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true life<br />
My coming out story by Lee, 28, Kent<br />
@hotdesigner<br />
I have always known deep down that I wasn’t straight, but I always thought I could just<br />
suppress the feelings I was experiencing. As a child I didn’t really understand the feelings<br />
and I didn’t know why I was the way I was. Being a kid though it’s easy to hide, as boys think<br />
girls are disgusting - that is until puberty hits and then it’s all about girls.<br />
My teen years were awkward. I was<br />
overweight, I had a bowl cut and I<br />
was subjected to braces... WITH<br />
HEADGEAR at night time. In no way<br />
shape or form was I a looker. My<br />
confidence was non-existent and I<br />
was bullied. I grew up in four<br />
different pubs so my teen years<br />
were a very public affair. Customers<br />
would mock me for being shy or<br />
tubby but as I got older, they would<br />
make little snide comments that<br />
alluded to my sexuality. I tried dating<br />
girls once or twice but nothing really<br />
came of it. It didn’t feel right and I<br />
was getting frustrated as I began to<br />
think there was something seriously<br />
wrong with me.<br />
At the age of 15 I was fed up of<br />
being fat so I decided to do<br />
something about it. However, instead<br />
of dieting (it never worked for me) I<br />
decided to just starve myself. It was<br />
effective; I dropped from 15 stone to<br />
10 in a matter of months.<br />
Now I don’t condone<br />
what I did and I would<br />
totally go about it<br />
differently if I had<br />
to go through it<br />
again, but it<br />
worked for me. It<br />
gave me a new<br />
lease of<br />
confidence. I<br />
started working<br />
behind the bar at<br />
16 (collecting<br />
glasses) and that<br />
lifted my spirits. I<br />
became more talkative and<br />
open with people. I would flirt a<br />
little with the men and women as it<br />
does come with the job. There were<br />
still people who made fun of me and I<br />
tried to ignore it. They would make<br />
homophobic comments near me. It<br />
hurt. They didn’t truly know me and<br />
they had known me since I was 12.<br />
Why were they being this way? They<br />
were old enough to know better as<br />
they were all in their 40s. The more<br />
comments I heard, the more scared I<br />
became.<br />
At the age of 18, I lost my virginity<br />
to one of our barmaids. It was fun but<br />
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“I wanted to<br />
go to a gay bar but<br />
my problem was I<br />
didn’t know any gay<br />
people and there was<br />
no way I would ever go<br />
on my own. I had no<br />
one to talk to. I was<br />
trapped, or so I<br />
thought.”