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Y O U H E L P M A K E<br />

A D I F F E R E N C E<br />

MY TALE<br />

Josh Berger '18<br />

Before attending Chabad my<br />

Junior year at Chapman<br />

University, Judaism and I were<br />

in a weird place with one<br />

another; if we were on<br />

Facebook, our relationship<br />

status would read ‘it’s<br />

complicated’<br />

Despite the fact that I had attended the JCC for<br />

preschool and a private Jewish day school up until<br />

5th grade, I had never considered myself to be truly,<br />

authentically, and wholly Jewish.<br />

"Immediately, I was made to feel at home.<br />

As we said the Kiddush together, broke<br />

Challah with one another..."<br />

Immediately, I was made to feel at home. As we<br />

said the Kiddush together, broke Challah with one<br />

another, discussed the week’s Torah portion, and<br />

recited prayers in harmony, I could feel a change<br />

from within me. The community Rabbi Eliezer<br />

helped establish and develop at Chapman Chabad<br />

was one of inclusivity. I was not made to feel<br />

marginalized or thought of by others as “less than”<br />

because of the extent of my practice of faith.<br />

Aside from the prayer, the meals, and the holidays<br />

spent with Chabad, what sticks with me most now<br />

as an alumnus were all the conversations I had that<br />

emerged spontaneously between the scheduled<br />

programming.<br />

THE LIVES YOU'VE TOUCHED<br />

Sure, I could recite the Hamotzi and wine blessings<br />

by heart, and, yes, I did have a Bar Mitzvah and held<br />

distinctly Jewish values concerning family,<br />

education, and morality, but wasn’t being Jewish<br />

about being more than that?<br />

Before Chabad, I would tell others that I was merely<br />

reform, or that I was only culturally Jewish; I felt<br />

Jewish. Rabbi Eliezer and Chabad at Chapman<br />

fundamentally changed my own perception of my<br />

relationship with Judaism by teaching me that those<br />

stipulations that I imposed on myself and my<br />

identity-- “merely” and “only” -- did not exist.<br />

From the moment I stepped into Rabbi Eliezer’s<br />

home, I was greeted with smiles from himself, his<br />

wife, Mushky, and his two children, Yasef and Mirel.<br />

I have made many friends at Chabad that I not only<br />

kept in touch with throughout the rest of my time at<br />

Chapman, but also continue to keep in touch with<br />

today. I have even brought friends to Chabad, from<br />

Chapman and from afar, in an effort to share with<br />

them an important piece of myself and my heritage.<br />

Chabad teaches others about Jewish history,<br />

philosophy, morality, and culture in a way that<br />

doesn’t seek to evangelize, but rather to merely<br />

enlighten.<br />

Rabbi Eliezer and Chapman Chabad catalyzed my<br />

growth as a person by making me more educated<br />

about and proud of my Jewish faith. I look forward<br />

to seeing how Chapman Chabad continues to<br />

expand serve more people, and to hearing the many<br />

other success stories that come from other people<br />

like me in the near future. L'chaim!

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