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SHANEL COOPER-SYKES<br />

woman that is stuck in her ways of doing the same thing with her<br />

life she was doing 10 years ago. She’s the woman who always<br />

has something to say about something someone else said, and<br />

she’s the woman that picked up this book looked at it and said<br />

“<strong>Woman</strong> <strong>Habits</strong>? That’s not for me. I have my habits together.”<br />

But that woman isn’t you.<br />

Practice the habit of being a quiet woman with observation<br />

and awareness, only then can you be led by your intuition. And<br />

you will begin to see a miraculous change happen in your life.<br />

I strongly believe you’ve heard at least 2 people say “you don’t<br />

listen” within the past two weeks. If this is the case, and you would<br />

like to increase the power of silence and the power of your words<br />

then these following tips will help you do just that:<br />

6 Tips to Develop a Habit to BE QUIET:<br />

Tip 1 Listen to Others and What’s Happening Around You<br />

When you are in conversation with another person it is<br />

important that you listen intently. Most people don’t<br />

really LISTEN; they are simply quiet until it’s their turn<br />

to talk. This is how mis<strong>com</strong>munications happen and this<br />

can be detrimental to your womanhood. Missing one tiny<br />

word can sometimes mean the difference between life and<br />

death.<br />

Tip 2 Pause Before You Speak You can’t be afraid to have those<br />

awkward silences; the person you are talking to isn’t going<br />

anywhere. In fact, when you pause it’s intriguing and<br />

heightens the anticipation of the listener. For example,<br />

think about President Obama or Martin Luther King;<br />

their long pauses and planned silences caused them to be<br />

<br />

respond to a person or begin a conversation you should<br />

pause for a few seconds, take a deep breath and think<br />

about what you are about to say. Your words should <strong>com</strong>e<br />

from a place of assurance. Remember, your words create<br />

you so choose them wisely.<br />

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