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Maino and O’Hara played together in cover<br />

bands for about 20 years and were willing to give<br />

the new genre a try. “Chris said he had this great<br />

yacht rock band he wanted me to join. I didn’t<br />

even know what yacht rock was. I asked, ‘Are we<br />

playing on a boat?’” Maino joked. (Yacht rock is<br />

a style of soft rock from between the late 1970s<br />

and early 1980s.)<br />

“The band is fantastic, everybody is amazing,”<br />

said Maino. “It’s probably the best band and best<br />

vocalists I’ve ever played with in my life. Very<br />

happy to be here.”<br />

The name Suit and Mai Tai stems from the<br />

band’s decision to feature a combination of both<br />

corporate and yacht rock. According to D’Amico,<br />

it’s a play on the suits and ties of the business<br />

D’Amico looks out at the crowd<br />

during a concert at the bandshell at<br />

Horseshoe Lake Park in Roxbury.<br />

world and the beverage one might<br />

enjoy on the deck of a boat.<br />

Gibbs, who also does jingles and<br />

studio work, said all the members<br />

of Suit and Mai Tai are at the top<br />

of their game. “It’s like playing with<br />

session quality players live. I get a big<br />

rush from playing with these guys.”<br />

D’Amico finds that the music scene<br />

has changed in the 20 years since he<br />

was last in a band. “The bars and club<br />

scene aren’t what they used to be,”<br />

he said. “You went to a bar to meet<br />

people. Now you just swipe right.”<br />

Big rooms and stages for large bands with big<br />

productions have given way to duos and solos<br />

at many venues. The audience for the music<br />

D’Amico loves is more mature now and more<br />

family oriented. “Generation X is going out to<br />

the park to hear live music, so the music we play<br />

is more their flavor,” he said.<br />

“I don’t want to do the same setlist as<br />

everyone else. You won’t hear what I call the Girl<br />

Set: ‘American Girl,’ ‘Brown-Eyed Girl’ and ‘Jesse’s<br />

Girl,’” D’Amico added. “I want people to enjoy<br />

what we are doing. And I want to enjoy playing<br />

music for the love of playing music.”<br />

D’Amico has a lot of reasons to regenerate that<br />

joy in his life after his 10-year-old son, Christopher<br />

D’Amico Jr., died in a boating accident in 2015.<br />

“It stopped being about existing and more<br />

about living,” D’Amico said. “Since the last<br />

eight years have been full of turmoil, I needed<br />

something to put a smile back on my face and<br />

this is doing it.”<br />

He’s also recently begun a career in professional<br />

speaking. “Sometimes it takes a tragedy or<br />

trauma to set you straight, to open a pathway<br />

in your mind that you never thought would<br />

open. Never in a million years would I think I’d<br />

be public speaking. And I thank my son for that.”<br />

D’Amico visits schools, sharing the Kindness<br />

for Christopher initiative his family began<br />

after Christopher’s death. During his talks, he<br />

encourages students to follow their passions.<br />

He often gets feedback from school counselors<br />

about kids he’s influenced in a positive way.<br />

Suit and Mai Tai has at least six shows planned<br />

for the summer, including three at Bar A in<br />

Belmar and several municipal events. The band<br />

will also be performing on November 26 at the<br />

Ringside Pub in Caldwell as part of a benefit for<br />

the Dean Michael Clarizio Cancer Foundation.<br />

The organization supports patients fighting<br />

cancer.<br />

“I didn’t become the next Billy Joel like I wanted<br />

to, but the lights are on and the mortgage is paid<br />

because I sing songs for people,” D’Amico said.<br />

“Suit and Mai Tai is a way for me to pretend I’m<br />

still a rock star, as I take my multivitamin and go<br />

to bed by 9.”<br />

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