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Moving Toward Shalom:<br />
Transforming Lives &<br />
Restoring Communities<br />
Express Grace <strong>2019</strong> & One Southwood Family’s Story<br />
<strong>January</strong> & February <strong>2019</strong> · southwood.org<br />
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Contents<br />
1000 Carl T. Jones Drive | Huntsville, Alabama 35802<br />
(256) 882-3085 | www.southwood.org<br />
Christine Betts Assistant Director, Youth/Families<br />
Robert Blevins Director, Community Development<br />
Daniel Brown Print & Digital Media Specialist<br />
Niña Cash Director, Children's Ministry<br />
Rita Clardy Executive Assistant<br />
Shannon Clark Administrative Assistant<br />
Ron Clegg Associate Pastor, Discipleship<br />
Ty Commons Youth & Family Intern<br />
Janice Crowson Director, Facilities/Finance<br />
Kim Delchamps Administrative Assistant<br />
Terri Good Accountant/Bookkeeper<br />
Derrick Harris Assistant Pastor, Shepherding & Young Families<br />
James Parker Chief Musician<br />
Peter Render Assistant Pastor, Youth/Families<br />
Angela Sierk Assistant Director, Children's Ministry<br />
Will Spink Senior Pastor<br />
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8<br />
10<br />
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12<br />
Pastor's Note<br />
Session Update<br />
Officer Nominations<br />
Elder Candidate Andes Hoyt<br />
Small Groups<br />
I Feel the Need, the Need to Lead<br />
Southwood Christmas 2018<br />
Photo Recap<br />
Moving Toward Shalom:<br />
Transforming Lives & Restoring Communities<br />
Express Grace Conference <strong>2019</strong><br />
Domestic Mission Partners<br />
Called to Equip the Saints<br />
Ron Clegg<br />
Contributors<br />
Robert Blevins<br />
Ron Clegg<br />
Adam and Lisa Elmore<br />
Derrick Harris<br />
James Parker<br />
Peter Render<br />
Angela Sierk<br />
Will Spink<br />
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<strong>January</strong> Parent Café<br />
Small View, Big King<br />
Peter Render<br />
All That’s Fair<br />
New Year’s Resolution<br />
Photos<br />
Daniel Brown Angela Sierk<br />
Kim Delchamps Will Spink<br />
Southwood Members<br />
Feedback!<br />
We want to hear from you! Please send<br />
your suggestions and comments to<br />
branches@southwood.org<br />
Cover Photo<br />
Sunset of<br />
Downtown Huntsville<br />
Upcoming Events<br />
Express Grace Conference<br />
Parent Café<br />
Annual Congregational<br />
Meeting<br />
Jan. 26-27<br />
Jan. 29<br />
Feb. 3<br />
Pizza &<br />
Popcorn!<br />
Family Movie Night<br />
C4 Conference<br />
Feb. 8<br />
Feb. 26<br />
Communicants Class Begins<br />
Feb. 3<br />
presents<br />
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GUEST<br />
SPEAKER<br />
HOLLYWOOD<br />
FILM<br />
PRODUCER<br />
HOWIE<br />
KLAUSNER<br />
Family Movie Night<br />
Yeti or not...<br />
Join us February 8<br />
at 6:00pm<br />
in the Lodge<br />
$4 per person<br />
$15 for families<br />
Mass Media Madness in the<br />
“Post Christian Era” Good? Bad? Ugly?<br />
TUESDAY, JANUARY 29, <strong>2019</strong><br />
6PM AT THE LODGE<br />
See page 13 for<br />
more information
Pastor's Note<br />
Moving Toward Shalom<br />
The night our family returned<br />
home from Thanksgiving, I had<br />
just drifted off to sleep when one<br />
of our daughters came running<br />
into the room sick to her stomach.<br />
There would be no more rest the<br />
remainder of the evening. Over the<br />
next several hours, all three of our<br />
girls woke up sick and took turns<br />
keeping the rest of us awake. The<br />
shalom of our home was shattered<br />
by the stomach bug.<br />
“Shalom” is a Hebrew word that<br />
refers to the holistic wellbeing<br />
God created us to experience<br />
– intimate relationship with our<br />
Heavenly Father, peace with those<br />
around us, deep enjoyment of<br />
God’s glorious creation. Sadly,<br />
since the Fall we live in a broken<br />
world where our own sinful<br />
natures and the cursed creation<br />
war against experiencing that<br />
shalom God intends for us.<br />
Every day in our world shalom is<br />
interrupted by things much more<br />
serious than a stomach bug. Gun<br />
shots bring chaos into the lives of<br />
many. Medical diagnoses shatter<br />
dreams of others. Many battle<br />
generational poverty, a lack of<br />
good employment, and unjust<br />
governmental systems. Others<br />
struggle against mental illness that<br />
leaves them depressed, confused,<br />
or alone. Every day in Huntsville<br />
betrayal wreaks havoc on<br />
relationships. Every day in our city<br />
parents struggle to feel the dignity<br />
God created them to have, and<br />
children struggle to experience the<br />
love and support they need.<br />
The good news of the gospel,<br />
though, is that God is passionately<br />
committed to restoring shalom. He<br />
hates unrighteousness, injustice,<br />
oppression, and sin – but through<br />
Jesus Christ He has promised to<br />
renew and restore his creation so<br />
that death and all the other effects<br />
of the Fall are defeated forever.<br />
Even now He is working through<br />
his Spirit and his people to bring<br />
his kingdom to come on earth as it<br />
is in heaven, and Jesus tells us we<br />
must pray for, long for, and work<br />
for that reality.<br />
That’s why we’ve entitled our<br />
Express Grace Conference this year<br />
“Moving Toward Shalom.” The grace<br />
of Jesus Christ brings shalom into<br />
our lives and relationships with God,<br />
and it gives us shalom to share with<br />
our neighbors. As individual lives<br />
are restored to their Creator and<br />
others around them, communities<br />
are transformed into places that<br />
increasingly reflect the gracious and<br />
peaceful kingdom of God.<br />
“Moving toward shalom” is much<br />
bigger than one conference or<br />
ministry. You’ll read in this issue of<br />
<strong>Branches</strong> about many ways God<br />
is working here to create the kind<br />
of true community only the gospel<br />
can create. As we each experience<br />
the grace of Jesus restoring our<br />
relationship with our Father, we need<br />
other brothers and sisters in small<br />
groups, in the midst of parenting<br />
battles, and in the struggles of<br />
youthful years to help us live in the<br />
shalom of God’s kingdom.<br />
Then we can ogether share restored<br />
relationships with a community in<br />
need of transformation – personal,<br />
corporate, and systemic. This is<br />
the focus of our Express Grace<br />
Conference – equipping and<br />
mobilizing us to be the people<br />
of God on the mission of God<br />
particularly here in Huntsville. Our<br />
heart is that we together would<br />
be inspired and enabled to bring<br />
kingdom shalom here so that<br />
Huntsville would be more and<br />
more like heaven – where we all<br />
know God, rejoice in his glory, and<br />
experience his goodness.<br />
Gospel community is a community<br />
on mission together – taking the<br />
good news of a shalom-restoring<br />
God to everyone around us. So,<br />
while there are top-notch speakers<br />
coming to Southwood for this<br />
conference (see more inside), they<br />
will leave Huntsville afterwards, and<br />
we will be the ones God calls to<br />
carry the gospel to our neighbors<br />
and city day in and day out. Don’t<br />
let anything short of a stomach<br />
bug cause you to miss this chance<br />
to pray, dream, and learn together<br />
about what that can look like!<br />
If you would like to contact<br />
Will, use the following:<br />
will.spink@southwood.org
Session Update<br />
Having shared with you late last year some significant<br />
financial needs we were facing, we want to praise God<br />
for his gracious provision once again. While the numbers<br />
aren’t final as of this mailing, giving for 2018 exceeded $2<br />
million, which allows us to meet all commitments to our<br />
mission partners and enter <strong>2019</strong> in a stable cash position.<br />
While some necessary capital projects late in the year<br />
have made cash flow slightly negative for the year, God<br />
continues to amaze us with his generosity and increase our<br />
faith in him. And while we thank him for this, we also want<br />
to thank you for your faithful and generous support of the<br />
work of God’s church and kingdom and thank our staff for<br />
their carefulstewardship of our budgeted resources.<br />
We will report final income and expense numbers for the<br />
year at the Annual Congregational Meeting on Sunday,<br />
February 3, at which time we will also present the <strong>2019</strong><br />
budget. With a full staff, active ministries, and additional<br />
support of our mission partners in the new year, please<br />
continue to pray for, depend on, and expect God’s<br />
spiritual and material provision for Southwood.<br />
That annual meeting after the worship service on<br />
February 3 will also include times to pray together,<br />
updates on the mission and ministries of the church, and<br />
election of trustees and church officers. In particular, this<br />
year we are recommending the election of Andes Hoyt<br />
to the office of elder. Please feel free to talk with Andes,<br />
read about him on this page of <strong>Branches</strong>, and pray for<br />
him as he considers this calling. Please also pray with<br />
us this year for Matthew Cruze, Reeves Fancher, Tripp<br />
Pearson, Eric Sholes, and Blake Stuart, who have agreed<br />
to participate in our Officer Apprenticeship Program.<br />
This is an important time of training and consideration<br />
for men you have nominated for service alongside our<br />
Session or Diaconate.<br />
Officer Nominations by Will Spink<br />
The Bible makes clear through stories,<br />
through negative examples, and<br />
through direct instruction how vital<br />
godly leadership is in the life of God’s<br />
people. We believe that God has<br />
gifted men and women in his church<br />
to serve as leaders throughout his<br />
body and throughout the world. In<br />
particular, he has called some men to<br />
the roles of elder and deacon in his<br />
church, and we seek to be prayerful<br />
and intentional in identifying them<br />
and preparing them well for this task.<br />
To this end, we receive every year<br />
from the congregation nominations<br />
of men they see who have godly<br />
character and who are serving and<br />
shepherding within the congregation.<br />
Alongside these nominations are<br />
several aspects of training that go<br />
into helping these men develop their<br />
gifting and discern the timing for them<br />
to serve in these formal offices. Our<br />
Leadership Training Class meets 14<br />
times for two hours, and we also have<br />
an Officer Apprenticeship Program, in<br />
which men serve alongside the elders<br />
and/or deacons to learn the realities<br />
of the office and prayerfully consider<br />
together God’s calling in their lives.<br />
When men complete the class and the<br />
apprenticeship, they are examined<br />
by the Session and can then, if<br />
appropriate, be recommended to<br />
the congregation for election as<br />
an elder or deacon. This year we<br />
have one man, Andes Hoyt, who<br />
has completed this process and is<br />
being recommended by the Session<br />
to the congregation for election to<br />
the office of elder at the February<br />
3 Congregational Meeting. Andes is<br />
already an ordained elder in the PCA<br />
from his time at a previous church,<br />
and we are now recommending that<br />
he be elected to active service on<br />
the Southwood Session. Please pray<br />
for Andes as well as for the new<br />
group of apprentices who are serving<br />
alongside the church officers this<br />
year and considering God’s calling on<br />
their lives to these important roles in<br />
his Church.<br />
CANDIDATE BIO<br />
Name: Andes Hoyt<br />
Age: 63<br />
Spouse: Susan<br />
Children: Jennifer and Christina (young adults out on their own)<br />
Membership: 8 years<br />
Service: Nursery volunteer; Men’s Table Talk facilitator;<br />
Connect Community facilitator; Host Team; Short-<br />
Term Mission trip to Monterrey, Mexico; Community<br />
Development Committee; Property Steward<br />
My heart for the Southwood family is for us to deeply know God and live in joyful<br />
response as we never cease our pursuit of the prize of knowing God as the Father,<br />
Son and Holy Spirit (Philippians 3:12-16). For Southwood going forward I think my<br />
service as an elder will help us build deep friendships based on knowing God’s love<br />
for us. I see these friendships as ones of prayer, caring for those in need, celebrating<br />
special times, and having fun together. I really want to help Southwood be a family<br />
where we know each other beyond small and Connect Community groups, across<br />
stages of life, regardless of vocation, and through embracing of differences.<br />
SOUTHWOOD.ORG 4 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
I Feel the Need,<br />
the Need to Lead<br />
by Derrick Harris<br />
The word “leader” means so many<br />
different things to so many different<br />
people. Tony Robbins writes,<br />
“Leaders spend 5% of their time on<br />
the problem and 95% of their time<br />
on the solution. So, get over it and<br />
crush it!” If you look the word up in<br />
the dictionary, you’ll find at least six<br />
different meanings, one of which is,<br />
“the person who leads or commands a<br />
group, organization, or country.” The<br />
synonyms given for leader are “chief,<br />
head, principal, commander, captain,<br />
superior, headman, authority figure,”<br />
and the list goes on. I don’t know<br />
about you, but all of that sounds very<br />
intimidating to me. It’s intimidating<br />
because it makes being a leader sound<br />
so authoritative, unattainable, and<br />
almost other-worldly. I must admit,<br />
though, that when I read the Bible, I’m<br />
shown a completely different picture<br />
of a leader. I’m shown a picture of<br />
human weakness dependent upon a<br />
supernatural strength.<br />
In their best moments, the biblical<br />
leaders were not “superior or chief.”<br />
They were weak, failing, and humble,<br />
yet trusting a power outside of<br />
themselves. There’s no mention of the<br />
Tony Robbins percentages breakdown,<br />
and the only “crushing” I see is when<br />
power is misused by kings or when the<br />
True King Jesus crushes the head of<br />
the serpent on our behalf. Again, that<br />
happened in a moment of weakness<br />
displayed on the cross coupled with<br />
the strength of the Holy Spirit and<br />
trust in God the Father. At their<br />
lowest, Noah was a drunkard, Moses<br />
was a murderer, and Abraham was<br />
ruled by selfish fear. David was an<br />
adulterer, Peter was cowardly, and Paul<br />
sanctioned the killing of Christians.<br />
Yet in their best moments, they gave<br />
God glory, repented, and trusted,<br />
and God used them to change the<br />
world. The Bible shows us the truest<br />
picture of a leader. A leader is a weak<br />
and redeemed vessel who puts trust<br />
in God’s supernatural strength to<br />
accomplish His will through him or her.<br />
In 1 Thessalonians 2:8 we read, “We<br />
loved you so much. So we were happy<br />
to share with you God’s good news.<br />
We were also happy to share our<br />
lives with you.” This verse teaches<br />
us how the early church leaders<br />
interacted with each other. Love was<br />
at their core. There was a happiness<br />
about sharing the good news of<br />
Christ’s strength in the midst of their<br />
weakness. They were intentional<br />
about being present and sharing their<br />
lives with each other. The result was<br />
that their faith in Christ grew stronger<br />
when it was shared and lived out with<br />
others. They provided safe places for<br />
one another through their presence,<br />
listening, praying, and trusting in<br />
Christ to do all that they could not.<br />
They needed each other; they needed<br />
community and so do we.<br />
Small groups at Southwood exist to<br />
help us find community as we connect<br />
to God, to each other, and to our<br />
neighbors. Connecting in small groups<br />
requires consistency, honesty, safety,<br />
presence. Connecting in small groups<br />
also requires leaders. Being a leader is<br />
not really that intimidating. A leader is<br />
a weak and redeemed vessel who puts<br />
his or her trust in God’s supernatural<br />
strength to accomplish His will<br />
through him or her. Do you appreciate<br />
safe spaces? Do you know how to be<br />
present in a conversation? Are you<br />
able to listen to people when they talk<br />
about their lives? Do you have the<br />
ability to pray for your own needs and<br />
someone else’s? Do you love Jesus? If<br />
you can answer yes to these questions,<br />
then you can lead a small group.<br />
This <strong>January</strong> we have been taking new<br />
sign-ups for our small groups. This<br />
presents us with a wonderful problem.<br />
Since most of our current groups<br />
are full, we have the opportunity to<br />
create new groups, but we need new<br />
leaders to be able to do this. Would<br />
you prayerfully consider whether God<br />
might be calling you to take a step of<br />
faith this year and lead a new small<br />
group? Through leading a group,<br />
you have the opportunity to grow in<br />
community and to change lives as you<br />
help others grow in their faith through<br />
their connections to each other. If<br />
you’re interested, please contact<br />
me. I'd love to walk with you on this<br />
exciting & important journey<br />
(derrick.harris@southwood.org). A<br />
BRANCHES 5 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
Southwood’s 2<br />
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018 Christmas<br />
BRANCHES 7 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
Transforming Lives &<br />
Restoring Communities<br />
One Southwood Family’s Experience of Listening and Learning in<br />
Unexpected Places by Adam and Lisa Elmore<br />
At the end of 2011, we moved into Lincoln<br />
Village with grandiose ideas of bringing the<br />
Gospel to the other residents and being a<br />
witness of Christian living. We were completely<br />
clueless about community development and how to<br />
engage our neighbors, but we knew that the Lord<br />
had brought us to Lincoln Village for a purpose. We<br />
were quickly humbled by the Lord as we watched<br />
our finances plummet at least $20k a year for the<br />
first three years as Adam was going back to school<br />
and I was pregnant with our boys. Suddenly, instead<br />
choosing to live in Lincoln Village, we had no other<br />
choice. I struggled with our financial situation for a<br />
long time because I didn’t want people to look at us<br />
and think that we were “less than”; we would try to<br />
slip it into conversation that we lived there to help<br />
the ministry and we weren’t like our neighbors. But<br />
as we became friends with our neighbors, we realized<br />
we were wrong. Many people in our neighborhood<br />
already knew and loved Jesus and were serving Him<br />
faithfully but were struggling financially. We were<br />
“Suddenly, instead<br />
of choosing to live in<br />
Lincoln Village, we<br />
had no other choice.”<br />
able to experience the shame, fear, and anger that<br />
our neighbors had experienced. When we sought<br />
assistance through the food bank next to our house<br />
in Lincoln, Lisa was sexually harassed as she waited<br />
in line. We were denied assistance the Department of<br />
Human Resources because we hadn’t hit rock bottom<br />
yet. Those hardships began to change our point of<br />
view on racial and socioeconomic issues, but it was<br />
our relationships that really changed our hearts.<br />
April and Chad were our next-door neighbors and their<br />
daughter, Summer, loved to play with baby Silas. Small<br />
conversations grew to daily cups of coffee, dinners,<br />
and Alabama football games between our families as<br />
our children played. The issues of racial reconciliation,<br />
social injustice, and life’s hardships became regular<br />
topics of conversation and we felt free to ask difficult<br />
and uncomfortable questions., One example came<br />
through an organization called Save Our Sons (SOS)<br />
Huntsville, a ministry that April and another friend<br />
of ours, Toya, had started in 2014 that to address<br />
healthy, safe interactions between black youth and<br />
the police. SOS became a more frequent meeting<br />
of people, young and old, black, white, and Hispanic<br />
as the number of police shootings involving black<br />
men increased in 2016. We attended the meetings to<br />
support our friends, but also to gain knowledge. At<br />
the first several meetings, things were said that made<br />
us feel defensive and we didn’t agree with the idea<br />
that we were more privileged, but we decided that we<br />
were going to be quiet and just listen. The Holy Spirit<br />
began to break our hearts as precious image bearers<br />
of God shared of the ways they had been hurt and<br />
SOUTHWOOD.ORG 8 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
produce change. Adam has discovered<br />
that as a white man, he has access<br />
to people that our minority brothers<br />
and sisters don’t have, and I am able<br />
to interact with close to one hundred<br />
children, their families, and teachers<br />
in some of the most disadvantaged<br />
schools in Huntsville. We can’t change<br />
hearts, but we can lead by example.<br />
how they wanted their pain to matter to their white<br />
brothers and sisters in Christ. The heartbreak that<br />
Michael Brown, Philando Castile, or E.J. Bradford’s<br />
family and friends have endured hits much closer to<br />
home now as our perspective has changed because<br />
so many of our loved ones are black.<br />
Another step came this past November, when we were<br />
able to attend the Christian Community Development<br />
Association (CCDA) Conference. The sessions there<br />
affirmed many of our developing instincts about<br />
racial reconciliation while<br />
opening our eyes to new<br />
issues. The subject of<br />
lament was brought up<br />
several times and we never<br />
fully grasped its meaning<br />
until we entered into<br />
the pain minorities have<br />
experienced at the hands<br />
of those in power. We<br />
have seen how the world<br />
works and it is disturbing,<br />
infuriating, and utterly<br />
heartbreaking; we are far<br />
from Eden. Lament isn’t<br />
only a deep mourning, but<br />
a crying out to the Lord.<br />
While we pray for God to<br />
move in our church and<br />
our city, we have felt led<br />
to start conversations to<br />
Because we have these goals, some<br />
of our friends have asked us why we<br />
don’t attend a church that is more<br />
economically and socially diverse.<br />
We have explained that we don’t<br />
want to leave Southwood because<br />
we don’t believe in finding a church<br />
that serves our needs and comfort.<br />
We stay because we realize that while<br />
Southwood appears to be very wealthy,<br />
this is not the reality for all who attend<br />
here. We also want to see Kingdom<br />
diversity grow by encouraging others<br />
to recognize bias we may harbor and<br />
move beyond our comfort zones. We<br />
want to participate with the body<br />
of our church in uncomfortable conversations. We<br />
want to support others on the journey of racial and<br />
socioeconomic reconciliation and learn to engage<br />
our community in healthy ways that maintain and<br />
restore dignity to our brothers and sisters throughout<br />
Huntsville. We want Southwood to do the hard work of<br />
giving time and not just money to various ministries.<br />
Establish relationships with people who are different<br />
from you. Those relationships will stretch and maybe<br />
break you, but they will bring to life the beauty that is<br />
the body of Christ.<br />
We should embrace the<br />
differences that God has<br />
established, whether<br />
in appearance, musical<br />
style, or culture. That is a<br />
way we can experience a<br />
piece of heaven on earth.<br />
We understand that this<br />
article may make people<br />
uncomfortable or even<br />
angry. Please, come talk<br />
with us! Come over for<br />
dinner and let’s start the<br />
conversation. We love you<br />
and are praying for God to<br />
move among us. A<br />
THE ELMORE FAMILY<br />
ADAM, LISA, AMELIA, ELIJAH, & SILAS<br />
BRANCHES 9 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
Moving Toward Shalom<br />
Transforming Lives and Restoring Communities<br />
by Robert Blevins<br />
Conference<br />
Schedule<br />
JANUARY 26-27, <strong>2019</strong><br />
SATURDAY<br />
9AM to Noon<br />
Leadership Training with<br />
Michael Rhodes<br />
Michael will discuss how<br />
we can express grace more<br />
intentionally in our daily lives.<br />
5:30PM to 8PM<br />
Family dinner & teaching<br />
session with Brian Fikkert<br />
Dr. Fikkert will share principles<br />
from his book, When Helping<br />
Hurts. Free tickets for the<br />
dinner are available.<br />
SUNDAY<br />
9:30AM<br />
Worship Service<br />
Dr. Fikkert will preach.<br />
11:00AM<br />
Connect Hour<br />
Local missions partners will<br />
join us to share opportunities<br />
to be a part of what God is<br />
doing in Huntsville.<br />
Other Opportunities<br />
C4 Conference<br />
Tuesday, February 26<br />
8:30AM to 2:30PM at<br />
The Jackson Center<br />
R.E.A.C.H.<br />
MNA Mercy Conference<br />
March 29 & 30 at<br />
Southwood<br />
Randy Nabors, Tony Myles, and<br />
Scott Moore speaking<br />
PLUS 15 different workshops<br />
A friend of mine is a business owner<br />
and deacon at a large affluent church.<br />
A few years back he started looking<br />
around his community and was struck<br />
by the amount of economic disparity<br />
among his neighbors. At his church,<br />
he saw wealth, skills, and business<br />
connections. He asked, “How can we<br />
leverage our resources so that our<br />
neighbors flourish both spiritually and<br />
financially?” Today the church runs<br />
a ministry that teaches financial and<br />
Biblical literacy to their neighbors,<br />
with the goal of welcoming them into<br />
fellowship. One of their first graduates<br />
was hired to run a part of the program.<br />
I share my friend’s story not to<br />
propose a model for ministry, but as<br />
an example of what happens when we<br />
look around. When my friend looked<br />
around, he and his team connected<br />
resources with opportunities, resulting<br />
in shalom (peace) in the community.<br />
When you “look around” in your circle,<br />
what resources and opportunities do<br />
you see?<br />
This year our Express Grace<br />
Conference is titled “Moving Toward<br />
Shalom: Transforming Living &<br />
Restoring Communities.” We’ll hear<br />
from two authors who specialize<br />
in economic discipleship: Brian<br />
Fikkert (When Helping Hurts) and<br />
Michael Rhodes (Practicing the<br />
King’s Economy). Our ministry<br />
partners (organizations that serve the<br />
community) will share how Southwood<br />
congregants can get involved through<br />
volunteerism and prayer.<br />
More than just a single event, we want<br />
to catalyze the conversation about<br />
how we get to express grace in our<br />
everyday lives, through our individual<br />
lives with people around us, or as we<br />
serve with our partners. For the past<br />
year, our Community Development<br />
Team (aka “Comm Dev”) has been<br />
talking about how God invites us to<br />
express grace in healthy ways:<br />
We get to express grace humbly.<br />
God invites us into the work of<br />
restorative justice not because we<br />
have all the answers, but because He<br />
does. That requires humble listening<br />
and learning from the experiences of<br />
people who are different.<br />
We get to express grace sacrificially.<br />
The rich young ruler (Mark 10:17-<br />
27) shows us that following Jesus<br />
demands our all. As we follow Him<br />
on the pathway toward community<br />
renewal, we might be asked to<br />
sacrifice our comfort, preferences,<br />
time, and money.<br />
We get to express grace as a lifestyle.<br />
God invites us to seek the good of our<br />
communities in every phase, at every<br />
stage--from the stay-at-home parent<br />
building relationships in the park, to<br />
the CEO who pays employees a livable<br />
wage, to the widower who reads to<br />
kids at a school. Tim Keller says, “Reweaving<br />
shalom means to sacrificially<br />
thread, lace, and press your time,<br />
goods, power, and resources into the<br />
lives and needs of others.” And it’s<br />
not that we “have” to do this kind of<br />
gospel-advancing work -- we get to.<br />
We hope that you’ll join us to kick<br />
off the year by learning how you can<br />
express grace humbly, sacrificially, and<br />
as a lifestyle in Huntsville and beyond.<br />
Dr. Brian Fikkert is a Professor<br />
of Economics and Community<br />
Development and the<br />
Founder and President of<br />
the Chalmers Center for<br />
Economic Development<br />
at Covenant College.<br />
He is coauthor of the<br />
best-selling book When<br />
Helping Hurts: How to<br />
Alleviate Poverty Without<br />
Hurting the Poor...and Yourself.<br />
Michael Rhodes is the co-author<br />
of Practicing the King’s Economy:<br />
Honoring Jesus in How<br />
We Work, Earn, Spend,<br />
Save, and Give with<br />
Robby Holt and Brian<br />
Fikkert. He serves as the<br />
Director of Community<br />
Transformation and as<br />
an Associate Professor<br />
at the Memphis Center<br />
for Urban and Theological Studies<br />
(MCUTS).<br />
SOUTHWOOD.ORG 10 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
Transforming Lives & Restoring Communities<br />
Our Domestic Missions Partners<br />
The Cornerstone Initiative<br />
The Cornerstone Initiative seeks to<br />
build relationships among people<br />
in the low income neighborhoods<br />
in Huntsville’s Westside, many<br />
of whom have lost hope. They<br />
encourage these neighbors to<br />
solve problems using the gifts God<br />
has given them. CornerStone also<br />
provides training through classes<br />
such as Faith and Finances and<br />
Jobs for Life.<br />
Reformed University<br />
Fellowship, UCB<br />
Chase Daws is a former Southwood<br />
High-Life member who now leads<br />
Reformed University Fellowship at<br />
UC Berkeley, along with his wife<br />
Holly and their two young sons. RUF<br />
Berkeley is a ministry committed<br />
to reaching students for Christ and<br />
equipping them to serve on their<br />
campus, in their communities, and<br />
in their local churches.<br />
Lincoln Village Ministry<br />
Lincoln Village Ministry provides<br />
housing rehabilitation, a private<br />
elementary school, the LINC afterschool<br />
program, Bible studies,<br />
and so much more in the Lincoln<br />
Village Neighborhood. Each<br />
facet works together to bring the<br />
transformative hope of the Gospel.<br />
LVPC proclaims the message of<br />
grace and hope through every<br />
avenue of ministry.<br />
Reformed University<br />
Fellowship, UAH<br />
RUF is a ministry of the PCA that<br />
welcomes students from any<br />
and all walks of life. RUF builds<br />
communities on college campuses<br />
that reach students of divergent<br />
beliefs and doubts with the<br />
message of the gospel and equip<br />
them to love and serve Jesus and<br />
his Church. RUF at UAH is led by<br />
Vinnie Athey, along with his wife<br />
Molly and their son Rhys.<br />
The Village of Promise<br />
The Village of Promise serves the<br />
needs of children and families<br />
from cradle to college to career<br />
in distressed neighborhoods.<br />
They offer education, health, and<br />
enrichment programs and family<br />
support services to help each child<br />
succeed in school. Their initial<br />
efforts are focused in northwest<br />
Huntsville.<br />
Second Mile Development<br />
Begun in 1985, Second Mile<br />
Development serves alongside<br />
Huntsville’s Terry Heights and<br />
Hillandale neighbors. They serve<br />
their community through several<br />
programs: The 29:11 Story, Pride<br />
for Parents (which includes the<br />
Neighborhood Store and the Baby<br />
Thrift Store), Second Mile Preschool,<br />
and Parent Initiative.<br />
Looking for an opportunity<br />
to extend Shalom to one of<br />
these domestic partners?<br />
Contact Robert Blevins at<br />
Robert.Blevins@southwood.org<br />
for more information.<br />
The Village Church<br />
The Village Church is a PCA<br />
congregation, planted by<br />
Southwood in 2008 and pastored<br />
by Alex Shipman. They understand<br />
that the gospel is the great equalizer<br />
among all people, for it presents us<br />
all as mutually broken people before<br />
the cross of Christ. Their vision is to<br />
embrace and extend God’s love in<br />
genuine community.<br />
Young Life<br />
Young Life works hard to develop<br />
long-term relationships with<br />
students. Whether through oneon-one<br />
contact, campaigners Bible<br />
study, or a week at summer camp,<br />
Young Life volunteers and staff<br />
work to show God’s love to students<br />
through the ministry of presence<br />
and teaching of God’s word.<br />
BRANCHES 11 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
“And he<br />
gave the<br />
apostles, the<br />
prophets, the<br />
evangelists,<br />
the shepherds<br />
and teachers,<br />
to equip the<br />
saints for<br />
the work of<br />
ministry, for<br />
building up<br />
the body of<br />
Christ.”<br />
Ephesians<br />
4:11–12 (ESV)<br />
Called<br />
to Equip<br />
The Saints<br />
by Ron Clegg<br />
Our annual Express Grace Conference<br />
is almost upon us again, and we<br />
want to encourage you to be a part<br />
of it. Why? Why do we make this<br />
kind of investment every year? It has<br />
everything to do with how we think<br />
about church.<br />
Some people look at the church<br />
through the lens of the business world.<br />
One crucial component of a successful<br />
business is having good employees.<br />
Their overall purpose is to do the work<br />
of the company for the satisfaction of<br />
the customers, whether it is producing<br />
a particular product or providing<br />
a service. When the customers are<br />
satisfied, their number grows and the<br />
business is considered successful.<br />
In all of this, there is a very definite<br />
order. The employees’ purpose is to<br />
work to make the business successful<br />
in satisfying their customers and to<br />
keep them coming back. This is a<br />
reasonable and beneficial order—in the<br />
business world.<br />
Unfortunately, this is how we often<br />
view the work of the church. The<br />
church as a whole is an organized<br />
“corporation” that is expected to<br />
provide a service. The clergy or church<br />
staff are hired to serve her customers,<br />
the church members and attendees.<br />
When the number of members grows<br />
and they are satisfied and happy, the<br />
church is viewed as a success. When<br />
the church corporation fails to provide<br />
adequate services or produces an<br />
inferior product, the customers simply<br />
look for a different brand, such as the<br />
church down the street. The church’s<br />
Southwood members Chris and<br />
Heather Morris with Vinit Mahesh<br />
“product,” after all, should result in<br />
happy customers.<br />
This order might work in business,<br />
but it is not meant for the church.<br />
A more biblical lens for the church<br />
is that of the military outpost of an<br />
invading occupying army. That outpost<br />
accomplishes many things. There the<br />
army can refresh its supplies, find<br />
rest and sustenance in a protected<br />
environment, develop strategy and<br />
plans, and receive training for its<br />
mission. The clergy or staff are the<br />
leadership whose calling is to make<br />
sure all these things happen for the<br />
readiness of the troops. They do<br />
help meet the needs of the troops,<br />
but only for the purpose of fulfilling<br />
the mission. That mission is to make<br />
the greatness of their King known<br />
and enjoyed by announcing and<br />
demonstrating His coming reign.<br />
This is where Express Grace comes in.<br />
We invest heavily in this conference<br />
because our whole purpose as a<br />
church is to better equip Southwood<br />
members to be the effective<br />
ambassadors of the Kingdom the<br />
King calls them to be. This conference<br />
provides multiple opportunities for<br />
vital training and equipping in how to<br />
engage our local community with the<br />
truth of the Gospel. It is designed also<br />
to help us refocus on what the Gospel<br />
is and the mission to which it calls<br />
us. You might not perceive your need<br />
for this training, but it is vital for you<br />
to experience all the good that our<br />
Glorious King has in store for us and<br />
then to express it to others. A<br />
SOUTHWOOD.ORG 12 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
<strong>January</strong> Parent Café<br />
by Derrick Harris<br />
Last year we started something new at Southwood called<br />
Parent Cafés. They were hands down some of my most<br />
favorite events of the year. At each Café, we discussed<br />
different topics that are struggles for most parents. We also<br />
shared meals and conversations as we discovered together<br />
that we are not alone on this journey called parenting. The<br />
word CAFÉ is an acronym for what the evening is designed<br />
to accomplish. This is an environment designed for us to<br />
C-onnect, A-cknowledge that we don’t have it all together,<br />
F-ocus on what really matters, and E-ncourage each other. In<br />
short, this is an evening designed to support, encourage, and<br />
help equip each other for this parenting journey.<br />
Parenting in the age of Netflix, Hollywood, and Hulu can be an<br />
extreme challenge. Who doesn’t need a little encouragement?<br />
On Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 29, I’m excited to announce that<br />
Southwood Kids will be hosting a Parent Café focused on<br />
the topic,“Mass Media Madness in the “Post Christian Era”<br />
Good? Bad? Ugly?” I can’t think of anyone better to speak on<br />
the topic than Howie Klausner, a bonafide Hollywood Movie<br />
Producer. Howie is a writer and producer of film, television<br />
and literary content. His career began with the Clint Eastwood<br />
blockbuster, Space Cowboys.<br />
Most recent produced credits<br />
include God’s not Dead 3; The<br />
Secret Handshake starring<br />
Kevin Sorbo and Amy Grant<br />
also directed by Klausner,<br />
Soul Surfer starring Dennis<br />
Quaid and Helen Hunt, The<br />
Identical, starring Ray Liotta,<br />
Ashley Judd and Seth Green,<br />
and The Last Ride, starring<br />
Henry Thomas and Kaley<br />
Cuoco. Currently set for production spring <strong>2019</strong>: Washington,<br />
the biopic of our first president at Radar Pictures, Omaha,<br />
the inspirational story of the NCAA championship Coastal<br />
Carolina baseball team, and Reagan,<br />
starring Dennis Quaid.<br />
Howie currently lives in Franklin TN<br />
with his wife and three daughters.<br />
Though Howie has many career<br />
accolades, two of the things that I<br />
admire about him most are his love for<br />
his family and his love for Jesus. I hope<br />
that you’ll join us. Please let us know if<br />
you’re able to make it by RSVP’ing to<br />
kim.delchamps@southwood.org<br />
for food and childcare purposes.<br />
A<br />
Hollywood Film Producer,<br />
Howie Klausner<br />
P A R E N T<br />
e s<br />
t .<br />
2 0 1 8<br />
Tuesday • <strong>January</strong> 29<br />
6PM at the Lodge<br />
Express Grace: Kids Edition by Angela Sierk<br />
In Matthew 19, people brought their<br />
children to Jesus that he might lay<br />
hands on them and pray, but the<br />
disciples criticized them and turned<br />
them away. What Jesus said to them<br />
next was astonishing. He said, “Let<br />
the little children come to me, and<br />
do not hinder them, for the kingdom<br />
of heaven belongs to such as these”<br />
(Matthew 19:14). It’s no small matter<br />
that this story appears in the Bible. In<br />
just one sentence, Jesus acknowledges<br />
that even the “least and littlest of<br />
these” has a place in his kingdom. In<br />
Luke 18:17, Jesus says, “Truly, I say to<br />
you, whoever does not receive the<br />
kingdom of God like a child shall not<br />
enter it.” Oh, to have faith like a child!<br />
But then, a barrage of questions<br />
follows...Do I have that kind of faith?<br />
Do my children? How do we foster<br />
that kind of faith in them? How<br />
will they learn to share that sort of<br />
mountain-moving faith in the world<br />
today?<br />
We can find guidance for this task in<br />
scripture. In Proverbs 6:22, God calls<br />
us to teach our children. When they<br />
are very young, we introduce them to<br />
the “basics” of our redeeming God…<br />
He is our Creator and loving Father.<br />
As our children grow, we develop<br />
that a bit more…God as an incarnate<br />
Teacher, Leader, and Friend. And from<br />
there, we continue to dive deeper into<br />
who God is… a sin-bearing Savior, a<br />
resurrected Christ who gave us His<br />
Spirit.<br />
As we continue<br />
to teach our<br />
children<br />
about the<br />
greatest<br />
act of<br />
love<br />
that the world has ever seen, they<br />
develop a meaningful understanding<br />
of the amazing responsibility to share<br />
God’s story with the rest of the world<br />
- both because of the needs of people,<br />
and because of the command of<br />
Jesus: “Follow me, and I will make you<br />
fishers of men” (Matthew 4:19); “Go<br />
therefore and make disciples of all the<br />
nations” (Matthew 28:19).<br />
So, how do we teach our children to<br />
have larger-than-life faith and to be<br />
mission-minded fishers of men? By<br />
teaching them to recognize God’s call<br />
for their own hearts. On <strong>January</strong> 26,<br />
Southwood Kids will host the Express<br />
Grace Conference: Kids Edition, for<br />
Kindergarten through Third Grade.<br />
Children will learn how God is calling<br />
them to “transform lives and restore<br />
communities” from the vantage point<br />
of the very first disciples in a fun<br />
time of worship, teaching, games<br />
and activities. We’ll talk about<br />
missionaries that Southwood supports<br />
and we’ll discuss how God is calling<br />
even the smallest of us to make a big<br />
difference! A
Small View,<br />
Big King<br />
by Peter Render<br />
Measuring the breadth of impact that the Gospel<br />
of Jesus Christ can have on the world is an<br />
impossible task. The beautiful thing about being<br />
a minister of this Gospel, especially when that ministry is<br />
to students, is that you can only minister in the context in<br />
which you have been placed. For Christine, Tyler, and me,<br />
this context is in the comfortable life of south Huntsville.<br />
At a glance, the higher than average income in the<br />
families in which the majority of our students are raised<br />
makes it seem like their problems are not really problems<br />
at all. While students in every context need a reality<br />
check to help them to understand how their lives actually<br />
stack up to others around the country and around the<br />
world, too often this leads them toward not being taken<br />
seriously, and not taking others seriously.<br />
“Look<br />
through the<br />
lens of King<br />
Jesus and<br />
weigh things<br />
accordingly.”<br />
So, which of these students’ problems<br />
ought to be taken seriously? My<br />
suggestion is to look through the<br />
lens of King Jesus and weigh things<br />
accordingly. Bullying strikes at the<br />
dignity granted to every human being<br />
simply by being made in the image<br />
of God. Mental illness highlights and<br />
exacerbates the brokenness felt by<br />
man as we experience the separation<br />
from our Creator caused by sin. Materialism displays our<br />
propensity toward idolatry, which is actually just our<br />
desire to look to ourselves as the thing to which we are<br />
purposed. The Gospel addresses each of these things<br />
in their communities clearly while pointing us toward<br />
our Savior. I do not think that I need to add anecdote<br />
to any of these examples to show that reducing human<br />
dignity, minimizing our brokenness and separation from<br />
God, and emphasizing our autonomy will not result in<br />
people who perpetuate the opposite of these things. If<br />
the Gospel is not of primary importance in our own lives<br />
it is never seen as being of primary importance in the<br />
eyes of those whom we influence.<br />
As someone who spent my teen years in a suburb of<br />
nowhere, it is fitting to minister in Huntsville. It is almost<br />
as if my whole ministry consists of discussing the Gospel<br />
in terms of what I wish that someone had told me and<br />
my parents. This is wonderful, but in terms of what was<br />
discussed in the preceding section, this is a dangerously<br />
narrow scope for the Gospel considering the broad work<br />
that our Heavenly Father is doing in the world. The good<br />
news of Jesus Christ can most definitely transform our<br />
individual lives, but it is also transforming lives around<br />
Huntsville, north Alabama, the US, and the world. It<br />
addresses the problems that are sometimes not taken<br />
seriously, even by the church.<br />
Two of the problems that tend to be undersold in <strong>2019</strong><br />
are actually quite prominently dealt with in the Bible.<br />
When looking through the lens of King Jesus, the issues<br />
of justice and mercy expand our view of the Gospel<br />
from what it might mean in our own context. In student<br />
ministry, the most pressing task is to get people to love<br />
God with all of their heart, soul, mind, and strength and<br />
to love others as they love themselves. Yes, that was<br />
meant to make you laugh. “Kids” are just like you and me,<br />
too focused upon themselves to see the greater reality<br />
that God has for them. Self-centered idolatries are at the<br />
root of all sin.<br />
This spring we plan to immerse ourselves and the<br />
students into the context of Southwood at large.<br />
High-Life Connects will spend our Sunday mornings<br />
considering what it looks like truly to take account of<br />
the community that surrounds us. Our Winter Retreat<br />
will focus on the Gospel issues of justice, mercy, and<br />
reconciliation through the lens of Micah and the voice of<br />
our speaker, Mark Bryant. All of this has the opportunity<br />
to play out in person as we work with our Community<br />
Development team on the beginning of what will be<br />
regular service to our community partners. As we<br />
witness the Gospel expand our vision and transform<br />
our lives, we will actively seek to go out and be a little<br />
part of what might restore our community.<br />
Hopefully this sounds like too big of an undertaking for<br />
High-Life and too big of an undertaking for Southwood.<br />
When we are at our most desperate, Christ meets us<br />
and shows us a better way. Acting in a manner worthy<br />
of those who follow King Jesus ought to make us always<br />
feel inadequate and ill-equipped. He is doing work that is<br />
much greater than we could ever imagine. I look forward<br />
to the way that he will use us as the chief learners in<br />
relationships that only the Gospel<br />
can create. A<br />
SOUTHWOOD.ORG 14 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
All That’s Fair: New Year’s Resolution<br />
by James Parker<br />
<strong>2019</strong> will be the 39th transition into a new<br />
year that I’ve experienced in my life time. For<br />
so many years growing up and in college I<br />
remembered watching all the excitement and<br />
revelry on TV, hearing the song “Auld Lang<br />
Syne” as the ball dropped in Times Square. All<br />
the people would be arm in arm, many would<br />
be kissing, others would be crying. It looked like<br />
everyone was full of hope and joy, or maybe a<br />
little madness and too much wine. As I got older,<br />
I just viewed New Year’s Eve as an opportunity<br />
to hide out in the woods and have a cigar by<br />
myself or with a few close friends, because<br />
everyone else would be busy being ridiculous. I<br />
didn’t really get swept up into the spirit of it all.<br />
Why would a million people in NYC cram into<br />
a tight spot and get all emotional about time<br />
itself? Literally rejoicing in the simple fact that<br />
the clock arms actually kept moving after 11:59<br />
on December 31st!? It just seemed a little kooky<br />
to my contrarian disposition. I just didn’t have<br />
any use for it. Nor did I care about any of the silly<br />
traditions like New Years resolutions. I thought<br />
those things were for everyone else, and I was<br />
smarter than everyone else...<br />
Fast forward a few years ... My kids were<br />
very young and I was working at Southwood.<br />
Christmastide with all of its rich story and song<br />
tradition would come and go. The introspection<br />
and longing of advent would be left as a<br />
palpable afterglow in my heart. I was an adult,<br />
doing adult things ... holding down a steady job,<br />
parenting, dealing with marriage and relationship<br />
ups and downs ... I couldn’t help but examine my<br />
life thus far as each new year would approach.<br />
The timing of the season would become more<br />
poignant. Was I where I wanted to be? Why<br />
or why not? What needed to change? I felt<br />
more listless and rudderless with every passing<br />
broadcast from Times Square. And it didn’t seem<br />
like there was anything to be done about it.<br />
The magi brought gifts under the radar of a<br />
genocidal tyrant, traveling through wars and<br />
injustice, to stake their claim in what Jesus<br />
represents for all humankind... hope. He was<br />
the hinge that transitioned from a divergent and<br />
isolated past, into a world where the temple veil<br />
was torn. And whether they acknowledge it or<br />
not, all people feel this longing: a lingering desire<br />
for the mess of the present slate to be wiped<br />
clean, that we might have a hopeful period<br />
ahead of us, full of possibilities.<br />
Epiphany is the traditional Christian feast<br />
commemorating this event. The Zoroastrian<br />
kings came with their polytheistic mindsets to<br />
pay tribute to a King of kings, a Lord of lords,<br />
a chosen child who brings good tidings to all<br />
men. They brought him gold, the glory of a king.<br />
They brought him frankincense, the waftings of<br />
deity. And they brought him myrrh, an anointing<br />
of one who would carry the greatest weight in<br />
history ... the death of all our fear ... They knew<br />
he was special. He was hope personified. Even<br />
if they didn’t articulate it that way, that’s what<br />
they knew. The magi answer the question, “what<br />
can I do?” They felt the tension in the world,<br />
and perhaps in their own lives, that something<br />
needed to give. Some new era needed to be<br />
ushered in.<br />
John Lennon asks the question in his own<br />
beautiful way in his song “Happy Xmas (War<br />
is Over).” And I’ve come to embrace what he’s<br />
saying in a much more wholistic fashion than I<br />
ever would have in my Twenties. Rather than a<br />
trite New Year’s resolution, Lennon, Epiphany,<br />
and my own shattered expectations bring me to<br />
a deeper hope, a New Year’s intention. A clean<br />
slate. Another chance to do the right thing,<br />
paying homage in the right direction. A<br />
New Year’s Eve<br />
Ball<br />
John Lennon<br />
First New Year’s<br />
Eve Ball - 1907<br />
Nativity of King<br />
Jesus<br />
BRANCHES 15 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>
Grace<br />
express<br />
CONFERENCE <strong>2019</strong><br />
MOVING TOWARD SHALOM<br />
Transforming Lives and Restoring Communities<br />
FEATURING GUEST SPEAKER BRIAN FIKKERT<br />
SATURDAY<br />
9am to Noon<br />
Leadership Training: Michael Rhodes will discuss how we<br />
can express grace more intentionally in our daily lives.<br />
5:30pm to 8pm<br />
Family Dinner & Teaching Session: Brian Fikkert will share<br />
principles from his book, When Helping Hurts.<br />
Free tickets for dinner available in church office.<br />
JANUARY 26 JANUARY 27<br />
SUNDAY<br />
9:30am<br />
Worship Service: Dr. Fikkert will preach during our<br />
regular worship service.<br />
11:00am<br />
Connect Hour: Local missions partners will join us to<br />
share opportunities to be a part of what God is doing<br />
in Huntsville.