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September 27, 2020<br />
NIGERIA @ 60<br />
What Impact?
7<br />
HAPPINESS<br />
4 Cover: Nigeria @ 60:<br />
What Impact?<br />
6 Sexmatics: Owning Your<br />
Sexuality Wellness<br />
CELEBRATION<br />
3<br />
7<br />
3<br />
IN THIS ISSUE<br />
email: <strong>allure</strong>fortheworld@vanguardngr.com<br />
Fashion : Independence Day Style<br />
Beauty : Iconic Hair Styles Through<br />
The Years<br />
8<br />
27 SEPTEMBER 2020<br />
8 Instagram Moments<br />
WELCOME...<br />
Marilyn Monroe knew<br />
exactly what she meant when<br />
she asserted in the now famed<br />
quote: “Diamonds are a girl’s<br />
best friend.” No gemstone<br />
contains as much <strong>allure</strong> and<br />
fascination as does Diamond.<br />
Aside their sparkling<br />
attribute, Diamonds also have<br />
unique desirable qualities such<br />
as strength, regularity, brilliance<br />
and durability.<br />
This rare gemstone is the symbol of our nation’s<br />
Independence Celebration this year, themed<br />
“Together”<br />
While we look to find the sparkle in our own<br />
diamond, we can only pray and petition heaven to<br />
help a nation polarised along ethnic and religious<br />
lines to stand together. How well have we fared as a<br />
people?<br />
Here in Allure, we sought to know the impact of<br />
60 years of independence on Nigerians, especially<br />
the youth, often described as the future of the nation.<br />
Pg 4-5<br />
As we reminisce on 60 years of Independence,<br />
we take a look at some iconic hair styles, pg 7; and<br />
show you how men can<br />
incorporate green in their<br />
dressing. Pg 3.<br />
Happy Independence Day in<br />
advance!<br />
J . E<br />
Jemi Ekunkunbor<br />
lookposh2017@gmail.com<br />
08052201126<br />
Quotes<br />
“Sometimes it is the<br />
little things that make<br />
the biggest<br />
difference”.<br />
- David Beckham<br />
“To have once been a<br />
criminal is no disgrace.<br />
To remain a criminal is<br />
the disgrace”.<br />
- Malcolm X<br />
“When there is no<br />
enemy within, the<br />
enemies outside<br />
cannot hurt you”.<br />
- Winston Churchill<br />
“No man is rich<br />
enough to buy back<br />
his past”.<br />
- Oscar Wilde<br />
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EDITOR<br />
JEMI EKUNKUNBOR<br />
ASST. EDITOR<br />
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FASHION<br />
Independence Day Style<br />
By - Linda Orajekwe<br />
In four days, Nigeria will turn 60 as an independent nation. In celebration,<br />
Nigerians will turn out in their numbers clad in pieces that will make<br />
people green with envy. This year, we are looking out for our men.<br />
Here are five ways you can infuse green to your look on Independence<br />
Day to help you stand out and shine.<br />
ACCESSORISE RIGHT:<br />
If green cannot make it to the major part of your look,<br />
they can beautifully complement the major part by<br />
coming in form of accessories such as; your socks,<br />
customised wallet, wristwatches, or green crested<br />
cufflinks. For the sock, although covered by your<br />
pant, whenever you sit or walk around, you’ll<br />
remember what day it is and how patriotic you are.<br />
CORPORATE LOOK:<br />
First thing first, Let’s make it known that Independence<br />
Day, which is October 1st is a Thursday, so while selecting<br />
your clothes for the week, ensure you’re intentional with<br />
the green on Thursday.<br />
One way to infuse green to your Thursday corporate<br />
look is through your tie. This is you doing<br />
necessary enough to be classy but not too much<br />
to be seen as an overachiever.<br />
GO CASUAL:<br />
If corporate style is not for you on Thursday, then<br />
a casual look to try is a green tee with possibly<br />
white graphics on it. Wear this with denim and a<br />
jacket to get the corporate look. This look can be<br />
transformed into pure casual after work by taking<br />
off the jacket and celebrating Independence Day<br />
with your full chest.<br />
SNEAKERS:<br />
If you’re in an industry that is<br />
flexible with their dress code,<br />
this is the day to rock those<br />
green sneakers you’ve not seen<br />
the perfect place to rock them<br />
to. This will go well with an allwhite<br />
look, and no, you will not<br />
be doing too much as white is<br />
not the dominant colour of the<br />
Nigerian flag.<br />
EBUKA OBI-<br />
UCHENDU<br />
September 27, 2020 / 3
INTERVIEW<br />
Nigeria@<br />
What Impact?<br />
Words By -Yemisi Suleiman<br />
As Nigeria gets ready to celebrates 60 years of Independence on<br />
Wednesday, October 1, Allure spoke with personalities from<br />
different sectors of the economy on the impact of the last 60<br />
years on their industry and the lives of the youths in particular. Here is<br />
what they said:<br />
A Period of Mixed Fortunes<br />
Dr. Joe Okei-Odumakin, President, Women Arise<br />
and Centre for Change<br />
Sixty years of Independence is a period of mixed fortune for us as<br />
Nigerians. It is a period that has witnessed several gains and numerous<br />
challenges. For 60 years, Nigerians have had to deal with loads of leadership<br />
challenge and economic crisis while, at the same time, the battle for the<br />
enthronement of democracy has been fought and won.<br />
As for us in the Civil Society, it’s been years of consistent struggle for<br />
democracy, human rights and social justice. We have continued to demand for<br />
an improvement in the life of the average Nigerian, and all these are<br />
continuous demands that no administration in Nigeria has been able to<br />
actualise. For the youth, it is not yet Uhuru, as they keep battling with<br />
increased unemployment, poverty and insecurity. It is hoped that the Nigerian<br />
state, will take a critical look at the challenges of the past 60 years, in building a<br />
future that guarantees prosperity for all Nigerians.<br />
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Government Has Been Huge in the Industry<br />
Amaju Pinnick, President,<br />
Nigeria Football<br />
Federation<br />
The tremendous support and<br />
assistance of the government towards the<br />
sports sector in Nigeria in 60 years of the<br />
country’s independence, has been<br />
responsible for the giant strides that the<br />
football sector has made within the period.<br />
Government has been huge in the<br />
industry; building and maintaining<br />
infrastructure, funding of the national teams<br />
and performance rewards which has over<br />
the years, served as incentive for future<br />
generations of footballers. This<br />
encourages them to serve with zeal, and<br />
the spirit of patriotism when taking the pitch<br />
against opposition from other countries.<br />
This support has seen the national<br />
teams win various laurels over the decade,<br />
with the Super Eagles taking three Africa<br />
Cup of Nations titles and featuring at<br />
several editions of the FIFA World Cup and<br />
the Super Falcons winning 9 of 11 editions<br />
of the Women Africa Cup of Nations<br />
amongst others.<br />
Infrastructural development in<br />
various parts of the country has not<br />
only encouraged our country’s teeming<br />
youth population to take to football and<br />
other sports for meaningful dissipation<br />
of energy (with attendant economic<br />
benefits) and discountenance social<br />
vices of all forms, but has also seen<br />
Nigeria hosting major international<br />
events such as the FIFA U20 World<br />
Cup, FIFA U17 World Cup, Africa Cup<br />
of Nations (two times), Africa U20 Cup<br />
of Nations and more. However, the<br />
recent decision by the government of<br />
His Excellency, President<br />
Muhammadu Buhari to move sports<br />
from its present categorisation as<br />
‘recreation’ to ‘business’, is a massive<br />
paradigm shift that is bound to take<br />
sports, including football, to new<br />
heights. It is a measure that will<br />
catapult football to the position of<br />
contributing annually to the country’s<br />
Gross Domestic Product (as it<br />
happened in other advanced countries<br />
of the world) within the next few years.
Nollywood has Impacted<br />
Nigeria Positively<br />
INTERVIEW<br />
Eucharia Anunobi,<br />
Nollywood Actress<br />
First, we want to thank God Nigeria is<br />
60 years. But when it comes to impact, I<br />
would say Nigeria has not impacted<br />
Nollywood; rather, it is Nollywood that<br />
has impacted Nigeria. This is because<br />
the movie industry has created jobs<br />
for millions of people; people like me<br />
who would have found it difficult to fit<br />
into other structures that were not<br />
readily available. For instance, I have<br />
three degrees: I wonder where I<br />
would have fitted in.<br />
Nollywood has also gone ahead to<br />
improve the image of Nigeria once<br />
known as a fraudster nation. The advent<br />
of Nollywood and the entertainment<br />
industry changed all that. Those that were<br />
not employed, are now being employed by<br />
Nollywood. So, I would say Nollywood has<br />
given a good shine to the country over the years.<br />
Those in authority, should now create a level<br />
playing ground for industries to thrive. This is<br />
because, we have put our country in good light, at<br />
least, we know that today the world reckons with<br />
Nigeria as the second largest movie producing<br />
sector in the world. In addition, almost all African<br />
countries see Nigeria as the Hollywood of Africa.<br />
People may say we haven’t done well, but from<br />
a spiritual point of view, the Bible says, ‘I will give<br />
you pastors after your kind.’ Whatever we are<br />
going through in terms of leadership, it is because<br />
they are the ones that God has assigned to us as<br />
a people. And and as a people, we have not<br />
woken up to give kudos to God and to say, let the<br />
people who have the mind of God be in<br />
government. So, until we are ready to change as a<br />
people,<br />
and<br />
let people<br />
who are also<br />
in government<br />
have the mind of God to rule us, we would still<br />
have those who are putting us into hardship rule<br />
over us. Invariably, if those who are in government<br />
do not first of all remove the business of self from<br />
their lives, they will continue to rule us with iron<br />
hands. So if people would say to themselves, I<br />
love my country enough and I want it to go to the<br />
next level, it won’t be about just me and my family,<br />
it will be let us do things for our community,<br />
because community goes beyond the family.<br />
Congratulations to Nigeria but we can do better<br />
and I know we will do better.<br />
The Fashion Industry is Now<br />
More Lucrative and Competitive<br />
Lanre Da-Silva Ajayi, Fashion Designer<br />
Youths Should Play Greater<br />
Roles in Governance<br />
The Fashion Industry in Nigeria has evolved over the<br />
years, since our independence, and has experienced<br />
tremendous growth, from the 90’s till date. We have also<br />
become a force to be reckoned with in the fashion world.<br />
Nigerian women have embraced fashion wholeheartedly,<br />
and are now more comfortable, confident, and happy, with<br />
the expertise of fashion designers in Nigeria making their<br />
outfits for their special occasions, casual and office attire, as<br />
opposed to shopping abroad which was the norm before.<br />
It’s my fifteenth year, as a fashion designer in Nigeria. A<br />
lot has changed since I started. I recall when I started in<br />
2005, there were a handful of designers back then. The<br />
mentality people had then was not favourable towards a<br />
fashion designer. Our profession was regarded more as a<br />
hobby by many, and not an actual career worth investing in. I<br />
am pleased to see that the perception of the past has<br />
changed.<br />
Today, a lot of our youths study fashion as their first<br />
choice at the university, because they have veterans in the<br />
fashion industry they look up to and admire. From mentoring<br />
some of these youths, I can categorically say, they are<br />
prepared, ready, determined, to achieve great success and<br />
are not perturbed by any difficulties they might encounter<br />
along the way. This is a good mindset to have.<br />
The fashion industry in Nigeria is booming than ever<br />
before. There are many new designers to attest to the<br />
growth of the industry. Which makes the industry more<br />
lucrative and competitive. We can’t be ignored any longer as<br />
we have Nigerian designers making waves internationally,<br />
and locally.<br />
For the youths with passion, they need to exercise a<br />
great deal of patience, be very persistent, extremely<br />
hardworking, never give up on their dream.<br />
FiDA Nigeria’s mandate is to use our legal expertise as a<br />
tool of social engineering for the protection, promotion of the<br />
right of women and children including that of the youths.<br />
And I can tell you that we have been doing that successfully<br />
for the past 55 years.<br />
The youth population of a Nation should be considered<br />
as an asset and they are expected to play greater roles in<br />
governance, politics, policy and development processes<br />
Rhoda Tyoden, National<br />
President FIDA<br />
because they are the fulcrum of a<br />
Nation’s development. But what can we<br />
say of the Nigerian youths today? They<br />
seem to me confused, left to float with<br />
no clear, cut- out direction.<br />
We are a Nation blessed with<br />
mineral resources and oil, yet, the<br />
Nigerian youth is so overwhelmed with<br />
numerous challenges such as;<br />
insecurity, unemployment and school<br />
dropped out. Young girls are going into<br />
prostitution to make ends meet. You<br />
also have so much going on with<br />
human trafficking. If you talk to a<br />
Nigerian youth, he will tell you that<br />
Nigeria has failed him and you can’t<br />
blame him. So there should be a<br />
deliberate attempt to make issues<br />
concerning the youths a focal point in<br />
our policies. They should also be<br />
allowed to play greater roles in<br />
governance. They should be a part and<br />
parcel of every policy process that is<br />
being carried out in Nigeria.<br />
September 27, 2020 / 5
with Adesuwa 07011289316 | adesuwaewoigbokhan@hotmail.com<br />
Owning Your Sexuality<br />
Wellness<br />
Talk<br />
SPOT<br />
By - Rita Okoye<br />
What some of your favourite<br />
celebrities said and we listened.<br />
Not everyone is crazy and<br />
free. I am, but my sisters are<br />
not and I understand, and<br />
respect that. The same way I<br />
respect Nengi for keeping<br />
her cool. Being cool doesn’t<br />
mean you are fake, it just<br />
means you’re cool period,”<br />
Laura Ikeji throws<br />
weight behind BBNaija<br />
housemate, Nengi.<br />
A<br />
number of times, you see people shying<br />
away from talking about sex, which<br />
brings me to the question - can we talk<br />
about sex? Yes we can even though<br />
some persons will prefer not to. We take delight<br />
in boasting to friends about the great sex we<br />
have had or make jokes with them about the<br />
crappy sex we once had but will never talk<br />
about sex. Whereas on the other hand, it’s a lot<br />
easier for one to talk about practically anything<br />
under the earth, and provide a platform for<br />
stuffs that are not necessarily in the spotlight<br />
instead of intercourse as a subject matter.<br />
A huge part of owning your sexuality is by<br />
taking care of yourself, in other words, being<br />
vocal about things that you feel uneasy about or<br />
have the tendency to make you clam up at the<br />
mention of sex. But these conversations are<br />
vital to your health and well-being, especially as<br />
it enable one to maintain a healthy and<br />
satisfying sex life.<br />
Allow yourself to feel comfortable about<br />
your sexual desires and if you happen to<br />
practice safe love making, give yourself the<br />
freedom to explore and enjoy these desires to<br />
your satisfaction.<br />
Consider the biological nature of sex- Humans<br />
were made to desire, want, have and enjoy sex<br />
because it is a biological imperative.<br />
Recognize Shame-Many people feel<br />
uncomfortable talking about sex or being<br />
talked to about sex, because shame surrounds<br />
this “taboo” topic. Rachel Keller, Licensed<br />
Clinical Social Worker, explains that it is totally<br />
okay and normal to talk about sex and explore<br />
your sexuality before delving into why we might<br />
attach shame to sexual experiences. “It is<br />
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natural and healthy to explore one’s body,<br />
starting in childhood and through all stages of<br />
life. It is also natural to experience sexual desire<br />
and to act on that desire when done in a safe<br />
and consensual way. If you feel disgust about<br />
your body or sexuality, it may mean that you are<br />
carrying shame or judgment that doesn’t belong<br />
to you.” Keller goes on to explain that many of<br />
her clients can recall being shamed for exploring<br />
their bodies when they were children.<br />
Accept and feel comfortable with sexual<br />
desires. It’s important that you guage your<br />
level of comfort every step of the way.<br />
Sometimes, guilt or the shame mentioned<br />
earlier on can get in the way of feeling<br />
comfortable with sex. Note that, desire is<br />
something you wish or long for because it brings<br />
you satisfaction. You’re the only one who knows<br />
what makes you feel satisfied/happy/fulfilled.<br />
This of course, is true for every area of your life<br />
but we often forget or neglect this truth when it<br />
comes to our sexuality.<br />
“Women are taught to be sexually<br />
appealing but not demanding; to be<br />
sexually available but not too hungry, to<br />
bring our partners to orgasm but to fake<br />
our own pleasure for their benefit and<br />
protection. Many of us cannot name our<br />
sexual anatomy or describe what those<br />
parts long for.’’<br />
Irrespective of the kind of sex you are having<br />
or wanting, the best gift you can give yourself is<br />
to understand, accept and take charge of your<br />
sexuality. Owning your sexiness is a loving,<br />
inclusive and essential way of starting the<br />
process, so get started and get some pleasures.<br />
“My father taught me the<br />
importance of getting your<br />
kids to understand what you<br />
do. I love the fact that my<br />
daughters know every aspect<br />
of my work and are a part of it.<br />
Start them young. Those who<br />
will follow your footsteps will<br />
do great. But when they grow<br />
older and want to do<br />
something else, please give<br />
them wings and let them fly.<br />
They will do amazing things<br />
too. God bless you all,”<br />
Stella Damasus’<br />
parenting tips.<br />
“It doesn’t matter if thousand<br />
people are doing what you<br />
are doing. Find a way to do it<br />
uniquely. Give it class.<br />
Exceptional package. Then<br />
strategize and promote it like<br />
your life depends on it.<br />
Represent the brand<br />
anywhere you go. Pray and<br />
watch grace speak for you,”<br />
Adediwura Gold shares<br />
important success tips.<br />
“Never call anyone who is<br />
older than you by their first<br />
names upon first meeting<br />
them, no matter how ‘woke’<br />
you are. Wait for them to give<br />
you that privilege. If they<br />
don’t, don’t presumptuously<br />
take the privilege. This<br />
applies universally. More so<br />
in Europe and America.<br />
Good manners open doors<br />
that good looks can’t open.<br />
Many people turn off destiny<br />
helpers God sent to them by<br />
approaching them with ‘yo’<br />
‘sup’, ‘hey’, etc,” Reno<br />
Omokri on good manners.
Afro<br />
Afro hairstyles have constantly<br />
been in and out of vogue since<br />
the 1960s to early 70’s when<br />
they became popular among<br />
Nigerian women and men. It<br />
involves leaving untreated hair<br />
to stand tall. Today, the natural<br />
Afro hair is being replaced by<br />
extensions.<br />
BEAUTY<br />
Iconic<br />
hair<br />
Chignon<br />
The chignon, which can be<br />
traced to ancient Greece where<br />
Athenian women commonly wore<br />
it with gold or ivory handcrafted<br />
hairpins, has been worn over<br />
the years by Nigerian women for<br />
special occasions like weddings,<br />
dinners, etc. This elegant hair<br />
style, effortlessly exudes royalty<br />
and it’s a choice hair style for<br />
Black tie events.<br />
styles<br />
Through The Years<br />
By - Josephine Agbonkhese<br />
Beyond being fashion<br />
statements, hairstyles are a<br />
mark of identity for different<br />
societies around the world.<br />
Over the years, Nigerian<br />
hairstyling, like every other<br />
aspect of the Nigerian culture,<br />
has evolved; and grown into a<br />
medium of self-expression.<br />
As we celebrate 60 years of<br />
independence as a nation,<br />
Vanguard Allure reminisces on<br />
top hairstyles rocked by Nigerian<br />
women at different times in<br />
history.<br />
Classic thread<br />
A popular method for growing and straightening<br />
the hair without having to use a hair straightener,<br />
hair threading has been part of hair care routine for<br />
many generations among women in Sub Saharan<br />
countries including Nigeria. Remember the puff-puff<br />
hairstyle? That’s one of its variants. Treading is very<br />
similar to faux locs but in this case, the hair is woven<br />
together, giving it the vintage look.<br />
Ghana weaving<br />
Also known as fishbone, Ghana braids are African<br />
cornrow protective hairstyles made with hair extensions<br />
but in a sleeker and trendier way. This versatile<br />
hairstyle emerged in the late 1990s and has since<br />
grown into a globally accepted hairstyle. Every Nigerian<br />
woman has probably rocked it at some point too, using<br />
either wool or regular attachments.<br />
Cornrows<br />
Regarded as one of the most well-known styles<br />
of all times, this hairstyle has remained a classic<br />
since the 1960s and 1970s when it became<br />
popular. It has evolved into sophisticated looks<br />
with the use of attachments, making this supposed<br />
conservative hairstyle fit for almost all occasions.<br />
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INSTAGRAM<br />
MOMENTS<br />
With Yemisi Suleiman<br />
In case you missed, these were the most Interesting<br />
pictures and stories on Instagram last week, as posted by<br />
your favourite celebrities.<br />
Etinosa Goes Glam<br />
for the Gram<br />
You definitely can’t go wrong with a red bold<br />
lipstick as seen on actress Etinosa Idemudia who, with<br />
this flawless makeup and clear skin, got us all drooling<br />
over her new look last week. Etinosa who has been<br />
off the trolling lane for some time now, posted this<br />
beautiful photo on her Instagram handle accompanied<br />
by an inspiring message for fans and followers.<br />
“Today’s message is: BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!<br />
You are enough; you are more intelligent than you<br />
think, more learned than these people trying to control<br />
your mind. Stop doubting yourself or looking down<br />
on yourself and your opinions. Be confident with your<br />
decisions. Also, Guide your mind especially in these<br />
times with so much media content we consume daily,<br />
notions creep into your sub conscious and form your<br />
mindset. Make sure it’s POSITIVE.”<br />
Chika Ike Living<br />
the Life<br />
Nollywood star, Chika<br />
Ike is definitely living the<br />
life. The actress was<br />
recently a hot topic on<br />
social media, when she<br />
was called out by Regina<br />
Daniel’s mother Rita,<br />
for allegedly dating her<br />
daughter’s Billionaire<br />
husband Ned Nwoko,<br />
after she posted photos of<br />
her cruising on a private<br />
jet. She looks good<br />
though.<br />
House of Irawo unveils<br />
new brand<br />
To celebrate their 3rd<br />
year in business, House<br />
of Irawo recently, unveiled<br />
its new name, logo and<br />
website. The purpose<br />
behind the rebranding was<br />
to simplify and modernize<br />
the brand, while still<br />
paying homage to the<br />
founders’ heritage.<br />
Irawo is a Nigerianbased<br />
womenswear<br />
brand founded by a family<br />
of women who understand<br />
the power of communicating<br />
individuality through clothing.<br />
The brand creates<br />
investment pieces, made by<br />
skilled artisans that feature<br />
an array of colours and<br />
textures that cater to women<br />
who are unapologetically<br />
blazing their own trail.<br />
Toke and her<br />
TM Brand<br />
Media girl, Author and<br />
social media influencer,<br />
Toke Makinwa took some<br />
time off her regular gist to<br />
appreciate her work as an<br />
entrepreneur and boss of<br />
the TM Luxury bag. She<br />
took to her Instagram<br />
page to express herself<br />
thus: “You say what<br />
now? Seeing my brand<br />
makes me so happy,<br />
God is good. TM Global.<br />
Feeling very colourful in<br />
my Vistosa and Micro mini<br />
bag from Tokemakinwa<br />
Luxury.” And if you are<br />
wondering if her top is<br />
actually a blouse or scarf,<br />
hear her: “ Yes I tied my<br />
scarf as a top.” Now you<br />
know.”