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Y O U H E L P M A K E<br />
A D I F F E R E N C E<br />
MY TALE<br />
Josh Berger '18<br />
Before attending Chabad my<br />
Junior year at Chapman<br />
University, Judaism and I were<br />
in a weird place with one<br />
another; if we were on<br />
Facebook, our relationship<br />
status would read ‘it’s<br />
complicated’<br />
Despite the fact that I had attended the JCC for<br />
preschool and a private Jewish day school up until<br />
5th grade, I had never considered myself to be truly,<br />
authentically, and wholly Jewish.<br />
"Immediately, I was made to feel at home.<br />
As we said the Kiddush together, broke<br />
Challah with one another..."<br />
Immediately, I was made to feel at home. As we<br />
said the Kiddush together, broke Challah with one<br />
another, discussed the week’s Torah portion, and<br />
recited prayers in harmony, I could feel a change<br />
from within me. The community Rabbi Eliezer<br />
helped establish and develop at Chapman Chabad<br />
was one of inclusivity. I was not made to feel<br />
marginalized or thought of by others as “less than”<br />
because of the extent of my practice of faith.<br />
Aside from the prayer, the meals, and the holidays<br />
spent with Chabad, what sticks with me most now<br />
as an alumnus were all the conversations I had that<br />
emerged spontaneously between the scheduled<br />
programming.<br />
THE LIVES YOU'VE TOUCHED<br />
Sure, I could recite the Hamotzi and wine blessings<br />
by heart, and, yes, I did have a Bar Mitzvah and held<br />
distinctly Jewish values concerning family,<br />
education, and morality, but wasn’t being Jewish<br />
about being more than that?<br />
Before Chabad, I would tell others that I was merely<br />
reform, or that I was only culturally Jewish; I felt<br />
Jewish. Rabbi Eliezer and Chabad at Chapman<br />
fundamentally changed my own perception of my<br />
relationship with Judaism by teaching me that those<br />
stipulations that I imposed on myself and my<br />
identity-- “merely” and “only” -- did not exist.<br />
From the moment I stepped into Rabbi Eliezer’s<br />
home, I was greeted with smiles from himself, his<br />
wife, Mushky, and his two children, Yasef and Mirel.<br />
I have made many friends at Chabad that I not only<br />
kept in touch with throughout the rest of my time at<br />
Chapman, but also continue to keep in touch with<br />
today. I have even brought friends to Chabad, from<br />
Chapman and from afar, in an effort to share with<br />
them an important piece of myself and my heritage.<br />
Chabad teaches others about Jewish history,<br />
philosophy, morality, and culture in a way that<br />
doesn’t seek to evangelize, but rather to merely<br />
enlighten.<br />
Rabbi Eliezer and Chapman Chabad catalyzed my<br />
growth as a person by making me more educated<br />
about and proud of my Jewish faith. I look forward<br />
to seeing how Chapman Chabad continues to<br />
expand serve more people, and to hearing the many<br />
other success stories that come from other people<br />
like me in the near future. L'chaim!