Allure 22092019

September 22, 2019
Ways To
Rock The
Classic
White
Shirt
Must-Have
Pieces For
Fashion
Weeks
Simple
ways
to style
your
Kimonos
Red Carpet
Showstoppers
GODWIN TOM:
Raising Industry Leaders

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HAPPINESS
5 Cover: Godwin Tom;
Raising Industry Leaders
12 Sexmatics: Marriage Vows
Renewal
16 Instagram Moments
CELEBRATION
3 Fashion : Red Carpet Showstoppers
4 Fashion : Must-Have Pieces For
Fashion Weeks
6 Fashion : Ways To Rock The Classic
White Shirt
11 Fashion : Simple Ways To Style Your
Kimonos
22 SEPTEMBER 2019
12 Diaspora Life : London Fashion
Week 2020 Spring/Summer
Shows
15 People : Tony Oguike marks 50
• Waje’s “Red Velvet” Concert
WELCOME...
To say that the Nigerian Music
Industry has grown, would be stating
the obvious. Not only has the industry
grown, Nigerian artists have become
hot cakes around the globe, with
many of them having collaborations
with foreign acts. Artists have become
the nation’s ambassadors, using their
creativity to erase the negative
perception of Nigerians once held by
some foreign nations.
While the industry may seem to
be blossoming, many artists lack
requisite education and information to run the business side of
music, such as signing of contracts, etc.
There is an urgent need to fashion out policies and
processes by industry players, those who know how the
business works in other to create better value.
Our cover personality, Godwin Tom is an artist manager who
has worked with some of the biggest players in the Nigerian
music industry.
Concerned by the lack of informed personnel in the music
industry, he has embarked on series of master classes and
online training to get artists and their handlers informed
especially, on financial education on how to manage money. He
bares all to our correspondent, Linda Orajekwe. Pg. 8-10.
The classic white shirt is an amazing wardrobe stable. How
you style yours makes all the difference. See great ways you
can can style yours put together by Yemisi Suleiman. Pg.6-7
How ready are you for the fashion weeks? Follow our tips on
how to look great at the shows as compiled by Linda Orajekwe.
Pg. 4-5
You can’t be ignored if you stepped
out in one of these pieces. See how to be
a show stopper. Pg. 3.
Enjoy every page, its well served.
Have a great week!
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Red Carpet
FASHION
Showstoppers
By - Rita Chioma
There are always show stoppers on any red
carpet event; it’s just a rite of passage.
In recent years, the red carpet has become an
opportunity to showoff any daring fashion
statement, while new fashion and beauty
trends are forged on the red carpet.
Some Fashion Icons don’t want to be
associated with regular outfits anymore, they
want to create
a trend and make a notable fashion statement.
Here are our favourite showstoppers:
Toke Makinwa, always
gets it right when it comes to
making unique, head-turning
fashion statements and
as always, she did not
disappoint at the Elite
Model Look.
The dress, which was
from Erica Moore
brand, had a peekaboo
cut-out on one shoulder, a
plunging neckline
that showed off her
cleavage, and thighhigh
slit
Nana Akua stepped
out on the red carpet,
stole all the attention, and
became the talk-of-the
town.
She wore a gorgeous
dress by Carl Santiago.
The dress features a
layered silver petals
designed to flaunt her
silhouette. The fascinating
part of the dress is the
iconic eagles resting
perfectly on her shoulders.
It is such a beautiful piece
of art, merged with style to
create an incredible look.
Just like Umueruo,
Bambam also
stepped out to a
recent event dazzling
in a rose embellished
dress. Her blonde hair
and subtle makeup,
got her the desired
attention.
Ugonna Umeruo
was one showstopper at
Glitz Style Awards 2019
we couldn’t take our eyes
off.In a dramatic rose
embellished bodycon
dress, she was the
cynosure of the fashion
and style event. She also
accessorized with similar
bag and pump shoes.
Inidima Okojie
made headlines when
she rocked this well
designed look by Derin
Fabikun.
Ini’s fuchsia pink
number was a big win
for the night at King Of
Boys premiere.
Her dress featured a
one-shoulder turtle
neck dress with balloon
sleeves and ruffle
details attached by the
side of the dress. She
accessorized this look
with her woven pink
pumps, matching pink
lips and rings. She
sealed this look with a
fancy glittery pink staff.
September 22, 2019 /
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croptop
FASHION
Statement Bag
Why carry an ordinary handbag when
you can get the attention with a dope
statement bag, be it a mini tote,
minaudiere or a sling bag? You can
try to get one in any thrift store if
cash conscious, or go all
out and splurge that cash
on a luxury sling bag.
The attention can be
worth your cash!
Crop Top
This is a recurrent
street style trend that
requires little to make
you look fashionable
and ready for the
week. It can be paired
with almost anything
in your wardrobe from
your jeans trousers
to your skirt.
sleeveless
croptop
Strawberry
Bamboo Bag
Must-Have
Pieces For
Fashion
Weeks
Statement
Bag
denim jacket
Jennifer Oseh
By - Linda Orajekwe
As fashion lovers, if there is one season we all look
forward to, it is the fashion week! While the fashion
weeks have kicked off around the globe, fashionistas
in Nigeria await with baited breath for the Nigerian
version to begin.
Since we don’t want you to get to fashion week looking
like last season, we have created some necessary yet,
simple must-haves pieces you need to stock your
wardrobe with, to help you get the best
of fashion week and give you the
full fashion week experience like
you deserve.
Androgynous
Three-piece Suit
Wearing a three-piece suit right will
always get you viral in fashion weeks,
where people put great effort to look
effortless. This is no effortless look and
when done right, it’s well appreciated.
So if you can, serve an androgynous
three-piece and steal the show, you
deserve it.
Denim
Jacket
This is a certified street
style essential, so arm
yourself with one. The
idea of a denim jacket
isn’t to always wear it as
the weather might be
really hot. Sometimes,
the style might just be to
tie around your waist,
that too is very effortless
and fashionable.
Gladiator
Sandals
For that short skirt
you’ve been saving for
a time such as Fashion
Week, let the gladiator
sandal elevate your
look from a snack, and
make you like a whole
meal.
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Graphic Tees
Are you a supporter of any cause? Got
a value you need more people to know
about, or looking to attract like minds?
Your graphic tees are your best bet.
This fashion item will make everywhere
your stage as it serves as your voice,
speaking wherever you go. So design
one now and get your message to the
fashion world when it’s time.
FASHION
Ripped
Denim
Trouser
graphic tees
A “boy scout” essential
that’s always ready for you
whenever you are. This
outfit will give you the
classy vibe if paired with a
t-shirt, button-down shirt or
a crop top and completed
with a well-tailored jacket
and your pump. What a
classy way to be distressed.
Ripped denim
trouser
hat
Hat
It’s fashion week, it’s more than a day.
You need a hat to switch up your look
from the top, to spice up your style.
Aside from how this piece can protect
your face from the sun, you’ll be
surprised how rocking a hat can be a
style game-changer.
sunglasses
Colorful
Sunshades
What’s a fashion week without eye candy? In
case you want to make your eyes the attention
grabber, get sunshades of different neon
colours to get all eyes on you even when it’s
dark. The beauty of colourful sunshades is that
after being functional during the day, protecting
your eyes from the sun, it’s an accessory to
your look when the sun is out.
fisayo
longe
high slit
Thigh-High Slit
Maxi Skirt
Fashion weeks aren’t the place to show your normal
fashion style, that’s why you have other days. Your
thigh-high slit skirt will definitely make you come off
as fashionable as the crowd can perceive you. Let
the fabric be preferably silk for volume and easy flow.
September 22, 2019 /
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FASHION
Ways To Rock The
Classic White
Shirt
By - Yemisi Suleiman
One of the most versatile pieces you can
own, is the classic white shirt; no wardrobe
is complete without this fashion staple.
Basically, the white shirt is a game changer,
whether you style it with a suit, layer it over
a sleek slip dress or add over a pair of jeans.
There are so many ways to style the
wardrobe classic for any occasion. It can
also be styled down for day and up for
night. Here are classy ways to style the
white shirt.
with
denim
white shirt
Pair with
denim
White shirts and denim go hand in
hand. It is a weekend go-to; it is
comfortable yet chic, and it’s perfect
for a casual Friday at work or a
Saturday fun day out.
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ankara midi skirt
Pair with a
midi skirt
For a classy and corporate look, team
a well-fitted white shirt with a printed
midi skirt. Remember to add a
bright nude colour heel
to finish off the
ensemble.
nude heels
ankara
office skirt
folake
kuye
Tuck into
wide leg
trousers
Whether you wear this to work,
brunch, or as a sleek evening
look, you will love the look for its
comfort and style.

Throw on
over a
crop top
While many of us have a
thing for crop top, the
days are long
gone. By adding
an oversized
shirt over the
top, it gives them
a whole new lease
of life.
white shirt
FASHION
sequine
skirt
rihanna
satin shoes
Glam it up
Wearing a white shirt with a sequin
skirt is instantly glamorous, pair it
with embellished satin shoes and
chunky jewellery in jewel tones, for
an absolute party feel.
Solange
Knowles
with a
power suit
white shirt
Layer over
a slip dress
For day time, layer a
lightweight white shirt over
a slip dress and tie at the
front for a whole new look.
Throw
on a
leggings
For daytime, pair an
oversize white blouse
with long black
leggings. Play up the
look with polished
accessories.
jennifer
hudson
Wear with a
power suit
Get in on the power suit trend and dig out
your favourite two-piece suit for this look.
Roll up the sleeves of a blazer and let those
of your white button-down hang longer
for a cooler take on this office look.
slit dress
September 22, 2019 /
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INTERVIEW
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INTERVIEW
Godwin Tom:
Raising Industry Leaders
Words By - Linda Orajekwe
Godwin Tom is a talent manager with over 10-year experience. He entered the
Nigerian music industry out of the boredom working in a PR company he no longer
enjoyed. In 2008, he quit his job to go manage MI Abaga, who went on to become
one of the best rappers in Africa. Over the years, Godwin Tom has gone on to work
with some of the biggest players in the African music industry such as Wizkid and Wande
Coal. In the process, he has evolved to be a brand that is now passionate about creating value
by raising a new generation of industry players. In this interview, Godwin Tom opens up on
his journey as an industry player, some of the harsh lessons he has learnt, and how these
experiences spurred more ideas, to help grow the industry.
With his wedding also approaching, the groom-to-be, talked about the new family he’ll
raise and the exciting times ahead.
How has it been working in the Nigerian music
industry for over 10 years?
It has been a learning experience for me. I had
worked in multiple industries before joining the
entertainment industry; so I came in with some
knowledge of what major brands look for in
conversations. Nonetheless, there weren’t enough
people guiding most of us newbies back then.
Generally, it has been filled with ups and downs. I
have learned patience and how not to judge
people. More importantly, I have learnt to redefine
myself and focus on growth for myself and the
industry.
What are some of the biggest challenges
you’ve faced?
That’ll be the challenge of people not signing
contracts. When they eventually sign, most
people do not respect their contracts. My biggest
challenge so far has come from my decision of
trying to learn to build my own brand, and provide
value to businesses I engage. I needed to be
Godwin Tom and not the guy who manages
Wande Coal. I believe I have gotten to that point.
You’ve managed the biggest artistes in Africa
including Wizkid, and worked with the likes of
Davido, how was that experience?
With Wizkid, it was exciting times. It was filled
with a lot of drama because of the disturbing
London/EME situations and tweets; but, we
overcame those challenges. But something
worthy of mention, is that Wizkid is one of the
hardest-working people I ever worked with. To put
in perspective, we all know he plays/parties a lot
but, he works harder than he plays. So his
success is not a surprise to me.
Working with these guys can come with its own
challenges. From almost being kidnapped by
students to constantly avoiding getting mobbed
for just being in public. I have, sometimes, been
forced to develop exit strategies to get out of
uncomfortable situations. It was crazy but it was
also rewarding.
What three unforgettable lessons did you
learn managing artistes?
The first thing to note is; when you manage
one artist, you are managing 2 careers. The
talent’s career and yours. The second thing is
strategic partnerships will help you get far. The
third thing to keep in mind, should be for you to
stay relevant by creating value on a constant
basis.
How has the experience in the Nigerian music
industry changed you and when did you
realize this change?
The Nigerian music industry has given me a
thick skin, and taught me to build my own brand
through active impactful work and value. Most
importantly, I believe it has taught me not to take
things personally or hold grudges. I realized this
change when Wizkid and I stopped talking. Almost
all my “friends” in agencies and brand/marketing
departments stopped taking my calls. This made
me realise that we were connected by the artists I
managed and this made me start thinking of how
to provide value to them. This changed my life!
Why the need for this TMT masterclass when
you already have a podcast that teaches
people the ropes?
The goal is to reach as many people as
possible and different people want to be
communicated to, in different ways. I have met
people who are willing to pay top money to be
part of the day-to- day business, and some others
are fine with following my tweets and Instagram
posts. I want to reach them all. The more people
we reach, the higher the chances of getting more
informed people into the industry, which for me, is
the goal of the masterclass.
Considering your background, have you ever
been faced with imposter syndrome?
I would not call it imposter syndrome. I know
where I come from and I know who I am. If
anything, I am very grateful for where I am now. I
have also worked very hard and refused to give
up in so many situations where I was told I should
have given up. I see the things happening now as
a reward and God’s grace. I am simply grateful.
But I am reminded that hard work and humility,
and being firm also got me here and those are
values I hold dear.
September 22, 2019 / 9

INTERVIEW
What’s the most difficult situation you’ve had
to face while managing an artiste, and how did
you deal with it?
That’ll be managing money. Making them
understand that the money would not come
forever. Financial education is needed in this
industry, but we must also find a way to reach the
artists who need it the most.
It is a real struggle. It is easy to get carried
away by the lifestyle. One of the ways I have
successfully dealt with it, was to document as
many expenses as possible and show them how
much money they are throwing away. It worked
great for some but didn’t go well for others.
How would you say the Nigerian music
industry has grown?
It has grown massively. Nigerian artists are
“hot cakes” around the world now and the music
is travelling faster than ever before. It is a great
time to be a Nigerian musician. I am currently
sitting in multiple conference calls and meetings
for a number of Nigeria artists, and the numbers
on the table were a dream a few years ago.
Do you think there is an industry or people are
just doing things themselves and growing
with the support of friends in the industry?
There is an industry. That people are building
brands and have colleagues helping out is proof
that an industry exists. We just need to grow. We
need more businesses with better internal and
external policies and processes, to come into the
The Nigerian
music industry
has given me a
thick skin, and
taught me to
build my own
brand through
active impactful
work and value.
industry. We need more education for people in
the industry, and for people coming into the
industry.
Some management companies or labels or
entertainment lawyers/law firms or aggregators or
promoters, need to merge businesses and
provide a stronger value proposition. We cannot
keep doing things ourselves. It hasn’t worked so
far.
Do you think we can build global record labels
like Universal, Sony and the likes?
Just like I said in my previous response, we
cannot keep doing things ourselves. But another
way to put it is that, we must ensure more people
who understand how the business works are
involved in the business. Also, we forget that
companies like Universal is a product of mergers
and services that work. If two labels each have 50
million to spend, coming together gives them
more human and financial resources to create
bigger solutions. That’s a way forward we should
adopt.
What’s the craziest experience you’ve had in
this profession?
Well, I have had a few. From seeing a crowd
chase me and Wizkid at a mall in Dubai, to having
a girl show up in all the pictures Wizkid took,
followed us to the hotel and refusing to leave until
she goes to his room. We have had a girl in Benin
Republic knock on all the doors on a floor where
Wizkid was, looking for him. When I managed MI,
a show promoter in the UK sent us return tickets
but only booked one way. After the show, he was
nowhere to be found and we almost got stranded
when we got to the airport. Luckily, we had money
to buy new tickets. We have had people send us
false information for rooms and hotels. So, yes,
I’ve had my fair share of crazy (Laughs).
What would you advise artistes to do better to
maintain a relationship with their manager?
Artistes should ensure that they are clear
about what they expect from their managers and
managers should in turn, state what they are
comfortable with. Artistes should also be honest
with managers about terms and money. Most
artistes say things like “we will discuss that later”.
Do it now and avoid issues later on. Artistes
should also treat their managers with respect.
People will engage with your management based
on the value you place on them.
What’s that one thing people don’t know about
Godwin Tom that you want them to?
I am not an arsehole! (Laughs) I am actually a
fun guy but I think that most people meet me at
work where we’re trying to get things done and
think that I am always that way. Sadly, I cannot
explain that to everyone. Vanguard Allure, help
me tell them! (Smiles)
What would you regard as our greatest
achievement in the Nigerian music industry?
Being a part of Wande Coal’s return to
greatness! We put in a lot of work and it is always
great to see a plan fall into place. Most times, you
can only do your best.
Your wedding is coming up soon and we’re
giving early congrats! Care to give inside gist
on who is getting you suited for that special
day with your gem?
Thank you for the early congrats(Laughs).
Well, Mai Atafo will be dressing me up for my big
day! He always impresses me. We have already
started talking and I am looking forward to seeing
what he is going to do.
What are you looking forward to on your
wedding day? The couple’s dance or the
public kiss?
I do not know how to dance, so I can’t be
looking forward to that (Laughs)... and sadly, I am
not very great with PDA. I am, however, looking
forward to marrying the best babe in my world and
truth is, nothing else matters.
What do you look forward to the most as a
husband and a father?
Dinner with my kids and attending all their
events. I want to be there for my family when they
need me. As a husband, I pray for wisdom. My
soon-to-be wife has become my best friend. I
want to keep it that way for the rest of our lives
together. So help me God!
What drives you and keeps you grounded?
My family, my future wife and kids. I want to
make sure my family is proud of me every day
and every year. I also want my kids to live better
than me. Hopefully, I teach the value of money but
it will come from my experiences they can learn
from and not from situations beyond their control
as I had.
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FASHION
Simple Ways
To Style Your
Kimonos
By - Tope Ojo
mochedda
Jean it up with
your kimono:
Obsessed about
your pair of
jeans, you can
wear your
kimono on your
jeans or white
pant and make
some statement
with it.
The traditional Japanese kimono
has become one of the world’s
most iconic pieces of fashion. It
is an excellent example of how you can
use national clothes in everyday life.
When translated, the word kimono
means; “something to wear.” These
full-length robes are instantly
recognisable, thanks to their unique cut,
beautiful designs, and captivating
colours. They are incredibly comfortable
clothes.
Kimonos are very self-sufficient items.
They can be worn over light linen so you
feel relaxed whether you are at work, a
party or a bar. Since the very masculine
styles are popular, you can wear a
kimono even without a belt. But if you
choose to emphasise your waist, the
elegant fabric will fold beautifully around
your body and the V-neckline will stretch
noticeably making you look slimmer.
Here are some tips on how to
pair your kimonos
Going for a night
out with your
friends? Just
throw on your
kimono over a
sexy, strapless
top and a pair of
matching pants.
Finish tge look
with a pair of
high heels
You can
accessorise your
kimono pairing it
with head ties or
hats and you are
good to go.
A perfectly paired
kimono style jacket
layered over a
jumpsuit or a dress
makes a great
casual look.
September 22, 2019 / 11

DiasporaLife
• People • Places • Events • Living
Feathers were a prevalent theme, with designers
attaching them at the hems and sleeves. Then the
surprise trend -the maximalist shape. Room - filling
silhouettes that took up much space. Top to bottom
coverage, that ‘s a contrast to previous ‘nudity is
sexy.’
Finally, the whooper trend-oversized
sunglasses. Maximalism transcended to even
eyewear. It was a case of ‘the bigger the better’.
With the revelation on the runway, the proposition
of a new age of modesty has just been unravelled.
Big dresses, high collars and long lengths, it’s time
to cover up. Big has never been more sexy.
With Remmy Diagbare | remidiagbare@gmail.com
London Fashion Week 2020
Spring/Summer Show
Big is Beautiful
wickstead
christopher kane
bora-aksu
halpern
roberta einer
roksanda
For those who love nudity, it’s time to put on
some clothes, as skimpy has been put on the
back burners, at least for now. At the London
Fashion Week which ended a few days ago,
designers from Burberry to Roksanda Molly
Goddard, to Victoria Beckham, served a dollop of
big, bold dresses in supersized forms.
Trends were rooted in maximalism, from
cocoon, frilly sleeves, to eccentric patterns. Silvia
Venturin Fendi, who took over from Karl
Largerfeild after his death, debuted her first
ready-to-wear runway collection for Spring 2020.
Inspired by camping, the outdoor and late 60’s
films; The Anniversary starring Bette Davis and
Carry on camping, Fendi added her twist to
sequined dresses, sheer tops and colourful tops.
Bright, punchy, vintage florals, were magnified on
a number of looks, adding to the groovy, retro vibe
pulsating through the runways. Molly Goddard’s
new take on the gown, features a buttery custard
hue, and Victoria Beckham went long on crowdpleasing
dresses with sumptuous shades and
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featuring ruffle sleeves. For Burberry, designer
Riccado Tisci gave a serving of figure-hugging
ensembles with bold feather trims and super-sized
sleeves. Emilia Wickstead closed her show with a
sugar pink gown that looked like a giant
marshmallow, while Simone Rochas, enveloped
her model in swathes of taffeta.
Christopher Kane on the other hand, went
galactic. He dressed his models in tiered supersized
gowns and dresses printed with clouds. His
‘ecosexual’ live letter to the universe, the milky
way itself, provided a stellar graphic that caught
the imagination.
Trends to watch for 2020, for colours,
Lavendar, rhubarbs and custards are your go-to.
Love your plaid, they come in a rainbow of
colours. Bikers short were a favourite. Chic
spandex bike shorts popped on the runways. Wear
with lace or shimmery fabric for a late night outing.
Pattern mixing was a hit. Check out Preen, who
used floral mix and Burberry, who teamed
gingham with black and white stripes.
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Marriage Vows Renewal
Renewal of marriage vows is a way of
celebrating your union which can occur, any time
after your actual wedding; from the next day to 2,
5, 10, 25 or 50 years after together. You want
those around to know you’d do it all over again in
a heartbeat. It may also be that you want to
reaffirm your commitment to one another after a
rough period in your marital life. There is never a
wrong reason to renew. It is an opportunity for
spouses to commemorate a love that has
deepened or matured. Not meant to be a second
wedding, instead, it is supposed to be a more
personalized and intimate affair, to be celebrated
with close friends and family.
Reaffirmation of wedding vows is appropriate
for married people, regardless of how long
they’ve been married. Numerous reasons are
cited for couples desire for vow renewal
ceremonies. Below are some of the reasons:
Some married partners hardly remember their
wedding day apart from smiling, talking to
guests, posing for pictures and freshening
make-up and not getting to eat. But when you
renew your vows, you can do whatever you
deem fit for as long as you want and for any
reason.
It is more relaxing with no pressure, there is
no long to-do list when compared to that of your
wedding details that you cared so much about,
now you can less.
This is more recent, the farther away you get
from your wedding, the more you tend to forget
the feelings you once had for each other. Vows
renewal helps to remind you about the deep
feelings you had for your spouse not so long
ago, and give you something to cling to in the
dark times, even when he/she is driving you
mad.
Renewing your vows is more meaningful
especially after you have experienced ups and
downs together, and have grown in wisdom as to
what really makes a marriage work. The
reaffirmation words have so much more behind
them, plus your children getting to hear that your
promises and commitments to one another is
priceless.
This can be sexy, from fixing your hair, putting
on make-up, wearing a pretty dress, flirting,
making promises to each other, spending time
together, can make you feel sexy, vibrant and
special coupled with an amazing night sex.
A lot of spouses usually host their own
renewal parties. Sometimes, the children have
the privilege of doing the honours. A particular
trend that most people love is when closest
friends like the original chief bride’s maid and
best man, choose to host the ceremony. This
could be held at home, in church, on the beach,
in a beautiful garden or on a cruise : basically,
anywhere that has sentimental meaning for the
couple will be nice.
This is not a legally binding ceremony like that
of marriage; virtually anybody the lovebirds
admire, can officiate like a pastor, judge, your
children, relative or close friends. And, you may
decide to settle for an intimate reaffirmation
whereby you invite few close relatives and
friends. However, you can definitely have a large
party for your extended family and wide circle of
friends. Limit your guest list except you are opting
for a big bash, know that this is not the time to
entertain acquaintances.
Couples should feel free to dress up. The lady
can always wear her original gown if comfortable
with it, or choose another dress such as a pretty
cocktail dress/ formal evening gown, or a nice
suit depending on her fashion taste and the
formality and style of the celebration. Skip the veil
if need be, wear a hat or flowers on your hair and
carry flowers or pin a corsage.
For the groom, he can wear his original
tuxedo, suit or uniform if you were in military and
upgrade with a new tie and vest. Other options
will be to choose new ensemble for this
ceremony, by putting on a gift of jewelry your
spouse has gifted you, like cuff links, wrist watch
and a boutonniere in your lapel.
A bridal train is unnecessary for a vow
renewal. You can always invite the original
bridesmaids and groomsmen to stand up for you
informally. They do not need to wear the old
outfits again. A number of couples normally
involve their children and grandchildren, to escort
them down the aisle, or have them perform a
reading during the party.
Your marital life is something to be celebrated
every day and every year. So don’t wait, take
time to celebrate and renew your vows every now
and then. Create new memories, relive old ones
and enjoy your time with family and friends. This
is an opportunity to reignite and re- energize your
feelings for each other. Your marriage is worth
every step of it.
If the above does not sell you on renewing
your vows, don’t know what other trick will do.
Talk
SPOT
By - Yemisi Suleiman
What some of your favourite
celebrities said and we listened.
“Always look at
the bright side of
life. No one says
its easy”.
Words from the
actress, Empress
Njamah to her
fans.
“Applaud yourself if
you are living and
surviving in Nigeria.
Buy yourself a drink,
e no easy.”
Actor Ik Ogbonna
is stating the obvious
about Nigeria’s
present economy.
“Yesss!!! Mistakes have been
made. Life didn’t come with
instructions”.
Actress Oge Okoye thinks
we should know this.
“I have found a way
of life that I love;
plus, I found the
courage to live it”.
TV personality
Derenle Edun
obviously has no
regrets about life.
September 22, 2019 / 13

MY LAGOS
ADVENTURE
By Odun Ogunbiyi
...Oddbod & The City
don’t want to brag about
I this too much (because
there is absolutely no doubt
in my mind that at the
slightest provocation, I will
fall off the wagon again) I
have gone back to regular
visits at the gym. At this
point, it’s the “all pain and
no visible gain” part of the
cycle and my thighs hurt
so bad that I can’t make
it off my couch without
employing a cunning roll
and lift technique. I have
about six weeks of selfdiscipline
before some
results kick in. In the
meantime, I hug close,
the cold comfort that by
exercising my heart, I am
investing in a happier old
age.
This is Oddbod and the City
– My Lagos Adventure.
Chai latte - The Flower shop
When it comes to
music, I have to
say I think we
are listening to
some of the best
music to come
out of Nigeria in
the last decade.
Don’t get me wrong,
Nigerian music has
always been amazing and its
influence globally is well documented and
acknowledged.
Case in point: Fela Anikulapo Kuti is a titan
of African music, and created Afrobeat in
the 1970’s and 80’s. Since 1998, his life and
work has been celebrated every year with
Felabration. This year, events kicked off
successfully in London with concerts at the O2
Centre and shall be happening here October
14th to the 20th. I am very much looking
forward to the shows this year, and can’t wait
to see what the line-up will be. No, I can’t
dance but I don’t let that stop me working up a
sweat.
Nigerian music is really going through a
moment and I don’t think this is a trend or a
fad. I think we have finally arrived to take our
14
Please
don’t
stop the
music
/ September 22, 2019
teyana taylor
& seyi shay
place on the global stage. Nigerian stars
like Burna Boy are performing at Coachella,
Tiwa Savage has a billboard in New York’s
Time square and Beyoncé is releasing mega
album projects packed full of collaborations
with Nigerian musicians. I am absolutely
loving this movement.
One of my favourite artists, Seyi Shay,
dropped a new single last week, a
collaboration with one of my favourite
American artists (she is all sorts of goals for
her relationship and her body), Teyana Taylor.
The song is called ‘Gimme Love’ and it
already has over one million hits on YouTube.
Hot tune, slick production and a bona fide
club banger. I have already added it to my
work out play list and you should, too.
The Flower Shop Café
So soon after my declaration about suffering for my
health, we swing back into my favourite pastimeeating.
I have been hearing so much about this new
spot in Victoria Island, I had to go and check it out.
Set in the middle of a functioning flower shop (as the
name suggests), the interior is all about light, space,
greens and pretty. It was also pretty packed and
clearly a popular place. Why am I always the last to
hear about these things?
My friend and I, popped in for breakfast and we
kept it simple although the menu offered up some
enticements—pancakes, waffles, French toast and
the usual eggs and bacon options. I will be coming
back to try the breakfast burrito as I have never had
one before and that warrants further investigating.
We ordered the Scrambler—a dish consisting of
well-fluffed scrambled eggs on sourdough bread with
sausages. Yum, yum and yum.
The Chai latte was out of this world- fantastic! And
just as an aside, I really, really wanted to go home
with the mug. I was that in love with the whole old,
modern, and colourful crockery mood, and I definitely
left feeling inspired to make some changes at home.
The parking situation is a bit hairy, though. Flower
Shop is right on the main road near a traffic light,
and you have to park three deep, so there was some
yelling as I got out the car by impatient drivers trying
to get past. It also means your bonding time with your
meal may be interrupted to move your car. The usual
Lagos wahala, unfortunately!
Definitely worth the visit and I will be coming back for
the latte. I wonder if they do a takeaway?
For further information about my
adventures check out my Instagram,
@le_Oddbod.

P EO PLE
Tony Oguike
marks 50
“ONE PARTY AT A TIME!”
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Stories By Oscar Ochiogu
Florence Ita-Giwa
Ann Okoronkwo
illyminiachi
Tony & Chika Oguike
Chief Executive Officer of Future
Concerns Group, Engineer Anthony
Oguike, last Sunday, turned 50. The player
in the oil sector, rolled out the drums
at Amore Garden, Lekki, Lagos, for a
befitting celebration.
The event attracted traditional rulers,
politicians, clergies, friends and wellwishers,
who came to celebrate one of their
own at 50.
The high point of the event was the
electrifying performance of a Nigerian-
Canadian rapper, Illyminiachi, whose
performance was an icing on the cake to a
wonderful and glitz event.
Uzo Okoye & Elizabeth Jibuno
Cecilia Aqua-Umoren &
Nkeiru Anumudu,
Naeto C & Nicole
Emeka Okoronkwo illyminiachi
& Victor Okoronkwo
Waje’s “Red
Velvet” Concert
Award-winning music star, Waje
recently held her first-ever owned
concert; Red Velvet.
The concert showcased the
songbird’s latest critically
acclaimed R&B album ‘Red Velvet’.
With the concert, Waje delved into
familiar territory to explore the
passionate themes from the album
with a distinctively new burlesque
story-telling style.
It was a full-blown bedroom
musical; from sensual, soulful
lovelorn ballads to fierce energetic
affirmations.
Johnny Drille led the pack of
opening acts billed for the concert
which also included Nonso Bassey,
Chike and Good girl LA among
others.
The event was hosted by Chigul.
waje
kate henshaw
omawunmi
Sound Sultan Moses DJ Iwang Neptune Data Okorodudu Tosin Adeyemi
IK Osakioduwa
Alabi Damilola
Timi & Busola
Dakolo
franklin
September 22, 2019 / 15

INSTAGRAM
MOMENTS
With Yemisi Suleiman
In case you missed, these were the most Interesting pictures and
stories on Instagram last week as posted by your favourite celebrities.
Beauty inspiration
We love Beverly Osu’s glowing skin and flawless
makeup. The actress rocks Glam beat by Bare2
beauty to a Lagos party. She is definitely looking all
shades of glam for the event.
D’Banj Welcomes Baby
Boy With Wife In The US
Nigerian singer, D ‘Banj and wife has reportedly
welcomed a new baby boy into their home. The
good news was all over the internet last Friday,
as congratulatory messages poured in for the
couple.
The Koko master as he is fondly called, lost his
one-year-old son, Daniel Oyebanjo III after he
reportedly drowned at a pool in their residence
in Ikoyi, Lagos. Two months after the tragic
incident, the artiste dedicated a beautiful song
to his wife. It was a really hard time for D’banj
as he revealed that he never thought he would
ever lose a child, and that the sad incident really
broke him and his wife.
However, shortly after, the singer disclosed that
he was expecting another child.
He welcomed his new bundle of joy, a baby
boy, in the United States of America but did not
disclose the hospital ir state where the child was
born, but mother and child are said to be doing
fine.
Ozinna Anumudu
Fashion enthusiast, Ozinna
Anumudu embraced excess in
all its glory, with this statement
pant and matching top. And
she rocked it like no other.
Johnny Drille, Waje, Bez, Others Thrill
Fans at “Acada Fest” Charity Concert
Last Sunday September 15, the charity concert
organized by iManage Africa and ScholarX, Acada
Fest 2019, took place at the Muri Okunola Park,
Lagos.
The entertaining, open-field event, featured
exhibitions from book, drink and food vendors and
an exciting music concert in the evening, which
brought the event to a climax.
Some of the celebrities spotted at the event included
Big Brother Naija Star; Avala, Nollywood actor; Tope
Tedela and Media Personality; Eki Ogunbor.
Also in attendance were Olumide Soyombo
of BlueChip Digital and Tosin Ashafa of BTA
Foundation.
Lovers of soul music enjoyed an intimate evening
of live performances from talented singers; Waje,
Bez, Johnny Drille, Show Dem Camp, Atela, Cill
and The Cavemen, in addition to thrilling vibes
from DJ Ruud who entertained the crowd at
intervals.