GYM JITTERS AND RUGGER BUGGERS - Will Fennell
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90 DNA<br />
Sydney Convict Fernando<br />
Peres on the team’s infamous<br />
Rugger Bugger fundraising<br />
strip show: “We have to reveal<br />
all our bits. And, yes, some are<br />
bigger than others!”<br />
Gym jitters<br />
and ruGGer<br />
buGGers<br />
Gay men aren’t good at sports?<br />
Don’t be ridiculous. Sydney Convict,<br />
Fernando Peres discusses the long<br />
and the short(s) of gay rugby.
I still remember vividly the first time I<br />
walked into a gym. I had just moved from<br />
country New South Wales to the intense<br />
muscle culture of the early ’90s Sydney gay<br />
scene. I didn’t necessarily want to build<br />
muscle, but like a David Attenborough,<br />
documentary Trials Of The Gay Male,<br />
pumping iron was a matter of survival in<br />
my new environment.<br />
For weeks I talked myself into going…<br />
and then out of going… and then back<br />
into going. Finally, after gathering all my<br />
psychological strength, I moved in on<br />
ground zero. About five metres from the<br />
entrance to the gym I became paralysed<br />
with fear, slowing my cautious gait until I<br />
was at a standstill.<br />
What lay behind those glass doors was<br />
the intimidating sight of bulging biceps,<br />
rippling pectorals and snarling attitude of<br />
the kind that only dance music, gorgeous<br />
men and a needle full of testosterone<br />
could bring. I turned and ran. I would<br />
rather have perished looking like Kate<br />
Moss than show them my skin and bones<br />
struggling to bench 10kg.<br />
Did I go back? Eventually, yes – but for<br />
nearly 18 months I trained my scrawny body<br />
at 10pm when the gym was empty, until<br />
I felt I was ready to slide into some Lycra<br />
(as you did then) and present myself at the<br />
more gay-popular 6pm shift. I still shudder<br />
at the thought… of Lycra, not the gym.<br />
Today, I care less about what people<br />
think and I love hitting the gym. Perhaps<br />
that’s one of the positives of getting<br />
through your twenties … okay, thirties!<br />
As I looked around the Mardi Gras<br />
party this year, it was clear there’s been<br />
a real shift in what Aussie men (not to<br />
mention all the imports, as well) now<br />
see as the textbook physique. There are<br />
less of the steroidal “muscle boys” that<br />
once crowded the dance floor with their<br />
attitude; what has evolved are gay men<br />
looking fit and healthy, with nice, natural,<br />
muscular and lean physiques. What’s<br />
pleasing about this change is that for<br />
most of us, with a bit of hard work (and<br />
less ice cream), this build is obtainable.<br />
I often hear, “I want to look like a DNA<br />
cover boy,” but talk alone isn’t going<br />
to get you there; those dreamy men<br />
work hard. Yes, genetics do play a role,<br />
but remember, was it Confucius who<br />
said, “There is always a hard floor under<br />
the unsightly carpet?” Probably not, but<br />
whoever it was knew what they were<br />
talking about.<br />
Where do you start? First, buy a pair of<br />
jeans two sizes too small or a tank top to<br />
show off your future biceps and make it your<br />
target to slide into them with confidence as<br />
soon as possible. Next step is getting your<br />
body moving. If the gym is not your thing<br />
(either too intimidating or too boring) my<br />
suggestion is start playing some sport.<br />
There’s something undeniably sexy<br />
about a man that plays sport. I think it’s<br />
because sportsmen train their bodies to<br />
be strong and fit, not just to prance and<br />
parade around Bondi Beach in a pair of<br />
barely-there bathers.<br />
And so I tracked down (perhaps stalked)<br />
a member of the gay rugby team, the<br />
Sydney Convicts, to chat about balls,<br />
grooming and gay footballers. Perhaps<br />
it’s the notion of big, muscled, dirty legs<br />
in short shorts, or the fact that they’re<br />
specialists with balls? I don’t know (or care)<br />
what it is; rugby players get my vote as the<br />
ultimate sexy sportsmen.<br />
Before meeting up with Fernando<br />
Peres to get the rugby lowdown, I had a<br />
simple request – arrive at the interview in<br />
football shorts or I’d cut the editorial. Yes,<br />
perhaps it bordered on journalistic sexual<br />
harassment, but it was sooooooo worth it!<br />
<strong>Will</strong>: Hi Fernando, before we start, can<br />
you remove your shirt? Okay, that’s<br />
better. How did you get involved with<br />
the gay rugby team?<br />
Fernando Peres: I always liked playing<br />
team sports and the idea of playing for a<br />
gay rugby team appealed to me. When<br />
I was living in London six years ago, I<br />
started playing for the Kings Cross Steelers<br />
who are the first open-membership gay<br />
and bisexual rugby club in the world.<br />
Rugby is a tough game and it draws on<br />
my many physical talents on the paddock.<br />
I’ve always enjoyed contact sports; I used<br />
to do Jiu Jitsu when I was younger, so for<br />
me it was an easy crossover to play rugby.<br />
I just had to get used to passing and<br />
running with the ball. I’ve also made some<br />
good friends through playing rugby.<br />
Do you have to be a man that kisses<br />
men to be on the team?<br />
No. The Sydney Convicts are very open<br />
and it doesn’t matter if you’re gay, bisexual<br />
or straight. Everyone is welcome regardless<br />
of experience or sexual orientation.<br />
Do the players pay special attention to<br />
their hair before going onto the field?<br />
You can name names?<br />
Everyone wants to look their best when<br />
they’re on show or playing football. It’s<br />
rumored that in our dressing room hair<br />
product quickly passes through many<br />
hands. As for names, we have a saying,<br />
“What goes on the paddock, stays on the<br />
paddock.” So no, no names this time but<br />
if you happened to pick any of our back<br />
line players, there’s a very good chance<br />
you’d find your man, and receive a free hair<br />
consultation to boot.<br />
There has been a lot of media attention<br />
given to your team. Why do you think<br />
this is?<br />
We’re the first gay rugby club in Australia;<br />
we’ve broken many stereotypes through<br />
the quality of our football. We’re<br />
committed to building a competitive, social<br />
GroominG<br />
with <strong>Will</strong> <strong>Fennell</strong><br />
and diverse club that welcomes players.<br />
Your team is notorious for pulling their<br />
pants down on stage. Tell us more.<br />
Ah yes, Rugger Bugger. It’s one of the<br />
many fund-raisers we do. Getting rugby<br />
boys on stage is one thing, getting<br />
them to dance and take their clothes<br />
off is another. I was part of last year’s<br />
performance and I can say it was great to<br />
see so many of the team get up on stage<br />
and perform to a wonderfully supportive<br />
crowd even if in the end we have to<br />
reveal all our bits. And yes, some girls are<br />
bigger than others!<br />
What is your grooming routine?<br />
I’m Brazilian and all Brazilians know the<br />
importance of moisturising. Our first<br />
childhood lesson from our mothers is how<br />
to lather our bodies in this liquid gold.<br />
We’re experts at it. As for my routine,<br />
it consists of an occasional scrub and<br />
cleanse, followed by a mild moisturiser<br />
and sun block. In the evening I use night<br />
creams for under my eyes, face and body.<br />
Take me into the post-game showers (I<br />
don’t mean literally, well actually, come<br />
to think of it, why not?) Is it as steamy as<br />
we all imagine? Does anyone ever drop<br />
the soap?<br />
Unfortunately (or fortunately), nothing<br />
happens, no matter where the soap may<br />
end up! After the game, the only thing that<br />
comes to mind is a cold beer!<br />
Which sportsman do you respect and admire?<br />
Ben Cohen and his foundation, Standup<br />
Against Bullying. Ben’s a great football<br />
player and a very, very sexy man.<br />
What would you say to someone that<br />
suggests gay men aren’t good at sport?<br />
I’d say, “don’t be ridiculous!” Gay men are<br />
no better or worse at sport than straight<br />
men. The perception exists partly because<br />
elite gay sports people often don’t come<br />
out. With little in the way of role models,<br />
talented gay youth often choose careers<br />
away from sport.<br />
Do you prefer hairy or smooth balls on a man?<br />
A light dusting of hair is always nice.<br />
Thanks, after that answer there goes my<br />
ball waxing business. Finally Fernando,<br />
I seriously need help with balls? I mean,<br />
can you teach me to catch a ball?<br />
Well, we can teach you how to catch a<br />
ball or balls. Rugby balls are quite big so<br />
it should be even easier for you to master.<br />
You’re always welcome (as everyone is)<br />
to come down and join us in our weekly<br />
training sessions. We train every Tuesday<br />
at 6:30pm in Rushcutter’s Bay Park and<br />
Thursday’s again at 6:30pm at Woollahra<br />
grounds in Rose Bay. Or pop down and<br />
support us at one of our weekly Saturday<br />
matches as part of the Sydney suburban<br />
competition.<br />
For more on how to join the rugby team or lend your support<br />
go to sydneyconvicts.org. For more about a gay sport team<br />
near you check out teamsydney.org.au or gaysports.net.au/<br />
index.php<br />
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proDUctS GroominG<br />
Sporting ScentS<br />
When I hear about the<br />
obligatory ‘sport’ issue of<br />
a popular fragrance I begin<br />
to hum the opening bars<br />
of ABBA’s Money, Money,<br />
Money. I try to remain openminded,<br />
but rarely does the<br />
reissued sporty fragrance<br />
come close to the original<br />
and I’m left thinking why did<br />
they bother?<br />
Recently, I asked my<br />
twitter followers what<br />
sport version of a wellliked<br />
fragrance actually hit<br />
the mark. There was an<br />
undeniable favourite: Chanel<br />
Allure Homme Sport. I asked<br />
my mate the Grooming<br />
Guru, Lee Kynaston, to share<br />
his thoughts on the matter. Interestingly, he agreed with my<br />
tweeps regarding Chanel.<br />
According to the Guru, “The word sport has now become<br />
synonymous with a fragrance that’s light or fresh, energising<br />
or invigorating – presumably because it sounds nice and<br />
masculine! It’s partly a marketing<br />
ploy to get you to buy more<br />
fragrance, but some offer an<br />
interesting twist on your favourite<br />
fragrance, so are worth checking<br />
out. A fragrance that exceeds the<br />
original is Chanel Allure Homme<br />
Sport – a sparklingly fresh and<br />
sexy variant that has actually<br />
managed to become a bit of a<br />
classic in its own right. No mean<br />
feat for a sport version! One<br />
that misses the mark is Dolce &<br />
Gabbana’s The One Sport, which<br />
is quite horrible. In fact, the only<br />
word I can think of to describe it<br />
is acrid. It’s a shame because The<br />
One is an excellent fragrance.”<br />
For more go to groomingguru.co.uk<br />
repair from exerciSe<br />
Being active is good news for your health but over<br />
exercising can actually stress the body, creating aging<br />
free radicals. Tammy Farrell from Core Health Consulting<br />
suggests, “When you’re exercising make sure you’re<br />
consuming lots of antioxidant rich goodies such as white tea,<br />
kiwi fruit and vitamin C.” She assures me a good dose of<br />
antioxidants each day will help repair the body from exercise<br />
and keep you looking younger.<br />
For more go to corehealthconsulting.com.au<br />
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the gym bag<br />
My last swish gym bag had 12 pockets<br />
and an in-built water fountain. However,<br />
after discovering a protein shake in a<br />
secret chamber that was so old<br />
it had become cheese, I knew<br />
it was time to streamline. The<br />
real challenge lay in finding<br />
a simple sports bag, but<br />
my search ended at<br />
American Apparel.<br />
These nifty tote<br />
style bags<br />
come in a<br />
great range<br />
of colours<br />
and there’s<br />
not a (where<br />
the F@%K are<br />
my keys) pocket<br />
in sight.<br />
For more go to store.<br />
americanapparel.com.au<br />
Keep it clean<br />
Sweat is a playground for bacteria,<br />
so for the man that wants to smell<br />
like a man, if the little gremlins<br />
under your arms aren’t kept under<br />
control, you’ll pong like week-old<br />
compost when you exercise. I’m not<br />
partial to highly-scented deodorants<br />
myself, so I recommend Nivea For<br />
Men Silver Protect Roll-On. The<br />
silver ions are highly active and fight<br />
against bacteria providing 48-hour<br />
antiperspirant protection, with very<br />
little fragrance.<br />
Quick tip: for real, long-term<br />
protection, use an anti-bacterial<br />
wash under your arms to kill the<br />
bacteria before using deodorants.<br />
the problem…<br />
Ingrown hairs and blemishes from<br />
waxing and shaving are causing your<br />
skin to look like a ‘Hello-Domino-<br />
Pizza-Super-Supreme’.<br />
the anSwer…<br />
The Anthony Logistics range rocks,<br />
especially the Ingrown Hair Treatment.<br />
It contains glycolic, salicylic and<br />
phytic acids to gently remove dead<br />
skin, fight bacteria and free the<br />
hair. The gel is easy to apply and<br />
is moisturising, not drying. Added<br />
willowherb and lavender soothe<br />
and calm the skin and help prevent<br />
unsightly bumps and lumps.<br />
For more go to kineticblue.com.au<br />
To make a booking with <strong>Will</strong> <strong>Fennell</strong> call <strong>Will</strong> and<br />
Peta on (02) 9388 0221 or go to willandpeta.com or<br />
willfennell.com.au