Fall 2012 - Cardinal Spellman High School
Fall 2012 - Cardinal Spellman High School
Fall 2012 - Cardinal Spellman High School
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<strong>Spellman</strong> junior, Evan<br />
Stimpson wears a bright pink<br />
bracelet on his left wrist. He says<br />
he wears it because pink is his<br />
favorite color and it was his best<br />
friend’s favorite color, but there is<br />
more to it than that. The bracelet<br />
also has the words “Always<br />
Remember” along with the initials<br />
“NW” inscribed on it.<br />
Evan plays soccer and baseball<br />
at <strong>Cardinal</strong> <strong>Spellman</strong>. He is a<br />
motivated athlete and loves the<br />
competition of sports. Each time<br />
he puts his jersey on, he looks at<br />
the bracelet on his wrist and he is<br />
reminded of an inspiration that<br />
goes beyond his love for the game.<br />
Last summer, Evan Stimpson lost<br />
his best friend, Nick Watson, in<br />
a tragic car accident that claimed<br />
Nick’s life and forever altered the<br />
way Evan would live his.<br />
Nick and Evan grew up in Avon.<br />
They met playing Little League<br />
Baseball; Evan was 7-years-old<br />
and Nick was 8-years-old. Despite<br />
being a year apart in school, they<br />
were instantly bonded. They were<br />
both gifted athletes and they<br />
played on the same team for the<br />
next six years.<br />
Evan’s house was Nick’s second<br />
home and vice versa. They were<br />
best friends and Evan describes<br />
their relationship as a brotherhood.<br />
Nick stayed at Avon<br />
happening on the hill<br />
Middle-<strong>High</strong> <strong>School</strong> when Evan<br />
transferred to <strong>Cardinal</strong> <strong>Spellman</strong>,<br />
before his freshman year. It was<br />
then, their journey together took<br />
a difficult turn; Nick was told the<br />
back pain he’d been having was a<br />
form of cancer.<br />
Nick’s diagnosis brought them<br />
even closer. During his freshman<br />
year, Evan and his mother spent<br />
countless hours and days at the<br />
hospital with Nick. Nick came<br />
to Evan’s games when he didn’t<br />
have treatment, and they often ate<br />
dinner together. They were told<br />
the cancer was in remission, but<br />
it returned after a month, forcing<br />
Nick to begin the grueling treatment<br />
all over again.<br />
Evan’s grades suffered, but it was<br />
difficult to blame him with ev-<br />
Each time he puts his jersey on, he looks<br />
at the bracelet on his wrist and he is<br />
reminded of an inspiration that goes<br />
beyond his love for the game.<br />
erything he had going on. While<br />
he was trying to balance school,<br />
sports and keeping his friend’s<br />
spirits up; Evan’s father was in<br />
Afghanistan, serving his country<br />
as a member of the U.S. Army<br />
National Guard.<br />
Evan’s freshman year at <strong>Spellman</strong><br />
was a difficult one, but his<br />
sophomore year may have proved<br />
impossible if he didn’t have the<br />
support of the <strong>Spellman</strong> community.<br />
About a month before<br />
the 2011-<strong>2012</strong> school year, while<br />
Evan’s father was home from<br />
Afghanistan, for two weeks, Nick<br />
Always Remember<br />
was killed in an automobile accident.<br />
“It is the worst night of my<br />
life,” Evan said. “Nick passed away<br />
and then, the next morning, we<br />
had to drive my dad to the airport<br />
so he could go back to Afghanistan.<br />
Losing my best friend is the<br />
hardest thing I have ever had to<br />
deal with. I still haven’t accepted<br />
the fact that he’s gone.”<br />
Evans’s sophomore soccer season<br />
began eleven days after Nick<br />
passed away and he had the difficult<br />
task of trying to focus on<br />
sports and school without his<br />
best friend’s support. “If I wasn’t<br />
attending school at <strong>Spellman</strong>; I<br />
don’t know what I would have<br />
done,” Evan said. “This school<br />
helped me in more ways than I<br />
can think of. Once the school year<br />
started, I felt like I had so much<br />
support from everyone.”<br />
Evan didn’t consider himself to<br />
be very religious before he came<br />
to <strong>Spellman</strong>, but he credits his<br />
relationship with God as a major<br />
factor in helping cope with his<br />
feelings. “There are two Bible<br />
verses I hold close to me;<br />
Psalm 23:4 ‘Even though I walk<br />
through the valley of the shadow<br />
of death, I will fear no evil, for<br />
you are with me; your rod and<br />
your staff, they comfort me.’<br />
And Philippians 4:13 ‘I can do<br />
everything through him who gives<br />
me strength.’ I write them on my<br />
wrist bands at baseball to always<br />
remind myself God and Nick are<br />
with me.”<br />
The <strong>2012</strong>-2013 school year brings<br />
a lot of hope with it. Evan’s father<br />
is now home from Afghanistan.<br />
Evan wants to build on the strong<br />
academic performance he finished<br />
his sophomore year with; he just<br />
missed honor roll by one C+. In<br />
addition to playing soccer and<br />
baseball, he also joined the <strong>Spellman</strong><br />
Choir.<br />
Evan plans to continue wearing<br />
his bright pink bracelet<br />
even though he does not need a<br />
reminder to “Always Remember”<br />
his best friend, Nick Watson. “I<br />
just live every day by trying to accomplish<br />
something I know Nick<br />
can’t,” Evan said. “I don’t take<br />
anything for granted.”<br />
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