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A Guiding Light<br />

Telephone: 01895 556560


Virtual T<strong>our</strong>s now available<br />

see page 27<br />

About <strong>Breakspear</strong><br />

Contact information & Opening H<strong>our</strong>s ............................ 4<br />

Directions by Car, Bus, Tube & Taxi ............................. 5-6<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> His<strong>to</strong>ry & The Chapels ...................................7<br />

Facilities for Disabled Persons & Memorials ................... 8<br />

Local Area & Crema<strong>to</strong>rium Map ...................................... 9<br />

Memorial Facilities<br />

The Book of Remembrance .............................................10<br />

The Book of Remembrance Example .............................. 11<br />

Remembrance Cards & Miniature Books........................12<br />

Memorial Roses ...............................................................13<br />

Ornamental Trees & Shrubs ............................................14<br />

Cloister Wall Plates..........................................................15<br />

Garden Niche ...................................................................16<br />

Memorial Vase ................................................................. 17<br />

Garden Memorial Scheme & Additional Memorials ......18<br />

Memorial Window & Hall of Memory Window ..............19<br />

Frequently Asked Questions<br />

27 common questions answered ...............................20-26<br />

New Technology<br />

Website, Virtual T<strong>our</strong>s & Services Online .......................27<br />

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Contact Information<br />

All enquiries and comments should be addressed <strong>to</strong>:<br />

The Manager and Registrar<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> Crema<strong>to</strong>rium<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> Road, Ruislip, Middlesex, HA4 7SJ<br />

Telephone: 01895 556560<br />

Email: bcrema<strong>to</strong>rium@hillingdon.gov.uk<br />

Website: www.breakspearcrema<strong>to</strong>rium.org<br />

Opening H<strong>our</strong>s<br />

The grounds are open <strong>to</strong> the public as follows:-<br />

Summer Months (April - Sept)<br />

Monday - Saturday 9:00am - 6:30pm<br />

Sundays 10:00am - 6:30pm<br />

Winter Months (Oct - Mar)<br />

Monday - Saturday 9:00am - 5:00pm<br />

Sundays 10:00am - 5:00pm<br />

Christmas Day 10:00am - 2:00pm<br />

Bank Holiday 10:00am - 4:00pm<br />

* Please note main entrance gates are closed 15 minutes<br />

before closing times and also the Chapel and Hall of<br />

Memory <strong>to</strong> enable visi<strong>to</strong>rs <strong>to</strong> leave the Crema<strong>to</strong>rium<br />

grounds at the appointed closing times.<br />

Offi ce H<strong>our</strong>s<br />

Monday - Friday 9:00am - 4:30pm<br />

Closed Saturday, Sunday and Bank Holidays<br />

Directions<br />

By Road (M25)<br />

Leave the M25 at junction 16 (M40) <strong>to</strong>wards Uxbridge and London<br />

(W). The M40 will change at Junction 1 <strong>to</strong> the A40.<br />

At Swakeleys Junction turn left, sign-posted Harefi eld and<br />

Ickenham, in<strong>to</strong> Swakeleys Road. At the fi rst mini roundabout take<br />

the second exit, then at the next mini roundabout take the fi rst exit<br />

in<strong>to</strong> <strong>Breakspear</strong> Road South. Proceed straight on until reaching the<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> Arms public house which is on y<strong>our</strong> right. Turn right, in<br />

front of the <strong>Breakspear</strong> Arms, in<strong>to</strong> <strong>Breakspear</strong> Road, and proceed<br />

straight on until reaching <strong>Breakspear</strong> Crema<strong>to</strong>rium which is on the<br />

left hand side.<br />

Parking is inside the crema<strong>to</strong>rium grounds where there are three<br />

car parks.<br />

Local Area<br />

At the north end of Ruislip High Street, by the Parish Church, take<br />

the fi rst exit from the mini roundabout in<strong>to</strong> Bury Street. Continue<br />

for about one mile <strong>to</strong> the next mini roundabout , BP petrol station<br />

on the left hand side. Turn left in<strong>to</strong> <strong>Breakspear</strong> Road and the<br />

crema<strong>to</strong>rium is fi fty yards on the right.<br />

Those travelling from the south and east can reach Bury Street by<br />

leaving the A40 Western Avenue at the signpost for Ruislip. On the<br />

roundabout take the third exit in<strong>to</strong> West End Road which runs in<strong>to</strong><br />

Ruislip High Street. From Harrow <strong>to</strong> Pinner via the Uxbridge Road<br />

join the Eastcote Road which runs in<strong>to</strong> the mini- roundabout by<br />

Ruislip Parish Church. Take the second exit in<strong>to</strong> Bury Street.<br />

From the north approach from Rickmansworth via the A404,<br />

passing Mount Vernon Hospital on the right. At the traffi c lights<br />

turn right in<strong>to</strong> Ducks Hill Road and continue <strong>to</strong> the bot<strong>to</strong>m of the<br />

hill. At the petrol station, mini roundabout, turn right in<strong>to</strong><br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> Road and the crema<strong>to</strong>rium is fi fty yards on the right.<br />

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By Bus<br />

The number; H13 bus s<strong>to</strong>ps on Bury Street within fi fty yards of the<br />

crema<strong>to</strong>rium (except Sundays). Descend from the bus and turn left<br />

in<strong>to</strong> <strong>Breakspear</strong> Road; the crema<strong>to</strong>rium is on the right.<br />

The number; 331 bus s<strong>to</strong>ps near the crema<strong>to</strong>rium entrance on<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> Road.<br />

Both these buses are available at the bus station located outside the<br />

entrance <strong>to</strong> Ruislip Underground Station.<br />

By Tube<br />

The nearest underground station is Ruislip, which is served by both<br />

the Metropolitan and Piccadilly Lines. In inner London the<br />

Metropolitan line can be caught at Baker Street and the Piccadilly<br />

line from either Leicester Square or Piccadilly Circus.<br />

By Taxi<br />

The nearest London Underground station served by Licensed Taxis<br />

(capable of transporting persons in wheelchairs) is Uxbridge.<br />

There is also a Licensed Taxi rank at Harrow-on--the-Hill<br />

Station. Alternative minicabs may be ordered by telephone from<br />

other underground stations in the area, including Ruislip which<br />

is the nearest.<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> His<strong>to</strong>ry<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> Crema<strong>to</strong>rium was opened on the 14th December 1957<br />

and subsequently extended in 1972 when a second chapel was built.<br />

The crema<strong>to</strong>rium is administered by the London Borough of Hillingdon<br />

on behalf of the London Borough’s of Hillingdon and Harrow.<br />

Beautifully situated in the Green Belt zone between Ruislip and<br />

Northwood, <strong>Breakspear</strong> Crema<strong>to</strong>rium lies in undulating country,<br />

bounded by fi elds and woodlands sweeping away <strong>to</strong> the north. It<br />

is a pleasant and peaceful location and those who have planned its<br />

growth have made the most of its natural advantages. The grounds<br />

of <strong>Breakspear</strong> Crema<strong>to</strong>rium, comprising of over 26 acres, are a<br />

combination of natural beauty and formal gardens, and provide<br />

a peaceful resting place for cremated remains and for the many<br />

memorial features available.<br />

The Gardens of Remembrance, contain two areas that have been set<br />

aside for the strewing of cremated remains, are situated <strong>to</strong> the left<br />

of the main entrance drive and at the side of the Solitude Garden, <strong>to</strong><br />

the north-west of the crema<strong>to</strong>rium. In these areas cremated remains<br />

are strewn, the location being recorded, so other members of the<br />

same family may be strewn in the same area.<br />

The Chapels<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> Crema<strong>to</strong>rium has two chapels: the East Chapel, which<br />

is of the traditional style, and the West Chapel, which has a circular<br />

modern design. The chapels are interdenominational, catering<br />

for all religious needs, and religious symbols may be displayed or<br />

removed according <strong>to</strong> the persuasion of the bereaved. Both chapels<br />

can seat upwards of eighty persons with suffi cient space <strong>to</strong> allow<br />

standing room for a similar number in each chapel. Both chapels are<br />

carpeted throughout which, <strong>to</strong>gether with the oak seating and fl oral<br />

displays, combine <strong>to</strong> give a feeling of warmth and serenity.<br />

Each chapel is equipped with an electronic organ and an extensive<br />

range of music can be played at services, ranging from religious<br />

through classical <strong>to</strong> more popular pieces of light music. In addition<br />

a sound system and loudspeaker system is installed in each chapel<br />

so that CD’s and tape cassettes can be played.<br />

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Facilities for Disabled Persons<br />

Toilets for disabled persons are provided adjacent <strong>to</strong> the West<br />

Chapel cloisters and each chapel contains a loop system for the<br />

hard of hearing. Ramps have been provided on each side of the East<br />

Chapel <strong>to</strong> allow entry and exit for wheelchairs and also a ramp is<br />

located outside the Hall of Memory.<br />

In addition many kerbs have been dropped <strong>to</strong> allow wheelchair<br />

users <strong>to</strong> negotiate the paths around the crema<strong>to</strong>rium buildings.<br />

Parking spaces for disabled persons are available in each of the<br />

three car parks with one space located on the left of the East<br />

Chapel entrance.<br />

Memorials<br />

The whole of the grounds are a collective memorial and, whatever<br />

the season, are pleasing <strong>to</strong> visit where a few moments of thought in<br />

tranquil surroundings can bring comfort and peace.<br />

For those bereaved who do not feel the need for a personal<br />

memorial, yet have expressed a desire <strong>to</strong> make a small contribution<br />

<strong>to</strong>wards maintaining and enhancing the fl oral beauty of the gardens<br />

and woodlands, a Garden Memorial Scheme has been provided.<br />

This allows bereaved persons <strong>to</strong> make donations <strong>to</strong> a fund set up <strong>to</strong><br />

purchase bulbs and other plants for random planting throughout<br />

the grounds.<br />

Many persons however feel the need for a more tangible link with<br />

the bereaved, who have meant so much <strong>to</strong> them, by having an<br />

individual memorial <strong>to</strong> the memory of their loved one. To meet this<br />

need <strong>Breakspear</strong> Crema<strong>to</strong>rium has provided various memorials<br />

for dedication.<br />

LEA SIDE<br />

OAKVIEW<br />

ROSEWAYE<br />

MEADVIEW<br />

THE<br />

HAVEN<br />

FORMAL<br />

CAR PARK<br />

SOLITUDE<br />

GARDEN OF<br />

REMEMBRANCE<br />

FLORAL<br />

TERRACE<br />

SUMMER<br />

HOUSE<br />

KNOLL<br />

GARDEN<br />

PEACE<br />

GARDEN<br />

CAR<br />

PARK<br />

WEST<br />

CHAPEL<br />

FLORAL<br />

AREA<br />

EAST<br />

CHAPEL<br />

WATERSIDE<br />

GARDEN<br />

DELL<br />

GARDEN<br />

GARDEN OF<br />

REMEMBRANCE<br />

CAR<br />

PARK<br />

OFFICE<br />

BREAKSPEAR ROAD<br />

N<br />

THE<br />

GLADE


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The Book of Remembrance<br />

The Book of Remembrance is on display within the Hall of Memory,<br />

adjacent <strong>to</strong> the East Chapel, and is comprised of several volumes,<br />

one for each quarter of the year. The Book is on <strong>view</strong> throughout the<br />

year, displayed in a protective case, always open <strong>to</strong> the current date<br />

so inscriptions may be seen on each anniversary of the date of death<br />

or other specifi ed date.<br />

The Book’s are composed of leaves of the fi nniest hand-made<br />

paper with richly <strong>to</strong>oled binding and the memorial inscriptions are<br />

executed by hand, by professional scribes, which offers the same<br />

degree of permanence and artistic excellence as the best medieval<br />

manuscripts.<br />

The minimum entry is two lines consisting of the name of deceased<br />

on the <strong>to</strong>p line, with a personal inscription on the second. Entries<br />

of fi ve, eight or ten lines can include a fl oral emblem, animal, bird,<br />

badge, crest or shield, which may be of signifi cance <strong>to</strong> the family.<br />

To ensure memorial entries are inscribed for the fi rst<br />

anniversary or requested date, applicants are <strong>to</strong> be submitted by<br />

the following dates;<br />

January, February and March by the preceding September<br />

April, May and June by the preceding December<br />

July, August and September by the preceding March<br />

Oc<strong>to</strong>ber, November and December by the preceding June<br />

Also located within the Hall of Memory, is the visual display unit<br />

which allows any entry that has already been inscribed in one of<br />

the books, <strong>to</strong> be <strong>view</strong>ed on any day of the year. The computerised<br />

system is operated by <strong>to</strong>uching the screen and following the simple<br />

instructions. A “zoom” facility allows a particular entry <strong>to</strong> be<br />

selected from the full page and shown in close up.<br />

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Remembrance Cards & Miniature Books<br />

These are replica entries of the Book of Remembrance for families<br />

and friends <strong>to</strong> have as a keepsake.<br />

The cards and miniature books are in the same style as the Book of<br />

Remembrance and contain beneath the anniversary date a copy of<br />

the original inscription as it appears in the Book. The cards are for<br />

individual entries; miniature books can be inscribed with up <strong>to</strong><br />

ten entries.<br />

From placing y<strong>our</strong> order it can take approximately 3-4 months <strong>to</strong><br />

complete and will be posted directly <strong>to</strong> y<strong>our</strong> address.<br />

Both memorials are hand written and illustrated by the same<br />

Craftsmen who inscribe the Book.<br />

Examples are available for <strong>view</strong>ing at the Crema<strong>to</strong>rium Offi ce.<br />

Memorial Roses<br />

Standard rose trees and bushes are located within the gardens.<br />

They are available for dedication for an initial period of fi ve years,<br />

with the option <strong>to</strong> renew.<br />

The memorial plate can accommodate up <strong>to</strong> 125 characters of<br />

inscription and can include a motif. This is placed in-front of the<br />

rose during the lease period; each rose may have up <strong>to</strong> two plates.<br />

A large selection of roses in varying col<strong>our</strong>s are pre-planted within<br />

the grounds, therefore it may be possible <strong>to</strong> select a preferred col<strong>our</strong><br />

of rose or a particular garden from those available. We will try <strong>our</strong><br />

utmost <strong>to</strong> accommodate y<strong>our</strong> request.<br />

During the lease period, we accept full responsibility for the care<br />

and upkeep of the rose, including replacement should this be<br />

necessary. During the lease period the Authority accepts no<br />

responsibility for the upkeep of the plate.<br />

It takes approximately 6/8 weeks from placing the order <strong>to</strong> delivery.<br />

Upon completion a letter will be forwarded <strong>to</strong> the applicant advising<br />

them of the location.<br />

It must be unders<strong>to</strong>od, that unless a memorial is renewed at the end<br />

of the lease period, it will be removed from its location two months<br />

after the expiry date.<br />

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Ornamental Trees & Shrubs<br />

Where a more individual type of memorial is desired,<br />

Ornamental Trees and Shrubs will fulfi l such a need and provide<br />

a dignifi ed tribute.<br />

Ornamental Trees are dedicated for an initial period of ten years,<br />

the Shrubs for fi ve years. You have the option <strong>to</strong> renew for a<br />

further period.<br />

The memorial plate can accommodate up <strong>to</strong> 125 characters of<br />

inscription and can include a motif. This is placed in front of the<br />

Ornamental Tree or Shrub during the lease period, each tree or<br />

shrub may have up <strong>to</strong> f<strong>our</strong> plates.<br />

Unfortunately the Trees and Shrubs are in limited supply and<br />

it is advisable <strong>to</strong> check availability before deciding on this form<br />

of memorial.<br />

It will take approximately 6/8 weeks from placing the order<br />

<strong>to</strong> delivery.<br />

Upon completion a letter will be forwarded <strong>to</strong> the applicant advising<br />

them of the location. It must be unders<strong>to</strong>od, that unless a memorial<br />

is renewed at the end of the lease period, it will be removed from its<br />

location one month after the expiry date.<br />

Cloister Wall Plates<br />

The single and double metal wall plates are located on the East and<br />

West Chapel Cloisters; these are leased for an initial period of ten<br />

years, with an option <strong>to</strong> renew.<br />

The plates are manufactured from cast aluminium, the single plate<br />

measures 7” X 5” and can accommodate up <strong>to</strong> 150 characters<br />

including a motif. The double plate measures 11” X 7” and can<br />

accommodate up <strong>to</strong> 300 characters including a motif.<br />

During the lease period the Authority accepts no responsibility for<br />

the upkeep of the plate.<br />

Unfortunately, due <strong>to</strong> the availability of space, it will not be possible<br />

<strong>to</strong> personally select the fi xing location of the plate.<br />

It takes approximately 6/8 weeks from placing the order <strong>to</strong> delivery.<br />

Upon completion a letter will be forwarded <strong>to</strong> the applicant advising<br />

them of the location.<br />

It must be unders<strong>to</strong>od, that unless a memorial is renewed at the end<br />

of the lease period, it will be removed from its location one month<br />

after the expiry date.<br />

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Garden Niche<br />

The Niche is made of Grey Granite with a black fascia and has gold<br />

(gilded) lettering. They are situated in front of the covered walkway<br />

(East Chapel) facing the main lawn and can accommodate two sets<br />

of cremated remains.<br />

They are leased for an initial period of 10 years, with an option <strong>to</strong><br />

renew. Once we have received y<strong>our</strong> order a letter plan will be sent,<br />

this will enable you <strong>to</strong> see what the wording will look like and for<br />

any amendments <strong>to</strong> be made, prior <strong>to</strong> the plaque being inscribed.<br />

Additional items such as pho<strong>to</strong>plaque, gilded or hand painted motif<br />

can also be added.<br />

Memorial Vase<br />

The Memorial Vase is available in Blue Pearl or Dark Grey Granite<br />

and has gold (gilded) lettering. They are leased for an initial period<br />

of 5 years, with an option <strong>to</strong> renew.<br />

Once O we have h received i d y<strong>our</strong> order d a letter l plan l will ill be b<br />

sent, this<br />

will enable you <strong>to</strong> see what the wording will look like and for any<br />

amendments <strong>to</strong> be made, prior <strong>to</strong> the vase being inscribed.<br />

Additional items such as pho<strong>to</strong>plaque, gilded or hand painted motif<br />

can also be added.<br />

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Garden Memorial Scheme<br />

Many visi<strong>to</strong>rs <strong>to</strong> the Crema<strong>to</strong>rium have expressed a desire <strong>to</strong><br />

contribute <strong>to</strong>wards maintaining and enhancing the fl oral beauty of<br />

the gardens and woodlands.<br />

The Authority welcomes and appreciates this interest and has<br />

introduced a scheme whereby persons may make donations <strong>to</strong> a<br />

fund for the purchasing of fl owering bulbs and other plants.<br />

Since the gardens are designed as a whole in order <strong>to</strong> preserve their<br />

beauty it is not practicable <strong>to</strong> allow private planting of any kind.<br />

All ordering and planting will be carried out by the Crema<strong>to</strong>rium<br />

staff. It must also be unders<strong>to</strong>od that such planting cannot be in any<br />

special position and will not endow claim <strong>to</strong> any particular portion<br />

of the grounds.<br />

Planting will be carried out at random throughout the year and<br />

donations are welcome at any time.<br />

Additional Memorials<br />

We have two other memorials at <strong>Breakspear</strong> Crema<strong>to</strong>rium.<br />

Memorial Benches - subject <strong>to</strong> availability.<br />

Columbarium (Indoor Niche).<br />

If you require further information regarding these memorials,<br />

please contact the Crema<strong>to</strong>rium offi ce.<br />

Full payment must accompany any application. Please make y<strong>our</strong><br />

remittance payable <strong>to</strong> London Borough of Hillingdon. We are able<br />

<strong>to</strong> accept most credit & debit cards.<br />

The Authority reserves the right <strong>to</strong> alter any application that is<br />

deemed unsuitable and <strong>to</strong> change the design of any memorial<br />

without giving prior notice.<br />

Memorial Window<br />

Located on the exit of the West Chapel adjacent <strong>to</strong> the pond.<br />

The panel is made of clear glass with approximately 60 letters of<br />

black inscription fi tted in-between plain col<strong>our</strong>ed panels <strong>to</strong> give the<br />

effects of a stained glass window.<br />

They are leased for an initial period of ten years, with the option <strong>to</strong><br />

renew. It takes approximately 8/12 weeks from placing the order <strong>to</strong><br />

delivery. Upon completion a letter will be forwarded <strong>to</strong> the applicant<br />

advising them of the location.<br />

It must be unders<strong>to</strong>od, that unless a memorial is renewed at the end<br />

of the lease period, it will be removed from its location one month<br />

after the expiry date.<br />

Hall of Memory Window<br />

Located in the Hall of Memory, this allows approximately 60 letters<br />

of inscription <strong>to</strong>gether with a motif.<br />

The window is a transfer between two panes of glass and comes in<br />

frosted col<strong>our</strong>s.<br />

Leased for an initial period of ten years, with the option <strong>to</strong> renew.<br />

It takes approximately 8/12 weeks from placing the order <strong>to</strong><br />

delivery. Upon completion a letter will be forwarded <strong>to</strong> the applicant<br />

advising them of location. It must be unders<strong>to</strong>od, that unless a<br />

memorial is renewed at the end of the lease period. It will be<br />

removed from its location one month after the expiry date.<br />

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Frequently Asked Questions<br />

How many of the deaths which occur in Great Britain each<br />

year result in cremation?<br />

Cremation has become the preferred method of disposal in Great<br />

Britain. Approximately 72% of all recorded deaths are now<br />

followed by cremation.<br />

Are there any religious groups which forbid cremation <strong>to</strong><br />

their members?<br />

All Christian denominations, including the Roman Catholic<br />

Church, allow cremation. Cremation is also acceptable <strong>to</strong> Sikhs,<br />

Hindus, Parsees and Buddhists but is forbidden <strong>to</strong> Orthodox Jews<br />

and Muslims.<br />

Is cremation more expensive than burial?<br />

Generally the cost of burial is much higher than the fee charged<br />

for cremation. Cremation usually necessitates the production of<br />

medical certifi cates for which fees are payable <strong>to</strong> the doc<strong>to</strong>rs<br />

concerned. These certifi cates are not required when the death has<br />

been referred <strong>to</strong> and investigated by the Coroner (Procura<strong>to</strong>r<br />

Fiscal in Scotland) or where burial is required. Where burial is<br />

<strong>to</strong> take place fees for grave purchase, excavation, memorials and<br />

grave maintenance may be incurred.<br />

What service arrangements are available at<br />

the crema<strong>to</strong>rium?<br />

A full religious service may be conducted at the crema<strong>to</strong>rium<br />

within the time allowed for each funeral. If it is thought that the<br />

service will take longer than the half h<strong>our</strong> allocation, an extra<br />

half h<strong>our</strong> period may be booked for which a fee would be charged.<br />

Alternatively a service may take place in any separate place of<br />

worship followed by a brief committal ceremony at the<br />

crema<strong>to</strong>rium. Families may arrange for their particular Minister<br />

<strong>to</strong> conduct the service or when required their Funeral Direc<strong>to</strong>r may<br />

secure the services of a suitable Minister on behalf of the family.<br />

Is it necessary for the cremation <strong>to</strong> be associated with a<br />

religious ceremony?<br />

The deceased’s family can make any service arrangements which<br />

they consider <strong>to</strong> be appropriate. Secular services can be conducted<br />

at the crema<strong>to</strong>rium or, if required, no ceremony need take place.<br />

Memorial services can be conducted separately from the<br />

cremation ceremony in local places of worship by arrangement<br />

with the Minister concerned.<br />

How is a cremation arranged?<br />

A number of arrangements need <strong>to</strong> be made following a death. The<br />

responsibility usually falls on the Execu<strong>to</strong>r or the nearest surviving<br />

relative who may wish <strong>to</strong> approach a professional Funeral<br />

Direc<strong>to</strong>r who will undertake some of the various tasks on their<br />

behalf. The Funeral Direc<strong>to</strong>r will need <strong>to</strong> discuss with the family<br />

their requirements concerning the service arrangements and will<br />

assist in completing the necessary statu<strong>to</strong>ry and non-statu<strong>to</strong>ry<br />

forms. The Funeral Direc<strong>to</strong>r will make the practical arrangements<br />

for the collection of the deceased and will obtain the necessary<br />

Medical Certifi cates. It will be necessary <strong>to</strong> register the death and<br />

information will be provided by the Funeral Direc<strong>to</strong>r <strong>to</strong> assist in<br />

completing this duty.<br />

Do relatives need <strong>to</strong> decide at this stage about the disposal<br />

of cremated remains?<br />

The Funeral Direc<strong>to</strong>r will discuss with relatives the alternative<br />

arrangements which may be adopted for the disposal of cremated<br />

remains. It is likely that a form of authority will be required <strong>to</strong> be<br />

signed advising the crema<strong>to</strong>rium of the wishes of the family. If<br />

they are undecided it will be possible for the cremated remains <strong>to</strong><br />

be retained either at the crema<strong>to</strong>rium, for a limited period or at the<br />

Funeral Direc<strong>to</strong>r’s premises, pending a decision.<br />

What are the normal options for disposal<br />

of cremated remains?<br />

All crema<strong>to</strong>ria provide a Garden of Remembrance where cremated<br />

remains can be dispersed. Cremated remains can be removed from<br />

the crema<strong>to</strong>rium in a suitable container for disposal elsewhere.<br />

This may include interment in a grave in a cemetery or<br />

churchyard, dispersal at another crema<strong>to</strong>rium or disposal<br />

privately in a particular area selected by the family. Suitable<br />

permission should be obtained from the appropriate Authority in<br />

these cases.<br />

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What is a Garden of Remembrance and what facilities may<br />

be provided there?<br />

The Garden of Remembrance consist of special areas, often<br />

adjacent <strong>to</strong> the crema<strong>to</strong>rium, set aside for the strewing or burying<br />

of cremated remains. They are used continually for this purpose<br />

and as a result it may not be possible or appropriate <strong>to</strong> mark or<br />

identify the exact location of individual cremated remains. The<br />

Gardens are normally arranged <strong>to</strong> provide a focal point for<br />

visi<strong>to</strong>rs and may include a variety of memorial facilities.<br />

What memorial facilities are available at<br />

the crema<strong>to</strong>rium?<br />

All crema<strong>to</strong>ria have some form of memorial facility. The most<br />

usual form of permanent memorial is the Book of Remembrance.<br />

This book is usually displayed in a special memorial chapel and<br />

entries are available for <strong>view</strong>ing on the anniversary of the date<br />

of death. Some crema<strong>to</strong>ria provide wall or kerb mounted plaques<br />

in metal or s<strong>to</strong>ne although these are normally leased for a limited<br />

period only. Roses, trees, shrubs and seats may be dedicated for<br />

periods which may be extended by agreement. The Funeral<br />

Direc<strong>to</strong>r will be aware of the memorial options available but direct<br />

enquiries <strong>to</strong> the Crema<strong>to</strong>rium Offi ce will ensure that full details<br />

are provided <strong>to</strong>gether with a scale of charges.<br />

What is the procedure followed at the crema<strong>to</strong>rium on the<br />

day of the funeral?<br />

The m<strong>our</strong>ners will normally gather at the crema<strong>to</strong>rium in the<br />

waiting room or close <strong>to</strong> the entrance of the chapel a few minutes<br />

before the appropriate time of the funeral service. It is not usual<br />

for the ceremony <strong>to</strong> commence before the publicised time. When<br />

the principal m<strong>our</strong>ners are ready <strong>to</strong> proceed, the coffi n will be<br />

conveyed in<strong>to</strong> the chapel by the Funeral Direc<strong>to</strong>r unless family<br />

bearers are used by request. The coffi n will be placed on the<br />

catafalque and m<strong>our</strong>ners will proceed in<strong>to</strong> the chapel. At the<br />

moment during the service when the committal of the body takes<br />

place the coffi n may be obscured from <strong>view</strong> by curtains or<br />

withdrawn from the chapel. At the end of the service the m<strong>our</strong>ners<br />

exit the chapel and may then inspect the fl oral tributes.<br />

What happens <strong>to</strong> the coffi n after the committal?<br />

The coffi n is withdrawn in<strong>to</strong> the committal room where the name<br />

plate is carefully checked by crema<strong>to</strong>rium staff <strong>to</strong> ensure the<br />

correct identity. An identity card will then accompany the coffi n<br />

and the resultant remains until their fi nal disposal or removal<br />

from the crema<strong>to</strong>rium.<br />

Can relatives witness the committal of the coffi n<br />

in<strong>to</strong> the crema<strong>to</strong>r?<br />

The reception of the coffi n in the committal room and its<br />

introduction in<strong>to</strong> a crema<strong>to</strong>r can be witnessed by arrangement<br />

with the Crema<strong>to</strong>rium Manager. It is preferable <strong>to</strong> advise the<br />

Funeral Direc<strong>to</strong>r of these requirements as early as possible when<br />

making the funeral arrangements.<br />

Is the cremation of a body governed by a code of ethics and<br />

working practices?<br />

Cremation Authorities who are members of the Federation of<br />

British Cremation Authorities or the Institute of Crema<strong>to</strong>rium and<br />

Cemeteries Management, and are required <strong>to</strong> operate in<br />

accordance with a Code of Cremation Practice.<br />

How soon after the service will the cremation take place?<br />

The cremation will usually be commenced shortly after the service.<br />

The Code of Cremation Practice specifi es that the cremation is<br />

always completed on the same day as the service.<br />

Is the coffi n cremated with the body?<br />

The Code requires that the coffi n be placed in the crema<strong>to</strong>r in<br />

exactly the same condition as that in which it was received at the<br />

crema<strong>to</strong>rium. Crema<strong>to</strong>rium regulations require that the coffi n and<br />

all its fi ttings and furnishings be made from materials suitable<br />

for cremation. The Environmental Protection Act 1990 has placed<br />

a new responsibility on Cremation Authorities <strong>to</strong> ensure that the<br />

process is completed under controlled conditions which will<br />

minimise the impact on the environment. In these circumstances it<br />

will be necessary for any items included in the coffi n for<br />

presentation or <strong>view</strong>ing purposes <strong>to</strong> be removed by the Funeral<br />

Direc<strong>to</strong>r before the coffi n is conveyed <strong>to</strong> the crema<strong>to</strong>rium.<br />

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Should items of jewellery be left on a body for cremation?<br />

It is preferable that all items of jewellery be removed from the<br />

body before the coffi n is conveyed <strong>to</strong> the crema<strong>to</strong>rium. The Funeral<br />

Direc<strong>to</strong>r should ascertain y<strong>our</strong> wishes in respect of this matter<br />

when the funeral arrangements are being discussed. It will not be<br />

possible <strong>to</strong> recover any items of jewellery after the coffi n has been<br />

received at the crema<strong>to</strong>rium.<br />

Can more than one body be cremated in a crema<strong>to</strong>r at the<br />

same time?<br />

The Code insists that each cremation is carried out separately.<br />

Exceptions may be made in the case of mother and baby or twin<br />

children providing the next of kin has made a specifi c request in<br />

this regard.<br />

What happens <strong>to</strong> the cremated remains after cremation?<br />

At the conclusion of a cremation the cremated remains are<br />

removed in their entirety and conveyed <strong>to</strong> a treatment area in<br />

a special container. Ferrous metals used in the construction of<br />

the coffi n or metals used in medical implants are extracted and<br />

retained for separate disposal within the crema<strong>to</strong>rium grounds.<br />

Non- ferrous metals which may include an unrecognisable element<br />

of precious material will not be salvaged for any purpose and will<br />

be disposed of in accordance with the requirements of the Code<br />

of Cremation Practice and this will invariably be by burial in the<br />

crema<strong>to</strong>rium grounds.<br />

What procedures are followed <strong>to</strong> ensure that cremated<br />

remains are kept separate?<br />

A crema<strong>to</strong>r can physically accept only one coffi n at a time and<br />

all remains are removed before the unit can be used again. The<br />

identity card referred <strong>to</strong> previously accompanied the coffi n and<br />

cremated remains throughout the process until fi nal disposal. The<br />

Code of ethics and practical necessity are complementary and<br />

combine <strong>to</strong> ensure that the separation of cremated remains<br />

is achieved.<br />

How are cremated remains treated at the crema<strong>to</strong>rium?<br />

Cremated remains are removed from the crema<strong>to</strong>r only when no<br />

further reduction is possible. The remains are withdrawn in<strong>to</strong> a<br />

cooling area and fi nally in<strong>to</strong> a special container for transfer <strong>to</strong> a<br />

purpose made unit which, after removal of ferrous metals, will<br />

reduce the residue <strong>to</strong> a fi ne consistency suitable for s<strong>to</strong>rage and<br />

eventual disposal. The remains are enclosed in a suitable and<br />

carefully identifi ed container <strong>to</strong> await dispersal or collection.<br />

What quantity of remains will there be following<br />

a cremation?<br />

The cremation of an adult will normally result in the presentation<br />

of cremated remains weighing between 2 and 4 kg (4-8 lbs).<br />

What happens <strong>to</strong> the cremated remains strewn<br />

on the ground?<br />

The cremated remains, which have assumed a granular form,<br />

are normally distributed over a wide are of ground. Chemical<br />

reactions resulting from exposure <strong>to</strong> the elements quickly break<br />

down the remains so that eventually little trace of them can<br />

be observed.<br />

Can cremated remains be interred and marked<br />

with a memorial?<br />

The Gardens of Remembrance attached <strong>to</strong> a crema<strong>to</strong>rium do not<br />

provide for the erection of permanent memorials. At crema<strong>to</strong>ria<br />

where the burial of cremated remains is practised, it is not usual<br />

for them <strong>to</strong> be buried in a container of any kind. If it is required<br />

<strong>to</strong> inter cremated remains in a grave with traditional facilities for<br />

memorialisation, suitable enquiry should be made <strong>to</strong> the Manager<br />

responsible for the selected cemetery.<br />

Can cremated remains be retained by the family pending<br />

fi nal disposal?<br />

The Applicant for cremation may collect and retain the cremated<br />

remains if required. Cremated remains can be retained at the<br />

crema<strong>to</strong>rium for a limited period although a charge may be made<br />

for this facility.<br />

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What arrangements can be made <strong>to</strong> ensure that cremation<br />

is the selected method of disposal following death?<br />

Clear instructions in writing should be given <strong>to</strong> the person who will<br />

be responsible for making the funeral arrangements. Such<br />

instructions are not binding in law and it will therefore be<br />

necessary <strong>to</strong> ensure that the person instructed is someone who is<br />

likely <strong>to</strong> carry out the wishes of the deceased. The fi nal decision<br />

will rest on the execu<strong>to</strong>rs.<br />

Can more information be obtained concerning cremation<br />

and if required can a crema<strong>to</strong>rium be visited by members<br />

of the public?<br />

The matters referred <strong>to</strong> previously may be discussed in more detail<br />

with the Manager of the local crema<strong>to</strong>rium. The Manager will be<br />

pleased <strong>to</strong> answer further questions and make arrangements for<br />

any member of the public <strong>to</strong> be accompanied on a visit <strong>to</strong><br />

the crema<strong>to</strong>rium.<br />

Website, Virtual T<strong>our</strong>s & Services Online<br />

Many visi<strong>to</strong>rs <strong>to</strong> the Crema<strong>to</strong>rium have expressed a desire <strong>to</strong><br />

contribute <strong>to</strong>wards maintaining and enhancing the fl oral<br />

beauty of the gardens and woodlands.<br />

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A Guiding Light<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> Crema<strong>to</strong>rium<br />

<strong>Breakspear</strong> Road, Ruislip, Middlesex, HA4 7SJ<br />

Telephone: 01895 556560<br />

Email: bcrema<strong>to</strong>rium@hillingdon.gov.uk<br />

Website: www.breakspearcrema<strong>to</strong>rium.org

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