Friends Edition (January/February 2018)

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January/February 2018
Friends

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J A N U A R Y - F E B R U A R Y 2 0 1 8
CONTRIBUTORS
- writers -
REBECCA CARAWAY / KATE JONES / ANNA MCCAULEY /
AMANDA BROWN / JULIA FINDLEY / HAILEY HUDSON /
OLIVIA NICKERSON / SARAH CNOSSEN
- photography -
LEAH BUFFALINO
- design -
AMANDA BROWN
Volume No. 7, Issue No. 1
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
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THEME: FRIENDS
Get in Touch 04
Be a Better Listener 06
Put Your Phone Away 08
4 Super Fun, Super Cute, Super
Unique Gifts for Your Bestie
08
Put Your Phone Away
11
16
Prepare with Prayer
Make a Friend's Day 22
T-shirts 25
Credits 26
Front cover: Leah Buffalino
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My Friend and I False Alarm
14
Prepare with Prayer 16
Break, Bust, Burst 18
22
Make a Friend's Day
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EDITOR'S NOTE
Amanda Brown
E D I T O R - I N - C H I E F
The number one question I get when I tell people I'm homeschooled is, "But . . . what about your
social life?" For a while, the only social life I had was made up of church and co-op (extracurricular
activities). Then I got into soccer and my world expanded beyond anything I ever thought it could.
Yes, homeschoolers have a social life. It may not be as large as others', but as important as friends
are, good grades are more important.
As an introvert. making friends for me is difficult. No longer can I use the playground method:
marching up to someone and demanding they play with me. Now I'm in college, surrounded by
adults that are learning how to make a living.
This semester, I was walking around and so may people were waving at me. It took me a few
minutes to process all this. Like . . . wait! I made all these friends this semester? Who was this
friendly, outgoing Amanda last semester?: During Winter Break, I managed to retreat in my room
again. I wrote my book, listened to my music, and had very little to do with the outside world
besides work.
But it's good to be back in the company of my fellow humans. If you're an introvert, dare yourself to
shed your stereotype and try to be friendly. You'll amaze yourself . . . I mean, I amazed myself!
Me, the girl who used to write letters and ask people for permission to be their friend.
God made us to be a relational creature. As fun as it is to be all alone sometimes, reach out and
challenge yourself to be more friendly this year than you ever have.
Here's to making and being a friend!
Amanda Brown
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A FRIEND IS ONE THAT KNOWS
YOU AS YOU ARE, UNDERSTANDS
WHERE YOU HAVE BEEN, ACCEPTS
WHAT YOU HAVE BECOME, AND
STILL, GENTLY ALLOWS YOU TO
GROW.
- WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
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why you should write a long-lost friend
in touch
By Rebecca Caraway
get
T h e r e ' s s o m e t h i n g a b o u t o l d
f r i e n d s , t h a t ' s h o w t h e s a y i n g
g o e s .
And it's true we all have a
good friend who maybe you
grew up with, but then
something in your life tore
you apart from each other.
A few years pass but then
you're cleaning your room and
you come across an old photo
of the two of you and you're
hit with the pain of Nostalgia
and regret. You think about
contacting them but you are
worried that it might be weird
since too much time has
passed. Here’s a list of a few
tips and reasons why you
should contact them.
1 . T h e y m o s t
l i k e l y f e e l t h e
s a m e w a y .
If you and this person you
want to reach out to were
really close they most likely
miss you as much as you miss
them.
Depending on how you fell
apart there's a high chance
they miss you
and would love to reconnect
with you.
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Reconnecting
like you could be
friend
hope you found these tips
I
and don't forget that
helpful
takes a lot of effort
friendship
time to build but it's
and
worth it. Nothing is
absolutely
than a good friend who
better
knows you and will always
really
by your side!
stay
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2 . I t w i l l b e n e f i t
y o u r c o n f l i c t
challenges. Also you don't know what's been
going on with your friend since you’ve been
apart. They could be going through a rough
time and reconnecting with an old friend
like you could be just the thing they need.
r e s o l u t i o n s k i l l s .
Reconnecting with an old friend can be a
little awkward at first especially if you lost
touch because of a fight but if you are able
to work things out it will benefit you in the
long run. Fixing a lost relationship will
help you learn to deal with conflict in a
mature manner which will help you in the
future as an adult.
just the thing they need
4 . t h e y
e a c h o t h e r .
Since you and your former best friend
have been out of touch for a while, the two
of you have probably gone through a lot
of hard things since you were friends. The
great thing about old friends is that they
know all about your past and your former
scars so they know how to help you in
new
Old friends have known you since before
you were even really you, they’ve seen you
grow to the person you are today! Since
they've known you for so long they
understand you like most people can't. They
know who you used to be and if you take the
time they could get to know who you are
now which will create a bond that could last
forever.
u n d e r s t a n d y o u .
3 . Y o u c a n h e l p
5 . T h e r e ' s
n o t h i n g t o l o s e !
Even if you and your friend ended on
bad terms reaching out to them couldn't
make anything worse. Reaching out to
your friend would do no harm and if you
put enough effort into a rekindled
friendship it could be very rewarding. If
you really miss this friend take a risk!
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listener
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LISTEN UP JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2018
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q u e s t i o n
1.
C a r e
3.
As Christians (and good human beings in general) we
are supposed to love and care for others above
ourselves. The most important facet of being a good
listener is that you must take an active interest in
both the person and what they have to say.
others have to say – many times your
curiosity will be piqued and questions will
come naturally. When you care about
people you will have a genuine desire to
know more and keep them talking.
2. p a y If you truly care and are listening to what
a t t e n t i o n
Don’t let yourself get distracted. Put
your phone down. Sit still and look
directly into the other person's eyes:
show them that they are the most
important person to you in that
moment.
Some people talk more easily and word things better
than others do. And some enjoy talking so much that you
have to pay close attention to get to the heart of the
matter.
p a t i e n c e 4. h a v e
Focus: do not let a single thing they say
go in one ear and out the other. And
hardest of all: don’t get distracted by
your own problems. You can relate, but
don’t interject and try to give advice or
tell about your own experiences (this
shows that you think more about
yourself than about others).
Listening can be hard.
It takes time and willingness to put in an effort.
You may find yourself worn out after especially
deep conversations; but it is worth it. You will
never regret showing love to your fellow people
by listening to them: sometimes it is the only
thing we can do that will truly make an impact.
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w a y
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PUT YOUR PHONE AWAY JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2018
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We are living in a day and age where nearly every teenager is
in possession of a cell phone, smart phone, iPod, etc.
This fact is not altogether
bad. On the contrary, I’m
glad that I have my phone
as a way to communicate
and keep up with friends,
even when we’re not able to
see each other in person.
Even still,
is online communication
a decent substitute for
socializing and
communicating with
someone in person?
The short answer:
Absolutely not.
The long answer: I will
always value in-person
interaction with my friends
a hundred times as much as
I value texting with them.
As I said above, I enjoy
texting my friends- when
I’m not hanging out with
people. However, you can’t
compare text messages to a
real conversation with a
friend. And when we’re
spending time with
someone, that should be all that
we are focusing our attention
on.
We’ve all been in a
situation where we’re
hanging out with a group of
people and everyone is
constantly scrolling on their
phone. And it sucks. It’s
hard to carry out a decent
conversation with someone
who’s busy staring down at a
screen and trying to be
involved in many different
conversations.
Staring at your phone while
supposedly “hanging” out with
someone else says “I’m bored”.
It says “You are not
entertaining enough for
me”, and it says “I would
rather talk with the people
in my phone than socialize
with you”.
Maybe that’s not always the
intended meaning, but I
believe that it is the true
meaning. We all have
situations where we’re out
with friends and have
to take a call or text a
parents, but unless it’s 1.
An emergency or 2.
Involving a parent, it can
wait (rather like texting and
driving).
Being able to spend time
with a friend (or with a
group of friends) is one
of the greatest things in
life.
Enjoying the company of
someone I care about and
having real conversations
with them is something I
value very much, and I wish
our generation as a whole
would stop taking it for
granted.
Every time you’re in the
company of friends and you
pull out your phone “just to
check up on things”,
whether you’re writing a
long text to another friend
or sending a completely
meaningless photo of the
floor to your snapchat
streaks, you are wasting
time that you could be
spending with a friend.
By Emma Bigelow
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PUT YOUR PHONE AWAY JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2018
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So let's stop.
Let’s save our “snapchatting” and
“social texting” for when we
aren’t surrounded by peers,
friends, and family. Let’s try to
make the most of the
opportunities when we get to
enjoy the company of the people
we care about.
Friends, if you are in the company
of others, unless there is an
emergency, please put your phone
away.
By Emma Bigelow
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MY FRIEND AND I JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2018
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Summer camp: amazing times growing close to God and
the people you're stuck with for a month or more.
The past two summers it's what
I’ve done, which means I have a
ton of stories about things that
have happened.
This past summer takes the cake
though. The camp I worked at is in
the middle of the Mojave Desert so
it's hot and sandy; it also has
terrible cell phone reception. I had
two places on camp property that
my phone could easily send and
receive messages.
But only two days a week were we
allowed to go to my favorite spot:
The prayer Chapel. It was about a
10 minute walk from my cabin and
my friend and I would go up there
to watch the sun set and talk about
anything and everything.
This one day was one of the last
days we would get to do it together
because she was going home since
her contract was only for 6 of the
10 weeks. So after eating dinner
with a few staff who had invited us
over, we set off to go watch the sun
set. As we reached the top we saw
that some people had the same
idea: a few of the girl junior
counselors were up there taking
pictures of the beautiful landscape.
As they finished they started to
leave. Now the camp often told us
that there were snakes on property
and a few weeks before, our lovely
“GrUncle” (Grumpy Uncle . . . it's
another long story) had killed a
baby rattlesnake with a frying pan.
So we already knew that we needed
to be careful. But I had yet to see
one, and since it was so toasty, that
night I was wearing basketball
shorts and flip flops. The prayer
chapel was also set into some rocks
fairly high up.
As the counselors left, one of
them screamed, “OH MY, IT'S A
SNAKE”
I did nothing; I quite literally froze.
After they threw a few rocks at it,
they left. My friend and I stayed to
watch the rest of the sunset. Then
we decided to go and sit
somewhere with lights since it was
getting dark. Then we remembered
the snake. And since both of us had
on flip-flops we decided to text our
GrUncle and baby brother. We told
them the situation, simply by
saying “Snake, Prayer Chapel,
HURRY.”
Next thing we know, we see
headlights. And then we realize that
they got their counselor to drive
them down and they are
brandishing shovels. When they
reach the top ,they ask where the
snake went and we tell them we
have no idea. We just needed them
to know that we were in danger and
needed help, not that we were
idiots that would chase a
rattlesnake while we had on flip
flops.
To say they were disappointed is an
understatement. They left without
a word and my friend and I set off
into what we later found out was a
Coyote den. But that's another
story for another day.
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with prayer
dealing with people you can't stand
b y h a i l e y h u d s o n
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PREPARE WITH PRAYER JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2018
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Last year I started having a big
problem with someone in my life.
Although this person and I
used to spent lots of time
together, I suddenly
couldn’t stand her—and I
wanted to be far away. The
drama this person caused
started to really get on my
nerves; it was no fun to do
anything with them
because they were always
complaining, poking their
nose into someone else’s
business, or talking
negatively about someone
behind their back. Not
only is this annoying and
not something I want to
join in on, but it’s
something that I as a
Christian am actually
commanded not to join in
on. Recently I selected
several new Bible verses to
memorize. One of them
was 2 Timothy 2:22-23,
“Flee the evil desires of
youth and pursue
righteousness, faith, love
and peace, along with those
who call on the Lord out of a
pure heart. Don’t have
anything to do with foolish
and stupid arguments,
because you know they
produce quarrels.”
If someone is causing
drama and dragging you
down, it’s completely okay
to remove yourself from
that situation. You are not
obligated to be best friends
with everyone—in fact,
your closest friends need
to be fellow Christians
who are pushing you
closer to God. However,
because of activities and
schedules and life, you
might not be able to get
away from that person you
can’t stand—which is
exactly what happened to
me. I was still seeing this
person at least once a
week. Since I couldn’t
remove myself from the
situation, I needed to find
a solution. As I considered
the situation, I finally
realized that there was a
simple answer: pray.
Before each inevitable
meeting with this person, I
began to saturate both of
us in prayer—prayer for
my friend that she would
grow closer to God and
prayer for myself that I
would act kind and loving
towards her even if she
was difficult to be around.
It’s been a few months
since I have begun
preparing myself in this
way, and I don’t think this
person has grown any less
difficult. She’s still very
annoying to be around.
However—I think, and I
hope, that I have changed.
As I seek to show God’s
love to everyone, even
annoying people, I think I
am softening and growing
and preparing to take on a
world full of annoying
people in the same way
that Jesus would—with
love. Prepare yourself with
prayer, and you can do the
same.
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propped against a pillow.
Her heart felt heavy, and
she knew she needed help.
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"Lyla, can you come here?
I need to talk to you about
something." Lyla walked
into the room and took a
seat next to Sarah.
and awkward, like a wedge
has been driven between
us. I just don't know what
to do! Maybe I should have
responded differently... but
doesn't it matter that she
doesn't spend as much
time with me as before?
Doesn't it matter how I
feel?"
Lyla smiled. "This sounds
similar to something that
happened to me and my
best friend as a kid. I won't
go into all of the details
now, but I know exactly
what to say to you."
"What's up?" Sarah took a
deep breath as the story
spilled out.
"A few months ago, I was
upset with Audrey for
befriending that new girl
in school. Because she
wasn't spending as much
time with me as before, I
assumed the worst about
her. I just felt so hurt and
betrayed. I had thought
that we were best friends,
but having her spend
more and more time with
the new girl made it seem
like I was losing her
forever. Audrey keeps
assuring me that nothing
will ever replace the kind
of friendship that we have,
but I can't keep these
bitter, jealous feelings
from bubbling up. Now
whenever I talk to her, our
conversation is strained
Sarah groaned. "What's
that?"
"Yes, it matters how you feel,
but I don't think Audrey's
doing anything wrong. It's
good that she's reaching
out to the new girl at
school. Honestly, Sarah, to
me it seems that the
problem's more with you.
Have you looked at how
you've been acting towards
Audrey? C'mon, let's go to
the Bible."
"Lyla, I know what verse
you're going to bring up. I
just need some help
getting this resolved with
Audrey. That's all." Lyla
patted her on the back.
"Well, my dear sister, this
is best place to get help.
Ah, here it is!
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1 Corinthians 13. Now I'll
start listing off things that
define what love is, and
you examine if that's how
you've been acting to
Audrey, okay?"
Sarah sighed. "Fine, I'll do
it. Go ahead."
love
is patient
is kind
does not envy
is not prideful or
puffed up
does not behave
rudely or seek
its own desires
is not provoked
thinks no evil
bears all things
hopes all things
endures all
things
believes all
things.
of the most popular
genres of our day and
Well, I'll leave it there.
What do you think?"
Sarah swallowed hard. "I
think..." She cleared her
throat. "I think I've pretty
much failed on every one
of those things. I guess I
felt so hurt and abandoned
I didn't even realize just
how cold and bitter
and...totally distrustful I
was being towards
someone who's always
been good and loyal to
me. How could I have
been such an awful
friend?"
"I know, I have too. But
Sarah, you can still do
something about it. Don't
give up now. I'm sure
Audrey will forgive you.
Although there's Someone
else you should ask for
forgiveness first though."
Sarah nodded. "I know. I
need to ask for God's
forgiveness. I'll do it right
now, and then I'll call
Audrey."
She gave her sister a hug.
"Thanks, Lyla.
Jealousy,
anger,
doubts,
gossip,
mistrust
these are just a few of the
things that can destroy
friendships, or at the very
least damage them. You
may wonder how you
could ever think that way
towards a good friend, or
maybe you're wondering,
"How do those things even
start to form and cause
issues?"
Well, it's one word. Sin.
Sin is anything you think,
do, or say that is wrong.
That's why there are these
kinds of problems.
Jealousy, anger, doubts,
gossip, mistrust – all of
these and others can
slowly build up over time
because of little things.
I've had my own
experiences with these
problems. A long time ago
I let jealousy, doubts,
mistrust, and anger all get
ahold of my heart. It didn't
come like a big flash and
then bang- no, it started
with little seeds getting
planted in my heart that I
watered, and they ended
up growing into a thistle
bush.
Perhaps some of my fears
were grounded, but I think
most of them were not. I
sinned against my friend
and against God, all
because of my own
irrational fears, selfishness,
and pride.
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Usually most people don't
recognize the root
problem of their sin (yes,
I'm using a lot of plant
metaphors). I know that I
didn't realize it.
Oftentimes we think about
sin as the surface sin that
is most able to be seen, but
the root problems for
most sins are selfishness
and pride. Once we get
down to the root of sin
and dig it out, it's easier
for the sins that you
commit as a result of
selfishness and pride to
wither away.
Christ as our Saviour, and
believe that He took our
sins upon Himself, we can
be saved! Isn't that great
news?
Now that we've established
the root problem, we can
focus on these more easily
seen "busters". Let's take
jealousy, for example, and
see what the Bible has to
say about that.
1 Corinthians 13:4 – "Love is patient,
love is kind. It does not envy, it does not
You see, we're all sinners.
We're born sinful.
boast, it is not proud."
Many, many years ago sin
entered the world, and we
were destined for hell.
That's the cold hard truth.
However, God promised
that He would send His
Son to save His people
from their sins. We could
never have done anything
on our own to save
ourselves from our sin,
and that's the amazing
thing about the gospel.
God sent His only Son,
Jesus, to come to the earth
as a baby, then when He
was grown into a man, die
on the cross to save us
from our sins. If we only
repent of our sins, trust
Philippians 2:3 - "Do nothing out of
selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather,
in humility value others above
yourselves."
Let's see what the Bible has
to say about gossip.
Ephesians 2:9 – "Do not let any
unwholesome talk come out of your
mouths, but only what is helpful for
building others up according to their
needs, that it may benefit those who
listen."
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16:28 – "A
Proverbs
person
perverse
up conflict,
stirs
a gossip
and
close
separates
You still with me?
Friendships have a weak
base when they grow on
any of these problems, and
that's why it's so important
to get them while they are
still small, to dig up the
root before it has a chance
to spread and grow
deeper.
You see, things such as
jealousy or mistrust,
doubts or gossip towards
your friend also affects the
way you think about them,
not just your friendship
with them. These little
seeds can grow into
something that causes
significant damage and
hurt, just like we saw in the
little story at the beginning
of this article.
If you feel as if you've
already done something
like this, it's not the end.
My friend and I have a
stronger friendship than
ever, even after going
through something like
this. Ask God for the
wisdom to know what to
do, and look to His word
for guidance! Believe me,
girl, it helps! And if you've
already put your faith in
Jesus Christ for salvation,
you'll know that Jesus will
forgive you for whatever
mistakes you make and
have made.
I encourage you that if you
are struggling with these
troubles, talk to your
parents, pastor, youth
leader, older sister, or a
godly friend.
Most importantly,
however, just lay it all
before God. He's the
number One person to go
to for all of your troubles,
and it really helps! God
cares so much about you,
and He loves you more
than you can ever imagine.
Don't try to hold it all in or
take care of it yourself.
Keep fighting against the
sin that is trying to get hold
of your heart, and keep
building up your spiritual
armor to fight against
Satan and sin. I know you
can do it, with God's help!
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Send random
texts of
encourageement
S e n d r a n d o m t e x t s o f
E n c o u r a g e m e n t .
This could include goofy (clean) jokes, adorable motivational
illustrations, or a simple phrase or sentence that says, “thinking
of you.”
Usually, when a friend comes to my mind, however randomly, I
take it as a God-hint to pray for them. Who knows? They could
be struggling with a decision or a parent or a circumstance in
that very moment, and your text could be the well-timed bit of
sunshine parting their stormy clouds. Don't hesitate! Those
moments can be fleeting, and whether you will ever know or
not, you could be the cause of a smile on their face.
l i s t e n !
Be willing to simply listen. No matter the topic, or how many
times you may have heard the same thing over and over, some
people need a soundboard to release the stress they've let build
up and to vent their frustrations.
However, after they have voiced possibly their entire life story
– be it from birth to present day, or merely the past TWO days
– DO NOT simply shrug them off with a, “Wow. That's tough.”
Take the opportunity to be an Encourager. Someone once said
“Kindness costs nothing.” It's the same with encouragement.
You will serve to strengthen a dear friendship AND lift them up
in mind and spirit. You never know, they may one day return
the kindness and be your soundboard.
Send random
texts of
encourageement
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This point practically sums up all of the above: Be an
Encourager. Have a willingness to listen. Don't take for granted
the little things. And always do one better. All of these
combined will make you a pretty good friend.
w i s h t o h a v e .
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Send random
texts of
encourageement
This could be the simple act of sharing a ponytail (or mascara)
to a girl in need, offering your extra napkin, a friendly hug, or
surprising your bestie with their favorite coffee drink. I don't
know anyone who doesn't like to receive gifts, do you? It's nice
knowing you make an impact on someone's life and that they
would take the time to do something for you.
i t ' s t h e l i t t l e t h i n g s .
Don't take for granted the people God places in your path. It
doesn't have to be a gift. It could be the offer to help study for
an upcoming test, or help in washing a new car, you name it.
Whatever it is, it's usually the little things that mean the most.
g o t h e s e c o n d m i l e . d o
This could go right along with the point about using little things
to brighten a friend's day and will definitely apply to life in
general. You will find joy in many things, people included, if
you apply this virtue diligently.
o n e b e t t e r !
If a friend asks a favor that is in your power to accomplish, do
it. But always do one better. What does that mean? If they ask
you for desperate help in studying, take it up a level and make
it FUN. Add little goals for each chapter/module/section
accomplished. Maybe recite flash cards to each other in wacky
accents – this could be a humorous way to recall the answers
when needed.
Strive for the highest. Be servant-hearted, like Christ, and take
it up a notch in every task. Be that your chores at home,
responsibilities to your family, and in how much you value
your friendships.
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