GoanTimes December 30, 2017 Issue

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December 30, 2016 | www.goantimes.titosgoa.com | 16 pages
Top dating tips for men (by a woman)
There are endless questions that can spin around your head before, during and after a date, which is why we’ve compiled
a list of some top dating tips for men, to help make sure your date is an ultimate success.
Dating can be a tricky business. What
should you wear? Where should you meet?
How much should you say? Who should
pay? How soon after your date should you
call? There are endless questions that can
spin around your head before, during and
after a date, which is why we’ve compiled a
list of some top dating tips for men, to help
make sure your date is a success.
1. First impressions are always important
Your ripped jeans may be lucky, but remember,
this will be the first impression your date gets
of you. Yes, you should never pretend to be
someone that you’re not, but a girl might like
to see that you take pride in your appearance.
Don’t worry, this doesn’t mean you need to
wear a full tuxedo, but having a shower, shave,
using aftershave and putting on something
suitable will help you impress your date and
get you off to a good start. Now all you have to
worry about is turning up on time.
2. Make date plans for somewhere you’ll
feel comfortable
You might think that you’re being a gentleman
by letting your date decide where you go on your
date, but women often like to see that you can
take control. Plus, as dating can be a daunting
experience, help cut through those nerves by
arranging to meet up in familiar territory.
This will help make you feel more comfortable.
Although, maybe avoid your normal Saturday
night pub, as bumping into your mates could be
a little distracting on your date.
a 6-pack, but it’s more attractive to a woman to
show that you’re comfortable in your own skin
and happy being you.
4. Don’t do all the talking
On your date, make sure you don’t do all the
talking. Try to keep what you have to say short
and concise. You don’t want to start boring
your date. If this date goes well, there will be
lots more opportunities to share your stories in
the future. Don’t be scared of pauses and help
mix up the conversation by asking your date
questions. Listening is important, as it shows
that you are interested in what she has to say.
5. Follow up correctly
If you don’t want a second date, don’t say you’ll
call her. You’ll end up feeling bad and she
might feel hurt. Just say, “I had a great time
tonight”. If you do want to see her again, don’t
play games. Yes, in films they always leave it a
couple of days to contact each other, but this is
2016. If you don’t contact her within a couple of
days, you’ll seem like you couldn’t be bothered,
or didn’t enjoy the date. The sooner you tell her
what a great time you had, the better.
6. Get feedback from a female friend
Dating is not something we learn at school, we
simply have to jump in the deep end and see how
it goes. But, if you’re looking to improve your
dating skills, why not talk to a female friend.
Discuss your last date, where you went, what
you did and what you talked about. Everyone
has different opinions, but it can help to give
you some useful feedback on how to be better
on your next date.
So, you have a date lined up and you’ve seen
our top tips for dating. All that is left is to take
a deep breath, relax and try to enjoy being
yourself.
3. Be confident
Women value confidence highly when it comes
to choosing a guy. If you’re a little shy, practice
beforehand by talking to people you don’t know.
Or, whilst on the date, pick a subject that you’re
enthusiastic about, such as a hobby. She will
sense your confidence as you talk passionately
about it. Many people may also be shy about
their appearance. You may not be 6ft tall with