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Moving Toward Shalom:<br />

Transforming Lives &<br />

Restoring Communities<br />

Express Grace <strong>2019</strong> & One Southwood Family’s Story<br />

<strong>January</strong> & February <strong>2019</strong> · southwood.org<br />

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Contents<br />

1000 Carl T. Jones Drive | Huntsville, Alabama 35802<br />

(256) 882-3085 | www.southwood.org<br />

Christine Betts Assistant Director, Youth/Families<br />

Robert Blevins Director, Community Development<br />

Daniel Brown Print & Digital Media Specialist<br />

Niña Cash Director, Children's Ministry<br />

Rita Clardy Executive Assistant<br />

Shannon Clark Administrative Assistant<br />

Ron Clegg Associate Pastor, Discipleship<br />

Ty Commons Youth & Family Intern<br />

Janice Crowson Director, Facilities/Finance<br />

Kim Delchamps Administrative Assistant<br />

Terri Good Accountant/Bookkeeper<br />

Derrick Harris Assistant Pastor, Shepherding & Young Families<br />

James Parker Chief Musician<br />

Peter Render Assistant Pastor, Youth/Families<br />

Angela Sierk Assistant Director, Children's Ministry<br />

Will Spink Senior Pastor<br />

3<br />

4<br />

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5<br />

6<br />

8<br />

10<br />

11<br />

12<br />

Pastor's Note<br />

Session Update<br />

Officer Nominations<br />

Elder Candidate Andes Hoyt<br />

Small Groups<br />

I Feel the Need, the Need to Lead<br />

Southwood Christmas 2018<br />

Photo Recap<br />

Moving Toward Shalom:<br />

Transforming Lives & Restoring Communities<br />

Express Grace Conference <strong>2019</strong><br />

Domestic Mission Partners<br />

Called to Equip the Saints<br />

Ron Clegg<br />

Contributors<br />

Robert Blevins<br />

Ron Clegg<br />

Adam and Lisa Elmore<br />

Derrick Harris<br />

James Parker<br />

Peter Render<br />

Angela Sierk<br />

Will Spink<br />

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14<br />

15<br />

<strong>January</strong> Parent Café<br />

Small View, Big King<br />

Peter Render<br />

All That’s Fair<br />

New Year’s Resolution<br />

Photos<br />

Daniel Brown Angela Sierk<br />

Kim Delchamps Will Spink<br />

Southwood Members<br />

Feedback!<br />

We want to hear from you! Please send<br />

your suggestions and comments to<br />

branches@southwood.org<br />

Cover Photo<br />

Sunset of<br />

Downtown Huntsville<br />

Upcoming Events<br />

Express Grace Conference<br />

Parent Café<br />

Annual Congregational<br />

Meeting<br />

Jan. 26-27<br />

Jan. 29<br />

Feb. 3<br />

Pizza &<br />

Popcorn!<br />

Family Movie Night<br />

C4 Conference<br />

Feb. 8<br />

Feb. 26<br />

Communicants Class Begins<br />

Feb. 3<br />

presents<br />

P A R E N T<br />

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2 0 1 8<br />

GUEST<br />

SPEAKER<br />

HOLLYWOOD<br />

FILM<br />

PRODUCER<br />

HOWIE<br />

KLAUSNER<br />

Family Movie Night<br />

Yeti or not...<br />

Join us February 8<br />

at 6:00pm<br />

in the Lodge<br />

$4 per person<br />

$15 for families<br />

Mass Media Madness in the<br />

“Post Christian Era” Good? Bad? Ugly?<br />

TUESDAY, JANUARY 29, <strong>2019</strong><br />

6PM AT THE LODGE<br />

See page 13 for<br />

more information


Pastor's Note<br />

Moving Toward Shalom<br />

The night our family returned<br />

home from Thanksgiving, I had<br />

just drifted off to sleep when one<br />

of our daughters came running<br />

into the room sick to her stomach.<br />

There would be no more rest the<br />

remainder of the evening. Over the<br />

next several hours, all three of our<br />

girls woke up sick and took turns<br />

keeping the rest of us awake. The<br />

shalom of our home was shattered<br />

by the stomach bug.<br />

“Shalom” is a Hebrew word that<br />

refers to the holistic wellbeing<br />

God created us to experience<br />

– intimate relationship with our<br />

Heavenly Father, peace with those<br />

around us, deep enjoyment of<br />

God’s glorious creation. Sadly,<br />

since the Fall we live in a broken<br />

world where our own sinful<br />

natures and the cursed creation<br />

war against experiencing that<br />

shalom God intends for us.<br />

Every day in our world shalom is<br />

interrupted by things much more<br />

serious than a stomach bug. Gun<br />

shots bring chaos into the lives of<br />

many. Medical diagnoses shatter<br />

dreams of others. Many battle<br />

generational poverty, a lack of<br />

good employment, and unjust<br />

governmental systems. Others<br />

struggle against mental illness that<br />

leaves them depressed, confused,<br />

or alone. Every day in Huntsville<br />

betrayal wreaks havoc on<br />

relationships. Every day in our city<br />

parents struggle to feel the dignity<br />

God created them to have, and<br />

children struggle to experience the<br />

love and support they need.<br />

The good news of the gospel,<br />

though, is that God is passionately<br />

committed to restoring shalom. He<br />

hates unrighteousness, injustice,<br />

oppression, and sin – but through<br />

Jesus Christ He has promised to<br />

renew and restore his creation so<br />

that death and all the other effects<br />

of the Fall are defeated forever.<br />

Even now He is working through<br />

his Spirit and his people to bring<br />

his kingdom to come on earth as it<br />

is in heaven, and Jesus tells us we<br />

must pray for, long for, and work<br />

for that reality.<br />

That’s why we’ve entitled our<br />

Express Grace Conference this year<br />

“Moving Toward Shalom.” The grace<br />

of Jesus Christ brings shalom into<br />

our lives and relationships with God,<br />

and it gives us shalom to share with<br />

our neighbors. As individual lives<br />

are restored to their Creator and<br />

others around them, communities<br />

are transformed into places that<br />

increasingly reflect the gracious and<br />

peaceful kingdom of God.<br />

“Moving toward shalom” is much<br />

bigger than one conference or<br />

ministry. You’ll read in this issue of<br />

<strong>Branches</strong> about many ways God<br />

is working here to create the kind<br />

of true community only the gospel<br />

can create. As we each experience<br />

the grace of Jesus restoring our<br />

relationship with our Father, we need<br />

other brothers and sisters in small<br />

groups, in the midst of parenting<br />

battles, and in the struggles of<br />

youthful years to help us live in the<br />

shalom of God’s kingdom.<br />

Then we can ogether share restored<br />

relationships with a community in<br />

need of transformation – personal,<br />

corporate, and systemic. This is<br />

the focus of our Express Grace<br />

Conference – equipping and<br />

mobilizing us to be the people<br />

of God on the mission of God<br />

particularly here in Huntsville. Our<br />

heart is that we together would<br />

be inspired and enabled to bring<br />

kingdom shalom here so that<br />

Huntsville would be more and<br />

more like heaven – where we all<br />

know God, rejoice in his glory, and<br />

experience his goodness.<br />

Gospel community is a community<br />

on mission together – taking the<br />

good news of a shalom-restoring<br />

God to everyone around us. So,<br />

while there are top-notch speakers<br />

coming to Southwood for this<br />

conference (see more inside), they<br />

will leave Huntsville afterwards, and<br />

we will be the ones God calls to<br />

carry the gospel to our neighbors<br />

and city day in and day out. Don’t<br />

let anything short of a stomach<br />

bug cause you to miss this chance<br />

to pray, dream, and learn together<br />

about what that can look like!<br />

If you would like to contact<br />

Will, use the following:<br />

will.spink@southwood.org


Session Update<br />

Having shared with you late last year some significant<br />

financial needs we were facing, we want to praise God<br />

for his gracious provision once again. While the numbers<br />

aren’t final as of this mailing, giving for 2018 exceeded $2<br />

million, which allows us to meet all commitments to our<br />

mission partners and enter <strong>2019</strong> in a stable cash position.<br />

While some necessary capital projects late in the year<br />

have made cash flow slightly negative for the year, God<br />

continues to amaze us with his generosity and increase our<br />

faith in him. And while we thank him for this, we also want<br />

to thank you for your faithful and generous support of the<br />

work of God’s church and kingdom and thank our staff for<br />

their carefulstewardship of our budgeted resources.<br />

We will report final income and expense numbers for the<br />

year at the Annual Congregational Meeting on Sunday,<br />

February 3, at which time we will also present the <strong>2019</strong><br />

budget. With a full staff, active ministries, and additional<br />

support of our mission partners in the new year, please<br />

continue to pray for, depend on, and expect God’s<br />

spiritual and material provision for Southwood.<br />

That annual meeting after the worship service on<br />

February 3 will also include times to pray together,<br />

updates on the mission and ministries of the church, and<br />

election of trustees and church officers. In particular, this<br />

year we are recommending the election of Andes Hoyt<br />

to the office of elder. Please feel free to talk with Andes,<br />

read about him on this page of <strong>Branches</strong>, and pray for<br />

him as he considers this calling. Please also pray with<br />

us this year for Matthew Cruze, Reeves Fancher, Tripp<br />

Pearson, Eric Sholes, and Blake Stuart, who have agreed<br />

to participate in our Officer Apprenticeship Program.<br />

This is an important time of training and consideration<br />

for men you have nominated for service alongside our<br />

Session or Diaconate.<br />

Officer Nominations by Will Spink<br />

The Bible makes clear through stories,<br />

through negative examples, and<br />

through direct instruction how vital<br />

godly leadership is in the life of God’s<br />

people. We believe that God has<br />

gifted men and women in his church<br />

to serve as leaders throughout his<br />

body and throughout the world. In<br />

particular, he has called some men to<br />

the roles of elder and deacon in his<br />

church, and we seek to be prayerful<br />

and intentional in identifying them<br />

and preparing them well for this task.<br />

To this end, we receive every year<br />

from the congregation nominations<br />

of men they see who have godly<br />

character and who are serving and<br />

shepherding within the congregation.<br />

Alongside these nominations are<br />

several aspects of training that go<br />

into helping these men develop their<br />

gifting and discern the timing for them<br />

to serve in these formal offices. Our<br />

Leadership Training Class meets 14<br />

times for two hours, and we also have<br />

an Officer Apprenticeship Program, in<br />

which men serve alongside the elders<br />

and/or deacons to learn the realities<br />

of the office and prayerfully consider<br />

together God’s calling in their lives.<br />

When men complete the class and the<br />

apprenticeship, they are examined<br />

by the Session and can then, if<br />

appropriate, be recommended to<br />

the congregation for election as<br />

an elder or deacon. This year we<br />

have one man, Andes Hoyt, who<br />

has completed this process and is<br />

being recommended by the Session<br />

to the congregation for election to<br />

the office of elder at the February<br />

3 Congregational Meeting. Andes is<br />

already an ordained elder in the PCA<br />

from his time at a previous church,<br />

and we are now recommending that<br />

he be elected to active service on<br />

the Southwood Session. Please pray<br />

for Andes as well as for the new<br />

group of apprentices who are serving<br />

alongside the church officers this<br />

year and considering God’s calling on<br />

their lives to these important roles in<br />

his Church.<br />

CANDIDATE BIO<br />

Name: Andes Hoyt<br />

Age: 63<br />

Spouse: Susan<br />

Children: Jennifer and Christina (young adults out on their own)<br />

Membership: 8 years<br />

Service: Nursery volunteer; Men’s Table Talk facilitator;<br />

Connect Community facilitator; Host Team; Short-<br />

Term Mission trip to Monterrey, Mexico; Community<br />

Development Committee; Property Steward<br />

My heart for the Southwood family is for us to deeply know God and live in joyful<br />

response as we never cease our pursuit of the prize of knowing God as the Father,<br />

Son and Holy Spirit (Philippians 3:12-16). For Southwood going forward I think my<br />

service as an elder will help us build deep friendships based on knowing God’s love<br />

for us. I see these friendships as ones of prayer, caring for those in need, celebrating<br />

special times, and having fun together. I really want to help Southwood be a family<br />

where we know each other beyond small and Connect Community groups, across<br />

stages of life, regardless of vocation, and through embracing of differences.<br />

SOUTHWOOD.ORG 4 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


I Feel the Need,<br />

the Need to Lead<br />

by Derrick Harris<br />

The word “leader” means so many<br />

different things to so many different<br />

people. Tony Robbins writes,<br />

“Leaders spend 5% of their time on<br />

the problem and 95% of their time<br />

on the solution. So, get over it and<br />

crush it!” If you look the word up in<br />

the dictionary, you’ll find at least six<br />

different meanings, one of which is,<br />

“the person who leads or commands a<br />

group, organization, or country.” The<br />

synonyms given for leader are “chief,<br />

head, principal, commander, captain,<br />

superior, headman, authority figure,”<br />

and the list goes on. I don’t know<br />

about you, but all of that sounds very<br />

intimidating to me. It’s intimidating<br />

because it makes being a leader sound<br />

so authoritative, unattainable, and<br />

almost other-worldly. I must admit,<br />

though, that when I read the Bible, I’m<br />

shown a completely different picture<br />

of a leader. I’m shown a picture of<br />

human weakness dependent upon a<br />

supernatural strength.<br />

In their best moments, the biblical<br />

leaders were not “superior or chief.”<br />

They were weak, failing, and humble,<br />

yet trusting a power outside of<br />

themselves. There’s no mention of the<br />

Tony Robbins percentages breakdown,<br />

and the only “crushing” I see is when<br />

power is misused by kings or when the<br />

True King Jesus crushes the head of<br />

the serpent on our behalf. Again, that<br />

happened in a moment of weakness<br />

displayed on the cross coupled with<br />

the strength of the Holy Spirit and<br />

trust in God the Father. At their<br />

lowest, Noah was a drunkard, Moses<br />

was a murderer, and Abraham was<br />

ruled by selfish fear. David was an<br />

adulterer, Peter was cowardly, and Paul<br />

sanctioned the killing of Christians.<br />

Yet in their best moments, they gave<br />

God glory, repented, and trusted,<br />

and God used them to change the<br />

world. The Bible shows us the truest<br />

picture of a leader. A leader is a weak<br />

and redeemed vessel who puts trust<br />

in God’s supernatural strength to<br />

accomplish His will through him or her.<br />

In 1 Thessalonians 2:8 we read, “We<br />

loved you so much. So we were happy<br />

to share with you God’s good news.<br />

We were also happy to share our<br />

lives with you.” This verse teaches<br />

us how the early church leaders<br />

interacted with each other. Love was<br />

at their core. There was a happiness<br />

about sharing the good news of<br />

Christ’s strength in the midst of their<br />

weakness. They were intentional<br />

about being present and sharing their<br />

lives with each other. The result was<br />

that their faith in Christ grew stronger<br />

when it was shared and lived out with<br />

others. They provided safe places for<br />

one another through their presence,<br />

listening, praying, and trusting in<br />

Christ to do all that they could not.<br />

They needed each other; they needed<br />

community and so do we.<br />

Small groups at Southwood exist to<br />

help us find community as we connect<br />

to God, to each other, and to our<br />

neighbors. Connecting in small groups<br />

requires consistency, honesty, safety,<br />

presence. Connecting in small groups<br />

also requires leaders. Being a leader is<br />

not really that intimidating. A leader is<br />

a weak and redeemed vessel who puts<br />

his or her trust in God’s supernatural<br />

strength to accomplish His will<br />

through him or her. Do you appreciate<br />

safe spaces? Do you know how to be<br />

present in a conversation? Are you<br />

able to listen to people when they talk<br />

about their lives? Do you have the<br />

ability to pray for your own needs and<br />

someone else’s? Do you love Jesus? If<br />

you can answer yes to these questions,<br />

then you can lead a small group.<br />

This <strong>January</strong> we have been taking new<br />

sign-ups for our small groups. This<br />

presents us with a wonderful problem.<br />

Since most of our current groups<br />

are full, we have the opportunity to<br />

create new groups, but we need new<br />

leaders to be able to do this. Would<br />

you prayerfully consider whether God<br />

might be calling you to take a step of<br />

faith this year and lead a new small<br />

group? Through leading a group,<br />

you have the opportunity to grow in<br />

community and to change lives as you<br />

help others grow in their faith through<br />

their connections to each other. If<br />

you’re interested, please contact<br />

me. I'd love to walk with you on this<br />

exciting & important journey<br />

(derrick.harris@southwood.org). A<br />

BRANCHES 5 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


Southwood’s 2<br />

SOUTHWOOD.ORG 6 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


018 Christmas<br />

BRANCHES 7 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


Transforming Lives &<br />

Restoring Communities<br />

One Southwood Family’s Experience of Listening and Learning in<br />

Unexpected Places by Adam and Lisa Elmore<br />

At the end of 2011, we moved into Lincoln<br />

Village with grandiose ideas of bringing the<br />

Gospel to the other residents and being a<br />

witness of Christian living. We were completely<br />

clueless about community development and how to<br />

engage our neighbors, but we knew that the Lord<br />

had brought us to Lincoln Village for a purpose. We<br />

were quickly humbled by the Lord as we watched<br />

our finances plummet at least $20k a year for the<br />

first three years as Adam was going back to school<br />

and I was pregnant with our boys. Suddenly, instead<br />

choosing to live in Lincoln Village, we had no other<br />

choice. I struggled with our financial situation for a<br />

long time because I didn’t want people to look at us<br />

and think that we were “less than”; we would try to<br />

slip it into conversation that we lived there to help<br />

the ministry and we weren’t like our neighbors. But<br />

as we became friends with our neighbors, we realized<br />

we were wrong. Many people in our neighborhood<br />

already knew and loved Jesus and were serving Him<br />

faithfully but were struggling financially. We were<br />

“Suddenly, instead<br />

of choosing to live in<br />

Lincoln Village, we<br />

had no other choice.”<br />

able to experience the shame, fear, and anger that<br />

our neighbors had experienced. When we sought<br />

assistance through the food bank next to our house<br />

in Lincoln, Lisa was sexually harassed as she waited<br />

in line. We were denied assistance the Department of<br />

Human Resources because we hadn’t hit rock bottom<br />

yet. Those hardships began to change our point of<br />

view on racial and socioeconomic issues, but it was<br />

our relationships that really changed our hearts.<br />

April and Chad were our next-door neighbors and their<br />

daughter, Summer, loved to play with baby Silas. Small<br />

conversations grew to daily cups of coffee, dinners,<br />

and Alabama football games between our families as<br />

our children played. The issues of racial reconciliation,<br />

social injustice, and life’s hardships became regular<br />

topics of conversation and we felt free to ask difficult<br />

and uncomfortable questions., One example came<br />

through an organization called Save Our Sons (SOS)<br />

Huntsville, a ministry that April and another friend<br />

of ours, Toya, had started in 2014 that to address<br />

healthy, safe interactions between black youth and<br />

the police. SOS became a more frequent meeting<br />

of people, young and old, black, white, and Hispanic<br />

as the number of police shootings involving black<br />

men increased in 2016. We attended the meetings to<br />

support our friends, but also to gain knowledge. At<br />

the first several meetings, things were said that made<br />

us feel defensive and we didn’t agree with the idea<br />

that we were more privileged, but we decided that we<br />

were going to be quiet and just listen. The Holy Spirit<br />

began to break our hearts as precious image bearers<br />

of God shared of the ways they had been hurt and<br />

SOUTHWOOD.ORG 8 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


produce change. Adam has discovered<br />

that as a white man, he has access<br />

to people that our minority brothers<br />

and sisters don’t have, and I am able<br />

to interact with close to one hundred<br />

children, their families, and teachers<br />

in some of the most disadvantaged<br />

schools in Huntsville. We can’t change<br />

hearts, but we can lead by example.<br />

how they wanted their pain to matter to their white<br />

brothers and sisters in Christ. The heartbreak that<br />

Michael Brown, Philando Castile, or E.J. Bradford’s<br />

family and friends have endured hits much closer to<br />

home now as our perspective has changed because<br />

so many of our loved ones are black.<br />

Another step came this past November, when we were<br />

able to attend the Christian Community Development<br />

Association (CCDA) Conference. The sessions there<br />

affirmed many of our developing instincts about<br />

racial reconciliation while<br />

opening our eyes to new<br />

issues. The subject of<br />

lament was brought up<br />

several times and we never<br />

fully grasped its meaning<br />

until we entered into<br />

the pain minorities have<br />

experienced at the hands<br />

of those in power. We<br />

have seen how the world<br />

works and it is disturbing,<br />

infuriating, and utterly<br />

heartbreaking; we are far<br />

from Eden. Lament isn’t<br />

only a deep mourning, but<br />

a crying out to the Lord.<br />

While we pray for God to<br />

move in our church and<br />

our city, we have felt led<br />

to start conversations to<br />

Because we have these goals, some<br />

of our friends have asked us why we<br />

don’t attend a church that is more<br />

economically and socially diverse.<br />

We have explained that we don’t<br />

want to leave Southwood because<br />

we don’t believe in finding a church<br />

that serves our needs and comfort.<br />

We stay because we realize that while<br />

Southwood appears to be very wealthy,<br />

this is not the reality for all who attend<br />

here. We also want to see Kingdom<br />

diversity grow by encouraging others<br />

to recognize bias we may harbor and<br />

move beyond our comfort zones. We<br />

want to participate with the body<br />

of our church in uncomfortable conversations. We<br />

want to support others on the journey of racial and<br />

socioeconomic reconciliation and learn to engage<br />

our community in healthy ways that maintain and<br />

restore dignity to our brothers and sisters throughout<br />

Huntsville. We want Southwood to do the hard work of<br />

giving time and not just money to various ministries.<br />

Establish relationships with people who are different<br />

from you. Those relationships will stretch and maybe<br />

break you, but they will bring to life the beauty that is<br />

the body of Christ.<br />

We should embrace the<br />

differences that God has<br />

established, whether<br />

in appearance, musical<br />

style, or culture. That is a<br />

way we can experience a<br />

piece of heaven on earth.<br />

We understand that this<br />

article may make people<br />

uncomfortable or even<br />

angry. Please, come talk<br />

with us! Come over for<br />

dinner and let’s start the<br />

conversation. We love you<br />

and are praying for God to<br />

move among us. A<br />

THE ELMORE FAMILY<br />

ADAM, LISA, AMELIA, ELIJAH, & SILAS<br />

BRANCHES 9 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


Moving Toward Shalom<br />

Transforming Lives and Restoring Communities<br />

by Robert Blevins<br />

Conference<br />

Schedule<br />

JANUARY 26-27, <strong>2019</strong><br />

SATURDAY<br />

9AM to Noon<br />

Leadership Training with<br />

Michael Rhodes<br />

Michael will discuss how<br />

we can express grace more<br />

intentionally in our daily lives.<br />

5:30PM to 8PM<br />

Family dinner & teaching<br />

session with Brian Fikkert<br />

Dr. Fikkert will share principles<br />

from his book, When Helping<br />

Hurts. Free tickets for the<br />

dinner are available.<br />

SUNDAY<br />

9:30AM<br />

Worship Service<br />

Dr. Fikkert will preach.<br />

11:00AM<br />

Connect Hour<br />

Local missions partners will<br />

join us to share opportunities<br />

to be a part of what God is<br />

doing in Huntsville.<br />

Other Opportunities<br />

C4 Conference<br />

Tuesday, February 26<br />

8:30AM to 2:30PM at<br />

The Jackson Center<br />

R.E.A.C.H.<br />

MNA Mercy Conference<br />

March 29 & 30 at<br />

Southwood<br />

Randy Nabors, Tony Myles, and<br />

Scott Moore speaking<br />

PLUS 15 different workshops<br />

A friend of mine is a business owner<br />

and deacon at a large affluent church.<br />

A few years back he started looking<br />

around his community and was struck<br />

by the amount of economic disparity<br />

among his neighbors. At his church,<br />

he saw wealth, skills, and business<br />

connections. He asked, “How can we<br />

leverage our resources so that our<br />

neighbors flourish both spiritually and<br />

financially?” Today the church runs<br />

a ministry that teaches financial and<br />

Biblical literacy to their neighbors,<br />

with the goal of welcoming them into<br />

fellowship. One of their first graduates<br />

was hired to run a part of the program.<br />

I share my friend’s story not to<br />

propose a model for ministry, but as<br />

an example of what happens when we<br />

look around. When my friend looked<br />

around, he and his team connected<br />

resources with opportunities, resulting<br />

in shalom (peace) in the community.<br />

When you “look around” in your circle,<br />

what resources and opportunities do<br />

you see?<br />

This year our Express Grace<br />

Conference is titled “Moving Toward<br />

Shalom: Transforming Living &<br />

Restoring Communities.” We’ll hear<br />

from two authors who specialize<br />

in economic discipleship: Brian<br />

Fikkert (When Helping Hurts) and<br />

Michael Rhodes (Practicing the<br />

King’s Economy). Our ministry<br />

partners (organizations that serve the<br />

community) will share how Southwood<br />

congregants can get involved through<br />

volunteerism and prayer.<br />

More than just a single event, we want<br />

to catalyze the conversation about<br />

how we get to express grace in our<br />

everyday lives, through our individual<br />

lives with people around us, or as we<br />

serve with our partners. For the past<br />

year, our Community Development<br />

Team (aka “Comm Dev”) has been<br />

talking about how God invites us to<br />

express grace in healthy ways:<br />

We get to express grace humbly.<br />

God invites us into the work of<br />

restorative justice not because we<br />

have all the answers, but because He<br />

does. That requires humble listening<br />

and learning from the experiences of<br />

people who are different.<br />

We get to express grace sacrificially.<br />

The rich young ruler (Mark 10:17-<br />

27) shows us that following Jesus<br />

demands our all. As we follow Him<br />

on the pathway toward community<br />

renewal, we might be asked to<br />

sacrifice our comfort, preferences,<br />

time, and money.<br />

We get to express grace as a lifestyle.<br />

God invites us to seek the good of our<br />

communities in every phase, at every<br />

stage--from the stay-at-home parent<br />

building relationships in the park, to<br />

the CEO who pays employees a livable<br />

wage, to the widower who reads to<br />

kids at a school. Tim Keller says, “Reweaving<br />

shalom means to sacrificially<br />

thread, lace, and press your time,<br />

goods, power, and resources into the<br />

lives and needs of others.” And it’s<br />

not that we “have” to do this kind of<br />

gospel-advancing work -- we get to.<br />

We hope that you’ll join us to kick<br />

off the year by learning how you can<br />

express grace humbly, sacrificially, and<br />

as a lifestyle in Huntsville and beyond.<br />

Dr. Brian Fikkert is a Professor<br />

of Economics and Community<br />

Development and the<br />

Founder and President of<br />

the Chalmers Center for<br />

Economic Development<br />

at Covenant College.<br />

He is coauthor of the<br />

best-selling book When<br />

Helping Hurts: How to<br />

Alleviate Poverty Without<br />

Hurting the Poor...and Yourself.<br />

Michael Rhodes is the co-author<br />

of Practicing the King’s Economy:<br />

Honoring Jesus in How<br />

We Work, Earn, Spend,<br />

Save, and Give with<br />

Robby Holt and Brian<br />

Fikkert. He serves as the<br />

Director of Community<br />

Transformation and as<br />

an Associate Professor<br />

at the Memphis Center<br />

for Urban and Theological Studies<br />

(MCUTS).<br />

SOUTHWOOD.ORG 10 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


Transforming Lives & Restoring Communities<br />

Our Domestic Missions Partners<br />

The Cornerstone Initiative<br />

The Cornerstone Initiative seeks to<br />

build relationships among people<br />

in the low income neighborhoods<br />

in Huntsville’s Westside, many<br />

of whom have lost hope. They<br />

encourage these neighbors to<br />

solve problems using the gifts God<br />

has given them. CornerStone also<br />

provides training through classes<br />

such as Faith and Finances and<br />

Jobs for Life.<br />

Reformed University<br />

Fellowship, UCB<br />

Chase Daws is a former Southwood<br />

High-Life member who now leads<br />

Reformed University Fellowship at<br />

UC Berkeley, along with his wife<br />

Holly and their two young sons. RUF<br />

Berkeley is a ministry committed<br />

to reaching students for Christ and<br />

equipping them to serve on their<br />

campus, in their communities, and<br />

in their local churches.<br />

Lincoln Village Ministry<br />

Lincoln Village Ministry provides<br />

housing rehabilitation, a private<br />

elementary school, the LINC afterschool<br />

program, Bible studies,<br />

and so much more in the Lincoln<br />

Village Neighborhood. Each<br />

facet works together to bring the<br />

transformative hope of the Gospel.<br />

LVPC proclaims the message of<br />

grace and hope through every<br />

avenue of ministry.<br />

Reformed University<br />

Fellowship, UAH<br />

RUF is a ministry of the PCA that<br />

welcomes students from any<br />

and all walks of life. RUF builds<br />

communities on college campuses<br />

that reach students of divergent<br />

beliefs and doubts with the<br />

message of the gospel and equip<br />

them to love and serve Jesus and<br />

his Church. RUF at UAH is led by<br />

Vinnie Athey, along with his wife<br />

Molly and their son Rhys.<br />

The Village of Promise<br />

The Village of Promise serves the<br />

needs of children and families<br />

from cradle to college to career<br />

in distressed neighborhoods.<br />

They offer education, health, and<br />

enrichment programs and family<br />

support services to help each child<br />

succeed in school. Their initial<br />

efforts are focused in northwest<br />

Huntsville.<br />

Second Mile Development<br />

Begun in 1985, Second Mile<br />

Development serves alongside<br />

Huntsville’s Terry Heights and<br />

Hillandale neighbors. They serve<br />

their community through several<br />

programs: The 29:11 Story, Pride<br />

for Parents (which includes the<br />

Neighborhood Store and the Baby<br />

Thrift Store), Second Mile Preschool,<br />

and Parent Initiative.<br />

Looking for an opportunity<br />

to extend Shalom to one of<br />

these domestic partners?<br />

Contact Robert Blevins at<br />

Robert.Blevins@southwood.org<br />

for more information.<br />

The Village Church<br />

The Village Church is a PCA<br />

congregation, planted by<br />

Southwood in 2008 and pastored<br />

by Alex Shipman. They understand<br />

that the gospel is the great equalizer<br />

among all people, for it presents us<br />

all as mutually broken people before<br />

the cross of Christ. Their vision is to<br />

embrace and extend God’s love in<br />

genuine community.<br />

Young Life<br />

Young Life works hard to develop<br />

long-term relationships with<br />

students. Whether through oneon-one<br />

contact, campaigners Bible<br />

study, or a week at summer camp,<br />

Young Life volunteers and staff<br />

work to show God’s love to students<br />

through the ministry of presence<br />

and teaching of God’s word.<br />

BRANCHES 11 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


“And he<br />

gave the<br />

apostles, the<br />

prophets, the<br />

evangelists,<br />

the shepherds<br />

and teachers,<br />

to equip the<br />

saints for<br />

the work of<br />

ministry, for<br />

building up<br />

the body of<br />

Christ.”<br />

Ephesians<br />

4:11–12 (ESV)<br />

Called<br />

to Equip<br />

The Saints<br />

by Ron Clegg<br />

Our annual Express Grace Conference<br />

is almost upon us again, and we<br />

want to encourage you to be a part<br />

of it. Why? Why do we make this<br />

kind of investment every year? It has<br />

everything to do with how we think<br />

about church.<br />

Some people look at the church<br />

through the lens of the business world.<br />

One crucial component of a successful<br />

business is having good employees.<br />

Their overall purpose is to do the work<br />

of the company for the satisfaction of<br />

the customers, whether it is producing<br />

a particular product or providing<br />

a service. When the customers are<br />

satisfied, their number grows and the<br />

business is considered successful.<br />

In all of this, there is a very definite<br />

order. The employees’ purpose is to<br />

work to make the business successful<br />

in satisfying their customers and to<br />

keep them coming back. This is a<br />

reasonable and beneficial order—in the<br />

business world.<br />

Unfortunately, this is how we often<br />

view the work of the church. The<br />

church as a whole is an organized<br />

“corporation” that is expected to<br />

provide a service. The clergy or church<br />

staff are hired to serve her customers,<br />

the church members and attendees.<br />

When the number of members grows<br />

and they are satisfied and happy, the<br />

church is viewed as a success. When<br />

the church corporation fails to provide<br />

adequate services or produces an<br />

inferior product, the customers simply<br />

look for a different brand, such as the<br />

church down the street. The church’s<br />

Southwood members Chris and<br />

Heather Morris with Vinit Mahesh<br />

“product,” after all, should result in<br />

happy customers.<br />

This order might work in business,<br />

but it is not meant for the church.<br />

A more biblical lens for the church<br />

is that of the military outpost of an<br />

invading occupying army. That outpost<br />

accomplishes many things. There the<br />

army can refresh its supplies, find<br />

rest and sustenance in a protected<br />

environment, develop strategy and<br />

plans, and receive training for its<br />

mission. The clergy or staff are the<br />

leadership whose calling is to make<br />

sure all these things happen for the<br />

readiness of the troops. They do<br />

help meet the needs of the troops,<br />

but only for the purpose of fulfilling<br />

the mission. That mission is to make<br />

the greatness of their King known<br />

and enjoyed by announcing and<br />

demonstrating His coming reign.<br />

This is where Express Grace comes in.<br />

We invest heavily in this conference<br />

because our whole purpose as a<br />

church is to better equip Southwood<br />

members to be the effective<br />

ambassadors of the Kingdom the<br />

King calls them to be. This conference<br />

provides multiple opportunities for<br />

vital training and equipping in how to<br />

engage our local community with the<br />

truth of the Gospel. It is designed also<br />

to help us refocus on what the Gospel<br />

is and the mission to which it calls<br />

us. You might not perceive your need<br />

for this training, but it is vital for you<br />

to experience all the good that our<br />

Glorious King has in store for us and<br />

then to express it to others. A<br />

SOUTHWOOD.ORG 12 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


<strong>January</strong> Parent Café<br />

by Derrick Harris<br />

Last year we started something new at Southwood called<br />

Parent Cafés. They were hands down some of my most<br />

favorite events of the year. At each Café, we discussed<br />

different topics that are struggles for most parents. We also<br />

shared meals and conversations as we discovered together<br />

that we are not alone on this journey called parenting. The<br />

word CAFÉ is an acronym for what the evening is designed<br />

to accomplish. This is an environment designed for us to<br />

C-onnect, A-cknowledge that we don’t have it all together,<br />

F-ocus on what really matters, and E-ncourage each other. In<br />

short, this is an evening designed to support, encourage, and<br />

help equip each other for this parenting journey.<br />

Parenting in the age of Netflix, Hollywood, and Hulu can be an<br />

extreme challenge. Who doesn’t need a little encouragement?<br />

On Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 29, I’m excited to announce that<br />

Southwood Kids will be hosting a Parent Café focused on<br />

the topic,“Mass Media Madness in the “Post Christian Era”<br />

Good? Bad? Ugly?” I can’t think of anyone better to speak on<br />

the topic than Howie Klausner, a bonafide Hollywood Movie<br />

Producer. Howie is a writer and producer of film, television<br />

and literary content. His career began with the Clint Eastwood<br />

blockbuster, Space Cowboys.<br />

Most recent produced credits<br />

include God’s not Dead 3; The<br />

Secret Handshake starring<br />

Kevin Sorbo and Amy Grant<br />

also directed by Klausner,<br />

Soul Surfer starring Dennis<br />

Quaid and Helen Hunt, The<br />

Identical, starring Ray Liotta,<br />

Ashley Judd and Seth Green,<br />

and The Last Ride, starring<br />

Henry Thomas and Kaley<br />

Cuoco. Currently set for production spring <strong>2019</strong>: Washington,<br />

the biopic of our first president at Radar Pictures, Omaha,<br />

the inspirational story of the NCAA championship Coastal<br />

Carolina baseball team, and Reagan,<br />

starring Dennis Quaid.<br />

Howie currently lives in Franklin TN<br />

with his wife and three daughters.<br />

Though Howie has many career<br />

accolades, two of the things that I<br />

admire about him most are his love for<br />

his family and his love for Jesus. I hope<br />

that you’ll join us. Please let us know if<br />

you’re able to make it by RSVP’ing to<br />

kim.delchamps@southwood.org<br />

for food and childcare purposes.<br />

A<br />

Hollywood Film Producer,<br />

Howie Klausner<br />

P A R E N T<br />

e s<br />

t .<br />

2 0 1 8<br />

Tuesday • <strong>January</strong> 29<br />

6PM at the Lodge<br />

Express Grace: Kids Edition by Angela Sierk<br />

In Matthew 19, people brought their<br />

children to Jesus that he might lay<br />

hands on them and pray, but the<br />

disciples criticized them and turned<br />

them away. What Jesus said to them<br />

next was astonishing. He said, “Let<br />

the little children come to me, and<br />

do not hinder them, for the kingdom<br />

of heaven belongs to such as these”<br />

(Matthew 19:14). It’s no small matter<br />

that this story appears in the Bible. In<br />

just one sentence, Jesus acknowledges<br />

that even the “least and littlest of<br />

these” has a place in his kingdom. In<br />

Luke 18:17, Jesus says, “Truly, I say to<br />

you, whoever does not receive the<br />

kingdom of God like a child shall not<br />

enter it.” Oh, to have faith like a child!<br />

But then, a barrage of questions<br />

follows...Do I have that kind of faith?<br />

Do my children? How do we foster<br />

that kind of faith in them? How<br />

will they learn to share that sort of<br />

mountain-moving faith in the world<br />

today?<br />

We can find guidance for this task in<br />

scripture. In Proverbs 6:22, God calls<br />

us to teach our children. When they<br />

are very young, we introduce them to<br />

the “basics” of our redeeming God…<br />

He is our Creator and loving Father.<br />

As our children grow, we develop<br />

that a bit more…God as an incarnate<br />

Teacher, Leader, and Friend. And from<br />

there, we continue to dive deeper into<br />

who God is… a sin-bearing Savior, a<br />

resurrected Christ who gave us His<br />

Spirit.<br />

As we continue<br />

to teach our<br />

children<br />

about the<br />

greatest<br />

act of<br />

love<br />

that the world has ever seen, they<br />

develop a meaningful understanding<br />

of the amazing responsibility to share<br />

God’s story with the rest of the world<br />

- both because of the needs of people,<br />

and because of the command of<br />

Jesus: “Follow me, and I will make you<br />

fishers of men” (Matthew 4:19); “Go<br />

therefore and make disciples of all the<br />

nations” (Matthew 28:19).<br />

So, how do we teach our children to<br />

have larger-than-life faith and to be<br />

mission-minded fishers of men? By<br />

teaching them to recognize God’s call<br />

for their own hearts. On <strong>January</strong> 26,<br />

Southwood Kids will host the Express<br />

Grace Conference: Kids Edition, for<br />

Kindergarten through Third Grade.<br />

Children will learn how God is calling<br />

them to “transform lives and restore<br />

communities” from the vantage point<br />

of the very first disciples in a fun<br />

time of worship, teaching, games<br />

and activities. We’ll talk about<br />

missionaries that Southwood supports<br />

and we’ll discuss how God is calling<br />

even the smallest of us to make a big<br />

difference! A


Small View,<br />

Big King<br />

by Peter Render<br />

Measuring the breadth of impact that the Gospel<br />

of Jesus Christ can have on the world is an<br />

impossible task. The beautiful thing about being<br />

a minister of this Gospel, especially when that ministry is<br />

to students, is that you can only minister in the context in<br />

which you have been placed. For Christine, Tyler, and me,<br />

this context is in the comfortable life of south Huntsville.<br />

At a glance, the higher than average income in the<br />

families in which the majority of our students are raised<br />

makes it seem like their problems are not really problems<br />

at all. While students in every context need a reality<br />

check to help them to understand how their lives actually<br />

stack up to others around the country and around the<br />

world, too often this leads them toward not being taken<br />

seriously, and not taking others seriously.<br />

“Look<br />

through the<br />

lens of King<br />

Jesus and<br />

weigh things<br />

accordingly.”<br />

So, which of these students’ problems<br />

ought to be taken seriously? My<br />

suggestion is to look through the<br />

lens of King Jesus and weigh things<br />

accordingly. Bullying strikes at the<br />

dignity granted to every human being<br />

simply by being made in the image<br />

of God. Mental illness highlights and<br />

exacerbates the brokenness felt by<br />

man as we experience the separation<br />

from our Creator caused by sin. Materialism displays our<br />

propensity toward idolatry, which is actually just our<br />

desire to look to ourselves as the thing to which we are<br />

purposed. The Gospel addresses each of these things<br />

in their communities clearly while pointing us toward<br />

our Savior. I do not think that I need to add anecdote<br />

to any of these examples to show that reducing human<br />

dignity, minimizing our brokenness and separation from<br />

God, and emphasizing our autonomy will not result in<br />

people who perpetuate the opposite of these things. If<br />

the Gospel is not of primary importance in our own lives<br />

it is never seen as being of primary importance in the<br />

eyes of those whom we influence.<br />

As someone who spent my teen years in a suburb of<br />

nowhere, it is fitting to minister in Huntsville. It is almost<br />

as if my whole ministry consists of discussing the Gospel<br />

in terms of what I wish that someone had told me and<br />

my parents. This is wonderful, but in terms of what was<br />

discussed in the preceding section, this is a dangerously<br />

narrow scope for the Gospel considering the broad work<br />

that our Heavenly Father is doing in the world. The good<br />

news of Jesus Christ can most definitely transform our<br />

individual lives, but it is also transforming lives around<br />

Huntsville, north Alabama, the US, and the world. It<br />

addresses the problems that are sometimes not taken<br />

seriously, even by the church.<br />

Two of the problems that tend to be undersold in <strong>2019</strong><br />

are actually quite prominently dealt with in the Bible.<br />

When looking through the lens of King Jesus, the issues<br />

of justice and mercy expand our view of the Gospel<br />

from what it might mean in our own context. In student<br />

ministry, the most pressing task is to get people to love<br />

God with all of their heart, soul, mind, and strength and<br />

to love others as they love themselves. Yes, that was<br />

meant to make you laugh. “Kids” are just like you and me,<br />

too focused upon themselves to see the greater reality<br />

that God has for them. Self-centered idolatries are at the<br />

root of all sin.<br />

This spring we plan to immerse ourselves and the<br />

students into the context of Southwood at large.<br />

High-Life Connects will spend our Sunday mornings<br />

considering what it looks like truly to take account of<br />

the community that surrounds us. Our Winter Retreat<br />

will focus on the Gospel issues of justice, mercy, and<br />

reconciliation through the lens of Micah and the voice of<br />

our speaker, Mark Bryant. All of this has the opportunity<br />

to play out in person as we work with our Community<br />

Development team on the beginning of what will be<br />

regular service to our community partners. As we<br />

witness the Gospel expand our vision and transform<br />

our lives, we will actively seek to go out and be a little<br />

part of what might restore our community.<br />

Hopefully this sounds like too big of an undertaking for<br />

High-Life and too big of an undertaking for Southwood.<br />

When we are at our most desperate, Christ meets us<br />

and shows us a better way. Acting in a manner worthy<br />

of those who follow King Jesus ought to make us always<br />

feel inadequate and ill-equipped. He is doing work that is<br />

much greater than we could ever imagine. I look forward<br />

to the way that he will use us as the chief learners in<br />

relationships that only the Gospel<br />

can create. A<br />

SOUTHWOOD.ORG 14 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


All That’s Fair: New Year’s Resolution<br />

by James Parker<br />

<strong>2019</strong> will be the 39th transition into a new<br />

year that I’ve experienced in my life time. For<br />

so many years growing up and in college I<br />

remembered watching all the excitement and<br />

revelry on TV, hearing the song “Auld Lang<br />

Syne” as the ball dropped in Times Square. All<br />

the people would be arm in arm, many would<br />

be kissing, others would be crying. It looked like<br />

everyone was full of hope and joy, or maybe a<br />

little madness and too much wine. As I got older,<br />

I just viewed New Year’s Eve as an opportunity<br />

to hide out in the woods and have a cigar by<br />

myself or with a few close friends, because<br />

everyone else would be busy being ridiculous. I<br />

didn’t really get swept up into the spirit of it all.<br />

Why would a million people in NYC cram into<br />

a tight spot and get all emotional about time<br />

itself? Literally rejoicing in the simple fact that<br />

the clock arms actually kept moving after 11:59<br />

on December 31st!? It just seemed a little kooky<br />

to my contrarian disposition. I just didn’t have<br />

any use for it. Nor did I care about any of the silly<br />

traditions like New Years resolutions. I thought<br />

those things were for everyone else, and I was<br />

smarter than everyone else...<br />

Fast forward a few years ... My kids were<br />

very young and I was working at Southwood.<br />

Christmastide with all of its rich story and song<br />

tradition would come and go. The introspection<br />

and longing of advent would be left as a<br />

palpable afterglow in my heart. I was an adult,<br />

doing adult things ... holding down a steady job,<br />

parenting, dealing with marriage and relationship<br />

ups and downs ... I couldn’t help but examine my<br />

life thus far as each new year would approach.<br />

The timing of the season would become more<br />

poignant. Was I where I wanted to be? Why<br />

or why not? What needed to change? I felt<br />

more listless and rudderless with every passing<br />

broadcast from Times Square. And it didn’t seem<br />

like there was anything to be done about it.<br />

The magi brought gifts under the radar of a<br />

genocidal tyrant, traveling through wars and<br />

injustice, to stake their claim in what Jesus<br />

represents for all humankind... hope. He was<br />

the hinge that transitioned from a divergent and<br />

isolated past, into a world where the temple veil<br />

was torn. And whether they acknowledge it or<br />

not, all people feel this longing: a lingering desire<br />

for the mess of the present slate to be wiped<br />

clean, that we might have a hopeful period<br />

ahead of us, full of possibilities.<br />

Epiphany is the traditional Christian feast<br />

commemorating this event. The Zoroastrian<br />

kings came with their polytheistic mindsets to<br />

pay tribute to a King of kings, a Lord of lords,<br />

a chosen child who brings good tidings to all<br />

men. They brought him gold, the glory of a king.<br />

They brought him frankincense, the waftings of<br />

deity. And they brought him myrrh, an anointing<br />

of one who would carry the greatest weight in<br />

history ... the death of all our fear ... They knew<br />

he was special. He was hope personified. Even<br />

if they didn’t articulate it that way, that’s what<br />

they knew. The magi answer the question, “what<br />

can I do?” They felt the tension in the world,<br />

and perhaps in their own lives, that something<br />

needed to give. Some new era needed to be<br />

ushered in.<br />

John Lennon asks the question in his own<br />

beautiful way in his song “Happy Xmas (War<br />

is Over).” And I’ve come to embrace what he’s<br />

saying in a much more wholistic fashion than I<br />

ever would have in my Twenties. Rather than a<br />

trite New Year’s resolution, Lennon, Epiphany,<br />

and my own shattered expectations bring me to<br />

a deeper hope, a New Year’s intention. A clean<br />

slate. Another chance to do the right thing,<br />

paying homage in the right direction. A<br />

New Year’s Eve<br />

Ball<br />

John Lennon<br />

First New Year’s<br />

Eve Ball - 1907<br />

Nativity of King<br />

Jesus<br />

BRANCHES 15 JANUARY <strong>2019</strong>


Grace<br />

express<br />

CONFERENCE <strong>2019</strong><br />

MOVING TOWARD SHALOM<br />

Transforming Lives and Restoring Communities<br />

FEATURING GUEST SPEAKER BRIAN FIKKERT<br />

SATURDAY<br />

9am to Noon<br />

Leadership Training: Michael Rhodes will discuss how we<br />

can express grace more intentionally in our daily lives.<br />

5:30pm to 8pm<br />

Family Dinner & Teaching Session: Brian Fikkert will share<br />

principles from his book, When Helping Hurts.<br />

Free tickets for dinner available in church office.<br />

JANUARY 26 JANUARY 27<br />

SUNDAY<br />

9:30am<br />

Worship Service: Dr. Fikkert will preach during our<br />

regular worship service.<br />

11:00am<br />

Connect Hour: Local missions partners will join us to<br />

share opportunities to be a part of what God is doing<br />

in Huntsville.

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