Ostara _ rituals, recipes, & lore for the spring equinox ( PDFDrive )

Blow the black candle out, allowing the feelings to just float off and away. Next
move back to the blue candle and say:
These changes I make are for the best.
I accept you and release you into my surroundings.
Blow the blue candle out gently, allowing the positive energy to stay in the room
with you and permeate the air.
You may need to perform this spell several times over to fully rid yourself of
the negative feelings associated with the change you have to make. Small
changes won’t take as long, but harder, more difficult changes may need you to
perform this spell nightly for a couple of weeks until you feel you have things
more under control. Then you can cut down to once a week, once every other
week, finally to once a month, and then only if you feel those feeling trying to
creep back in again. If you have more than one change going on at a time, you
can work on those at the same time, just be careful not to overwhelm yourself,
particularly in the beginning. If it starts to feel like it’s too much to deal with at
once, then break those changes down into separate sessions until you are strong
enough to tackle them all at once, and work your way back up to combining
them as you work at chipping them away. For example, by the time you get
down to once a month, you should be able to combine several together if need be
and work on them all at the same time. If you can’t do that many at once though,
don’t worry about it. Everyone handles stress differently, so make sure you do
what works best for you.
Spell to Restore Balance to Your Life
Often our lives get completely hectic and out of control. For many people this
happens during the winter holidays and getting life back in balance again may
seem impossible. We don’t eat right. We don’t sleep right. We might not be
getting enough exercise. We may have let our spirituality slip to the back burner.
We may have let many things slip to the back burner. While this spell can be
done at any time, it’s very well suited for the spring for its renewal connections.
It’s also extremely well suited for the equinox for its restoring balance aspect.