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“<br />

Dr. Harriet Berman with<br />

her granddaughter, Nora.<br />

You really raise the bar for<br />

all of us,” someone at work<br />

recently told MSPP alumna<br />

Nancy gaulin, PsyD. “That’s<br />

because i was trained by<br />

the best,” Nancy thought at the time.<br />

And, by “the best” she meant Dr. Harriet<br />

Berman, her teacher, mentor, and,<br />

ultimately, her colleague and dear friend.<br />

Harriet died in May this year, leaving<br />

an indelible legacy for Nancy and many<br />

others in Boston’s therapeutic community.<br />

“Some people are part of the roots of who<br />

you are as a person and as a professional and<br />

others are part of the branches,” says Nancy,<br />

who graduated from MSPP in 2006 and is<br />

now a staff psychologist at McLean Hospital<br />

and co-founder and staff psychologist at<br />

Facing Cancer Together. “Harriet is in<br />

my roots. She honed me as a clinician. She<br />

was there when i began to understand<br />

that this is my life’s work and she is always<br />

there with me now as i sit with clients.”<br />

Harriet, who was married to Stanley<br />

Berman, PhD, MSPP’s Dean of Programs<br />

of Advanced Study, earned her doctorate in<br />

psychology at Ferkauf graduate School of<br />

Psychology in 1983 and began teaching at<br />

MSPP in 1988. When she was diagnosed<br />

with breast cancer in 1998, she had an<br />

enhanced perspective on her work at the<br />

Wellness Community of greater Boston.<br />

More than Director of Training and Clinical<br />

Vice President, she was also a cancer patient.<br />

When the Wellness Community had to<br />

close their doors in 2008, Harriet and five<br />

colleagues founded Facing Cancer Together:<br />

A Community of Hope. Harriet served<br />

as the new organization’s first executive<br />

Director. Both organizations are dedicated<br />

to supporting cancer patients. Harriet<br />

continued to be a teacher, friend, colleague<br />

and mentor at MSPP until she was too<br />

ill to continue in her multiple roles.<br />

“i am still learning from Harriet,” says<br />

Quinn Pertman, PsyD, “Things she told<br />

me years ago that i didn’t understand<br />

fully at the time, i now see as true.”<br />

Quinn often uses the word “trust” in<br />

describing her beloved former teacher.<br />

“Harriet had the insight, wisdom and<br />

skill to trust that i would find my own way<br />

of helping clients,” says Quinn. “She didn’t<br />

want me to do it her way. She wanted me<br />

to find something within me. She knew<br />

it was there and helped me trust myself<br />

as a therapist. She had the ability to keep<br />

an eye on the client’s needs and allow me<br />

to find my bearings at the same time.”<br />

“And, i knew i could trust Harriet to<br />

support me even as she was going through<br />

difficult times herself. She never forgot what<br />

i needed,” adds Quinn, who graduated in<br />

2011 and is now doing post-doctoral work at<br />

Facing Cancer Together. “even after she was<br />

too sick to work, she was there at my doctoral<br />

colloquium presentation. it meant a lot to me.”<br />

Karen Fasciano, PsyD, feels Harriet’s<br />

impact in every dimension of her life.<br />

“in class, she taught me about women’s<br />

development, which enhanced my<br />

clinical skills and personal growth. As<br />

my supervisor, she gave honest, direct<br />

feedback, but, at the same time, it was always<br />

deeply compassionate and thoughtful,”<br />

says Karen, who graduated in 1996.<br />

“i feel like Harriet and i spoke a<br />

common language and that my professional<br />

life was modeled by her. She inspired<br />

me with her passion for helping people,<br />

especially people who were ill or dying<br />

from cancer. ‘You are not going to fix the<br />

situation’ she would say, ‘but you can try to<br />

give some insight that may help a person<br />

Remembering<br />

Dr. harriet<br />

Berman<br />

beloved teacher,<br />

mentor and<br />

friend<br />

To honor the memory of this<br />

remarkable voice for compassion<br />

and for extraordinary teaching,<br />

an anonymous donor has<br />

offered a Challenge grant.<br />

This generous donor will match<br />

every dollar made to the Harriet<br />

Berman Fund at MSPP before<br />

March 2, 2013. Later in the<br />

spring, MSPP will dedicate a<br />

classroom on campus in<br />

Dr. Berman’s honor.<br />

Please contact the<br />

Development office at<br />

617-327-6777 x1419<br />

to make a donation that<br />

will automatically double.<br />

Your kindness<br />

is greatly appreciated.<br />

adjust a little better.’ i learned that from<br />

her and use it every day in my work.”<br />

Harriet was passionate about her work<br />

in health psychology, especially psychooncology,<br />

and about teaching the next<br />

generation of psychologists at MSPP and<br />

at The Wellness Community of greater<br />

Boston. “My students,” she wrote, near<br />

the end of her life, “…the awe of starting a<br />

new career, their need for connection and<br />

their incredible urge to serve and to heal.”<br />

When Harriet was confronting her own<br />

death, “She taught me at her most vulnerable<br />

time, through her honesty, what it was really<br />

like to have cancer,” says Karen, who has<br />

chosen psycho-oncology as her specialty. She<br />

is now the director of Young Adult Mental<br />

Health at Dana Farber Cancer institute.<br />

“We all have a few people who have<br />

been important to us in more ways then<br />

they will ever know. For me, that person<br />

was Harriet Berman, and i am sure that is<br />

also true for many other people as well.” ◗<br />

M s P P r a P P o rt 1 fa l l 2 0 1 2 1 1

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