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December 2, <strong>2018</strong><br />
Olugbodi<br />
and the<br />
Spirit Of Enterprise
Contents - <strong>02</strong>/12<br />
email: <strong>allure</strong>fortheworld@vanguardngr.com<br />
Editor’s Letter<br />
When Funke and Yuji Olugbodi wedded in 1951, they didn’t<br />
aim for a football team but they nearly got there! The<br />
search for a daughgter led the couple to keep trying until<br />
number 9 when they reached Eldorado.<br />
This tells you about the resilience of two people who<br />
refused to give up until they got what they wanted. This<br />
spirit of going for gold and nothing else Pa Chief Joshua<br />
Oyedele Olugbodi and Ma dam Grace Olabisi Olugbodi (JP)<br />
passed unto their nine children.<br />
These eight brothers and one sister sired by one woman,<br />
Madam Grace Olabisi Olugbodi (JP), whom all the nine<br />
describe as a ‘serial entrepreneur’, caught the entrepreneur<br />
bug from Mama alongside the lessons of correct code of<br />
conduct instilled by both parents. Today, Tunji Olugbodi and<br />
his eight siblings are all entrepreneurs; CEOs running<br />
successful businesses and corporations that employ more<br />
than 100 employees.<br />
The Ologbodi Nine should be in the ‘Guinness Book of<br />
Records’. I do not know if there is any family of 11, including<br />
mum and dad, anywhere else in the world, who are all<br />
entrepreneurs. But, I stand to be corrected.<br />
In ‘The Ologbodi Nine and the Spirit of Enterprise’, you<br />
get to see a family that was guided by two people who knew<br />
what they wanted and they got it. It is an inspiring piece<br />
and we can all learn from it. See pp. 6-13.<br />
It’s the season of gifting; a time to share the love of<br />
Christ who gave Himself to<br />
an ungrateful world. So, if you’re<br />
like me, who never seems to know<br />
what to give, rescue is on pages<br />
3-5 - as Yemisi Suleiman<br />
compiled gift ideas for the<br />
millenials, you and me.<br />
Welcome to December! And,<br />
the last minute’s possibilities<br />
before the New Year.<br />
Have a great week!<br />
EDITOR<br />
REMMY IFUEKO DIAGBARE<br />
DEPUTY EDITOR<br />
JEMI EKUNKUNBOR<br />
ASST. EDITOR<br />
YEMISI SULEIMAN<br />
CONTRIBUTORS<br />
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FASHION<br />
3<br />
5<br />
Best Christmas Gift Ideas for<br />
Everyone<br />
Gifts for Millenials<br />
FEATURE<br />
13 Sexmatics:<br />
Christmas Getaway For<br />
Couples<br />
PEOPLE<br />
14 • Vlisco’s Bubble Wax<br />
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• Jim Ovia, Wale Tinubu<br />
others Support UN<br />
Humanitarian<br />
Fund-Private<br />
Sector Initiative.<br />
14<br />
15<br />
Quotes<br />
“Optimism is a happiness<br />
magnet. If you stay positive,<br />
good things and good people<br />
will be drawn to you”.<br />
- Mary Lou Retton<br />
“In order to change we must<br />
be sick and tired of being<br />
sick and tired”.<br />
-Unknown<br />
“Mix a little foolishness with your<br />
serious plans. It is lovely to be<br />
silly at the right moment”.<br />
- Horace<br />
olugbodi<br />
and the<br />
spirit of<br />
enterprise<br />
6<br />
ON THE<br />
COVER
Best Christmas<br />
Gifts Ideas For<br />
Everyone<br />
FASHION<br />
By - Yemisi Suleiman<br />
As the Christmas holiday gifting season quickly<br />
approaches, it is time to start strategizing your<br />
shopping plan. Finding the perfect present for that<br />
special person in your life is no easy feat, but not to<br />
worry, we are here to make the process a little easier and<br />
chicer this season.<br />
From luxury bath set, travel luggage to innovative and<br />
creative gifts, we have rounded up all the best Christmas gifts<br />
ideas for your woman, the classy man and of course for the<br />
young millennials on your list.<br />
FOR HIM<br />
Tie Set<br />
Give the man in your life the<br />
perfect polished looks with a<br />
complete Necktie Set!<br />
Editors<br />
briefcase<br />
BCBG colour<br />
block dress<br />
Ejiro Amos<br />
Tafiri design<br />
Mixologist<br />
Box<br />
Editor Briefcase<br />
This Editor Brief can fit a 15-inch<br />
laptop along with other daily<br />
essentials.<br />
Mixologist Box<br />
tie set<br />
Mens Cuff<br />
Links<br />
Cufflinks<br />
This Uhibros Mens Cuff Links is<br />
ideal for the very corporate man<br />
in your life.<br />
GUCCI GUILTY<br />
BLACK<br />
Culinary Set<br />
For the guy who is ready to get<br />
serious in the kitchen, this curated<br />
set includes everything he’ll need<br />
to start his culinary journey.<br />
Culinary set<br />
Packet<br />
Shirts<br />
Packet Shirts<br />
Three pack blue check<br />
and texture shirts, a<br />
great set for every man<br />
Designer’s Perfume<br />
Let your man dare to go where no<br />
man has ever been before when he<br />
wears this hypnotic scent every day.<br />
December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 3
FASHION<br />
FOR HER<br />
Gold Wristwatch<br />
This Omega<br />
Constellation red<br />
gold wristwatch is<br />
the ideal gift for the<br />
woman who has<br />
everything. She will<br />
adore you, for this.<br />
Luxury<br />
lace wig<br />
Gold<br />
Wristwatch<br />
Diamond<br />
and ruby<br />
necklace set<br />
This Omega<br />
Constellation<br />
red gold<br />
wristwatch is the<br />
ideal gift for the<br />
woman who has<br />
everything. She<br />
will adore you,<br />
for this.<br />
A designer<br />
dress<br />
Diamond Jewelry Set<br />
Diamonds are a girl’s best friend,<br />
no doubt. So this Sapphire<br />
Diamond and Platinum set would<br />
be perfect for your mother, wife or<br />
girlfriend.<br />
Didi statement bag<br />
Tps Luxury Bag<br />
A timeless and<br />
elegant purse<br />
OLS(Olori Ladun<br />
Sijuwade by TPS<br />
Luxury. This will be<br />
one of your wife’s<br />
favorite gifts.<br />
TPS<br />
Luxury<br />
bag<br />
Designer Dress<br />
This red Polkadot tulle lace<br />
gown by Elie Saab<br />
Bath Gift Set<br />
Treat her, so she can treat<br />
herself with this luxury<br />
relaxing bath set.<br />
Omega<br />
red gold<br />
wristwatch<br />
Vanilla Bath<br />
Gift Set<br />
Christian<br />
Louboutin<br />
heels<br />
4<br />
Omega<br />
Constellation red<br />
gold wristwatch<br />
/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong><br />
Gold Wristwatch<br />
This Omega Constellation red<br />
gold wristwatch is the ideal<br />
gift for the woman who has<br />
everything. She will adore you,<br />
for this.<br />
Gift With A Wow<br />
Factor<br />
When you are really looking to give<br />
the gift of wow-factor, this Christian<br />
Louboutin Veneneuse evening<br />
pumps is the way to go.<br />
Christian<br />
Louboutin<br />
Follies Spikes
FASHION<br />
small DG Millennials<br />
crossbody bag<br />
Crossbody bag<br />
This small DG Millennials crossbody<br />
bag will definitely excite anyone.<br />
Gucci belt<br />
for him<br />
Gucci<br />
belt for<br />
her<br />
Gifts For<br />
Millennials<br />
Leather Logo Belt<br />
A classic belt for every fashion<br />
lover, they will get the most use<br />
out of this Gucci logo piece.<br />
Travel Luggage<br />
For the savvy traveler,<br />
this chic new luggage<br />
set gift is a positively<br />
chic collection that<br />
is very stylish<br />
and everyone will<br />
appreciate it.<br />
Travel<br />
Luggage set<br />
Power Travel Mat<br />
Keeping a Powermat on hand (which can<br />
charge up to three devices, and uses<br />
one cord for the whole shebang),<br />
especially one that folds up<br />
neatly, will save the<br />
day every time and<br />
your young ones<br />
will love it<br />
Power<br />
travel mat<br />
iPhone<br />
Camera Lens<br />
Clip-On Lens<br />
Clip-On Lens for iPhone, Android<br />
and Smartphones for Christmas,<br />
it is perfect for the amateur<br />
photographer or even professional<br />
photographer.<br />
Sneakers For<br />
Him & Her<br />
Introduce her to her new<br />
favorite sneaker<br />
brand like this ever<br />
trending shade<br />
synonymous<br />
with the<br />
millennial cycle.<br />
Air Jordan 6<br />
A Classy<br />
Dress<br />
SEQUIN<br />
EMBROIDERED<br />
TEA LENGTH<br />
DRESS<br />
For a black tie event? A<br />
millennial pink dress is<br />
always the right fit for the<br />
millennial in your life.<br />
December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 5
REPORTAGE<br />
Olugbodi<br />
And The<br />
Spirit Of<br />
Enterprise<br />
Words By - Remmy Diagbare<br />
They are nine siblings,<br />
sired by one woman. All<br />
nine are well educated<br />
and chief executive<br />
officers of successful businesses.<br />
Their father, Yuji Olugbodi,<br />
retired from the Central Bank of<br />
Nigeria to join his wife in<br />
business. The children describe<br />
their mother, Madam Funke<br />
Olugbodi as a ‘serial<br />
entrepreneur’, who over the<br />
years, operated no less than 17<br />
businesses! It is no wonder, they<br />
caught the entrepreneurial spirit.<br />
‘A fruit never falls far from its<br />
tree’, indeed.<br />
So, when you see fractured<br />
large families, it’s not because of<br />
size, it’s the foundation that is<br />
faulty! Read and be inspired.<br />
6<br />
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REPORTAGE<br />
December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 7
REPORTAGE<br />
1. Johnny Tunde Olugbodi<br />
Principal Consultant, First Divine Swivel<br />
Training & Development Ltd.<br />
How did you all cope growing up in a large<br />
family? With only one sister, what was growing<br />
up with your eight siblings like?<br />
I am the oldest of the children. I remember,<br />
vividly, the birth, christening and growing up of each<br />
of my 8 siblings. It was an environment of<br />
harmonious relationships, devoid of avoidable<br />
conflicts and unpleasant rivalry. Our parents are<br />
responsible for our staying together because,<br />
growing up, there was no favoritism for any<br />
particular child. It has always been a structure of<br />
one family in terms of respect and authority. You<br />
will find that some of my siblings have just one year<br />
gap in their ages. While my immediate junior<br />
brother, Dr Olatunji Joshua, was born on the 25th<br />
of March, 1964, Alexander Kolawole following him<br />
was born on 6th August, 1965. Muyiwa Oladapo<br />
was born on 6th February 1967. Akinyinka<br />
Gbolahan was born on 8th May 1969. Dr Akinyinka<br />
Akinyemi was born on 17th July 1971. Oyeniran<br />
Roy was born on November 12, 1975. Oluwaseun<br />
Akintoye was born on 12th May 1978 while the only<br />
lady of the family was born on 2nd December 1981<br />
in Osogbo.<br />
In our relationship over the years, you talk to that<br />
person who is just one or two years older as if you<br />
have 10 years apart because you have to show<br />
respect. Again, everybody commands respect<br />
because of the kind of personality he/she<br />
represents. Respect goes down the line from<br />
whoever is the oldest. Ours has been a close-knit<br />
family right from the outset. I, being the first born,<br />
grew up to know our parents, both of whom are still<br />
alive, as very respectful and humble people.<br />
Our father was privileged to be employed as a<br />
Senior Clerk in the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN)<br />
in 1961. Father was then living at 30, Reclamation<br />
Street in Lagos Island with mother. After Olatunji<br />
was born on March 25th, 1964 - about three<br />
months later, around July of that year - father was<br />
transferred to Port Harcourt, where a branch of<br />
CBN had just been opened. We all travelled by the<br />
train from Iddo Railway Station, Lagos, to Port<br />
Harcourt.<br />
What influenced your going into business<br />
instead of working in establishments? Was it a<br />
family decision? Did it have anything to do with<br />
parental upbringing or influence?<br />
I started my work career as Population<br />
Statistician with the Nigeria Population Commission<br />
(NPC) in 1989. Eventually, I found myself as a<br />
human resources practitioner. I resigned my<br />
appointment with the NPC when I was employed<br />
by the CBN on 1st of February, 1991.<br />
Do you experience sibling rivalry? How do you<br />
deal with the issue of one being more<br />
successful than the other?<br />
All these years, my siblings and I did not have<br />
any form of rivalry. Everybody developed his/her<br />
own talent in education and attitude. I never knew I<br />
would replace our father at the CBN because as<br />
the firstborn, he wanted me to be a medical doctor.<br />
This made me offer science subjects up to the<br />
Higher School Certificate (HSC) level at the Baptist<br />
Academy.<br />
What has kept us together as old and<br />
established people, therefore, was the tradition that<br />
runs in the family, not just about our parents and<br />
grandparents on both sides. Our paternal<br />
grandfather had four wives. I stayed with them at a<br />
very impressionable age, when I was in primary<br />
school. I never saw them fight or the wives quarrel<br />
or discriminate among the children. Everybody did<br />
the same thing together. Every Christmas, we<br />
would all gather in our grandfather’s compound.<br />
We looked forward to such gathering every<br />
Christmas. These are some of the values of unity<br />
and togetherness they inculcated in us right from<br />
childhood. Among us, everybody has his own role<br />
such that there are advisers and mentors and you<br />
know who to talk to when you want to.<br />
It’s been a wonderful and most rewarding<br />
experience growing up with my siblings over the<br />
years. It’s a thing of personal joy for me; something<br />
I will cherish for all eternity.<br />
2. Joshua Olatunji Olugbodi<br />
Executive Vice Chairman, Verdant Zeal Group; Chairman,<br />
BYTOL Group; and, Chairman, BCI TBI Epicentre Group<br />
How did you all cope growing up in a large<br />
family?<br />
It was interesting and exciting. But also fairly<br />
regimented, in terms of chores and duties; because,<br />
our mum was a stickler for details and discipline. She<br />
is pro-active and pre-planning. Everyone had chores<br />
to do even though we always had house helps.<br />
Growing up was largely in Surulere, Lagos and<br />
later on at Osogbo in Osun State. Our parents were<br />
both very strict disciplinarians who never spared the<br />
rod at all. The tongue lashing was even worse. There<br />
was a great influence of aunties and uncles; some of<br />
whom lived with us, especially from Abeokuta (where<br />
Mum is from) and Ara, our hometown. Indeed, our<br />
house was a mini-United Nations of sorts. The<br />
communal spirit was strong, regardless. There was<br />
order but there was substantial commotion too.<br />
As you can imagine, a house packed full of boys<br />
was always bustling with unbridled energy and<br />
adrenaline. Fights broke out often due to<br />
misunderstandings or deliberate mischief. The<br />
characters also formed early. For instance, we had<br />
the perennial troublemakers; we had the quiet, easy<br />
going ones; we had the diplomats who stand on all<br />
sides of the divide; and, we had the ones who,<br />
sometimes, snitch on best-kept secrets. Then, we<br />
had the oppressors who did brisk business by buying<br />
peoples’ pieces of meat for a fee at lunch.<br />
In all, it was like a massive jigsaw of life activities<br />
and counter activities that kept everyone busy but<br />
grounded. Meal times were special. We always had<br />
food in the house - nothing fancy, at all. But no one<br />
ever went to bed hungry.<br />
What influenced you going into business as<br />
against working for establishments? Was it a<br />
family decision? Did it have anything to do with<br />
parental upbringing or influence?<br />
I was a professional, working first in journalism<br />
and then marketing communications for many years.<br />
But my real entrepreneurship started, in a formal<br />
sense, about 15 years ago. It was not a conscious<br />
family decision but it had a great family influence,<br />
especially from my mum who was a natural business<br />
enthusiast. She attempted many types of<br />
businesses, largely borne out of the need to<br />
supplement the family income. She is tenacious.<br />
Even now, she runs a small poultry and fishery farm.<br />
She rears goats. And she was 76 last September!<br />
How did you begin? Did any of your siblings<br />
provide inputs for your business and its growth?<br />
Over the years, I had gained much insight into<br />
business practices from my mum and later, as a<br />
professional. In getting started, the passion and<br />
conviction were unparalleled. I was quite meticulous<br />
and insistent on having the proper structure for<br />
corporate governance.<br />
Planning and forecast are important. So also was nurturing a<br />
high-ground that guaranteed significant differentiation. Yes, I<br />
did get inputs from some of them – and, especially, my wife<br />
too.<br />
Were your parent entrepreneurs? To what extent did<br />
parental teachings and philosophy direct you in<br />
business and life decisions?<br />
Dad was a banker with the Central Bank of Nigeria. As I<br />
said, Mum was the business-minded person, a trait she<br />
acquired from my maternal grandmother. What we gained<br />
from Dad were the values of decency and ‘bibire’ or<br />
‘omoluabi’ in Yoruba parlance. This literally means the best<br />
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REPORTAGE<br />
behaviour tied to excellent moral upbringing.<br />
It was a good mix - business virtues from Mum (we<br />
used to take turns to look after the ‘store’) and<br />
impeccable moral strength from Dad. He speaks all the<br />
time of using “initiative”. You cannot dare go home with<br />
something that belongs to someone else (integrity). You<br />
cannot be abusive, rude or condescending. Your word<br />
must be your bond. Cleanliness was always next to<br />
Godliness. There was no shortcut to success but<br />
through diligence and hard work. Above all, was<br />
generosity.<br />
You are 9 siblings in total. You all run successful<br />
businesses. What is the secret of your success as<br />
individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />
It’s easy to assume that a set of principles or virtues<br />
did the trick. They do help to a great extent. But for me,<br />
the favour of God towers above all else. You cannot<br />
divorce faith from the recipe of victory. But there was<br />
also the power of passion, conviction and intuition. I did<br />
play a significant role, given my position in encouraging<br />
my siblings. I was central to the formation of most of the<br />
companies, providing support and guidance. I am the<br />
chairman of some of the companies. But, ultimately,<br />
each person is led to direct and operate as the (Holy)<br />
Spirit gave unction. We do a bit of cross-selling and<br />
cross-fertilization of ideas too.<br />
Do you experience sibling rivalry? How do you deal<br />
with the issue of one of you being more successful<br />
than another?<br />
Not in any obvious manner. No. People are happy<br />
for you to progress. A rivalry is more from a positive<br />
dimension in that you are either being inspired or<br />
challenged to always raise the bar and to understand<br />
that no black sheep will be accommodated. My siblings<br />
and I dream a lot.<br />
Have there been times when you synergize your<br />
individual expertise on projects and special needs?<br />
Yes. We do that severally and it can be quite<br />
enlightening. For instance, when my brother, Tomi, the<br />
neurosurgeon, was going to start his own practice,<br />
Prime Pain in the USA, I was his brand consultant and<br />
others chipped in, based on their discipline. Seun, the<br />
engineer, has a Masters degree from Germany in<br />
Safety, Health and Environment. That has come in<br />
handy on many occasions when we are designing<br />
solutions for wary clients - even for events<br />
management. But, we need to do this more often and<br />
formally.<br />
What is your advice for start-ups or anyone wishing<br />
to set up a business?<br />
Dream your dreams, envision your success and<br />
channel a path. Work on a road map, have clear<br />
objectives, be led by a WHY and NEVER back down or<br />
let fear of failure stop you. Failure is, in fact, a part of the<br />
postcode!<br />
Who started first among the nine of you? Would<br />
you say that the success of the first person that<br />
ventured into business had any effect on others?<br />
Kola, my immediate younger brother, started first -<br />
when we inaugurated Background Check International<br />
(BCI). It was our first litmus test although he had failed<br />
serially in some initial attempts at running a butchery<br />
etc.<br />
Then, came Verdant Zeal and so forth. The learning<br />
process was incremental and a great stimulant to the<br />
startups. The interesting thing is that all our spouses<br />
also run businesses of significant stature. Some are<br />
even in manufacturing, running factories!<br />
What was the view or concern of your parents when<br />
they realized that you all were delving into this<br />
direction?<br />
Their default position has always been one of support<br />
through prayers and occasional advice. But largely,<br />
prayers - especially my Mum. Their ‘concern’ has<br />
always been that we enjoy sustainable growth. They are<br />
happy for us.<br />
3. Alexander<br />
Kolawole Olugbodi<br />
CEO, Background Check<br />
International (BCI Ltd)<br />
How did you all cope growing up in a large<br />
family? With only one sister among eight boys,<br />
what did it feel like being in a family of 11?<br />
It was a really nice experience for us. Since we<br />
were 8 guys, we were large enough to play with<br />
ourselves. I can still recollect that we, sometimes,<br />
played 4-a-side football in the sitting room! That<br />
means that we will literarily move the settees out of<br />
our way by piling them on top of one another.<br />
Everybody had their favourite colours so each of<br />
us had his own cup, plate, towel and other<br />
household items his favourite colour. My colour<br />
then was green and, incidentally, green remains my<br />
favourite colour till date.<br />
Another very important phenomenon was that<br />
we all had a very strong influence on ourselves.<br />
For instance, if one of us reads a very interesting<br />
novel or comic or watched a nice film, that sibling<br />
would recommend it to the rest of us and every one<br />
of us takes a turn to read that novel or comic. We,<br />
most times, encouraged ourselves to good work.<br />
What influenced you’re going into business<br />
instead of working in establishments? Was it a<br />
family decision? Did it have anything to do with<br />
parental upbringing or influence?<br />
I will say that it was hereditary, sort of, because<br />
we grew up to know our mother to be someone<br />
very enterprising. She has been involved in not less<br />
than 17 different types of businesses till date. I,<br />
actually, worked at the National Population<br />
Commission and the defunct North-South Bank for<br />
about 6 years.<br />
When I was in the bank, I was always trying to<br />
assess customers that came into the bank. I<br />
discovered that there were two categories: those<br />
who worked in paid jobs and those who were<br />
entrepreneurs. Those who worked in paid jobs<br />
came into the bank only at the end of the month -<br />
when their salaries were paid and they only came<br />
to withdraw at the end of the month. The<br />
entrepreneurs came quite regularly, sometimes,<br />
three times a week.”<br />
“There is a local Yoruba saying that says that<br />
when you work for someone, you only work to eat.<br />
But when you have a business, that is when you<br />
have wealth. So when I left the bank, I made up my<br />
mind that I was not going to work for anybody<br />
again. I was going to start my own business.<br />
How did you start? Did your siblings have<br />
inputs in your business and your growth?<br />
My first venture in business was a big failure!<br />
The first business led me to lots of debt. Then, I<br />
embarked on several other ventures that never<br />
went off the ground. Eventually, I prayed and God<br />
led me to start Background Check International<br />
(BCI), which happens to be the first background<br />
screening company in Nigeria and the whole of<br />
West Africa!<br />
Starting BCI was so interesting because I didn’t<br />
have so much money with me so I could not afford<br />
to rent an office space or get some basic office<br />
equipment. My ‘first’ office was one of my cousin’s<br />
sitting room and his desktop computer was what I<br />
used to develop the company’s initial documents<br />
and business proposal.<br />
I was the only staff and so I had to multi-task. I<br />
was the secretary, the driver, the business<br />
development officer and even the operations<br />
officer.<br />
Eventually, my siblings and some friends<br />
decided to invest in the business and, by God’s<br />
grace, Background Check International has close<br />
to 100 staff members and the company has a<br />
presence across some West African countries. BCI<br />
will be 14 years old by April 2019.<br />
Were your parents’ entrepreneurs? To what<br />
extent did parental teachings and philosophy<br />
direct you in business and life decisions?<br />
Like I said earlier, our mother has always been<br />
the enterprising one - right from our childhood. Both<br />
parents instilled into the 9 of us some very strong<br />
moral values that have become completely part of<br />
us today. For instance, our father taught us<br />
integrity; not by words but by his deeds. Our<br />
mother taught us how to be enterprising and hard<br />
working.<br />
They thought us how not to compare ourselves<br />
with others. Our parents ensured that we all had<br />
the best of education; we all graduated from<br />
various universities.<br />
You are 9 siblings in total and you all run<br />
successful businesses. What is the secret of<br />
your success as individuals and as a family of<br />
entrepreneurs?<br />
The sincere truth behind our successes is Jesus!<br />
At different points in life, we all encountered Jesus<br />
and we all accepted Him as our Lord and Master.<br />
The Bible says that unless the Lord builds a house,<br />
they labour in vain all that build. We all allowed God<br />
to direct us in all our ways; by God’s grace, we are<br />
all that we are.<br />
Do you experience sibling rivalry? How do you<br />
deal with the issue of one being more<br />
successful than the other?<br />
We do not call it rivalry; instead, we call it<br />
challenging and provoking ourselves to good works<br />
and excellent service. We all understand that the<br />
life of a man does not consist in the abundance of<br />
what he possesses; instead, our lives should be<br />
lived to serve others and God.<br />
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What advice do you have for start-ups or<br />
anyone wishing to set up a business?<br />
From my own experience, I advise all start-ups<br />
to start with God. Secondly, they should not wait<br />
until they have everything before they begin. They<br />
should not despise the days of little beginnings.<br />
Thirdly, they should start as lean as possible.<br />
Who started first? Would you say the success<br />
of the first person that ventured into being an<br />
entrepreneur had any effect on others?<br />
I was privileged to start a business first but I do<br />
not think that was what influenced my siblings to<br />
embark on starting their businesses. Everybody<br />
received their separate inspiration and call.<br />
Are there points when you synergize your<br />
various expertise on projects and special<br />
needs?<br />
We have reasons to synergize from time to time,<br />
considering the fact that we all have different gifting<br />
and talents.<br />
4. Alexander Kolawole Olugbodi<br />
CEO, Background Check International (BCI}Ltd<br />
“There is a local Yoruba saying that says that when you work for someone, you only work<br />
to eat. But when you have a business, that is when you have wealth. So when I left the bank,<br />
I made up my mind that I was not going to work for anybody again. I was going to start my<br />
own business.<br />
How did you start? Did your siblings have inputs in your business and your growth?<br />
My first venture in business was a big failure! The first business led me to lots of debt.<br />
Then, I embarked on several other ventures that never went off the ground. Eventually, I<br />
prayed and God led me to start Background Check International (BCI), which happens to be<br />
the first background screening company in Nigeria and the whole of West Africa!<br />
Starting BCI was so interesting because I didn’t have so much money with me so I could<br />
not afford to rent an office space or get some basic office equipment. My ‘first’ office was one<br />
of my cousin’s sitting room and his desktop computer was what I used to develop the<br />
company’s initial documents and business proposal.<br />
I was the only staff and so I had to multi-task. I was the secretary, the driver, the business<br />
development officer and even the operations officer.<br />
Eventually, my siblings and some friends decided to invest in the business and, by God’s<br />
grace, Background Check International has close to 100 staff members and the company<br />
has a presence across some West African countries. BCI will be 14 years old by April 2019.<br />
Were your parents’ entrepreneurs? To what extent did parental teachings and<br />
philosophy direct you in business and life decisions?<br />
Like I said earlier, our mother has always been the enterprising one - right from our<br />
childhood. Both parents instilled into the 9 of us some very strong moral values that have<br />
become completely part of us today. For instance, our father taught us integrity; not by words<br />
but by his deeds. Our mother taught us how to be enterprising and hard working.<br />
They thought us how not to compare ourselves with others. Our parents ensured that we<br />
all had the best of education; we all graduated from various universities.<br />
How did you all cope growing up in a large family? With only one sister among eight<br />
boys, what did it feel like being in a family of 11?<br />
It was a really nice experience for us. Since we were 8 guys, we were large enough to<br />
play with ourselves. I can still recollect that we, sometimes, played 4-a-side football in the<br />
sitting room! That means that we will literarily move the settees out of our way by piling them<br />
on top of one another.<br />
Everybody had their favourite colours so each of us had his own cup, plate, towel and<br />
other household items his favourite colour. My colour then was green and, incidentally, green<br />
remains my favourite colour till date.<br />
Another very important phenomenon was that we all had a very strong influence on<br />
ourselves. For instance, if one of us reads a very interesting novel or comic or watched a<br />
nice film, that sibling would recommend it to the rest of us and every one of us takes a turn to<br />
read that novel or comic. We, most times, encouraged ourselves to good work.<br />
What influenced you’re going into business instead of working in establishments?<br />
Was it a family decision? Did it have anything to do with parental upbringing or<br />
influence?<br />
I will say that it was hereditary, sort of, because we grew up to know our mother to be<br />
someone very enterprising. She has been involved in not less than 17 different types of<br />
businesses till date. I, actually, worked at the National Population Commission and the<br />
defunct North-South Bank for about 6 years. When I was in the bank, I was always trying to<br />
assess customers that came into the bank. I discovered that there were two categories:<br />
those who worked in paid jobs and those who were entrepreneurs. Those who worked in<br />
paid jobs came into the bank only at the end of the month - when their salaries were paid<br />
and they only came to withdraw at the end of the month. The entrepreneurs came quite<br />
regularly, sometimes, three times a week.”<br />
You are 9 siblings in total and you all run successful businesses. What is the secret<br />
of your success as individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />
The sincere truth behind our successes is Jesus! At different points in life, we all<br />
encountered Jesus and we all accepted Him as our Lord and Master. The Bible says that<br />
unless the Lord builds a house, they labour in vain all that build. We all allowed God to direct<br />
us in all our ways; by God’s grace, we are all that we are.<br />
Do you experience sibling rivalry? How do you deal with the issue of one being more<br />
successful than the other?<br />
We do not call it rivalry; instead, we call it challenging and provoking ourselves to good<br />
works and excellent service. We all understand that the life of a man does not consist in the<br />
abundance of what he possesses; instead, our lives should be lived to serve others and God.<br />
What advice do you have for start-ups or anyone wishing to set up a business?<br />
From my own experience, I advise all start-ups to start with God. Secondly, they should<br />
not wait until they have everything before they begin. They should not despise the days of<br />
little beginnings. Thirdly, they should start as lean as possible.<br />
Who started first? Would you say the success of the first person that ventured into<br />
being an entrepreneur had any effect on others?<br />
I was privileged to start a business first but I do not think that was what influenced my<br />
siblings to embark on starting their businesses. Everybody received their separate inspiration<br />
and call.<br />
Are there points when you synergize your various expertise on projects and special<br />
needs?<br />
We have reasons to synergize from time to time, considering the fact that we all have<br />
different gifting and talents.<br />
5. Akinyinka Gbolahan Olugbodi<br />
CEO, Background Check International (BCI)<br />
How did you and your eight siblings cope growing up in a large family?<br />
Growing up in a large family was fun. We have always had the ‘spirit of togetherness’.<br />
I am the second to the last (the last boy). Almost everything I know in life, in terms of<br />
values and principles, I learnt from my parents and siblings.<br />
Growing up, even though we were many - everything was structured in terms of<br />
responsibilities and duties in the house. We grew up in an atmosphere filled with love,<br />
trust and respect.<br />
Why did you go into business as against working for establishments? Did it have<br />
anything to do with parental upbringing or influence?<br />
For me, going into business was mainly about divine intuition. Parental upbringing<br />
and the influence of my brothers were also some of the other factors.<br />
How did you start? Did your siblings make inputs?<br />
Yes, my siblings made inputs. After my NYSC service year, I worked in a bank for a<br />
few years. Then, I resigned to go to Germany for my Master’s degree. After obtaining my<br />
Master’s degree, Tunji and Kola offered me the position of General Manager at<br />
Background Check International (BCI).<br />
Currently, I am the Deputy Managing Director/Executive Director at BCI. Kola and I<br />
also have another company that we run together. My wife, Mrs ItunuOluwa Olugbodi,<br />
and I also have 2 other companies. She is the CEO/Creative Director at June5ive<br />
Events and also has an event rentals company called Shawn Williams Rentals.<br />
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/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong>
6. Akintomi Akinyemi Olugbodi<br />
Medical Director and CEO, Prime Pain Specialists; Chairman,<br />
Prime Group of Companies - including Prime Estate and<br />
Prime Leisure and Health.<br />
REPORTAGE<br />
How did the nine of you cope growing up in a large family – especially as you had only one sister among<br />
you?<br />
There was no “coping” per se growing up in a large family. That was all we knew. We grew up with uncles, aunts<br />
and cousins and so on. We all shared whatever resources were available.<br />
What influenced your decision to go into business instead of seeking employment in the establishments?<br />
Was it a family decision? Did it have anything to do with parental upbringing or influence?<br />
As a physician with a unique skill set and with more than 20 years of experience - working at different levels both in<br />
Nigeria and the United States, I wanted an outlet to practice Medicine independent of the encumbrances of big,<br />
bureaucratic establishments. Medical practice is a sacred calling and I wanted a practice that glorifies Christ and puts<br />
the patient front and centre. As a family, my wife and I wanted something that was trans-generational.<br />
How did you begin? Did your siblings have inputs in your business and growth?<br />
We started Prime Pain Specialists, an interventional pain management practice and our flagship business, from<br />
About growth, right from a very young age, just by watching<br />
my brothers interact, I was able to learn about leadership,<br />
management, vision and passion. Even till today, I see my<br />
siblings setting new goals and intentions almost on monthly<br />
basis.<br />
You are nine siblings and you all run successful<br />
businesses. What is the secret of your success as<br />
individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />
The first and most important secret for us all is the grace<br />
of God. None of us can rule this out. I have come to realize<br />
that God uses businesses for the advancement of His<br />
kingdom. For many of us, God practically gave us the ideas<br />
about the businesses to start. You can solve so many<br />
problems by having a thriving, legitimate business. Starting<br />
a business is like planting a tree; you can only imagine the<br />
extent of its potentials and benefits.<br />
The second secret is that we were all able to acquire<br />
some skill sets from helping our Mum with her ventures.<br />
She taught us about value creation.<br />
Is any kind of sibling rivalry among you? How do you<br />
deal with the issue of one sibling being more<br />
successful than another?<br />
I don’t think we experienced sibling rivalry. For us,<br />
success is not about acquiring material wealth. It’s all about<br />
value creation, touching lives and contentment.<br />
What advice would you give to start-ups or anybody<br />
who is planning to set up a business?<br />
Business is all about value creation. You have to have<br />
something of value to sell. I believe so much in growing<br />
businesses organically. You can start small and then<br />
scale-up. You also have to be able to persevere; it takes<br />
time for businesses to break even.<br />
scratch. My wife<br />
and I pooled our resources and savings. We did not go to<br />
the bank. We are in a highly competitive environment.<br />
Fortunately, I had a good standing in the community<br />
as well as a good referral base - to the point that patients<br />
generally prefer to wait for days or weeks to get into our<br />
practice rather than go elsewhere for their care. Other<br />
family businesses came into being, in the course of time.<br />
My wife is a physician/hematopathologist by training but<br />
a businesswoman by passion.<br />
She has been engaged in businesses from our<br />
medical school days till now. She is actually the businessmind<br />
running most of the operations and this goes a long<br />
way. Our children, Oluwaloseyi and Oluwafolajinmi, play<br />
major roles in the accounting and administration<br />
(departments) of our businesses. Yes, they are family<br />
businesses.<br />
The beginning was rocky with teething problems that<br />
are common to nascent businesses. I leaned on<br />
brethren, including my siblings, for counsel and prayer. I<br />
am blessed to have siblings and mentors that do not<br />
mince words when it comes to advising one.<br />
You are nine in number and you all run successful<br />
businesses? What is the secret of your success as<br />
individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />
I do not see myself as a business “owner”. The earth<br />
is the LORD’s and the fulness thereof! Rather, I am a<br />
steward entrusted by the LORD with these businesses<br />
which are instruments for Him to be glorified with and for<br />
the work of His kingdom to be financed. For example,<br />
there is a fixed percentage of our monthly gross earning<br />
that goes to fund Christian ministries.<br />
According to the Lord Jesus, in Luke 16:10-12, there<br />
are 3 areas where faithfulness is imperative in order for<br />
you to be “promoted”: a). In little or small responsibilities;<br />
b). In worldly wealth or money; and, c). In things that<br />
belong to others.<br />
When we are faithful in administering God’s<br />
resources, He gives the increase. My over-arching goal<br />
in life is to be counted as a worthy “good and faithful”<br />
servant when I stand before Christ at the end. This drives<br />
me.<br />
I love practicing Medicine, which I see as a calling,<br />
with the heart of a servant. Many times, in my consulting<br />
room or the operating room, with patients, I picture Jesus<br />
washing their feet and I feel highly privileged!<br />
My sibling and I encourage one another, pray with<br />
and for one another and patronize the businesses of one<br />
another.<br />
Do you experience sibling rivalry and how do you<br />
deal with the issue of one sibling being more<br />
successful than another?<br />
Everyone has his/her proper gift. To my knowledge, I<br />
do not see any sibling rivalry. I believe that being<br />
Christians goes a long way. When you are comfortable in<br />
your skin and thankful for what you have, you have no<br />
albatross of jealousy or envy.<br />
I have a responsibility to be a “watchman” in the<br />
family. As far back as when I was in high school and<br />
medical school, many of the things we are seeing and<br />
experiencing today had been birthed in prayer. I<br />
remember being with one of my brothers, one day when<br />
he came in from his office where he was being harassed<br />
and browbeaten. We came together in prayer - right there<br />
and then. Today, he is not only successful in his own<br />
business but is a consultant to multi-nationals. The LORD<br />
burdened my heart in prayer for several years regarding<br />
another sibling. One day, the burden just lifted and I had<br />
this great peace and joy. I shared a snippet with him back<br />
then. Now, I see him being celebrated and my sense of<br />
fulfilment is profound.<br />
What advice do you have for start-ups or anyone<br />
wishing to set up a business?<br />
Proverbs 24:3-6 has been of great help to me. Indeed,<br />
reading the whole book of Proverbs every month is<br />
something I will recommend to anyone. I had a business<br />
dealing worth a fortune with a “nice” but angry man. I got<br />
burned. If I had followed Proverbs 22:24, I could have<br />
avoided that debacle. Information is key! As a physician,<br />
training in business is sparse. So, I had had to grow up<br />
quickly and learn the business of Medicine. I speak with<br />
consultants in disparate fields. I have a team or “pit crew”<br />
that helps me to focus on the important things. Treat your<br />
workers very well. Keep cost down. I love this saying of<br />
Winston Churchill: “To improve is to change; to be perfect<br />
is to change often.” So, embrace the change (including<br />
not having a salary for a year, possibly). Make your vision<br />
very clear and update as needed. Flee from vision killers.<br />
Keep your eyes on excellence. Persevere in down times!<br />
Understand that unlike the thinking of the “instant”<br />
generation, investments may need time to build strong<br />
roots before they yield. Keep the faith.<br />
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negotiated. The two years between some of us is like 10 years as we address each<br />
other respectfully.<br />
Why did you go into business as against working for establishments? Did it<br />
have anything to do with parental upbringing or influence?<br />
I went into business very early in my life. And lots of things influenced this. The<br />
first was that I grew to know Mum as very industrious. She was so resilient that<br />
she’d put her all in every trade - from big to small; and, succeeded in them all to<br />
support the family. I am naturally talented; I drummed, could sing, could draw and<br />
paint and was a great dancer. My first venture into money-making was selling my<br />
paint works at a very tender age. During my internship with an Advertising agency,<br />
as I rounded up in school, I was made to realize that my creative talents were gold<br />
embedded within me. I saw some of my creations raking in lots of money for the<br />
company. From that moment, I knew that working for anyone later would only be a<br />
mirage! I started up boldly because I am fortunate to have a very supportive woman<br />
in my life as well as a very strong family influence; a family that would come<br />
together to make sure your decision succeeds! Beyond this, I was so sure I was in<br />
the right direction by choosing a profession I love and was passionate about.<br />
7. Oyeniran Roy Olugbodi<br />
CEO, Strange Creatives (Audio-Visuals)<br />
How did you and your eight siblings cope growing up in a large family?<br />
We were all raised in a close-knit family as one! (We were) privileged to have a<br />
responsible dad who never compromised raising his kids diligently and a strict mum<br />
who didn’t take raising us as one for granted! From when each of crawled, we knew<br />
the natural family hierarchy! Respecting your older siblings could never be<br />
What is the secret of your family’s success?<br />
The secret of our success stories is purely our diligent upbringing and the<br />
discipline instilled by our wonderful parents. And, this is sealed by the oneness that<br />
binds us all as siblings! Most importantly, we all put Christ first in all of our dealings.<br />
Is any kind of sibling rivalry among you? How do you deal with the issue of<br />
one sibling being more successful than another?<br />
Sibling rivalry can never exist within us. We all always have something to do with<br />
each other in the course of our different businesses. As a filmmaker, photographer<br />
and my entertainment business, I work with every one of my siblings. In fact, the<br />
success of one is the success of all in my family!<br />
It naturally happens that we give each other jobs in our respective areas of<br />
specialty. Most times, this isn’t automatic because we are siblings; it is given based<br />
on demanded professionalism. We watch each other’s backs too. The support is<br />
unquantifiable!<br />
8. Oluseun Akintoye Olugbodi<br />
Deputy Managing Director, BCI Limited.<br />
How did you all cope growing up in a large family?<br />
Though we seem like a large family, in reality, we never thought of ourselves in that way.<br />
This may be partly because there were different contexts for each one’s growing up such<br />
that we hardly ever lived together in the same house at the same point.<br />
There is a clear gap between the first six, who were mainly Lagos-kids, and the last three<br />
- who were mainly Oshogbo-kids. Also, there were always points where several of us were<br />
away in a boarding house or university.<br />
Having said that, our parents worked hard and believed in doing all they could to provide<br />
for the children. Our mum put her hand in so many different trades; there is almost nothing<br />
she did not try. With the two of them doing so much, we never lacked. We were never rich<br />
but never thought of ourselves as even close to poor.<br />
What influenced your going into business? Was it a family decision? Did it have<br />
anything to do with parental upbringing or influence?<br />
There were different reasons for different people; I suppose one common thread was my<br />
dad’s constant exhortation to ‘use your initiative’. It was drummed into us to take an original<br />
approach in viewing all situations. In terms of me becoming an entrepreneur, it was the<br />
proverbial ‘condition that made the crayfish to bend’.<br />
After many years of working in advertising in Nigeria and rising to the position of Deputy<br />
Creative Director with Insight Communications, I travelled to the UK where, after dabbling<br />
into advertising, I stumbled into the world of social housing - as practiced by councils and<br />
housing associations in the UK. After 13 years in the housing sector, I was made redundant<br />
in one of the periodic purgings of staff that is now commonplace in the workspace.<br />
Using my experience, I set up a company - Arrowshot Solutions Ltd, specialising in helping<br />
bodies in the sector to develop solutions for diverse housing issues. I have been doing that<br />
for almost 5 years now.<br />
How did you start? Did your siblings have inputs in your business and growth?<br />
Not really. Being the only one in the UK and working in a sector that is not quite developed in<br />
Nigeria, I had to get the company up and running on my own by contracting my skills and<br />
approach to housing organisations. As my reputation grew, it became easier to attract<br />
constant patronage and begin to command ‘top dollar’.<br />
You are nine siblings, in total, and you all run successful businesses. What is the<br />
secret of your success as individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />
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/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong>
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9. Adebo Moromoke (Mrs.)<br />
CEO, Epicentre Global Events Ltd (the only female<br />
among nine siblings).<br />
How did the nine of you cope growing up in a large family – especially as you had only<br />
one sister among you?<br />
Growing up with my brothers was such an honour and a privilege! They have helped me<br />
become the woman I am today. I see them all as my role models and aspire to be like them and<br />
better. While we were young, I had no dolls - rather I had soccer balls! I was practically one of<br />
them and saw myself more a man than a woman.<br />
One would assume that they spoilt me while growing up, being the only girl in their midst, but<br />
they never did. Rather, they were firm with me and treated me like they would treat a brother.<br />
Today, I am grateful for it.<br />
What influenced your decision to go into business instead of seeking employment in the<br />
establishments? Was it a family decision? Did it have anything to do with parental<br />
upbringing or influence?<br />
My going into business can simply be tagged: God’s Plan. I was to work with two major<br />
establishments at different times after school (one a bank, the other - a major telecommunication<br />
company) but It never really worked out. In fact, the telecommunication company, I actually<br />
worked at for a day, I just did not like the whole idea of being an employee and I resigned after<br />
just a day!<br />
My going into business was greatly influenced by my upbringing and parental influence. My<br />
mother was a very hard working business woman in her days; she laid her hands on several<br />
businesses that I lost count of. She was never idle and does not believe a woman should stay<br />
home without earning an income.<br />
You can be an income-making-stay-home mum in her books. So did my dad, who rose to a<br />
very senior position at Central Bank of Nigeria - due to hard work before he retired. I started<br />
Epicentre Global Events in 2008. I never really thought I would be a corporate event planner from<br />
This may sound trite but the foundation is<br />
Jesus and knowing Him. The Bible says<br />
that promotion does not come from the<br />
East, West or South but God is the one<br />
who promotes. For me, God orchestrated<br />
our paths and helped us catch<br />
Shakespeare’s ‘tide in the affairs of men’<br />
at the right time.<br />
He helped our parents to instil in us<br />
enduring values such as initiative,<br />
integrity and grit, which you really cannot<br />
put a price on. Whether working for<br />
people or for ourselves, every one of us<br />
always seems to stand out due to this.<br />
Plus, Dad had one ambition - which the<br />
Lord granted him - that every one of us<br />
would have a university education. All<br />
nine of us are university graduates.<br />
What advice do you have for start-ups<br />
or anyone wishing to set up a<br />
business?<br />
Be a person of integrity. Integrity<br />
makes people keep coming back to you<br />
because it is a currency that is very<br />
scarce out there. People will seek you out<br />
because they trust you. Also, aim for<br />
excellence, not mediocrity. Be your own<br />
hardest critic. When people wanted an<br />
excuse to trap Daniel with, the Bible says<br />
they could not fault his character or find<br />
any error in the way he did his work.<br />
Many supposed Christians go from<br />
church to church praying against their<br />
bosses. For many of them, the fault lies in<br />
themselves - lack of integrity and lack of<br />
excellence. Have these and then couple it<br />
with an initiative to find out where the<br />
gaps are in the market and plough that<br />
gap. It does not start with money. It starts<br />
with an idea that will not rest.<br />
the start but being the only girl of the family, I happen to plan all the parties<br />
we had. I discovered, along with the line, that I derived pleasure putting<br />
events together. Thus, when the time came for me to think of a business to<br />
go into, it was only natural that I went for event management.<br />
My brother, Tunji, helped with registering the company and, today, he is<br />
proud (alongside my other siblings) what I have made of the company<br />
through God’s grace.My parents were very firm and strict. One would think<br />
to be the only daughter, out of nine children and one they had been<br />
longing for at that time (I am the last born), they will pamper me. No!<br />
Rather, they were extra strict and I can only assume now that I am the<br />
good woman that they wanted to ensure I became. In fact, I used to<br />
wonder if they were indeed my parents!<br />
They spoilt me with material things but never spared me when it comes<br />
to household chores and general responsibilities.<br />
One of my father’s philosophy is: “Honesty is a Policy!” Integrity was<br />
everything to him and this is one of the many values I picked from him and<br />
apply in business and everyday living.<br />
You are nine in number and you all run successful businesses? What<br />
is the secret of your success as individuals and as a family of<br />
entrepreneurs?<br />
The number one secret of my success is God - and this is not to sound<br />
cliché. It’s the absolute truth. I cannot ignore the God-factor in my whole<br />
existence. In addition, I always stay focused and accept every disappoint<br />
as a learning curve to get better.<br />
Thirdly, I carved a niche for my business. Currently, in Nigeria,<br />
Epicentre Global Events Limited is one of the leading corporate event<br />
management companies which focuses solely on corporate events such<br />
as product launches, conferences and exhibition, company picnics,<br />
company end of year parties, road shows, music events, fashion shows,<br />
award events etc. I did not want to be one of the teeming population of<br />
event planners but stand out.<br />
What advice do you have for start-ups or anyone wishing to set up a<br />
business?<br />
For any start-up company, start small. Most start-up businesses make<br />
the mistake of starting big and fancy which, most times, get their fingers<br />
burned before learning.<br />
I started out as a one-man army in a very small office; just me and my<br />
laptop. When responding to emails or at meetings, I would keep saying:<br />
“We will do this, we will do that” to my clients. This, I did for years until I got<br />
to the point that I was convinced that I needed to expand and employ<br />
permanent staff. Do not believe everything you see, especially on social<br />
media and never compare your business with another in an unhealthy<br />
way. Be focused and keep working at it and it will all fall into place.<br />
December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 13
with Adesuwa 07011289316 | adesuwaewoigbokhan@hotmail.com<br />
Christmas Getaway For Couples<br />
Feeling love at Xmas! As this is the season of<br />
romance, so up the Christmas heat with a romantic<br />
getaway by taking your loved one on holiday.<br />
A lot of time couples get carried away with the<br />
hustle and bustle ranging from caring for the kids,<br />
stressful job, a busy social calendar and all that form<br />
everyday life hence months goes by without having<br />
proper talk or spending quality time together.<br />
Generally speaking couples need to reconnect with<br />
one another on a regular basis, a number of them had<br />
agreed that taking time away from family, friends, work<br />
and technology would give them the needed<br />
opportunity to discover themselves, to remember<br />
romance and to have fun time together.<br />
Christmas season readily provided this needed<br />
break for get away with its numerous romantic<br />
benefits. Planning one of the weekend hang out could<br />
be really exciting as the anticipation is actually one of<br />
the best part of getting away, finding a place to stay,<br />
looking at different locations and planning logistics can<br />
be thrilling as you and your spouse have something to<br />
look forward to together. It could be more fun keeping<br />
all the plans to yourself and keep the details secret,<br />
giving your mate something to think of, thus adding air<br />
of mystery to the whole escapade.<br />
Studies have shown that people who take regular<br />
vacations that allow them to relax actually have a<br />
lower risk of strokes and heart attack. so taking care of<br />
your own and your spouse’ mental and physical health<br />
by going away for breaks is beneficial to both of you<br />
as it is good for the mind and body to take some to<br />
rest. Also it has been proven that women who go on<br />
regular breaks are very much less likely to suffer from<br />
depression as frequent getaways can lead to a better<br />
quality of life and improved work performance.<br />
Romantic breaks like Xmas getaway usually<br />
strengthens the structure of a relationship as couples<br />
get to spend quality time in each other’s company,<br />
they are in a relaxed environment where they are far<br />
from the normal routine of life and are able to<br />
communicate especially as conversation improves<br />
during and after the vacation.<br />
It gives room to better relationships with partner and<br />
children, women who take some time away allows<br />
themselves to slow down, relax and face the family<br />
again with renew energy. A stressed and<br />
overburdened is no fun for anyone to live with.<br />
Taking time off to go on vacation is always a good<br />
thing, it is really important that all technology and<br />
contact with work is reduced during this period to get<br />
the maximum benefits. A good rest with your spouse<br />
refreshes you and takes you back to work with<br />
renewed energy thereby making your time at work<br />
more productive.<br />
Spending time with your significant part in an<br />
intimate setting might just be what your need to boost<br />
your sex life since being in a romantic setting helps<br />
couples to re-ignite feelings of intimacy that may fall by<br />
the way side during normal life.<br />
In as much as a getaway with a spouse could be an<br />
awesome experience, one should also not forget that it<br />
is a romantic trip all the way as it can be fraught with<br />
stress, argument, different opinions on hygiene and<br />
packing.<br />
Here are tips to make it through the trip with your<br />
romance alive.<br />
You have to manage your expectations as every<br />
day is not going to be filled with sparkles and orgasms,<br />
just because you don’t feel completely relaxed and<br />
connected all the time does not mean your union is in<br />
mess.<br />
• Be sure to share your packing space as sharing<br />
packing space makes you collaborate, keeps you both<br />
aware of possessions. Divide responsibilities according<br />
to your strength, though this seems simple but then it is<br />
an absolute requirement.<br />
• Keep track of money but do not stress over it. Share<br />
expenses in a manner that make sense, one partner<br />
pays for accommodation and the other pays for food.<br />
Have a conversation about budgets before you go and<br />
adjust it if things are different once you are there.<br />
• Know that fights on getaway are like every other fight,<br />
the rule does not necessary change because the<br />
scenery is different. For anything it is worth, be kind<br />
and respectful to your spouse on vacation, even if the<br />
superficial causes are not the same, it will probably be<br />
about your usual stuff that you always argue about.<br />
• No blame games as one person is going to mess up,<br />
will forget travel money, you are going to leave your<br />
shoe somewhere stupid that any of you will remember.<br />
This is the stuff memories are made of, get angry but<br />
calm down and leave it there, never bring it up again to<br />
make the person feel bad. Flow with it as it is<br />
inevitable.<br />
• Relax on sex matter as there could be expectation<br />
and you are bound to be disappointed, holidays allow<br />
you to be more relaxed that you may end snoozing<br />
more than doing anything flirty. Don’t worry you can<br />
always have vacation style sex at home.<br />
• Pay attention to any major red flags especially if the<br />
pressures from the getaway made your mate reveal<br />
their true colour, if this does happen occasionally, be<br />
warned as holidays are real life and the lessons will still<br />
apply once you are back home as ignoring it will be to<br />
your own detriment.<br />
• A romantic, intimate vacation is what every partners<br />
needs, it is a gift that will definitely keep on giving even<br />
when back at home again.<br />
Talk<br />
SPOT<br />
By - Yemisi Suleiman<br />
What some of your favourite<br />
celebrities said and we listened.<br />
“Just a quick search on social<br />
media will show that Sexual and<br />
Gender Based Violence is<br />
unfortunately still very rife, and<br />
currently undereported in<br />
Nigeria. According to statistics,<br />
almost 40% of Nigerian women<br />
between the ages of 15 and 49<br />
have experienced some form of<br />
physical or sexual violence.<br />
This is UNACCEPTABLE”.<br />
Radio presenter Tolu Oniru<br />
joins her voice on this very<br />
important issue.<br />
“After my spectacular<br />
feature on CNNAfrica<br />
AfricanVoices , the<br />
CNN team found me<br />
content-worthy to be in<br />
the new CNN VISION<br />
campaign thats been<br />
running for weeks!<br />
And the only NIGERIAN<br />
on the ad”.<br />
Congratulations to<br />
Denrele, he has<br />
definitely gone global.<br />
“Don’t put pressure on anyone<br />
to remember you, if you<br />
mattered they will always<br />
remember you.<br />
Words from DJ JIMMY JATT.<br />
“Did you know: In<br />
Nigeria, one in four<br />
girls have<br />
experienced sexual<br />
violence. One in two<br />
girls have<br />
experienced<br />
physical violence,<br />
and one in six have<br />
experienced<br />
emotional violence.<br />
Girls account for<br />
two-thirds of the 10.5<br />
million out-of-school<br />
children in Nigeria.”<br />
Music Star Banky<br />
W raising<br />
awareness about<br />
this very important<br />
cause.<br />
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/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong>
JIM Ovia, Wale Tinubu others<br />
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By Yemisi Suleiman<br />
The United Nations recently partnered with Nigerian business<br />
leaders to launch the ‘UN Nigeria Humanitarian Fund-Private<br />
Sector Initiative’, (NHF-PSI).<br />
The platform is a first global platform that serves as a<br />
blueprint for private sector engagement, in humanitarian action<br />
around the world through a UN country-based pooled fund.<br />
Speaking on the occasion, Samantha Newport, Head of<br />
Communications: United Nations Office for the Coordination<br />
of Humanitarian Affairs (COHA) said, the organisation has<br />
spent 70 million dollars from donor countries in providing<br />
humanitarian assistance in the northeastern States of Borno,<br />
Adamawa and Yobe. Newport said the humanitarian crisis in<br />
North-East Nigeria that had spilt into neighbouring Cameroon,<br />
Chad and Niger, was one of the most severe in the world today.<br />
According to her, the funds have been allocated to urgent lifesaving<br />
needs, with an emphasis this year, on assisting new arrivals<br />
with food, shelter and safe water.<br />
The event which held at the new Oando complex, Victoria<br />
Island, Lagos had in attendance top personalities across the<br />
business spectrum who pledged donations to the fund. They<br />
include Zenith Bank founder, Mr Jim Ovia, Oando CEO, Wale<br />
Tinubu, Ibukun Awosika, Chairman, First Bank of Nigeria and<br />
Senator Ali Ndume, amongst others.<br />
Here are some personalities at the event.<br />
Jim Ovia<br />
Adejoke Orelope<br />
Acess Bank MD Herbert Wigwe (right) Jim<br />
Ovia (left) with a guest<br />
Wale Tinubu (middle) receiving an AWArd<br />
Guests at the event<br />
Vlisco’s Bubble<br />
Wax is back<br />
By Oscar Ochiogu<br />
Every bubble is unique, every<br />
centimetre is different, every piece of<br />
fabric has its own fingerprint. This is<br />
the nature of Vlisco’s ancient craft<br />
process of authentic wax printing<br />
that Bubble Wax celebrates. With<br />
its exuberance, Bubble Wax<br />
encourages creative expression.<br />
Bubbles are the natural<br />
beauty marks of Vlisco’s wax<br />
printing process and are<br />
featured front and<br />
centre on this new<br />
product. Bubble<br />
wax zooms in<br />
on the iconic Wax<br />
Hollandais, featuring<br />
the bubbles and create a<br />
camouflage effect. Together with the<br />
ton sur ton colours this fabric makes<br />
tailoring effortless, allowing numerous<br />
mix and match combinations. A<br />
perfect fabric for revamping the<br />
traditional men’s suit.<br />
December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 15
INSTAGRAM<br />
MOMENTS<br />
With Yemisi Suleiman<br />
In case you missed, these were the most interesting news and pictures<br />
on Instagram last week.<br />
Layole Oyatogun In<br />
Trish O<br />
We needed some red carpet drama this week,<br />
and TV girl Layole Oyatogun delivered. She<br />
attended the Eloy Awards held last weekend<br />
in this romantic ruffle gown by Trish O, and we<br />
love it.<br />
Governor Ajimobi<br />
celebrities 38years<br />
marital bliss<br />
And it is 38 years of blissful marriage<br />
for Oyo State Governor Ajumobi and<br />
wife Florence as they celebrated<br />
their wedding anniversary last Friday.<br />
The excited governor who posted<br />
this beautiful photo on his Instagram<br />
handle had only the sweetest words<br />
for his wife, “not a long journey, but<br />
our God-ordained union has been<br />
an adventure. Not a love story, our<br />
marriage has been an epic tale of<br />
romance and lessons.<br />
Not just a happy ending, our<br />
marriage is a blissful loop of sweet<br />
memories and fantastic endless<br />
tales. Thank you, my masterpiece<br />
of nature for everything. Happy<br />
wedding anniversary to us, Florry It<br />
has been 38 years of amazingness.”<br />
We wish them many more blissful<br />
years ahead.<br />
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Makeup look of the week<br />
Movie star Chika Ike kept things simple, but classy<br />
with her makeup. We couldn’t stop admiring her<br />
classic smoky eyes, light red lips and flushed<br />
cheeks. And, we love the melanin effect.<br />
/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong><br />
Uche<br />
Jumbo’s<br />
statement<br />
style<br />
Wearing a dramatic<br />
outfit like this dress<br />
needs confidence,<br />
and Uche Jumbo<br />
has that in spades.<br />
Attending her<br />
movie premiere<br />
‘Heaven on My<br />
Mind’’ in Lagos,<br />
the Nollywood<br />
Star styled her<br />
ruffle dress with<br />
gold statement<br />
accessory and a<br />
perfect smile.