2012 Rapport, Special Annual Report Edition - Massachusetts ...
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“<br />
Dr. Harriet Berman with<br />
her granddaughter, Nora.<br />
You really raise the bar for<br />
all of us,” someone at work<br />
recently told MSPP alumna<br />
Nancy gaulin, PsyD. “That’s<br />
because i was trained by<br />
the best,” Nancy thought at the time.<br />
And, by “the best” she meant Dr. Harriet<br />
Berman, her teacher, mentor, and,<br />
ultimately, her colleague and dear friend.<br />
Harriet died in May this year, leaving<br />
an indelible legacy for Nancy and many<br />
others in Boston’s therapeutic community.<br />
“Some people are part of the roots of who<br />
you are as a person and as a professional and<br />
others are part of the branches,” says Nancy,<br />
who graduated from MSPP in 2006 and is<br />
now a staff psychologist at McLean Hospital<br />
and co-founder and staff psychologist at<br />
Facing Cancer Together. “Harriet is in<br />
my roots. She honed me as a clinician. She<br />
was there when i began to understand<br />
that this is my life’s work and she is always<br />
there with me now as i sit with clients.”<br />
Harriet, who was married to Stanley<br />
Berman, PhD, MSPP’s Dean of Programs<br />
of Advanced Study, earned her doctorate in<br />
psychology at Ferkauf graduate School of<br />
Psychology in 1983 and began teaching at<br />
MSPP in 1988. When she was diagnosed<br />
with breast cancer in 1998, she had an<br />
enhanced perspective on her work at the<br />
Wellness Community of greater Boston.<br />
More than Director of Training and Clinical<br />
Vice President, she was also a cancer patient.<br />
When the Wellness Community had to<br />
close their doors in 2008, Harriet and five<br />
colleagues founded Facing Cancer Together:<br />
A Community of Hope. Harriet served<br />
as the new organization’s first executive<br />
Director. Both organizations are dedicated<br />
to supporting cancer patients. Harriet<br />
continued to be a teacher, friend, colleague<br />
and mentor at MSPP until she was too<br />
ill to continue in her multiple roles.<br />
“i am still learning from Harriet,” says<br />
Quinn Pertman, PsyD, “Things she told<br />
me years ago that i didn’t understand<br />
fully at the time, i now see as true.”<br />
Quinn often uses the word “trust” in<br />
describing her beloved former teacher.<br />
“Harriet had the insight, wisdom and<br />
skill to trust that i would find my own way<br />
of helping clients,” says Quinn. “She didn’t<br />
want me to do it her way. She wanted me<br />
to find something within me. She knew<br />
it was there and helped me trust myself<br />
as a therapist. She had the ability to keep<br />
an eye on the client’s needs and allow me<br />
to find my bearings at the same time.”<br />
“And, i knew i could trust Harriet to<br />
support me even as she was going through<br />
difficult times herself. She never forgot what<br />
i needed,” adds Quinn, who graduated in<br />
2011 and is now doing post-doctoral work at<br />
Facing Cancer Together. “even after she was<br />
too sick to work, she was there at my doctoral<br />
colloquium presentation. it meant a lot to me.”<br />
Karen Fasciano, PsyD, feels Harriet’s<br />
impact in every dimension of her life.<br />
“in class, she taught me about women’s<br />
development, which enhanced my<br />
clinical skills and personal growth. As<br />
my supervisor, she gave honest, direct<br />
feedback, but, at the same time, it was always<br />
deeply compassionate and thoughtful,”<br />
says Karen, who graduated in 1996.<br />
“i feel like Harriet and i spoke a<br />
common language and that my professional<br />
life was modeled by her. She inspired<br />
me with her passion for helping people,<br />
especially people who were ill or dying<br />
from cancer. ‘You are not going to fix the<br />
situation’ she would say, ‘but you can try to<br />
give some insight that may help a person<br />
Remembering<br />
Dr. harriet<br />
Berman<br />
beloved teacher,<br />
mentor and<br />
friend<br />
To honor the memory of this<br />
remarkable voice for compassion<br />
and for extraordinary teaching,<br />
an anonymous donor has<br />
offered a Challenge grant.<br />
This generous donor will match<br />
every dollar made to the Harriet<br />
Berman Fund at MSPP before<br />
March 2, 2013. Later in the<br />
spring, MSPP will dedicate a<br />
classroom on campus in<br />
Dr. Berman’s honor.<br />
Please contact the<br />
Development office at<br />
617-327-6777 x1419<br />
to make a donation that<br />
will automatically double.<br />
Your kindness<br />
is greatly appreciated.<br />
adjust a little better.’ i learned that from<br />
her and use it every day in my work.”<br />
Harriet was passionate about her work<br />
in health psychology, especially psychooncology,<br />
and about teaching the next<br />
generation of psychologists at MSPP and<br />
at The Wellness Community of greater<br />
Boston. “My students,” she wrote, near<br />
the end of her life, “…the awe of starting a<br />
new career, their need for connection and<br />
their incredible urge to serve and to heal.”<br />
When Harriet was confronting her own<br />
death, “She taught me at her most vulnerable<br />
time, through her honesty, what it was really<br />
like to have cancer,” says Karen, who has<br />
chosen psycho-oncology as her specialty. She<br />
is now the director of Young Adult Mental<br />
Health at Dana Farber Cancer institute.<br />
“We all have a few people who have<br />
been important to us in more ways then<br />
they will ever know. For me, that person<br />
was Harriet Berman, and i am sure that is<br />
also true for many other people as well.” ◗<br />
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