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Theosis 06 June Issue 2019

Theosis-Transformation is a monthly online magazine focused on Bible, Psychology and Spirituality.

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The Invisible Barriers to<br />

Forgiveness<br />

Most of us, if not all, find forgiveness challenging to live and practice. We<br />

naturally perceive barriers and invisible walls that, even if we want<br />

to, seem to refrain us from being able to forgive. Such inability, in most<br />

cases, doesn’t have anything to do with a lack of moral or religious values. It is<br />

not even because of our misconceptions regarding forgiveness, i.e., for example,<br />

thinking that forgiving means excusing, overlooking, forgetting, condoning or<br />

diminishing the harm received; or, that we need to be asked for forgiveness by<br />

the wrongdoer, or that forgiveness is a sign of weakness, and so forth. We simply<br />

experience the challenge of forgiving because forgiveness is challenging!<br />

The article deals with some of the barriers preventing us from giving<br />

forgiveness. But it takes a very interesting route. Rather than following the<br />

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<strong>Theosis</strong> - Transformation - <strong>Issue</strong> n o 1 | <strong>June</strong> <strong>2019</strong>

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