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YOUTH SUICIDE PREVENTION IRELAND<br />

WHAT IS “ACTIVE LISTENING”?<br />

"Acve Listening" is simply the offering of friendship by one ordinary human being to<br />

another at a me of crisis or loneliness. An Acve Listener has no professional status or<br />

authority, but is simply a fellow human being who cares. The purpose of Acve Listening is to<br />

listen, accept, care and empathise.<br />

LISTEN<br />

Allowing the person with a problem to express and to talk without being judged.<br />

ACCEPT<br />

Allowing the person to stay in neutral and accept feelings as they are.<br />

CARE<br />

Allowing one human being to reach out to another human being with respect.<br />

EMPATHISE<br />

Allowing the listener to hear where the speaker is coming from and allows us to be sensive<br />

to another's feelings or ideas even when we don’t agree.<br />

The purpose of Acve Listening is not to give advice, instruct, solve problems, or judge. It is<br />

to respect the worth and value of another human being through Listening, Accepng, Caring,<br />

and Empathising.<br />

A GUIDE TO “ACTIVE LISTENING”<br />

It's hard to know what to do when someone you care about is feeling depressed or upset.<br />

You can use the following list as a guide to good Acve Listening:<br />

DO:<br />

Befriend<br />

Consider the possibility of suicide<br />

Focus on the pain<br />

Ask if suicide is on their minds<br />

Get involved<br />

Allow the expression of feeling<br />

LISTEN<br />

Make life an opon<br />

Be non-judgmental<br />

Get help from responsible persons<br />

Stay with the person at risk<br />

Keep details of the story confidenal<br />

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