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Leil Lowndes - Conversation Confidence.pdf - Motivational Magic

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CAPTIONING<br />

proud of<br />

TAPE 3A: HOW TO SOUND LIKE AN INSIDER IN ANY CROWD<br />

CONVERSATION HOMEWORK<br />

insider ice breakers<br />

insider hot buttons<br />

little bait<br />

Technique #: SCRAMBLE THERAPY<br />

newspaper or magazine<br />

section of your local newspaper<br />

lectures<br />

greetings<br />

TAPE 3B: MEGA REWARDS FOR MEGA LISTENING<br />

The human mind is capable of thinking 4to 6 times faster than the ear can listen.<br />

The five hearing filters:<br />

ear<br />

selection<br />

meaning<br />

emotion<br />

ego<br />

We only hear about 25% of what someone says.<br />

The six ways to listen:<br />

paraphrase<br />

whole body listener<br />

picturing<br />

feel<br />

have a conversation<br />

The four-point listening checklist.<br />

W - WHAT What is he telling me?<br />

H - HOW How does the speaker feel about what he's telling me?<br />

E - EXPECTED REACTION What reaction does the speaker expect me to have?<br />

W - WHY Why is he telling me this?

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