2022 WSW Sex & Sexuality Calendar

Tia S.
32 | Queer, Non-binary
Being Queer and living Queer are two very different things.
As a black pansexual being, understanding my identity was
extremely difficult. As I was coming to learn a part of myself that
I hadn't explored, I was also introducing myself in a way that was
brand new.
The process of owning my identity and standing firmly in my truth
were overwhelming and isolating. I didn't know many individuals
that were openly Queer. I was too new to queerness for some and
too old to be asking certain questions.
The internet and the Queer influencers that were brave enough
to share their stories and images became a major support on my
journey. They served as guides and distant Aunties that gave me
the rundown of how things worked. I was able to gather resources
that helped me to learn how to ask the right questions and support
my overall well-being as I navigated this new territory.
I get to stand in my fullness now and share my journey boldly and
on my own terms. I don’t have to have all of the answers, jargon, or
labels to live my best Queer life.
I get to affirm my truth and nurture healthy boundaries while
expanding my chosen family and community.
I now know where to look for resources when times are tough and
how to safely engage with new partners as I relearn who I am.
I get to take my own pace, and I now have autonomy over my
identity, which I now know impacts my sexual health. It helps me
understand the importance of ensuring I know my HIV status and
outcomes of my overall health.