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<strong>Meet</strong> Musician<br />

Ben O'Connor<br />

Making An Impact,<br />

Traversing New Roads<br />

BY ASHLEY BENDIKSEN, PHOTOS PROVIDED BY BEN O'CONNOR<br />

© Best Version Media<br />

Hi Ben! Tell us about yourself - who are<br />

you and what do you do?<br />

I write music, play music, travel, and meet amazing people from<br />

coast to coast, and in many ways it kind of feels like a dream.<br />

Before this, I worked for fishing charters, worked at local hotels<br />

and restaurants, and even sold cars! I was figuring out what<br />

wasn’t working and what I actually didn’t like, kind of like trial<br />

and error. Ultimately, all of these different things led to music.<br />

So now I write music, travel a lot, and get to play to awesome<br />

people. I also have a full band consisting of about seven<br />

members which are used in multiple layouts. <strong>The</strong> most common<br />

on the road is a trio - myself, a guitarist, and percussionist.<br />

When did you first realize you had musical<br />

talent? Who has influenced you?<br />

<strong>The</strong> first song I ever memorized was Mud on the Tires by Brad<br />

Paisley. I remember being a kid and loving that song. I was maybe<br />

10 years old, on my parents’ living room floor, and wanted to<br />

write the lyrics out so I could sing it. This was before computers,<br />

so I sat in front of the stereo system and every few seconds, I’d<br />

pause and write down the lyrics as fast as I could. That moment<br />

sparked my love for music. As I got older, I learned guitar in Mr.<br />

(Phillip) Statser’s class my junior year at Middletown High School.<br />

It was very simple yet gratifying. I knew I had a love for music,<br />

but now I could also be a creator. I had a foundation and later<br />

went on YouTube and Google and sort of self-taught the rest. I’ve<br />

always had a love for country, and can say that Kenny Chesney<br />

and Jack Johnson have impacted me the most as a creator.<br />

What's your musical style and hope as an artist?<br />

I try to make music that’s very raw and genuine to the way I live.<br />

<strong>The</strong> stuff that comes natural to me are family, friends, and love<br />

of country. I have this burning desire to have our music mean<br />

something, as well as improve the lives of veterans. I think the root<br />

of it all is my great uncle, Alfred J. Guilmette, Jr., who everyone<br />

called Uncle Tuffy. He was at Normandy beach, the Battle of the<br />

Bulge, so many of those pivotal<br />

battles during the European<br />

front of the war. When I was<br />

little, right about the same<br />

time as that Brad Paisley song,<br />

he was telling us stories and<br />

showing us his uniform, photos,<br />

badges, things he’d brought<br />

back. This really strengthened<br />

my consciousness and<br />

awareness of this great country<br />

we live in, and that we gotta<br />

be grateful and give back to<br />

those who served. Personally,<br />

I’ve always felt called to serve,<br />

and music is one way I’ve<br />

learned I can play a role. We’re<br />

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