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December 2, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Olugbodi<br />

and the<br />

Spirit Of Enterprise


Contents - <strong>02</strong>/12<br />

email: <strong>allure</strong>fortheworld@vanguardngr.com<br />

Editor’s Letter<br />

When Funke and Yuji Olugbodi wedded in 1951, they didn’t<br />

aim for a football team but they nearly got there! The<br />

search for a daughgter led the couple to keep trying until<br />

number 9 when they reached Eldorado.<br />

This tells you about the resilience of two people who<br />

refused to give up until they got what they wanted. This<br />

spirit of going for gold and nothing else Pa Chief Joshua<br />

Oyedele Olugbodi and Ma dam Grace Olabisi Olugbodi (JP)<br />

passed unto their nine children.<br />

These eight brothers and one sister sired by one woman,<br />

Madam Grace Olabisi Olugbodi (JP), whom all the nine<br />

describe as a ‘serial entrepreneur’, caught the entrepreneur<br />

bug from Mama alongside the lessons of correct code of<br />

conduct instilled by both parents. Today, Tunji Olugbodi and<br />

his eight siblings are all entrepreneurs; CEOs running<br />

successful businesses and corporations that employ more<br />

than 100 employees.<br />

The Ologbodi Nine should be in the ‘Guinness Book of<br />

Records’. I do not know if there is any family of 11, including<br />

mum and dad, anywhere else in the world, who are all<br />

entrepreneurs. But, I stand to be corrected.<br />

In ‘The Ologbodi Nine and the Spirit of Enterprise’, you<br />

get to see a family that was guided by two people who knew<br />

what they wanted and they got it. It is an inspiring piece<br />

and we can all learn from it. See pp. 6-13.<br />

It’s the season of gifting; a time to share the love of<br />

Christ who gave Himself to<br />

an ungrateful world. So, if you’re<br />

like me, who never seems to know<br />

what to give, rescue is on pages<br />

3-5 - as Yemisi Suleiman<br />

compiled gift ideas for the<br />

millenials, you and me.<br />

Welcome to December! And,<br />

the last minute’s possibilities<br />

before the New Year.<br />

Have a great week!<br />

EDITOR<br />

REMMY IFUEKO DIAGBARE<br />

DEPUTY EDITOR<br />

JEMI EKUNKUNBOR<br />

ASST. EDITOR<br />

YEMISI SULEIMAN<br />

CONTRIBUTORS<br />

TERESA ALIGBE<br />

LINDA ORAJEKWE<br />

FUNKE AJOMALE<br />

FUNMI AZIKE<br />

ADESUWA EWOIGBOKHAN<br />

BAMIYO ISELEMA EMINA<br />

R .<br />

Remmy Diagbare<br />

TEAM<br />

COPY EDITOR<br />

DODOIYI WILLIAM-WEST<br />

CONT. EDITOR<br />

LATASHA NGWUBE<br />

LAYOUT / DESIGN<br />

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PHOTO<br />

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HEAD OF PRODUCTION<br />

CHARLES KAMMA<br />

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FASHION<br />

3<br />

5<br />

Best Christmas Gift Ideas for<br />

Everyone<br />

Gifts for Millenials<br />

FEATURE<br />

13 Sexmatics:<br />

Christmas Getaway For<br />

Couples<br />

PEOPLE<br />

14 • Vlisco’s Bubble Wax<br />

is back.<br />

• Jim Ovia, Wale Tinubu<br />

others Support UN<br />

Humanitarian<br />

Fund-Private<br />

Sector Initiative.<br />

14<br />

15<br />

Quotes<br />

“Optimism is a happiness<br />

magnet. If you stay positive,<br />

good things and good people<br />

will be drawn to you”.<br />

- Mary Lou Retton<br />

“In order to change we must<br />

be sick and tired of being<br />

sick and tired”.<br />

-Unknown<br />

“Mix a little foolishness with your<br />

serious plans. It is lovely to be<br />

silly at the right moment”.<br />

- Horace<br />

olugbodi<br />

and the<br />

spirit of<br />

enterprise<br />

6<br />

ON THE<br />

COVER


Best Christmas<br />

Gifts Ideas For<br />

Everyone<br />

FASHION<br />

By - Yemisi Suleiman<br />

As the Christmas holiday gifting season quickly<br />

approaches, it is time to start strategizing your<br />

shopping plan. Finding the perfect present for that<br />

special person in your life is no easy feat, but not to<br />

worry, we are here to make the process a little easier and<br />

chicer this season.<br />

From luxury bath set, travel luggage to innovative and<br />

creative gifts, we have rounded up all the best Christmas gifts<br />

ideas for your woman, the classy man and of course for the<br />

young millennials on your list.<br />

FOR HIM<br />

Tie Set<br />

Give the man in your life the<br />

perfect polished looks with a<br />

complete Necktie Set!<br />

Editors<br />

briefcase<br />

BCBG colour<br />

block dress<br />

Ejiro Amos<br />

Tafiri design<br />

Mixologist<br />

Box<br />

Editor Briefcase<br />

This Editor Brief can fit a 15-inch<br />

laptop along with other daily<br />

essentials.<br />

Mixologist Box<br />

tie set<br />

Mens Cuff<br />

Links<br />

Cufflinks<br />

This Uhibros Mens Cuff Links is<br />

ideal for the very corporate man<br />

in your life.<br />

GUCCI GUILTY<br />

BLACK<br />

Culinary Set<br />

For the guy who is ready to get<br />

serious in the kitchen, this curated<br />

set includes everything he’ll need<br />

to start his culinary journey.<br />

Culinary set<br />

Packet<br />

Shirts<br />

Packet Shirts<br />

Three pack blue check<br />

and texture shirts, a<br />

great set for every man<br />

Designer’s Perfume<br />

Let your man dare to go where no<br />

man has ever been before when he<br />

wears this hypnotic scent every day.<br />

December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 3


FASHION<br />

FOR HER<br />

Gold Wristwatch<br />

This Omega<br />

Constellation red<br />

gold wristwatch is<br />

the ideal gift for the<br />

woman who has<br />

everything. She will<br />

adore you, for this.<br />

Luxury<br />

lace wig<br />

Gold<br />

Wristwatch<br />

Diamond<br />

and ruby<br />

necklace set<br />

This Omega<br />

Constellation<br />

red gold<br />

wristwatch is the<br />

ideal gift for the<br />

woman who has<br />

everything. She<br />

will adore you,<br />

for this.<br />

A designer<br />

dress<br />

Diamond Jewelry Set<br />

Diamonds are a girl’s best friend,<br />

no doubt. So this Sapphire<br />

Diamond and Platinum set would<br />

be perfect for your mother, wife or<br />

girlfriend.<br />

Didi statement bag<br />

Tps Luxury Bag<br />

A timeless and<br />

elegant purse<br />

OLS(Olori Ladun<br />

Sijuwade by TPS<br />

Luxury. This will be<br />

one of your wife’s<br />

favorite gifts.<br />

TPS<br />

Luxury<br />

bag<br />

Designer Dress<br />

This red Polkadot tulle lace<br />

gown by Elie Saab<br />

Bath Gift Set<br />

Treat her, so she can treat<br />

herself with this luxury<br />

relaxing bath set.<br />

Omega<br />

red gold<br />

wristwatch<br />

Vanilla Bath<br />

Gift Set<br />

Christian<br />

Louboutin<br />

heels<br />

4<br />

Omega<br />

Constellation red<br />

gold wristwatch<br />

/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Gold Wristwatch<br />

This Omega Constellation red<br />

gold wristwatch is the ideal<br />

gift for the woman who has<br />

everything. She will adore you,<br />

for this.<br />

Gift With A Wow<br />

Factor<br />

When you are really looking to give<br />

the gift of wow-factor, this Christian<br />

Louboutin Veneneuse evening<br />

pumps is the way to go.<br />

Christian<br />

Louboutin<br />

Follies Spikes


FASHION<br />

small DG Millennials<br />

crossbody bag<br />

Crossbody bag<br />

This small DG Millennials crossbody<br />

bag will definitely excite anyone.<br />

Gucci belt<br />

for him<br />

Gucci<br />

belt for<br />

her<br />

Gifts For<br />

Millennials<br />

Leather Logo Belt<br />

A classic belt for every fashion<br />

lover, they will get the most use<br />

out of this Gucci logo piece.<br />

Travel Luggage<br />

For the savvy traveler,<br />

this chic new luggage<br />

set gift is a positively<br />

chic collection that<br />

is very stylish<br />

and everyone will<br />

appreciate it.<br />

Travel<br />

Luggage set<br />

Power Travel Mat<br />

Keeping a Powermat on hand (which can<br />

charge up to three devices, and uses<br />

one cord for the whole shebang),<br />

especially one that folds up<br />

neatly, will save the<br />

day every time and<br />

your young ones<br />

will love it<br />

Power<br />

travel mat<br />

iPhone<br />

Camera Lens<br />

Clip-On Lens<br />

Clip-On Lens for iPhone, Android<br />

and Smartphones for Christmas,<br />

it is perfect for the amateur<br />

photographer or even professional<br />

photographer.<br />

Sneakers For<br />

Him & Her<br />

Introduce her to her new<br />

favorite sneaker<br />

brand like this ever<br />

trending shade<br />

synonymous<br />

with the<br />

millennial cycle.<br />

Air Jordan 6<br />

A Classy<br />

Dress<br />

SEQUIN<br />

EMBROIDERED<br />

TEA LENGTH<br />

DRESS<br />

For a black tie event? A<br />

millennial pink dress is<br />

always the right fit for the<br />

millennial in your life.<br />

December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 5


REPORTAGE<br />

Olugbodi<br />

And The<br />

Spirit Of<br />

Enterprise<br />

Words By - Remmy Diagbare<br />

They are nine siblings,<br />

sired by one woman. All<br />

nine are well educated<br />

and chief executive<br />

officers of successful businesses.<br />

Their father, Yuji Olugbodi,<br />

retired from the Central Bank of<br />

Nigeria to join his wife in<br />

business. The children describe<br />

their mother, Madam Funke<br />

Olugbodi as a ‘serial<br />

entrepreneur’, who over the<br />

years, operated no less than 17<br />

businesses! It is no wonder, they<br />

caught the entrepreneurial spirit.<br />

‘A fruit never falls far from its<br />

tree’, indeed.<br />

So, when you see fractured<br />

large families, it’s not because of<br />

size, it’s the foundation that is<br />

faulty! Read and be inspired.<br />

6<br />

/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong>


REPORTAGE<br />

December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 7


REPORTAGE<br />

1. Johnny Tunde Olugbodi<br />

Principal Consultant, First Divine Swivel<br />

Training & Development Ltd.<br />

How did you all cope growing up in a large<br />

family? With only one sister, what was growing<br />

up with your eight siblings like?<br />

I am the oldest of the children. I remember,<br />

vividly, the birth, christening and growing up of each<br />

of my 8 siblings. It was an environment of<br />

harmonious relationships, devoid of avoidable<br />

conflicts and unpleasant rivalry. Our parents are<br />

responsible for our staying together because,<br />

growing up, there was no favoritism for any<br />

particular child. It has always been a structure of<br />

one family in terms of respect and authority. You<br />

will find that some of my siblings have just one year<br />

gap in their ages. While my immediate junior<br />

brother, Dr Olatunji Joshua, was born on the 25th<br />

of March, 1964, Alexander Kolawole following him<br />

was born on 6th August, 1965. Muyiwa Oladapo<br />

was born on 6th February 1967. Akinyinka<br />

Gbolahan was born on 8th May 1969. Dr Akinyinka<br />

Akinyemi was born on 17th July 1971. Oyeniran<br />

Roy was born on November 12, 1975. Oluwaseun<br />

Akintoye was born on 12th May 1978 while the only<br />

lady of the family was born on 2nd December 1981<br />

in Osogbo.<br />

In our relationship over the years, you talk to that<br />

person who is just one or two years older as if you<br />

have 10 years apart because you have to show<br />

respect. Again, everybody commands respect<br />

because of the kind of personality he/she<br />

represents. Respect goes down the line from<br />

whoever is the oldest. Ours has been a close-knit<br />

family right from the outset. I, being the first born,<br />

grew up to know our parents, both of whom are still<br />

alive, as very respectful and humble people.<br />

Our father was privileged to be employed as a<br />

Senior Clerk in the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN)<br />

in 1961. Father was then living at 30, Reclamation<br />

Street in Lagos Island with mother. After Olatunji<br />

was born on March 25th, 1964 - about three<br />

months later, around July of that year - father was<br />

transferred to Port Harcourt, where a branch of<br />

CBN had just been opened. We all travelled by the<br />

train from Iddo Railway Station, Lagos, to Port<br />

Harcourt.<br />

What influenced your going into business<br />

instead of working in establishments? Was it a<br />

family decision? Did it have anything to do with<br />

parental upbringing or influence?<br />

I started my work career as Population<br />

Statistician with the Nigeria Population Commission<br />

(NPC) in 1989. Eventually, I found myself as a<br />

human resources practitioner. I resigned my<br />

appointment with the NPC when I was employed<br />

by the CBN on 1st of February, 1991.<br />

Do you experience sibling rivalry? How do you<br />

deal with the issue of one being more<br />

successful than the other?<br />

All these years, my siblings and I did not have<br />

any form of rivalry. Everybody developed his/her<br />

own talent in education and attitude. I never knew I<br />

would replace our father at the CBN because as<br />

the firstborn, he wanted me to be a medical doctor.<br />

This made me offer science subjects up to the<br />

Higher School Certificate (HSC) level at the Baptist<br />

Academy.<br />

What has kept us together as old and<br />

established people, therefore, was the tradition that<br />

runs in the family, not just about our parents and<br />

grandparents on both sides. Our paternal<br />

grandfather had four wives. I stayed with them at a<br />

very impressionable age, when I was in primary<br />

school. I never saw them fight or the wives quarrel<br />

or discriminate among the children. Everybody did<br />

the same thing together. Every Christmas, we<br />

would all gather in our grandfather’s compound.<br />

We looked forward to such gathering every<br />

Christmas. These are some of the values of unity<br />

and togetherness they inculcated in us right from<br />

childhood. Among us, everybody has his own role<br />

such that there are advisers and mentors and you<br />

know who to talk to when you want to.<br />

It’s been a wonderful and most rewarding<br />

experience growing up with my siblings over the<br />

years. It’s a thing of personal joy for me; something<br />

I will cherish for all eternity.<br />

2. Joshua Olatunji Olugbodi<br />

Executive Vice Chairman, Verdant Zeal Group; Chairman,<br />

BYTOL Group; and, Chairman, BCI TBI Epicentre Group<br />

How did you all cope growing up in a large<br />

family?<br />

It was interesting and exciting. But also fairly<br />

regimented, in terms of chores and duties; because,<br />

our mum was a stickler for details and discipline. She<br />

is pro-active and pre-planning. Everyone had chores<br />

to do even though we always had house helps.<br />

Growing up was largely in Surulere, Lagos and<br />

later on at Osogbo in Osun State. Our parents were<br />

both very strict disciplinarians who never spared the<br />

rod at all. The tongue lashing was even worse. There<br />

was a great influence of aunties and uncles; some of<br />

whom lived with us, especially from Abeokuta (where<br />

Mum is from) and Ara, our hometown. Indeed, our<br />

house was a mini-United Nations of sorts. The<br />

communal spirit was strong, regardless. There was<br />

order but there was substantial commotion too.<br />

As you can imagine, a house packed full of boys<br />

was always bustling with unbridled energy and<br />

adrenaline. Fights broke out often due to<br />

misunderstandings or deliberate mischief. The<br />

characters also formed early. For instance, we had<br />

the perennial troublemakers; we had the quiet, easy<br />

going ones; we had the diplomats who stand on all<br />

sides of the divide; and, we had the ones who,<br />

sometimes, snitch on best-kept secrets. Then, we<br />

had the oppressors who did brisk business by buying<br />

peoples’ pieces of meat for a fee at lunch.<br />

In all, it was like a massive jigsaw of life activities<br />

and counter activities that kept everyone busy but<br />

grounded. Meal times were special. We always had<br />

food in the house - nothing fancy, at all. But no one<br />

ever went to bed hungry.<br />

What influenced you going into business as<br />

against working for establishments? Was it a<br />

family decision? Did it have anything to do with<br />

parental upbringing or influence?<br />

I was a professional, working first in journalism<br />

and then marketing communications for many years.<br />

But my real entrepreneurship started, in a formal<br />

sense, about 15 years ago. It was not a conscious<br />

family decision but it had a great family influence,<br />

especially from my mum who was a natural business<br />

enthusiast. She attempted many types of<br />

businesses, largely borne out of the need to<br />

supplement the family income. She is tenacious.<br />

Even now, she runs a small poultry and fishery farm.<br />

She rears goats. And she was 76 last September!<br />

How did you begin? Did any of your siblings<br />

provide inputs for your business and its growth?<br />

Over the years, I had gained much insight into<br />

business practices from my mum and later, as a<br />

professional. In getting started, the passion and<br />

conviction were unparalleled. I was quite meticulous<br />

and insistent on having the proper structure for<br />

corporate governance.<br />

Planning and forecast are important. So also was nurturing a<br />

high-ground that guaranteed significant differentiation. Yes, I<br />

did get inputs from some of them – and, especially, my wife<br />

too.<br />

Were your parent entrepreneurs? To what extent did<br />

parental teachings and philosophy direct you in<br />

business and life decisions?<br />

Dad was a banker with the Central Bank of Nigeria. As I<br />

said, Mum was the business-minded person, a trait she<br />

acquired from my maternal grandmother. What we gained<br />

from Dad were the values of decency and ‘bibire’ or<br />

‘omoluabi’ in Yoruba parlance. This literally means the best<br />

8<br />

/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong>


REPORTAGE<br />

behaviour tied to excellent moral upbringing.<br />

It was a good mix - business virtues from Mum (we<br />

used to take turns to look after the ‘store’) and<br />

impeccable moral strength from Dad. He speaks all the<br />

time of using “initiative”. You cannot dare go home with<br />

something that belongs to someone else (integrity). You<br />

cannot be abusive, rude or condescending. Your word<br />

must be your bond. Cleanliness was always next to<br />

Godliness. There was no shortcut to success but<br />

through diligence and hard work. Above all, was<br />

generosity.<br />

You are 9 siblings in total. You all run successful<br />

businesses. What is the secret of your success as<br />

individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />

It’s easy to assume that a set of principles or virtues<br />

did the trick. They do help to a great extent. But for me,<br />

the favour of God towers above all else. You cannot<br />

divorce faith from the recipe of victory. But there was<br />

also the power of passion, conviction and intuition. I did<br />

play a significant role, given my position in encouraging<br />

my siblings. I was central to the formation of most of the<br />

companies, providing support and guidance. I am the<br />

chairman of some of the companies. But, ultimately,<br />

each person is led to direct and operate as the (Holy)<br />

Spirit gave unction. We do a bit of cross-selling and<br />

cross-fertilization of ideas too.<br />

Do you experience sibling rivalry? How do you deal<br />

with the issue of one of you being more successful<br />

than another?<br />

Not in any obvious manner. No. People are happy<br />

for you to progress. A rivalry is more from a positive<br />

dimension in that you are either being inspired or<br />

challenged to always raise the bar and to understand<br />

that no black sheep will be accommodated. My siblings<br />

and I dream a lot.<br />

Have there been times when you synergize your<br />

individual expertise on projects and special needs?<br />

Yes. We do that severally and it can be quite<br />

enlightening. For instance, when my brother, Tomi, the<br />

neurosurgeon, was going to start his own practice,<br />

Prime Pain in the USA, I was his brand consultant and<br />

others chipped in, based on their discipline. Seun, the<br />

engineer, has a Masters degree from Germany in<br />

Safety, Health and Environment. That has come in<br />

handy on many occasions when we are designing<br />

solutions for wary clients - even for events<br />

management. But, we need to do this more often and<br />

formally.<br />

What is your advice for start-ups or anyone wishing<br />

to set up a business?<br />

Dream your dreams, envision your success and<br />

channel a path. Work on a road map, have clear<br />

objectives, be led by a WHY and NEVER back down or<br />

let fear of failure stop you. Failure is, in fact, a part of the<br />

postcode!<br />

Who started first among the nine of you? Would<br />

you say that the success of the first person that<br />

ventured into business had any effect on others?<br />

Kola, my immediate younger brother, started first -<br />

when we inaugurated Background Check International<br />

(BCI). It was our first litmus test although he had failed<br />

serially in some initial attempts at running a butchery<br />

etc.<br />

Then, came Verdant Zeal and so forth. The learning<br />

process was incremental and a great stimulant to the<br />

startups. The interesting thing is that all our spouses<br />

also run businesses of significant stature. Some are<br />

even in manufacturing, running factories!<br />

What was the view or concern of your parents when<br />

they realized that you all were delving into this<br />

direction?<br />

Their default position has always been one of support<br />

through prayers and occasional advice. But largely,<br />

prayers - especially my Mum. Their ‘concern’ has<br />

always been that we enjoy sustainable growth. They are<br />

happy for us.<br />

3. Alexander<br />

Kolawole Olugbodi<br />

CEO, Background Check<br />

International (BCI Ltd)<br />

How did you all cope growing up in a large<br />

family? With only one sister among eight boys,<br />

what did it feel like being in a family of 11?<br />

It was a really nice experience for us. Since we<br />

were 8 guys, we were large enough to play with<br />

ourselves. I can still recollect that we, sometimes,<br />

played 4-a-side football in the sitting room! That<br />

means that we will literarily move the settees out of<br />

our way by piling them on top of one another.<br />

Everybody had their favourite colours so each of<br />

us had his own cup, plate, towel and other<br />

household items his favourite colour. My colour<br />

then was green and, incidentally, green remains my<br />

favourite colour till date.<br />

Another very important phenomenon was that<br />

we all had a very strong influence on ourselves.<br />

For instance, if one of us reads a very interesting<br />

novel or comic or watched a nice film, that sibling<br />

would recommend it to the rest of us and every one<br />

of us takes a turn to read that novel or comic. We,<br />

most times, encouraged ourselves to good work.<br />

What influenced you’re going into business<br />

instead of working in establishments? Was it a<br />

family decision? Did it have anything to do with<br />

parental upbringing or influence?<br />

I will say that it was hereditary, sort of, because<br />

we grew up to know our mother to be someone<br />

very enterprising. She has been involved in not less<br />

than 17 different types of businesses till date. I,<br />

actually, worked at the National Population<br />

Commission and the defunct North-South Bank for<br />

about 6 years.<br />

When I was in the bank, I was always trying to<br />

assess customers that came into the bank. I<br />

discovered that there were two categories: those<br />

who worked in paid jobs and those who were<br />

entrepreneurs. Those who worked in paid jobs<br />

came into the bank only at the end of the month -<br />

when their salaries were paid and they only came<br />

to withdraw at the end of the month. The<br />

entrepreneurs came quite regularly, sometimes,<br />

three times a week.”<br />

“There is a local Yoruba saying that says that<br />

when you work for someone, you only work to eat.<br />

But when you have a business, that is when you<br />

have wealth. So when I left the bank, I made up my<br />

mind that I was not going to work for anybody<br />

again. I was going to start my own business.<br />

How did you start? Did your siblings have<br />

inputs in your business and your growth?<br />

My first venture in business was a big failure!<br />

The first business led me to lots of debt. Then, I<br />

embarked on several other ventures that never<br />

went off the ground. Eventually, I prayed and God<br />

led me to start Background Check International<br />

(BCI), which happens to be the first background<br />

screening company in Nigeria and the whole of<br />

West Africa!<br />

Starting BCI was so interesting because I didn’t<br />

have so much money with me so I could not afford<br />

to rent an office space or get some basic office<br />

equipment. My ‘first’ office was one of my cousin’s<br />

sitting room and his desktop computer was what I<br />

used to develop the company’s initial documents<br />

and business proposal.<br />

I was the only staff and so I had to multi-task. I<br />

was the secretary, the driver, the business<br />

development officer and even the operations<br />

officer.<br />

Eventually, my siblings and some friends<br />

decided to invest in the business and, by God’s<br />

grace, Background Check International has close<br />

to 100 staff members and the company has a<br />

presence across some West African countries. BCI<br />

will be 14 years old by April 2019.<br />

Were your parents’ entrepreneurs? To what<br />

extent did parental teachings and philosophy<br />

direct you in business and life decisions?<br />

Like I said earlier, our mother has always been<br />

the enterprising one - right from our childhood. Both<br />

parents instilled into the 9 of us some very strong<br />

moral values that have become completely part of<br />

us today. For instance, our father taught us<br />

integrity; not by words but by his deeds. Our<br />

mother taught us how to be enterprising and hard<br />

working.<br />

They thought us how not to compare ourselves<br />

with others. Our parents ensured that we all had<br />

the best of education; we all graduated from<br />

various universities.<br />

You are 9 siblings in total and you all run<br />

successful businesses. What is the secret of<br />

your success as individuals and as a family of<br />

entrepreneurs?<br />

The sincere truth behind our successes is Jesus!<br />

At different points in life, we all encountered Jesus<br />

and we all accepted Him as our Lord and Master.<br />

The Bible says that unless the Lord builds a house,<br />

they labour in vain all that build. We all allowed God<br />

to direct us in all our ways; by God’s grace, we are<br />

all that we are.<br />

Do you experience sibling rivalry? How do you<br />

deal with the issue of one being more<br />

successful than the other?<br />

We do not call it rivalry; instead, we call it<br />

challenging and provoking ourselves to good works<br />

and excellent service. We all understand that the<br />

life of a man does not consist in the abundance of<br />

what he possesses; instead, our lives should be<br />

lived to serve others and God.<br />

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REPORTAGE<br />

What advice do you have for start-ups or<br />

anyone wishing to set up a business?<br />

From my own experience, I advise all start-ups<br />

to start with God. Secondly, they should not wait<br />

until they have everything before they begin. They<br />

should not despise the days of little beginnings.<br />

Thirdly, they should start as lean as possible.<br />

Who started first? Would you say the success<br />

of the first person that ventured into being an<br />

entrepreneur had any effect on others?<br />

I was privileged to start a business first but I do<br />

not think that was what influenced my siblings to<br />

embark on starting their businesses. Everybody<br />

received their separate inspiration and call.<br />

Are there points when you synergize your<br />

various expertise on projects and special<br />

needs?<br />

We have reasons to synergize from time to time,<br />

considering the fact that we all have different gifting<br />

and talents.<br />

4. Alexander Kolawole Olugbodi<br />

CEO, Background Check International (BCI}Ltd<br />

“There is a local Yoruba saying that says that when you work for someone, you only work<br />

to eat. But when you have a business, that is when you have wealth. So when I left the bank,<br />

I made up my mind that I was not going to work for anybody again. I was going to start my<br />

own business.<br />

How did you start? Did your siblings have inputs in your business and your growth?<br />

My first venture in business was a big failure! The first business led me to lots of debt.<br />

Then, I embarked on several other ventures that never went off the ground. Eventually, I<br />

prayed and God led me to start Background Check International (BCI), which happens to be<br />

the first background screening company in Nigeria and the whole of West Africa!<br />

Starting BCI was so interesting because I didn’t have so much money with me so I could<br />

not afford to rent an office space or get some basic office equipment. My ‘first’ office was one<br />

of my cousin’s sitting room and his desktop computer was what I used to develop the<br />

company’s initial documents and business proposal.<br />

I was the only staff and so I had to multi-task. I was the secretary, the driver, the business<br />

development officer and even the operations officer.<br />

Eventually, my siblings and some friends decided to invest in the business and, by God’s<br />

grace, Background Check International has close to 100 staff members and the company<br />

has a presence across some West African countries. BCI will be 14 years old by April 2019.<br />

Were your parents’ entrepreneurs? To what extent did parental teachings and<br />

philosophy direct you in business and life decisions?<br />

Like I said earlier, our mother has always been the enterprising one - right from our<br />

childhood. Both parents instilled into the 9 of us some very strong moral values that have<br />

become completely part of us today. For instance, our father taught us integrity; not by words<br />

but by his deeds. Our mother taught us how to be enterprising and hard working.<br />

They thought us how not to compare ourselves with others. Our parents ensured that we<br />

all had the best of education; we all graduated from various universities.<br />

How did you all cope growing up in a large family? With only one sister among eight<br />

boys, what did it feel like being in a family of 11?<br />

It was a really nice experience for us. Since we were 8 guys, we were large enough to<br />

play with ourselves. I can still recollect that we, sometimes, played 4-a-side football in the<br />

sitting room! That means that we will literarily move the settees out of our way by piling them<br />

on top of one another.<br />

Everybody had their favourite colours so each of us had his own cup, plate, towel and<br />

other household items his favourite colour. My colour then was green and, incidentally, green<br />

remains my favourite colour till date.<br />

Another very important phenomenon was that we all had a very strong influence on<br />

ourselves. For instance, if one of us reads a very interesting novel or comic or watched a<br />

nice film, that sibling would recommend it to the rest of us and every one of us takes a turn to<br />

read that novel or comic. We, most times, encouraged ourselves to good work.<br />

What influenced you’re going into business instead of working in establishments?<br />

Was it a family decision? Did it have anything to do with parental upbringing or<br />

influence?<br />

I will say that it was hereditary, sort of, because we grew up to know our mother to be<br />

someone very enterprising. She has been involved in not less than 17 different types of<br />

businesses till date. I, actually, worked at the National Population Commission and the<br />

defunct North-South Bank for about 6 years. When I was in the bank, I was always trying to<br />

assess customers that came into the bank. I discovered that there were two categories:<br />

those who worked in paid jobs and those who were entrepreneurs. Those who worked in<br />

paid jobs came into the bank only at the end of the month - when their salaries were paid<br />

and they only came to withdraw at the end of the month. The entrepreneurs came quite<br />

regularly, sometimes, three times a week.”<br />

You are 9 siblings in total and you all run successful businesses. What is the secret<br />

of your success as individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />

The sincere truth behind our successes is Jesus! At different points in life, we all<br />

encountered Jesus and we all accepted Him as our Lord and Master. The Bible says that<br />

unless the Lord builds a house, they labour in vain all that build. We all allowed God to direct<br />

us in all our ways; by God’s grace, we are all that we are.<br />

Do you experience sibling rivalry? How do you deal with the issue of one being more<br />

successful than the other?<br />

We do not call it rivalry; instead, we call it challenging and provoking ourselves to good<br />

works and excellent service. We all understand that the life of a man does not consist in the<br />

abundance of what he possesses; instead, our lives should be lived to serve others and God.<br />

What advice do you have for start-ups or anyone wishing to set up a business?<br />

From my own experience, I advise all start-ups to start with God. Secondly, they should<br />

not wait until they have everything before they begin. They should not despise the days of<br />

little beginnings. Thirdly, they should start as lean as possible.<br />

Who started first? Would you say the success of the first person that ventured into<br />

being an entrepreneur had any effect on others?<br />

I was privileged to start a business first but I do not think that was what influenced my<br />

siblings to embark on starting their businesses. Everybody received their separate inspiration<br />

and call.<br />

Are there points when you synergize your various expertise on projects and special<br />

needs?<br />

We have reasons to synergize from time to time, considering the fact that we all have<br />

different gifting and talents.<br />

5. Akinyinka Gbolahan Olugbodi<br />

CEO, Background Check International (BCI)<br />

How did you and your eight siblings cope growing up in a large family?<br />

Growing up in a large family was fun. We have always had the ‘spirit of togetherness’.<br />

I am the second to the last (the last boy). Almost everything I know in life, in terms of<br />

values and principles, I learnt from my parents and siblings.<br />

Growing up, even though we were many - everything was structured in terms of<br />

responsibilities and duties in the house. We grew up in an atmosphere filled with love,<br />

trust and respect.<br />

Why did you go into business as against working for establishments? Did it have<br />

anything to do with parental upbringing or influence?<br />

For me, going into business was mainly about divine intuition. Parental upbringing<br />

and the influence of my brothers were also some of the other factors.<br />

How did you start? Did your siblings make inputs?<br />

Yes, my siblings made inputs. After my NYSC service year, I worked in a bank for a<br />

few years. Then, I resigned to go to Germany for my Master’s degree. After obtaining my<br />

Master’s degree, Tunji and Kola offered me the position of General Manager at<br />

Background Check International (BCI).<br />

Currently, I am the Deputy Managing Director/Executive Director at BCI. Kola and I<br />

also have another company that we run together. My wife, Mrs ItunuOluwa Olugbodi,<br />

and I also have 2 other companies. She is the CEO/Creative Director at June5ive<br />

Events and also has an event rentals company called Shawn Williams Rentals.<br />

10<br />

/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong>


6. Akintomi Akinyemi Olugbodi<br />

Medical Director and CEO, Prime Pain Specialists; Chairman,<br />

Prime Group of Companies - including Prime Estate and<br />

Prime Leisure and Health.<br />

REPORTAGE<br />

How did the nine of you cope growing up in a large family – especially as you had only one sister among<br />

you?<br />

There was no “coping” per se growing up in a large family. That was all we knew. We grew up with uncles, aunts<br />

and cousins and so on. We all shared whatever resources were available.<br />

What influenced your decision to go into business instead of seeking employment in the establishments?<br />

Was it a family decision? Did it have anything to do with parental upbringing or influence?<br />

As a physician with a unique skill set and with more than 20 years of experience - working at different levels both in<br />

Nigeria and the United States, I wanted an outlet to practice Medicine independent of the encumbrances of big,<br />

bureaucratic establishments. Medical practice is a sacred calling and I wanted a practice that glorifies Christ and puts<br />

the patient front and centre. As a family, my wife and I wanted something that was trans-generational.<br />

How did you begin? Did your siblings have inputs in your business and growth?<br />

We started Prime Pain Specialists, an interventional pain management practice and our flagship business, from<br />

About growth, right from a very young age, just by watching<br />

my brothers interact, I was able to learn about leadership,<br />

management, vision and passion. Even till today, I see my<br />

siblings setting new goals and intentions almost on monthly<br />

basis.<br />

You are nine siblings and you all run successful<br />

businesses. What is the secret of your success as<br />

individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />

The first and most important secret for us all is the grace<br />

of God. None of us can rule this out. I have come to realize<br />

that God uses businesses for the advancement of His<br />

kingdom. For many of us, God practically gave us the ideas<br />

about the businesses to start. You can solve so many<br />

problems by having a thriving, legitimate business. Starting<br />

a business is like planting a tree; you can only imagine the<br />

extent of its potentials and benefits.<br />

The second secret is that we were all able to acquire<br />

some skill sets from helping our Mum with her ventures.<br />

She taught us about value creation.<br />

Is any kind of sibling rivalry among you? How do you<br />

deal with the issue of one sibling being more<br />

successful than another?<br />

I don’t think we experienced sibling rivalry. For us,<br />

success is not about acquiring material wealth. It’s all about<br />

value creation, touching lives and contentment.<br />

What advice would you give to start-ups or anybody<br />

who is planning to set up a business?<br />

Business is all about value creation. You have to have<br />

something of value to sell. I believe so much in growing<br />

businesses organically. You can start small and then<br />

scale-up. You also have to be able to persevere; it takes<br />

time for businesses to break even.<br />

scratch. My wife<br />

and I pooled our resources and savings. We did not go to<br />

the bank. We are in a highly competitive environment.<br />

Fortunately, I had a good standing in the community<br />

as well as a good referral base - to the point that patients<br />

generally prefer to wait for days or weeks to get into our<br />

practice rather than go elsewhere for their care. Other<br />

family businesses came into being, in the course of time.<br />

My wife is a physician/hematopathologist by training but<br />

a businesswoman by passion.<br />

She has been engaged in businesses from our<br />

medical school days till now. She is actually the businessmind<br />

running most of the operations and this goes a long<br />

way. Our children, Oluwaloseyi and Oluwafolajinmi, play<br />

major roles in the accounting and administration<br />

(departments) of our businesses. Yes, they are family<br />

businesses.<br />

The beginning was rocky with teething problems that<br />

are common to nascent businesses. I leaned on<br />

brethren, including my siblings, for counsel and prayer. I<br />

am blessed to have siblings and mentors that do not<br />

mince words when it comes to advising one.<br />

You are nine in number and you all run successful<br />

businesses? What is the secret of your success as<br />

individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />

I do not see myself as a business “owner”. The earth<br />

is the LORD’s and the fulness thereof! Rather, I am a<br />

steward entrusted by the LORD with these businesses<br />

which are instruments for Him to be glorified with and for<br />

the work of His kingdom to be financed. For example,<br />

there is a fixed percentage of our monthly gross earning<br />

that goes to fund Christian ministries.<br />

According to the Lord Jesus, in Luke 16:10-12, there<br />

are 3 areas where faithfulness is imperative in order for<br />

you to be “promoted”: a). In little or small responsibilities;<br />

b). In worldly wealth or money; and, c). In things that<br />

belong to others.<br />

When we are faithful in administering God’s<br />

resources, He gives the increase. My over-arching goal<br />

in life is to be counted as a worthy “good and faithful”<br />

servant when I stand before Christ at the end. This drives<br />

me.<br />

I love practicing Medicine, which I see as a calling,<br />

with the heart of a servant. Many times, in my consulting<br />

room or the operating room, with patients, I picture Jesus<br />

washing their feet and I feel highly privileged!<br />

My sibling and I encourage one another, pray with<br />

and for one another and patronize the businesses of one<br />

another.<br />

Do you experience sibling rivalry and how do you<br />

deal with the issue of one sibling being more<br />

successful than another?<br />

Everyone has his/her proper gift. To my knowledge, I<br />

do not see any sibling rivalry. I believe that being<br />

Christians goes a long way. When you are comfortable in<br />

your skin and thankful for what you have, you have no<br />

albatross of jealousy or envy.<br />

I have a responsibility to be a “watchman” in the<br />

family. As far back as when I was in high school and<br />

medical school, many of the things we are seeing and<br />

experiencing today had been birthed in prayer. I<br />

remember being with one of my brothers, one day when<br />

he came in from his office where he was being harassed<br />

and browbeaten. We came together in prayer - right there<br />

and then. Today, he is not only successful in his own<br />

business but is a consultant to multi-nationals. The LORD<br />

burdened my heart in prayer for several years regarding<br />

another sibling. One day, the burden just lifted and I had<br />

this great peace and joy. I shared a snippet with him back<br />

then. Now, I see him being celebrated and my sense of<br />

fulfilment is profound.<br />

What advice do you have for start-ups or anyone<br />

wishing to set up a business?<br />

Proverbs 24:3-6 has been of great help to me. Indeed,<br />

reading the whole book of Proverbs every month is<br />

something I will recommend to anyone. I had a business<br />

dealing worth a fortune with a “nice” but angry man. I got<br />

burned. If I had followed Proverbs 22:24, I could have<br />

avoided that debacle. Information is key! As a physician,<br />

training in business is sparse. So, I had had to grow up<br />

quickly and learn the business of Medicine. I speak with<br />

consultants in disparate fields. I have a team or “pit crew”<br />

that helps me to focus on the important things. Treat your<br />

workers very well. Keep cost down. I love this saying of<br />

Winston Churchill: “To improve is to change; to be perfect<br />

is to change often.” So, embrace the change (including<br />

not having a salary for a year, possibly). Make your vision<br />

very clear and update as needed. Flee from vision killers.<br />

Keep your eyes on excellence. Persevere in down times!<br />

Understand that unlike the thinking of the “instant”<br />

generation, investments may need time to build strong<br />

roots before they yield. Keep the faith.<br />

December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 11


REPORTAGE<br />

negotiated. The two years between some of us is like 10 years as we address each<br />

other respectfully.<br />

Why did you go into business as against working for establishments? Did it<br />

have anything to do with parental upbringing or influence?<br />

I went into business very early in my life. And lots of things influenced this. The<br />

first was that I grew to know Mum as very industrious. She was so resilient that<br />

she’d put her all in every trade - from big to small; and, succeeded in them all to<br />

support the family. I am naturally talented; I drummed, could sing, could draw and<br />

paint and was a great dancer. My first venture into money-making was selling my<br />

paint works at a very tender age. During my internship with an Advertising agency,<br />

as I rounded up in school, I was made to realize that my creative talents were gold<br />

embedded within me. I saw some of my creations raking in lots of money for the<br />

company. From that moment, I knew that working for anyone later would only be a<br />

mirage! I started up boldly because I am fortunate to have a very supportive woman<br />

in my life as well as a very strong family influence; a family that would come<br />

together to make sure your decision succeeds! Beyond this, I was so sure I was in<br />

the right direction by choosing a profession I love and was passionate about.<br />

7. Oyeniran Roy Olugbodi<br />

CEO, Strange Creatives (Audio-Visuals)<br />

How did you and your eight siblings cope growing up in a large family?<br />

We were all raised in a close-knit family as one! (We were) privileged to have a<br />

responsible dad who never compromised raising his kids diligently and a strict mum<br />

who didn’t take raising us as one for granted! From when each of crawled, we knew<br />

the natural family hierarchy! Respecting your older siblings could never be<br />

What is the secret of your family’s success?<br />

The secret of our success stories is purely our diligent upbringing and the<br />

discipline instilled by our wonderful parents. And, this is sealed by the oneness that<br />

binds us all as siblings! Most importantly, we all put Christ first in all of our dealings.<br />

Is any kind of sibling rivalry among you? How do you deal with the issue of<br />

one sibling being more successful than another?<br />

Sibling rivalry can never exist within us. We all always have something to do with<br />

each other in the course of our different businesses. As a filmmaker, photographer<br />

and my entertainment business, I work with every one of my siblings. In fact, the<br />

success of one is the success of all in my family!<br />

It naturally happens that we give each other jobs in our respective areas of<br />

specialty. Most times, this isn’t automatic because we are siblings; it is given based<br />

on demanded professionalism. We watch each other’s backs too. The support is<br />

unquantifiable!<br />

8. Oluseun Akintoye Olugbodi<br />

Deputy Managing Director, BCI Limited.<br />

How did you all cope growing up in a large family?<br />

Though we seem like a large family, in reality, we never thought of ourselves in that way.<br />

This may be partly because there were different contexts for each one’s growing up such<br />

that we hardly ever lived together in the same house at the same point.<br />

There is a clear gap between the first six, who were mainly Lagos-kids, and the last three<br />

- who were mainly Oshogbo-kids. Also, there were always points where several of us were<br />

away in a boarding house or university.<br />

Having said that, our parents worked hard and believed in doing all they could to provide<br />

for the children. Our mum put her hand in so many different trades; there is almost nothing<br />

she did not try. With the two of them doing so much, we never lacked. We were never rich<br />

but never thought of ourselves as even close to poor.<br />

What influenced your going into business? Was it a family decision? Did it have<br />

anything to do with parental upbringing or influence?<br />

There were different reasons for different people; I suppose one common thread was my<br />

dad’s constant exhortation to ‘use your initiative’. It was drummed into us to take an original<br />

approach in viewing all situations. In terms of me becoming an entrepreneur, it was the<br />

proverbial ‘condition that made the crayfish to bend’.<br />

After many years of working in advertising in Nigeria and rising to the position of Deputy<br />

Creative Director with Insight Communications, I travelled to the UK where, after dabbling<br />

into advertising, I stumbled into the world of social housing - as practiced by councils and<br />

housing associations in the UK. After 13 years in the housing sector, I was made redundant<br />

in one of the periodic purgings of staff that is now commonplace in the workspace.<br />

Using my experience, I set up a company - Arrowshot Solutions Ltd, specialising in helping<br />

bodies in the sector to develop solutions for diverse housing issues. I have been doing that<br />

for almost 5 years now.<br />

How did you start? Did your siblings have inputs in your business and growth?<br />

Not really. Being the only one in the UK and working in a sector that is not quite developed in<br />

Nigeria, I had to get the company up and running on my own by contracting my skills and<br />

approach to housing organisations. As my reputation grew, it became easier to attract<br />

constant patronage and begin to command ‘top dollar’.<br />

You are nine siblings, in total, and you all run successful businesses. What is the<br />

secret of your success as individuals and as a family of entrepreneurs?<br />

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/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong>


REPORTAGE<br />

9. Adebo Moromoke (Mrs.)<br />

CEO, Epicentre Global Events Ltd (the only female<br />

among nine siblings).<br />

How did the nine of you cope growing up in a large family – especially as you had only<br />

one sister among you?<br />

Growing up with my brothers was such an honour and a privilege! They have helped me<br />

become the woman I am today. I see them all as my role models and aspire to be like them and<br />

better. While we were young, I had no dolls - rather I had soccer balls! I was practically one of<br />

them and saw myself more a man than a woman.<br />

One would assume that they spoilt me while growing up, being the only girl in their midst, but<br />

they never did. Rather, they were firm with me and treated me like they would treat a brother.<br />

Today, I am grateful for it.<br />

What influenced your decision to go into business instead of seeking employment in the<br />

establishments? Was it a family decision? Did it have anything to do with parental<br />

upbringing or influence?<br />

My going into business can simply be tagged: God’s Plan. I was to work with two major<br />

establishments at different times after school (one a bank, the other - a major telecommunication<br />

company) but It never really worked out. In fact, the telecommunication company, I actually<br />

worked at for a day, I just did not like the whole idea of being an employee and I resigned after<br />

just a day!<br />

My going into business was greatly influenced by my upbringing and parental influence. My<br />

mother was a very hard working business woman in her days; she laid her hands on several<br />

businesses that I lost count of. She was never idle and does not believe a woman should stay<br />

home without earning an income.<br />

You can be an income-making-stay-home mum in her books. So did my dad, who rose to a<br />

very senior position at Central Bank of Nigeria - due to hard work before he retired. I started<br />

Epicentre Global Events in 2008. I never really thought I would be a corporate event planner from<br />

This may sound trite but the foundation is<br />

Jesus and knowing Him. The Bible says<br />

that promotion does not come from the<br />

East, West or South but God is the one<br />

who promotes. For me, God orchestrated<br />

our paths and helped us catch<br />

Shakespeare’s ‘tide in the affairs of men’<br />

at the right time.<br />

He helped our parents to instil in us<br />

enduring values such as initiative,<br />

integrity and grit, which you really cannot<br />

put a price on. Whether working for<br />

people or for ourselves, every one of us<br />

always seems to stand out due to this.<br />

Plus, Dad had one ambition - which the<br />

Lord granted him - that every one of us<br />

would have a university education. All<br />

nine of us are university graduates.<br />

What advice do you have for start-ups<br />

or anyone wishing to set up a<br />

business?<br />

Be a person of integrity. Integrity<br />

makes people keep coming back to you<br />

because it is a currency that is very<br />

scarce out there. People will seek you out<br />

because they trust you. Also, aim for<br />

excellence, not mediocrity. Be your own<br />

hardest critic. When people wanted an<br />

excuse to trap Daniel with, the Bible says<br />

they could not fault his character or find<br />

any error in the way he did his work.<br />

Many supposed Christians go from<br />

church to church praying against their<br />

bosses. For many of them, the fault lies in<br />

themselves - lack of integrity and lack of<br />

excellence. Have these and then couple it<br />

with an initiative to find out where the<br />

gaps are in the market and plough that<br />

gap. It does not start with money. It starts<br />

with an idea that will not rest.<br />

the start but being the only girl of the family, I happen to plan all the parties<br />

we had. I discovered, along with the line, that I derived pleasure putting<br />

events together. Thus, when the time came for me to think of a business to<br />

go into, it was only natural that I went for event management.<br />

My brother, Tunji, helped with registering the company and, today, he is<br />

proud (alongside my other siblings) what I have made of the company<br />

through God’s grace.My parents were very firm and strict. One would think<br />

to be the only daughter, out of nine children and one they had been<br />

longing for at that time (I am the last born), they will pamper me. No!<br />

Rather, they were extra strict and I can only assume now that I am the<br />

good woman that they wanted to ensure I became. In fact, I used to<br />

wonder if they were indeed my parents!<br />

They spoilt me with material things but never spared me when it comes<br />

to household chores and general responsibilities.<br />

One of my father’s philosophy is: “Honesty is a Policy!” Integrity was<br />

everything to him and this is one of the many values I picked from him and<br />

apply in business and everyday living.<br />

You are nine in number and you all run successful businesses? What<br />

is the secret of your success as individuals and as a family of<br />

entrepreneurs?<br />

The number one secret of my success is God - and this is not to sound<br />

cliché. It’s the absolute truth. I cannot ignore the God-factor in my whole<br />

existence. In addition, I always stay focused and accept every disappoint<br />

as a learning curve to get better.<br />

Thirdly, I carved a niche for my business. Currently, in Nigeria,<br />

Epicentre Global Events Limited is one of the leading corporate event<br />

management companies which focuses solely on corporate events such<br />

as product launches, conferences and exhibition, company picnics,<br />

company end of year parties, road shows, music events, fashion shows,<br />

award events etc. I did not want to be one of the teeming population of<br />

event planners but stand out.<br />

What advice do you have for start-ups or anyone wishing to set up a<br />

business?<br />

For any start-up company, start small. Most start-up businesses make<br />

the mistake of starting big and fancy which, most times, get their fingers<br />

burned before learning.<br />

I started out as a one-man army in a very small office; just me and my<br />

laptop. When responding to emails or at meetings, I would keep saying:<br />

“We will do this, we will do that” to my clients. This, I did for years until I got<br />

to the point that I was convinced that I needed to expand and employ<br />

permanent staff. Do not believe everything you see, especially on social<br />

media and never compare your business with another in an unhealthy<br />

way. Be focused and keep working at it and it will all fall into place.<br />

December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 13


with Adesuwa 07011289316 | adesuwaewoigbokhan@hotmail.com<br />

Christmas Getaway For Couples<br />

Feeling love at Xmas! As this is the season of<br />

romance, so up the Christmas heat with a romantic<br />

getaway by taking your loved one on holiday.<br />

A lot of time couples get carried away with the<br />

hustle and bustle ranging from caring for the kids,<br />

stressful job, a busy social calendar and all that form<br />

everyday life hence months goes by without having<br />

proper talk or spending quality time together.<br />

Generally speaking couples need to reconnect with<br />

one another on a regular basis, a number of them had<br />

agreed that taking time away from family, friends, work<br />

and technology would give them the needed<br />

opportunity to discover themselves, to remember<br />

romance and to have fun time together.<br />

Christmas season readily provided this needed<br />

break for get away with its numerous romantic<br />

benefits. Planning one of the weekend hang out could<br />

be really exciting as the anticipation is actually one of<br />

the best part of getting away, finding a place to stay,<br />

looking at different locations and planning logistics can<br />

be thrilling as you and your spouse have something to<br />

look forward to together. It could be more fun keeping<br />

all the plans to yourself and keep the details secret,<br />

giving your mate something to think of, thus adding air<br />

of mystery to the whole escapade.<br />

Studies have shown that people who take regular<br />

vacations that allow them to relax actually have a<br />

lower risk of strokes and heart attack. so taking care of<br />

your own and your spouse’ mental and physical health<br />

by going away for breaks is beneficial to both of you<br />

as it is good for the mind and body to take some to<br />

rest. Also it has been proven that women who go on<br />

regular breaks are very much less likely to suffer from<br />

depression as frequent getaways can lead to a better<br />

quality of life and improved work performance.<br />

Romantic breaks like Xmas getaway usually<br />

strengthens the structure of a relationship as couples<br />

get to spend quality time in each other’s company,<br />

they are in a relaxed environment where they are far<br />

from the normal routine of life and are able to<br />

communicate especially as conversation improves<br />

during and after the vacation.<br />

It gives room to better relationships with partner and<br />

children, women who take some time away allows<br />

themselves to slow down, relax and face the family<br />

again with renew energy. A stressed and<br />

overburdened is no fun for anyone to live with.<br />

Taking time off to go on vacation is always a good<br />

thing, it is really important that all technology and<br />

contact with work is reduced during this period to get<br />

the maximum benefits. A good rest with your spouse<br />

refreshes you and takes you back to work with<br />

renewed energy thereby making your time at work<br />

more productive.<br />

Spending time with your significant part in an<br />

intimate setting might just be what your need to boost<br />

your sex life since being in a romantic setting helps<br />

couples to re-ignite feelings of intimacy that may fall by<br />

the way side during normal life.<br />

In as much as a getaway with a spouse could be an<br />

awesome experience, one should also not forget that it<br />

is a romantic trip all the way as it can be fraught with<br />

stress, argument, different opinions on hygiene and<br />

packing.<br />

Here are tips to make it through the trip with your<br />

romance alive.<br />

You have to manage your expectations as every<br />

day is not going to be filled with sparkles and orgasms,<br />

just because you don’t feel completely relaxed and<br />

connected all the time does not mean your union is in<br />

mess.<br />

• Be sure to share your packing space as sharing<br />

packing space makes you collaborate, keeps you both<br />

aware of possessions. Divide responsibilities according<br />

to your strength, though this seems simple but then it is<br />

an absolute requirement.<br />

• Keep track of money but do not stress over it. Share<br />

expenses in a manner that make sense, one partner<br />

pays for accommodation and the other pays for food.<br />

Have a conversation about budgets before you go and<br />

adjust it if things are different once you are there.<br />

• Know that fights on getaway are like every other fight,<br />

the rule does not necessary change because the<br />

scenery is different. For anything it is worth, be kind<br />

and respectful to your spouse on vacation, even if the<br />

superficial causes are not the same, it will probably be<br />

about your usual stuff that you always argue about.<br />

• No blame games as one person is going to mess up,<br />

will forget travel money, you are going to leave your<br />

shoe somewhere stupid that any of you will remember.<br />

This is the stuff memories are made of, get angry but<br />

calm down and leave it there, never bring it up again to<br />

make the person feel bad. Flow with it as it is<br />

inevitable.<br />

• Relax on sex matter as there could be expectation<br />

and you are bound to be disappointed, holidays allow<br />

you to be more relaxed that you may end snoozing<br />

more than doing anything flirty. Don’t worry you can<br />

always have vacation style sex at home.<br />

• Pay attention to any major red flags especially if the<br />

pressures from the getaway made your mate reveal<br />

their true colour, if this does happen occasionally, be<br />

warned as holidays are real life and the lessons will still<br />

apply once you are back home as ignoring it will be to<br />

your own detriment.<br />

• A romantic, intimate vacation is what every partners<br />

needs, it is a gift that will definitely keep on giving even<br />

when back at home again.<br />

Talk<br />

SPOT<br />

By - Yemisi Suleiman<br />

What some of your favourite<br />

celebrities said and we listened.<br />

“Just a quick search on social<br />

media will show that Sexual and<br />

Gender Based Violence is<br />

unfortunately still very rife, and<br />

currently undereported in<br />

Nigeria. According to statistics,<br />

almost 40% of Nigerian women<br />

between the ages of 15 and 49<br />

have experienced some form of<br />

physical or sexual violence.<br />

This is UNACCEPTABLE”.<br />

Radio presenter Tolu Oniru<br />

joins her voice on this very<br />

important issue.<br />

“After my spectacular<br />

feature on CNNAfrica<br />

AfricanVoices , the<br />

CNN team found me<br />

content-worthy to be in<br />

the new CNN VISION<br />

campaign thats been<br />

running for weeks!<br />

And the only NIGERIAN<br />

on the ad”.<br />

Congratulations to<br />

Denrele, he has<br />

definitely gone global.<br />

“Don’t put pressure on anyone<br />

to remember you, if you<br />

mattered they will always<br />

remember you.<br />

Words from DJ JIMMY JATT.<br />

“Did you know: In<br />

Nigeria, one in four<br />

girls have<br />

experienced sexual<br />

violence. One in two<br />

girls have<br />

experienced<br />

physical violence,<br />

and one in six have<br />

experienced<br />

emotional violence.<br />

Girls account for<br />

two-thirds of the 10.5<br />

million out-of-school<br />

children in Nigeria.”<br />

Music Star Banky<br />

W raising<br />

awareness about<br />

this very important<br />

cause.<br />

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/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong>


JIM Ovia, Wale Tinubu others<br />

Support UN Humanitarian<br />

Fund-Private Sector Initiative<br />

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By Yemisi Suleiman<br />

The United Nations recently partnered with Nigerian business<br />

leaders to launch the ‘UN Nigeria Humanitarian Fund-Private<br />

Sector Initiative’, (NHF-PSI).<br />

The platform is a first global platform that serves as a<br />

blueprint for private sector engagement, in humanitarian action<br />

around the world through a UN country-based pooled fund.<br />

Speaking on the occasion, Samantha Newport, Head of<br />

Communications: United Nations Office for the Coordination<br />

of Humanitarian Affairs (COHA) said, the organisation has<br />

spent 70 million dollars from donor countries in providing<br />

humanitarian assistance in the northeastern States of Borno,<br />

Adamawa and Yobe. Newport said the humanitarian crisis in<br />

North-East Nigeria that had spilt into neighbouring Cameroon,<br />

Chad and Niger, was one of the most severe in the world today.<br />

According to her, the funds have been allocated to urgent lifesaving<br />

needs, with an emphasis this year, on assisting new arrivals<br />

with food, shelter and safe water.<br />

The event which held at the new Oando complex, Victoria<br />

Island, Lagos had in attendance top personalities across the<br />

business spectrum who pledged donations to the fund. They<br />

include Zenith Bank founder, Mr Jim Ovia, Oando CEO, Wale<br />

Tinubu, Ibukun Awosika, Chairman, First Bank of Nigeria and<br />

Senator Ali Ndume, amongst others.<br />

Here are some personalities at the event.<br />

Jim Ovia<br />

Adejoke Orelope<br />

Acess Bank MD Herbert Wigwe (right) Jim<br />

Ovia (left) with a guest<br />

Wale Tinubu (middle) receiving an AWArd<br />

Guests at the event<br />

Vlisco’s Bubble<br />

Wax is back<br />

By Oscar Ochiogu<br />

Every bubble is unique, every<br />

centimetre is different, every piece of<br />

fabric has its own fingerprint. This is<br />

the nature of Vlisco’s ancient craft<br />

process of authentic wax printing<br />

that Bubble Wax celebrates. With<br />

its exuberance, Bubble Wax<br />

encourages creative expression.<br />

Bubbles are the natural<br />

beauty marks of Vlisco’s wax<br />

printing process and are<br />

featured front and<br />

centre on this new<br />

product. Bubble<br />

wax zooms in<br />

on the iconic Wax<br />

Hollandais, featuring<br />

the bubbles and create a<br />

camouflage effect. Together with the<br />

ton sur ton colours this fabric makes<br />

tailoring effortless, allowing numerous<br />

mix and match combinations. A<br />

perfect fabric for revamping the<br />

traditional men’s suit.<br />

December 2, <strong>2018</strong> / 15


INSTAGRAM<br />

MOMENTS<br />

With Yemisi Suleiman<br />

In case you missed, these were the most interesting news and pictures<br />

on Instagram last week.<br />

Layole Oyatogun In<br />

Trish O<br />

We needed some red carpet drama this week,<br />

and TV girl Layole Oyatogun delivered. She<br />

attended the Eloy Awards held last weekend<br />

in this romantic ruffle gown by Trish O, and we<br />

love it.<br />

Governor Ajimobi<br />

celebrities 38years<br />

marital bliss<br />

And it is 38 years of blissful marriage<br />

for Oyo State Governor Ajumobi and<br />

wife Florence as they celebrated<br />

their wedding anniversary last Friday.<br />

The excited governor who posted<br />

this beautiful photo on his Instagram<br />

handle had only the sweetest words<br />

for his wife, “not a long journey, but<br />

our God-ordained union has been<br />

an adventure. Not a love story, our<br />

marriage has been an epic tale of<br />

romance and lessons.<br />

Not just a happy ending, our<br />

marriage is a blissful loop of sweet<br />

memories and fantastic endless<br />

tales. Thank you, my masterpiece<br />

of nature for everything. Happy<br />

wedding anniversary to us, Florry It<br />

has been 38 years of amazingness.”<br />

We wish them many more blissful<br />

years ahead.<br />

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Makeup look of the week<br />

Movie star Chika Ike kept things simple, but classy<br />

with her makeup. We couldn’t stop admiring her<br />

classic smoky eyes, light red lips and flushed<br />

cheeks. And, we love the melanin effect.<br />

/ December 2, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Uche<br />

Jumbo’s<br />

statement<br />

style<br />

Wearing a dramatic<br />

outfit like this dress<br />

needs confidence,<br />

and Uche Jumbo<br />

has that in spades.<br />

Attending her<br />

movie premiere<br />

‘Heaven on My<br />

Mind’’ in Lagos,<br />

the Nollywood<br />

Star styled her<br />

ruffle dress with<br />

gold statement<br />

accessory and a<br />

perfect smile.

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