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Shiphrah Bahay Paanakan (Birthing Home)<br />
A humble story of a birthing home located in rizal, providing maternity services<br />
to underprivileged women since 1989.<br />
empowering women through joyous, dignified & safe birthing experience. “...to save the children alive.” exodus 1:17<br />
bY DeborAH Anne GUStAFSon<br />
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y mom, Jeri Gunderson, a mother of<br />
six, started Shiprah Birthing home<br />
in 1989, along with a midwife friend<br />
of hers. the birthing home was then set up in<br />
our own home. our guest bedroom turned<br />
into the birthing room. When we started, there<br />
were around twenty people in our family home<br />
everyday. It was a fun, chaotic situation. At one<br />
point every bedroom in our house has had a<br />
baby born in it. I was homeschooled so I was able<br />
to start attending births at the age of fourteen.<br />
today, approximately 750 women give birth at<br />
our birthing home every year with funds largely<br />
provided by caring donors all over the world.<br />
the families that come to our birthing home<br />
often comes from very difficult situations. most<br />
of the mother’s have been told for most of<br />
their lives in one way or another that they do<br />
not matter. We feel that our job at Shiphrah<br />
Birthing home is to care for each woman in<br />
such a way that she realizes that she does<br />
matter, she can make a difference, and she is<br />
strong and beautiful.<br />
one way that we work is to encourage<br />
women to realize the power of knowledge and<br />
education. We empower them by offering a nineweek<br />
course on different topics like nutrition,<br />
breastfeeding, childbirth, family planning, and<br />
infant care. At the beginning of the course we<br />
ask the women to share two questions they want<br />
to have answered while at Shiphrah Birthing<br />
home. the questions of the sixty or so women<br />
are then used in lessons taught. It is important<br />
to listen and we take listening very seriously. the<br />
teaching <strong>style</strong> is very inclusive of the participants.<br />
We use skits, stories, and demos as our way to<br />
teach. At the end of the nine-week course we<br />
then follow the Filipino tradition of having a<br />
graduation with games, food, prizes, speeches,<br />
and graduation diplomas with gifts. We have<br />
a grand time. each graduation has around 60<br />
women who have attended all nine classes and<br />
we host 12 graduations per year.<br />
After the class time, we conduct prenatal<br />
checkups. this service is offered by five<br />
wonderful Filipino midwives - bhel, Dina, Grace,<br />
Lornie, and Lydia who have worked at Shiphrah<br />
for 16 and 8 yrs. We all work together to provide<br />
one on one prenatal care to each woman.<br />
At bahay Paanakan we believe that pregnancy<br />
and birth are a beautiful and natural part of the<br />
celebration of life. birth is as much a mental and<br />
emotional process as it is a physical one. It is a<br />
time in a woman's life in which the support of<br />
family and community are all-important. each<br />
birthing woman must be accorded the dignity<br />
and support she needs and deserves.<br />
As technology has enabled us to control<br />
our environment, at least in part, childbearing<br />
began to be viewed as a problematic condition<br />
rather than the physiological process that it is.<br />
birthing was removed from the community and<br />
institutionalized. the birthing woman, stripped<br />
of her emotional support base, was placed to<br />
labor alone among strangers and reduced to a<br />
minor role somewhere behind the machinery.<br />
At the Paanakan we create an environment<br />
where the birthing woman is affirmed, her body<br />
honoured as created by God to do the work<br />
of birth, and in so doing confirm the Filipino<br />
community birthing event.<br />
the role of the midwife is multi-faceted. She<br />
is a caregiver, an advocate, encourager, and<br />
often a counsellor to those in her charge. Her<br />
training has prepared her to handle well the<br />
normal pregnancy and birth. She is equipped<br />
to recognize quickly when the situation has<br />
moved beyond those parameters and refer or<br />
transport her lady to a doctor or hospital. She is<br />
trained and capable of responding confidently<br />
and swiftly in an emergency and to make the<br />
decisions necessary to properly deal with the<br />
situation. It has been said that the midwife must<br />
have the courage of a lion, the eye of an eagle,<br />
and the heart of a lamb. She, the birthing mother,<br />
the extended family, and the child to come,<br />
form a beautiful team, working together toward<br />
completion of one of life's greatest events.<br />
the mothers return with their baby’s<br />
postpartum check up, breastfeeding support,<br />
and family planning counselling. All of our<br />
midwives are trained in how to disperse<br />
contraceptives. We coordinate with another<br />
nGo for our supplies of IUD, Depo Provera,<br />
breastfeeding Pills, and Pills at low cost.<br />
this last year has brought a new facet of our<br />
family planning program. every month we find<br />
sponsors to help with the cost of tubal ligations<br />
and vasectomies for the couples who have<br />
decided to choose permanent contraceptive.<br />
once a month between 1 to 5 people are driven<br />
to Fabella maternity and child care Hospital.<br />
our home manager Helen helps coordinate all<br />
the details to make this program work.<br />
I have enjoyed my time with all the pregnant<br />
women, mom’s and babies who have attended<br />
pregnancy group since it started in 2000.<br />
the women in pregnancy group have been<br />
my teachers as I have learned how different<br />
women all over the globe view pregnancy,<br />
childbirth, and breastfeeding.<br />
Shiprah birthing Home is located in taytay,<br />
rizal. If you would like to become involved they<br />
are always in need of sponsors and donors. ❚<br />
You can sponsor the cost of a birth which is<br />
P4,000. Any donations are welcome. They<br />
can use pregnancy clothes, and baby clothes<br />
and also, donations of supplies like bleach,<br />
laundry soap, and lysol. If you would like to<br />
visit the centre please contact Deborah Anne<br />
Gustafson deborahannegustafson@gmail.com<br />
18 <strong>MADS</strong> magazine October/november 2010 19<br />
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