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Fall 2012 - Cardinal Spellman High School

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<strong>Spellman</strong> junior, Evan<br />

Stimpson wears a bright pink<br />

bracelet on his left wrist. He says<br />

he wears it because pink is his<br />

favorite color and it was his best<br />

friend’s favorite color, but there is<br />

more to it than that. The bracelet<br />

also has the words “Always<br />

Remember” along with the initials<br />

“NW” inscribed on it.<br />

Evan plays soccer and baseball<br />

at <strong>Cardinal</strong> <strong>Spellman</strong>. He is a<br />

motivated athlete and loves the<br />

competition of sports. Each time<br />

he puts his jersey on, he looks at<br />

the bracelet on his wrist and he is<br />

reminded of an inspiration that<br />

goes beyond his love for the game.<br />

Last summer, Evan Stimpson lost<br />

his best friend, Nick Watson, in<br />

a tragic car accident that claimed<br />

Nick’s life and forever altered the<br />

way Evan would live his.<br />

Nick and Evan grew up in Avon.<br />

They met playing Little League<br />

Baseball; Evan was 7-years-old<br />

and Nick was 8-years-old. Despite<br />

being a year apart in school, they<br />

were instantly bonded. They were<br />

both gifted athletes and they<br />

played on the same team for the<br />

next six years.<br />

Evan’s house was Nick’s second<br />

home and vice versa. They were<br />

best friends and Evan describes<br />

their relationship as a brotherhood.<br />

Nick stayed at Avon<br />

happening on the hill<br />

Middle-<strong>High</strong> <strong>School</strong> when Evan<br />

transferred to <strong>Cardinal</strong> <strong>Spellman</strong>,<br />

before his freshman year. It was<br />

then, their journey together took<br />

a difficult turn; Nick was told the<br />

back pain he’d been having was a<br />

form of cancer.<br />

Nick’s diagnosis brought them<br />

even closer. During his freshman<br />

year, Evan and his mother spent<br />

countless hours and days at the<br />

hospital with Nick. Nick came<br />

to Evan’s games when he didn’t<br />

have treatment, and they often ate<br />

dinner together. They were told<br />

the cancer was in remission, but<br />

it returned after a month, forcing<br />

Nick to begin the grueling treatment<br />

all over again.<br />

Evan’s grades suffered, but it was<br />

difficult to blame him with ev-<br />

Each time he puts his jersey on, he looks<br />

at the bracelet on his wrist and he is<br />

reminded of an inspiration that goes<br />

beyond his love for the game.<br />

erything he had going on. While<br />

he was trying to balance school,<br />

sports and keeping his friend’s<br />

spirits up; Evan’s father was in<br />

Afghanistan, serving his country<br />

as a member of the U.S. Army<br />

National Guard.<br />

Evan’s freshman year at <strong>Spellman</strong><br />

was a difficult one, but his<br />

sophomore year may have proved<br />

impossible if he didn’t have the<br />

support of the <strong>Spellman</strong> community.<br />

About a month before<br />

the 2011-<strong>2012</strong> school year, while<br />

Evan’s father was home from<br />

Afghanistan, for two weeks, Nick<br />

Always Remember<br />

was killed in an automobile accident.<br />

“It is the worst night of my<br />

life,” Evan said. “Nick passed away<br />

and then, the next morning, we<br />

had to drive my dad to the airport<br />

so he could go back to Afghanistan.<br />

Losing my best friend is the<br />

hardest thing I have ever had to<br />

deal with. I still haven’t accepted<br />

the fact that he’s gone.”<br />

Evans’s sophomore soccer season<br />

began eleven days after Nick<br />

passed away and he had the difficult<br />

task of trying to focus on<br />

sports and school without his<br />

best friend’s support. “If I wasn’t<br />

attending school at <strong>Spellman</strong>; I<br />

don’t know what I would have<br />

done,” Evan said. “This school<br />

helped me in more ways than I<br />

can think of. Once the school year<br />

started, I felt like I had so much<br />

support from everyone.”<br />

Evan didn’t consider himself to<br />

be very religious before he came<br />

to <strong>Spellman</strong>, but he credits his<br />

relationship with God as a major<br />

factor in helping cope with his<br />

feelings. “There are two Bible<br />

verses I hold close to me;<br />

Psalm 23:4 ‘Even though I walk<br />

through the valley of the shadow<br />

of death, I will fear no evil, for<br />

you are with me; your rod and<br />

your staff, they comfort me.’<br />

And Philippians 4:13 ‘I can do<br />

everything through him who gives<br />

me strength.’ I write them on my<br />

wrist bands at baseball to always<br />

remind myself God and Nick are<br />

with me.”<br />

The <strong>2012</strong>-2013 school year brings<br />

a lot of hope with it. Evan’s father<br />

is now home from Afghanistan.<br />

Evan wants to build on the strong<br />

academic performance he finished<br />

his sophomore year with; he just<br />

missed honor roll by one C+. In<br />

addition to playing soccer and<br />

baseball, he also joined the <strong>Spellman</strong><br />

Choir.<br />

Evan plans to continue wearing<br />

his bright pink bracelet<br />

even though he does not need a<br />

reminder to “Always Remember”<br />

his best friend, Nick Watson. “I<br />

just live every day by trying to accomplish<br />

something I know Nick<br />

can’t,” Evan said. “I don’t take<br />

anything for granted.”<br />

tradition • <strong>Cardinal</strong> <strong>Spellman</strong><br />

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