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Shiphrah Bahay Paanakan (Birthing Home)<br />

A humble story of a birthing home located in rizal, providing maternity services<br />

to underprivileged women since 1989.<br />

empowering women through joyous, dignified & safe birthing experience. “...to save the children alive.” exodus 1:17<br />

bY DeborAH Anne GUStAFSon<br />

m<br />

y mom, Jeri Gunderson, a mother of<br />

six, started Shiprah Birthing home<br />

in 1989, along with a midwife friend<br />

of hers. the birthing home was then set up in<br />

our own home. our guest bedroom turned<br />

into the birthing room. When we started, there<br />

were around twenty people in our family home<br />

everyday. It was a fun, chaotic situation. At one<br />

point every bedroom in our house has had a<br />

baby born in it. I was homeschooled so I was able<br />

to start attending births at the age of fourteen.<br />

today, approximately 750 women give birth at<br />

our birthing home every year with funds largely<br />

provided by caring donors all over the world.<br />

the families that come to our birthing home<br />

often comes from very difficult situations. most<br />

of the mother’s have been told for most of<br />

their lives in one way or another that they do<br />

not matter. We feel that our job at Shiphrah<br />

Birthing home is to care for each woman in<br />

such a way that she realizes that she does<br />

matter, she can make a difference, and she is<br />

strong and beautiful.<br />

one way that we work is to encourage<br />

women to realize the power of knowledge and<br />

education. We empower them by offering a nineweek<br />

course on different topics like nutrition,<br />

breastfeeding, childbirth, family planning, and<br />

infant care. At the beginning of the course we<br />

ask the women to share two questions they want<br />

to have answered while at Shiphrah Birthing<br />

home. the questions of the sixty or so women<br />

are then used in lessons taught. It is important<br />

to listen and we take listening very seriously. the<br />

teaching <strong>style</strong> is very inclusive of the participants.<br />

We use skits, stories, and demos as our way to<br />

teach. At the end of the nine-week course we<br />

then follow the Filipino tradition of having a<br />

graduation with games, food, prizes, speeches,<br />

and graduation diplomas with gifts. We have<br />

a grand time. each graduation has around 60<br />

women who have attended all nine classes and<br />

we host 12 graduations per year.<br />

After the class time, we conduct prenatal<br />

checkups. this service is offered by five<br />

wonderful Filipino midwives - bhel, Dina, Grace,<br />

Lornie, and Lydia who have worked at Shiphrah<br />

for 16 and 8 yrs. We all work together to provide<br />

one on one prenatal care to each woman.<br />

At bahay Paanakan we believe that pregnancy<br />

and birth are a beautiful and natural part of the<br />

celebration of life. birth is as much a mental and<br />

emotional process as it is a physical one. It is a<br />

time in a woman's life in which the support of<br />

family and community are all-important. each<br />

birthing woman must be accorded the dignity<br />

and support she needs and deserves.<br />

As technology has enabled us to control<br />

our environment, at least in part, childbearing<br />

began to be viewed as a problematic condition<br />

rather than the physiological process that it is.<br />

birthing was removed from the community and<br />

institutionalized. the birthing woman, stripped<br />

of her emotional support base, was placed to<br />

labor alone among strangers and reduced to a<br />

minor role somewhere behind the machinery.<br />

At the Paanakan we create an environment<br />

where the birthing woman is affirmed, her body<br />

honoured as created by God to do the work<br />

of birth, and in so doing confirm the Filipino<br />

community birthing event.<br />

the role of the midwife is multi-faceted. She<br />

is a caregiver, an advocate, encourager, and<br />

often a counsellor to those in her charge. Her<br />

training has prepared her to handle well the<br />

normal pregnancy and birth. She is equipped<br />

to recognize quickly when the situation has<br />

moved beyond those parameters and refer or<br />

transport her lady to a doctor or hospital. She is<br />

trained and capable of responding confidently<br />

and swiftly in an emergency and to make the<br />

decisions necessary to properly deal with the<br />

situation. It has been said that the midwife must<br />

have the courage of a lion, the eye of an eagle,<br />

and the heart of a lamb. She, the birthing mother,<br />

the extended family, and the child to come,<br />

form a beautiful team, working together toward<br />

completion of one of life's greatest events.<br />

the mothers return with their baby’s<br />

postpartum check up, breastfeeding support,<br />

and family planning counselling. All of our<br />

midwives are trained in how to disperse<br />

contraceptives. We coordinate with another<br />

nGo for our supplies of IUD, Depo Provera,<br />

breastfeeding Pills, and Pills at low cost.<br />

this last year has brought a new facet of our<br />

family planning program. every month we find<br />

sponsors to help with the cost of tubal ligations<br />

and vasectomies for the couples who have<br />

decided to choose permanent contraceptive.<br />

once a month between 1 to 5 people are driven<br />

to Fabella maternity and child care Hospital.<br />

our home manager Helen helps coordinate all<br />

the details to make this program work.<br />

I have enjoyed my time with all the pregnant<br />

women, mom’s and babies who have attended<br />

pregnancy group since it started in 2000.<br />

the women in pregnancy group have been<br />

my teachers as I have learned how different<br />

women all over the globe view pregnancy,<br />

childbirth, and breastfeeding.<br />

Shiprah birthing Home is located in taytay,<br />

rizal. If you would like to become involved they<br />

are always in need of sponsors and donors. ❚<br />

You can sponsor the cost of a birth which is<br />

P4,000. Any donations are welcome. They<br />

can use pregnancy clothes, and baby clothes<br />

and also, donations of supplies like bleach,<br />

laundry soap, and lysol. If you would like to<br />

visit the centre please contact Deborah Anne<br />

Gustafson deborahannegustafson@gmail.com<br />

18 <strong>MADS</strong> magazine October/november 2010 19<br />

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