• Brand Loyalty. We tend to stick with the tried<br />

and true.<br />

The good<br />

news is that<br />

reaching us is<br />

easier than<br />

you think<br />

8 9


Body<br />

Healing Stress with<br />

Watsu<br />

Breathwork<br />

Fusion Michael de Glanville<br />

The first step towards healing the physical<br />

and mental disruption caused by continuous<br />

exposure to stress will always be the<br />

individual's recognition of stress as the source<br />

of the imbalance.<br />

Listing some of those damages, we can include<br />

disturbance of sleep patterns, lack of clarity<br />

and vision in decision-making, weakening of<br />

immune system defences, suffering of panic<br />

attacks, diminishing of sexual vitality, disruption<br />

of relationship harmony and recourse to<br />

substance addictions.<br />

A second step is accepting that stress and<br />

relaxation cannot exist in the same place and<br />

the same time in our bodies, so developing<br />

the practice of a personal access process to<br />

deep relaxation has long been recognised as<br />

an effective counteraction to stress.<br />

Once an individual begins to recognise<br />

the symptoms of prolonged exposure to<br />

stress, the necessary motivation can grow to<br />

assemble the therapeutic resources effective<br />

in diminishing that exposure, and follow up<br />

with a habit of regular practice.<br />

The introduction of Conscious Connected<br />

Breathwork into the gentle dynamics of a Watsu<br />

warm water flotation session brings together<br />

two powerful physical practices, both of which<br />

are renowned for their stress dissolving<br />

capabilities. The following invitation may give<br />

some form to the charmed environment<br />

created by this fusion.<br />

"Come, spoil yourself in fluid bliss, your<br />

body beauty surrounded in liquid warmth,<br />

surrendered, vulnerable, mind and spirit<br />

abandoned to the gentle strokes of water’s<br />

touch. The undulating motions, rippled by<br />

the caress of the breeze, supple as seaweed<br />

in a rolling ocean swell. The calm, contented<br />

heartbeat of your being dancing with<br />

movements tuned to the rhythm of the breath.<br />

Stretch out in the heat of sun-kissed water,<br />

floating, balanced, breathing and centred in the<br />

circle of the pool. Water’s soft embracing flow<br />

will do its work, soothing away body aches and<br />

mind stress. Whilst you, buoyant, immersed,<br />

trusting as an embryo in-utero, you simply<br />

let go, releasing your faithful pulsing spirit to<br />

drift and be hushed in the familiar embrace of<br />

the love and silent emptiness of the bringer of<br />

inner peace."<br />

So let us take a look at why warm water<br />

therapies are often so effective increating deep<br />

relaxation. If we consider the experience of the<br />

embryo in the latter months of pregnancy, the<br />

main sensations registered, as the unborn<br />

baby gradually evolves into consciousness,<br />

are immersion in fluid of constant warmth and<br />

the containing, comforting contact of the silky<br />

touch of the inner walls of the womb as the<br />

mother goes about her day, connecting with<br />

the baby through caring thoughts of love.<br />

To the baby in the womb, sounds are muffled,<br />

as the ears are filled with fluid, but the<br />

familiar tone of the mother's voice, the steady<br />

reassuring 'thu-thump' of her heartbeat and<br />

the sound of her continuous breathing cycle of<br />

inhale and exhale are probably at the origins<br />

of human love of rhythm and music. The<br />

surrounding deeply relaxing energy of love,<br />

comfort, movement and care, communicated<br />

to the unborn baby in her womb, will be<br />

strongly associated later on, in adult life, with<br />

rhythms of breathing, tactile sensations and<br />

immersion in warm water.<br />

The healing energy of the Watsu session when<br />

practiced in this way, together with conscious<br />

breathing can be developed towards<br />

accessing and helping to bring to the surface<br />

of our consciousness this deeply embedded<br />

connection between physical environment<br />

and the associated generated feelings.<br />

The visible wave motion of Watsu's "water<br />

breath dance" is taken up by the receiver's<br />

body as its flotation balance is swelled by the<br />

breath inhale and deflated during the exhale.<br />

This rhythmic dance, powered by the breath<br />

muscles during the breathing, provides a<br />

natural synchronising beat-base to the timing<br />

of the pattern of movements initiated by the<br />

practitioner. The energy of this feeling of<br />

harmony of motion between the giver and<br />

the receiver, deepens the presence of mutual<br />

trust and encourages a gradual progressive<br />

abandonment by the receiver into deep<br />

relaxation, not only of their body but also in<br />

the mind state.<br />

My own experience, while receiving Watsu, has<br />

led me to notice that when the temperature<br />

of the water surrounding my body coincides<br />

closely with own body temperature, the internal<br />

sensations of just where my body boundaries<br />

are located during the session become less<br />

distinct, creating delicious feelings of immense<br />

lightness and lack of dimensional awareness<br />

of my body, feelings of one-ness and melting<br />

incorporation with my surroundings.<br />

Therapists and clients who are familiar with<br />

the practice of Breathwork will be used<br />

to the altered mind states often accessed<br />

during breathing sessions, but it has been an<br />

interesting experience for me to witness the<br />

appearance of similar mind states in receivers<br />

towards the end of Watsu sessions, when<br />

gentle conscious connected breathing has<br />

been present during the session. What has<br />

surprised me is the ease of access to these<br />

mind states by some of my Watsu clients<br />

who have relatively little, if any, experience of<br />

breathwork in the dry.<br />

The Watsu session seeks to create a floating,<br />

fluid surrounding, blended with supple<br />

body movements in the weightlessness of<br />

immersion. Together with the softness and the<br />

trusted warmth of gentle caring containment,<br />

these conditions can activate a release, into the<br />

conscious memory, of the profound relaxation<br />

experienced by the baby in utero. Allowing<br />

the body and the mind to drift deep into this<br />

profound physical relaxation state is certainly<br />

a powerful stress healing process.<br />

10 11


Special<br />

It is time for the<br />

business world to<br />

step up and<br />

stop slavery!<br />

Katerina Stephanou<br />

When we hear the word “slavery” we think of a<br />

practice which was eradicated over a hundred<br />

years ago, an abhorrent practice no longer<br />

plaguing our world. Unfortunately, this is far from<br />

the truth. Modern slavery exists in our word, in<br />

plain sight. A darkness touching all our lives and<br />

facilitated by our lack of awareness.<br />

The number of people who are sold into<br />

slavery, and the amount of money made by<br />

their traffickers is shocking. Human slavery<br />

has a global footprint and generates over 150<br />

billion USD per year. This is second only to<br />

drug trafficking. There are 40.3 million people<br />

in the world today who are slaves. 25 million<br />

people are victims of forced labour and 1 in 4<br />

human slaves are children.<br />

Human slavery is a global phenomenon which<br />

impacts all of us. It is a huge violation of human<br />

rights and as citizens we have a responsibility<br />

to come together and take steps to bring an<br />

end to it. The private sector has been active<br />

in this area for a while and we are now seeing<br />

the issue at the top of the global political<br />

agenda. We are witnessing a global call to<br />

action to eliminate the scourge of forced<br />

labour human trafficking and human<br />

slavery from our societies. Taking<br />

on a crime of this magnitude<br />

requires engagement of<br />

all areas of society and<br />

strategic partnerships<br />

between the public<br />

and the private<br />

sector.<br />

In September 2015 193 countries pledged to<br />

take effective measures to end modern slavery<br />

as part of the UN 2030 Agenda for Sustainable<br />

Development. UN security council and G20<br />

have called for public-private partnerships to<br />

end modern slavery. On the 25 September<br />

2018 the UN launched the Financial Sector<br />

Commission on Modern Slavery and Human<br />

Trafficking.<br />

Human slavery is a crime of economic<br />

opportunity. A truly global coherent strategy<br />

must include a clear role for the financial<br />

sector. The financial sector has a key role in<br />

making slavery unprofitable for traffickers,<br />

both in terms of blocking the flow of these<br />

illicit proceeds through the banking system by<br />

utilisation of existing anti-money laundering<br />

legislation and in terms of exercising human<br />

rights audits into ethical investing.<br />

In the words of Jean Badershneider, founder<br />

and CEO of the Global Fund to End Modern<br />

Slavery: “<strong>Business</strong> engagement is key to<br />

impacting modern slavery by impacting<br />

both the supply and demand for slavery and<br />

ultimately helping to make it economically<br />

unprofitable. That’s the way we put traffickers<br />

out of business.”<br />

The vital elements of the financial sector to be<br />

engaged are the banking system, corporations<br />

and governments in terms of ethical<br />

procurement.<br />

1. Banking system<br />

The banking system unwittingly handles funds<br />

which are proceeds of slavery. Traffickers<br />

utilise common channels to launder their<br />

proceeds including cash intensive businesses<br />

and front shell companies. In fact, as part<br />

of their organised crime structures human<br />

traffickers often work in collaboration with<br />

drug traffickers. The banking sector has a<br />

highly sophisticated anti-money laundering<br />

framework which it can utilise to a greater<br />

degree in order to follow the money straight<br />

to the traffickers. Greater understanding of<br />

the organised criminal networks and methods<br />

of using the financial system to launder funds<br />

generated from human slavery will also<br />

increase the filing of suspicious activity reports<br />

to local financial intelligence units as well as<br />

enhanced cooperation of all global partners.<br />

2. Corporations<br />

Companies ought to exercise vigilance in<br />

combating abuses of human rights in their<br />

supply chains.<br />

Corporate Investors can help fight human<br />

slavery by the incorporation of environmental<br />

and human rights factors into their governance<br />

and pre-investment due diligence processes.<br />

Managing risks to people should become one<br />

of the factors considered as part of the risk<br />

assessment of the business.<br />

3. Governments<br />

Governments should also take steps to<br />

ensure that transparency in supply chains is<br />

a requirement for confirmation of slave free<br />

procurement in government engagement.<br />

During 2016-2017 the Office of the OSCE<br />

Special Representative and coordinator<br />

for Combating Trafficking in Human Beings<br />

implemented the project “Prevention of<br />

Trafficking in Human Beings in Supply Chains<br />

through Government Practices and Measures”,<br />

a project which is currently underway.<br />

I believe that women have a key role to play in<br />

society and in ending modern slavery. For this<br />

reason, I am proud to be a leader at GIFEW.<br />

GIFEW is a global multi-dimensional platform<br />

for transformational education, connection<br />

and synergistic collaboration of conscious<br />

women leaders around the world. We believe<br />

it is unleashing the power of women leaders<br />

and working in collaboration with men which<br />

will bring about the change we wish to see in<br />

the world. Through my own transformational<br />

journey, I set up Step Up Stop Slavery, in order<br />

to bring together partners in the financial and<br />

business sector, to further collaboration for<br />

the purpose of efficient engagement in the<br />

global effort to combat human slavery. It is<br />

time for us as individuals and professionals to<br />

Step Up and Stop Slavery.<br />

We have a responsibility to shine light into the<br />

darkness that is human slavery and take an<br />

active role to effect change. Collectively we can<br />

use our voices and professional expertise to<br />

uphold justice, respect and integrity for every<br />

human being.<br />

We will be the generation that ends modern<br />

slavery! Together we can!<br />

12 13


Interview<br />

<strong>Eline</strong><strong>Pedersen</strong><br />

Doctor of Chiropractic<br />

What better<br />

time to provide<br />

release and<br />

healing to a<br />

human being<br />

than in that<br />

miraculous<br />

moment of<br />

birth?<br />

Who are YOU?<br />

I am a farm girl who grew up in Norway. We<br />

lived in nature and with nature, it was a<br />

very healthy and sustainable way to live. My<br />

parents were wonderful, I grew up knowing<br />

nothing but love and a friendly environment,<br />

my parents protected me from difficult things,<br />

until I reached an age where I was able to<br />

understand and also learn how to help solve<br />

problems in the world. I was very inspired by<br />

my mother. In between running around her<br />

herb garden mixing treatments for healing the<br />

animals on the farm, she worked for Amnesty<br />

International. I grew up believing in goodness<br />

and in myself, because people believed in me.<br />

So, this is what I'm now here to do: believe in<br />

others and show them the way to believe in<br />

themselves.<br />

I became a Doctor of Chiropractic in 2004<br />

because of my love for natural ways of healing<br />

and I am the owner of Aberdeen Chiropractic<br />

clinic in Scotland and First Breath Chiropractic<br />

clinics in Larnaca and Nicosia, Cyprus.<br />

My work is extremely fulfilling and I passionately<br />

wish to share that knowledge. I have been<br />

honoured to be given a number of awards, of<br />

particular note, as the initiator and founder of<br />

Birth Forward, a Cypriot non-profit organisation<br />

and also an “Honoris Cause Doctorate of<br />

Humanity” specialising in Leadership (AUGP).<br />

What is the single best piece<br />

of business advice that helped<br />

shape who you are now?<br />

Be honest!<br />

What do you think is the single<br />

most significant barrier to<br />

female leadership?<br />

I believe this is culturally dependent. I'm talking<br />

about the culture in a country, or the culture in<br />

a business, or the culture in a micro or macro<br />

environment. In order for female leadership to<br />

become more accepted we need to change the<br />

culture, and that has to happen from within.<br />

We need to foster and empower women<br />

coming into the business world. Women<br />

who are already empowered have a massive<br />

responsibility in this process. By sharing our<br />

own experiences and knowledge, our love<br />

and our passion, our “feminine capital” – in<br />

accordance with the message of our dear Viola<br />

Edward of Feminine Capital (www.violaedward.<br />

com) – we need to bring out the best female<br />

strengths, without being abusive or aggressive<br />

in our ways. I believe there's a beautiful way<br />

to provide leadership as a woman without<br />

competing with the male style of leadership;<br />

there’s a balance between the two, a beautiful<br />

dance, and I believe in the current business<br />

environment we have lost this balance by<br />

overusing one style only and the feminine<br />

aspect becoming too masculinized.<br />

How do you take care of your<br />

body, mind and soul?<br />

Well I'm a chiropractor and our philosophy is to<br />

look after mind, body and soul. Getting regular<br />

treatment from my fellow chiropractors makes<br />

me adaptable and ready for everything in life. I<br />

live an extremely busy life, travelling a lot, and<br />

am involved in lots of projects but I still feel I<br />

can manage. I always say that I'm “busy by<br />

choice.” It might sound funny, but I love being<br />

busy! I love engaging in my passion; I love my<br />

clients, all the pregnant mums and new babies<br />

that I see, and I have to make very conscious<br />

choices to have a sustainable life. Several<br />

things are a “must” to manage this and they<br />

cannot be compromised. After I drop off my<br />

kids at school I make time for stand up paddle<br />

boarding, a swim or pilates. I breathe in the<br />

beauty of the Mediterranean Sea.<br />

My chiropractic adjustments, sleep, healthy<br />

living, eating well and super foods, water and<br />

exercise are a high priority.<br />

If you were in the jungle what<br />

animal would you be?<br />

A lioness: protecting her cubs and future<br />

generations with her life.<br />

How do you manage your time<br />

between Cyprus and Scotland?<br />

This actually works out really well for us. I<br />

spend three weeks in Cyprus, one week in<br />

Scotland every month. Thankfully, my amazing<br />

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husband, Costas, is my rock and my soul mate<br />

and a brilliant father to our two sons. The week<br />

I am away is an intense working time. I focus,<br />

plan, manage and create, as well as see clients<br />

in Scotland. When I'm in Cyprus, my absolute<br />

focus is the kids. We play and create together<br />

as much as we can. Sometimes my husband<br />

goes to Scotland instead, and this gives him the<br />

opportunity to plan, go to seminars, connect<br />

to our staff and associates in Aberdeen, and<br />

have some time for himself. At times one of<br />

us has to stay in Scotland and we might only<br />

get a weekend together every month. Having<br />

two small children it can be hard, but I think<br />

we manage really well. It’s also good, as we<br />

learn a lot about ourselves and each other!<br />

We’ve been together 18 years and have gotten<br />

so close, with two very different cultures and<br />

two very different personalities. We’ve grown<br />

together, both as business partners and in<br />

our personal relationship. We’ve created<br />

habits and adjusted our ways and cultures<br />

to fit each other’s perspectives. I believe one<br />

of the core values we share is a commitment<br />

to support each other. We want this so much<br />

there could be a danger to forget what we<br />

want as individuals. By being apart we get<br />

some distance and the chance to take care<br />

of our individual self. So, we create a space<br />

where we remember who we are at all times.<br />

This is something we’ve developed from our<br />

experiences and it is very healthy.<br />

What made you specialise in<br />

birth trauma, paediatric care<br />

and pregnant women in the<br />

field of chiropractic medicine?<br />

I think it’s beautiful to see the changes a woman<br />

goes through during her pregnancy and as she<br />

becomes a mother. I love to be a part of that.<br />

I'm very concerned when natural processes<br />

during this time of development for mother<br />

and baby cannot happen, for one reason or<br />

another. The nature of birth can differ from<br />

person to person, from one birth to another.<br />

But the important thing is for mothers and<br />

couples to have all the information available to<br />

them to make empowered choices for the birth<br />

– whatever the nature of that birth might be. It<br />

is important that they are informed, listened<br />

to, and part of the decision making during this<br />

beautiful time. I'm concerned for babies born<br />

with trauma, especially when they are unable<br />

to breastfeed and connect with their mother<br />

and father during the first moments of life.<br />

When I see trauma and tension in a newborn<br />

unfolding in my hands…when I see the child<br />

release that trauma, it’s as if they are taking<br />

their very first free breath, and then they relax…<br />

it's amazing to watch, it’s like magic every single<br />

time to see them take that breath.<br />

What inspires you in your work?<br />

I absolutely love my work. I am so passionate<br />

about educating mothers and fathers during<br />

the process of becoming a family. We know<br />

from the Primal Health Research Database of<br />

Dr. Michel Odent (www.primalhealthresearch.<br />

com) that the moment of birth is a most<br />

critical time for our future mental and physical<br />

wellbeing. So what better time to provide<br />

release and healing to a human being than<br />

in that miraculous moment of birth? There<br />

are so many great chiropractors around the<br />

world providing care for mums and babies<br />

and I am truly grateful for what I have learned<br />

from my mentors, like Claudia Anrig (www.<br />

drclaudiaanrig.com), the author of the greatest<br />

paediatric chiropractic textbook written.<br />

Another inspiring leader is Dr. Jeanne Ohm<br />

(www.icpa4kids.com) founder of The Pathways<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> (www.pathwaystofamilywellness.<br />

org) which is an amazing resource for parents<br />

and parents-to-be. Jeanne is a mother of six as<br />

well as running the International Chiropractic<br />

Paediatric Association. I also really admire Heidi<br />

Haavik (www.heidihaavik.com), a Norwegian<br />

chiropractor and researcher who is doing<br />

ground-breaking research on the profound<br />

effects of chiropractic adjustment, showing<br />

how we become more adaptable and capable<br />

human beings with every adjustment received,<br />

as we optimise the nervous system functions.<br />

If you go to her website, you can see some<br />

awesome videos on the positive benefits of<br />

chiropractic care beyond pain. I could mention<br />

so many more! I’m surrounded by leaders and<br />

enthusiastic, committed and loving human<br />

beings – how can I not be inspired to also<br />

contribute and share this beautiful work?<br />

Does your work translate into<br />

benefits for your own personal<br />

and family life?<br />

Chiropractic is a lifestyle for us and filters<br />

onto every aspect of our life. We always strive<br />

to make educated and conscious choices<br />

for ourselves and our children, our own<br />

experiences likewise influence the direction of<br />

work.<br />

I gave birth to my first son, Savvas, in the<br />

hospital. A beautiful midwife led the birth<br />

which took many hours and a lot of patience,<br />

breathing and deep connectedness with my<br />

husband, we gave birth together. Savvas is<br />

now 8 years-old and so patient with a beautiful<br />

and sensitive soul.<br />

My second son, Matheos, was born at home<br />

and I delivered him myself, with my humble<br />

midwives protecting and holding the space for<br />

me to be free to do whatever I felt I needed.<br />

It was the most spiritual moment in my life.<br />

He and I gave birth together, he directed<br />

the movements of the “dance” through<br />

the contractions like the conductor of an<br />

orchestra. He was in charge of every breath;<br />

I listened and obeyed. No one interfered with<br />

our symphony. Now, you may ask me, how is<br />

he today, at the age of 5? He has not changed!<br />

He is fearless! He owns his body and his own<br />

soul with such confidence.<br />

I believe my childrens’ births are connected to<br />

how they are, as beings. It is my job to not break<br />

down who they are with limiting beliefs. If you<br />

think about it, isn’t it curious that mothers are<br />

often told what to do, instead of being asked<br />

what do you need during your birth? And I think<br />

we need to challenge this even further, we<br />

should be asking what does your baby need?<br />

Think about how that changes our conversation<br />

around birth! Dr. Michel Odent speaks about<br />

how we need to change the language around<br />

birth. His speaks of the need to protect rather<br />

than “support” the birthing woman. The word<br />

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“support” implies that she needs somebody<br />

else around to be able to manage. Whereas<br />

if you use the word protect, it changes the<br />

conversation completely because a woman<br />

who is fully protected, can be aware, present<br />

and engaged, and she knows what she and her<br />

baby need during that birth.<br />

What was the inspiration for<br />

Birth Forward?<br />

Birth Forward is a non-profit NGO in Cyprus<br />

(www.birthforward.com). I was inspired to<br />

start Birth Forward, through my work as a<br />

chiropractor, and seeing the situation in Cyprus<br />

through the experiences of my own children’s<br />

births. In Cyprus we have very high rates of<br />

intervention, low rates of breastfeeding, and<br />

very high rates of Caesarian section. Almost<br />

two thirds of babies are born through surgery<br />

instead of naturally. Clearly, sometimes<br />

medical intervention is needed but the aim<br />

should be the best possible experience<br />

for mothers and fathers even in these<br />

circumstances, making sure their wishes and<br />

needs are met, and that they are fully informed<br />

and part of the decision-making. When I took<br />

the initiative to create Birth Forward in 2013<br />

I brought together professionals: midwives,<br />

colleagues, obstetricians, general physicians,<br />

psychologists, psychotherapists and – most<br />

importantly – mothers who had had many<br />

different birthing experiences. My aim was<br />

to bridge the gap between professionals<br />

and parents, and to bridge the scope of the<br />

subject itself, by addressing the issue from<br />

preconception through to childhood. At the<br />

same time, I wanted to bridge the divide<br />

between the two communities of the beautiful<br />

island of Cyprus (divided politically since 1974),<br />

by bringing together people from across the<br />

whole island to focus on what we can do to<br />

change the situation. The idea is to do this in a<br />

compassionate way and in a multidisciplinary<br />

way, bringing everybody together to make a<br />

positive change.<br />

Can you tell us more about the<br />

work of Birth Forward?<br />

It’s been an amazing journey! We work<br />

together with other professional bodies,<br />

with the Cypriot Ministry of Health, with the<br />

department of Midwifery and Nursing at the<br />

Cyprus University of Technology, and with<br />

organisations in the UK, Germany and Greece.<br />

At the moment our big focus is introducing a<br />

web-based app which informs parents from<br />

the first day of pregnancy until the baby is six<br />

months old. This is a fantastic product called<br />

Baby Buddy Forward, based on Baby Buddy<br />

in the UK. The web app will be adjusted to<br />

the Cypriot culture and translated into Greek,<br />

Turkish, Arabic and Russian. It is an EU funded<br />

project and is the biggest project we have had<br />

so far. Meanwhile, we work for advocacy and<br />

the Ministry of Health has promised a strategy<br />

for improving birthing in Cyprus, so this is<br />

already in motion based on our work. We<br />

provide regular support groups for mothers to<br />

revisit and discuss their birthing experiences,<br />

IVF and loss of baby support groups. We<br />

also provide educational materials, informing<br />

the public of European evidence-based<br />

guidelines through our Scientific Advisory<br />

Board. I believe it is extremely important as<br />

leader of any organisation to make sure that<br />

all the information that's going out is fully in<br />

line with the latest evidence and fully in line<br />

with the human rights aspects of healthcare.<br />

In just three years the organisation has been<br />

recognized on a national level and is the<br />

leading organisation in Cyprus on this subject,<br />

representing both parents and professionals.<br />

Birth Forward operates with up to six paid<br />

staff depending on the project we work on<br />

and about 60 volunteers. I'm extremely proud<br />

to have been elected President of such an<br />

amazing organisation.<br />

What is next for you and for<br />

Birth Forward?<br />

In the immediate future what's on the agenda<br />

for Birth Forward is to follow up with the<br />

Ministry of Health’s strategy for birth in Cyprus.<br />

We're also working on bringing together<br />

mothers, fathers and children from the two<br />

sides of this politically split island by having<br />

a Birth Forward presence in the north of<br />

Cyprus. We’ve arranged family gatherings and<br />

breastfeeding events, in collaboration with<br />

professionals from both sides, and already see<br />

more collaboration happening across the two<br />

communities. Our monthly meetings are always<br />

held in the “Green” buffer zone at the Home<br />

for Cooperation (www.home4cooperation.<br />

info). This is a Norwegian funded project to<br />

support collaborative initiatives, and I love the<br />

fact that we can use this building to hold our<br />

AGM, monthly meetings and other events.<br />

Beyond this, I am working on implementing a<br />

research project with specialists from around<br />

Europe and the world, on a concept where we<br />

want to investigate the potential benefits of<br />

protecting the first breath of life. I see society<br />

and the world suffering, we have more sickness<br />

and more mental health issues as time goes<br />

on, and in light of research supporting the idea<br />

that the most critical time period for our mental<br />

and physical wellbeing, may very well be the<br />

moment of birth, my question is: if we protect<br />

the first breath can we save our society? There<br />

are so many things that have to fall into place<br />

and it requires multidisciplinary collaboration,<br />

which respects both mothers and babies,<br />

physical bodies and feelings. What if we protect<br />

our future generations’ first breath? If every<br />

child could take its first breath fearless, relaxed<br />

and open, would this child grow up healthier,<br />

more confident and more resilient? It’s a bold<br />

question and there has been a lot of interest. I<br />

hope we might see not just a documentary but<br />

also the seeds for many new collaborations,<br />

research and guidelines to improve birthing<br />

culture around the world. The first step is to<br />

bring together a crowd of profoundly different<br />

professionals to discuss the concept. Apart<br />

from the obvious health professionals involved<br />

with birth, chiropractors, and osteopaths, we<br />

are inviting top researchers from a diversity<br />

of fields. The first event will be arranged in<br />

collaboration with the Laszlo Institute of the<br />

New Paradigm http://www.laszloinstitute.com/<br />

in Italy this year and I’m really excited see what<br />

will come of this.<br />

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Environment<br />

Are you<br />

environmentally<br />

fit?Claire Morley<br />

The last few months have shown a flurry of activity<br />

by governments and corporations, all keen to<br />

prove they are environmentally responsible in a<br />

world which is becoming increasingly overrun by<br />

plastic.<br />

David Attenborough and the final episode of the<br />

Blue Planet II series proved to be a huge wakeup<br />

call to many, suddenly realising how much<br />

damage single-use plastic has been doing to<br />

our planet. Calls for greater and better recycling<br />

facilities have echoed around the globe, but is that<br />

really the answer? The answer is a resounding NO!<br />

It isn’t the solution that many believe it to be.<br />

Much of the single-use plastic in our lives is not<br />

recyclable and items like water bottles will be<br />

around on our planet for hundreds of years,<br />

breaking down into tiny particles, finding their<br />

way into the sea, eaten by marine life and<br />

before long consumed by us.<br />

The amount of plastic produced in a year<br />

is roughly the same as the entire weight of<br />

humanity.<br />

The number of bags used every year by<br />

Americans tied together would reach around<br />

the Earth’s equator 773 times<br />

There is more microplastic in the ocean then<br />

there are stars in the Milky Way<br />

Over the last ten years, we have produced<br />

more plastic than during the whole of the last<br />

century<br />

Plastic chemicals can be absorbed by the<br />

body – 93% of Americans test positive for<br />

BPA (a plastic chemical).<br />

40% of plastic produced is packaging, used<br />

once then discarded – 161 million tons a year<br />

44% of seabirds are being documented with<br />

plastic in or around their bodies.<br />

Why not recycling?<br />

Reducing the amount and types of plastic<br />

we use, would be a better solution. Recycling<br />

gives us a false sense of security. Believing in<br />

the power of recycling can in fact increase the<br />

consumption of plastic, through the conviction<br />

that it will all be recycled. That’s not to say<br />

recycling should be completely disregarded,<br />

but ultimately, we need to investigate ways to<br />

reduce relentless, unnecessary waste – plastic<br />

or otherwise. We must alter how we live, to<br />

consider how much we waste, rather than<br />

what we waste.<br />

How you can help as an<br />

individual.<br />

1. Stop using plastic bags – take your own<br />

bags (or even make your own shopping bags<br />

by recycling tee-shirts https://www.youtube.<br />

com/watch?v=Cin_wLIW9S8)<br />

2. Change your Toothbrushes and razors –<br />

buy bamboo toothbrushes and metal razors.<br />

3. Try Shampoo soap – not only environmentally<br />

friendly, but a great deal cheaper. What do you<br />

think people used before shampoo came in<br />

plastic bottles?<br />

4. Buy loose fruit and vegetables – have a<br />

supply of netting bags (or better still make<br />

your own) and only purchase loose fruit<br />

and vegetables. The bags are reusable and<br />

washable.<br />

5. Choose glass jars over plastic containers in<br />

the supermarket.<br />

6. Ditch tea-bags in favour of loose tea and<br />

teapots. Tea bags contain plastic.<br />

7. Carry a reusable straw for your iced coffee.<br />

8. Take your own take-out cup to the coffee<br />

shop and your own containers to the takeaway.<br />

9. Spread the word - Encourage others to<br />

ditch single use plastics.<br />

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Environmentally fit office<br />

1. Conduct a waste audit, find out what<br />

actually gets thrown away in your office.<br />

2. Share results with staff and run a<br />

competition to reduce plastic use.<br />

ChriSOULa Sirigou<br />

3. As well as encouraging staff to make plasticfree<br />

choices, work with your suppliers too.<br />

4. If a mains-water drinking fountain is not a<br />

viable option, install a water cooler. The large<br />

water bottles are refilled and reused. Provide<br />

your work force with reusable water bottles<br />

ditch the plastic cups, add your logo and you<br />

have free advertising while helping to save our<br />

planet. Use water glasses for visitors.<br />

5. Stop buying plastic straws – the US alone<br />

uses over 500 million plastic straws a day,<br />

enough to go around the world two and a half<br />

times. There are plenty of alternatives from<br />

bamboo to steel to pasta to paper.<br />

6. Do your staff order take-out lunch?<br />

Encourage them to take their own containers<br />

to collect their food and bring their own<br />

non-plastic cutlery or provide your staff with<br />

reusable containers and cutlery.<br />

The BOOK of<br />

SOULFUL<br />

MUSINGS<br />

To rid the planet of plastic usage completely<br />

is not only overly ambitious but nigh on<br />

impossible, almost everything we use from cars<br />

to domestic appliances to building materials to<br />

our clothes now contain plastic. However, if<br />

we become more responsible with our usage,<br />

step away from the throw-away society we<br />

have become, be more mindful of what we use<br />

and what we throw away, take responsibility,<br />

we can have an enormous positive impact on<br />

our environment. We need to act now before<br />

the consequences of our plastic usage cannot<br />

be reversed.<br />

Inspiring Conversations to Live LIFE<br />

with Love Intention Flow Ease<br />

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Claire Morley, an eco-warrior in her adopted country of Cyprus, set up<br />

a No Straws initiative to encourage bars, restaurants, hotels and cafes to<br />

take the Straw on Demand challenge. She is also the Editorial Coordinator<br />

for <strong>Business</strong> <strong>Fit</strong> and HealthPreneur and runs a business helping authors<br />

to self-publish and promote their books.<br />

www.myepublishbook.com<br />

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Mindset & Emotion<br />

Team Motivation –<br />

It’$ all about<br />

Mon€y ,<br />

i$n’t it?<br />

MaLish<br />

Have you ever asked yourself why some teams<br />

have an amazing team spirit and are motivated<br />

and others, even within the same company and<br />

department are not? As a team leader: What keeps<br />

your employees going beyond the standard for<br />

you? As a team member: what makes you walk the<br />

so-called extra mile?<br />

Motivation and satisfaction of<br />

needs<br />

We are human beings and all made up of<br />

the same molecules. Why are we so different<br />

in our motivation, aspiration, dreams and<br />

wishes? One of the first people to think and<br />

publish about this phenomenon was Abraham<br />

Maslow. In his pyramid of the “hierarchy of<br />

needs” he tells us about different levels of<br />

needs. On the bottom of the pyramid are<br />

the basic needs, these need to be satisfied<br />

first. But once achieved they do not motivate<br />

further. That means: after having enough food,<br />

safe shelter, enough money to survive and a<br />

job, people are looking for self-fulfilment and<br />

self-actualisation. In our Western world we can<br />

be thankful that we don’t have to fight for food<br />

and clean water. Still we are all on different<br />

“satisfaction levels” in Maslow’s term. Finding<br />

out where each team member is standing is<br />

one of the most challenging tasks of a team<br />

leader. How can we find out what motivates<br />

each team member?<br />

To keep a team motivated they<br />

should feel that:<br />

• Their management trusts them<br />

• The goals set are S.M.A.R.T.<br />

• The internal communication is transparent<br />

• They are empowered to lead themselves<br />

Which leads to:<br />

• Increased productivity<br />

• Enhanced commitment in work performance<br />

• Psychological job satisfaction<br />

Balancing monetary and nonmonetary<br />

aspects<br />

Why are some employees motivated by more<br />

money, higher bonuses, salary increase each<br />

year and other tangible assets while others<br />

are not? Can’t those who are searching for<br />

fulfilment not simply take the extra money,<br />

bonus and pay raise to invest it in what is<br />

meaningful and fulfilling to them? The answer<br />

is not so simple. Employees could pay for their<br />

own membership at a gym, but the meaning<br />

is different if the employer actively helps to<br />

facilitate this for their work force.<br />

What is in it for companies, how do they profit<br />

if they balance both aspects (monetary and<br />

non-monetary):<br />

• A good example is the wish of an employee to<br />

work in another country. Why not send them to<br />

one of the subsidiaries? This will create a win/<br />

win situation: your employee is helping to build<br />

/increase know how and processes on the<br />

one hand and the company will benefit from<br />

intercultural interaction and understanding on<br />

the other hand.<br />

• People are motivated if they have an<br />

employer who thinks outside the box – even<br />

if they don’t make use of the gym membership<br />

or the sabbatical – it’s still seen as a plus.<br />

• Another bonus for the company is that nonmonetary<br />

remuneration can also help to build<br />

the brand and attract future employees.<br />

How do you implement it?<br />

It all sounds amazing doesn’t it? Now the<br />

question is how to get there? First listen<br />

to your employees. They are telling you all<br />

the time what they are missing and what<br />

their trigger points are. These days money<br />

motivators are not working anymore. Society is<br />

changing, work/life balance is more important<br />

than driving a fancy car. We are dealing with<br />

Lilli Rohde, Co-founder MaLish, <strong>Business</strong> strategist, international Speaker<br />

and international Coach Lilli managed international sales teams, implemented<br />

systems, tools and processes on a global scale and launched successful<br />

products in her time within the Food and Beverage industry.<br />

Maike Benner, Co-founder MaLish, <strong>Business</strong> strategist, Finance expert<br />

and international Speaker Maike has supported, managed and led various<br />

projects in her professional and volunteer life. Her analytical, communication<br />

and project management skills have made her an expert in the field of system<br />

implementation, workshops and trainings. www.malish.global<br />

a different generation of employees and they<br />

value different things. A one-size fits all strategy<br />

does not work anymore.<br />

Motivational factors must be seen as a<br />

foundation. If your teams are motivated they<br />

will be passionate and enjoy working for<br />

the company which leads to loyalty, during<br />

good times and bad. If a team is motivated,<br />

they will be engaged and contribute to the<br />

group’s performance. As leaders we need to<br />

understand what motivates each individual in<br />

our team and we should be able to manage<br />

them accordingly.<br />

In our opinion, It is more important that the<br />

team members feel great about the work they<br />

are doing, rather than them doing great work.<br />

To quote Rob Boegheim, Managing Director<br />

& Chief Explorer at Hema Maps: “The most<br />

effective motivation occurs when the team<br />

understands and accepts the mission and<br />

goals of the organisation. Motivation begins<br />

with hiring talented individuals who believe<br />

in the company. It then continues when<br />

those individuals are allowed to exercise their<br />

talents and creativity freely with full support of<br />

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Body<br />

Wellbeing and Burnout<br />

Without our health we have nothing<br />

We live in a culture which celebrates being busy<br />

and are finding it increasingly difficult to switch off.<br />

We are overloaded with content, we have more<br />

access to information and opportunities thanks to<br />

the digital world, but it is also overwhelming us.<br />

We often celebrate being busy like it is a badge<br />

of honour, confusing being busy as a sign of<br />

success, so the cycle continues year-on-year<br />

and we frequently send ourselves into a state<br />

of burnout.<br />

Burnout is an extended period of time where<br />

you experience exhaustion and a lack of<br />

interest in things.<br />

Researchers at the University of Chicago found<br />

that the common belief that being busy is a sign<br />

of success and hard work is so prevalent that<br />

we actually fear inactivity, which is detrimental<br />

to our physical and mental wellbeing. Being<br />

in this constant state not only has a negative<br />

impact on our wellbeing, but it stifles creativity,<br />

productivity and prevents us from producing<br />

our best standard of work.<br />

Nova Reid<br />

So if burnout does not serve us,<br />

why do we continue to get into<br />

this vicious cycle?<br />

Researchers at The University of Chicago also<br />

link an innate fear of inactivity, to a fear of<br />

failure. So perhaps this might go some way to<br />

explain why so many not only find it hard to<br />

say no, but hard to switch off and regularly find<br />

ourselves in a state of burnout.<br />

It’s worth noting, a study commissioned by<br />

Montreal University reveals that women are<br />

more likely to experience burnout than men,<br />

(of course some of this may be linked to the<br />

default parental and gender roles that are<br />

bestowed upon us, generally speaking, there<br />

is an expectation that women who are parents<br />

are also the main caregiver, so this must be<br />

taken into consideration too, but it is not the<br />

only factor and is not true for those who are not<br />

partnered or parents). Research also shows<br />

us that women and are more susceptible to<br />

anxiety than men.<br />

Perhaps it is time for all of us to take ownership<br />

and stop normalising and enabling the culture<br />

of burnout and instead to start prioritising our<br />

wellbeing. After all, without our health we have<br />

nothing.<br />

Be truthful with yourself and ask - what kind<br />

of service am I giving to my customers /<br />

employers/ or employees, if I am in a constant<br />

state of exhaustion? They deserve better and<br />

so do you.<br />

So what can you do to stop the<br />

cycle of burnout?<br />

Be self-aware - If you are noticing low level<br />

anxiety, trouble sleeping, unexplained weight<br />

loss, short temper, trouble concentrating,<br />

cynicism about your job or industry, reduced<br />

motivation, an increase in stress and a<br />

decrease in self-care, take action to increase<br />

your self-care, or ask for help and seek advice<br />

from a medical practitioner.<br />

Stop Multitasking<br />

We think multitasking shows efficiency - it<br />

doesn’t. We can achieve so much more and are<br />

more productive when we focus on just one<br />

thing at a time. Use your to-do list to encourage<br />

you to focus and be more productive. Restrict<br />

it to 5 things. This will encourage you to actively<br />

complete a task before adding a new one. If<br />

emails or social media notifications are a<br />

distraction, take control and remove them<br />

from your mobile phone and only access them<br />

when you are on your desktop. Take control of<br />

your usage and people’s access to you.<br />

Prioritise wellness<br />

Schedule regular self-care: You should ideally<br />

try to implement self-care on a daily basis.<br />

In the same way you schedule time to do<br />

administration, schedule regular self-care in<br />

your diary. Take that walk in nature, listen to<br />

Nova Reid, is a diversity campaigner & wellbeing mentor passionate about<br />

helping people discover their best selves. Nova is a certified NLP Life Coach,<br />

an expert in her field and has appeared on Sky News and the BBC and<br />

frequently writes for national publications. She runs bi-annual retreats to help<br />

professional women who are tired of settling, to ditch burnout and prioritise<br />

their wellbeing. www.novareid.com, nova@novareid.com<br />

that mindfulness podcast, take a new class,<br />

have that massage or long soak in the bath,<br />

learn something new, finish that book. Switch<br />

off your phone, block out that time for yourself<br />

and prioritise it. Disconnect from any electronic<br />

devices at least an hour before you go to bed,<br />

so you can prepare your body to shut down<br />

and sleep and not overload your brain with<br />

stimuli.<br />

Pay attention to your natural coping strategies.<br />

The first thing we do when become pressured<br />

at work, or start to feel stressed, is ditch our<br />

natural coping strategies. When in-fact it’s<br />

these strategies that keep us mentally well and<br />

healthy, so at times of pressure, we should be<br />

increasing them.<br />

Are there things you enjoy doing that you have<br />

stopped and don’t feel you don’t have time for?<br />

Not only should you re-introduce them, but<br />

increase the frequency of doing them! Your<br />

mental and physical health will thank you for it.<br />

Take time out without the guilt<br />

Don’t be a martyr to your health or happiness.<br />

Sometimes you need to hit the pause or<br />

reset button and that is ok. It is not a sign of<br />

weakness, or that you aren’t capable, but a<br />

sign of caring about your own wellness, valuing<br />

your worth and self-preservation.<br />

Investing in yourself is investing in your wealth,<br />

so take every opportunity to do things that<br />

nurture, inspire and energise you. When you are<br />

replenished instead of depleted your output<br />

increases, your creativity and productivity<br />

improves and you cultivate an environment<br />

for innovation. That’s where you want to be<br />

operating from, because that’s where the new<br />

opportunities and magic happen.<br />

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<strong>Business</strong><br />

Why It Pays for Women to be<br />

Financially<br />

Independent<br />

Olga Stepien<br />

We live, as the ancient saying goes, in "interesting<br />

times". In many ways, there's never been a better<br />

era to be a woman. Glass ceilings are finally<br />

starting to shatter, female entrepreneurship is at an<br />

all-time high, and the #MeToo movement gathers<br />

steam daily. According to a 2016 study by Bank<br />

of America and USA Today, younger women are<br />

actually more financially independent today than<br />

their male counterparts. And yet, despite taking<br />

their place at the boardroom table, many women<br />

are still playing catch-up when it comes to financial<br />

independence in middle age and retirement.<br />

The question is: are we still investing ourselves so<br />

completely in our families that we set ourselves up<br />

to fail?<br />

There's no doubt that women have been<br />

socialised for generations to accept that<br />

personal finance is a man's game. Not so<br />

long ago, it was standard for a woman's role<br />

in the family to be solely that of caregiver,<br />

making sure dinner was on the table while<br />

her partner returned with (and managed)<br />

the paycheque. But while family roles have<br />

shifted, many women continue to prioritise<br />

their families, without taking care of their own<br />

financial stability. The most direct way they do<br />

this, of course, is through stalling their careers<br />

to focus on raising children, ensuring that their<br />

earnings (and savings) progress at a slower<br />

rate in future. While studies show that women<br />

are generally better at day-to-day financial<br />

maintenance, they also tend to use their salary<br />

for household and childcare expenses, while<br />

their partners' earnings are funnelled into<br />

investments that consequently do not bear<br />

both their names.<br />

The belief for women who do this, of course,<br />

is that they are operating as part of a unit, and<br />

their personal investment will be rewarded<br />

in love, care, and financial security from their<br />

Olga Stepien, is an Anti-Money Laundering Senior Reviewer, specialising in<br />

emerging markets (with a primary focus on Russia), having gained experience<br />

working for international organisations in Gdynia, Moscow, and London. She<br />

is also a fully qualified personal trainer, and – the role she treasures most – a<br />

mum.<br />

partners and families. Unfortunately, with<br />

around half of marriages ending in divorce,<br />

and a large proportion of widows struggling<br />

in poverty, the reality can be quite different.<br />

Divorce is particularly costly for women,<br />

who tend to absorb the risk, and struggle to<br />

increase their pension funds in subsequent<br />

years.<br />

The fact is that the same women who are<br />

seizing power in business need to take a<br />

leadership role in their own financial lives,<br />

in order to create economic security for<br />

themselves and their children. Nobody enters<br />

a romantic partnership hoping to divorce, but<br />

taking a pragmatic approach can protect you<br />

from disaster should the worst happen. Start<br />

thinking about savings, property, financial<br />

management and life cover sooner rather than<br />

later. Make family finances a joint endeavour.<br />

Ensure joint investment accounts are in both<br />

spouses' names. Most importantly, never give<br />

up your financial independence - as well as<br />

having a stake in joint assets, be sure to keep<br />

some of your own alongside.<br />

It may sound unromantic, but this approach is<br />

not about selfishness or cutting off the family<br />

you love. It's rather about managing your<br />

finances with the savvy you use to manage<br />

people or funds in your business life. With the<br />

right partner, you'll continue to increase the<br />

value of your assets, while creating something<br />

completely new together, and hopefully enjoy<br />

the fruits of both your labours for many years<br />

to come. If not, you'll be in a better position<br />

to weather the storm. After all, the only<br />

investment you'll never regret is the one you<br />

make in yourself.<br />

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Mindset & Emotion<br />

Caroline Makaka is the founder of Ladies of all<br />

Nations International also known as LOANI. It is a<br />

supportive non-profit global organisation, covering<br />

over 85 countries, promoting inclusiveness and<br />

bringing together like-minded individuals to<br />

promote diversity inclusiveness among people<br />

from all backgrounds and cultures<br />

Dr Caroline is a determined and vigorous<br />

individual, yet pleasantly calm. She reflects<br />

a variety of personalities including ambition,<br />

generosity and thoughtfulness. Her mission is<br />

to connect cultures and help underprivileged<br />

communities. She also created Beautiful<br />

Survivors, an initiative dedicated to recognising<br />

people who have been victims of circumstances<br />

but still emerge as winners.<br />

Beautiful Survivors is about people who have<br />

faced challenges in their lives, who fought<br />

cancer, domestic violence, victims of torture,<br />

those who have lost their loved ones, parents<br />

who have lost children and other extraordinary<br />

circumstances. These remarkable people<br />

are survivors, resilient, fighters, champions,<br />

changemakers and community activists. These<br />

are people who have distinguished themselves<br />

from the challenges in their lives so that they<br />

can contribute to different sectors and services<br />

in their communities to do something to help<br />

others and raise awareness.<br />

LOANI<br />

Ladies Of All Nations International<br />

Viola Edward<br />

Any little effort that<br />

you make in your<br />

community counts<br />

When Caroline created LOANI her vision was<br />

to create a world-changing event with the<br />

purpose of uniting nations together, embracing<br />

diversity, enlightenment and connecting<br />

cultures through events. These have included<br />

multi-cultural fashion shows, entertainment to<br />

celebrate the beautiful survivors and to create<br />

opportunities and a supportive platform to<br />

connect people, to help them learn from other<br />

cultures, to love, encourage, protect, celebrate<br />

one another and fund initiatives to empower<br />

the most vulnerable women and children<br />

around the world.<br />

Every year LOANI selects and appoints an<br />

international ambassador to represent their<br />

nationality or community and encourage<br />

cultural understanding, empowerment,<br />

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Mindset & Emotion<br />

enlightenment and celebrate communities<br />

and women who have found success in their<br />

work and life, uniting for a great cause. Each<br />

ambassador will have the opportunity to host<br />

and collaborate towards different projects to<br />

improve the welfare of the underprivileged in<br />

their own communities.<br />

“Our mission is to create a platform which can<br />

identify role models, turning them into leaders<br />

then collectively create a world of peace to help<br />

the underprivileged around the world. We also<br />

aim to be connecting, supporting each other<br />

and doing the work of generosity to support<br />

and raise funds for the less privileged. In<br />

essence fellow Ambassadors and LOANI Team<br />

members can support one another to raise<br />

funds for the great cause. We can easily and<br />

collectively come together, pool our power and<br />

change the world. The movement has made us<br />

identify the needs in our communities to make<br />

sure developments are made big or small as<br />

well as share ideas, connecting and learn from<br />

each other,” explains Dr Caroline.<br />

Each international ambassador has made a<br />

contribution, big or small, in their community.<br />

The aim is to join forces, to host events,<br />

network, improve health and wellness and<br />

support one another, while helping the more<br />

vulnerable in our societies.<br />

In September this year, LOANI hosted a global<br />

event in Morocco, celebrating Moroccan<br />

cultures and supporting their community.<br />

They are now working with some Embassies<br />

to attempt to crystallise their vision of bringing<br />

nations together to resolve the biggest<br />

problems facing humanity around the globe.<br />

LOANI is very much focused on inspiring pride,<br />

bringing nations, professions and countries<br />

causes together to celebrate and unite as one<br />

under one roof for a great cause, to unite for<br />

humanity and support widows and orphans.<br />

“Our global networking inspires women to<br />

step up to the next level in the world, in<br />

their careers and in their lives, to discuss<br />

diversity and inclusion initiatives and provide<br />

an opportunity to learn about other cultures<br />

and diversity, knowledge, skills and experience<br />

and when we collectively put our hearts and<br />

authentic leadership into motion, we can move<br />

mountains,” said Dr Caroline.<br />

LOANI hopes to increase the countries it<br />

represents to 100 by the end of next year.<br />

Their next global event will be in South Africa<br />

from 8 – 12 August 2019.<br />

They have also announced another project,<br />

Galaxy of Stars Young Inspiration Awards.<br />

This is a movement created to recognise,<br />

acknowledge, honour, encourage and promote<br />

young people, their talents, abilities and their<br />

culture. By rewarding their efforts, they aim<br />

to build confidence and a positive learning<br />

environment, to help create future leaders and<br />

motivate individuals. It will also honour young<br />

beautiful survivors, young heroes and young<br />

carers, as well as those overcoming personal<br />

barriers and challenges in their lives to achieve<br />

success; those standing up against bullying<br />

and discrimination either socially, emotionally<br />

or physically as well as young people with<br />

disabilities and additional needs.<br />

Dr Caroline is creating an opportunity to<br />

recognise, honour and celebrate these young<br />

people and transform their pain into stardust.<br />

“For me it was about the impact, I believe l am<br />

here on this planet as a change maker and any<br />

little effort that you make in your community<br />

counts,” she says. “It’s only two years since l<br />

launched LOANI and already we represent 85<br />

countries, it just goes to show how something<br />

small can become big”.<br />

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Spirituality<br />

What is<br />

Spiritual<br />

Practice?<br />

Christopher Gladwell<br />

To begin with, let’s define what on earth spiritual<br />

actually means. A lot of people use the word and<br />

often never understand the real definition of this<br />

elusive term.<br />

It is often used, even in modern spirituality<br />

and yoga, to define the elusive stuff that joins<br />

everything together, stuff that is somehow<br />

different to all that is matter. This kind of<br />

dualistic vision presents matter and its opposite<br />

as spirit. Sometimes the word spiritual is used<br />

to define the source of matter. There is matter<br />

and there is that which makes it and holds it all<br />

together and this is spirit.<br />

Sometimes the word is used to define<br />

whatever is unseen. So, I suggest we use this<br />

medieval word simply to define our subjective<br />

experience of connectivity if at all.<br />

Why?<br />

As humans we are hardwired in our neurobiology<br />

to experience…<br />

• comparison and difference<br />

• separateness and then from this base -<br />

connection<br />

• solidity<br />

• a sense of permanence<br />

• definition<br />

• self as a separate thing from the rest of the<br />

universe<br />

• relationship as a process of self as subject<br />

and other as the object to our gaze<br />

If we look through the lens of evolutionary<br />

biology we find that this sense-of-self and its<br />

self-construct is something that has evolved<br />

to assist intra-species socialisation and<br />

reproduction of our genetic material. This<br />

process has taken around 500 million years<br />

to evolve and is, to say the least, a robust<br />

experience.<br />

If we look through the lens of neuro-biology<br />

we find parts of the brain such as the medial<br />

pre-prefrontal cortex, the insula, the parietal<br />

and cingulate, amongst others, that build this<br />

subjective experience of being a separate selfthing<br />

- in the face of a vast universe.<br />

If we look through the lens of chemistry we<br />

find that the majority of our structure is made<br />

of water and gases, and that even this water<br />

is made of two gases. We are mostly made of<br />

hydrogen, oxygen and nitrogen. A lot of the<br />

rest of us is made of carbon which in the form<br />

of carbon bound with oxygen, carbon-dioxide,<br />

is also a gas. The bits of us that aren’t these<br />

gases are mostly made of earth minerals.<br />

If we look through the lens of physics, we<br />

find that every particle that makes up our<br />

structure is made of spinning energy. When<br />

we go deeper into this energy it is hard to<br />

locate and also define. When we get down to<br />

a quantum level it even appears that a lot of<br />

what appears as solid is flickering into and out<br />

of existence. There are many theories about<br />

what this quantum level experience is, one by<br />

David Bohm suggests that all appearances, all<br />

vibrations and movements of energy (out of<br />

which matter is constructed) are scintillating<br />

into and out of existence as expressions of<br />

one unified field.<br />

So, everything that our nervous system<br />

says about what is solid, real and defined is<br />

inaccurate as there is nothing that is solid,<br />

permanent or truly defined. These are the<br />

appearances, what appears real to our<br />

nervous system. The reality is that there is no<br />

real solidity, no defined, inherent or separate<br />

existence to anything. It is all a seamless flow<br />

of energy that is most probably an underlying<br />

unified field sparkling into and out of existence<br />

as the appearances.<br />

The interesting correlation with the majority<br />

of the reported experience and arising yogic<br />

philosophies from deep meditators is that<br />

this formless base to all arising appearances<br />

has qualities. The key quality is awareness.<br />

The feeling side to this awareness is love or<br />

compassion. We find this in our own body as<br />

we go deep in the yogic practice of meditation.<br />

We find the constituents of our body as gases<br />

and appearances of solidity created by the<br />

energetic binding between these gases and<br />

earth minerals as an expression of space-time.<br />

We find this whole experience to be replete<br />

with awareness and love. In our own structure<br />

we find spacious-awareness as aware space. In<br />

yogic philosophy this formlessness is variously<br />

called avyakta or shunyata.<br />

Then comes the beauty, this formlessness is<br />

none other than the form. The appearances<br />

and the root of all the appearances, the unified<br />

field are one and the same, always as what<br />

some call brahman.<br />

One of the ways we begin the subjective<br />

deconstruction of this in the laboratory of our<br />

own experience is to engage in practices which<br />

retrain our brain to be able to step beyond the<br />

dualizing mechanisms of comparative mind.<br />

We do this by cultivating the observing self, the<br />

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Spirituality<br />

It is often used to<br />

define the elusive<br />

stuff that joins<br />

everything together<br />

witness pole of uninvolved pure awareness. We<br />

do this by paying attention to the key quality<br />

of seamlessness in our living experience,<br />

the life-breath. As we watch the breath,<br />

bringing consciousness to the process, we<br />

cultivate the observer position and we start to<br />

kinaesthetically experience the seamlessness<br />

of our body as an impermanent flow, gas as<br />

air, air as gas, as breath, as tissues. We feel this<br />

breath as the breath of all of life. We also pay<br />

attention to our other living process and find<br />

ourselves as water, as rivers and rain, warmth<br />

that derives from sunlight through the process<br />

of photosynthesis and above all the seamless<br />

web of space-time.<br />

Since we sense all of this we are also not it.<br />

Not being the systemic flow alone, we find<br />

ourselves as awareness in all of this systemic<br />

process. As we go deeper we find our original<br />

nature as awareness, inseparable from<br />

that which weaves as appearances. We find<br />

ourselves as no-self, as the totality, shunyatarupa,<br />

avyakta-vyakta, or as David Bohm calls it<br />

implicate-explicate.<br />

So let’s, just for now, consider the word<br />

spiritual to be an old school label to cover<br />

the terrain of all this whole, the one as the<br />

many and the many as the one, brahman. The<br />

realms of formlessness and its movements, its<br />

tremor into energy and its manifestation as<br />

the appearances as form.<br />

Imagine one word to cover this terrain of<br />

totality. The word spiritual is an old-fashioned<br />

word that can be repurposed to cover this<br />

terrain. The Sanskrit word for this is Advaita.<br />

Advaita simply means ‘never two’.<br />

Why is it called practice?<br />

It is not that advaita can be practiced, it just is,<br />

as it is. It is the doer, doing, the done and the<br />

done to all together and all at once. It is pure<br />

and total beingness.<br />

We can’t practice being this, we are it.<br />

However, our evolutionary biology stops us<br />

perceiving this, so the methods that suspend<br />

the ‘hallucination’ of the five senses enable us<br />

to perceive more fully how things really are.<br />

Practices that do this are traditionally called<br />

yogas, dogmas that promote this are religions<br />

and spiritual can be used to define the nondogmatic<br />

explorations of the unified field -<br />

unicity. What we practice are methods that<br />

help us to remember and know this unicity.<br />

As a result of these practices we may<br />

experience peak moments where the<br />

dissolution of the robust experience of being<br />

solid, real, defined and permanent as form,<br />

dissolve. These moments then have to be<br />

integrated into daily life. The real practice is<br />

integrating the experience of vastness into<br />

daily life.<br />

How does this integration most<br />

fully occur?<br />

When we find the peak experience within<br />

the weave of mundane, daily life. When we<br />

understand ourselves as the unified field,<br />

it manifests as kindness, as compassionate<br />

behaviour in our lives. Of course you don’t<br />

have to believe this, we don’t need more belief,<br />

the aim is to directly experience this in your<br />

life. Direct experience is what ‘spiritual’ practice<br />

is about.<br />

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Interview<br />

The<br />

Mentoring<br />

Champion<br />

Mentoring has the power to change lives.<br />

Chelsey Baker<br />

National Mentoring Day was founded by award<br />

winning mentor Chelsey Baker to celebrate<br />

mentoring and recognise the invaluable<br />

contribution that it makes to enterprise, education<br />

and society. Taking place annually on 27th<br />

October with Lord Young as the Patron, the official<br />

National Awareness Day encourages mentoring<br />

events and activities to take place across the world.<br />

The campaign to make mentoring accessible to<br />

everyone of all ages, ethnicities and backgrounds<br />

has received widespread support from leading<br />

brands, corporate organisations, celebrities<br />

and governments. Here in the UK the campaign<br />

reached the House of Lords, generating huge press<br />

coverage and attracting audiences worldwide.<br />

Chelsey has successfully mentored hundreds<br />

of businesses and individuals and is recognised<br />

as one of the UK’s leading business mentors.<br />

Her career spans over twenty years working in<br />

media, publishing, PR and marketing. Chelsey<br />

is an inspirational mentoring champion<br />

and campaigner where she has won five<br />

high profile awards for her mentoring work<br />

including “<strong>Business</strong> Mentor of the Year"<br />

awarded by Start Your <strong>Business</strong> magazine and<br />

she received the British Bankers' Association’s<br />

"Excellence in Enterprise Mentoring Award” at<br />

BAFTA. Chelsey is passionate about helping<br />

individuals achieve their full potential through<br />

mentoring and was chosen as a lead mentor<br />

for numerous governmental projects.<br />

As an author Chelsey is quoted and featured<br />

in hundreds of media outlets including Forbes,<br />

Reuters, The FT, Independent, Telegraph,<br />

Evening Standard, City AM, Daily Express, BBC,<br />

ITV, SKY, BBC2, The Times, Guardian and listed<br />

as one of the most influential women in the<br />

world.<br />

Why did you launch National<br />

Mentoring Day?<br />

I wanted to recognise the great work that<br />

mentors do and thank them for their efforts<br />

and appreciate the invaluable contribution<br />

they make. We need more mentors to support<br />

all areas of business and society, so I launched<br />

the campaign to help encourage others to<br />

mentor or seek mentoring.<br />

Whilst there are hundreds of great mentoring<br />

programmes out there, nothing connected<br />

everyone together. National Mentoring Day<br />

helps unite them and raise awareness on the<br />

benefits and impact of mentoring. I created<br />

a platform where all the different types of<br />

mentoring communities can co-exist and<br />

my aim is to connect all the initiatives and<br />

programmes together. This includes enterprise,<br />

educational, ex-forces, community and exoffender<br />

mentoring to work collaboratively to<br />

help advance mentoring.<br />

We need more<br />

mentors to<br />

support all areas<br />

of business and<br />

society<br />

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Why are you passionate about<br />

mentoring?<br />

I love mentoring because as a result of my<br />

guidance I get to see my clients succeed<br />

and share their success with them. In these<br />

continued times of unrest the world needs<br />

mentoring! Mentoring has the power to<br />

change lives.<br />

I’m driven by my mission to make mentoring<br />

accessible to everyone, this includes hard<br />

to reach groups from unemployed, elderly,<br />

veterans, homeless, families and those<br />

with mental health, disabilities or long-term<br />

illnesses, why shouldn’t they have access to<br />

mentoring? Mentoring is a way to create a<br />

more inclusive society and has the potential<br />

to trigger significant benefits on a global scale.<br />

Everyone has something to offer as a mentor<br />

and everyone has something to learn as a<br />

mentee. Mentoring should be accessible to<br />

any business, adult, child or group that needs<br />

it and National Mentoring Day will help make<br />

this happen.<br />

How can people get involved in<br />

the annual day?<br />

It takes place on 27th October each year to<br />

encourage organisations and individuals to<br />

create their own mentoring event, coffee<br />

morning, talk, conference, networking or<br />

mentoring workshop on the day to help raise<br />

awareness on the benefits of mentoring and<br />

thank mentors for the great work they do.<br />

The day attracts huge amounts of press and<br />

anyone can join in the conversations using the<br />

official hashtag #NationalMentoringDay which<br />

trends top on twitter every year.<br />

Free resources include: ‘thank your mentor’<br />

cards to recognise mentors who’ve made a<br />

difference, social media graphics, posters and<br />

banners to encourage mentoring and a free<br />

downloadable 'Get Involved Guide' to create<br />

your own event for National Mentoring Day. We<br />

encourage everyone to share their mentoring<br />

success stories, tips and case studies, and use<br />

the day to highlight your internal or external<br />

mentoring initiatives to encourage more<br />

people to actively take up mentoring.<br />

You’re launching the National<br />

Mentoring Awards this month,<br />

tell us more?<br />

I’m beyond excited about the launch of the<br />

National Mentoring Awards, they will be<br />

the BAFTAs of mentoring to create (real)<br />

inspirational role models across every sector<br />

of business and society. The awards will give<br />

public recognition for ‘mentoring excellence’ to<br />

individuals and organisations and applications<br />

are welcome from mentors, mentees,<br />

organisations and employers. Entries are open<br />

to those who mentor across all walks of life,<br />

whether in their business, sport, community,<br />

personal or professional lives.<br />

What sectors are you covering?<br />

The National Mentoring Awards have a<br />

huge reach covering <strong>Business</strong> Start-Ups,<br />

SME’s, Corporate, Education, Youth, Careers,<br />

Sports, Disability, Rehabilitation, Diversity,<br />

Music, Media, Health, Financial Services,<br />

Women, Property and Fashion. The awards<br />

are completely FREE to enter to attract wide<br />

audiences and the campaign will encourage<br />

millions of people to enter the awards and<br />

nominate.<br />

Who will be attending?<br />

The awards will take place on 1st March 2019<br />

at the Five-star Jumeirah Carlton London,<br />

backed by the National Media and include a top<br />

celebrity host. The event will be attended by<br />

many business leaders, distinguished guests,<br />

celebrities and top professional mentors from<br />

every sector and industry.<br />

We have many high-profile brands attending<br />

and numerous Government partners. Our<br />

official partners include Welsh Government,<br />

NL International, Zypha, Lawbite, Careers<br />

& Enterprise Company, Newable, PCS<br />

Instruments and Aura Gold Water who are are<br />

kindly supporting this great initiative.<br />

kindly supporting this great initiative.<br />

Why do you mentor?<br />

I try to positively impact the lives of as many<br />

people as I can. I’m not driven by money but<br />

how I can make a difference. There are so<br />

many business owners wandering around<br />

feeling unsatisfied, this is because they are not<br />

being true to themselves about who they really<br />

are. You can’t go on a course or seminar and<br />

expect to become rich, successful and happy.<br />

This is why I get to the heart of people’s passion<br />

and work with them to find out what they really<br />

want so they are truly fulfilled. So many people<br />

are just acting and playing a part in their life,<br />

not doing what they really believe in.<br />

Why is your mentoring so<br />

successful?<br />

With mentoring I show people how to reach<br />

their true potential to become authentic and<br />

have a real purpose in society and business.<br />

Then I help take their message to the media. So<br />

many people are approaching the media first<br />

with the wrong message and this is why for me<br />

mentoring is about protecting entrepreneurs<br />

and helping them avoid costly mistakes. I<br />

mentor from twenty-five years of working in<br />

media, PR, marketing and sales, not from going<br />

on a course and becoming a wannabe guru!<br />

With over 300 published articles in business<br />

magazines and millions of pounds worth of<br />

national press under my belt, I mentor from<br />

experience not theory and pass on the gift of<br />

knowledge and contacts that can change the<br />

course of a person’s life, that’s the power of<br />

mentoring.<br />

This is one of the reasons why I help so many<br />

individuals and businesses, we all have the<br />

opportunity to positively impact someone’s<br />

life and mentoring is the gift that keeps on<br />

giving. You cannot put a price on the value of<br />

mentoring, it’s priceless. The right mentor can<br />

redefine the way you view yourself and help<br />

your business flourish in so many ways.<br />

What is the biggest mistake you<br />

have ever made in business and<br />

what you did you learn from it?<br />

Not taking equity in a company when I was<br />

offered it which became highly successful as<br />

a result of my mentoring. It’s always worth<br />

looking at the possibilities of where a company<br />

might be in 10 years’ time.<br />

In these continued<br />

times of unrest<br />

the world needs<br />

mentoring<br />

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How do you take care of your<br />

body, mind and soul?<br />

I always find time to meditate. This is where I<br />

get to take a mini holiday for twenty minutes<br />

twice a day to recharge every part of me. It’s the<br />

only thing I’ve found that works to completely<br />

replenish myself, calm my mind and it gives me<br />

so much more energy. During transcendental<br />

meditation all my questions seem to be<br />

miraculously answered and I love the feeling of<br />

enlightenment and peace it gives me where I<br />

am truly connecting with my inner Self.<br />

There are hundreds of scientific studies that<br />

show Transcendental Meditation reduces<br />

stress, anxiety, depression, insomnia and high<br />

blood pressure. TM has amazing effects on the<br />

brain from clearer thinking, brain coherence,<br />

improved memory, greater creativity and<br />

increased productivity. I love it because it’s<br />

so easy to do and I can do it anywhere which<br />

works with my hectic schedule.<br />

I go on regular retreats at the Maharishi Peace<br />

Palace in Suffolk which is built according to the<br />

principles of Vedic Architecture to enhance<br />

wellbeing. Every time I stay there even if it’s for<br />

a few days, I leave feeling like I’ve had a month’s<br />

holiday and so well rested. Taking time out to<br />

really connect with yourself is so important to<br />

survive the demands of daily life.<br />

Which person inspires you and<br />

why?<br />

I have been inspired by the teachings of<br />

Maharishi Mahesh Yogi who was an incredible<br />

spiritual leader who started a worldwide<br />

movement. He introduced Transcendental<br />

Meditation all over the world. I am in awe<br />

of how one person can positively change<br />

the lives of so many millions of people, he<br />

is my inspiration for creating a worldwide<br />

mentoring movement. Growing up I admired<br />

Mother Theresa for her commitment and total<br />

devotion and for being so selfless and giving<br />

to others.<br />

Branding or Bragging?<br />

Definitely Branding, if you do branding<br />

correctly it does the bragging for you! Bragging<br />

can last for just seconds whereas branding is<br />

for the long term. I created Broadcasting Your<br />

<strong>Business</strong> Mentoring to get clients noticed for<br />

the right reasons. So many people come to me<br />

wanting national press or to be on television<br />

but they don’t have the right message or<br />

properly crafted story. With twenty-five years’<br />

experience in media I know what it takes<br />

to make a good brand story to stay the test<br />

of time, it’s no good being a one hit wonder.<br />

There’s so much psychology involved in<br />

branding, it’s about having the whole package,<br />

your reputation - online and offline, unique<br />

values, beliefs and brand personality. Craft<br />

your message wisely before sending it out to<br />

the media because once it’s out there it’s hard<br />

to change.<br />

What is your favourite quote?<br />

I have three quotes I love; “Peace begins with a<br />

smile.”, “If you judge people, you have no time<br />

to love them.” Mother Theresa<br />

“Happiness radiates like the fragrance from a<br />

flower and draws all good things towards you.”<br />

Maharishi Mahesh Yogi<br />

What is your message for the<br />

New Year?<br />

Be the mentor you wish you had.<br />

www.NationalMentoringDay.org<br />

www.NationalMentoringAwards.org<br />

www.BroadcastingYour<strong>Business</strong>.com<br />

Twitter @ChelseyBaker<br />

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Twitter @TheNMAwards<br />

I try to positively<br />

impact the lives of<br />

as many people as I<br />

can<br />

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<strong>Business</strong><br />

Kayana<br />

Breathwork,<br />

Dissolving Stress’<br />

Tentacles<br />

Viola Edward<br />

Stress is a state of inner personal anxiety and can<br />

occur in all aspects of our lives. It triggers processes<br />

of non-communication that hinder productivity,<br />

creativity and intimacy. All of us, in some way<br />

or another, can be affected by this ‘condition’.<br />

Symptoms like bad moods, prolonged tiredness,<br />

anxiety, lack of motivation and negative vision are<br />

almost normal in today’s world, yet prolonged<br />

exposure to them will create serious unbalance<br />

in our systems. A major difficulty of healing this<br />

‘illness’ lies in the fact that stress continuously feeds<br />

back on itself. Once it is present in the organism,<br />

its effect becomes a cause. It is important to<br />

differentiate between what I call “Creative Tension”<br />

and “Real Stress”. Creative Tension is a stressful<br />

situation where we retain a certain control, such<br />

as in sport or the organisation of a wedding. Real<br />

Stress appears in a situation where we have no<br />

control over the event, such as an accident, natural<br />

disaster, economic crisis, etc.<br />

Stress inhibits breathing<br />

One of the most devastating effects of stress is<br />

the inhibition of breathing. With the repetition<br />

of stressful situations, the result becomes<br />

chronic and generates serious hang-ups such<br />

as lack of creativity, low productivity, chronic<br />

fatigue and mood swings amongst others.<br />

The symptoms experienced can be repressed<br />

One of the most<br />

devastating<br />

effects of stress is<br />

the inhibition of<br />

breathing<br />

emotions, frustration, lack of purpose, difficulty<br />

in expressing love and gratitude, all of which<br />

will affect our joy in life.<br />

To liberate ourselves from the effects of stress,<br />

the study and practice of breathing techniques<br />

is an excellent place to begin.<br />

Breathing<br />

Breathing is a life-sustaining activity that we<br />

begin to practice instinctively from the moment<br />

we are born and continues uninterrupted<br />

until the moment we die. The rhythm of our<br />

respiration is such a familiar practice to us that<br />

most of our lives we are even unaware of our<br />

participation in this vital action. Remember,<br />

however, that though we are able to survive<br />

for many days without food and not quite so<br />

long without water, if we are prevented from<br />

breathing, most humans will be dead within<br />

three or four minutes. This is how fundamental<br />

the breathing process is to our well-being.<br />

Breathing dynamics<br />

Let us take a closer look at the dynamics<br />

of the breathing process. Singers and wind<br />

instrument players, amongst others, are<br />

always conscious of breathing as their music<br />

depends on being able to deliver a continuous<br />

flow of breath across the vocal chords or<br />

through their musical instruments. Athletes<br />

depend on powerful breathing rhythms to<br />

be able to deliver high levels of oxygen to<br />

their performing muscles. The air that we<br />

inhale into our lungs contains a percentage of<br />

oxygen and when this oxygen content comes<br />

into contact with the blood circulating in the<br />

spongy tissues of our lungs, it is absorbed into<br />

the blood stream. The steady pumping of our<br />

heart supplies oxygen rich blood to our brain<br />

and to the muscles and organs of our bodies<br />

where the oxygen is consumed in an energysupplying<br />

mission. When we are working hard<br />

our hearts beat faster and we breathe more<br />

strongly to supply the increase in energy<br />

required by our bodies. In a healthy body,<br />

this biological breathing dynamic manages<br />

itself naturally and instinctively without the<br />

requirement of any conscious intervention.<br />

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Energy levels<br />

We are however, capable of intervening in this<br />

natural sequence by intentionally modifying<br />

the character of our breathing rhythms.<br />

For example, if we choose to breathe more<br />

strongly than usual whilst remaining physically<br />

inactive, we alter the natural supply and<br />

demand equilibrium, creating a higher than<br />

usual level of energy throughout our bodies.<br />

Research and practical experimentation<br />

with the effects of unusual body energy<br />

levels has led to the development of many<br />

physical and spiritual practices that we find<br />

in disciplines such as martial arts, tai-chi, chikong<br />

and yoga and meditation to name just<br />

a few, and therapeutical disciplines such as<br />

breathwork coaching – conscious connected<br />

breathing known also as rebirthing,<br />

holotropic breathwork, integrative breathing,<br />

transformational breathwork amongst others.<br />

Processes of transformation<br />

The breathwork techniques in the practices<br />

of martial arts are concerned with the<br />

development of the chi so vital to success in<br />

combat. Breathing is also used in massage<br />

techniques such as shiatsu and touching<br />

hearts massage. In meditation, yoga, tai-chi<br />

and chi-kong, practices have focused more on<br />

using the inner calm created by the breathing<br />

to develop chi, awareness, presence and<br />

mindfulness. Breathwork mentoring, also<br />

known as conscious connected breathing<br />

and Rebirthing, adds to all the above a<br />

greater sense of self-awareness and, above<br />

all, the improvement of mental, physical and<br />

spiritual well-being, achieving a consciousness<br />

of wholeness. Both ancestral and modern<br />

practices acknowledge the importance of<br />

breathing in processes of transformation.<br />

Relaxation and stress cannot exist at the same<br />

time in the same place, therefore the more we<br />

breathe consciously, the more time we will be<br />

relaxed and the less time we will be in stress.<br />

Holistic therapy<br />

There are several types of stress and the<br />

reference here is to stress produced by<br />

experiences that were neither accepted nor<br />

integrated into our life, with a subsequent<br />

development into traumas. These were<br />

probably situations generated by fear, shame,<br />

anger, loss, or other limiting emotions and were<br />

experienced at an age when we were unable<br />

to manage the event, or the perception of the<br />

event. The situation could have occurred in a<br />

moment of extreme vulnerability, creating a<br />

wound that couldn’t heal completely. Searching<br />

to survive to the pain, we learned how to<br />

create a variety of defence mechanisms, but<br />

the wound remained there, getting deeper,<br />

becoming chronic and sometimes extremely<br />

acute.<br />

Following through the therapeutical journey of<br />

understanding and healing the wounds of such<br />

experiences is a must for a return to balanced<br />

life. Holistic therapy is a choice that uses<br />

energy work such as Breathwork mentoring<br />

alongside with the psychotherapeutic process.<br />

We are holistic beings and we need to heal<br />

in all our dimensions (body, mind, emotion,<br />

spirit/meaning).<br />

Such healing processes can include learning to<br />

express, to feel and to understand. releasing,<br />

resolving and transforming, leading us to<br />

accept and integrate, benefiting then from the<br />

joy and the bliss of the intimacy with yourself<br />

and your partner.<br />

Each healed wound may leave a scar. Those<br />

scars are the testimony of the journey of<br />

healing and as such we can even be proud of<br />

them.<br />

When those wounds were still open and<br />

unattended, an accumulation of difficult<br />

situations or some new and acute stress<br />

could lead us to a breakdown. However, once<br />

Breathwork mentoring,<br />

adds to all the above a<br />

greater sense of selfawareness<br />

and, the<br />

improvement of mental,<br />

physical and spiritual<br />

well-being<br />

the wounds have been attended to and have<br />

healed, even though we are carrying the scars,<br />

when similar situations appear, we will be<br />

able to break through them and learn from<br />

the experience. This is what I call “Emotional<br />

Freedom”.<br />

7 fundamental elements of Holistic Therapy and of life itself.<br />

1- Breathe consciously, being aware of your thinking.<br />

2- Inhale, recognizing who you are.<br />

3- Exhale, letting go of what you no longer need.<br />

4- Be present, asking clearly for what you want.<br />

5- Accept and forgive, giving with love and generosity.<br />

6- Keep on improving and expanding with gratitude.<br />

7- Open your heart, letting love in and taking care of your surroundings<br />

Viola Edward is a Psychotherapist and Breathwork pioneer with over<br />

25 years of experience. A leader with individual and corporate clients, Viola<br />

specialises in Professional Training in Breathwork Coaching, Breathwork for<br />

Recovery, Stress Management, Feminine Energy and Relationships. She is the<br />

co-founder of KAYANA International Breathwork and author of two books:<br />

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“Breathing the Rhythm of Success” and “Who Makes the Bed?”


Spice It Up<br />

Chana<br />

Bhaji:<br />

Ideal for after<br />

a workout<br />

Sarah Ali Choudhury<br />

As someone who is a real foodie and the line of<br />

business I am in, and with my hectic lifestyle of<br />

being a mum to four children I regularly find myself<br />

overeating, putting on weight and finding it difficult<br />

to shed. I have decided to put my food column to<br />

great use and use this as an opportunity to work<br />

alongside my readers to challenge myself to get to<br />

my optimum weight. You can join in too!!<br />

For my article in this issue I am going to<br />

introduce you to a really healthy recipe, my<br />

Chana Bhaji (Chick Peas and also known as<br />

Garbanzo beans). A really quick and easy recipe<br />

that can be eaten ideally after a workout.<br />

Chick Peas have been used as part of certain<br />

traditional diets for over 7500 years and is one<br />

of the oldest consumed crops in the world. It is<br />

now one of the most popular legumes across<br />

every continent.<br />

What’s so great about Chick<br />

Peas?<br />

They are high in fibre, they provide healthy<br />

vitamins and minerals including zinc and folate,<br />

they protect against cancer and heart disease,<br />

they provide slow releasing carbohydrates,<br />

they boost digestion and they help with weight<br />

loss.<br />

As a plant-based protein, they are low in<br />

calories and because they also contain starch<br />

they are known as a "good carb".<br />

In my recipe I have used a can of chick peas,<br />

but if you have dried chick peas these can be<br />

soaked overnight prior to cooking because this<br />

makes them more digestible. Although dried<br />

chick peas hold more texture than recooked<br />

varieties they tend to hold the same nutrition<br />

value but make sure you purchase the BPAfree<br />

varieties.<br />

Avoid eating raw chick peas as they are difficult<br />

to digest.<br />

Chick peas are so versatile you can roast<br />

them, add them to salads and soups, they<br />

can be pureed to make delicious and smooth<br />

humous.<br />

Here is my very own Chana Bhaji recipe. This<br />

recipe was used as part of BBC IPlayer Radio's<br />

Vegetarian week and this particular dish is<br />

also suitable for Vegans. If you want to hear it<br />

being cooked you can search it up on Kitchen<br />

Garden on BBC IPlayer Radio.<br />

Just eating healthy food<br />

isn't enough we also need<br />

to encourage movement<br />

Chana Bhaji<br />

Ingredients<br />

2 tbsp vegetable oil (or olive oil)<br />

2 x echallion shallots,<br />

2 x garlic gloves, crushed<br />

½ tbsp. coriander powder<br />

½ tbsp. cumin powder<br />

¼ tsp turmeric powder<br />

1 tin of chickpeas<br />

and activity.<br />

1 green chilli, cut with a single slit<br />

Approx. half a cup of water<br />

½ tsp salt (or to taste)<br />

A small handful of fresh coriander,<br />

washed and chopped<br />

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Chick Peas have been<br />

used as part of certain<br />

traditional diets for over<br />

7500 years<br />

Method:<br />

1. Heat the oil in a pan.<br />

2. Add the garlic and onions<br />

3. Stir continuously until the onions are<br />

soft. It is really important to take the time<br />

at this stage and make sure the onions are<br />

cooked, so that the spices will then be able<br />

to infuse their flavour. Add approx. ½ tsp<br />

salt (to taste).<br />

4. Add the turmeric, coriander and cumin<br />

and stir in. Add a splash of water and cover<br />

for a few moments.<br />

5. Add in the green chilli. Making a single<br />

slit allows the flavours to infuse without<br />

making the dish too hot.<br />

6. Drain and rinse the chickpeas and add<br />

to the pan. Stir<br />

7. Cook for 5-10 minutes, stirring<br />

continuously. When you feel the chickpeas<br />

start to stick at the bottom of the pan, add<br />

approx.. ¼ cup of water.<br />

8. The dish is cooked when the chickpeas<br />

have absorbed most of the water. Garnish<br />

with fresh coriander and serve.<br />

Just eating healthy food isn't enough to get us<br />

in the best of health or shape, we also need<br />

to encourage movement and activity. This is<br />

one area that I have particularly struggled with<br />

over the years. More recently I came across a<br />

product that really works for me. A tiny sachet<br />

of Keto Energy.<br />

Because we all lead hectic lives nowadays,<br />

running our own businesses and bringing up<br />

children, so often we need a little energy boost<br />

maybe to avoid the mid-afternoon slump. It’s<br />

quite normal at this time that we would typically<br />

reach for the biscuits or a sweet treat that will<br />

play havoc with our blood sugar levels or reach<br />

for an energy drink full of nasty chemicals.<br />

I have personally found the solution to this<br />

problem and it’s a very low sugar, low carb<br />

energy fix that helps specifically reduce<br />

tiredness and maintain energy levels. The<br />

solution comes in the form of Keto Energy<br />

sticks, a lemon & lime flavoured caffeine fix<br />

from encapsulated caffeine powder that<br />

simply melts on the tongue<br />

It’s also been formulated with Vitamin B6 to<br />

help keep you alert and keep your nervous<br />

system functioning normally. One of the other<br />

powerhouse ingredients is Chromium which<br />

helps balance your metabolism and keep your<br />

blood glucose level in check.<br />

Keto Energy was initially designed to support<br />

a Keto lifestyle due to the low sugar content<br />

but those who aren’t following that lifestyle are<br />

feeling the amazing benefits from this product<br />

too. As well as fighting fatigue, it is designed<br />

also to enhance mood and suppress appetite<br />

too.<br />

Night shift workers, athletes, busy mums and<br />

dads are all enjoying this product because<br />

of its convenience. No water is required, you<br />

simply just rip it open and pop on your tongue!<br />

It even tastes like sherbet. It works for me and<br />

since I started taking these energy boosts I<br />

have been able to walk between 3-5 miles on<br />

a daily basis.<br />

If you are interested, please get in touch with<br />

me at http://sarahalichoudhury.com/ where<br />

more information can be sent out to you. For<br />

more information about Keto Energy Sticks and<br />

other beneficial products contact Charlotte<br />

Lock on charlottelock.itworks@gmail.com<br />

Sarah Ali Choudhury is an award-winning Indian food<br />

expert, TV chef and food columnist. Sarah is passionate<br />

about sharing the joys of Indian cuisine – whether through<br />

TV, radio or print media, live cooking demonstrations, social<br />

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Health issues.<br />

Through their communications network<br />

and ongoing series of Global Conferences<br />

they facilitate open dialogue, learning and<br />

skills acquisition to influence best practice<br />

worldwide in the expert treatment of<br />

increasingly common conditions affecting<br />

individuals in every country.<br />

It is now more important than ever that not<br />

only professionals in the field are able to<br />

network and share their findings - but that<br />

the breadth and variety of audience are able<br />

to take the sum of their experiences back into<br />

their own communities, businesses and areas<br />

of influence.<br />

The diversity of topics and expertise that iCAAD<br />

gather across their conferences is breathtaking.<br />

Among many interwoven themes, they explore<br />

alternatives in chronic pain management,<br />

discuss policy change with the most influential<br />

action groups in the country and highlight<br />

solutions and innovations to promote better<br />

detection, intervention and treatment of<br />

behavioural, mental and emotional health care<br />

issues. They examine a plethora of issues from<br />

substance misuse to behavioural compulsions<br />

ranging from excessive screen watching,<br />

gaming and social media, to boundaries and<br />

labelling within sex and lifestyle choices as<br />

well as how to work affirmatively with GSRD<br />

individuals<br />

iCAAD honours a pledge to include<br />

humanitarian issues whenever possible at<br />

their conferences; addressing modern slavery,<br />

human trafficking, and possible resolution<br />

from natural or manmade catastrophic trauma<br />

amongst others.<br />

They often promote initiatives such as recovery<br />

film festivals and hold screenings of various<br />

films around recovery at their conferences.<br />

Each conference is distinct and has covered<br />

so many different topics and issues, some of<br />

which include: music therapy, sensory motor<br />

psychotherapy, working with addicted artists<br />

and musicians, somatic therapy, dealing with<br />

compassion fatigue, using decisional analysis<br />

in business, the principles of ethics and<br />

economics, and understanding gender issues<br />

in therapeutic settings, as well as the everimportant<br />

role of recovery coaching in bridging<br />

the gap between treatment and life.<br />

This year iCAAD has added two new and<br />

exciting European locations to the lineup<br />

of countries they will be bringing their<br />

conferences to: Amsterdam and Dublin. They<br />

will also be revisiting many of the countries<br />

they were in last year, including holding their<br />

holistic wellbeing conference: Nourishing the<br />

Whole Self, which takes place in Iceland and, of<br />

course, their flagship conference which is held<br />

every year at the Royal Garden Hotel, London<br />

in May. Keynote speakers at this event include:<br />

Dr Tian Dayton, MA, Ph.D., T.E.P - the director<br />

of The New York Psychodrama Training<br />

Institute; Dr Claudia Black, Ph.D. - a renowned<br />

author and trainer internationally recognised<br />

for her pioneering and contemporary work<br />

with family systems and addictive disorders<br />

and Dr Stefanie Carnes, Ph.D. the President<br />

of the International Institute for Trauma and<br />

Addiction Professionals, a training institute<br />

and professional organisation for addiction<br />

professionals.<br />

Throughout their events, between the<br />

enlightening, educational, harrowing, touching<br />

and motivating presentations, panels and<br />

workshops, iCAAD’s aim is to connect, reconnect<br />

and form new bonds, furthering<br />

advancement in the fields of behavioural,<br />

emotional and mental health. As they continue<br />

the international dialogue over the next year<br />

and beyond, they strive to align all that they<br />

know and work together towards achieving<br />

common goals.<br />

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Pashion Fashion<br />

Dressed for<br />

Success:<br />

Is Your <strong>Business</strong><br />

Wardrobe Holding<br />

You Back?<br />

Olga Anderson<br />

'Clothes make the man', or so they say, and<br />

many a male CEO has established credibility,<br />

professionalism, and (let's be honest) a bit of<br />

swagger with an expensive, well-cut suit. But when<br />

it comes to women in the boardroom, it all gets a<br />

little more complicated.<br />

Professional women often find themselves<br />

having to walk the line between dressing<br />

'appropriately' for what was a traditionally<br />

male dress code, and their own sense of style.<br />

Most choose to eschew their femininity in<br />

order to be taken seriously and regarded as an<br />

equal, especially in past decades where sexual<br />

harassment was rife. The result is the soulless<br />

uniform of boxy trouser-suits and matronly<br />

black dresses that you'll still find in the<br />

workwear section of any department store. It<br />

was exactly this lack of choice and imagination<br />

that led me to found my couture label, ‘Olga<br />

Anderson’, which aims to empower working<br />

women with elegant, feminine, beautifully<br />

crafted fashion. I'm passionate about helping<br />

these women reclaim their femininity and<br />

personality in what they wear, in part because<br />

rather than elevating them, that dull office<br />

uniform may actually be holding women back.<br />

We all know that what we wear affects the way<br />

we are perceived by others, and that a first<br />

impression, once formed, is hard to overcome.<br />

It may not be fair, but all of us judge other people<br />

on the way they look, forming ideas about their<br />

authority, trustworthiness, intelligence, and<br />

financial success, among other qualities - all of<br />

which can influence your career advancement.<br />

However, others' perception of us based on<br />

what we wear is only one half of the story.<br />

Recent research now also shows that the<br />

clothes you wear and the perception you have<br />

of yourself in those clothes can actually affect<br />

your own mental and physical performance.<br />

In studies reported by Scientific American,<br />

so-called 'enclothed cognition' can increase<br />

abstract thinking, enhance focus, and make<br />

us feel more powerful and creative. Informal<br />

clothing even influenced negotiations in one<br />

study, with subjects who were dressed up<br />

securing more profitable deals and showing<br />

higher testosterone levels than those who<br />

were not.<br />

Clothes can also have a profound effect on our<br />

sense of wellbeing, particularly when it comes<br />

to colour. Many of my clients have limited<br />

themselves to a safe zone of dark colours,<br />

effectively hiding themselves from both<br />

notice and criticism. In contrast, think of how<br />

The Queen wears a bright array of colours,<br />

so that she is easy to pick out of a crowd. "If<br />

I wore beige, nobody would know who I am,"<br />

she is once reported to have said. Different<br />

colours can be subconsciously associated<br />

with psychological traits, allowing us to project<br />

confidence (red), trustworthiness (white), calm<br />

(blue), or approachability (pink), for example.<br />

These colour associations also influence our<br />

own moods and attitudes, and dark colours<br />

can leave us feeling depressed, sad or even<br />

aggressive.<br />

Olga Anderson’ aims<br />

to empower working<br />

women with elegant,<br />

feminine, beautifully<br />

crafted fashion.<br />

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feminine and empowering womenswear<br />

luxury London-based couture fashion<br />

There's another downside to 'dressing like<br />

a man'. Menswear has long been governed<br />

by a tighter framework, employing a limited<br />

set of functional archetypal garments, while<br />

womenswear is far more abstract and avant<br />

garde. Femininity in fashion can be a strong<br />

point rather than a weak one, a source of<br />

creativity and playfulness, the sort of thinking<br />

that brings about new ideas and imaginative<br />

solutions in business. Women can reclaim their<br />

fashion femininity at work, while still striving<br />

to reach the top in their careers. And science<br />

supports this too - studies show that those<br />

who conform to general dress standards and<br />

expectations but add a little flare are viewed<br />

more positively by observers, because they are<br />

powerful enough to take the risk of standing<br />

out.<br />

One only has to look at some of the world's<br />

current most powerful women for examples<br />

of how sisters are doing this for themselves.<br />

Hillary Clinton became known as the ‘pantsuit<br />

queen’ during her 2016 election bid, but wears<br />

this classic silhouette in a rainbow of colours.<br />

Similarly, Theresa May wears smart pieces with<br />

pops of colour or unique points of interest,<br />

like leopard print patterns or asymmetrical<br />

cuts. IMF President Christine Lagarde perfectly<br />

employs chic, feminine tailoring, accessorising<br />

with beautiful, expressive silk scarves. On<br />

television, the character of Jessica Pearson<br />

on Suits is a master of sexy power dressing,<br />

wearing sculptured suits and dresses with<br />

a textural edge to set her apart from her<br />

employees.<br />

Aim to be fashionable without being trendy:<br />

You can keep on top of current trends in<br />

colour, fabric, and style without being a slave<br />

to fashion. Invest in classic pieces that show<br />

excellent craftsmanship, and supplement<br />

them with bold accessories or focus pieces<br />

with an edge.<br />

Don't be afraid of colour: Like Clinton, Angela<br />

Merkel wears a uniform of sorts, but dons her<br />

signature three-button blazers in a wide range<br />

of hues. This also allows her to use colour as<br />

a subconscious weapon - for example, when<br />

appearing with both Barack Obama and<br />

Donald Trump on the same day in 2017, she<br />

wore a cool green for the first encounter, but<br />

suited up in a bright power red to meet with<br />

Trump in Brussels. Force yourself to step out<br />

of your comfort zone and infuse more pops of<br />

colour into your wardrobe - you'll never look<br />

back!<br />

Don't show too much skin: 'Sexy' doesn't<br />

have to mean vulgar. Beautifully tailored suits<br />

that flatter your figure are appropriate and<br />

feminine, but steer away from sheer fabrics<br />

or too much cleavage, as this may undermine<br />

your authority.<br />

Be yourself: Ultimately, fashion should be<br />

about expressing yourself through what you<br />

wear, so be sure to let your personality shine<br />

through. Michelle Obama is a powerful woman<br />

who has mastered this, ensuring that she not<br />

only always looks smart and sophisticated, but<br />

has a style all her own.<br />

So what are the best styling tips for today's<br />

female leaders? These are some of the<br />

principles I encourage my clients to follow as<br />

they make-over their wardrobes:<br />

Olga Anderson, is the owner and founder of her eponymous couture<br />

www.olgaanderson.co.uk<br />

@ olgaandersonofficial<br />

fashion house which delivers bespoke office and evening wear to the modern<br />

woman. Her designs exude elegance, quality and timelessness- perfect for<br />

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business women to reclaim their femininity. At ‘Olga Anderson’ we understand<br />

@ olgaandersonofficial<br />

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that every woman is different and her clothes should reflects her uniqueness.


Mindset & Emotion<br />

Getting The<br />

Tables<br />

Turned<br />

Ismael Cala<br />

The actual world seems like an unstoppable<br />

thread of convulsed and voracious moments. The<br />

American Army had the vision to describe this back<br />

in the eighties as a “VUCA” world, the acronym for<br />

Volatility, Uncertainty, Complexity and Ambiguity,<br />

which are four characteristics that closely define<br />

our times.<br />

During the last weeks, we have been witnessing<br />

controversies between Uber and Cabify apps,<br />

and the traditional taxicab industry, this has<br />

affected countries as distant as Spain and<br />

Argentina. Why does a technological upgrade<br />

trigger all these detractors against it? What are<br />

the lessons to extract from this turmoil?<br />

This time demands us to become exponential<br />

beings, by manifesting as more creative and<br />

productive individuals, so we don’t get left<br />

behind and become obsolete. Despite this, we<br />

cannot allow to be blown away by the storm.<br />

Would you believe it If I tell you it is possible<br />

to “turn the tables”? What if, contrary to what<br />

might be expected, we start to use difficulties<br />

to our own advantage? Would you be asking<br />

yourself: if there is so much conflict, what<br />

would the roadmap to fulfil our life’s purpose<br />

be? The key to this is best described as mindful<br />

exponential leadership.<br />

Benjamin Harkin, a Psychology expert from<br />

Sheffield University, in the UK, experimented<br />

with 19,951 participants in 380 researches,<br />

oriented to monitor individuals while they tried<br />

to achieve health related goals. The results<br />

show a three-step pattern: close and frequent<br />

follow up on progress, focus on the objective<br />

and public manifestation of these goals,<br />

because “this way we will be more enticed to<br />

accomplish” so he said.<br />

As I explain to my students at “Cala Speaking<br />

Academy”, instead of perceiving VUCA as<br />

negative, we should see it as an advantage<br />

which challenges us to expand out of our<br />

comfort zone, allowing us to grow and progress<br />

consciously.<br />

If you are a taxi driver, journalist, automobile<br />

assembler, or perform any other “vanishing”<br />

career, you must understand that no one<br />

wants to vanquish you from the market, only<br />

to make you find ways to update your services<br />

and abilities. Then you would be able to “turn<br />

the tables” on VUCA into your own acronym:<br />

Vision, Understanding, Clarity and Agility, all<br />

key tools to achieve your life’s goals.<br />

So how can a paradigm be changed? My<br />

suggestion, which I have been developing for<br />

a few years, is to apply the CALA life method:<br />

Constant Advancement to Leadership in<br />

Action, based on my “believe, create and grow”<br />

philosophy. All of us harvest an inner leader<br />

who is waiting for an opportunity to shine and<br />

show its greatest potential.<br />

The best solutions are often found behind the<br />

toughest obstacles. Embrace uncertainty and<br />

learn to manage your own reality!<br />

www.IsmaelCala.com<br />

Twitter: @cala<br />

Instagram: ismaelcala<br />

Facebook: Ismael Cala<br />

The best solutions are<br />

often found behind the<br />

toughest obstacles<br />

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Spirituality<br />

AIR<br />

is our<br />

Teacher<br />

Dr. Amit Kaur Puri<br />

“Pawan guru pani pita, Maata dharat mahat.<br />

Divas raat dui dai daya, Khele sagal jagat” was<br />

said 600 years ago by Guru Nanak Dev ji. It means<br />

air is our teacher, water is our father, earth is our<br />

mother, day is fire and night represents sky. In<br />

order for us to seek blessings we need to respect<br />

all these five elements of which the entire universe<br />

is composed.<br />

Two question arise:-<br />

“What is this world all about?” - this question<br />

depicts the outer world leading to the scientific<br />

part of us and the other<br />

“Who am I?” depicts the spiritual part of us.<br />

understand the relationship between living<br />

emotions and laws of motion, we need to<br />

understand mind and matter, we also need to<br />

differentiate between energy and intelligent<br />

energy.<br />

It is curious how the same carbon elements<br />

which can form living beings can also form<br />

non-living diamonds. So what needs to be<br />

incorporated into solar energy to transform it<br />

into soular energy?<br />

I believe in order to understand the<br />

fundamental basis of life; the inter<br />

relationship of physical, chemical, life<br />

sciences, consciousness and spiritualism<br />

should be explored hand in hand. According<br />

to spiritualism, technology exists in the body<br />

whereas science believes in the technology<br />

outside the body.<br />

The environment is a natural situation around<br />

living organisms consisting of both biotic and<br />

abiotic factors. Environmental spirituality<br />

is an experience of awareness of GOD’s<br />

presence. There are hundreds of things in our<br />

surroundings which help us to discover GOD,<br />

like a gigantic river which runs by; a huge forest<br />

with diverse flora and fauna; a vast green<br />

meadow; birds that sing and fly with tiny wings;<br />

flowers which bloom with a variety of colours;<br />

a peaceful dawn dispelling the darkness;<br />

light emerging gradually every morning as<br />

the sun rises and descending again in the<br />

evening spreading beauty along the horizon;<br />

thousands of shining stars at night; thunder<br />

which streaks across the sky; the plants of<br />

the earth and the fishes of the sea; cold wind<br />

in the winter and the pleasant sun in the<br />

summer; the mountains, the springs, the trees,<br />

the breeze. All these gifts of nature enable the<br />

spiritually minded person to discover GOD in<br />

the environment.<br />

As an ethnobotanist and environmentalist,<br />

I have experimented with yogic agriculture<br />

along with javic farming (natural farming). In<br />

one experiment, before sowing, seeds are<br />

given positive spiritual vibrations for three<br />

days; the land is prepared and ploughed along<br />

with the chanting of spiritual hymns followed<br />

by the sowing of seeds and introduction of<br />

chemical free jeevamrit (biopesticide). This<br />

results in three times the original harvest and it<br />

is a living example of the connections between<br />

spiritualism and the science of agriculture.<br />

In a second experiment to show the close<br />

connection between the two, we looked at the<br />

concept of a Nakshatra garden. Every human<br />

being born on this earth belongs to one of<br />

the 27 Nakshatras (stars). Each Nakshaktra<br />

corresponds to a particular plant. In order to<br />

fulfil worldly or materialistic desire we can heal<br />

our stars just by placing the set of 27 Nakshatra<br />

plants in our homes or offices. My conclusion<br />

is that the ultimate source of energy on this<br />

earth is sun and no animal or human being<br />

is capable of capturing this solar energy. Only<br />

plants have the capability to absorb solar and<br />

transform it into chemical energy which is then<br />

transferred into various animals and human<br />

beings via trophic levels hence plants are the<br />

most evolved beings on this earth.<br />

In India nature is also conserved through the<br />

worship of flora and fauna in various forms<br />

like the elephant headed God called Ganesha,<br />

which is worshiped, before starting a new<br />

venture. Lord Shiva is offered bel leaves and<br />

dhatura flowers and Lord Krishna is adorned<br />

with peacock feathers on his forehead and a<br />

holy basil garland. Tulsi is worshiped in every<br />

Indian house and placed in the courtyard as<br />

it emits certain essential oils which sterilise<br />

the environment. There are a huge number<br />

of sacred grooves where touching even a twig<br />

is taboo hence I recommend following the<br />

rules of spiritualism to conserve the beauty of<br />

nature.<br />

Our connection with the environment is the<br />

first level of experience. As an author who is<br />

a scientist and a spiritually inclined person<br />

I interconnect both forms. We need to<br />

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